Please please respect your parents
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00:00I got a good teacher. I got a teacher like Mr. Wasif and Mr. Ishfaq a long time ago.
00:05But I have seen one thing for sure, that the reason for progress in life,
00:10the reason for us to walk on the wrong path, is the prayers of parents.
00:14If the prayers of parents are with you, then you will progress.
00:19And for this, I always give an example, that I am 40 years old,
00:26at this age of 40, I found out a few days ago, that I never hugged my father.
00:34And the reason for that is, that in our homes, the respect for father is very high.
00:38I am from Mohandipur, so we have a Jatt mentality.
00:42So father's respect is such that, like we used to sit at home and play since childhood,
00:46and mother used to say, father has come.
00:48So like, he hides after seeing Mr. Charsi SHO.
00:51Almost like this, we used to hide after seeing father.
00:55So this has been the routine since childhood, that father's respect is so high,
00:58that we never had the courage.
00:59So at the age of 40, I found out, that I never hugged my father.
01:04Never hugged.
01:05My son, who is of my height, he hugs me many times.
01:09He makes fun of me.
01:10Times have changed, but we never had the courage.
01:12So what I did, that I told my old father, who has retired,
01:17that father, I want to hug you.
01:19He looked at me and said, give me Eid, I will hug you.
01:23I told him, on Eid, you hug with your shoulders,
01:26you don't hug properly, so give me permission.
01:28So when I requested 3-4 times, he gave me permission.
01:31When he gave me permission, I hugged my father.
01:34I had the same feeling, that after 40 years, I am meeting him only once.
01:38After 40 years, I didn't hug my father, I hugged him.
01:41After hugging him for 5 minutes, I kept feeling that he is my old father,
01:46who has raised me, made me young and successful,
01:49and I have reached here with his prayers.
01:51After 5 minutes, I saw that my father started crying.
01:55He was crying.
01:56I said, why are you crying?
01:57He started calling me in Punjabi.
01:59He said, it is so cold, you should have hugged me earlier.
02:03I thought, how unfortunate a person is.
02:07How unfortunate a person is.
02:09A person studies, writes, becomes young, becomes a judge, becomes an officer,
02:13and when he turns back and starts hugging his father,
02:16sometimes he doesn't find his father, he finds a cold grave.
02:20Then a person plants flowers, lights candles,
02:23and thinks that this is love.
02:25Huzoor-e-wala, today when you go home,
02:27you should hug your parents.
02:29You should respect them.
02:31You should at least promise them that you will go,
02:34and you should serve them in such a way that their prayers come out of their hearts.
02:37And I believe that Allah has given so much power to the prayers of parents,
02:43that they can even make fake coins.
02:46Thank you very much.