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Married at First Sight UK S09E14

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00:00I'm ready to have love that missing piece of the puzzle
00:06previously
00:08Two new singles married at first sight
00:12100 Santa's back and fell head over heels the wedding day of dreams
00:18While the experiments established couples
00:23Played host to more loved ones when we come to communicate it it's both and
00:28And a friend's interrogation is this all a facade. Are you trying to be famous?
00:35Reignited Rochelle's trust issues
00:38Ain't quite adding up. So can't you interpret what I'm saying? You just chat so much
00:44I'm too old for this nonsense
00:49Tonight
00:52The arrival of more in-laws puts on the pressure your approval is the most important as
00:59Ross seeks a father's blessing. My dad's not happy called all get it. So while an insensitive comment from Casper
01:07I've never fancied curvy women
01:10That was poor delivery, you can't say that that's not a nice thing to say
01:16Prompts brutal honesty from a best friend right now. I don't think he's the man for you
01:22And
01:23The experiments final two singles true love means everything. I'd hope that she is the one I've been so unlucky in past
01:31Relationships, I've put all my hope into this one meet and marry at the altar
01:37My drink is but will the bride get in cold feet feeling very overwhelmed
01:42Do you take Ryan to be your husband stop the marriage in its tracks? I'm scared. I'm wanting to run away
01:50I feel like this is a massive mistake
01:59Wow
02:00Prepare for five-star luxury as you soak up the Sun in the Dominican Republic
02:05Real newlyweds Hannah and Steven are about to jet off on honeymoon. You're a man. No, I'm here. Nope
02:13I don't really know Caribbean
02:20Oh
02:21Quite see my dad and the established couples are preparing to welcome friends and family for in-laws week
02:29Obviously, we're quite touchy usually mean you quite physically affectionate. You'll have to
02:36Strip it back when my dad's here
02:39My dad would just feel really uncomfortable with like a man all over me
02:43I am he's like little princess. So it'd be a bit like whoa calm down Ross
02:48I've not even gives you the thumbs up. Yeah, don't talk about things, you know, you're not allowed to
02:56The girls, oh I'm shaking I can't wait to see the girls I need to exhale with my people
03:03Oh, I'll go with this
03:06I'm apprehensive. I just think that we're gonna be rehashing the honeymoon and
03:11They're gonna be angry at me. It's gonna be a very difficult awkward conversation. I
03:16Can't see how this is going well
03:19It's gonna be great. It's gonna be great. Yeah
03:24Meanwhile the experts are matching the final couple of the experiment two new couples wed
03:30Time to introduce the last pair to enter the experiment
03:34Shannon and Ryan might not seem like the perfect match at first glance, but I predict a strong bond forming between these two
03:43In my friendship group I'd say I was the Joker or like the class clown
03:49I'm daft as daft as a brush. It's not even gonna lie. I
04:01Live in Manchester and from a council state
04:07I work for the council as a bin man. I love it
04:12Morning Doris, I
04:15Know some people do look at and think it's not the best job. I get that
04:20But someone's got to do that job and I'm proud to say I work on the bins
04:26Always work on the bins in there as long as you can handle early mornings. It's good
04:33You do get to know people on the ground, you know, like you sometimes
04:37I'll have a little flirt or a cheeky laugh with one of the resident
04:43So I'm gonna give you biscuits
04:50I'm family-orientated. I help look after my gran as best as I can. Thank you
04:56She's 92 you like them council estate biscuits good
05:01I
05:06Been single now four years
05:09This has been a long time coming. I think I definitely need some help
05:13Definitely. I was with me ex for about three and a half years four years
05:18We've got a little boy called Leo
05:21I
05:24Mean a dad is incredible
05:27He's the best thing that's ever happened to you. He's my world
05:311 million percent. Have you got a girlfriend at school?
05:39Every bit of time that I get really always precious welcome. I
05:45Went for a patch I don't they did worry that I'd never see they all be born
05:51I was 22 when I was first diagnosed a bladder cancer
05:58When I found out Leo's mom was about four months pregnant changed my life turned it upside down
06:11I didn't come to terms with it at first kept asking why me why me?
06:20I'm not ashamed to say I struggled. I think he's made me more of a man
06:28So I've been in remission for the last three years and there's a chance that it could come back
06:37Having cancer definitely affected my love life
06:39It's a stumbling block for me there because obviously when you say to someone about cancer
06:43I know for a fact people will think I won't give you got left to live
06:48Have you then had to sort of speak to people in relationships about what's happened?
06:54Yeah, well when you talk about cancer, you think of death that just comes with it. I'm open about it
06:59There's not really I can do about it. Life's short and let's just enjoy it. I'm at a good place knowing my life
07:07Through what I've had to go through change me as a person
07:11Like life is precious
07:14I
07:16Definitely don't take things for granted now now this what you call a fairy tale
07:21My mom and dad have been together 31 years. They've got a very very close bond
07:27You look at them and you're like, well, why have I not got that?
07:32Marriage to me means a lot. It's a big commitment
07:39Love means everything
07:41People look at me and I've had it said you look like you'll play away from home
07:46Well, I don't judge a book by its cover I'm definitely not like that
07:53I'm ready to grab life with two arms and just see where it can go with my new wife and
08:00Hopefully just enjoy life together. I'm knocking 30. I think
08:04It's just last chance to loom for me this my usual type would have to be
08:09Green or blue eyes
08:12Family all irritated. I want someone that I can have fun with that's not gonna take life too serious
08:20She could be the love of my life I've been through a lot what I deserve to have love like anybody else goes
08:30I
08:31Would describe myself as a good time like a super energetic ball of fun
08:39I feel like I can have fun in any situation
08:45I am and always have been a bit of a wild child. Oh, yeah, I am quite alternative to the nice body Griffin
08:53I've always been into tattoos and piercings. Oh, I love it. It looks so nice
09:02I'm definitely a strong woman. I can be quite sassy when I need to be
09:09I
09:11Am so close to my friends could not imagine my life without them. They're the best people on the planet
09:17What's your thoughts on my last relationship?
09:21To cute. I think I need to find somebody that I like
09:25Physically. Yeah, also like actually yeah
09:29My friends think my love life is kind of sad at this point just because I'm so bad at picking mine
09:36Feel like all I attract is fuck boys
09:39I
09:42Feel like fuck boys are just always after one thing and once they get that they don't care about anything else
09:51In the past my exes have been emotionally immature, I'm not gonna lie
09:58Definitely the type that just had no care whatsoever for how I was feeling
10:03As long as I was there I was like an object. That's all it was to them
10:08They've cheated lied hidden things
10:12Went behind my back. I
10:15Have trust issues. I
10:17Don't trust anyone. I
10:22Think the most important things in life to me are like my friends my family
10:27My mom is part of my friend group. She is an angel. I tell her everything like
10:34Me and my dad have always had like a really special relationship
10:38I was a dad's girl when I was younger. He would do anything for me and my sister
10:44We were just going into lockdown. I think I hadn't seen him in a little while
10:48He messaged and I immediately knew something was wrong
10:57He just like yeah, I've been diagnosed the cancer
11:02And it all happened super fast
11:04It's like the hardest thing I've ever been through and like
11:08In lockdown, but I just couldn't be there for him
11:13It was really hard
11:18I took my time for granted with him and I never should have
11:25I think it is gonna be important to me that I have a partner that understands just because grief hits you so randomly
11:31Sometimes I do need somebody that's gonna be empathetic with it all
11:39It's so important to me to find somebody that my dad would have liked
11:45Do you feel that you maybe go for the same types of men embarrassingly? Yes
11:51Because I know it's not what I need
11:54So what do you think has gone wrong for you in terms of meeting the right one?
11:58I think I just find it hard to let my walls down
12:02Yeah, I find it hard to be vulnerable
12:05What do you fear will happen if you let your walls down? I'll be hurt
12:10or let down by somebody
12:15I think my lack of trust in men has definitely affected my past relationships
12:20The last thing I need is an emotionally immature pretty boy. That's just gonna fuck me over
12:24I think going forward I need to actually get to know somebody deep down rather than just going on my first impressions
12:32My ideal husband would be
12:36Somebody that is quite emotionally mature. So somebody that's maybe got some responsibilities
12:41Somebody that's happy in themselves and just so nice
12:45Proper nice to the core
12:47I don't think asking for somebody nice is too much. I've see all my friends in these happy relationships
12:56When is it my turn?
13:01This is a couple with lots of potential
13:04Shannon is a fun-loving girl looking to navigate life with a supportive mature man that she can trust and trust
13:12Ryan is a man comfortable in his own skin with experience in handling some really big challenges that life's thrown at him
13:20Becoming a parent has also helped him to develop that emotional maturity and that's important to Shannon
13:26Who's fallen foul of a series of cheating partners?
13:29She struggles to trust but Ryan has the loyalty and resilience needed to be able to trust and be able to trust
13:37Struggles to trust but Ryan has the loyalty and resilience needed to break down her walls
13:44Ryan wants someone he's attracted to
13:46Instantly, but also wants a partner who's down to earth. I think no-nonsense Shannon ticks both of those boxes
13:54Both Shannon and Ryan have been through their fair share of trauma and loss
13:59they'll be able to draw on those life experiences to relate to and
14:03Understand one another and form a connection that could be a great foundation for the marriage
14:10Shannon
14:12And Ryan
14:20Getting excited now. Oh, I'm so excited
14:24In London Emma and Casper are anticipating the arrival of Emma's sister Lee friend Heidi and Casper's friend Joe
14:33I can't wait to see the girls. Is there a path forward? Is this a dead end?
14:38I'm looking to get that out from them. The girls would be nice to you like you're my husband
14:45Don't worry about the girls. That's all I am worried about
14:48I'm very nervous that his friends are coming here because I'm gonna have to relive the honeymoon again
14:52And it's not something I'm proud of and it's not something that I'm looking forward to
14:56Who do I get a door?
14:58I
15:02Know
15:07These girls are my world
15:09I just want a cuddle a cry and
15:13Just to outpour our love for each other because it's the longest time. I've not spoken to them in
15:18Years and years and years and years. So from the beginning, how was the honeymoon?
15:22Like
15:27The hotel was amazing. Yeah, it was great. Nice. Yeah a gorgeous views right on the seafront right over and then
15:38We had a bar me that night what
15:43You had an argument
15:45I
15:49What's the crack doesn't fancy me
15:55Yeah, what it came to that straight away, yeah, I
15:58Said something I shouldn't say you should never say to someone a woman that you don't fancy her
16:07The phrase I use is I I I don't I've never fancied curvy women
16:16I
16:19That's not a nice thing to say no, no, I'm fully aware
16:29Disappointing my instincts to swear, but I'm not gonna sweat
16:36I thought I was calm collected mature
16:39And then I woke up the next morning and I just thought of you guys
16:49No, no, I
17:05Thought I was calm collected mature
17:09And then I woke up the next morning and I just thought
17:17Oh, no, no
17:22And I got really angry and I just needed to say no that was like that was poor delivery
17:28Yeah, you can't say that and you know, I just kind of
17:32Um, I thought I wouldn't have a husband's say that to any of my fucking friends. No
17:38I
17:41Just have a piece no good
17:44Yeah, I was a really horrific mental state because I was so unhappy with myself. Yeah, I'm the pain I'd caused Emma
17:52My heart's breaking for Emma right now something like that to be said at all. Never mind quite so early
17:57She does deserve the absolute world
18:01Is it something that can be worked through?
18:03realistically
18:06The attraction isn't there, you know, is it quite a deal-breaker?
18:17It's not where we wanted to be
18:20And I say, you know, there's been a lot of
18:22Frustration from the hope but now we've got to try and make the best of it. I
18:26Feel like I'm just reliving the same moment over and over again if I could take it back a word
18:32It's just frustrating
18:35Oh
18:42Hello
18:47Joe's my best friend and I know he's got my back no matter what and I'm just so glad that he's made it
18:53How are you doing? Anyway, not too bad. Well, I think more importantly, how are you guys getting on?
18:59Okay, good I
19:02Suppose we're not where we would like to be. Okay
19:10Do we have to rehash this over please to
19:15Excellent brilliant, I
19:17Mean we had a rocky honeymoon
19:19and
19:21Most that was down to one a comment I made
19:23right
19:25Emma and
19:27And
19:30We're still trying to recover from that place I suppose basically the attraction wasn't there right I
19:39Remember sitting down at the wedding with you and you'd said Casper doesn't have a type like he does but Casper doesn't a type
19:49I don't think Ava's friends just to help you wouldn't be able to draw what that type is
19:55I
19:56Think Casper say he isn't attracted to curvy girls wasn't the best start
20:00But actually they're both trying to work towards something here
20:02I think what's happened has happened and I think they both look like they're trying to draw a line under it
20:16What do you send out to break
20:24Maybe cut it in the family getting closer
20:28My mind going on to my bra. I hope I'm processed is bad today. That's you mean though a lot to me
20:35I just hope you like me
20:37I'm having been fucking window
20:42It's super important that Ross impresses my dad today his opinion means more than anyone's to me
20:50Because my dad's not happy could all get it. So
20:55I
21:06See important to me to speak to Ross because I want to know I was gonna look after my little girl
21:10It's that's really important to me. So really he wants to like impress me today, really
21:15Yeah, are you getting your tea ready? He's got a babe
21:19Definitely protective fiercely loyal be willing to defend it to the death even if it's wrong like Brindis me
21:30Everything's going on feels like we've married three years
21:36Like you've known each other for years like that's obviously why it's so important that you meet Ross today because your approval is always
21:45The most important
21:51Hey, are you worried I'm gonna disappear to Manchester voice is already steady
21:57You would be so happy knowing how Ross's it couldn't be any any better
22:01I think my dad would have preferred Ross to be from Birmingham
22:04So, you know, I'd be living a little closer after this, but he knows I'm gonna be gone
22:09I
22:13Ross are you used to play football?
22:17Yeah, I would tell you to you to go I've got a new pop it now it's a the gym
22:25How'd you fancy coming shiny name
22:28Come on
22:32We can do some arms
22:35I'm definitely worried for us going to the gym with my dad. He does not know what he's getting himself in for
22:52You excited Shannon I keep getting waves of nerves. Mm-hmm. I'm excited. I wonder what it's gonna look like
22:58I know get him married to a stranger feels bizarre. I'm not gonna lie
23:03I'm so excited to meet him. I just want to know what he looks like already your usual type or something else
23:08I don't know. I don't know if my usual type is good for me
23:12So I think I'm secretly hoping it'll be somebody else. It's better somebody else picks for you
23:18I've just been so unlucky in my past relationships, and I think I've just put all my hope into this one
23:25So if it doesn't work out
23:27It's not gonna be fun
23:29Worst case scenario what's there?
23:31like I really can't hack a man child and
23:35Somebody that like is emotionally mature as well
23:38Don't wanna fuck boy. Don't need any more of that in my life
23:43I've put a lot of faith into the experts. I am just because I know I'm terrible myself
23:48So I'm like if somebody knows what they're doing
23:51perfect
23:53I
24:01Always
24:02Believe it's a there's a lot riding on this and I just want to start something why I'm young and build a future with someone
24:08What are you saying about these bad boys?
24:11They're do now what you're gonna do though like if you fancy and all that
24:14But then she's like all stuck up and that like she's not down to earth straight away. It's like
24:19This is definitely one of the biggest days of my life by a country mile
24:23my worst nightmare would be if you wasn't down to earth or humble with it because I treat somebody on
24:30The street with nothing just as I would with a man that had millions in the bank
24:34So when do you reckon you're gonna be sort of speaking to her about like?
24:39Cancer and stuff and obviously they affect that so I've had obviously it's not gonna come out straight away
24:44She might look at me and think well
24:45Do I really want to settle down with someone that maybe has had that diagnosis? I think that I'm only human and I think that
24:55When I was diagnosed
24:57What big strain on my relationship at the time and dating people when you've told someone?
25:02It's like a stumbling block really in there. It's like well, are you going to last?
25:07I
25:11Hope you are very on me today except it. Well, I'm nervous very very nervous
25:22Come in
25:38It is super important to have my mom here today just because my dad can't be with us
25:43It is hard not having him here, but I know you'll be watching it for me
25:49Yes, I need words
25:53She just looks so beautiful that yeah just burst tears
25:57Feel like I'm just ready to get there now get me down that aisle. Yeah, I can't wait to get you down
26:03My agent Charlotte, I just didn't expect it to happen
26:06No
26:07Shannon's had a lot of issues with her dad passing away and then a boyfriend split up and she had a bit of a tough time
26:14So I'd really like
26:16Somebody to know her background and it's empathetic
26:19I'm anxious for your reaction
26:22Why because your face gives away everything
26:26I'm sick of men child vibes. Like I don't need that anymore
26:32I think because I am putting my all into it
26:37If it doesn't go how I want it to I'm gonna be pretty disappointed and I am one of those people
26:43That doesn't hide their disappointment well
26:49Today's massive former
26:54I'm definitely ready to commit. I
26:56I
26:58Want a fairy tale happy ending?
27:01True love means everything. I'd hope that she is the one
27:05I've always jumped up in the love of my soulmate and the love of my life
27:14Hi guys, hi
27:16I
27:20Have you feeling a bit anxious? Yeah, I'm still excited formal feelings
27:35No, we feel in there. All right. All right. Not bad. Not bad. Well, she stands you up
27:41It's not what I was expecting
27:44I
27:45Am 100% looking for a man rather than a boy at this point
27:50Nervy bit here, but take it in your stride, love
27:57He will help you know
28:01I'm really hoping I'm gonna fall in love immediately
28:06Once and get secure in themselves and just gonna be my rock
28:14I
28:24Okay
28:26Okay, thank you
28:29Brian what's your name? Shannon? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Hey nervous. How you feeling? I'm good calm
28:37She's very pretty
28:41She's ticking boxes
28:44Very pretty very pretty think potentially high maintenance
28:48He looks like a pop boy to me all looks and no substance. What am I doing guys?
28:58Challenge reaction is cold at the moment. I'm feeling awkward
29:02Awkward
29:09Initial thoughts are very handsome
29:12Maybe a bit of a bad boy
29:15I'm not entirely sure Shannon is happy
29:21Feeling very overwhelmed when I first saw Ryan I immediately thought he's gonna be just like the rest of them
29:28He is good-looking but is he the kind of guy that I can trust
29:35So, I know we're all so excited for you both to share your vows today so Ryan you're first
29:44If you'd have asked me this time last year where I saw myself in 2024
29:49It definitely would have been stood and all the same wedding vows to a stranger
29:54I'm
29:56Looking forward to going through this crazy experience together and hopefully coming out on the other side
30:03With a best friend a partner in crime and someone who will have my back as much as love does
30:08Okay, Shannon, it's your turn now I
30:13Asked for a man who's gonna be my largest cheerleader and support me even on my bad days
30:19Let's take on this crazy journey and build a beautiful relationship together
30:24Can't promise it's always gonna be smooth, but I promise I'll give it my all
30:29lovely
30:30Ryan, do you take Shannon to be your wife?
30:34Cherishing her and showing her loyalty no matter what I do
30:44So Shannon
30:46You remind me a lot of my exes I'm scared I'm wanting to run away
30:51Do you take Ryan?
30:53to be your husband
30:56Cherishing him and showing loyalty no matter what
31:04Right now I feel like this is a massive mistake
31:10Shannon what are you actually doing?
31:12Shannon what are you actually doing?
31:23So Shannon
31:27Do you take Ryan to be your husband
31:32Cherishing him and showing loyalty no matter what
31:42I
31:48Do
31:53I'm delighted to say you are husband and
31:57It is of course time to seal the deal with your very first kiss
32:05It's not awkward, isn't it?
32:08You
32:10Family and friends
32:11It's with great pleasure that I invite you to welcome Ryan and Shannon as they take their first steps as a newly joined couple
32:20He's very clean-cut. If I met him in a bar, I would literally walk in the opposite direction. He just looks like a player
32:31Question mark
32:34I'm half her course. Shannon is fit. Of course she is. But I'm worried Shannon doesn't like me
32:42Like I can't call her
32:51I'm super proud of myself of how I've managed things
32:55I've mentally prepared myself and not the perfect man at the end of the aisle wasn't expecting my husband to say I'm not attracted to
33:02Curvy girls have always gone for skinny girls and that's what I'm sexually attracted to on my first night of the honeymoon
33:08It's now such a big issue for me where I think he still doesn't find me attractive
33:13you can't force that like it is what it is, but it's just showing willing to like
33:18Getting to know you you're I'm biased but like you're fab. You're a great person
33:23It just seems like he's kind of like I don't fancy us. I'm not gonna try that is how it's coming across
33:28For
33:30Us fit for your friends at the wedding we all said
33:34She was ticking a lot of boxes. I think we're all very positive about it because it looked
33:38Pretty good on paper. I hope both sides will be saying actually
33:43There's a friendship there that I think you guys could at least build on
33:47We're not gonna sit here and say oh my god, Emma like put more into it because you're obviously doing everything you can
33:52At the end of day he's here. He could have run away from it
33:56He stayed he's faced me and Lee after everything that's gone on I
34:02Don't think Emma seems that happy as things currently stand
34:05I think they've got a lot of work to do and a lot of bonding
34:07But they're both still here. So they're committed to see if they can make it work
34:13Yeah, we're fighting for it. My attraction for Emma has grown
34:16Because there have been moments that I've thought about kissing her. Yeah, but right now
34:21Is it ever going to grow to something where I'm head over the heels and love with what I know and what I've seen
34:27I don't know. I'm gonna keep working on it. The road ahead isn't great
34:32In my head and that's me being a realist. So I don't know whether to write leave this week
34:38Okay, if you were in my shoes, what would you do? I would say right now. I don't think he's the man for you
34:45Yeah, I've got to be honest. I don't think it's forever
34:49The
34:50Girl's opinions are really important to me. There's not that much more I can do if
34:55Casper steps up treats me like a proper wife and we'd start having a laugh and there might be a glimmer of hope. I
35:02Think I need a night to sleep on it and process it
35:05I
35:12Okay, congratulations guys, let's get you some wedding photos shall we great great and just look in this way
35:24Lovely right put your arm around your wife
35:27There you go, no, you look like you're a married couple beautiful just look at each other for me there, please
35:35Guys could I get a kiss from
35:39It's looking really lovely I think being so close to somebody that you've literally just met is very intense
35:46Could I get one more kiss?
35:49That's all now I
35:51Think Shannon's got a guard up getting a rejection like at the first hurdle. It makes it harder
35:57So they do for work. Oh, yeah. Okay. Okay. How long you done that for like 10 years?
36:04Where do you from Manchester?
36:10I
36:12Look at gorgeous guys. What do you do? I'm a bin man. Are you really? Yeah
36:17I've never dated anybody that does anything like that. Do you like it? Yeah, I love it
36:21Yeah, I was a good probably finished and work a lot half 12 every day. I've got a lot of time on my hands
36:29Equals to your family very like so close. So close
36:37Yeah, how old is it six that's okay, what's his name Leo? Oh
36:40I find out Ryan has a son. I like a guy that's got some responsibilities
36:47I'm starting to realize he might be more emotionally mature than I thought
37:00I
37:02I
37:15See guys, come on how you feeling Ryan? This is mud
37:24But you did get yourself into
37:28It does feel a little bit awkward just now I think just because we've not got the chemistry
37:32It just feels I'll be bit strange and a wee bit forest
37:38So, what did you ask to see at the end of the aisle
37:42I'm not gonna lie. I
37:46Was expecting something different
37:49Okay
37:51Fair play
37:54Don't judge a book by its cover
37:56This is just a start if she didn't fancy me at the start. It's sort of difficult then
38:01What did you expect at the end of the aisle and
38:04To be honest, I go for darker green or blue eyes nice teeth is a must
38:10Mm-hmm. Sounds all right
38:16I feel bad I
38:19Maybe have been a bit hasty and judging Ryan
38:22I've just been hurt so many times in the past that my walls just went right back up
38:26But I am gonna keep an open mind to see where things go
38:31I
38:42Get I get off the back straight away. She's gone. Yeah, the only thing I was worried about where she's fancied me
38:48So I feel attraction wise what Ryan was asking for. I think he's got by the sound of it
38:53Shannon's got something a little bit different. It's just a case of you asking her
38:57So where are they?
38:59Sort of what their intentions are going off first impression, I definitely
39:20You're close to your parents are you said you know, you should be the winner that's the way it is your mom and your dad
39:26My dad's dead. Oh, do you possibly
39:31How did it pass away
39:34Boy daddy cancer. Oh, really?
39:37It's a talk to show that of course it is a dad passed away
39:41I didn't expect her dad to have gone through what he'd gone through
39:44Your dad's when he passed away. Are you dealing with it?
39:48But like I think I kind of dealt with it before because I knew it was happening
39:52Obviously, I can see it means a lot to her and obviously I'll support her through that and you never get over that
40:04I
40:06Had cancer in the past
40:09Shut up
40:11So yeah, and when did you have cancer 2017 on it twice?
40:17My chemo
40:19Chemo
40:23It was a bit of a shock hearing that he's been through something like that
40:26So young that's such a big thing to deal with. Okay. I'm glad I can see
40:34That's fucking intense
40:38You're fine now, yeah, of course, I mean there's bigger things in the world up
40:42Just enjoy
40:48It's really nice that he's opened up to me because I've been through
40:53Similar things with my dad and we've just been really open with each other about it, which I think shows a lot about a person
40:59There is emotional depth some that have surprised me
41:02Now we've been speaking and getting on. I feel like we are a good match
41:08Starting to make sense
41:12All right, come on then now tell me now they've gone
41:15Give me the gossip in London Sasha and Ross have been spending time with Sasha's parents. I'm absolutely smitten
41:24Really? Yeah
41:26Yeah, I didn't expect to feel like this so soon about someone but we're pretty much deep in it
41:34Okay, I can tell
41:36Like I feel really safe with him, but like not even just physically safe like
41:42Emotionally safe. You can tell he just he's really happy. I
41:46Wonder where Ross is getting on training with dad. I don't think he's ready for the intern
41:54What's going on boys hips
41:58At the moment Ross I was saying too bad as a son-in-law, but time will tell you know training Ross today
42:03I want to see what kind of money's a basically come on
42:09Not to rush not too far don't drop back come on
42:14Yes, that's better
42:17And again squeeze all the negative all the negative
42:21One more slow and blow it up
42:28Obviously you want today to go well, she's very close to her dad, but it's very important
42:34I'm hoping that I did good in front of him me name. It's Sean. I could be strong for special. Oh, come on
42:41God good 10. No, no, no more more
42:45Yeah, one
42:47Come on, that's one. That's one. Come on Ross
42:51Please yeah
42:53Ross Ross fucking killer
42:57Man
43:01Because it's going so well and everything's like
43:04Perfect to be honest like I do always think like have the worst and I'm like, what would I do if I lost him?
43:13Do you know what I mean? Yeah, there's that scary thought of like I would never I would never recover from that
43:20Well, I'd never find anyone like him again, so that's a big deal
43:32What do you want like mustache like what's your plan? I came here for one thing dinner
43:39Basically, I found it
43:42I
43:43Run a fair turmoil. I just know she's gonna be the one
43:47I've been on all of the year. Yeah
43:51Communication we have fantastic and she makes me happy
43:56And you like being together like sort of thing you hold rubber down and this is what I wanted to stay to you
44:03She's not very close with Sasha. I have a daughter. Yeah, I don't know what he's been like
44:07It's not a man-to-man finally get to show it to you about it
44:12I would do whatever to make her up here. Oh protect. Oh, yeah, I will cut for
44:19And I will respect her. Yeah
44:35She's not very close with Sasha and I have a daughter yeah, I don't know what he's been like, it's not a man-to-man
44:41Finally get to show it to you about it. I
44:45Would do whatever to make her up here. Oh protect. Oh, yeah, I will cut for
44:51And I will respect her. Yeah
44:59That's all I want
45:04That's all I want for Sasha, you know, I mean you basically study lights me so that's a good thing
45:10Yeah, happy day I
45:12Was going to ask you that anyway, so you've already said it which is even better. I know you got my blessing
45:17Oh
45:35He's nice isn't it you said actually so similar in a lot of ways
45:38Like he's a real family man as well and you're really family girl. I
45:43Think going through that
45:46Make sure more sensitive to people's feelings and I think just listening to Ryan you'll understand like emotionally and things
45:54Yeah
45:56Yeah
45:58It has made me feel a lot more at ease
46:01He really opened up to me and showed me a kind of different side to what I was already seeing
46:06So I think that's kind of brought my guard down a little bit and made me open up a little bit more to him
46:12I think I judged a wee bit too quickly and now we've got to know each other. I'm feeling a lot better about things
46:19Maybe they've done it
46:34I'm holding back because if she didn't like me, it'd be hard to accept it
46:39I hope mine and Shannon's feelings are the same and only time will tell
46:47Yeah, I feel like it's been good vibes today
46:50Like this is what I was wanting. I'm feeling good. What is that? We sure are you sure about it?
46:55When I turn around I was like, okay, she's ticking boxes. They've got that
47:00But what about you what about when I turn around I was taking her back a wee bit I immediately thought pretty boy
47:07I think it was just it wasn't what I was expecting in a good way or a bad way. In a good way
47:11In a good way. Yeah, I can accept that. Yeah, like obviously you're very handsome
47:16I am attracted to you
47:18I think it's a good thing
47:20I've put a lot of faith into it. I'm not gonna lie. Like I want it to work out
47:25Like truly wanted to work out like all my past relationships have been hit list
47:30And I feel like if it doesn't work out, I'm just gonna
47:34Probably be single for a very very very long time
47:38What about you?
47:41Like you say I have been single a long time and it's not worked out. So I decided right let's do it back to front
47:46Yeah, you're in for a rough ride. A rough ride?
47:50Like I will put you through your paces
47:53Definitely, but I'm happy like are you happy?
47:58Are you ready for a ride? I am
48:01I think me and Shannon have been matched for a reason
48:03At the start of the day, we definitely want as comfortable as we are now. We are clicking
48:13I think I might have judged a wee bit too early and my headspace has totally changed
48:19I do fancy him. I am attracted to him and he seems lovely
48:23Feeling happy, positive, buzzing to go on honeymoon now. I feel like we're gonna have a really good time together
48:31Next time
48:33Thanks for having me over. It's the final visit of in-laws week. I'll be honest
48:37I was pissed off at the wedding where Adam's actions are put under scrutiny
48:41She gets married and then this guy's like, yeah, she's not really my type. That did upset me
48:49And the newlyweds head off on honeymoon
48:52That's it. Oh, yeah, where are your hands for some?
48:56I didn't think I was gonna get this comfortable this far. It's a smooth start to married life. Love, marriage and happiness
49:04Absolute dream honeymoon. But for Hannah and Stephen, Hannah's opinion is the only opinion that's allowed. Bullshit
49:10I'm out of my fucking comfort zone here pal
49:12Things take a turn for the worse. Don't make promises to people that you can't keep because I had a seat at fucking home
49:18All right, we're done then. Happy? Does that make you feel better? Leaving their marriage hanging by a thread. You're trash shit mate
49:26Good night
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