Meri Pehchan - Topic: Bachon ki Shakhsiyat par Mahol Ka Asar
Host: Syeda Zainab
Guest: Dr. Naheed Abrar, Zarmina
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A female talk show having discussion over the persisting customs and norms of the society. Female scholars and experts from different fields of life will talk about the origins where those customs, rites and ritual come from or how they evolve with time, how they affect and influence our society, their pros and cons, and what does Islam has to say about them. We'll see what criteria Islam provides to decide over adapting or rejecting to the emerging global changes, say social, technological etc. of today.
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Host: Syeda Zainab
Guest: Dr. Naheed Abrar, Zarmina
#MeriPehchan #SyedaZainabAlam #ARYQtv
A female talk show having discussion over the persisting customs and norms of the society. Female scholars and experts from different fields of life will talk about the origins where those customs, rites and ritual come from or how they evolve with time, how they affect and influence our society, their pros and cons, and what does Islam has to say about them. We'll see what criteria Islam provides to decide over adapting or rejecting to the emerging global changes, say social, technological etc. of today.
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00:00A'uzu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem, Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem, Allahumma Salli ala Sayyidina
00:11wa Mawlana Muhammadin wa ala aali Sayyidina wa Mawlana Muhammadin, wa barik wa sallim wa
00:18sallu alayh.
00:19Inna salati wa nusuki wa mahyaya wa mamati lillahi rabbil alameen, ki beshakt meri namaz,
00:26meri qurbani, meri zindagi aur meri maud sirf Allah Rabbul Izzat ke liye hai, jo tamaam
00:33alameen ka Rabb hai.
00:35Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
00:39Aap dekh rahein program Meri Pehchaan aur Meri Pehchaan ki ek nai episode ke saath hazir
00:45e khidmat hain.
00:46Janab, aaj bhi hum bahut aham unwaan lekar aapki khidmat mein hazir hua hain aur jo
00:52fee zamana hum apne irdh girdh ke maahol mein dekh rahein hain, khaas taur par kyunke
00:57bache jo hain, wo hamara mustaqbil hote hain, hamari shahsiyat ke aayina daar bhi hote hain.
01:04Ab har insaan ke jo shahsiyat mein ya insaan ke andar shar bhi maujood hota hain aur khair
01:11bhi maujood hoti hain, lekin yeh insaan ke apne upar hai, ke wo khair ko apnaata hain
01:16ya shar ko apnaata hain.
01:18Insaan jis maahol mein hota hain, apne surrounding mein jis cheezon ko dekh raha hota hain, panap
01:24raha hota hain, uske tajarbaat uske shahsiyat par asar andaaz hote hain, uske jo mushahidat
01:31hain, wo uske shahsiyat par asar andaaz hote hain, yani irdh girdh ka maahol, ghar ka maahol,
01:37uske sohbat poori ki poori makamal taur par kahi na kahi uske shahsiyat mein nazar aati
01:43hain, yani insaan ko jaisa maahol diya jaata hain, uski shahsiyat ussi tarahan se, ussi
01:48chahein baithar hai, to wo baithar andaaz se parwaan chadta hai, agar kahi na kahi koi
01:54khala hai, koi kami hai, to wo zahir-e-adam tawazun ka shikaar hota hain, aur uski shahsiyat
01:59par asar hota hain.
02:01Ab agar hum dekhe, to uska jo maahol hai, sohbat hai, jo humne baat ki, to uske nazariyat
02:06par, fikr par, yani jis tarah se hum baat karte hain, aqaid par bhi, khaas taur par,
02:12uski sohch par bhi asar andaaz hota hai, aur kahi na kahi hume uski shahsiyat mein wo
02:17jalak nazar aati hai.
02:18Baithar kaise banaya jaye, irdh girdh ka maahol ko, taake insaan ki shahsiyat baithar
02:24taur par parwaan chadhe, yani bacche ki shahsiyat par, jo asraat murattab hote hain maahol
02:30ke, is hawale se aaj ki guftago ki jayegi.
02:33Humari mehman shahsiyat, jo aaj ke panel mein maujood hain, wo bhi ek bahut baithreen
02:38shahsiyat ki maalik hain, aur mai yeh zarur unke liye kehna chahungi, ke khaas taur par,
02:43waise toh har topic pe hi woh baithar guftago farmaati hain, aur baithar se baithreen guftago
02:48farmaati hain, lekin chooke unka taalluk dars-o-tadreez se raha hai, aur ek taweel arse tak, jo hai
02:53woh maashaAllah, aur ab tak, maashaAllah, bohut tulba wa talbaat ki tarbiyat bhi karti
02:58hain, toh is topic pe mujhe yeh guman hain, aur bohut hi achha guman hain, ke yeh bohut
03:03baithreen mashpare bhi dengi.
03:05Doctor Naheed Abrar sahiba maujood hain, welcome karte hain, Assalam-o-Alaikum, Warahmatullahi-Wabarakatuhu.
03:09Doctor sahiba, mizaaj bakhair hain?
03:11Zainab Allah ka Ihsan hain.
03:13Aur humari saath agli shahsiyat maujood hain, Zarmina Nasir sahiba, unhe bhi welcome karte
03:17hain, Assalam-o-Alaikum, Warahmatullahi-Wabarakatuhu.
03:20Zarmina Nasir sahiba jo hain, woh yaqeeni taur par, jisna se aap sab jaante hain, naujawan
03:24naseel ki numainda hain, aur humare is program mein aati hain, toh shahsiyat ke hawale se,
03:30khaas taur par bachon ki shahsiyat ke hawale se, jab yeh guftagu karengi, toh bohut hi
03:33achha mehsoos karenge hum, aur bachay khaas taur par, tawajood se sunte hain, inke kalam
03:38ko bhi.
03:39Aapa, sabse pehle hum baat kar lete hain, chunke bachay ki jo pehli darsgah hain, woh
03:45maa ki godh hain, uske baad phir maahol aata hain, phir ghar ka maahol, ya digar dars
03:49wo tadreez ka maahol, uski shahsiyat par bohut zyada gehre asraat murattab karta hain.
03:55Kya firmaengi aapa?
03:56Auzubillahi minashaitwani rajim, Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
04:01Dekhi Zainab, maa ki godh bachay ki pehli tarbiyat ka, aur pehli darsgah hoti hain.
04:07Bachay ko janam dene ke baad, iske mission, iske farz, aur iske kaam ka haaqaas hota hain.
04:13Ek maa, bachay ki pehdaayish se lekar pehdaayish ke baad ki saari takaleef apni mamta ki jholi
04:19mein samit kar, inhe apni mohabbat ka woh saaya deti hain, jo rahmat-e-khudawandi bankar
04:25unke saath rahta hain.
04:27Dekhi Zainab, doraane hamal se hi, maa ki maamulat aur shab-o-rooz bachay ki shahsiyat
04:33par gehre asraat murattab karte hain.
04:35Maa ki ibadat, riazat, zuhd-o-taqwa, bachay be khauf-e-khuda, aur mohabbat-e-rasool se
04:42sarshaar karte hain.
04:44Apne bachay ko deeni ahkaamaat ki bajawari karana, aur unke akhlaaq aur kirdaar ki tarbiyat
04:50karna, na sirf bachon ki shahsiyat par gehre asraat murattab karte hain, na sirf bachon
04:55ke liye faideh mand hain, balke maa bhi, baap bhi, is ajro-sawaab mein barabar ke sharikh
05:00hota hain.
05:01Nabi Karim Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ishaat farmaayi, ki jis shahs ka Allah beta de, aur
05:05usko ki saari zindagi maa-baap aisi tarbiyat karein, ki wo ibadat-e-ilahi, ilm-e-deen mein
05:10guzaare, to Allah-taala uske liye sattar-siddiq-e-ghaayn ka sawaab likte hain.
05:15Dekhi Allah-taala zainab, kisi ko aulaad ki neemat se nawaze, to maa-baap ka farz-e, ki
05:20uska ka achha naam rakhein, usko talim-o-tarbiyat ke zeewar se aa-rasta karein, jab wo nikah
05:27ko pohchein, to san-e-balogat ko pohchein, to uske nikah ka bandubas karein, aur phir
05:32maa-baap ka yeh bhi farz-e, ki apne ghar ko achha banayein.
05:36Dekhi, pehdayesh ke baad ghar ka mauhal bhi bachche ki shaksiyat par bahut asaar rakhta
05:40hai, ki bachche ko sajh aur jhoot ka fargh batayein, haq-o-batil ka fargh batayein, neki-badhi
05:46ka fargh batayein, halal-haram ka fargh batayein, taaki yehi bachcha jab parwaan chad kar jawani
05:51ki manzil-e tay karein, to apne mool ko aur apne deen ka naam roshan karein.
05:55Dekhi baba, Fareed Shakarganj ki waalda muhtarma, zahud-o-taqwa ke jazbe se sarshaar thi, aur
06:00misha ba-wudhu rahti thi, wo apne bachche ko hamisha uski aisi tarbiyat ki, ki jab bachpan
06:07mein unhone apne bachche ko namaas padhna sikai, to shakar shokh se khahti thi, unke
06:12musalle ki niche puriya rakti thi, ki beta jab tum namaas padhoge to Allah tumhe inaam
06:16dega, aur aur zyada ibadat mein masroob hoge to Allah isse bhi bade inaamaas se tumhe nawaazega.
06:22Jab wo namaas padh leti thi, to bachche ko shakar ki puriya nikal kar deti thi.
06:26Waldein ka farz hai, ke burre kaamon par tambi karen, lekin achche kaamon par zainab, apne
06:32bachche ki hausla, avzai zarur karen.
06:35Baba Fareed Shakarganj kahne lage, ke aaj tak meri tahajud ki namaas kabhi qaza nahi
06:39hui, to maa kahne lage, ke kaise teri namaas qaza hoti, kabhi teri maa ne tujhe baghar
06:44wudhu ki dood nahi pilaya.
06:46Isi tarah Khawaja Nizamuddin Auliya ki waalda muhtarma ne unme sabr, shukr, tawakul padha
06:53ke dekhi yeh tawam cheeze abhi tarbiyat ke hisse mein aatein, ke jab unhone fukro faqa
06:58mein zindagi guzari, sari zindagi apne bete ke naam ki, maa ki tarbiyat aur maa ki muhabbat,
07:04zainab duniya mein is muhabbat ka koi neimul badal nahi hai.
07:08Dekhi jab unka ghar mein khaane ke liye kuch nahi hota tha, to apne bete se kehati thi
07:13ki bete aaj hum Allah ke mehman hai.
07:16Isi tarah Amar bin Salma farmate hain, ke jab main chhota sa tha, Nabiye Kareem Sallallahu
07:20alaihi wasallam mere ghar par aaye, aur kehne lagi ki beta seedhe haath se khaana khao,
07:25dastarkhaan pe khaana khao, Allah ke naam se iktida kar kar khaana khao, to bacche ki
07:31tarbiyat karne mein, aur ghar ke mauhol ko achha banane mein, zainab, waaldain ka bahut
07:37ahem role hota hai.
07:39Agar waaldain mein ladhai jagda nahi hoga, to bhi bacchon ki ishi tarbiyat hogi.
07:43Agar waaldain paanch waqt ki namaz ke aadi honge, apne ghar ko tilawatin, quran-e-paak
07:47se zayenge, to baccha bhi sobha utkar apne haath mein mobile ke bhajaye jaa namaz lega,
07:52aur tilawat-e-quran-e-paak wo karna shuru kar dega.
07:55Dekhiye, deeni, ibadat ki, apne bacchon ke liye bajawari karana, aur apne bacchon ko
08:03har kaseem ki deeni, duniyawi, talimat se roshanaz karana, aur unhe istiqamat ke aur sahi raste
08:09pe gamzan karne mein, ghar ke mauhol ke saath-saath, waaldain ka ahem kardar hota hai.
08:15Ek waaldain jab humaari tarbiyat karte hain, to hum doktor bante hain, engineer bante hain,
08:20ustaad bante hain, ek deendar shahz bante hain, aur apne mul ka bhi naam roshan karte hain,
08:25apne waaldain ka bhi naam roshan karte hain, to Allah taala tamaam aulat ko, jab hum doa
08:31maangte hain na, to dekhiye Allah hume aulat de, to ye bhi doa maange, ki Allah tu hume
08:35naik aur saale aulat ata pharma, ta ki hum deen ke raste pe chalein, aur apne Allah aur
08:41Rasool ke ahkamat ke matabir zindagi kusa rahe hain.
08:44Uski bahtreen tarbiyat kar sakhein, aapa, sabse badi baat to yeh hoti hain.
08:47Jisna se aapne isaad pharmaaya, ab agar sabse pehle humne waaldain ke kardar ke hawale se
08:53baat ki, ghar ke maahol ki baat ki hain, ghar ke maahol ke baat jab bachcha thoda sa bada
08:57hota hai, to zahir hai wo schooling shuru ho jati hain, aur wahin se mazeed kardar saazi
09:03ya shaksiyat saazi jo hain uski shuru ho jati hain.
09:06Yani asataza aur talimi idare bhi uski shaksiyat me bohot maawan aur madadgaar hote hain.
09:12Zermina kya phirmaayenge, sawal hai?
09:14Bahut shukriya zainab, bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
09:16Aaj humare ghar ke sabse soft component ke hawale se guftagu ki ja rahi hai humare bachche
09:21jo humare ghar ka ahamtareen fardh hote hain, aur jab wo bade hote hain to maashray ka ek
09:26ahamtareen fardh ban jati hain.
09:27Agar hum bachchon ki achchi kamil tarbiyat karenge, being a parent bhi, aur achche ustaad
09:32hone ke hawale se bhi, to wo ilm ki duniya mein mahtab ban kar chamakte hain.
09:35Wo achche kamil musulman bhi bante hain, aur kamiyab doctor aur engineer ke taur pe bhi
09:40apne faraiz anjaam dete hain.
09:42Lekin zainab, phir zamana bahut maazrat ke saath dekha yeh jaata hai ki talim to bachchon
09:45ko bahut achchi di ja rahi hoti hain.
09:47Lekin jab baat tarbiyat ki hoti hain, khilaq ki hoti hain, kirdaar ki hoti hain, lihaaz
09:51ki hoti hain, murawat ki hoti hain, aur badon ke adab wo adaab ki hoti hain, to khaasi kami
09:55dikha hi deti hain.
09:56Is zainab, tawajjo dene ki zarurat hain walidayan ko bhi, aur phir definitely teachers ko bhi.
10:00Kyunke Sheikh Saadi ka bada pyara call hain, ke agar ek imarat ki taameer hoti hain, aur
10:06uski ek eent tedhi rakh di jaye, to imarat koha kitni buland kyun na ho, lekin wo tedhi
10:11hi rahi hain.
10:11So yeh bada important age hoti hain, chahe wo bache beginning mein ho, monastery level
10:15pe ho, ya phir 10 to 12 years ki unki age hoti hain, schooling unki chal rahi hoti hain,
10:19ismein saath zaat ka teachers ka bada ahem role hota hai, jo wo play kar rahi hoti hain.
10:23Aur bahut idealize kar rahi hoti hain, wo bache.
10:25Exactly mein isi samt aane wali thi zainab, ki idealize istana se karte hain, ki aap dekh
10:30hain zainab, wo ghar mein aake literally bata rahe hote hain, ki aaj aamari teacher
10:34ne ame achcha khilaki sabak yeh sikhaya hain, aaj ame, kyunke abhi to mujhe ek cheez bohot
10:38acchi lagi, schools ke andar ke nazra ki taalim bhi di jaati hain.
10:41Alhamdulillah, phir kya hota hain, ki gharon ke andar bhi di jaati hain, schools ke andar
10:45bhi toh dono muawan aur madadgaar ban jaati hain, dono idara, ghar bhi definitely ek idara
10:49hai, jahaan se aapki shakhsiyat aur mazaaj ki tashqeel hoti hain, aur phir school se bhi.
10:53Toh bache ghar aakar bata rahe hote hain, aaj ame yeh acchi hadees sunayi teacher ne,
10:57ya teacher ne kaha, ki badon ka adab istana se karte hain, badon ka khayal, maabab ki
11:01khidmat, ya hume yeh akhlaki sabak diya, ya hume reading ka yeh topic bataya hain, aur
11:05even yeh bhi kahte hain, ki hume book ko istana se cover karna hain, kyunke amari teacher
11:09ne hume yeh kaha hain, to teacher ek role model hote hain, bachon ke liye, students
11:13to teachers ko apni zimmedaari ko understand karna hain, kyunke zainab certain times yeh
11:17bhi dekha jaata hain, ki gharon me toh acchi tarbiyat chal rahi hoti hain, lekin school
11:21ya idara ka jo mahal hota hain, ya jo teachers ki wahadam tawajji keh lijiye, kotai keh lijiye,
11:25unattention keh lijiye, toh iss se kya hota hain, ki bache ki shakhsiyat mein phir bigaad
11:29paida hota hain, yaha main ek zaroor baat karna chaungi, jo hume, you know, majalis
11:33ke andar, mahafil ke andar discussion chal rahi hoti hain, toh bataya jaata hain, ki
11:37kuch schoolon ke andar, kuch talimikaron ke andar, zainab bahot zyada hoti hain, jisse
11:41phir bache ki shakhsiyat maand par jati hai, wo complex ka shikar ho jata hai, aap jab
11:45being a teacher, bachon ke andar adlo insaaf ka maada kaim nahi karenge, unki aktalfi
11:49karenge, toh jaad rakhi hain, har shakhs nige baan hai, hadees ka mafoom hai, aur usse
11:53uske hawale se sawal kiya jaayega, toh bachon ki personal grooming ki zainab baat ho, ya
11:57unke self confidence ke level ke hawale se baat ho, unko aitmaat jagmagane ke hawale se
12:01baat ho, ya unka kirdar chamkane ke hawale se baat ho, toh teachers ki ek bahot aham
12:05zimadari hai, unne kauli aur faili, theory bhi aur practically bhi bachon ki achi tarbiyat
12:09karna hai, kyunki ussaad ruhani maabab hi hote hain, aur chunke walidayan bachon ko 7
12:13to 8 years ka, ya jo bhi ek mukhtas karda, kuch time hai, kuch ghante hai, zyada tar
12:17wo bacha apne asatiza ke saath guzarta hai, toh jaise hadees-e-mubarika ka mafoom hai
12:21na, ki bacha, har bacha achi fitrat par paida hota hai, uske walidayan ke asatiza
12:25yehudiya, nasrani ya majusi bana dete hain, toh chunke asatiza, jo teachers hain, wo
12:29bhi ruhani maabab ka darjah rakte hain, toh unko chahiye, ke bache ke khameer ke andar
12:33achahi ki raghbat maujood hai, aap jab unne achhe tariqah se educate karenge, facilitate
12:37karenge, mohazibana rawaya ikhtyar karenge, adlo insaaf kaim karenge, toh bache maashray
12:41me positive role play karne wale ban sakenge.
12:43besek, badi achi baat ki, aur humne toh ek bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi
12:47bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi bachayi
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25:03Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu
25:05You are watching Meri Pehchaan
25:07and today we are talking about the impact of the environment on a child's personality
25:16Till now we have talked about the environment at home and the relationship between friends and family
25:21Now as far as we can see, the role of social media is also playing a very important role in characterizing
25:31This is also very important to check and balance
25:34because children are spending a lot of time on social media
25:38How to check and balance them?
25:41How much time should be given to them?
25:43How much permission should be given to them?
25:44You are with us, Dr. Sahiba
25:46Please tell us
25:47Because every child has a mobile phone
25:51What would you like to say in this regard?
25:53Zainab, when we look at the society
25:57More than the need, the abundance of wealth gives rise to problems
26:02and more than the need, closeness gives rise to problems
26:06More than the need, freedom gives rise to problems
26:10and more than the need, strictness gives rise to problems
26:13We see that mobile phones have become a fashion these days
26:17The person who has a mobile phone in his hand is considered to be intelligent
26:21And this mobile phone is such a disorder that pollutes the loneliness of young people
26:28See, in this regard, the parents are also responsible
26:31If the home environment is good, then all these things will not happen
26:37If there is an irresponsible attitude in the home environment
26:40If there is a disorderly life, then all these problems will arise
26:44See, most of the children's educational activities are affected by the use of mobile phones
26:49If they talk on the phone all night, then the practice of doing homework and memorizing becomes dull
26:55Zainab, by using the mobile phone more, their eyes become weak
27:00They become susceptible to diseases such as dizziness and headache
27:04See Zainab, most of the fake news is posted on social media
27:09And then you also see that there is also posh literature
27:15By reading this, the child can be susceptible to mental distress
27:20And can go towards deafness
27:23Then we see that some parents are also using mobile phones a lot
27:28Then how will they refuse their child?
27:31Then if the child is eating food, then the mobile phone is given to the child during the meal
27:37So its physical and mental health is affected
27:41See, in this regard, the role of the mother is also very important
27:44Because the father goes to the office in the morning and returns in the evening
27:47If a mother stays at home all day
27:50If friends have come, then the mother says, play the game and give it to them, you talk
27:54If you are going shopping, then put a cartoon in the hands of the children
27:58See, we will be back in a while
28:01Third, if you are cooking food, then to keep the children busy
28:05It is not necessary that you remember any Qur'anic verse
28:08Remember today's good thing
28:10Read a book by the blessed hand of the Messenger of Allah
28:15They immediately give the mobile phone and get rid of their responsibilities
28:20Then I will give a warning
28:22Zainab, let the boys be blind to some extent
28:25But the mobile phones in the hands of girls today can be a victim of bad company
28:31They are immature, they are immature minds
28:34Sometimes there can be confusion in those minds
28:37So it is the responsibility of the mother
28:39I have seen in some homes of my daughters that the children are using mobile phones all night
28:44It is the duty of the mother to sleep under the pillow
28:47If you have to look for something while studying, then look for it
28:52And go to bed on time
28:54Get up on time and go to bed on time
28:57In this regard, we should also give the children religious teachings
29:01Because of this, more than necessary, the use of anything is also harmful
29:06See, all these things are creating tension in the man
29:10They are also a victim of bad company
29:12Girls are also getting weighed down by their circumstances and their society
29:16So it is the duty of the mother to take care of her daughters
29:20If they want to use a mobile phone
29:22If you are talking to a friend, then definitely talk
29:25If you want to ask a teacher, then definitely ask
29:27Apart from this, do not give mobile phones in their hands late at night
29:31So that these children are not a victim of bad company
29:34Because today's children are the guests of the future
29:37In the future, they will glorify their country and their religion
29:40So to get rid of all these things
29:44It is also the responsibility of the parents
29:46It is also the responsibility of the Asataza
29:48It is also the responsibility of the elders of the house
29:50And the environment of the house also plays an important role
29:53There will be a good environment where there will be restrictions
29:56So the children will learn good things
29:58And if there is a bad environment, then the children will go towards destruction and destruction
30:02One more point is coming to my mind
30:04Because I am really looking at the girls around me
30:09So they are looking at the mobile
30:11So many new brands of fashion
30:13Purses, clothes and jewellery are coming
30:16And the people who cannot buy
30:18Looking at them, they are suffering from a sense of inferiority
30:21They are girls and they are asking
30:23And after asking, when their parents cannot fulfill it
30:26So they use other sources
30:28And then this thing goes far ahead
30:30And they all know that there is no need to say this
30:33But if we stop there
30:35That is, mobile should be given to them as little as possible
30:37And social media, whatever media you use
30:40Especially if we keep the password with us
30:42Specially with respect to parents
30:44And they are given a mobile or anything at the same time
30:48Especially when the parents are at home
30:50And if you use that thing in front of you
30:52Then there can be a lot of shortage
30:54In being helpless
30:56That children cannot be dependent on other things
30:59Or their attention cannot go here and there
31:01Or attention cannot go here and there
31:03Now if we talk about personality
31:05As it is being talked about from the very beginning
31:09How do we have to keep a close eye
31:12First of all, we talked about this
31:13Then this is also the case that we
31:15Because both guest personalities are present with us
31:18Let's talk about Tajawiz
31:20How to make a better personality
31:22We can all play a role by using all the things
31:27Because today we see
31:29The way the personalities were
31:31Qaid-e-Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah
31:32Allama Iqbal
31:34And other such personalities
31:36The mothers who have given birth to
31:38How will we make
31:40Thank you very much Zainab
31:42Look at the personality of children
31:44First of all, it is important to know that
31:46Allah has given us children as a blessing
31:48As a mercy
31:50In the Holy Qur'an, it has been interpreted as good news
31:52With good news
31:53It has been called the treasure of hearts
31:55In the light of the Holy Qur'an
31:57And according to the meaning of the Qur'an
31:59It comes in front of us
32:01When parents raise their children
32:03Take care of them
32:05Their faith
32:07In the light of the Qur'an
32:09It comes in front of us
32:10That those parents and children
32:11Will be mixed in heaven
32:13So you see how much benefit it has
32:15Then how can we train them well
32:17With what effort
32:19In the light of the Holy Qur'an
32:21We have to understand this thing
32:23The best thing that a father can give
32:25A good gift to his children
32:27It is his excellent training
32:29And it is the meaning of a very beautiful hadith
32:31That his children
32:33The Master of Allah taught
32:35Teach your children three things
32:37Love the Master of Allah
32:39Love his family
32:41And recitation of the Qur'an
32:43Because love the Master of Allah
32:45Tell about him
32:47About his qualities
32:49Give him a guideline
32:51Tell him about his family
32:53What is the status of Imam Zain-ul-Abideen
32:55What is the glory of the Master of the Universe
32:57Maula Ali, may Allah bless him
32:59And Asnain, may Allah bless him
33:01What a great status and rank
33:03Then the Holy Qur'an
33:05Which is the complete code of life
33:07Which guides us in every field of life
33:09Give children a guideline
33:11Recitation of the Holy Qur'an
33:13Try with translation and interpretation
33:15Or a hadith like Mishkat-ul-Masabi
33:17A very beautiful book of hadith
33:19One hadith must be recited
33:21So that his personality
33:23His character, thoughts and ideas
33:25Can be built
33:27Then in terms of children's training
33:29I would also like to add
33:31That by setting aside in-laws' fights
33:33Children's mental, moral, physical
33:35In every way
33:37Spiritual, good training should be done
33:39In this regard, we know
33:41Regarding Hazrat Luqman
33:43Very beautiful advice is found in the Holy Qur'an
33:45The verses from 13 to 18
33:47Read them yourself
33:49Tell the children
33:51Which has given us very good and bad guidelines
33:53How did Hazrat Luqman
33:55Advise his child
33:57Son, give people the command of goodness
33:59And stop from evil
34:01In this way, he will be able to train himself
34:03And then others
34:05Then teach the child
34:07That Allah is with those who are patient
34:09So that he moves forward in the world
34:11Because there are ups and downs
34:13In the world
34:15When a person has to face different situations
34:17So that his connection with Allah
34:19In the form of prayer, patience
34:21In the form of getting his approval
34:23Teach him small prayers
34:25Give him good advice
34:27And as the meaning of Hadith Mubarak
34:33Save your children
34:35From the fire of hell
34:37Whose fuel is stone and man
34:39You see in that family
34:41Your children are also included
34:43I gave the reference of Hazrat Luqman
34:45And the direct advice of the Prophet
34:49For our children
34:51We get a beautiful Hadith from Hazrat Abbas
34:53That you follow the commandments of Allah
34:55And protect his religion
34:57Allah will protect you
34:59This was told to us
35:01So when we are in these beautiful matters
35:03And the letters
35:05We train the children
35:07We recite the verses of Sheikh Sadi
35:09We recite the verses of Sheikh Sadi
35:11So the personality of the children
35:13As an ideal personality
35:15And in the form of beauty
35:17And here I will end my talk
35:19Muzaffar Warsi's talk
35:21And the advice
35:23Then give red to the old
35:25Go put in the stones
35:27We are the future
35:29Give us the past
35:31There is a claim of your love
35:33Of this misguided nation
35:35There is no one except you
35:37Doctor Sahiba would like to give a message
35:39When we talk about
35:41Training and environment
35:43So Sayyidina
35:45Ghose Azam's mother
35:47Advised that son
35:49Never lie in life
35:51And always follow the path of truth
35:53So in his life
35:55He always followed the path of truth
35:57And he was called the ruler of the saints
35:59May Allah give us the ability
36:01To follow the teachings of the Prophets
36:03And the Saints
36:05Yes Zarmina
36:07I would like to quote
36:09Zainab's brother
36:11The last two verses of Surah Baqarah
36:13Allah has given me from the treasure of the throne
36:15So teach your wives
36:17And your children
36:19So that the freshness of the flowers can be maintained
36:21Subhanallah
36:23I would like to thank both guests
36:25Doctor Sahiba, you came
36:27Zarmina, Nasir Sahiba, you came
36:29Thank you both for coming
36:31I am grateful to both of you
36:33How does the environment
36:35Affect the personality
36:37And how can his personality
36:39Blossom like a flower
36:41How can it be smelly
36:43And like a thorn
36:45That is, it can harm others
36:47Or it can be harmful
36:49Because the child is like a simple paper
36:51As soon as he gets the environment
36:53He flourishes in the same environment
36:55His character is made up
36:57His personality is made up
36:59We are seeing that children are actually
37:01Giving speeches
37:03Studying in universities
37:05So keep hope
37:07From the tree
37:09We have a lot more than our youth
37:11These are the kings of Iqbal
37:13These are the youth of Iqbal
37:15Iqbal has praised them in a lot of poetry
37:17So we have a lot of hope
37:19For our people
37:21Especially our Pakistani children
37:23We have a lot of hope
37:25They have to take care of Baghdad
37:27So we are very grateful
37:29We are praying for the future
37:31May Allah bless you