It's Showtime: Dapat bang pinag-uusapan ang expectations sa isang relasyon? (EXpecially For You)
Aired (July 31, 2024): Naging palaisipan kina Meme Vice ang naging tanong ni Kyle na dapat bang pinag-uusapan ang expectations sa isang relasyon. #GMANetwork
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00:00Should you be talking about your expectations or should you be aware of it?
00:04There.
00:06Should you be talking about your expectations to each other or should you be aware of it even if you're not saying it?
00:12Ally, number 3.
00:16For me, it's better if you talk about your expectations to yourself.
00:21Just for me.
00:23To each other, what you expect from your partner and what you can expect from yourself.
00:27Yes.
00:28It's like you're communicating to each other.
00:32It's like you're passing on each other's values.
00:38What's important to you is what you're talking about, your expectations.
00:40Did you already do that or did you just realize it now?
00:43I just realized it now because a lot of things have happened in my life that I feel like I'm regretting.
00:49Yes.
00:51Because I'm also thinking, is that really possible?
00:54For you, Rhea, number 1.
00:56Yes, it's important to me that you're communicating your expectations to each other.
01:00Because in my personal experience, it's hard for people to read each other.
01:05They really like different things.
01:07What I like, maybe that's not what you like.
01:10What you like, maybe that's not what I like.
01:11So you should let them know that before it becomes a problem, I believe that it's better to prevent the problems that will happen
01:19than to cure the problem that was created because you weren't able to fix it.
01:23You did that, you talked about it.
01:25This is what I expect from you.
01:27How do you tell him?
01:29I tell him that this is what I want.
01:33I hope you know how to communicate.
01:35I hope you understand each other's moods.
01:39And in return, instead of telling me that I agree with what you want,
01:47this is what I want.
01:49But I don't receive anything like that.
01:51Okay.
01:53Vika, number 2.
01:55For me, it's important to communicate your expectations and the expectations of your future partner.
02:01Because for me, I'm an expressive person.
02:05I want to tell him what I feel.
02:07But of course, you should know how to handle it in a manner that you can deliver.
02:13You should have respect.
02:15And I believe that it's also a vital part of getting to know stage.
02:19It's also a part of respecting each other.
02:27It's also a part of getting to know each other.
02:29You should be vocal about what you really feel.
02:31So that as time goes by,
02:33you'll get to know each other better and you'll be more aware of each other's needs.
02:37Okay.
02:39I can imagine. I feel like I'm just weirding out.
02:41What if all of them...
02:43For example, these guys in front of you.
02:45If you're courting a girl,
02:47she'll tell you,
02:49here are my expectations.
02:51You should do this.
02:53You should go to her.
02:55There are the boys.
02:57How do you deal with that?
03:01Do you talk about your expectations?
03:05In real life, I don't talk about my expectations.
03:09Because it's like...
03:11Why talk about it?
03:13It's like...
03:15When we talk about it,
03:17it's like...
03:19I should do this.
03:21It's like there's no thrill.
03:23There's no...
03:25It's like you're discovering who you are.
03:27That's right.
03:29It's like...
03:31If I know what your expectations are,
03:33I should target it.
03:35I should do this.
03:37He said it's like a contract.
03:39Is it like a contract?
03:41That's how I feel.
03:43So when you're off,
03:45you don't talk about it.
03:47How do you talk about it?
03:49It's not off,
03:51but it's not common
03:53in a relationship in real life.
03:55It's like that.
03:57It's easy to say, actually.
03:59It's too ideal.
04:01Yes.
04:03But the ideal is realistic.
04:05It doesn't happen.
04:07Yes.
04:09It's good if you can achieve it.
04:11But when he said it's realistic,
04:13it's not exciting
04:15if you're going to say your expectations
04:17from the start.
04:19And on the girl's side,
04:21when you say your expectations,
04:23it's not like you're ordering her
04:25to do it.
04:27You won't feel that she's doing it genuinely
04:29out of love.
04:31It's better if you didn't say it,
04:33but she did it.
04:35You'll appreciate that she loves you
04:37when she does it.
04:39And the journey to discover you.
04:41That's what you'll discover.
04:43It's for us.
04:45But for them,
04:47they'll talk about it.
04:49Thank you.
04:51Thank you.
04:53He said it well.
04:55It's like a male POV.
04:57It's not exciting anymore.
04:59Is Ali already answered?
05:01Yes.
05:03Kyle, what's your opinion on that?
05:05I agree.
05:07Like what he said,
05:09you should discover more
05:11because love won't last
05:13if you already know
05:15your expectations.
05:17You should raise your standards.
05:19It's better
05:21if you don't know your expectations.
05:23That's why
05:25we're getting to know.
05:27I thought we're going to sing
05:29Getting to know you.
05:31Getting to know you.
05:33That's why sometimes
05:35you're getting to know your family
05:37so you can see their capacity.
05:39That's what I'm noticing
05:41in the kids these days.
05:43They're too flat.
05:45The do's and don'ts.
05:47Greens and reds.
05:49This is the green flag.
05:51This is the red flag.
05:53This is the do's. This is the don'ts.
05:55It's too flat.
05:57It's too ideal.
05:59They want to achieve
06:01more kids.
06:03Again, I'm not generalizing.
06:05It's too ideal.
06:07It's too right.
06:09Perfect, not perfect.
06:11Right?
06:13It's good to think
06:15if you can achieve your ideal.
06:31you