Aired (July 26, 2024): Sa dami ng problema ni Lance ay hindi niya na naisip na sabihin ang mga ito kay Maria dahil ayaw na niyang maging pabigat dito.
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00:00Lance, why didn't you tell us about it?
00:02Yeah, why didn't you tell us about it?
00:04Why didn't you say it?
00:06When our one-year relationship started,
00:08that's when I experienced my problems in life.
00:12Because I'm the eldest.
00:14It's like...
00:16Here it is.
00:22It's scary.
00:24When you're the eldest, you'll laugh.
00:26He's been laughing for a while.
00:28He might cry.
00:30And now that he's crying, he's laughing.
00:32When you're the eldest, you'll be happy.
00:34When you're the eldest, you'll be happy.
00:36When there's a problem.
00:38Scooby-Doo is like that.
00:40He doesn't let you laugh.
00:42He makes you happy.
00:44What's your problem, Lance?
00:46It's a family problem.
00:48It's financial.
00:50It's our relationship.
00:52So you have problems.
00:54Why don't you want to share it with him?
00:56Why don't you want to share it with him?
00:58Because I feel like...
01:00He has a problem,
01:02and I have to add to it.
01:04I'm afraid to add to his problems.
01:06I don't want him to think of me.
01:08Especially when he has a problem in life.
01:10What I do is...
01:12I solve it by myself.
01:14But instead of solving it by myself,
01:16I ruined myself
01:18and our relationship.
01:20Why did you ruin it?
01:22Did you lose
01:24attention to him?
01:26Because of your problems, you lost interest in him.
01:28It's like this.
01:30When I had problems,
01:32I started to depend on my friends.
01:34I got used to
01:36running around with my friends.
01:38So I lost
01:40my worries.
01:42I lost my approach.
01:44I was like, how are you?
01:46I always answer,
01:48I'm okay. Don't understand me.
01:50That's what I do.
01:52I should have become a vocalist.
01:54Here we go again.
01:56Anyway,
01:58it's hard to say,
02:00I'm okay.
02:02Or not to share.
02:04It's hard to say,
02:06I'm okay, but he feels the weight.
02:08Yes, and it affects their relationship.
02:10It's hard to feel the weight
02:12and he doesn't know where it comes from.
02:14He doesn't know how to resolve it.
02:16He doesn't know how to face it
02:18because he has no idea at all.
02:20But the openness
02:22is beautiful.
02:24You don't have to
02:26even if
02:28you don't
02:30let her solve it.
02:32At least she knows.
02:34At least she knows.
02:36And the chance
02:38to help
02:40or give
02:42advice.
02:44It's an inspiration.
02:46And Maria understands where you're coming from.
02:48But you should also understand
02:50because there are people
02:52who stay away.
02:54So that you can solve
02:56their problem.
02:58Especially if you two have an issue.
03:00The attachment
03:02styles,
03:04there are people who don't
03:06stay away because they don't
03:08want you or they don't like you
03:10or it's not important. They stay away
03:12because that's their
03:14way to cope.
03:16So that
03:18they can focus because
03:20they're confused.
03:22And if you try to
03:24get in that time with her,
03:26she'll be more confused.
03:28You have to understand him
03:30and give him time.
03:32And give him time. Then after a while,
03:34you'll tell her in such a manner
03:36that she won't be confused.
03:38That's why you need to understand what your partner is going through.
03:40Because there are a lot of people like that.
03:42I'm not saying that to you.
03:44Sometimes when you have an issue,
03:46for example,
03:48you have a problem.
03:50The other person wants to talk about it.
03:52Let's solve it. Tell me what the problem is.
03:54The other person
03:56has an anxious style.
03:58The other person's style
04:00is
04:02avoiding.
04:06I don't want to talk about it.
04:08I don't want to talk about it.
04:10I don't want to talk about it.
04:12I don't want to talk about it.
04:14I don't want to hear it.
04:16You can't force her to talk about it.
04:18Let her talk about it.
04:20Give her time.
04:22Give her time.
04:24Eventually,
04:26you can force her to talk about it.
04:30I get sad when that happens.
04:32I get sad when...
04:34I feel like
04:36we're not helping each other.
04:38Let's talk about it.
04:40Eventually, she'll open up.
04:42Don't force her to talk about it
04:44because it'll be louder
04:46in her mind.
04:48Is my partner
04:50avoidant or anxious
04:52so that you'll know
04:54how to deal with it?
04:56It's okay to talk about it.
04:58It's okay to talk about it.
05:00Don't force her to talk about it.
05:02If she doesn't want to talk about it,
05:04let her talk about it.
05:06Give her time.
05:08Do you feel like
05:10you're not a part of her world?
05:12Do you feel like you're not a part of her world?
05:14Yes.
05:16I tried to give her time
05:18because she requested
05:20a cool-off.
05:22First, she said
05:24let's break up.
05:26I said, why would we break up?
05:28If you want time,
05:30I'll give it to you.
05:32I agreed to a cool-off.
05:34Then,
05:36there were no updates.
05:38I'm not used to it.
05:40I'm used to it.
05:42If there are updates with videos,
05:44I'll go around.
05:46It's already a cool-off.
05:48I understood.
05:50I was worried about her.
05:52I asked her family
05:54about her.
05:56How is she?
05:58The things that I'm uncomfortable with,
06:00she knows.
06:02She still does it
06:04even though it's a cool-off.
06:06I feel so disrespected.
06:08Then, on May 11,
06:10we talked
06:12and fixed it.
06:14It was okay.
06:16She apologized for what happened.
06:18I did the same.
06:20I forced her to come in.
06:22Like what you said earlier,
06:24for her problem,
06:26I forced her to open up.
06:28I'm here.
06:30It was okay
06:32after that.
06:34But,
06:36as time went by,
06:38I felt like
06:40I was the only one who loved her.
06:42I didn't know
06:44where she was.
06:46It's sad.
06:48It's painful and sad.
07:00you