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00:00a little more relaxed on the subject of the laws when it comes to those things in the United States so it is good not
00:08lying when they are private places because each owner is the one who decides the difference of the United States is that if they are
00:15going to accept or have someone who is without clothes in the place they have to pay as something extra because it is assumed that if you do not
00:21remove the work from the cabarets, what madness, no, so it is a place of naked people, it does not matter, you need the license
00:28to be naked inside. Here in Tulum or in Mexico, no, my cat is doing, as they say here, a mess. In Tulum, Mexico, no, in Tulum,
00:38Mexico, well, or in Mexico in general, I think that type of laws I think do not even exist here, that to have a cabaret,
00:44I'm sure that the same license as a bar is the same, that is, that you can be without clothes.
00:48Okay, hello Jenny, hello, do you think that love makes us happy?
00:52Hey Jenny, do you think that love makes us happy? To have a loving partner as well as all the thoughts, feelings, actions that come along
01:01with love, it's pretty clear that while love can make us feel great, it also brings quite a bit of misery.
01:08Oh, come on, being in love is associated with emotions of joy and happiness, but it's also associated with symptoms of
01:16depression and anxiety. Okay, no, scratch that, that wouldn't go into the same paragraph because it would be, being in love
01:25isn't going to make you anxious and depressed, breaking up is going to make you anxious and depressed.
01:30So, a little bit different, I mean, it's kind of like, okay, well, the love is over or maybe it was never there to begin with
01:36and then that happened, you broke up and you got into anxiety and depression, but that, I mean, that's the consequence of being
01:43in love with the wrong person, so let's clear that up a little bit.
01:47So, being in love with the right person would avoid any of those situations and how do you know if it's the right person?
01:55Well, the first thing you should do is probably not rush into things.
02:00Remember that the first, at least, at least minimum, three months, the first three months, it's all going to be love and games
02:08and you're probably going to even feel like you're in love, but it might not turn out like that because a lot of people confuse
02:14lust and love and when something new comes along, yes, your body is going to be super luscious, okay, lust, there's no word for that,
02:22but in the lust environment, all right, because like everything, just like things, when you have something new, it's exciting,
02:30it's intriguing, it's a new adventure, even when it comes, even, forget about love, I mean, everything in life,
02:35even when it comes to hobbies or things that you want to do, people love new experiences, new adventures,
02:40that is why theme parks never stay the same and they always put something new.
02:43So, it's almost the same thing for this, what makes you think that you can decide if you're in love with somebody
02:48in the first three months if everything's going to change later, so make sure that you're not getting confused with the whole lust idea
02:55and that you're just thinking that you're in love maybe because it's something new and this usually happens to 100% of people
03:04that have shields, okay, so the shield normally doesn't allow you to see the right person when they're in front of you
03:10and you will point out probably all of their flaws and defects and probably not even give that person a chance
03:16and the negativity, of course, also that you can have around us or within you is also going to affect how you attract
03:22and how you decide who it is that you want near you, so you have to, I think, before even thinking about love,
03:28you probably have to evaluate how your energy is, how your vibe is because you're going to inevitably attract somebody
03:36with the same vibrations as you or it could be higher or lower, I mean, it really depends on which situation you are
03:43but I think that if you know what you're getting yourself into, if you know how you are putting yourself out there in the game,
03:50I think things could probably go towards your favor because I think most people think, well, let me get back in the game,
03:57whatever age you are, right, and what do you do? You look at the mirror, so we're looking at ourselves in the mirror,
04:04okay, well, you're older but you're still good and then you start working out and you get physically attractive,
04:10it doesn't just happen to everybody that ever gets divorced, like the first thing they do is either go to a surgeon
04:16or just work out like crazy, get on a diet, I mean, I've met so many people that were married and divorced maybe a couple years later
04:24and when you saw them when they were married, they looked miserable and then when they're divorced,
04:29you see them both like very handsome and the woman very beautiful, lost a lot of weight and you're like,
04:36why did you look like that when you were married? Like, I don't understand, so yes, that will happen to everybody,
04:43don't think that the only thing you're exposing when you're getting back in the game, if you're trying to find love,
04:49first of all, you can't find love, it finds you, it just happens but if you must insist,
04:54then don't only look in the mirror at the outside, you have to look in the inside and evaluate how aside from love,
05:03how everything else is like your health, your personality, your personal overhaul, your family, friends, situations,
05:14are you going through a lot of negative things all at once and that's probably not going to be the best moment to find love
05:20and you might think like, oh, it came at the right moment but no, remember that if you're going through a dump, let's say,
05:28if you're going through a dump and things aren't really going well for you and things aren't working out,
05:32even though yes, you have to be hopeful that things will get better, that is not the time where you want to even think about
05:38getting into a relationship because your vibration at that level is not going to be the best one obviously,
05:43so you're going to attract something that it could be, it could be that maybe they're there to help you out and get you out of that dump
05:49but that is very, you know, that would be like situations counted with the fingers in my hands, at least that's how we say in Spanish
05:58but I think that if you really just focus on your work, on your school or school work, I mean activities, personalities,
06:07things, the bucket list, things that you want to be checking off, I think you're probably going to start radiating a better energy in that sense
06:13and you're probably out there to attract somebody that is closer to you but before that, if you don't evaluate your energy
06:21and like I said, the way of doing it is very simple, it's just see how your life is today, if there's more good than bad, then you're good,
06:30if there's more bad happening than good, then you probably need to make some changes and not even think about this possibility for a while
06:38but when you do get on the train, when you do get on that game, let's say, of putting yourself out there and finding love,
06:44don't expect it to make you happy, love is supposed to fulfill the rest of your life, so if you can get to that relationship,
06:54if you can get to that relationship as clean as possible in the sense of negative energy and as accomplished as possible in the sense of,
07:03you haven't been holding back, you've been doing all your bucket list activities, unless of course you want to experience some with a significant other,
07:12then that's also a lot more fun but other than that, you want to make sure that you get to that relationship in the sense that you don't feel like they're holding you back
07:20if you ever want to do something, so make sure you get that all out of your chest and things that you did want to do when you were single,
07:26make sure you get those over with and then you can give yourself a shot into seeing what it is that you attract,
07:32but yeah, let me go in Spanish a little bit and then we'll continue.
07:36Alright guys, we're live at 8.24 p.m. Monday, December 14, 2020, so come chat miamitvhg.com.
07:43Jenny, do you think love makes us happy? Can we have a partner?
07:48Having a partner is of course also having thoughts, feelings and actions that come with love,
07:53but it's pretty clear that since love can make us feel fantastic, it can also bring a lot of misery.
08:00Don't think of it that way.
08:04Being in love is usually associated with emotions of happiness, but it's also associated with emotions of depression and anxiety.
08:14No, I wouldn't say it exactly that way.
08:16I would say that if you think you're in love and you don't end up being in love,
08:21I mean, if you don't end up with that person, it means that you weren't in love to begin with.
08:26I think that people today, perhaps out of desperation not to find the people
08:32that are on the entire list that they have as the ideal person for each one,
08:37they rush and have a lot of anxiety to find someone and they rush very quickly to define and decide if they are in love or not.
08:44So this happens a lot too, I would say that 100% of women and men who have the problem of the bridegroom,
08:50because the bridegroom will never really allow you to see and decide and say yes to a person who is not in your favor
08:58on the subject of that list you have, of the physical plane, of the mental plane.
09:05The person has to be like this or like that.
09:07So when you don't find someone who checks all the boxes and you have a heart, you have negativity,
09:12the first thing that's going to happen is that you're going to repel that person like a mosquito.
09:18I mean, it's completely the opposite.
09:21When you really find the person you're in love with, if it's real,
09:25true love will never bring you neither misery nor depression nor anxiety afterwards.
09:31Unless there's an accident or something like that.
09:33But if it's real, it doesn't even have to end.
09:35But for that you have to give yourself time and that's what people don't do nowadays.
09:39They go too fast to make decisions and completely confuse what is lust with love.
09:45I mean, we always say, and I repeat, of course, that you never really end up meeting someone.
09:52But beyond that, how can people pretend?
09:56For those who always ask me what love at first sight is,
09:59I think there can be, I don't know if it's love at first sight,
10:03but more like love at first feeling.
10:06I mean, when you know and you look at the person,
10:10just like when you meet people you feel you've met in other past lives.
10:14It's something internal, it's an internal feeling,
10:17not just the idea that, wow, this person is very pretty.
10:20I mean, the sight, I think you only see the physical.
10:23But you have to feel it, and yes, of course, that does exist.
10:26But if you take the time and don't rush the process so much,
10:30I think what happens a lot nowadays is that people are maybe going back to the game,
10:36I mean, going back to the sea to fish, as they say in English,
10:42which is that they go back to the game of being single after a while
10:45to get divorced or to end up with their partner.
10:49And I think the anxiety that they go through over the years
10:52is maybe what makes people define very quickly
10:56or get confused very quickly in thinking they're in love.
10:59Give yourself a minimum of three months,
11:01minimum, minimum, no, I mean, really define
11:04if you're going to have a greater intimacy with that person or not.
11:08But everything you do before the three months,
11:10basically you're in the clouds of...
11:15You're in a cloud, let's say, of something new,
11:17just like a newly bought car.
11:19And this happens, as I said, most of the time,
11:22it's happening to people who have the problem of the shell.
11:25So if you buy, I don't know, a new phone,
11:28in the subject of objects or even in activities,
11:31a strange example for this topic, but the parks,
11:35the parks change the games every year, every two years,
11:39the companies change completely.
11:43Why? Because people get bored quickly.
11:45So imagine people who are in relationships
11:48where there is no true love
11:51or where there could be true love,
11:53but there is a lot of negativity interfering
11:56and maybe even an interference of the subject of the shell.
12:00In those cases, it is very easy to make a mistake and think that...
12:04That's where many times infidelities also occur.
12:07When the person thinks, wow, no,
12:09I really fell in love with this person I met,
12:12who is another outside of his partner,
12:14and it turns out that no, what is happening to them,
12:16precisely what I was talking about right now,
12:18is that of the new broom, sweep well, things like that.
12:21Why? Because the person gets bored.
12:23So if there is no love,
12:25the only thing that can really keep a couple together for life
12:29is love.
12:30There are no other interests.
12:32Because even people who marry for the wrong interests
12:36sooner or later get tired.
12:38So if you really want to be happy,
12:41to be happy in a happy relationship
12:43and have a life as positive as possible,
12:46you have to be 100% convinced
12:49and feel and have love in the relationship.
12:52Otherwise, obviously, it will not last and you will end up,
12:55as it says there,
12:56love will end up bringing you depression and anxiety.
12:59No, love does not give you that.
13:01On the contrary, what is not love gives you that.
13:03We could say that lust will bring you depression and anxiety.
13:08Now, what happens when a person really falls in love with the other?
13:11I mean, I don't know,
13:12a man or a woman fall in love with each other,
13:14but they don't receive it reciprocally.
13:16In that case, yes, this would fall,
13:18that it can bring you depression and anxiety to fall in love.
13:22But if you don't try,
13:23imagine how ugly it would be to go through life thinking,
13:25oh, what would have happened?
13:27And I know that many of you have reached a point
13:29and have reached an age where,
13:31if you have not found love, you are very afraid of it
13:33and you don't want to throw yourself,
13:35you don't want to trust,
13:36because you are afraid of going through a pain like that again.
13:40So, you isolate yourself from people,
13:44you isolate yourself completely from any type of association
13:48with the opposite sex.
13:51That happens a lot.
13:53But well, if you give up so easily,
13:57remember that it is not that love makes you happy,
14:00because that is also a mistake.
14:02As they say, love doesn't make you happy.
14:04Of course, love makes you happy,
14:06but you shouldn't depend on love to be happy.
14:09Love is like,
14:10they are all situations in our lives
14:14that we have to check as a list, right?
14:17Of, well,
14:18what are the things that generate the most energy in your life?
14:20One is yourself,
14:22that is, your being, your personality.
14:24That is what will make you attract certain people,
14:26have certain experiences in your life,
14:29and live and be in the shoes of yourself as a person
14:33is what all those decisions and experiences you are going to have do.
14:37The rest is the work,
14:39the work you do during the day is very important,
14:42because you shouldn't feel work if you really love what you do.
14:46If you were lucky,
14:50we could talk about luck,
14:52or if you generate enough energy to really attract,
14:55and you don't generate negativity to attract,
14:57the work of your dreams,
14:59then you already have two in your favor.
15:01And then the work,
15:03we have, of course, the family,
15:04well, before it would be the family,
15:06but you start with yourself.
15:07You are the first decision to really say if you are happy or not happy,
15:11because you are the one who can limit,
15:13you are the only one who can put your limits
15:17to stop you from being happy in those other categories,
15:22we could call it.
15:23And then you have love, right?
15:24Of course, love is extremely important,
15:26that is, I am not putting them in an order,
15:29but we could say that the first thing
15:31that nothing can replace is your own happiness,
15:35that is, your happiness as a person,
15:37feeling good about yourself,
15:39feeling that you value yourself, that you love yourself,
15:41that you love yourself,
15:43you are happy as you are physically,
15:45and if you are not, you do something about it,
15:47because although the physical is not extremely important,
15:51it is important for you to feel good.
15:53So, everything we could say,
15:55oh, it's not that important,
15:57in reality, everything is important,
15:59because if it affects you
16:01and you have not yet reached that spiritual point,
16:04we could say,
16:05where you really surpass the complexities of the human being
16:09in the physical issue,
16:10then you will get there,
16:12but you have to do it little by little, step by step.
16:14So, everything starts with you,
16:16and when you get to have all those categories full,
16:20if you have not reached one, you reach the other,
16:22so don't worry,
16:23that is, first you can have work,
16:25and then comes love,
16:26or first comes love,
16:27and then comes work and family.
16:28I mean, these are things that
16:30go according to what we have to experience
16:34as people and as souls in this world,
16:36and they are going to get to us,
16:38but obviously, as we always say,
16:40the purer your energy is,
16:42the less negativity it has generated,
16:44the faster these things will happen to you,
16:46but in reality,
16:47we all have the possibility of being 100% happy
16:50in all the categories that generate energy in our lives,
16:53but don't expect love to make you happy,
16:56because that is a very big mistake
16:58of most people.
16:59They say, no, I couldn't do it without love.
17:01No, you can be happy now,
17:03as you are alone with your family,
17:05with your parents,
17:06with your brothers,
17:07with your cousins,
17:08with your uncles,
17:09you can be happy at work,
17:10you can be happy and feel full
17:12because you are traveling around the world,
17:13or you have activities and hobbies
17:15and hobbies that you love,
17:17so you don't have time to think
17:19that you have that void,
17:20because in reality it is a void,
17:22and when it comes to you,
17:23the only thing that love will do,
17:25the only thing it will do
17:26is complement the rest of the things
17:28that you have in life,
17:29but they go hand in hand,
17:31that is, if you are missing one
17:33and you are doing all things well
17:35in the other categories,
17:36it will come to you sooner or later,
17:37you just have to wait,
17:39because sometimes one is very anxious
17:41and wants things now,
17:42but the universe knows when it gives us things
17:45and when we deserve things too,
17:46because sometimes,
17:47if something comes to you
17:48before what you are really prepared to face,
17:51you may ruin that one opportunity
17:53and then it turns out
17:54that it was a unique opportunity in life.
17:56That's why I always tell you,
17:57forget about looking for love,
17:58just focus on yourself
18:00as human beings,
18:01as individual people,
18:03and get better,
18:05but as if everything was wrong with you,
18:07that is, you have to be
18:08extremely critical
18:10of your personality,
18:12of the way you see things,
18:14of the way you see people,
18:16we go into that, of course,
18:18to talk about not judging,
18:20to love yourselves as you are,
18:23not to have hatred,
18:27everything that can be negative
18:29is precisely what you have to be working on
18:31and meditating and using the energy
18:33to help you in those senses.
18:35You get to be the closest
18:37to what you were when you were young,
18:39if you lived in an environment
18:41of a lot of positivity,
18:42and you will start to bring
18:44all the solutions
18:45to the rest of the problems
18:46little by little,
18:47but they will start to come,
18:50so if you work on yourself
18:52and put the effort
18:53to make the best version
18:55of yourself possible,
18:57they are like gifts from the universe,
18:59we could say that they are not really gifts,
19:01they are situations that you yourself
19:03are attracting
19:04for the good energy
19:05that you are going to be doing,
19:06but if you look in the mirror
19:08and you can't get a single criticism,
19:10and I'm not talking about the physical issue,
19:12I'm talking about the person,
19:14that is, we all have something to fix,
19:16we all have something to improve,
19:18and if we don't see it,
19:19but other people see it,
19:20obviously,
19:21you will continue to attract
19:23unwanted situations
19:25that won't last long,
19:27because if you,
19:29in some part of your life,
19:31for some situation or another,
19:33if it's your character,
19:34your person,
19:35the people around you, etc.,
19:36or your job,
19:37in any of those,
19:38you are not generating positive energy,
19:39you will not be attracting
19:41the best for you,
19:42you will be attracting, perhaps,
19:43not even something bad,
19:44that is, simply something
19:45that can be good for a moment,
19:47but it's not lasting,
19:48so,
19:49that's why it's so important
19:51to evaluate one's energy
19:52from time to time,
19:53and say,
19:54well, let's see,
19:55how are you doing in life?
19:56Are you doing relatively well?
19:58I mean, without thinking,
19:59of course,
20:00in all situations,
20:01my eyelash is coming out,
20:02right?
20:03My eyelash is coming out.
20:05Yeah?
20:06I looked like a fool,
20:07and it will probably happen again,
20:08I'm sorry.
20:11So, if, well,
20:13am I going to have to
20:14take out my eyelashes?
20:17But, anyway,
20:18I mean,
20:19evaluating your energy
20:20and evaluating how you are doing
20:21in life in general,
20:23beyond the circumstances
20:26in which we are living,
20:27of course,
20:28is what is going to give you
20:30the result in,
20:31do you have a beautiful energy
20:32or do you have a shitty energy?
20:34It's that simple.
20:35You don't have to go
20:36to a doctor,
20:37or to a psychologist,
20:38or to a clairvoyant,
20:40no,
20:41you don't have to go to anyone
20:42to evaluate,
20:43for the universe to tell you
20:45how you are.
20:46Are you good?
20:47Or are you bad?
20:48You can see that for yourself.
20:50So, you know,
20:51you don't have to go anywhere
20:52for somebody to tell you
20:53if you're well or not.
20:55This is something that,
20:57I probably look like
20:58I'm cross-eyed
20:59with my eyelashes coming off,
21:01so,
21:02sorry.
21:04I'm trying these magnetic
21:06eyelashes with,
21:08like the magnetism
21:09is actually on the black ink,
21:11and,
21:12so far not so good.
21:15Okay.
21:16So,
21:17I was speaking a little bit
21:18in Spanish,
21:19I got carried away,
21:20but,
21:21you know,
21:22I feel like most people
21:23when they're trying to look
21:24for a partner,
21:25they think that
21:26that's what they're missing,
21:27they're missing love
21:28in their life,
21:29and I think that
21:30you can only really say that
21:31when you've successfully completed,
21:32which they're never
21:33really completed,
21:34but,
21:35let's say you successfully
21:36made a change
21:37in every single
21:38other aspect of your life.
21:39If you can look in the mirror
21:41and be 100% happy
21:42with who you are,
21:43who you've become,
21:44what you're doing,
21:45where you work,
21:46the people that surround you,
21:48and your personality,
21:50meaning that
21:51you are the best version
21:52of yourself,
21:53then you could sit there
21:54and complain a little bit
21:55and say,
21:56you know,
21:57oh,
21:58I need love
21:59and blah, blah, blah,
22:00but,
22:01you're probably,
22:02that's probably not even
22:03going to cross your mind
22:04if you're living your life,
22:05and if you're having
22:06as much positive energy
22:07as possible
22:08with all those
22:09other categories.
22:10So,
22:11when I say category,
22:12what are the things
22:13that you generate energy
22:14the most in your life, right?
22:15It's,
22:16your personality,
22:17the way that you are,
22:18which is,
22:19if you judge,
22:20if you criticize others,
22:21if you're,
22:22if you steal,
22:23if you do bad actions,
22:24I mean,
22:25all that stuff.
22:26Like,
22:27who you are as a person
22:28is where you start generating
22:29positive or negative energy.
22:30So,
22:31that is the first thing,
22:32and that's something
22:33that I don't think
22:34any other category can replace.
22:35If you're not happy
22:36with yourself,
22:37and,
22:38if you're not,
22:39yeah,
22:40if you're not at least
22:41happy with yourself,
22:42and you continue to work
22:43to become a better person,
22:44then you're probably
22:45not going to want
22:46to aim so much
22:47at getting
22:48successful stories
22:49in the next categories,
22:50which are job,
22:51you know,
22:52doing what you love,
22:53and not,
22:54not,
22:55it not being a job
22:56because you love it,
22:57and love.
22:58You know,
22:59so it's,
23:00it's those three things
23:01that I,
23:02maybe I missed one,
23:03but I think it's those three.
23:04So,
23:05if you can focus first
23:06on just yourself,
23:07I think that's the best
23:08advice you could get
23:09from anybody,
23:10because,
23:11focusing on,
23:12on other things,
23:13and you might attract them,
23:14but it's not
23:15your right time
23:16to get them,
23:17you might mess it up,
23:18and opportunities
23:19are once in a lifetime.
23:21So,
23:22let's say that you're so focused,
23:23and you're,
23:24and you're focusing
23:25all your energy
23:26into attracting love
23:27into your life,
23:28because you think
23:29that's what you need.
23:30But, yes,
23:31you know,
23:32love can,
23:33another person can help you
23:34become a better person,
23:35but you shouldn't,
23:36you shouldn't expect somebody to,
23:37you shouldn't need the help
23:38of another person
23:39to help you become
23:40a better person.
23:41Um,
23:42and you shouldn't be waiting
23:43for love
23:44to make you feel fulfilled
23:45in life.
23:46I mean,
23:47if it's something
23:48that is meant for you,
23:49and it's something that,
23:50um,
23:51you're meant to live
23:52in this life,
23:53then it'll happen.
23:54But if not,
23:55you should totally,
23:56you know,
23:57put it aside
23:58and just think of,
23:59um,
24:00like I just said
24:01at the beginning,
24:02you know,
24:03focusing yourself
24:04and becoming a better person.
24:05And when you get to that,
24:06when you get to that,
24:07um,
24:08where you're like,
24:09okay,
24:10I think I'm as,
24:11I'm as close as possible
24:12to my purest self
24:13as possible.
24:14Um,
24:15and this doesn't mean
24:16with like when you were a baby,
24:17I mean,
24:18like maybe let's say teenage years
24:19where you're,
24:20you have your customs
24:21and your teachings
24:22and,
24:23uh,
24:24your habits and all that,
24:25good or bad,
24:26whatever.
24:27But,
24:28um,
24:29but your energy is
24:30as pure as possible,
24:31as positive as possible
24:32because you haven't generating
24:33any generated
24:34any negativity.
24:35Then,
24:36um,
24:37you're not generating
24:38any negative energy.
24:39You're generating
24:40positive energy.
24:41So you're generating
24:42positive energy.
24:43You're generating
24:44positive energy.
24:45You're generating
24:46positive energy.
24:47You're generating
24:48positive energy.
24:49You're generating
24:50positive energy.
24:51You're generating
24:52positive energy.
24:53You're generating
24:54positive energy.
24:55You're generating
24:56positive energy.
24:57You're generating
24:58positive energy.
24:59You're generating
25:00positive energy.
25:01You're generating
25:02positive energy.
25:03You're generating
25:04positive energy.
25:05You're generating
25:06positive energy.
25:07You're generating
25:08positive energy.
25:10You're generating
25:11positive energy.
25:12You're generating
25:13positive energy.
25:15Persisted with
25:16your personality,
25:17you...
25:18or you have bad
25:19habits.
25:20Anything that
25:21really goes,
25:22uh,
25:23go under the
25:24negative umbrella.
25:25Um,
25:26if you don't get
25:27those taken care
25:28of first you're
25:29not going to
25:30attract
25:31great situations.
25:32So you might
25:33excited and they're
25:34tryin to meditate
25:35Um,