After getting out of her marriage, Jackie Castillejos is enjoying her single life by going out and partying until the morning!
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00:00I also believe that independent women sometimes find it harder to love, to find somebody to love
00:07because when you enjoy your independence, it's like, do I even want this?
00:13Correct.
00:14You're correct there.
00:15Amen to that.
00:16Because you know what you deserve.
00:18You already know what's right for you.
00:20You want to sell yourself short now.
00:22Especially if you've been through a lot, you know, you're not supposed to be like that.
00:25You know, you have no right to be like that.
00:27The reason that we grow up is that we learn from these mistakes, right?
00:33Sana.
00:34Sana.
00:35So when you've gone through some mistakes, some happy, some sad,
00:39of course you want to be like, you know what's right for me?
00:42You know, I'm happy when I'm with someone like this.
00:44So as long as you don't see that, or there are instances where he's like that,
00:49but let's say geographically, no, he doesn't live here.
00:52Or he doesn't have a family there.
00:54He doesn't have a house there.
00:56There are instances like that, right?
00:58So.
00:59It's not that it's harder to love.
01:01You just know what you want.
01:03You're harder to please.
01:05Because you're already happy.
01:07Exactly.
01:08You're already content.
01:09Me, I forgot now.
01:10I'm not married.
01:11But I would rather, you know, I'm harder to please rather than,
01:15I spent a lot of my life with someone and never learned what would make me happy.
01:20Or harder to please in the sense that you're already happy.
01:24Or harder to please in the sense that you're already in a hard-on mode.
01:26The old ones were all like that.
01:29All physical things.
01:31The one I enjoyed the most, especially this moment,
01:33because I just broke up with my boyfriend for like almost 4 years.
01:37I've been independent since I was 18.
01:39So just a couple of months ago, I just really started going out and hanging out with my friends again.
01:44Especially that I have my own place, everybody just comes and hangs out in my place.
01:48They make a dorm.
01:49Yeah, they make a dorm.
01:51Everybody's like a high schooler.
01:54It's fun.
01:55It's really fun.
01:56It's ready for a date, actually.
01:57Yeah, right?
01:59Okay, you go first.
02:00Okay.
02:01I don't know about Georgina, but it's safe to assume that all of you,
02:04you have friends who are married.
02:06Yes, of course.
02:07Of course, right?
02:08Of course, if you're telling a story,
02:10then of course, somehow,
02:12there are married friends who are a bit jealous.
02:15Because you get to do what you want.
02:17You don't have to say goodbye.
02:18Actually, in Vietnam, before it used to be that you're not married, you're out.
02:23They have their own place, they have their own house.
02:26What we're talking about are appliances.
02:28You're the son, I'm the mother-in-law.
02:30You're the mother-in-law.
02:31You're out there, right?
02:32It seems to be the other way around.
02:33They're the ones who are jealous of you.
02:35They're like, what are you doing?
02:37They're not the same people you knew when you were in high school or college.
02:43What do you do?
02:45They're different.
02:48Of course, there's a tendency for married couples to be like,
02:50what are your friends like?
02:56Jackie, I heard that your married friends,
02:58their wives are jealous of you.
03:01Why, they said?
03:03Why are you not proud?
03:05I'm so nice, no?
03:06No, I guess it's because,
03:08oh my God, I never knew that.
03:11Oh, it's because of the affection.
03:17I think it's because suddenly they're like, where are you going?
03:20No, Jackie asked me to watch this live band.
03:24Then we come home at three in the morning.
03:26I'm the one who wants to go home, they don't want to go home yet.
03:29They're really angry.
03:32It's my fault.
03:33Then I tell them, it was your wife who didn't want to go home.
03:36I wanted to go home.
03:38She's the one.
03:39Nothing in the practice, I'm missing a different life.