It's Showtime: Relasyon, nasira dahil sa pag-sad posting ng ex! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (August 24, 2024): Nanlamig ang relasyon nina Maro at Pat dahil mahilig maghanap ng ibang kakausapin ang dalaga sa social media imbes na ang kanyang nobyo.
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00:00And then, why did you stop talking to each other?
00:03It was just a simple morning, it was fun, right?
00:05When did you start to stop talking to each other?
00:07The issue was that he was always looking for someone to talk to.
00:12When you fight, right?
00:14When we fight, it's just minor issues.
00:17Minor issues?
00:18I can see him posting on social media.
00:20That's his style before.
00:22Yes.
00:23How did he look for someone to talk to on Facebook?
00:25What was his post?
00:26It was like a gay story.
00:28When you fight, what did he put on the wall?
00:32I don't remember exactly.
00:35But the context was like, talk to me.
00:39Ah, like a cryptic message.
00:41There were also sad emojis.
00:44Ah, sad emojis.
00:48So when you have a problem, he makes you feel that you have a problem on social media.
00:54And then he rants?
00:56Yes, when we fight, it's just minor issues.
00:59Then he adds things like that.
01:01What's wrong with him looking for someone to talk to on social media?
01:04Is he looking for a guy to talk to?
01:06What's wrong with that?
01:08For me, I don't do that.
01:10Because I know I'll hurt him in case I do that.
01:13But you already knew him, right?
01:15That's his personality, right?
01:17Yes.
01:18We talked about that.
01:20But there were times when he repeated it.
01:23Let's ask Pat.
01:25Why do you do that?
01:27Maybe he has a deep reason why he does that.
01:30Why do you look for someone to talk to on social media?
01:32Don't you have a family or friends to talk to?
01:35I do have friends.
01:38But I don't talk to many people because I'm busy.
01:42When I want to talk to someone, he gets angry.
01:47It's like I can't talk to anyone.
01:49I go back to posting things like that.
01:52But it's not like I'm flirting.
01:55It's just that I want to talk to someone.
01:57You seek comfort.
01:59You look for someone to talk to.
02:01Yes.
02:02When you get angry, do you talk to people you don't like?
02:07Yes.
02:08You get jealous.
02:09Who do you talk to when you post things like that?
02:13My friends.
02:14Boys or girls?
02:15I also have boys.
02:17But as a public servant,
02:19I'm open to everything.
02:22If someone chats with me, I'll reply to them.
02:28But in your post, it's not about your public service.
02:32It's personal.
02:33It's not about public service.
02:35If your topic is public service, I'm sure he wouldn't mind, right?
02:38Yes.
02:39But it's personal.
02:40And you're talking to guys in your post
02:43that you're not talking about public service.
02:46I feel like that's where he'll take offense.
02:48Am I right?
02:49Yes, that's true.
02:50Am I right?
02:51When you're talking to someone and he's jealous,
02:54he'll take offense because you're talking to a guy
02:58who's not talking about public service?
03:00In our situation, that hasn't happened yet.
03:04There's no boy that he's jealous of.
03:08It's just my friends who are guys
03:12and they comfort me.
03:15But they're just friends.
03:18Of course, guys will think,
03:21why do you have to do that?
03:23Why do you have to?
03:24It's like you're looking for attention
03:31from other people.
03:33Of course, if you're in a fight, you're the only one who can fix it.
03:36But if we look at social media,
03:39a lot of people are getting attention.
03:42That's why a lot of people are posting their status.
03:46Their status that they're not being noticed by their friends at home.
03:50That's where they're posting it.
03:51Maybe that's where they're being noticed.
03:53They're writing what they're feeling.
03:56Because what they're feeling,
03:58it's not like they don't care about their friends at home.
04:00So that's where they get comfort.
04:02They're really being noticed.
04:04But Maru already talked about it,
04:06that it shouldn't have happened.
04:08Am I right, Maru?
04:09Yes, that's true.
04:10But why did you still do it, Pat?
04:12The situation is still the same.
04:14When we fight,
04:16he doesn't talk to me.
04:18He's angry.
04:19So it's like a lack of something.
04:20It's like that.
04:22What I'm thinking is,
04:24where will I get...
04:27Where will I...
04:30Will you feel bad?
04:32Yes.
04:33You need a shoulder to lean on.
04:35But you're an SK, right?
04:37Why don't you go to the barangay?
04:39To those who can afford it.
04:41If people have a problem, they go to the barangay.
04:43That's where you'll complain.
04:45But I don't want to talk anymore.
04:47I just shared it.
04:49But Pat is crying.
04:51He's hoping that it's Maru.
04:53But he's not there.
04:54He might be noticed by Maru.
04:56It's like...
04:57But it's also true.
04:59Maybe he's posing it for the universe to see.
05:02But it's for you to react.
05:04It's for you.
05:05To realize.
05:06Let's fix this.
05:07Yes, I get Pat.
05:09But I don't want to talk anymore.
05:12So, that's how it is.
05:14That's how it is.
05:19So, you didn't realize it, Maru.
05:22For me,
05:24it's my nature to calm down before talking.
05:28But of course, it's like this.
05:30I was surprised when he said that.
05:32I was also a bit scared.
05:33But I don't want to talk anymore.
05:34It's like you need to...
05:36Calm down.
05:38It's true.
05:39You need to downgrade.
05:41Why downgrade?
05:42Is your anger upgraded?
05:44You need to downgrade.
05:46Because if you're angry later,
05:48you'll be more pitiful.
05:50It's true.
05:51You know,
05:52as partners,
05:53we need to learn that.
05:55Sometimes,
05:56the non-talking
05:59or the flirting of our partners
06:01or their hesitation to go away
06:03doesn't mean that they don't like us
06:06or that they don't love us anymore.
06:07They just need time out.
06:10It's valid.
06:11They just need to downgrade.
06:13Because if you force them to talk,
06:15it'll be worse.
06:16Correct.
06:17The fight will break out.
06:19Right.
06:20And you can't get back
06:21what you said.
06:22Sometimes,
06:23we have to respect each other's silence.
06:25Yeah.
06:27So, you're just downgrading.
06:28Don't you know him?
06:29He's also like that.
06:30He's just downgrading
06:31that's why he doesn't flirt.
06:33I know that,
06:35but when we have a fight,
06:39he gets angry right away.
06:41It's like,
06:42he doesn't want to talk properly
06:46so that we can fix it right away.
06:49Because I don't want the fight to last long.
06:51He's not like that.
06:52When he gets angry,
06:53he doesn't want to talk properly.
06:55When you have a problem,
06:57you want to talk to him right away.
06:59You confront the problem right away.
07:00It won't work.
07:01You need to...
07:02You need to adjust.
07:04You need to give.
07:06You need to give.
07:08And you need to accept
07:10what's the truth between you two.
07:13He's like that.
07:14I'm like this.
07:15So, how do you make it work?
07:17Your differences.
07:19Because those are the stages of a relationship.
07:22First,
07:23playing,
07:24flirting,
07:25and falling in love.
07:26Yes.
07:27After falling in love,
07:29being serious.
07:31You need to be serious.
07:32What happened to you?
07:33You flirted and fell in love.
07:35You became serious.
07:36When you became serious,
07:38you didn't flirt anymore.
07:41But you were serious.
07:42Right?
07:43You still wanted to be serious.
07:44Then,
07:45thirdly,
07:46you discover the things you don't like about each other.
07:51After that,
07:52there are more stages.
07:54Others stop there.
07:56Yes.
07:57When they discover
07:58the things they don't like about each other,
08:00they say,
08:01I don't like that.
08:02I'm out of here.
08:04No one adjusts.
08:05But there are more stages.
08:08Yes.
08:09After you discover each other,
08:11the next stage,
08:13you will try to make it work.
08:15Because you are important to each other
08:18and you love each other.
08:20The next stage is
08:22you will decide
08:24that even though you have many differences,
08:27you still choose each other.
08:29Commitment.
08:30You're committed.
08:33Many people stop at the third stage.
08:36After learning and realizing the differences,
08:39the things that
08:40are not attractive,
08:42are not beautiful,
08:44are not attractive,
08:46are not attractive,
08:47you're out.
08:51You don't study the differences.
08:54You force each other.
08:56How do we make it work?
08:59You force each other.
09:00No two people are the same.
09:03You're right.
09:04Plus, the age.
09:06Sometimes, when you're young,
09:08you're a bit impatient.
09:09When you make a decision,
09:10you don't think.
09:11You're straightforward.
09:12Of course, when you're mature,
09:14you still think,
09:17it's a waste if I give up.
09:21How old were you then?
09:23I was 25,
09:25then he was 21.
09:26Can you tell me,
09:27when you were 25 or 21,
09:28weren't you mature about love?
09:32I can say that we weren't that mature.
09:36We had a lot of flaws at that time.
09:38How about you, Pat?
09:40Yes.
09:41Because there's an age.
09:43Maturity is important.
09:45There's an age when you force each other.
09:49You're learning how to work.
09:52There's also an age when you're a bit impatient,
09:54you'll fight even if there's no reason.
09:57Because when you love each other,
09:59you'll find a way to fix it.
10:01Like them,
10:02they said that they'll only build issues
10:04when they fight.
10:05Then they'll go home.
10:07Correct.
10:08Do you know what their issue is?
10:10What's their issue?
10:11Candy crush.
10:15What's higher?
10:16The sweet or the divine?
10:19But what's the real reason they broke up?
10:21Of course, it's just an issue.
10:23It's a recurring issue.
10:25But what's the real reason?
10:27I don't want to split it.
10:29Who can tell the story?
10:32Maybe me.
10:33I'm the one who broke up.
10:35Why?
10:37First of all,
10:38I'm with his brother and his father.
10:42I'm also with my best friend.
10:43Because you're always bonding.
10:44Yes.
10:45They're so cute.
10:46They're drinking and bonding.
10:48Tell your story.
10:49I don't want to talk.
10:50Then,
10:51I brought them home.
10:53Yes.
10:54Because you went out.
10:55You brought his father and his brother home.
10:57Yes.
10:58Tell your story.
10:59Then,
11:00when I got to their house,
11:02I brought...
11:03Him. He's there.
11:04Yes.
11:05He's surprised at you.
11:07You went out with his father and his brother.
11:09You're bonding.
11:10You brought him home.
11:12Pat is there.
11:13You brought him, right?
11:14Yes.
11:15What happened?
11:16Tell your story.
11:17I don't want to talk.
11:18They had a video call.
11:20It was an ex-MU.
11:22Ex-what?
11:23Ex-MU?
11:24Ex-MU.
11:25I know the guy.
11:27You know the guy?
11:29Just by name.
11:31Just by name?
11:32Are you from the same barangay?
11:33I'm from the same barangay.
11:34Are you from the same province?
11:36No.
11:37Of course,
11:38Yes.
11:39blood was boiling.
11:41Yes.
11:42What did you do when you saw
11:44the video call?
11:45Yes.
11:46The ex-MU.
11:47Ex-MU.
11:48Yes.
11:49What did you do?
11:50What did you say to him?
11:51I said to him,
11:52Don't go down.
11:53Because...
11:54Don't go down?
11:55Yes.
11:56He got angry.
11:57Then he went down.
11:58He went down?
11:59Yes.
12:00Were his father and brother there?
12:01Did they hear that?
12:02No.
12:03They went up at that time.
12:04His father didn't see it.
12:05You can't blame Pat if he went down.
12:09Yes.
12:10Because they were like that.
12:11They were singing.
12:13He said,
12:14Don't go down.
12:16They were singing for 3 hours.
12:17He was waiting for the charger.
12:18He was confused.
12:19So, he went down.
12:21But, confirm.
12:22Did you confirm that
12:23your ex-MU was the one you were talking to?
12:25Yes.
12:26What were you talking about?
12:27Were you fighting?
12:29No.
12:30Was it a public service topic?
12:31Yes.
12:32How will he clean the canal?
12:33What were you talking about?
12:35He suddenly called me
12:37in the early morning.
12:38I was also curious.
12:40Oh.
12:43Your ex-MU called you in the early morning, right?
12:46Yes.
12:47Was it a beauty call?
12:48Yes.
12:49Beauty.
12:50Oh, it wasn't?
12:51It was a drunk call.
12:53Yes.
12:54Beauty call.
12:55Where are you?
12:56Oh, okay.
12:57It was a public service.
12:59Talk to me.
13:00Open.
13:01Wait.
13:02Put down the phone.
13:03Talk to me.
13:04Where are you?
13:05You were the one who asked.
13:07Why?
13:08Why?
13:09What do you want?
13:11Nothing.
13:12Nothing.
13:13I just came from the bar.
13:14I was about to go home.
13:15Then suddenly,
13:16I felt sad.
13:18And I thought of you.
13:20It's already late.
13:23And I already have a boyfriend.
13:25It's nothing.
13:26I just want to talk to you.
13:28It's like we're not together.
13:31What else do you want to talk about?
13:33Where's your boyfriend?
13:35He's with his dad and sister.
13:37Your boyfriend is not there.
13:39What else do you want to talk about?
13:41It's nothing.
13:42I just missed you.
13:48Don't be like that.
13:49Did you drink?
13:51Yes, but just a little.
13:53Just three bottles.
13:56Just three bottles.
13:58But he put all the alcohol.
14:01That's why.
14:02He's a strong person.
14:03That's not it.
14:04Why?
14:06Why?
14:07Because...
14:08Why are you calling me?
14:10It's already late.
14:11How about you?
14:12Tell me honestly.
14:14It's already late, right?
14:15You already have a boyfriend, right?
14:17Why did you answer?
14:20Because I'm a public servant.
14:23Public service above all.
14:25I love it.
14:26Public service above all.
14:29What else do you want?
14:31Do you need an ID?
14:32Tell me the truth.
14:33Do you need an ID?
14:34Tell me the truth.
14:35You missed me, right?
14:42Wait for Pat to explain.
14:44I didn't say that's his story.
14:46I said there are people like that.
14:47Yes, there are people like that.
14:49They're from Tipsy Pig.
14:51I don't want to promote you.
14:53Sometimes, he just dares.
14:55In Tipsy Pig, we'll be there at 2 o'clock.
14:57Those who are asking,
14:59who wants to watch so they can call their exes?
15:04Tell us what happened in your story.
15:07I was curious that he's calling at that time.
15:11Actually, my ex-MU is a brother of my ex-SK colleague.
15:16So, his family is also close to me.
15:19Curious? What's curious?
15:22I thought it's for emergency or what?
15:26Or does he need something?
15:27That's what I thought.
15:30Why does he look like that?
15:33I want to know.
15:36I want to know your honesty.
15:38I want to know, Maro.
15:40When you caught them, what did you hear?
15:43Did you hear that it's an emergency?
15:45Yes.
15:46About public service?
15:48And what's his position?
15:50Where is he?
15:51Does he sit on the sofa?
15:54Or does he sit like that?
15:57Or does he hug?
16:00What's the situation?
16:01Do you want me to demonstrate?
16:02Yes, please.
16:03Is he sitting there?
16:05No, you're sitting there.
16:06What's his position?
16:08I'm sitting there.
16:09Where is he?
16:11He's the one you showed.
16:13You're also Pat.
16:15You're also Pat.
16:16You showed Pat.
16:17You're also Pat.
16:18It's hard for you to talk.
16:19You're also Pat.
16:20Maro as Pat.
16:21How is Pat?
16:22What does he look like when you saw him?
16:23He's sitting like that.
16:25I'm Pat.
16:26You're Pat.
16:27Maro is Maro.
16:30I know now.
16:31Why?
16:33Why?
16:34It's hard for you to talk.
16:36I can't blame Pat.
16:38He's looking for someone to talk to on Facebook.
16:41He's calling his ex-girlfriends.
16:44I can't blame him.
16:46It's okay.
16:49Okay.
16:50What did you hear him talking about?
16:52I didn't hear much.
16:54But I know it's him.
16:56When the call went down, I checked who it was.
16:59You saw the name.
17:00Why were you nervous when you saw him?
17:02You didn't say anything bad.
17:03No.
17:04That's why I deleted the call.
17:08Because I heard him getting angry.
17:13I just wanted to explain.
17:15So if he's not angry, you will continue talking to the guy?
17:17No.
17:18But he said he's sitting like that.
17:22Are you saying something?
17:23Do you want me to close the door?
17:24No.
17:25I heard that he had a video call.
17:28That's why I sat like that.
17:30If he's like that,
17:32Whenever I see you.
17:35Is it Seymory Chan?
17:36It was in September.
17:38I think it was in September.
17:39That's why.
17:41Yes.
17:42When he's angry, it's okay.
17:44Yes.
17:45But something happened.
17:46Shopee, Shopee, Shopee.
17:48Shopee, Shopee, Shopee.
17:49Shopee, Shopee, Shopee.
17:50It was in May.
17:51This is a serious question.
17:54You answered the call because you were curious.
17:56Maybe it's important.
17:58Maybe it's an emergency.
18:00When you found out, was it an emergency call?
18:03When I found out,
18:04Was it an emergency call?
18:06No.
18:07That's why I killed him.
18:09When he got angry.
18:12Yes.
18:13How long did you talk before he came?
18:15We just called him.
18:18He really came.
18:22That's it.
18:23No further questions, Your Honor.
18:27For my client,
18:28Do you agree with what Pat said?
18:33I agree.
18:35Okay.
18:36You found out.
18:37But he said it's nothing.
18:39Why did you still break up?
18:40Do you have any proof?
18:42I went to the guy's house.
18:43Yes.
18:44And I didn't hide it.
18:45Yes.
18:46So when I woke up,
18:47I was frustrated.
18:49I was also hurt.
18:51So he came to me.
18:54The guy?
18:55Yes.
18:56Pat.
18:57He came to me.
18:59When I woke up,
19:02I asked for his cell phone number.
19:04Then he notified me on Instagram.
19:08Then I saw that
19:10he was talking to the person who likes him.
19:18Are you a call center?
19:22What did you see on the notification?
19:24He's just friendly.
19:26He notified me.
19:27Then I read the message.
19:29What did he say?
19:30It's about...
19:31It's like...
19:33It's like my interpretation.
19:35It's comforting.
19:37But...
19:38That's my interpretation.
19:41At that time,
19:42I was frustrated.
19:44Then another frustration and disappointment came.
19:48So it's clear here.
19:50Even if he's your boyfriend,
19:52you talk to your ex,
19:54and you...
19:55You chat.
19:57You chat with guys who like you.
20:00But I'm not saying that you're talking to someone.
20:03You're just entertaining them.
20:06With my ex,
20:07it was just once.
20:09You entertained him.
20:10Yes.
20:11And with the one who's courting you,
20:12it was also just once.
20:13No, he's not courting me.
20:15The one who likes you.
20:16Yes.
20:17It was also just once.
20:18Yes, it was also just once.
20:19It's like...
20:20My friend who likes me
20:22also said that
20:24I can talk to him.
20:26So I went to him.
20:28What right did he have to give you that advice?
20:31It's like we just talked.
20:34Oh, so you already talked.
20:36You already had a prior topic.
20:38Yes.
20:39When he saw you,
20:40that was the first time he messaged you.
20:42That was not the first time.
20:43No.
20:44You really messaged each other.
20:45Yes.
20:46He even posted you on the wall.
20:47We've been friends for a long time.
20:54Okay.
20:55Because we don't know.
20:56They're the only ones who know
20:58what they're talking about.
20:59If there's really something wrong with him.
21:01When is being friendly not okay?
21:05When is being friendly...
21:12It's like you're on the boundary.
21:14Yes.
21:15You're crossing the line.
21:18When can we say,
21:20this is just a casual conversation.
21:22Because there are times when...
21:26We know there are those simple...
21:30How are you?
21:32Those simple...
21:33Right?
21:34But we don't know about him.
21:35I'm not saying that's what happened to Pat.
21:37You're the only ones who experience that.
21:39But you, at that point,
21:40you feel like there's something wrong with you.
21:43So goodbye.
21:45Yes.
21:46What did you feel after saying goodbye?
21:48Did you feel good?
21:49That what I did was right?
21:51Did you not blame him?
21:53At first, it was frustrations and disappointment.
21:57Of course, I was also disappointed
21:58because I experienced that.
22:00And so I was frustrated with what happened.
22:03Then I felt that it's time to let go.
22:08Because I feel like it was repeated
22:11and then it was added on and on.
22:13And when that happened,
22:15I felt like we're not growing together anymore.
22:17Do you have a point that
22:19when you let go of your frustration,
22:22you wish you let it go first?
22:24Because you didn't prove anything to me
22:27that Pat is no more.
22:28You don't have that.
22:30No, I don't.
22:32Until the end,
22:33you feel like you made the right decision.
22:35Yes.
22:36How about you, Pat?
22:38What did you feel when he let go because of...
22:42At that time,
22:44when he didn't want to let go,
22:47I begged him.
22:49I even cried.
22:54I said,
22:57what a waste of the things we did together.
23:03The things we did together.
23:05I mean,
23:06it's like,
23:07can it be destroyed
23:11Can it be destroyed
23:12just because of that?
23:14There's no proof
23:16that it's a waste of time.
23:19Maybe,
23:21I had a lot of problems at that time.
23:24So,
23:25my emotion was like,
23:29I want to let it out.
23:31That's all.
23:32My mistake was
23:34I talked to others
23:36even though I don't have something or what.
23:39Maybe, I made a lot of mistakes.
23:41But,
23:42I know that I love him.
23:46Question.
23:47To the girls,
23:49when you have a boyfriend,
23:52do you have a conscious effort
23:55to avoid men,
23:57to talk to them,
23:59to the girls you entertain,
24:02especially if you know that there's something going on?
24:06Do you have a conscious effort to avoid them?
24:08No, I won't entertain this talk,
24:10this conversation.
24:11Yes, of course.
24:12You should avoid it.
24:13Because you protect not just your space,
24:16but as a couple,
24:17your space.
24:18Even though you're not doing anything wrong.
24:20Yes.
24:21Respect.
24:22It's a sign of respect to your partner.
24:32You