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Maulana Tariq Jameel discusses the dynamics of (husband and wife relationships), emphasizing the importance of love and resolving conflicts. Learn about the role of a (husband) and how both partners can strengthen their bond through understanding and patience.
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- How to handle fights and maintain love between husband and wife.
- Insights from Maulana Tariq Jameel on leading a harmonious marital life.
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Maulana Tariq Jameel discusses the dynamics of (husband and wife relationships), emphasizing the importance of love and resolving conflicts. Learn about the role of a (husband) and how both partners can strengthen their bond through understanding and patience.
- The significant role of a **husband** in a marriage.
- How to handle fights and maintain love between husband and wife.
- Insights from Maulana Tariq Jameel on leading a harmonious marital life.
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00:00The first relation that was created, that was established,
00:04the first relation is husband and wife.
00:08The first relation.
00:10No parents, no siblings, no children.
00:13The first relation of this universe is husband and wife.
00:18And the last relation of humanity is also husband and wife.
00:24In paradise, every man will spend eternal life with his wife, every woman with her husband.
00:32We will live together, children, relatives.
00:36But every couple will be separated in their paradise.
00:40So the beginning of humanity.
00:42Is there any echo in the voice?
00:44I will correct the echo.
00:46The voice is echoing.
00:48So the beginning of humanity,
00:52the relation that was created, is husband and wife.
00:55The end is also husband and wife.
00:57And even in this world, may Allah give everyone a long life.
01:01If the life of the parents is long,
01:03then when the children get married, then the same relation remains.
01:06They are alone.
01:08Daughters with husband.
01:09And sons with their wives.
01:11And the parents are again the same.
01:12Husband and wife.
01:13Again the same relation of loneliness.
01:17There are not as many verses for any relation as there are for husband and wife.
01:21The whole Surah.
01:22And hundreds of verses.
01:24A few verses for the parents.
01:26What is this?
01:28I will not be able to do this talk.
01:31There are a few verses for the parents.
01:34A few verses for the children.
01:37A few verses for the relatives.
01:39But hundreds of verses for the husband and wife.
01:42The whole subject is on how the husband and wife will spend their life.
01:46What are the etiquettes to spend their life.
01:49It has been spread for two reasons.
01:51One is its importance.
01:53One is its delicacy.
01:55The importance is that this is the foundation.
01:57If this is shaken, then the whole society will be shaken.
02:00On this is the foundation of the whole society.
02:02These are two such units from which all the numbers come into existence.
02:06And the delicacy is because no relation breaks.
02:10Mother-son, mother-daughter, father-son, brother-brother, sister-brother.
02:14The relation does not break.
02:15The relation of the husband and wife breaks on one word.
02:17One word and the relation breaks.
02:19So to keep it safe, the Quran has stated a long subject.
02:25Allah has not described any relation as a sign.
02:30The earth and the sky seem to be my sign.
02:33Indeed in the creation of the heavens and the earth is the earth and the sky.
02:36And the alternation of the night and the day is the day and the night.
02:38And the ship that sails in the sea for the benefit of the people.
02:41The ship that sails in the sea.
02:43And Allah did not send down water from the sky.
02:45The sky is water.
02:46So He revived the earth with it after its death.
02:48The earth is green.
02:49And He spread in it all the creatures that we walk around.
02:53And the wind is the wind.
02:55The wind is the wind.
02:56The season is the season.
02:57And the companions are subjugated between the sky and the earth.
02:59And the clouds are between the earth and the sky.
03:01There are great signs.
03:04So this subject has been mentioned many times in the Quran.
03:11But Allah did not say to any relation that I have a great sign.
03:15Make parents.
03:16I have a great sign.
03:17Make children.
03:18I have a great sign.
03:19Make grandchildren.
03:21Make siblings.
03:23The earth and the sky are my sign.
03:25I have a great sign.
03:27So they do not look at the qibla, how it was created,
03:29and at the sky, how it was raised,
03:31and at the mountains, how it was placed,
03:32and at the earth, how it was spread,
03:33and at the sun, and its brightness,
03:34and at the moon, when it shines,
03:35and at the day, when it shines,
03:37and at the night, when it covers it,
03:38and at the sky, and what it made,
03:39and at the earth, and what it covered,
03:40and at the soul, and what it formed.
03:42Allah mentions all these creatures as His signs.
03:45Allah says to a relation that this is also my great sign.
03:48And He brought it in great signs.
03:52It is such a great sign of Allah.
03:54That we have made you from clay.
04:00I am leaving one verse.
04:03How great is the sign that the earth and the sky were made.
04:07How great is the sign.
04:08Different colors, different tongues.
04:12How great is my sign.
04:16I put you in search of sustenance.
04:21How great is my sign.
04:24How great is my sign.
04:27How great is my sign that the earth and the sky are established.
04:29In the verses I have read,
04:30your mind is equal to mine.
04:32That yes, the sky is a great sign.
04:33The earth is a great sign.
04:35Different tongues are a great sign.
04:37Different colors are a great sign.
04:38The earth, clouds, lightning, rain, drought,
04:40all are great signs.
04:41Now I am going to read the verse that I have left.
04:43Maybe this student, the scholars, have lost their minds.
04:54As a sign of Allah,
04:55In that is a sign to the people who think.
05:00My great sign is that I have put you in marriage to a husband and wife.
05:05And told you three things that I have not told in any marriage.
05:08You get peace.
05:09Love.
05:10No sorrows.
05:11I told you three things in this marriage.
05:13Peace, love, no sorrows.
05:16And a powerful word was used for this.
05:18They think.
05:19To the worlds.
05:20They hear.
05:21They understand.
05:22The most powerful word is Yatafakkaroon.
05:24So Yatafakkaroon is mentioned here
05:26that you won't be able to understand the
05:28delicacy of this relationship with a thick mind.
05:30And you won't be able to understand its power.
05:32If you think very carefully, the strength of this relationship,
05:34the sign of Allah of this relationship,
05:36will be revealed to you.
05:38So my dear brothers, I tried to bring this
05:40in front of you that this relationship is very important.
05:42The biggest relationship.
05:44The biggest relationship.
05:46If it becomes weak,
05:48the society will break.
05:50If you get married,
05:52treat your wife well.
05:54Today, a relative of mine,
05:56Rahim Yar Khan,
05:58came to me.
06:00He said, this is my son.
06:02He has a full beard.
06:04So he misbehaved
06:06and hurt his wife so much
06:08that she left the house and went away.
06:10So you make us reconcile.
06:12The in-laws are also my acquaintances.
06:14And this house is also my acquaintance.
06:16So I said,
06:18what misbehavior did he do?
06:20He used to say, he used to put the importance of the mother.
06:22My mother, my mother.
06:24So he is a mother, but his wife had some right.
06:26He humiliated her so much
06:28that she left the house and went away.
06:30So the rights of parents are your responsibility.
06:32Your wife is not responsible.
06:34I am saying this with full responsibility.
06:36You cannot forcefully take care of your wife
06:38for your mother, for your father.
06:40It is her good fortune that she serves.
06:42It is her honor that she serves.
06:44But you cannot force her.
06:46You cannot force her.
06:48Today,
06:50a house was broken
06:52only because of that child's
06:54ignorance and immorality.
06:56Learn to respect your wives.
06:58Respect your wives.
07:00Express your love to them.
07:02People do not express their love
07:04to their wives.
07:06What you said to Hazrat Ayesha,
07:08it is the last,
07:10the last word.
07:12Ya Ayesho.
07:14This is the address of love and affection.
07:16Ya Ayesho.
07:26Like you make a name
07:28with affection.
07:30You made this name with love.
07:32Ayesh, since I have come to know
07:34that you are my wife in heaven,
07:36death has become very easy for me.
07:38This was the expression.
07:40Whoever has seen Allah,
07:42there is nothing after that
07:44that can make death difficult.
07:46I have seen Allah.
07:48To teach us,
07:50to tell us about the life of the house,
07:52what a sentence it is.
07:54If you write with gold water,
07:56its value cannot be paid.
07:58It has become easy for me to die.
08:00Since I have come to know that
08:02you are my wife in heaven,
08:04express your love to your wives.
08:06If they wear good clothes,
08:08praise them.
08:10Dr. Abdul Hai,
08:12the Caliph of Hazrat Hanwi,
08:14went to a disciple's house to eat.
08:16He liked the food very much.
08:18He asked his disciple,
08:20who cooked it?
08:22He said, my wife cooked it.
08:24He said, call her.
08:26She came.
08:28He said, daughter,
08:30I ate the food of your hands.
08:32It was very good.
08:34It was very kind.
08:36So she started crying.
08:38I have been in his house for 30 years.
08:40For 30 years.
08:42He has never said to me
08:44that you have cooked good food.
08:46Not even once.
08:48We have forgotten the history.
08:50We have forgotten the history.
08:52Our joint family system,
08:54it was very good before.
08:56Everyone had their own place.
08:58Now education has destroyed everything.
09:00Social media has destroyed everything.
09:02It has become a disaster.
09:04It has become a problem.
09:06If you have a problem with your wife,
09:08then protect your parents.
09:10If your parents have a problem,
09:12then protect your wife.
09:14This is our family system.
09:16You are children.
09:18Sometimes you listen to your mother.
09:20Sometimes you listen to your father.
09:22Sometimes you listen to your sisters.
09:24Especially the role of the sisters
09:26is very dangerous in our society.
09:28I am saying this with grief.
09:30They are such a nuisance
09:32that a poor girl
09:34has two brothers
09:36and two sisters.
09:38I said, I want to talk to you.
09:40He is my husband.
09:42His sisters complain about me
09:44and he starts beating me.
09:46He doesn't even ask me what the matter is.
09:48He starts beating me.
09:50He listens to your statements.
09:52Please make him understand.
09:54Those whom I don't know
09:56or don't know,
09:58I don't get involved in family matters.
10:00Because in the listener's heart,
10:02he won't listen to me.
10:04Be soft.
10:06Look for heaven in your mother's feet.
10:08Your father.
10:10Your father is the biggest door of heaven.
10:12His service is your responsibility.
10:14Your mother's service is your responsibility.
10:16Your father's service is your responsibility.
10:18That's why the jurists have written
10:20that it is the responsibility of the husband
10:22to ask his wife for a separate house.
10:24If he can't take it,
10:26then he should separate a portion of the house for her.
10:28If he can't do this,
10:30then he should separate a room,
10:32a toilet and a kitchen.
10:34This is the duty of the future daughter.
10:36If he can't do this,
10:38then he should fast.
10:40He should not ruin anyone's daughter.
10:42He should show himself.
10:44My prophet is on the path of Jihad.
10:46Jihad.
10:48He is on the path of Jihad.
10:50When the journey started,
10:52and mother Ayesha sat on the camel,
10:54she saw that there was no necklace around her neck.
10:56She said,
10:58I lost my necklace.
11:00I asked for it.
11:02It was the necklace of my sister Hazrat Asma.
11:04She brought it and said,
11:06I am going on a journey,
11:08please give it to me.
11:10So you made a caravan of Jihad
11:12and said,
11:14find Ayesha's necklace.
11:16You could also say,
11:18what is the status of the necklace?
11:20It is the journey of Jihad.
11:22I have to go ahead.
11:24Or they must be going back.
11:26They read Maghrib Isha together.
11:28They were on the journey.
11:30The water ran out.
11:32The time of Fajr entered.
11:34And there was no water.
11:36Now all the people started taunting Abu Bakr.
11:38Abu Bakr, because of your daughter,
11:40we lost our prayer today.
11:42There is no water.
11:44How can we perform ablution?
11:46How can we perform ablution and pray?
11:48So Abu Bakr came in a fit of anger
11:50in Hazrat Ayesha's tent.
11:52The Prophet of Allah was sleeping in your lap.
11:54When the Prophet of Allah was sleeping,
11:56he was making his face.
11:58And he couldn't stay like this.
12:00He hit one finger hard here.
12:02So Hazrat Ayesha became like this.
12:04She hit her finger again.
12:06So that the Prophet of Allah
12:08would not wake up from my action.
12:10After a while, your eyes opened.
12:12So Hazrat Ayesha said,
12:14O Messenger of Allah,
12:16all the people are worried.
12:18There is no water.
12:20What should we do now?
12:22That night,
12:24the blessing of losing Hazrat Ayesha's necklace
12:26stopped the journey.
12:28There was no water.
12:30And Allah gave it to the Ummah for the Day of Judgment.
12:32When the Prophet of Allah
12:34came out and taught these verses,
12:36everyone said, Abu Bakr,
12:38what about your house?
12:40What did the Ummah get from your blessing?
12:42What about your house?
12:44When the sun rose,
12:46Hazrat Ayesha said,
12:48O Messenger of Allah,
12:50I lost my house.
12:52My Prophet was so kind.
12:54Children,
12:56I don't want to hear that
12:58my student is ill-mannered with his wife,
13:00or hurts his parents,
13:02or fights with his siblings.
13:04Step back.
13:06Don't fight with your blood relations.
13:08Step back.
13:10Do whatever you have to do for it.
13:12But don't get into a fight.
13:14Step back.
13:16Allah will bless you from where