GABBY met CJ a year ago when she bought a dog from him. CJ was a concreter at the time and said when they met, he knew Gabby was an adult content creator. CJ says he never saw himself being in a relationship with an adult star but he and Gabby formed a strong connection and started dating. He says he was curious and inquisitive about her work and would ask questions about the industry. They started making content together and CJ flew to Mexico to meet Gabby who was there for a shoot and persuaded CJ to join in! The couple got engaged in Mexico and now create content together and with other couples. Gabby is originally from a small town and has faced a lot of judgement mainly from small minded people she used to know in the town, they would send her content to her parents and troll her for her appearance. Now, her and CJ get judgement about sleeping with other people for work. CJ says “people can't comprehend how we sleep with other people, they can't look outside the spectrum. I get called “small” by trolls and guys get jealous I'm with Gabby.” Additionally they now run an online adult shop together and Gabby sells a mould of her own vagina. The couple say they constantly communicate and set boundaries and remain in a happy committed relationship despite their work lives. In this episode Gabby and CJ are joined by fellow adult creator and friend Jeremy, who was the first male that CJ felt comfortable shooting a scene with.
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00:00This is CJ.
00:02He fell in love with Gabby.
00:05People judge our relationship
00:07because we both sleep with other people.
00:09CJ and Gabby are both spicy content creators.
00:12I think any teenage boy,
00:14their dream's always been to be with an adult creator.
00:18We wanted to expand on what we were doing,
00:21so we started an online adult shop.
00:24Guess what this is?
00:26It looks so much like my bits.
00:29I do get a lot of online judgment.
00:32Low-class, bone society,
00:34f***ing inter-race loser scum.
00:39Today, our friend Jeremy is coming over.
00:41Jeremy was the first male that I was okay with Gabby sleeping with.
00:45How do you think your first experience went
00:47shooting with another male and another couple?
00:51So, we first met,
00:53it was just about a year ago now,
00:56and I actually purchased a dog from him,
01:00and he kept tagging me in these stories of these puppies that he had,
01:04and I bought one, and then...
01:06That was it.
01:07That was it. The rest is history.
01:09It was a bit of fun.
01:11We both did not expect to fall for each other as hard as we did.
01:14It just kind of rolled into a relationship, didn't it?
01:18I was in the adult industry, and CJ wasn't,
01:23so that was a challenge,
01:25because I am sleeping with other people for a living,
01:29and that's a concept that he was not used to.
01:33I was very hesitant at the start about it as well.
01:37Yeah, so just setting up the room for today.
01:40Gabby's getting her outfit changes ready.
01:43Feeling purple today.
01:46Got it going?
01:47Got it going, baby.
01:49So, we do have rules when it comes to work,
01:54because we don't want anything to come into play where there's any jealousy.
01:58We will work with females who are single,
02:01females that are in relationships
02:03that have those boundaries with their partner.
02:06That was amazing.
02:08But when we're working with male creators,
02:11we prefer to do that in a couple-to-couple setting.
02:14We wanted to expand on what we were doing.
02:17Rather than just filming, we wanted to delve into something different,
02:21so we started an online adult shop.
02:24We've got different products that we import.
02:27We've added in items that you might not find in just your regular adult store.
02:32One of those is actually the mould of my lady parts,
02:37so I've cloned it.
02:39It's pretty much exact.
02:41We've still got to make a few different alterations to it.
02:45Wow.
02:46It looks really good.
02:47I know, it looks so much like my bits, doesn't it?
02:50It's very, very similar.
02:52We thought, you know, there's people out there
02:54that have moulded their parts before.
02:57This is the next best thing, other than having me in flesh.
03:01I definitely don't mind if lots of guys out there
03:05buy one of your...
03:07Lady bits.
03:08Lady bits.
03:10I haven't planned on cloning any more parts of my body,
03:14but we have spoken about possibly his parts.
03:18Cloning mine.
03:19Because he...
03:21I think the world deserves to have one of him.
03:29Do you want to get some selfies for our social media?
03:32Let's get some with the dogs.
03:34I do get a lot of online judgement.
03:37They'd even go so far as messaging my family on Facebook,
03:41say stuff like, your daughter's a tramp.
03:43Some of the comments that I receive
03:46are next level when it comes to bullying.
03:49You know, comments like,
03:51how do you live each day knowing you're a complete...
03:55Or I'm being told I'm ugly, I'm disgusting.
03:59Low-class, bottom society...
04:05Why are you such a pushover?
04:12The worst reactions are probably the loss of people
04:16who I thought were really close to me.
04:18I'm not worried about what people think of me.
04:22So...
04:23Some margarita.
04:24So today we've got our friend Jeremy coming over.
04:28Jeremy was actually the first male that we worked with
04:32together as a couple.
04:33He actually became very good friends with him.
04:36He's a great guy.
04:38Him and his partner, they do content creating as well.
04:42So I think it'll be interesting to have his opinion from his side.
04:47Hey, guys.
04:48Hey.
04:49Nice to see you.
04:51Good to see you.
04:54Brother man.
04:55Good to see you, my boy.
04:57Thank you for having me.
04:58The margarita's here.
04:59I brought you a nice margarita.
05:01Best friends, thank you.
05:03Nice to see you guys.
05:04How have you been?
05:05Good, how have you been?
05:07I know that CJ was a little bit uncertain
05:10and a little bit nervous to shoot content with a male with Gabby.
05:14I know the first time you do bring another male in to shoot content
05:17it can be a little bit daunting.
05:19I would love to ask both Gabby and CJ
05:22how they now feel about working and bringing males in
05:25to create content with them online
05:27and how it's affected the dynamics of their relationship.
05:30How do you think your first experience went
05:32shooting with another male and another couple?
05:34I wasn't used to it because I'd never done it before
05:36but it's something I also wanted to try
05:39and it's grown our relationship, it's grown our trust,
05:42it's grown our safety and humility within each other.
05:46Before we shot, what was your biggest apprehension?
05:49What was something that scared you?
05:51Is he bigger? Is he better?
05:53Is he stronger?
05:55And what were your thoughts, Gabby,
05:57when you knew that CJ hadn't shot with another male before?
06:01How did you feel about it?
06:02Honestly, I was probably a little bit nervous
06:05about what his reaction would be starting the scene
06:08when we're actually in the scene
06:10doing the things that we're doing,
06:12how he's going to react.
06:14And afterwards, how he's going to be feeling,
06:17that's what I was concerned about.
06:19How did you think he'd react?
06:21I mean, no guy wants to see their wife or girlfriend
06:24or their partner or whatever with another male.
06:26But afterwards, we went out for lunch,
06:28we discussed it, we discussed the pros,
06:32barely any cons, and none of us were feeling bad.
06:37So, yeah.
06:38So, I want to know, how have you guys handled this
06:42as a couple with the judgment from social media?
06:45Because what we do is very...
06:48It's very against the grain of what society says is normal.
06:51When I was just working solo and going overseas
06:55and working with other male creators,
06:57I feel like that's when I got a lot of hate.
07:00I think the opinions come from those that are curious
07:03and want to do it themselves.
07:05When people know that they want to delve into that
07:09and if they want to experience stuff with other couples,
07:12but something's holding them back,
07:14then they're going to have nothing but hate
07:16and nothing but negative things to say
07:18because they can't do it themselves.
07:20So, it sounds like this has been a great experience for you
07:23and I'm proud of you guys.
07:25It's been such a pleasure getting to know you
07:27and I look forward to working with you guys again.
07:29Thank you.
07:30We look forward to it.
07:32We love working with you two.
07:34So, I think working with other people,
07:37it's enhanced the level of intimacy in our relationship
07:41and we can have a lot of fun with it.
07:43It just works.
07:44We're just both very understanding of each other, I think.
07:47What's a good word for it?
07:49You're the soft, I'm the hard.
07:53I don't know about that.
07:55Cut that out, don't say that.
07:56He is the hard one most of the time.
07:59You know what I mean?
08:03I love that we're always laughing, we're always joking.
08:06Nothing's ever too serious.
08:08The future for us is to expand our online adult business.
08:14If you can enjoy what you do for a living,
08:16I think not many people get to do that.
08:18It's definitely something that we both love.
08:20We'd like to have a little family of our own
08:23and get married
08:25and own a lot of dogs.