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00:00So, you got his heart because he's a bit sad,
00:04you wanted to be with him,
00:06you wanted to be separated,
00:08things like that.
00:09So, what happened?
00:13You didn't need a companion anymore?
00:15You woke up one day,
00:16and you're like,
00:17I want a different kind of companion.
00:19I didn't want a companion anymore.
00:21I'm okay with just being myself.
00:23Oh, that's what happened?
00:24Actually, until now,
00:27I still miss companionship.
00:30But what happened was,
00:32I was already drained from our relationship.
00:36Drained?
00:37I was drained.
00:38Drained because?
00:39Like, I kept telling him
00:42what he should do.
00:46I felt sorry for him,
00:48he didn't prioritize me,
00:51and I was the only one making an effort for the two of us.
00:56Same, same.
00:58That's what Zach said earlier, right, Nana?
01:00It's like, all the priorities in life suddenly fell.
01:05The pressures.
01:06What was that?
01:07What happened, Zach?
01:08Since college, I'm from De La Salle University.
01:13So, you're from De La Salle?
01:16You're so arrogant.
01:17You made me feel like I'm from Recto.
01:19You're from De La Salle?
01:21Yes. Remember, we beat you in basketball
01:23in the UAAP basketball tournament.
01:27You're so arrogant.
01:29Just kidding.
01:30There are a lot of activities there.
01:32Yes.
01:33There are a lot of activities in FEU,
01:36because in De La Salle,
01:37you have a lot of stuff outside.
01:40Is there something like that?
01:42You have a gang war there.
01:45Nothing.
01:47You have a lot of cellphones in Murayta.
01:50You're so boring in top 4.
01:53Just kidding.
01:54What was that, Zach?
01:55The pressures you were talking about earlier.
01:57Because college is in a different environment,
02:00especially in top 4 universities.
02:03You're so arrogant.
02:05You're so arrogant.
02:06You don't know the details.
02:08You're in top 4,
02:09but you didn't win the cheer dance.
02:13FEU, UST, UP, NU.
02:18Our school is in the top 10.
02:20In PASAY.
02:21PASAY TOPS.
02:27We're in the top 10.
02:30Just kidding.
02:31But that's why you mentioned us.
02:34Because that's the pressure.
02:36I'm still not in the top 10.
02:38He's so serious.
02:41That's right.
02:42There's a lot of pressure there.
02:44Since you're a part of the top schools,
02:48we're not a rich family.
02:51We're just able to afford it.
02:53So the pressure in academics,
02:55the pressure to finish,
02:57the pressure to go abroad,
03:00I can't recover because we're not financially stable.
03:04That's where I shifted my priority
03:06from focusing on her
03:08to finishing my studies in De La Salle
03:12so that I can finish right away.
03:14Well, that's life.
03:16That's life.
03:18That's what kids should prioritize.
03:21It's a school.
03:23If you have a love life,
03:24that's a bonus.
03:26If the love life is in the way in education,
03:30think about it.
03:31If you're going to prioritize the love life
03:33over education,
03:34or if you're going to focus on education
03:36because that's what you need at that time
03:38to finish your studies.
03:40But I have a problem with that.
03:42Like he said,
03:45his classmates also have boyfriends.
03:49Why can they do Dean's Listers?
03:52Why can't I?
03:56That pressure,
03:58why can't I do it?
04:00Why?
04:02In FPU, they can do that.
04:04Dean's Listers,
04:05they can do it together.
04:06They can do it together?
04:07Yes.
04:08They can do DOTA for 12 hours.
04:10They can do ML on the side.
04:14They can do varsity.
04:15Yes.
04:16You're so weak.
04:18Just kidding.
04:19No.
04:20But he's crying.
04:21He's crying.
04:22He wants tissues.
04:23Just tell him if you want tissues.
04:25His voice is breaking.
04:26There are tissues here
04:27donated by FEU.
04:29FEU again?
04:30Yes.
04:31There's yellow.
04:32You know what, Zack,
04:33so that you won't cry,
04:34I saw his face when he was exhibited.
04:36Odi.
04:37Mama Odi.
04:38Mama Odi.
04:39When he was exhibited.
04:40See?
04:41He's crying even more.
04:44How about you?
04:45What's your school?
04:47We're FEU.
04:49Not like that.
04:51Santa Clara.
04:53What's your school?
04:54Daycare?
04:55We're just two in school.
04:56Me and the teacher.
04:59Are you single?
05:00Yes.
05:01Okay.
05:02So,
05:03time has passed,
05:05attention,
05:06love,
05:08and you
05:09are more focused on your studies.
05:12You're not okay with that
05:13because, of course,
05:14you want something.
05:15Right?
05:16You want to be special.
05:17Right?
05:18You shouldn't be lacking.
05:19So,
05:20who's the one who's separated?
05:22Me.
05:23Because, actually,
05:25at first,
05:26I understood him
05:27that
05:29studies are really a priority
05:32and that
05:33I'm okay with
05:34it being a second priority.
05:37But what was unfair to me
05:39was the part that
05:41we rarely see each other
05:43because
05:44he's busy.
05:45And when we see each other,
05:47for example,
05:48when he's on his way home,
05:50he's always on his cell phone.
05:52And
05:55when his friends are with him,
05:57he doesn't update.
05:58Of course,
05:59I'm thinking,
06:00you're on your cell phone
06:01when I'm with you,
06:02but why are they
06:03not updating me?
06:05You're holding your phone
06:06the whole time.
06:07Of course,
06:08you should also understand
06:09that
06:10school is in the top four.
06:13Yes.
06:14If you're in the top five,
06:15I hope you'll be happy.
06:18He's on his cell phone
06:19when he's in the top four.
06:20Yes,
06:21because you might be in the top three.
06:24You might be in the top three.
06:26Okay.
06:27So,
06:28that's it.
06:29There's not much time left.
06:30Quality.
06:31Right?
06:33So,
06:34did you regret
06:35that she left you?
06:37Yes,
06:38because
06:40she's the sweetest woman.
06:44She's the only woman
06:46who gave me the feeling
06:49that she really cares about me.
06:51As for me,
06:53I can excel academically,
06:56but when it comes to emotions
06:58or giving
07:00to her,
07:01I can't do it.
07:04He's so old.
07:10Zack,
07:11where do you feel more hurt?
07:13When CJ left you
07:15or when you were in the top five?
07:17Why did you bring it up again?
07:18Why did you bring it up again?
07:23I'm not afraid of that issue.
07:26I'm crying.
07:28No.
07:29Don't be so hard on yourself.
07:31Don't be so hard on yourself.
07:33At that time,
07:36don't punish yourself
07:38if you're not excelling
07:40at everything at the same time.
07:43What's important is that you're still excelling.
07:46You know,
07:47we were all born in this world.
07:49Our main
07:52gift
07:53that we receive
07:54when we were born in this world
07:56is to live.
07:58Right?
07:59Just live.
08:01Just try,
08:02just do,
08:03just win,
08:04just fail,
08:05and try,
08:06and do,
08:07and win,
08:08and fail again.
08:09Right?
08:10You don't have to do everything at the same time.
08:11Don't be so hard on yourself.
08:13You're okay.
08:16And you're doing so well.
08:20If you're so sad about the things you didn't do,
08:23and you didn't see the good things you did
08:25and made CJ feel,
08:27for sure,
08:28throughout your relationship,
08:30there are moments
08:31where you're the only one
08:32who made CJ feel
08:33that kind of love and happiness.
08:35Right.
08:36Do you want to be top five
08:37or should I put this on?
08:39Okay, choose.
08:41I'm just making you happy.
08:42The top one is the bride,
08:43but the groom's uniform is like that.
08:45Do you want to be top one?
08:46It's okay.
08:48Also,
08:49maybe that comes from jealousy.
08:51Because you're always saying,
08:52why are they like that?
08:53They're also slistered,
08:54but they have a boyfriend.
08:56You know,
08:57the moment you start comparing yourself
08:58to other people,
08:59that's when it starts to get dark.
09:03That's when it starts to get dark.
09:06Jealousy.
09:08Lack of self-confidence.
09:10Low self-esteem.
09:13You're not able to see
09:15the beauty of what's around you.
09:19You're not able to see
09:20the beauty of what's in front of you
09:21because you're so far from it.
09:22You're looking at what you don't have.
09:25Right?
09:26Just be yourself.
09:27Appreciate what you have
09:28and appreciate what you are.
09:30You don't need to compare yourself.
09:31Why is she slistered?
09:32She has a boyfriend.
09:35She's slistered,
09:36but she has a boyfriend.
09:38You're so dirty.
09:42She's slistered,
09:43but she has a boyfriend.
09:44She has a boyfriend,
09:45but her school is only in the top 8, right?
09:49At least I'm in the top 4.
09:50Yes.
09:52Yes.
09:53Let's not pressure ourselves too much.
09:55Yes.
09:56We're pressuring ourselves.
09:57We're creating problems
09:59that we don't have yet.
10:01Right?
10:02Because we're pressuring ourselves too much,
10:03we forget to appreciate
10:04what's happening around us
10:05that's beautiful.
10:07Right?
10:08Because we're pressuring ourselves.
10:09Sometimes, we ask a lot of questions
10:12that
10:14and
10:15before we
10:17before we
10:19waste time
10:20asking a lot of questions,
10:21let's appreciate
10:22the answers that come.
10:23Yes.
10:24Because there are a lot of answers.
10:25Every day, all the time,
10:26every minute of the day,
10:27there are answers
10:28that you asked last year,
10:30you asked yesterday,
10:31or you prayed yesterday,
10:33but when God gave it to you,
10:34you didn't notice it
10:35because you're so busy
10:36that you're thinking
10:37about what you want
10:38to be accepted
10:39in the future.
10:41Yes.
10:42You need to
10:43you need to
10:44answer the question
10:45that
10:46why is this happening?
10:47Because
10:49everything happens
10:50because there's a reason.
10:51Yes.
10:52So you need to answer that.
10:53Why is this happening?
10:54Everything has a reason.
10:55Do I need to think about it?
10:56Ah, because of this.
10:57Ah, because of that.
10:58So, after you think about it,
10:59you'll realize that.
11:00Move on.
11:01Because if you're just
11:02caught up in thinking,
11:04it's a bit
11:05heavy.
11:06I, when I think about a lot of things
11:07at the same time,
11:08I become very problematic.
11:09I just think about it.
11:10Then you can't get an answer.
11:11Then you can't get an answer.
11:12Then you're like,
11:13Oh my God,
11:14I'm so important.
11:16Yes.
11:17Have you ever told yourself
11:18that
11:20Oh, I'm so important.
11:22Thank you, Lord.
11:23Thank you still.
11:25Because you don't have it anymore.
11:26Sometimes there are answers
11:27that you can't provide
11:28to yourself.
11:30Just let it be unanswered.
11:33Time will give you
11:34that answer
11:35when fate
11:36has tripped you.
11:37Yes.
11:38And the things
11:39that are done
11:40have already happened.
11:41You can't do anything about it.
11:42You can't control
11:43those things anymore.
11:44So might as well
11:45let it go.
11:46Let it go.
11:47Because
11:48it won't help.
11:49Wow.
11:51Let it go.
11:53Let it go.
11:54Let it go.
11:55Let it flow.
11:57Let it flow like water.
12:00Like that.
12:01Like that.
12:02Bong is already wearing it.
12:03You can't do anything about it.
12:04Let it go.
12:05It's already here.
12:06No, if there are
12:07heavy things
12:08that happened in your life,
12:09think of the beautiful things
12:11because not everything
12:12happens like that.
12:13Right?
12:14Look at the brighter side.
12:17But
12:18your brain is amazing.
12:19Where did that come from?
12:21I know if you call me
12:22I'll answer you.
12:23Because I told you
12:24I'll top five you.
12:26I'll top five you.
12:27I'll top five you.
12:28It's like
12:29where did it come from?
12:31Because
12:33I just remember
12:34the song
12:35of
12:36Dijuan Carlos
12:37when he was 5 years old.
12:40All the hardships
12:42suddenly disappeared
12:43in just one night.
12:46I could have
12:48replaced him
12:49if I really loved him.
12:50I should have
12:51made time
12:52and effort
12:53to
12:54replace
12:56my entreatment
12:57to him.
12:58But
12:59I was too
13:01pressured
13:03to think about
13:04academics
13:05to graduate
13:06to get a job
13:08so that
13:09I wouldn't be in a position
13:10where
13:11we always
13:12save money.
13:13Because
13:14what happens
13:15when we go on a date
13:16we always
13:17save money.
13:19Usually
13:20when you're
13:21in LASALLE
13:22you see
13:23other people
13:24following you.
13:25In LASALLE.
13:26In LASALLE.
13:28In school.
13:29If you're in school
13:30you're an Iguitero.
13:32No.
13:33But you're a top four
13:34in LASALLE.
13:36Is that it, Zach?
13:37In school
13:38you see
13:40people following you
13:41via Grab
13:42or a chauffeur.
13:43But I
13:44would say
13:45let's meet at LRT.
13:47Let's take a jeep.
13:50Why do I
13:51put so much effort
13:52into him?
13:54Even if
13:55we're on a date
13:56we still save money.
13:59That's it.
14:01I can't.
14:02You're still young.
14:03You're 16.
14:04It's normal
14:05when you're 16
14:06that you don't have
14:07that much money
14:08unless
14:09your father
14:10is a politician.
14:12Right?
14:13That's why
14:14when you're young
14:15you have a Rolls Royce.
14:17When you're 12
14:18you have a Rolex.
14:19Because your father
14:20is a politician.
14:21But if your father
14:22is not a politician
14:23it's normal
14:24in your life
14:25it's normal
14:26in your life
14:27to save
14:28a lot of money.
14:29Yes.
14:30Right?
14:31You get
14:32extra
14:33money.
14:34It's normal
14:35when your father
14:36is a politician.
14:37Your grades are high.
14:38Buy a T-shirt.
14:39It's normal
14:40for a lot of people.
14:42But from what I've seen
14:43in Sak's tears
14:44it's like regrets.
14:46Regret.
14:47Guilt.
14:50Yes.
14:51That's what you need
14:52to understand.
14:55Regret.
14:56Guilt.
14:57You need to
14:58process that
15:00so you can
15:01resolve it.
15:02It's hard
15:03to have a lot
15:04of guilt
15:05and regret
15:06in your heart.
15:07It's heavy.
15:09You need to
15:10free yourself
15:11from guilt and regret.
15:12You need to
15:13forgive yourself
15:14especially
15:15in issues
15:16where you're not at fault.
15:18You're not at fault
15:19if you're in an LRT.
15:20And there's nothing
15:21wrong with it.
15:22Correct.
15:23Yes.
15:24What is so wrong?
15:26Do you need a car?
15:29Don't compare
15:30yourself to other people.
15:31Maybe that's also
15:32the problem.
15:33You live in a bubble.
15:38Who told you
15:39that you need a car?
15:42Was there a kid
15:43who told you
15:44that you need a car
15:45because you're in an LRT?
15:46Was there anyone like that?
15:48No.
15:49He just shared
15:50what he saw
15:51on TikTok.
15:52He just showed me
15:53what treatment
15:54I need to get.
15:57At least
15:58if I'm like this
15:59and I'm busy
16:00I can still do it.
16:01You can still
16:02afford it sometimes.
16:03But if I see
16:05that I can't do it.
16:07You know,
16:08the beauty in every effort
16:09lies in authenticity.
16:12Yeah.
16:13Even if you're
16:14fooling around,
16:17the truth is
16:18it's not yours.
16:21You're just pretending
16:22to look rich.
16:24The beauty
16:25in every effort
16:26lies in authenticity.
16:28If you're in a relationship,
16:30and you drive it
16:31in the middle of the road,
16:32that's all you can do.
16:33The real person
16:34will appreciate that.
16:35They'll see your beauty.
16:37That's right.
16:39What's the beauty
16:40in a car
16:41if there's no love?
16:42Correct.
16:44Your parents
16:45saved up
16:46to send you to
16:47a good school.
16:48They found a way
16:49to send you there.
16:50Yes.
16:52Jealousy.
16:53It's the same.
16:54Regret, guilt,
16:55jealousy.
16:56It's like...
16:58Do you see
16:59how she compares
17:00herself to
17:01other people?
17:04For me,
17:05it's like...
17:06I'm also
17:07guilty of that.
17:08Why didn't you
17:09say that?
17:10CJ!
17:11CJ!
17:12That's why
17:13he's crying.
17:15Oh my God.
17:16What's the number
17:17of your school?
17:19It's on the top.
17:21What I'm saying
17:22to him is
17:25I don't care
17:26what car it is
17:27if we're going to
17:28meet,
17:29just talk to me.
17:30Let's have bonding time.
17:31You share
17:32some stories
17:33with me.
17:34How's your day?
17:35But what happens
17:36is that
17:37even if it's
17:38just an initiative
17:39like
17:40we can go home
17:41together.
17:42Do you want to
17:43go home together?
17:44It's not like that.
17:45I'm the one
17:46who always
17:47finds a way
17:48for the two of us
17:49to meet.
17:50So I just want
17:51the initiative,
17:52effort,
17:53communication.
17:54How did you become
17:55guilty of
17:56the things
17:57that you do?
17:58Because
17:59I always send him
18:00the things
18:01on Facebook,
18:02TikToks,
18:03with red flags
18:04for guys
18:05or
18:06if this guy
18:07is real,
18:08he should
18:09do this
18:10for you.
18:11Why do you send
18:12it to him?
18:13So that
18:14he can see
18:15that
18:16that's what
18:17he should
18:18do too.
18:19But the other
18:20ones
18:21also came
18:22from you.
18:23Oh,
18:24it's you,
18:25Pretty!
18:26It's all
18:27your fault!
18:28I'm telling you!
18:29Top,
18:30top,
18:31what are you?
18:32That's why
18:33they came here,
18:34because of you!
18:35Because you're
18:36top 6.
18:37You're top 6?
18:38You're top 6?
18:39I wish I was
18:40an NU,
18:41I have an escalator
18:42inside my school.
18:43Yes,
18:44and I have
18:45an SM card.
18:46Oh,
18:47that's great.
18:48Top 6.
18:49I even passed
18:50to you.
18:51No,
18:52this is
18:53the mistake
18:54of many.
18:55You read
18:56a lot of quotes
18:57about me.
18:58By the way,
18:59not all quotes
19:00you read
19:01on Facebook
19:02are from me.
19:03Yes.
19:04I read
19:05a lot of
19:06quotes.
19:07When did
19:08I say this?
19:09When did
19:10I tweet this?
19:11I even called
19:12my social media
19:13team,
19:14did I tweet this?
19:15Check it out.
19:16No,
19:17why did
19:18I do that?
19:19That's fake.
19:20Then I see
19:21a lot of comments.
19:22Yes.
19:23And my comments
19:24are from me.
19:25But not all the quotes
19:26you read
19:27on Facebook
19:28are true.
19:29So,
19:30it's up to you
19:31to believe them.
19:32Anyway,
19:33those you read,
19:34they shared
19:35based on
19:36their stories
19:37and experiences.
19:38And let's not
19:39pretend
19:40that their story
19:41should be
19:42your story.
19:43That was
19:44their story.
19:45And it is
19:46your obligation
19:47to write
19:48your own story.
19:50And it is
19:51your obligation
19:52to write
19:53your own story.
19:55Live your
19:56own life.
19:57Right?
19:58And let
19:59your life
20:00unfold
20:01with
20:02wisdom.
20:03Right?
20:04Just
20:05let it be.
20:06Create
20:07your own story
20:08until you
20:09create
20:10your own
20:11quote and
20:12learning
20:13and wisdom.
20:14Let's not
20:15force
20:16that wisdom.
20:17No.
20:19Their story
20:20is not
20:21your story.
20:22Let them
20:23tell you
20:24their story
20:25and appreciate
20:26your own story.
20:27And if you
20:28share that
20:29to others,
20:30right?
20:31We can read
20:32that and
20:33be inspired.
20:34But that's not
20:35the right
20:36story
20:37for us.
20:39Right?
20:40To each
20:41his own.
20:42There's
20:43something like
20:44that.
20:45It's their
20:46own story.
20:47It's
20:48their
20:49own
20:50story.
20:51It's
20:52their
20:53own
20:54story.
20:55It's
20:56their
20:57own
20:58story.
20:59It's
21:00their
21:01own
21:02story.
21:03It's
21:04their
21:05own
21:06story.
21:07It's
21:08their
21:09own
21:10story.
21:11It's
21:12their
21:13own
21:14story.
21:15It's
21:16their
21:17own
21:18story.
21:19So,
21:20Just
21:21be
21:22inspired
21:23when
21:24they
21:25tell
21:26you
21:27your
21:28own
21:29story.
21:30It's
21:31your
21:32own
21:33story.
21:34It's
21:35your
21:36own
21:37story.
21:38Just
21:39be
21:40inspiring
21:41to
21:42others.
21:43Correct.
21:44What shampoo do you use?
21:46It's good for your skin.
21:48It's good that you still use shampoo.
21:52Do you still love Jen?
21:54Yes.
21:56Do you love her that much that you want to be her girlfriend?
22:00I hope not for now.
22:02Huh?
22:03I hope not for now.
22:04What did you say?
22:05I hope not for now.
22:06Why?
22:07I think it's too early.
22:11If later, around 9.30.
22:13Or you have a lot of priorities.
22:15Is it like that?
22:16No.
22:17It's too early.
22:18Because it's different from Lasal, right?
22:20Yes.
22:21And morning dew.
22:23Morning dew.
22:24What?
22:25Morning dew.
22:26This is morning dew.
22:28You love her but you're not in love anymore.
22:30No.
22:31I can't.
22:33If we're going to get back together,
22:35I need to fix myself first.
22:37Yes.
22:38That's good.
22:39That's good.
22:40That's our gift to you.
22:41Yes.
22:42Give.
22:43Instead of making yourself and her suffer.
22:45In time, if it's really you, it's really you.
22:47Yes.
22:48So how is that?
22:49Is it okay for you to see that there are three guys here who are trying to impress C-J?
22:54Excuse me, Trina.
22:55C-J.
22:58Is it okay, Trina?
23:00Let's just put it aside.
23:01Let's just put it aside.
23:04I love it, Trina.
23:05To C-J.
23:06Then she will choose one.
23:08It's okay for me.
23:09It's okay.
23:10It's okay for you, C-J?
23:12Yes.
23:13Do you want to have a new date?
23:17Yes.