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00:00In this season, the role of a spy was a different one from last year, because I had to adapt to the couples, to the girls more exactly, from the house, so it was a bit harder, but a totally different approach this season compared to last year.
00:27So I had to adapt to what they could offer me. It was a bit harder, but I think I did my part, as I did last season.
00:44Compared to last year, this year I came in the role of a spy a bit more prepared, because I knew that the girls were watching me, and they would be a bit reluctant to interact with me, because they knew that I could be a spy again, like last year.
01:07So I came prepared, with a story from home, the one about being hurt. I was coming after a breakup, and I felt hurt, telling them that we can heal each other, and I came not only to spy on them, but to heal myself after the breakup.
01:26Coming with a story from home, I tried to show the girls what happened, and of course they empathized with my story, so it helped me to gain their trust this time, and it was useful for me, because I was able to act without them thinking that I could be a spy this season.
01:53When I arrived on the island, the girls saw me as a potential spy, but at that moment I tried to help them.
02:06Two of the girls saw that the emotions they had, and the experiences they had on the island, hurt them a lot, so I tried to help them and explain to them that everything that is there, is seen by those at home, and they will understand through what feelings they go through.
02:29So I tried to correct some mistakes, and at the same time to support them, because I needed it. But most of the time, when you try to help someone, that person can attach to you, because they see your good intentions, and that's what happened during the show.
02:48With Justina, I discovered that she comes from a relationship where she has all the control. Seeing this, I tried to make her understand that she believed that if she made a mistake in front of Cornel, she would forgive her, and that's what happened.
03:10But it's wrong to offer things, gestures, and words in front of a partner, as long as he didn't make a mistake, as much as she did.
03:24So, Justina couldn't understand, and she lost control every time I tried to help her, to make her understand that everything that she does is seen, but she listened to me at the moment, as I told her to go and tell Cornel that she exaggerated that night.
03:41I only came with good advice, and I tried to make her understand that what she does is wrong, and that she should stay with her dad until the end. But, of course, she only listened to me at the moment, and most of the time, she did exactly what she thought was right.
04:00From my point of view, Justina is a good man, but he's also a bit of a troublemaker. And it's clear that, after Cornel's gestures on the other island, she was communicating through the same gestures. She was also a bit of a troublemaker, and she was offering him suffering, exactly what he was doing.
04:24During the first few days, Justina was a smart person for me. During the course of time, I realized that she surprises me and becomes uncontrollable, especially when she was drinking alcohol.
04:36She lost her control, the next day she regretted everything that happened, but it was too late. As I told her after the first party, that she exaggerated, but not to repeat it.
04:48And, of course, she was repeating the same stories, to drink alcohol, to offer Cornel his suffering. I changed my mind during the show, and I didn't expect her to be so outrageous and, at the same time, so unassuming in what she felt and did on our island.
05:11At the moment, I don't know if I would correct something that happened then, but I would be much more careful. After a few days, I realized that he's not a man you can trust.
05:30He's a friend. He's an uncontrollable and, at the same time, unpredictable person. So, if I could go back in time, I don't think I would do anything more than what I did during the show.
05:47It was clear that, during the show, I couldn't know what was going on in the house and what she was talking about with Teo. So, I took everything she was telling me. She was always telling me that she and Teo are nothing more than friends.
06:04But, now, when I look at her on TV, I realize that she wasn't like that at all. She was a bit attached to Teo, but she was repeating that she can't have anything to do with him, being an immature child.
06:22When I saw that she actually liked Teo's presence, I asked her to be assumed and to say things like, if she likes someone in the house, no matter if it's me, Teo or anyone else, but to be seen and not to be hidden, because she will be judged.
06:44And it's clear that her lover, her current husband, will see this and will take an unassuming and even lying stance, because during the show she tried to come up with small lies, like Teo tried to kiss her.
07:05It was a childish game, from my point of view, and it's clear that she was attracted to Teo. Even if she liked the time she spent with me, I didn't give her the chance to manipulate me like she did with Teo.
07:30I was up to a point with her and she didn't allow herself to dance, to shoot, to get close to Teo, and the next day to say that she regrets what she did, because I wouldn't have allowed this thing to be used by me.
07:43But still, I think she's a person, in real life, who, let's put it this way, is alone and her alcohol consumption can be the same as on the island.
08:00It was clear that she found something in me, but on the other hand, she found something in Teo, because many times she spent the night with Teo, until 6-7 in the morning, together, but she preferred to go on a date.
08:17And in the last period she spent on the island, I started to be a bit more harsh with her, so she started to distance herself from me, because I was trying to make her stop making these mistakes and to accept them, and she was annoyed by this, because I was honest.
08:40I mean, when I told her that she made a mistake in front of Cornel, the others were like, no, it's ok, keep doing it, and I was honest, and I didn't feel that when she was close to Teo, it affected me in any way.
08:55Because, from the moment she chose me and she was looking for my attention, not me, she was coming to my room, she was coming to talk to me, I wasn't looking for her attention and I wasn't looking for her.
09:06She wanted to go on a date with me, it was her choice, but she probably didn't know what she liked about Teo and what she liked about me.
09:18So, inside her, I think she was undecided. She didn't necessarily want something with me or Teo, but it was clear that she liked something about Teo and she liked something about me.
09:31But I was never affected by her gestures, because everything I was doing there, I was trying to help her.
09:37I would never want to be understood by the public that I like something about her and that I would like to have something with her.
09:46She is not the kind of person I could ever have, not even as a friend.
09:52I think that Justina saw in me that maturity and the fact that I am not like the others in the house.
10:00I mean, I am always polite, I try to give her honest advice and to be with her without any interest.
10:07And, at the same time, she felt safe with me, because I wasn't trying to get close to her more than she would have liked.
10:16Which attracted this thing and that's why she was trying to spend time with me.
10:22This game that I made with Justina and Maria was chosen by me.
10:28I chose the hardest option, Justina, because I saw that she is a person who loses her temper and can be vulnerable.
10:39And Maria, liking me from the beginning, was the girl who could stay on the show, even if I couldn't spend time with her because of Justina, because she didn't allow it.
10:50I would stay close to her and I would try to show her that I like her, because this was my role, to test the fidelity of the girls.
11:01Coming to Simona, I didn't want the audience to say that I chose the easiest option, because she came and liked me from the beginning,
11:14and he went there because it was easy for him to spend time with her and to continue his role as a spy.
11:21I chose the hardest option, Justina, but at the same time, I knew that Justina could stop at any moment, so I stayed close to Maria, to make her understand that I like her.
11:38I don't think there is an answer if I liked someone more, especially between Justina and Maria.
11:45None of them are to my taste.
11:50From the fact that now I see on TV what Maria was doing around Marcel and the moments spent together and what she was telling me,
12:02I couldn't see what they were talking about and what they were doing when they were together or when they were going on a date.
12:10I can say that Maria wasn't honest with me and she was hiding some things from me,
12:15seeing clearly now that she liked Marcel, but I was her attraction,
12:20but not having the possibility to go out with me because of Justina, she was reserved and she caught the moment when I was free.
12:31This is what happened when I went out with Justina on our last date and I told her that this was the last time because I didn't want to accept this indifference.
12:44It was clear to everyone that her game was immature, but still visible.
12:53I think that Maria could have been easily associated with Bianca from the previous season,
13:00but when she started spending time with Marcel and offering him attention and hope,
13:09I realized this quite late at home because she was telling me something else,
13:14that she was simply suffocated by Marcel, but it was clear in some scenes that she was giving him access to take steps towards her,
13:26she was giving him hope.
13:28It makes me realize that this is a character that for me will never be that person,
13:37that this person will never have access to me, because she was, let's say, perverse,
13:43that's what I think it's called when you give someone hope and at the last hundred meters you turn towards someone
13:51and you stop yourself from everything that happened with the person you gave hope to.
13:57Marcel was the person who gave her everything.
14:02He gave everything, he was involved, and she was cold, indifferent.
14:07This is what happened to me.
14:09I was indifferent and cold, trying to test Justina's fidelity,
14:17then, having time to spend with her, she was late.
14:21I think I liked her even from the first date I interacted with her,
14:26and I felt this because she allowed me to make touches and gestures,
14:31more than I would have needed for a first date,
14:35and more than I would have allowed for Marcel.
14:38Of course, during the show, Maria approached me naturally,
14:44but during the show, I think Marcel made a mistake somewhere,
14:48more or less, they know exactly what happened there,
14:52and he made her approach me more,
14:55which, having put Marcel aside, and, of course, he started to suffer,
15:02he was hurt, giving himself hope all this time.
15:07I didn't want to show people what she did to Marcel,
15:14because I didn't know exactly what was going on between them,
15:17and she denied, during the show, that she gave them hope.
15:21She only said that he insisted a lot.
15:25But, when I started to play the role of Maria,
15:30I realized that Marcel was hurt.
15:33When he started to cry, and we had a discussion with him,
15:38for more than half an hour, on the beach,
15:42I realized that he really loves her.
15:45Even if maybe he denies it now,
15:47but it was clear to everyone that he loves her, and I thought it was bad.
15:50I mean, there was a moment when, in my mind, it was like,
15:53Alin, you can play the role and show people
15:56that she practically receives what she offered,
16:01or stop and let her continue.
16:06I thought it was bad of him, of Marcel,
16:09but I said, no, you have to show people
16:11that she really is a person who can easily pass the test.
16:16So I chose to do this, and I tried to make Marcel understand
16:20that it was not the case to fall in love with her in that show,
16:24because he was in a role, she came into a relationship,
16:28and to take the experience from there.
16:31If I had to choose between the two,
16:34with whom I would go home, with neither.
16:37I mean, neither of them have the character that I want them to have.
16:44Although I empathized a lot with Maria, with her situation,
16:49and he is an extraordinary man, with a good soul,
16:52but when I saw what he did to Marcel,
16:57it is not a character that I could have received with open arms.
17:03After the show, I kept in touch only with the boys.
17:08Immediately after the end of the show, Maria wrote to me,
17:14I didn't have time because I was in a very busy project,
17:18and I didn't even have the possibility to talk to anyone.
17:25I didn't keep in touch with any of the girls in the couple.
17:28What did Maria write to you?
17:30She wrote to me that I hope I didn't just play the role,
17:34and that she was honest with me, that she wanted to talk to me.
17:40She left me the phone number because she sent me four messages,
17:43and I didn't answer.
17:45She left me the phone number and told me that if I wanted to continue the discussion,
17:48she would wait for me to talk on WhatsApp or to call me.
17:50And I didn't answer her.
17:52Of course, after everything that happened in the show and everything that happened,
17:57she would have wanted to see us after the show.
17:59When the show started, I was like a spectator,
18:03because I knew mostly what I was doing there.
18:07I couldn't participate in the discussions of the other boys,
18:12as well as what was happening on the other island.
18:14So I was curious and I am curious every time it airs.
18:19And I think I like, as I say, everyone I interact with and receive messages from,
18:26that this is the best season, because it is a mix of emotions.
18:31There are funny experiences, there are emotional experiences.
18:35There is a package of emotions in this season.
18:42And I think there is no one who can say that this season didn't arouse their curiosity
18:50if they managed to see at least one or two episodes.
18:52Unlike last season, this season was much more, let's say,
19:01visioned and their reactions appear when they are seen,
19:06not like last year, to congratulate me for the story I did with Bianca,
19:11but now they have seen that I came with a different attitude and a different style.
19:17Let's put it this way, the story was totally different from Alin,
19:21with Bianca from last season, than Alin from this season.
19:24Their reactions are very friendly, they wish,
19:28and when I arrive on the street or in a public place where there is a crowd,
19:33a real hysteria is created.
19:35Then I wish everyone to ask me questions, to take pictures,
19:40and, most of all, to congratulate me for the attitude and the role I played
19:46in front of the audience, without speaking badly and, as they say, being political.
19:52To play my role like a book.
19:54I would like the people at home to understand that even if we take on a role,
19:59our feelings cannot be controlled, we can be attached.
20:03But still, if we realize during the show that
20:07we cannot create a connection or have a relationship with that person,
20:12they do not have to understand and forget that the role of the guest is to test the fidelity of the couples.
20:21Many people forget that we are there for this, not to create a relationship.
20:29What I convey to them is to understand that
20:34neither the girls nor the boys have to judge for the role they play,
20:40even if everyone has a different approach.
20:43One may be more strategic, the other may be tougher,
20:47one more honest.
20:48They do not have to forget that we have a role and we have to,
20:52if we want to respect it or if we cannot have a relationship,
20:56no one judges if someone is attached.
20:59But the audience should not judge the guests who took on the role
21:03and in the end say that they do not want a relationship with that person
21:08because along the way they realized that they are not suitable for him.
21:12My only interaction with Justina was at a viewing,
21:16we met, without me knowing, in a restaurant next to Cornell
21:20and it was that episode where I was talking about trying to get rid of her.
21:28Justina and I were starting to create a tension
21:33because she saw that I was not making up for all the mistakes she made
21:38and we were having heated discussions.
21:41So when it was broadcast and we were not in the same room,
21:45even table by table,
21:47we did nothing but have fun with the situation on TV and nothing more.
21:55Cornell is a mature man, I would say,
21:59and he did not have any kind of reaction.
22:02We were having fun with what we saw together,
22:06me and him, because I did not know exactly what was going on
22:11and it was not at all irascible.
22:16We even united the tables and we sat together at the table,
22:21watching the show.
22:23I think we talked for the last time in May-June,
22:29but it was a discussion between friends,
22:34because, from my point of view, it has changed,
22:37as I would say, to thank me for what I did during the show
22:43and I showed that I do not have bad intentions
22:46and we stayed in a really good relationship.
22:49The last time we talked, it was good,
22:52there is a lot of attention on the professional side,
22:55on the media, on advertising,
22:57and I think it is getting better and better.
23:00I think the island of this season has changed me,
23:04as my friends said in the car,
23:07in the sense that I have to be more careful
23:11with the people around me,
23:14because I am known everywhere I go.
23:19Even in public places, as well as in private places,
23:23people come to tell me,
23:26yes, we also forgot Alin and we know you.
23:30Even if I have the impression that I do not know these people,
23:35but the impact was quite big,
23:37much bigger than last year.
23:40I am glad that I am happy
23:42and I think it helped me on the professional side,
23:47as well as to develop myself by interacting with new people
23:51who want to collaborate with me
23:53and to appreciate me for what I did there.
23:57I do not regret and, on the contrary,
24:02I can say that it was an experience for me that developed me
24:06and I wanted it.
24:08Anyone who goes and gets involved in this test
24:11can develop it and discover things on the island
24:15that they certainly cannot have at home,
24:18because you interact with new people,
24:21you do not have access to the media,
24:23you do not have access to what care means,
24:25because you forget everything you have at home
24:27and you can really develop an experience like this.
24:31If you please the audience,
24:34you can have many advantages
24:36and I do not think anyone can say
24:39that they went through this experience
24:42and that it brought them negative things.
24:46If I were to go on the other side of Iubirica Island,
24:50as a couple,
24:52if I were to propose to the staff to go there,
24:56I do not think they would accept me,
24:58because they saw that I can be controlled
25:02and that it is very difficult to seduce that alien
25:09as everyone knows him.
25:11But if I were to accept it, yes, I would go
25:15and I would put myself in front of this test,
25:18but my emotions would not be for me.
25:21I would know how to control everything,
25:24going through two seasons
25:26and seeing different types of people,
25:30but with whom to go.
25:32So, clearly, I am sure that the emotions would be
25:36exactly as seen on TV by the couple
25:40and I would have honest emotions.
25:44So, yes, I would go, but if they would accept me.
25:48From my point of view,
25:50the couples who want to do this test,
25:53even last night I talked to a couple,
25:56my friends,
25:58and they said that they signed up for Iubirica Island
26:01after all the stories I told them
26:03and the experiences I had there
26:05and they really want to go through this test,
26:08asking me to talk to the staff
26:11to come to the casting.
26:13So, I told them that if they signed up,
26:16they would call me and they would go through a test
26:19and they would see if they are compatible with this test.
26:22So, from my point of view,
26:24if any couple wants to go through this test,
26:28they should do it with open arms,
26:30because they can see beyond what they see
26:34how long they are at home.
26:36And in their absence, in the absence of each other,
26:39they can get to know the person they live next to.
26:42They have nothing to lose,
26:44they can get closer and they have to win
26:47after this experience
26:49to realize how honest they are with each other.
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