Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Maricar and Richard, may isyu ba sa pagpapahiram ng pera? (Episode 405)
Aired (August 19, 2024): Naging isyu ba sa mag-asawang sina Maricar Reyes at Richard Poon ang pagpapahiram ng pera sa kanilang mga kaibigan o pamilya? Alamin sa video.
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00:00Criticizing more than helping, can you be more specific?
00:08This is interesting.
00:09For example, your weakness and strength, how can you help that?
00:14So for example, his weakness is, he was offended because he is so nice, so he was offended
00:22and his processing was slow.
00:24Slow?
00:25Before he found out that, oh, I was angry, it was slow.
00:29But for me, it was super fast.
00:31So instead of saying, you process your emotions slowly, instead of saying that, no, it's like
00:36this, you didn't say anything, but I know you're offended, suddenly, yes, I'm offended.
00:42So help him, instead of, you're slow, he's like that.
00:47Her personality is slower to process.
00:50So instead of criticizing it, you have to help because you're a helpmate, you're the one
00:57who has to help.
00:59You're going to help him because I'm faster, so I'm going to help you, I'm not going to
01:03offend you.
01:04I have to change that paradigm because if you offend him, you're going to be more separated
01:12because he feels like he's small.
01:14Lending money to others, this is even a more common problem.
01:18Oh gosh.
01:19How is this?
01:20It's up to you.
01:21It's up to you.
01:22I learned from you.
01:23In the book also, we have, before we got married, I had this, I have this book, it's
01:28called Before We Got Married.
01:29I had this close person that for several years, I was lending money because there's always
01:34an emergency, there's always something like that.
01:37And then, before we got married, we talked about finances, we discussed things like that.
01:43And then, I told him about this person, and then, I told him how much I gave him over
01:50the years, and then he's like, that's too much.
01:54You can set boundaries financially, but this is the crucial thing that I never heard from
01:59anybody else.
02:01You stop lending, but you still try to have a relationship because I'm close to him.
02:07So you still have a relationship.
02:09You still try to preserve the relationship, like you still date him, you go out with him,
02:15you give him free time.
02:16Do conversations.
02:17Yes.
02:18But lending money, up to that point, because you gave him too much.
02:21But that's a very difficult problem.
02:23For example, when you have a child, or a close friend, you lend money 20 times.
02:28The only time you don't lend money is when you're pregnant.
02:31Yes.
02:32This is what we're going to talk about.
02:33Let's do fast talk.
02:34Woo!
02:35Woo!
02:36Let's do fast talk.
02:37And we have two minutes to do this, and our time begins now.
02:43Maricar, beauty or brains?
02:45Beauty.
02:46Sexy or demure?
02:47Sexy.
02:48Author or actress?
02:49Author.
02:50How many sweets does Richard have?
02:52All the time.
02:53When is Richard the hottest?
02:55Morning.
02:56Maricar, Richard when he wakes up or Richard before he goes to sleep?
03:00Both.
03:01Richard, how about you?
03:03Happy wife or happy husband?
03:05Happy wife.
03:06What's your most Filipino trait, Richard?
03:10Storytelling.
03:11What's your most Chinese trait?
03:14I'm good with money.
03:15When is Maricar the most clingy?
03:18All day.
03:19When is Maricar the sexiest?
03:21When he's asleep.
03:24Between the two of you, who's the softest?
03:27Both.
03:28Who's the most jealous?
03:30Neither of us.
03:32Who's the most expensive?
03:34Me, by a little.
03:37Who's the most sleepy?
03:39Me.
03:40Who's the first to say sorry?
03:42Both.
03:43Who's the first to get mad?
03:45I think it's me.
03:47Is that lights on or lights off?
03:49Off.
03:51Off, but there's a lamp.
03:55Happiness or chocolates?
03:56Happiness with chocolates.
04:00Best time for chocolates?
04:04Morning and evening.
04:06If you are to give your love story a title,
04:10what is the answer to the return of Fast Talk with Boy Abune?
04:21Fast Talk with Boy Abune
04:24Every Friday at 8 p.m.
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04:50You