Aired (August 16, 2024): Sa murang edad ay nagkaroon ng anxiety si Ron dahil malaki ang naging epekto ng paghihiwalay ng kanyang mga magulang.
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00:00He had anxiety.
00:02There were so many times when he couldn't breathe, Mommy.
00:08He said that he didn't experience what happened to his father.
00:13That's why I was so angry with him.
00:15Because if you didn't give my son the broken family,
00:19I told you that this wouldn't happen to him.
00:22I told you what he was attacking.
00:26He said, Mommy, Mommy, I can't breathe.
00:36I took him to the hospital early in the morning.
00:38There were just the two of us.
00:41When we got to the hospital, he was fine.
00:44I was working.
00:48I didn't know that...
00:49When I was in the office,
00:51I knew that he was in school.
00:53Because I was giving him medicine,
00:55he couldn't breathe for a long time.
00:58He was afraid that something would happen to him when he went out.
01:04That's how he felt.
01:06He was traumatized.
01:07Traumatized, right?
01:08Traumatized.
01:10How did you deal with it?
01:11Your trauma?
01:12How was your trauma?
01:14Was it a process?
01:15How are you now, Ron?
01:17Now, I'm okay.
01:20I'm able to cope up with what happened.
01:24But it's not something that will go away.
01:27It will stay with me for the rest of my life.
01:30That's why I'm just thinking of continuing.
01:37To continue to take care of my mom, me, and even myself.
01:41You're amazing, Ron.
01:43It's hard.
01:45It's so hard.
01:48We all have trauma.
01:50No one...
01:52It's good that I don't have trauma.
01:54We all have trauma.
01:56We should know what our trauma is.
01:58We should know what our trauma is,
02:00acknowledge it,
02:02and learn how to deal with it.
02:06Right?
02:08How do we face these traumas?
02:10What are the effects of these traumas?
02:14We should process it.
02:16At least, she knows.
02:18As you grow older, you'll understand
02:20how you'll face these traumas.
02:22How will you overcome them?
02:24How will you overcome them?
02:26But we're happy you're okay now.
02:28Yes.
02:30That's what I've been holding on to
02:32since my mom's separation.
02:34I joined different groups.
02:36I served in the church.
02:38That's where I spent most of my time.
02:42Because at that time,
02:44I told my wife
02:46that I didn't want to go home
02:48because it's chaotic.
02:50There's always a fight.
02:52There's trauma.
02:54When I see the place where they fought,
02:56I get emotional.
02:58You'll remember.
03:00That's why I forced myself
03:02to serve the Lord.
03:04That's nice.
03:06I hope that the wounds
03:08you received
03:10from your experiences
03:12at home
03:14won't be the reason
03:16for you to be a bad father
03:18in the future.
03:20Yes.
03:22That's my promise
03:24to my future wife
03:26and daughter.
03:28My mom also taught me
03:30not to let your family
03:32ruin your future.
03:34Yes.
03:36Force yourself
03:38not to repeat it.
03:41It's generational trauma.
03:43Yes.
03:45It comes and goes.
03:47When we were kids,
03:49we saw our parents
03:51fighting and arguing.
03:53We didn't want that.
03:55Yes.
03:57But we didn't notice it.
03:59When we grew up and had a relationship,
04:01we were also like that.
04:03We didn't notice
04:05that when we had a relationship
04:07or had a child,
04:09we talked to our husband
04:11and yelled at each other.
04:13We were like that.
04:15That's what we were used to.
04:17But we didn't want that.
04:19But we got used to it.
04:21When we were at home,
04:23we saw that too.
04:25It's a cycle.
04:27It's a cycle.
04:29It's a cycle.
04:31That's why sometimes
04:33when we fight,
04:35we become quiet.
04:37That's how we were before.
04:39That's how we were
04:41at home before.
04:43We saw our siblings
04:45fighting.
04:47We didn't want that.
04:49But now, we're also like that.
04:51And then we get angry.
04:53We don't want that.
04:55The awareness that
04:57if we don't want that,
04:59we shouldn't be like that.
05:01True. That's the sad reality
05:03that sometimes it takes a long time
05:05and a conscious effort
05:07to break the cycle.
05:09But I can see that Ron is a beautiful man.
05:11Yes. A loving man.
05:13A beautiful soul.
05:15He reminds me of Adi.
05:17Same size. Same hair.
05:19Sweet.
05:21Sweet.
05:23Sweet giant.
05:25It's like
05:27he pushes his mom.
05:29Mom, where are you?
05:31That's so cute.
05:33That's so...