Meri Biwi Mera Libas Hai Se Kya Murad ? | Husband and wife | Maulana Tariq Jameel Bayan
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In this thought-provoking bayan, Maulana Tariq Jameel addresses a profound question: “Meri Biwi Mera Libas Hai Se Kya Murad?” Discover the deeper meaning behind this statement and explore the relationship dynamics between husband and wife through the insightful teachings of Maulana Tariq Jameel.
Join us as Maulana Tariq Jameel, a revered Islamic scholar, sheds light on this crucial topic. His latest bayan provides valuable guidance on understanding the concept of marital harmony and mutual respect. Whether you’re seeking personal growth or looking to enhance your relationship, this bayan is a must-watch.
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**Timestamps:**
00:00 - Introduction
02:15 - Meaning of "Meri Biwi Mera Libas Hai"
10:30 - Insights on Husband-Wife Relationship
20:00 - Practical Advice for Marital Harmony
30:00 - Conclusion
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In this thought-provoking bayan, Maulana Tariq Jameel addresses a profound question: “Meri Biwi Mera Libas Hai Se Kya Murad?” Discover the deeper meaning behind this statement and explore the relationship dynamics between husband and wife through the insightful teachings of Maulana Tariq Jameel.
Join us as Maulana Tariq Jameel, a revered Islamic scholar, sheds light on this crucial topic. His latest bayan provides valuable guidance on understanding the concept of marital harmony and mutual respect. Whether you’re seeking personal growth or looking to enhance your relationship, this bayan is a must-watch.
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**Timestamps:**
00:00 - Introduction
02:15 - Meaning of "Meri Biwi Mera Libas Hai"
10:30 - Insights on Husband-Wife Relationship
20:00 - Practical Advice for Marital Harmony
30:00 - Conclusion
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00:00You are young.
00:01Today, another beautiful topic is coming.
00:03With Ghuzi.
00:11Looks like you are very hungry.
00:18This is my favorite topic.
00:21That Allah is saying that your wives are your clothes.
00:25And Allah is saying to women that your husbands are your clothes.
00:28In this one word, my Allah has told the value, value, beauty, and importance of husband and wife in one word, clothes.
00:41Can anything go wrong between me and clothes?
00:44Nothing can go wrong.
00:45My body and my clothes are united.
00:47This relationship should be like this, of husband and wife's love.
00:50That it becomes two bodies and one soul.
00:58Arabic
01:16This is the translation of this verse.
01:20That the relationship of husband and wife is like this, that there are two bodies and one soul.
01:25Arabic
01:28Look, how much anger I will have, I will tear my clothes.
01:34How much anger I will have.
01:36I will put tea on it.
01:38I will cut it with scissors.
01:40I will tear someone else's garbage.
01:42I will never tear my own.
01:44No matter how much anger comes on the wife.
01:46Or no matter how much anger comes on the wife on the husband.
01:49He should not speak in such a way that the dress of love is torn.
01:53Love is a delicate relationship.
01:55It remains due to behavior.
01:57And it ends with immorality.
01:59If the mother who gives milk to the child will be strict with her son.
02:02Then the son's love will be extinguished.
02:05So, the wife is an external relationship.
02:08In blood relations, the closest relationship is mother and father.
02:11If there is violence in them, then there will be rebellion.
02:14So, in one word, Allah is telling that no one should be in between you and your wife.
02:19Our common system of life.
02:22In that, all relations are between this relationship.
02:25From here, mother-in-law.
02:26From here, father-in-law.
02:27From here, sister-in-law.
02:28From here, brother-in-law.
02:29From here, sister-in-law.
02:30From here, sister-in-law.
02:32In this way, they have crushed this relationship.
02:35Because all its beauty and beauty have ended.
02:38No one else can enter this relationship.
02:41Hazrat Ayesha.
02:42Hazrat Hafza.
02:43Hazrat Umm Salma.
02:44Hazrat Sauda.
02:45This was one community.
02:47And the remaining five were the other community.
02:50When there was a conflict between them,
02:53then these four were one mind and five were one mind.
02:56But in the case of Hazrat Ayesha, all were one mind.
02:59That Allah's Prophet loved Hazrat Ayesha more.
03:02And I have heard many times in open gathering,
03:06Amr bin As asked, O Messenger of Allah,
03:08Who do you love the most?
03:11So, I have also told the Arab society that
03:14Arabs used to feel shy in expressing their love to their wives.
03:17And they used to feel proud in expressing their love to lovers.
03:19Like today's trend of girlfriend.
03:20I have so many girlfriends.
03:21I have so many boyfriends.
03:23Our society will be destroyed.
03:25Our children.
03:27This system of education has destroyed them.
03:31And humanity shed tears.
03:34This is a moral defeat.
03:36Islam is a beautiful religion.
03:38Which only establishes marriage between boy and girl.
03:41The rest of the relations are forbidden.
03:45So, Amr bin As said, O Messenger of Allah,
03:47Who do you love the most?
03:49I said, Ayesha.
03:51I said it so loudly that the whole gathering heard it.
03:53They said, Oh!
03:55They got scared.
03:57I said, O Messenger of Allah,
03:59Who do you love the most among men?
04:01So, instead of Abu Bakr,
04:03he said, Ayesha's father.
04:05So, the husband and wife sent Hazrat Bibi Fatima
04:09to go and talk to her.
04:11So, she came and it was the turn of Hazrat Ayesha's house.
04:14Hazrat Ayesha said, O Messenger of Allah,
04:16Your wives complain about Abu Bakr's daughter.
04:19So, you did not ask what they complain about.
04:22In the relation of husband and wife,
04:24a daughter like Fatima cannot be included.
04:26He said, O daughter,
04:28You do not like that
04:30the one whom your father loves,
04:32you should also love him.
04:34So, the leader of heaven,
04:36the woman, came back quietly.
04:38She said, you know your job.
04:40I will not talk to my father again.
04:42This is that relation.
04:44If you are young, we will get married.
04:46So, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very beautiful relation.
04:50Look, I had two daughters.
04:52I got them married.
04:54And I got rid of my daughters.
04:56So, I got my two daughters married.
04:58I brought two daughters-in-law.
05:00So, we both decided that our daughters have come to our house.
05:02Now, we will treat them like daughters.
05:04When they saw that we treat them like daughters,
05:06they made us their parents.
05:08So, they are serving us more than our daughters.
05:11Love.
05:12My daughter-in-law runs my lineage.
05:14My lineage will run.
05:16My son's lineage will run.
05:18It will run with my daughter-in-law.
05:20So, if I injure her, what will be the result?
05:22If a wound is inflicted on the tree,
05:24the fruit is cut off.
05:26And these girls,
05:28they lost their parents and went to their in-laws' house.
05:32Now, their mother and father are not with them.
05:35So, they make their husband's parents their parents.
05:38And their husband's parents make them their daughters.
05:40They make them their parents.
05:42So, it is a relationship of love.
05:44But it has become a relationship of clashes.
05:49Because we did not study the life of our Prophet,
05:52then we are unjust to our wives.
05:54Because of the mother,
05:56because of the father,
05:58because of the brothers,
06:00because of the sisters.
06:02One thing the sister hears,
06:04that the relationship with the sister is strong,
06:06but not with the wife.
06:07So, the mother says something.
06:11And there are some foolish parents,
06:14who keep control over their daughter even after her marriage.
06:17They give her instructions from behind.
06:19You have to do this with your mother-in-law,
06:21you have to do this with your father-in-law,
06:23you have to do this with your husband.
06:25These foolish parents also destroy the house of their daughters.
06:27And that innocent girl still has a lot of relationship with her parents,
06:29less than her husband.
06:31So, the parents are saying,
06:33what should I do?
06:35My father is saying, what should I do?
06:37So, the people who keep controlling from behind,
06:39they destroy the house of their daughters.
06:41So, the woman is my dress,
06:43I am the dress of the woman.
06:45Now it is the turn of the woman.
06:47Now between the wife and the husband,
06:49the wife will say,
06:51I am your daughter for sure,
06:53but my husband first.
06:55Now my father is for sure,
06:57but my husband first.
06:59Now my mother is for sure,
07:01but my husband first.
07:03And the son will say,
07:05Mother, you are my mother,
07:07but I am your father.
07:09So, the social life has destroyed it.
07:12There are some good examples of this.
07:15This is a very beautiful system of life.
07:17But because of being wrong,
07:19last time when I talked about this,
07:22Khuwaqe was very famous.
07:24Khuwaqe, Khuwaqe,
07:26Khufnaqla Hussain.
07:28So, although these relationships
07:30can be beautiful with a little thought,
07:32that the one who has come to my house as a daughter-in-law,
07:35make me her father,
07:37and make my wife his mother,
07:39and I make the one who is coming as my daughter,
07:41and my wife makes him her daughter,
07:43then what a beautiful relationship.
07:45But it happens with the first in-laws.
07:47They do not let any chance go by.
07:50They get married themselves and ruin themselves.
07:55Nothing can be included in the dress.
07:58Therefore, no one can be included in this relationship,
08:01not even the children.
08:03There are so many foolish mothers
08:05who insult the husband behind the children.
08:07There are so many foolish fathers
08:09who insult the wives behind the children.
08:12The children are later.
08:14After this relationship,
08:16the parents are the parents of the boy and the parents of the girl.
08:18Although the children of these two are later,
08:20this is the relationship of the husband and the wife.
08:22Hundreds of verses,
08:24hundreds of verses,
08:26Allah has revealed on this.
08:28Because the next generation has to follow this.
08:30So, our environment is such that it does not look good.
08:32And I remember the hadith of my Prophet,
08:34you said that my Ansar are great people.
08:35They are great people.
08:37When someone's daughter gets married in their house,
08:39she does not feel whether she is in her own house
08:41or her in-laws' house.
08:45So, my dear,
08:47this is a long night,
08:49this is a very big mountain.
08:51May Allah move it and remove it.
08:55But if I am responsible,
08:57I am responsible for the call to prayer of the Jama'at.
08:59I am responsible for the call to prayer of the Jama'at.
09:01I will keep saying,
09:02You did not listen to what I said.
09:04It was a matter of my whole life.
09:06It was the story of my pain
09:08that made you laugh.
09:10The life of the house,
09:12Allah forgive me,
09:14I am not saying this as a claim.
09:16I am saying this as a blessing of Allah.
09:18The way Allah made me,
09:20through me,
09:22the life of my Prophet's house,
09:24to be presented in front of people,
09:26this is the first time.
09:28So, worship, worship, worship.
09:30So, you are my students,
09:32as your wife,
09:34as your parents' daughter-in-law.
09:36So, you should feel like I am at my parents' house.
09:39On the fourth day, she started getting taunts.
09:41I will tell you the story of my house.
09:43Allah made me happy.
09:45When I opened my eyes, there were servants.
09:47Servants, a line of servants.
09:49Allah got me married.
09:51The culture of the house.
09:53And my mother,
09:55whenever she made a salad, she made it.
09:57Otherwise, servants, servants.
09:59That is why my mother did not know how to cook good food
10:00so she made a salad.
10:02She did not have to do it.
10:04Now, I got married.
10:06My wife is from Faisalabad, a city girl.
10:08We are wild people.
10:10What do you say?
10:12What does it mean?
10:14Oh, come up.
10:16Oh, come down.
10:18The whole day, she was sitting.
10:20Oh, I do not understand what you people are saying.
10:22This is her condition.
10:24And she sat down.
10:26Now, all the old ladies,
10:28aunts, aunts,
10:30all of them got together.
10:32What is the case?
10:34Your mother roasts the whole day.
10:37And your wife is sitting on your bed.
10:44I said, I live in this house.
10:46When did my mother roast?
10:48I have never seen it.
10:50Today, my wife came.
10:52I saw my mother roasting.
10:54This is the culture.
10:56This is the mother.
10:57She is roasting every day.
10:59She is roasting.
11:03Children, we have to change this society.
11:07And then, what is the second meaning of dress?
11:10Dress makes me beautiful.
11:12Husband and wife,
11:14Husband and wife's relationship makes each other beautiful.
11:17It should never be high or low.
11:19Like a dress,
11:21if it is torn from a nail,
11:23we leave it as it is and stitch it immediately.
11:25It should never be high or low.
11:27If it is torn from a nail,
11:29we leave it as it is and stitch it immediately.
11:31It should never be high or low.
11:33Like a dress,
11:35if it is torn from a nail,
11:37we leave it as it is and stitch it immediately.
11:39We don't let it get stained.
11:41Before eating, we cover it with a cloth
11:43so that it doesn't get stained.
11:45And we cover it with a towel
11:47so that it doesn't get stained.
11:49So that it doesn't get stained on wife's heart
11:51because of your misbehavior.
11:53And so that it doesn't get stained on husband's heart
11:55because of wife's misbehavior.
11:57If I had prostrated in my Shariah,
11:59I would have told my wife to prostrate to my husband.
12:03And the woman whose wife got upset with her husband
12:08without any reason,
12:10Allah and his angels curse her all night.
12:18Then there is another meaning of dress.
12:20When you were young,
12:22your parents used to buy you clothes.
12:24Now you have grown up,
12:25you buy the clothes of your choice.
12:28I like white clothes.
12:30So I wear this all year round,
12:32all winters, all summers.
12:34First I wore what my mother made me wear.
12:36And when I went to college,
12:38I wore whatever I liked.
12:40So,
12:43I got a three-piece suit stitched.
12:45I also remembered the name Shafiq Tillers.
12:48I stitched it for 80 rupees.
12:50So the whole hostel was excited.
12:5380 rupees for a suit.
12:56I didn't wear a necklace worth 80 rupees.
13:02When Allah gave us the choice,
13:04then the dress is of our choice.
13:06So, the word dress indicates
13:08that in a marriage,
13:10boys and girls should be taken care of.
13:15We don't make our elder children wear the dress of their choice.
13:20We leave it to them.
13:22The word dress indicates
13:24that in the future,
13:26you are going to pass through this valley,
13:28I don't know what your parents will do to you.
13:30So,
13:32in the future,
13:34it is considered wrong to ask your daughters.
13:37And if a daughter tells you her choice,
13:39she becomes a criminal.
13:41Son,
13:43you commit adultery day and night,
13:45it's okay.
13:47If the daughter says it,
13:49then you should kill her.
13:50This is wrong.
13:52This is Satan.
13:54A daughter is also a human being,
13:56she can't commit adultery.
14:00In the whole world,
14:02women are oppressed.
14:04That's why I talk a lot about them.
14:08I brought someone's daughter home.
14:11She left her mother, father, brother,
14:14she left her sisters,
14:16she left her home,
14:17and she said,
14:19I don't respect her,
14:21she is not a human being.
14:23They kill,
14:25they kill women in the villages,
14:27they break their legs.
14:29Whether they are Sindhi, Punjabi,
14:31Pathan or Baloch.
14:33It's a bad society.
14:35Why did my Prophet marry nine times?
14:37Just to tell us how life was at home.
14:41Because,
14:43through this camera,
14:44I have heard a lot,
14:46so I am not talking about your level,
14:48I am talking about the level of parents.
14:50Parents should first ask their children,
14:53do you agree?
14:55If they say okay, then okay.
14:57And then I also say,
14:59don't be so brave
15:01to break the opinion of your parents
15:03and go to court and get married.
15:05This is also a very wrong step.
15:07Sharan will be legal,
15:09but life will become a thorn in the flesh.
15:11Parents' prayers will not be accepted.
15:12So I say to you,
15:14don't do this injustice.
15:16Don't impose your will.
15:18So Allah has presented this beautiful relationship
15:21in such a beautiful way through clothes.
15:24Subhanallah.
15:26May Allah grant us the morals of the Prophet.
15:29Only Sheikh Ramzi can tell the whole Quran.
15:31I will tell you the verse that I like the most.
15:33And the verses of the Quran
15:35which are related to society,
15:37necessity and life,
15:39which we need to pay more attention to today,
15:42are in front of you.
15:44So I am trying to make your actions
15:46an element of knowledge.
15:48May Allah grant me.
16:12May Allah grant me.
16:14May Allah grant me.
16:16May Allah grant me.
16:18May Allah grant me.
16:20May Allah grant me.
16:22May Allah grant me.