अगर ये बात मान ली तो नहीं होगा घर मे झगड़ा __ Acharya Narottam Shastri Ji Maharaj __ Katha2024
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00:00I want to say one more thing through the medium of Katha, please think about it.
00:06Especially mothers, sisters, brothers, this is a very pitiable thing.
00:15Especially the new sisters and daughters, the new daughters-in-law,
00:23when they come to the husband's house, there are problems in every house.
00:27So the husband's house, the husband's car, the husband's...
00:31Don't I have anything? Don't I have any right?
00:35Yes, you have everything.
00:38So the husband's wealth, the husband's house, the husband's car, whose is it?
00:43Who is the owner of that?
00:46The wife?
00:49Now how can you say with pride, don't I have anything?
00:53I have come with a hammer, not like this.
00:57If you have come after marriage, then you have full right on this.
01:03The husband's wealth, the husband's body, the husband's land, the husband's house.
01:09So when you take everything from the husband,
01:14say, does anyone leave?
01:18There is a fight for five feet of land.
01:22And the brother still says, what will happen?
01:25It's small, so what if you take more?
01:28The wife keeps pointing and says, really?
01:31If he took more, why did he take it?
01:34Now look, listen, I have something too.
01:39If you listen to me, the account will be exactly the same.
01:43And if you don't listen to your wife, there is still a fight.
01:47So all this drama is happening in the house.
01:52I just want to say one message, one thing.
01:57You have to think about it very seriously.
02:00The fight will end today.
02:03The fight will never remain,
02:06if no one leaves a single rupee of the husband's wealth.
02:11This is mine.
02:14So when the husband's wealth, the husband's land, the husband's car, the husband's house, everything is yours,
02:20then the husband's parents are also yours, why don't you accept them?
02:25So you took the husband's house, you took the husband's land,
02:30and when it's time to give food to the parents, then do it.
02:34Listen, I don't want to live with them, I don't want to see their faces.
02:39So ladies, don't do such a crime, you won't live in hell.
02:46Everyone will die.
02:49And when you are so allergic to your husband's parents, then leave their wealth,
02:55leave their gold, leave their land,
03:00take a bowl and beg, do your work, eat,
03:04and take everything else.
03:07That's why I am telling you all,
03:12the time is very bad, the weather is very bad.
03:16That's why when the son and daughter-in-law are separated,
03:19keep one part with you, don't lose it emotionally.
03:22Some parents and elders are also lacking,
03:25they also get so immersed in their sons and daughters,
03:28that to take care of their sons and daughters,
03:31they keep the whole world on their head.
03:34And after that, they give up everything.
03:37That's why after death, take this only,
03:40but as long as you are alive, keep something with you.
03:45Because if you don't keep anything with you,
03:50then they say, your hair will turn white, your teeth will fall out,
03:54you will get old, when you will bleed from your eyes,
03:57you will bleed from your nose,
04:00you will get beaten with a stick,
04:05then what will happen?
04:08The people of the house will also give up.
04:11No one will serve you.
04:14So if you have some money, some wealth,
04:17then the people of the world will keep saying,
04:20that our Baba is there, our father is there.
04:23They will say that only when there is wealth.
04:26And the day there is wealth, they will give up everything.
04:30That's why I have a special request.
04:33And one thing is very famous,
04:36you must have seen,
04:39those who don't have a son in their house,
04:42they have daughters and daughters,
04:44for their sons, how much do their parents give?
04:47And how many Gods and Goddesses do they worship?
04:50They do penance, they give alms,
04:54I don't know what all they do,
04:56but they do penance,
04:59no matter how old they get,
05:02no matter how old they get,
05:05and if by the grace of God, they have a son,
05:08then the mother is not happy,
05:11she is happy.
05:14And the day they have a son,
05:17the mother has only one dream.
05:20Which one?
05:23Which dream does she have?
05:26She has a 6 month old son,
05:29and I went to someone's house,
05:32and I kept him in my lap.
05:35Maharaj, look at your son's hand,
05:38and look at the mother's hand.
05:41What does the mother say?
05:43The mother says, Maharaj,
05:45tell me one thing,
05:47are you married or not?
05:50So the day the child is born,
05:52the mother dreams of her daughter-in-law,
05:55that my daughter-in-law will also come.
05:58And then the daughter-in-law comes home,
06:01dances with her mother-in-law,
06:03and gives her food,
06:05and criticizes her,
06:07and lies that her mother-in-law is bad.
06:10So this is the biggest crime that can happen.
06:14This is the biggest crime.
06:17If you get married,
06:20and someone gives you a ring,
06:23or a necklace,
06:25what kind of discussion do you have?
06:28Look, don't say anything about him,
06:31he has given me a ring,
06:33he has given me a necklace,
06:35he has given me a set of bangles,
06:37so you are praising him,
06:39and the one who raised you,
06:41raised you,
06:43educated you,
06:44employed you,
06:46and gave you a job,
06:48doesn't he have any value?
06:50Shouldn't he be indebted to you?
06:53If someone would have helped me,
06:55even if it was a lakh or two lakhs,
06:57I would have said,
06:59sir, I can never be free of his debt.
07:01But the parents,
07:03who raised you,
07:05raised you,
07:07educated you,
07:09employed you,
07:11if they have given you,
07:12they are your husband,
07:14whom we call our husband.
07:16That is why it becomes our responsibility.
07:18Today, there is a very dangerous trend in the society,
07:21that every household has become a story,
07:24even if the son is one,
07:26even if the son is two,
07:28even if the son is four,
07:30but the parents have to keep a separate stove.
07:33That is why I want that
07:35such situations should not happen in the house,
07:37that is why they should also be accepted.