It's Showtime: Pressure sa sarili, naging sanhi ng hiwalayan?! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (July 16, 2024): Dahil sa mga naririnig na masasakit na salita dahil sa kanyang trabaho, dagdag na rin ang pagpe-pressure sa sarili, itinuon ni Abby ang kanyang atensyon sa kanyang career, ngunit ito ang naging dahilan upang mawalan siya ng oras kay Vince. #GMANetwork
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Madlang Kapuso, join the FUNanghalian with #ItsShowtime family. Watch the latest episode of 'It's Showtime' hosted by Vice Ganda, Anne Curtis, Vhong Navarro, Karylle, Jhong Hilario, Amy Perez, Kim Chui, Jugs & Teddy, MC & Lassy, Ogie Alcasid, Darren, Jackie, Cianne, Ryan Bang, and Ion Perez.
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00:00If you're close to your family, and you're separated,
00:04will you talk to your family about it or not anymore?
00:08I didn't talk to my family about it, but I found out about it.
00:13And until now, I'm still chatting with them.
00:16It's okay.
00:17When you found out, who reached out first?
00:20Her parents or you?
00:22My parents.
00:23What did they say to you?
00:25Nothing.
00:25I thought you said something.
00:28Don't make me guess.
00:29Take my Chevy skinhead.
00:31Don't.
00:31He's been doing that for a long time.
00:33Don't.
00:34I hope so.
00:35Anyway.
00:37So what did they say?
00:38They asked me how I was doing.
00:42I told them I was going to them.
00:44And you'll bump into each other.
00:45No, I won't.
00:47Did they ask why you separated?
00:50Because some people ask, why did you separate?
00:52What happened?
00:53The hard part is,
00:55you'll explain to your partner before you separate.
00:59You'll explain to other people.
01:01And that's the painful part.
01:03You have to tell everyone what happened.
01:05Sometimes, you just want to record what happened.
01:08Refresh yourself.
01:09Did they ask?
01:10It's a good thing they didn't ask me.
01:12I think they respect our partnership.
01:16Or how we feel.
01:18Who separated?
01:19Me.
01:20Why?
01:21When she got busy with her work.
01:24She stopped updating.
01:26She stopped chatting.
01:28As in?
01:29As in zero?
01:30Yes.
01:31It reached a point of zero.
01:32How long was that?
01:33Maybe just one day.
01:34No.
01:35It reached months.
01:37Months?
01:38As in no updates?
01:39You were together for four months,
01:40and she didn't text you for months?
01:41Yes.
01:42And you'll tell her,
01:43your partner is so happy.
01:44Just kidding.
01:45Why?
01:46What happened, Abby?
01:47At that time,
01:48I reached a point in my life
01:50where the challenges came together.
01:53Like?
01:54Like the pressure.
01:55Because at that time,
01:58I got my first job
01:59after I graduated college.
02:01Then,
02:02the pressure because
02:03I heard a lot of downgrading.
02:07Like for example,
02:08you graduated cum laude,
02:10but that's all your work.
02:12Like that.
02:13Then,
02:14responsibilities too.
02:17Because unlike before,
02:18when I was a student,
02:19I was financially supported by my parents.
02:22Then after I graduated,
02:25I got a job.
02:26At that time,
02:27my sustenance was cut.
02:28Because
02:29I was the eldest daughter
02:31of a broken family.
02:32So,
02:33there was a lot of pressure
02:34and responsibilities.
02:35Then,
02:36it came together.
02:37Because
02:38I was also downgrading myself.
02:41Like,
02:42why am I like this?
02:43Like that.
02:44She had a lot of struggles
02:45at that time.
02:47She also went through a lot.
02:49So,
02:50she got confused
02:51and lost interest.
02:54But Vince,
02:55did Abby understand
02:56at that point?
02:57At that time,
02:58she didn't explain to me
02:59why she was like that.
03:01She just told me
03:03the reason
03:04why we broke up.
03:07That's the hard part.
03:08Yes.
03:09The other one is clueless.
03:10Maybe you realized that
03:14you don't like
03:16cactus.
03:17Cactus.
03:18He doesn't like cactus.
03:20Cactus.
03:22Yes.
03:23You know,
03:25we always hear that
03:26communication is key.
03:28Yes.
03:29If you just told her
03:30and talked to her,
03:31if you addressed the issue,
03:32maybe she could accompany you
03:33in what you're going through.
03:34Yes.
03:35Maybe she could help you.
03:36She became your support system.
03:39Yes.
03:40Didn't Vince become
03:41your inspiration?
03:44Vince.
03:45In your work,
03:46in your problems.
03:47Right?
03:48Sometimes,
03:49your partners
03:50become your inspiration
03:51in your work.
03:53Beautiful.
03:55Thanks, Ma.
03:57I'm proud of you, baby.
04:00Angel of mine.
04:02Angel of mine.
04:07Actually,
04:08your boyfriend
04:10or your girlfriend
04:11or your partner
04:12can be your angel.
04:14Right?
04:15Sometimes,
04:16I feel like
04:17this is what the Lord's angel
04:18sent me
04:19so that I can be with
04:20what I'm going through
04:22in the future
04:23and what I'm going through
04:24in the present.
04:25Didn't you feel
04:26that he's like that?
04:27That you have an angel
04:28who supports you?
04:30That's the thing.
04:31Because
04:32when I have
04:33those kinds of problems
04:34in life,
04:35I'm the person
04:36who isolates myself.
04:38I'm not used to
04:39sharing my problems
04:40even with my friends,
04:41family.
04:42So,
04:43that's how I live.
04:44That's where I'm used to it.
04:45It's like
04:46that's my first relationship
04:47with him.
04:49I don't know
04:50if I'll tell him
04:51or how I'll tell him
04:53those things.
04:54And I don't want to
04:55because
04:56I was thinking
04:57at that time
04:58that I don't want
04:59to be a burden to him.
05:00I want to face
05:01my own problems
05:02because
05:03I know he has
05:04his own problems
05:06that I don't want
05:07to add to.
05:08That's how
05:09my mindset was.
05:10Which is wrong
05:11because
05:12in a relationship,
05:13there should be
05:14two of us.
05:15It's like that.
05:16I always hear that.
05:19Why didn't you
05:20tell me?
05:21I don't want
05:22to think about it anymore.
05:23I don't want to be
05:24a burden anymore.
05:25I don't want you
05:26to think about me anymore.
05:27I always say that
05:28I want you
05:29to think about me
05:30more than
05:31my bashers.
05:32I want you
05:33to be my problem
05:34more than
05:35my tweets
05:36or hate
05:37posts
05:38about me.
05:39Right?
05:40If there's anything
05:41I have to think about
05:42or problem,
05:43it's you.
05:44And I will gladly
05:45think about you
05:46and I will gladly
05:47solve your problems
05:48with you.
05:49Right?
05:50I will willingly
05:51and lovingly
05:52do it for you.
05:53That's helpful.
05:54It's not a burden.
05:55We're partners.
05:56Since we've been
05:57in a relationship,
05:58we're partners.
05:59It's not just you
06:00or me.
06:01We will share
06:02everything.
06:03Our winning moments
06:04and our low moments.
06:05We will share
06:06that.
06:09But you should
06:10understand why
06:11you're like that.
06:13Why don't you
06:14share?
06:15Why do you
06:16want to be
06:17yourself?
06:18Were you like that
06:20before?
06:21Don't you have
06:22anything to say?
06:23Are you used to it?
06:24You need to understand
06:25where your
06:26concept of
06:27facing things
06:28comes from
06:29so that you
06:30can realize
06:31what effect
06:32it had on me
06:33when I was like that?
06:34What effect
06:35does it have
06:36when I'm just
06:37being myself?
06:38Does it help me
06:39or does it
06:40make me heavier?
06:41Is my style
06:42right?
06:43Is my
06:44attachment style
06:45also right
06:46to the people
06:47I love
06:48and I love
06:49them?
06:50Because if you
06:51have a lot of
06:52bits and pieces
06:53in your head
06:54and you're not
06:55in the mood
06:56it's hard for you
06:57to talk about it
06:58because it's
06:59all bits and pieces
07:00and you need
07:01to share it
07:02with others.
07:03Yeah.
07:04Maybe sometimes
07:05it's a way
07:06to protect
07:07yourself.
07:08This is mine.
07:09I won't let them
07:10know what
07:11I'm going through
07:12or my weakness
07:13or this is mine.
07:14But all of us
07:15even the strongest
07:16person in the
07:17world
07:19has a security.
07:20Yes.
07:21Even the king
07:22has an advisor.
07:23Yes.
07:24Even the most
07:25powerful person
07:26on earth
07:27has a security.
07:28Yes.
07:29Right?
07:30Even the richest
07:31and the most powerful
07:32person in the
07:33world
07:34has a security
07:35around them.
07:36Right?
07:37Because all of us
07:38at some point
07:39need help
07:40and don't be ashamed.
07:41Yes.
07:42Don't be
07:43afraid
07:44or weak.
07:45Actually,
07:46that's strength.
07:47But
07:48if you can ask
07:49your grandfather
07:50Yes.
07:51That's strength.
07:52Correct.
07:53Acknowledgement that
07:54you need help
07:55is actually strength.
07:56Because you might still
07:57have a hard time
07:58in the future.
07:59And the people
08:00you will meet in the future
08:01will be affected
08:02by your
08:03direction
08:04towards them
08:05because you are
08:06on your own.
08:07Let others
08:08share you
08:09with others
08:10and let others
08:11share
08:12themselves with you.
08:13Yes.
08:14Sharing is caring.
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