Pinky Amador vouches for mutual respect and communication when it comes to talking about needs and wants in relationships!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:53We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
01:13We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:18Good morning! Good morning!
01:21Is it true that women today are more outspoken and liberal in their thoughts,
01:27especially when it comes to sex, when it comes to relationships?
01:31Yes, that's true. That's true.
01:33Actually, it should be like that because the reason why I think a lot of early pregnancies for teens happen
01:40is because it's a taboo subject.
01:42Because it's taboo or it hurts the women.
01:46We can't talk about it, it's prohibited.
01:48You can't, you're still a woman.
01:51So that's why a lot of things happen that can't be avoided.
01:55Like sexual education, it's not just that. When it comes to...
02:00Discrimination.
02:01Discrimination, roles in life, things like that.
02:04Yes, because it's like...
02:05That's why sometimes the woman overreacts.
02:07It's like she just serves her husband forever.
02:09She doesn't have any respect for her husband anymore because she didn't do anything
02:13if she didn't obey everything her husband said.
02:15It's too submissive. I mean, yes, the Lord said you should be submissive,
02:18but of course, within reason, right?
02:21I'll be quiet.
02:22You're too stubborn in heaven.
02:24No, I'm just laughing.
02:28Let's have talking points.
02:30Just like how Charmaine and I are one in the separation of Joey and Alma.
02:36I think it's unfair that it's always like that.
02:39Are we going against each other? Are we going against each other?
02:42That's not really an issue.
02:44Okay, Regine and their separation from Lander.
02:49It's like...
02:50It's like what she said, it's like they fell out of love.
02:54That's the most contextual part.
02:56There's something like that, right?
02:58It's really happening.
02:59It's happening.
03:01To Abad.
03:03This is controversial.
03:05I think Abad's reaction to the confession of...
03:09Ah, that John Lloyd and Shara Soto are already boyfriends.
03:12The only thing he knows is that they're still together.
03:14That's crazy.
03:15That's a triangle.
03:16I was shocked.
03:17I can't believe it.
03:18I'm sure that's the reaction.
03:19I was shocked.
03:20That happened to you before, right?
03:22It's painful, right?
03:23But that's different.
03:25Yes.
03:26Even if you're a man, even if you're a woman,
03:28if that happens, it's probably painful, right?
03:30Yes, it's really painful.
03:31There's no gender change.
03:32Well, well.
03:33What we're really going to talk about today is
03:35how to be a woman.
03:37What is it?
03:39What is it?
03:40What is it?
03:41A woman.
03:42That's it.
03:43That's it.
03:44Of course, we'll be back with Sis.
03:45Sis.
04:03Of course, a woman always takes care of her husband and her family.
04:09So, in return, a man's job is to love and take care of his wife
04:14so that she's also balanced.
04:16Not all emotions are out.
04:19Love is not measured.
04:22But it's better if both of you love equally.
04:27Yes, both men and women should love equally.
04:31Because in a relationship, it should be two-way.
04:34Give and take.
04:35Because if you're the only one loving the other,
04:38your relationship won't be successful.
04:40That's why you should both love equally, right?
04:46A woman should love, be responsible, and God-fearing.
04:51Nurturing.
04:52Because she's the one who will teach her children
04:54and be an example
04:56for the children to be good people.
05:01A woman should love and be respectful.
05:04Because I believe that if there's no respect between the two of you,
05:08everything will fall apart.
05:10For example, you'll lose your love.
05:12You'll lose your respect for each other.
05:14So, it's very important that you respect each other
05:17and you love each other.
05:19Earlier, we talked about the things that you're not allowed to do when you're a woman.
05:23And based on our guests' stories,
05:25not all of the things that you're not allowed to do are bad.
05:29I'm sure that those of you who are at home,
05:31there are things that you want to ask,
05:32but it's hard to talk about because it's forbidden.
05:36So, here's what we're going to do.
05:38We're going to have a Ziz Challenge.
05:40Each guest will be given one minute to discuss the issue she has picked.
05:44These are different colors.
05:46Points raised are not necessarily personal opinions and convictions of the guests.
05:53This is just for them to say.
05:54This is just for them to say.
05:56This is just for them to talk about.
05:58Whatever.
06:00What if we pick something that's expensive?
06:03So, this is our Ziz Challenge.
06:05The question is,
06:07Why is it now acceptable for women to…
06:11Whatever the topic is.
06:13Pick a color.
06:15Any color.
06:16I think I shall pick brown.
06:21Initiate intimate moments with your partner.
06:25This is okay.
06:26How intimate?
06:28As intimate as you want to get.
06:30I think, why not?
06:32I mean, unless nobody else will let your partner know what you want.
06:37So, it has to come from you.
06:40And you won't go further in a relationship unless somebody talks.
06:47So, your husband, your boyfriend, your girlfriend will never know exactly what's going on unless you say something.
06:53So, even if you're a woman, it's okay?
06:55Yes, even if you're a different woman.
06:59Okay.
07:00Lara.
07:03Lara.
07:04Okay.
07:05Whatever.
07:06Okay.
07:10How can it be?
07:12Why is it…
07:13Acceptable for women.
07:14Acceptable for women to talk about sex and sexuality in public.
07:20For me now, the times that we're in, there's AIDS, right?
07:24And here in the Philippines, you're overpopulated.
07:27People don't use condoms.
07:28People don't practice safe sex.
07:30People get diseases.
07:32If you want to be socially aware and conscious, you have to be able to talk about sex and sexuality in public.
07:38Because that's your health.
07:40That's your body.
07:41You have to protect it.
07:42And also now, right?
07:43On TV, pop culture, especially with cable, there's sex in the city.
07:47It's okay.
07:48It's already talked about.
07:49So, it's like…
07:52It's the times that we're living now.
07:56It's a must.
07:57It's a must.
07:58It's a must.
07:59Yes.
08:00It's not just…
08:01Jason, I can't stand up.
08:02How can I reach Harleen?
08:04Yes, because I'm afraid of falling.
08:08This doesn't seem right for me.
08:11What's that?
08:12Why?
08:13Why is it now acceptable for women to have a child out of wedlock?
08:18This doesn't seem right.
08:20What?
08:21This doesn't seem right for you.
08:22No, it's not.
08:23What else do I know?
08:24I don't know about that.
08:25Just pass it.
08:27No.
08:29First of all, because in this time, we can't avoid it anymore.
08:34Young people are too full.
08:36No matter what advice we give them, there's still someone who's getting divorced, right?
08:41So, that's acceptable.
08:44What we need is education to prevent unwanted or early pregnancies or pregnancies out of wedlock.
08:56But at this time, it's already happening.
09:02It used to happen before.
09:04If you have an opinion that you want to share and you're against it, just join us.
09:08It's just like women.
09:09They can raise a child.
09:11Sometimes, they can do more, right?
09:14I'm a pro-life.
09:16Yes, that's true.
09:18Instead of removing it.
09:20Continue.
09:21A lot of times, it is a mistake.
09:23I think people shouldn't make a further mistake by hiding it.
09:26By hiding the fact.
09:27And by marrying because you're pregnant.
09:29That's the biggest mistake.
09:31In other words, do not cover a mistake with another mistake.
09:34That's the biggest mistake.
09:37There. Okay.
09:40Okay.
09:41Why is it acceptable for women to openly ask her partner what she wants in a relationship?
09:48It's natural, right?
09:50It's natural.
09:51What did you marry?
09:53Pipe, right?
09:54You married Pipe.
09:55You're pregnant with Pipe.
09:56Why?
09:57No, I do not.
09:59Because a lot of people argue about this.
10:01I truly believe that men and women were created equally.
10:04Although they say that because women came from the ribs of Adam or whatever,
10:09we should be less or only for that.
10:12No.
10:13That's not true.
10:15We're just equal.
10:17You should respect women and men equally.
10:20You also love them equally.
10:22So why don't they have equal needs?
10:25Why don't you respect the needs?
10:27Because, for example, a woman's need is to have some time alone or to have some peace.
10:34You won't give that.
10:36It won't work in any relationship, right?
10:38Pipe is not the woman.
10:40Why?
10:41I agree with that.
10:46So, I'll go first.
10:48Because I don't know what to do.
10:50Okay.
10:51Why is it now acceptable for women to love another woman?
10:57That's what they want.
10:58What can we do?
10:59We should know each other, right?
11:01The sexual preference, I think, now is not as hidden as it was before, right?
11:08Now, in gay relationships, you can admit it, you can show off.
11:14And, you know, we don't care about other people's lives.
11:17That's what they want.
11:18That's their happiness.
11:19That's their happiness.
11:20We're out of them, right?
11:22They will be held accountable.
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11:51So, if this is really my opinion, but it's also possible.
12:00I just want to give you a conflicting opinion.
12:04It's like we're like that.
12:05Because maybe the sisters are watching.
12:10Anyways, and the mothers.
12:12Because, of course, when you get married or if you're in a relationship,
12:17you want it to last.
12:19Especially if you get married.
12:21Of course, it's better if you try living together.
12:25If you can really handle little things about the other person.
12:29You won't know the true nature of a person if you don't really live with that person.
12:35First.
12:36First.
12:37Even if I've known you for 10 years.
12:39We've been boyfriend and girlfriend.
12:40But I don't know what you do when you wake up in the morning,
12:43before you go to bed at night.
12:45Do I rest?
12:46Yes.
12:47Where do you put your clothes?
12:49Is it clean?
12:50How are you at home?
12:51How's your system?
12:52Are you late to sleep?
12:53Those little things.
12:55For a husband.
12:56It matters.
12:57It matters.
12:58It's a big thing.
12:59It's a big thing.
13:00Or if you're sexually compatible.
13:02Or if you really want the same things.
13:05If you're waiting for a TV show.
13:08Those little things.
13:09If you're going to fight, is that allowed?
13:11So, you don't know that before you get married.
13:14Why are you angry?
13:15That's all I can say.
13:17It's like an effective trial.
13:18You look together first.
13:19It's like a trial.
13:20You're not compatible with each other.
13:22Are you for living?
13:23You know, I have a friend.
13:25Her condition is that she really wants to have a family of her own.
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22:57If you can have two girlfriends at the same time, can you have two boyfriends at the same time?
23:03I can have two boyfriends at the same time, but I choose not to because why would I fool myself?
23:08No.
23:09No.
23:10Why?
23:12Actually, it's tiring.
23:18I can do it, but I don't want to.
23:20I can do it, but it's tiring.
23:23If a man can pay for sex, can you do it?
23:28No.
23:29No.
23:30I don't want to.
23:31It's embarrassing.
23:32Not really.
23:33No.
23:34I can't do it.
23:35Why?
23:36Actually, maybe.
23:39I don't know.
23:41Actually, no.
23:42No.
23:43No.
23:44Actually, make up your mind.
23:46If a man can court a woman, can you court a man?
23:51Yes, I can.
23:54I can.
23:56I haven't tried that before.
23:57I don't know if I can do it.
23:59I can do it.
24:00I already did it.
24:04If a man can court a woman, can you do it?
24:08I can, but I won't do it.
24:10Yes, I can do it.
24:12I'm angry.
24:15Yes, it's easy.
24:17Yes.
24:19Okay.
24:20Can you do it?
24:26If a man can kiss and tell, can you do it?
24:30Yes, I can.
24:32No.
24:33I can, but I don't want to.
24:35It's ugly.
24:36I can, but I really don't want to do it.
24:39Because that's what I hate the most about men.
24:42If a man can have children from different women, can you have children from different men?
24:47I can't type.
24:48No.
24:50I guess.
24:51I can do it.
24:54I don't have children from different women.
24:56No, I don't think so.
24:57Do I still have children?
24:59Oh my God.
25:01I already did it.
25:02But I'm just an aerobic.
25:05If a man can have a one-night stand, can you do it?
25:09Yes, but I won't do it.
25:11Yes.
25:13I can do it.
25:14I can type.
25:15I can't.
25:21All of our guests today are part of a play entitled Vagina Monologues.
25:26It's a bit scary and surprising.
25:28The title of the play, but please explain why it's called Vagina Monologues.
25:33Well, it's stories about women.
25:35It's women's stories collected by women.
25:37It's from that book.
25:38Yes, it's from Eve Ensler's book.
25:42I think she did some research about that.
25:44Over 13 years, she interviewed women all around the U.S.
25:50All races, religions, she interviewed all of them.
25:53And from the interviews, she wrote 17 monologues that became Vagina Monologues.
26:00And it's about, each monologue is a woman talking about her sexuality.
26:06Her stories.
26:07Women issues.
26:09Pregnancy, rape, sex.
26:13Awakening.
26:14Sexual awakening.
26:15Childbirth.
26:18So it's about a woman.
26:21The essence of a woman.
26:23But it just so happens that it's centered around the organ.
26:28Because it's a woman.
26:34This Vagina Monologues, you're going to have a show, right?
26:38At the Folk Arts Theater?
26:39Yes.
26:40Feb 23.
26:418 p.m.
26:42Saturday, 8 p.m.
26:43This is actually a celebration.
26:45It's called the V-Day Celebration.
26:47It's a celebration for the end of violence against women.
26:51And I think one of the Purple Hearts?
26:54Purple Rose.
26:55Purple Rose, I'm so sorry.
26:56Purple Rose Foundation.
26:57That's an organization trying to stop sexual trafficking of women and children.
27:04So this is a benefit concert because there are 70 artists.
27:09Usually, when there's a Vagina Monologues, there are only 3 actresses.
27:13Actually, Harleen did the Vagina Monologues.
27:16Even Lara and Lynn.
27:18They've all done it.
27:20Now, this one at the Folk Arts, there are 70 artists.
27:23That's a lot.
27:24So the other monologues?
27:26It's a celebration of womanhood.
27:27There are singers, dancers, poets, actors, all of them.
27:31And it's really a charity.
27:33It's for charity.
27:34So the benefit of this is for women?
27:38Gabriela, Kababaihan.
27:40Women who suffer violence, who are abused.
27:44Because it's highly sexual trafficking.
27:46To the wife, to the parents, or whatever.
27:49Whatever kind of violence.
27:50That is V-Day.
27:51V-Day is celebrated every year, right?
27:53Every year.
27:54In like 200 countries across the globe now.
27:58Wherever you go, wherever the city is, it has that play.
28:02Because it has such a strong calling to women.
28:17I think they came here on Thursday from New York.
28:22Because she was surprised.
28:23She was shocked.
28:24She was shocked because in the Philippines, there are so many V-Day celebrations.
28:28There are so many V-Day monologues.
28:33English, Tagalog.
28:35For the only country in Asia.
28:37Malaysia, Indonesia, India.
28:40They all have problems with censorship.
28:42But how is it in the Philippines?
28:44People are more open.
28:47So she's coming here to support.
28:49And this is open to the public?
28:50Yes.
28:51Everybody can come and watch?
28:52The tickets are very reasonable.
28:53They range from 50 to 1,000.
28:56So where can they call?
29:00Please do call these numbers.
29:01896-5497.
29:04Or 899-0630.
29:07Or get your tickets at Ticket World.
29:09You know, this is an issue that is hardly addressed.
29:15Because they're talking about a lot of prohibitions.
29:18Even the needs are prohibited.
29:21Even the word itself, vagina.
29:23People think that it's a bad word.
29:25But vagina is a scientific word.
29:26It's just part of your body.
29:28It's a scientific description.
29:30So there was an issue.
29:32And I think there are still issues.
29:35Especially with the Tagalog translation.
29:36Yes.
29:38That's why we're here.
29:43Anyway, thank you very much.
29:44V-Day is on the 23rd of February.
29:47Let's celebrate being women.
29:49Exactly.
29:50We'll be back.
30:09What can we say, Janice?
30:11I think at this day and time,
30:14women should be able to fight for their rights.
30:16And they should be allowed to speak up.
30:19Yes, we were taught to be more prim and proper.
30:28That's not wrong.
30:29By being prim and proper, you cannot talk about sex.
30:32You cannot be too aggressive.
30:34You cannot be too opinionated.
30:37Because that's not ladylike.
30:39I'm not against being prim and proper.
30:42But I think the women of today should be allowed to speak their minds.
30:47Let's take control.
30:49You don't really have to take control.
30:51You should be able to speak your mind.
30:53Be able to say anything you want to say.
30:56Because part of that is sexual freedom also.
30:59I feel like that.
31:01I feel like...
31:03Ma'am, there's a gender issue, right?
31:06There's a gender issue because we're not yet born.
31:09There's a problem.
31:10There's a gender issue.
31:11Is the woman's place just at home?
31:14Exactly.
31:15So now, we should always convince the women that,
31:19you know what, you're responsible for your own whatever.
31:23You're accountable to yourself.
31:25You have to stand up for your rights.
31:27But we should push back.
31:29Men are just doing what they're supposed to do, right?
31:31It's innate.
31:32But we should push back the women.
31:35Because that is the norms of society.
31:38Exactly.
31:39How frustrating, right?
31:40That we have to defend our femininity.
31:46This is too much.
31:47We're women.
31:48We're the ones giving birth to our children.
31:50Can we do that?
31:52We should labor.
31:53But we're not mad at men.
31:55We love men.
31:56Of course.
31:57Is that so?
31:58Yeah, love them.
31:59That's too much.
32:00All the people in your house are men.
32:02Yes, all of them are men.
32:03No, we're not mad at men.
32:05But we believe that men and women should have equal rights.
32:09If we die, God won't look at us as women or men.
32:14Gender is not a mistake.
32:16Gender is not wrong or right.
32:18Gender is not a person.
32:20There's a gender of being a person.
32:23Of course, there's a woman and a man.
32:25But your existence as a person has no gender.
32:29I'm confused.
32:30What are you saying?
32:33But on that note,
32:35we want to thank you all for watching us this whole week.
32:38Of course, we don't have gender issues.
32:41Just like...
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32:53Bambi.
32:54I already said Bambi.
32:55I already said Edna Canienta.
32:56Hueles.
32:57What else?
32:58Thank you so much.
32:59Color my hair.
33:00Color her hair.
33:02So anyway, thank you for joining us.
33:04We'll see you again next week.
33:05Of course, this is all for SIS.
33:08Bye!
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34:01Can you give birth to other boys?
34:03Do I still have to ask that?
34:06I already did that.
34:07But I'll just do it until Romi.
34:11If a man can do it, can you do it too?
34:13I can, but I won't do it.
34:14If a man can court a woman, can you court a man?
34:18Yes, because I'm shy.
34:21If a man can do it, can you do it too?
34:24Of course.
34:25It's so easy.
34:27If a man can do a one night stand, can you do it too?
34:31Depends.
34:34If a man can do it, can you do it too?
34:37Yes.
34:40Did you do it?