It's Showtime: Single mom, kinukwestiyon ang sarili sa failed relationship! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (August 30, 2024): Hindi maiwasan ni Sharmaine na kuwestiyunin ang kanyang sarili at ang kanyang worth lalo na kapag sinusubukan niyang pumasok ulit sa relasyon.
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00:00Once more.
00:01But this ex-boyfriend we're talking about,
00:03is he not one of your two fathers?
00:05No, he's not.
00:06He's different.
00:08But, last question before we proceed with the question.
00:11You're not the type of person that
00:14depends on a guy to be happy and complete.
00:22It's kind of like that too.
00:23Because, I feel like that's what's lacking.
00:28Because, like what I said,
00:30relationships are always filled.
00:32So, sometimes I wonder if there's a problem with me.
00:38Because, why are my friends happy?
00:41Their family is happy.
00:42It's okay. They already have kids.
00:45Then, why am I like that?
00:47So, that's what I sometimes ask God.
00:54Did you ask yourself?
00:57Why?
00:58Who are you answering to? God or yourself?
01:00Him, of course.
01:01You need to realize why you're like this.
01:04You need to realize why your life is like this.
01:08What's the problem?
01:10What's lacking?
01:11What's wrong?
01:12Did you ask yourself?
01:14Yes, I also question myself.
01:16You answered.
01:17No, I didn't.
01:18Why didn't you answer?
01:19Didn't you repeat it?
01:19No, I didn't.
01:22But, actually,
01:27I've reached the point where I question my worth.
01:31I feel like,
01:33especially now that I have a child,
01:35I feel like, when I say that I have a child,
01:39I'll hesitate.
01:41If your child asked you,
01:43Mommy, what went wrong?
01:47Why didn't your relationship with my father succeed?
01:50What would you answer?
01:53It's hard because,
01:56especially when my children are still young,
01:587 and then 12 years old.
02:00Actually, one of my children is here.
02:03He's here to support me.
02:05Maybe what I'll say is,
02:08now, I can't really explain.
02:10Maybe when they grow up, they'll understand.
02:14But you,
02:15it's different when you can't explain
02:17because it's hard to explain.
02:18But you, you know what happened.
02:21Especially when we're jumping into a new relationship.
02:26We should also review what happened to me.
02:30What happened to us?
02:31For example, in class, you fell.
02:34Think about it.
02:35Your mom will ask you,
02:36Son, why did you fall?
02:37What happened?
02:39Didn't you study?
02:40Are you rebelling?
02:42Are you not interested?
02:43Are you having a problem?
02:44Because before, your grades were high.
02:45Why did you fall?
02:47You're being assessed, right?
02:49Did you even try to assess?
02:51Yourself.
02:54Yes, I did assess him.
02:58But in my part,
03:00especially because my children are girls,
03:04maybe,
03:06the problem is,
03:09I love them too much.
03:11Maybe that's it.
03:13Like,
03:15To the point where they're far from you?
03:18No, it's like,
03:19I'm just taking everything.
03:21What's happening.
03:23You're taking everything?
03:24What does that mean?
03:26Even if I know that
03:28I'm being hurt,
03:30that I'm being fooled,
03:32I'll still go for it.
03:33That's the problem.
03:35That's the main problem.
03:37But I don't want to give up.
03:39Because I don't want us to be a broken family.
03:41So, as much as possible,
03:44I'll stick to it.
03:45How do you choose the people
03:47you let into your life?
03:49Of course, the ones I know will accept my children.
03:52That's number one.
03:53Does your ex-husband accept you?
03:54The second one,
03:56my second child,
03:57my youngest,
03:59he did accept me at first.
04:03But you said you're being hurt,
04:04you're just accepting.
04:06So, even if you're being hurt,
04:07you're still accepting your child?
04:08No, because,
04:09at first,
04:11he's just showing off.
04:13But later on,
04:14as time went by,
04:16he let go of his true colors.
04:20Because sometimes,
04:23we don't like someone,
04:25but we don't know
04:27if that's the one we're always choosing.
04:29We're attracted to someone.
04:30That's why you should assess,
04:32why did I become like that?
04:34Why do I love someone
04:37like a savage?
04:39It's like you're always going to
04:40the same situation over and over again.
04:41Yes.
04:42Why am I attracted to someone
04:44that I won't take seriously,
04:45but I still like?
04:47You're looking for someone.
04:48Yes, something like that.
04:49Why am I attracted to someone
04:53who looks like a woman?
04:54Someone like that?
04:56I think he's settling,
04:57because at first,
04:58he's thinking that
04:59his children need to have a father.
05:01So, it's like,
05:02no matter who it is,
05:03he doesn't care too much.
05:05He's just accepting.
05:06Is that it?
05:07Do you want your children to have a father?
05:09Of course,
05:11I really want a complete family.
05:13Of course,
05:15I'm also looking for someone
05:17who will truly love
05:19me and my children.
05:22Of course,
05:23it's like a total package.
05:25If you love me,
05:26you should also love your children.
05:28It should be like that.
05:31But the question is,
05:32should you look for them a father?
05:34No.
05:35I'm not looking for them,
05:37but when I tried,
05:40it was...
05:41You should love yourself.
05:42No, because she said,
05:43the reason is,
05:44she wants to have a father,
05:46so when you're in a relationship,
05:48the reason is,
05:49you're in love with the person.
05:51You're in love with the person,
05:53but you're considering that
05:55the person you love
05:56should accept your child.
05:58Yes, it should.
05:59Because you should love the person first.
06:02Because if you're accepting
06:04your child first,
06:05it's okay,
06:06I don't love you anymore,
06:07but I accept you.
06:08Right?
06:09Yes,
06:10I've never loved someone
06:12that I don't love.
06:14No,
06:15when I love someone,
06:17my family knows,
06:18it's all out.