It's Showtime: Abandonment issues, tumuldok sa relasyon ng EXpecial couple?! (EXpecially For You)

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00:00Okay, let's rewind for a bit and then we'll get back to what we were talking about earlier.

00:04Why did you guys split up? What was your problem?

00:07It was because of the time.

00:10Because his previous work was in making pizza.

00:15And then, at that time, he was supposed to start work in the afternoon.

00:21Then, at night, he was already out of work.

00:23Then, he transferred to a new job because he was already working in the bar until dawn.

00:29Then, he was supposed to start work in the afternoon, but he was already out of work.

00:34What was the effect? What was the connection between him being out of work and your relationship?

00:38The fact that I wasn't able to take care of him anymore.

00:42You didn't have time for each other anymore?

00:43Yes, we didn't have time for each other anymore.

00:46And when you didn't have time for each other, who affected you?

00:51What I did to make him see me, I went to a bar.

00:56You really wanted to go to a bar?

00:58You wanted to go to a bar?

00:59Yes, I wanted to go to a bar.

01:01And then, he started to get mad at me.

01:05Really?

01:06He started to get mad at you when you were there?

01:09He started to get mad at me.

01:10He started to get mad at you?

01:12He got mad at you?

01:14Yes, he got mad at me.

01:16He got mad at you?

01:17He said that I was annoying.

01:19And then, I felt like he didn't want me anymore.

01:24Did he talk to you?

01:24Yes, and then we started to fight.

01:27We started to say hurtful words to each other.

01:30Why did he say that he was annoying?

01:31What did he do to you?

01:33Did he tickle you?

01:34Did he dance in the bar while you were on duty?

01:37No, he kept asking me the same question.

01:40What kind of question?

01:42He kept asking me,

01:44why didn't you have time for me?

01:46You still love me.

01:48What?

01:48He kept asking me,

01:50why didn't you have time for me?

01:52You still love me.

01:53You still love me.

01:55You kept asking him,

01:57why didn't you have time for me?

01:59I couldn't feel him anymore.

02:02I felt like he didn't care about me anymore.

02:06He kept asking you,

02:07why didn't you have time for me?

02:09And then, you kept asking him again.

02:11The last time,

02:11I asked him if he still loves me.

02:13He said, I didn't know.

02:18Why did you say that, Ace?

02:20That you didn't know?

02:21Why didn't you know that you still love him?

02:24Why did he say that?

02:25Yeah, why?

02:26Why, Ace?

02:28He kept asking me,

02:30why didn't you have time for me?

02:31You still love me.

02:33Why didn't you have time for me?

02:34And then, you kept asking him again and again.

02:37There are a lot of people like that.

02:38Sometimes,

02:41he kept asking me again and again.

02:43He told me that the answer he was looking for

02:45was the answer he was looking for.

02:47He just thought,

02:48I'll just give you the answer you want.

02:50Not the real answer.

02:51Yes.

02:52Right?

02:54Don't you trust what I'm saying?

02:56You want me to repeat what I'm saying to you.

02:58It's like that.

02:59Yes, repeat.

03:01You know, there's this thing called...

03:03It has something to do with the abandonment issue.

03:09There are people who have abandonment issues.

03:11And then, there's this thing called

03:13the attachment style.

03:16For you, that's the anxious...

03:19Um...

03:21Anxious attachment style.

03:25You keep asking him again and again

03:27so that you can have validation

03:29and you can be reassured.

03:31Even if he told you that he loves you,

03:34you'll still ask him,

03:35Do you still love me?

03:36And then,

03:37you'll keep asking him again and again.

03:40That's the anxious attachment style.

03:44And then,

03:46you'll keep asking him again and again

03:49but you don't really want to.

03:50You'll keep asking him again and again

03:51so that you can have validation

03:52that he won't abandon you.

03:54That he really loves you.

03:55Do you do that?

03:56Yes.

03:57Yes, right?

03:57You'll keep asking him again and again

03:59but you really want to

04:01not to keep asking him again and again

04:02but to chase him

04:03because it will make you feel good

04:05if he chases you.

04:07That's how it is.

04:08You'll get angry

04:10even if you're not angry

04:11because you'll be reassured that he loves you

04:14if he chases you.

04:16Because you're too anxious.

04:18Anxious attachment.

04:20Yes.

04:20And the other one is,

04:22when it comes to him,

04:23do you worry that I'm doing something

04:25that's why you're asking me if I love you?

04:29I don't know, something like that.

04:30Why are you like that?

04:31Because people are not like that.

04:33There's a reason why

04:35they have a red flag here.

04:38They have an abandonment issue.

04:41Why is their attachment style like that?

04:43Because there's also a dismissive-avoidant

04:47attachment style.

04:49The dismissive-avoidant.

04:52The dismissive-avoidant is

04:54they like the person

04:55but when they like someone,

04:56they set a barrier

04:57like, let's stop here

04:59because I really don't want to fall for him.

05:00Ah, you don't want to give everything.

05:02Yes, it's like

05:04we love each other

05:05but let's stop here.

05:08Because he doesn't want to fall completely.

05:10He has a fear

05:11of why he doesn't want to.

05:14He doesn't want to because he's afraid.

05:15Maybe because before,

05:17when he agreed,

05:18when he gave his heart,

05:21he was betrayed.

05:22He was fooled.

05:23That's why he doesn't want to give his true feelings.

05:25It's like, let's stop here.

05:26He's protecting himself

05:28because maybe he lost his feelings before.

05:30Why are you like that?

05:31Why do you want to reassure

05:33and validate if he loves you

05:36and if it's still you?

05:37Because he's handsome at first.

05:41I broke up with him.

05:43Then he chased me away.

05:45Then he said,

05:45let's go out, let's eat.

05:47It's like our relationship worked out.

05:50And then the last time,

05:53I felt like it was over.

05:56Then I felt like

05:57our connection was just a motor.

05:59Maybe that's why he's staying.

06:01Then I told him,

06:03let's stop here.

06:05Let's do something

06:07that's not going to work anymore.

06:09Then he didn't chase me away.

06:13He really didn't want to.

06:15He was just waiting for me to break up with him.

06:19What was that?

06:21Was it because he was busy

06:23that's why he lost his time?

06:24Or did you see something?

06:27I didn't feel that.

06:28I just felt that he doesn't love me anymore.

06:33No, because he lost his time

06:34because he works at night.

06:36So their trips are just like a motor.

06:40They can't do anything because he's working.

06:43The equivalent to him is that he doesn't have time.

06:45He doesn't love me anymore.

06:47Is that right?

06:47That's what I think.

06:48And also,

06:49sometimes when we go out,

06:53he doesn't want to be with me.

06:55Because?

06:56That's what I felt.

06:57Is it because he's tired from work?

06:58Yes, because he's tired.

07:00He's also tired from Puyat.

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