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00:00 Alan.

00:02 For me, I can really defend him.

00:05 I will tell the person who will judge us,

00:10 don't say those words because one day it might happen to you.

00:16 We can't judge a person because sometimes when we judge, it happens to us.

00:24 That's why it's hard.

00:26 Now, for sure, while you're watching this, there are people judging you.

00:30 Yes.

00:31 What will you tell them?

00:33 I called my mom earlier.

00:37 I asked for advice from her.

00:39 My mom said, "They don't have anything to do with you.

00:41 They don't feed you.

00:43 You're the one who lives for yourself, so don't care about them.

00:46 Let them be.

00:48 Whatever they say, it's you.

00:50 It's you for yourself.

00:51 You know who you are."

00:53 I love it.

00:54 I want you to talk to your mom before you came here.

00:58 That's a big thing.

00:59 You're going to make it big here.

01:01 It's hard because earlier, it's heavy.

01:05 I don't know if I'll continue or not.

01:08 I said, "Will I do this?"

01:09 Because after this, I know that there are bashings on social media.

01:14 And to my friends, I asked them, "Will I accept my accusation?"

01:21 They said, "Yes, accept it."

01:23 They said, "Be true to yourself.

01:25 You can do it."

01:26 Right?

01:27 Imagine, that's how hard it is for the LGBT community.

01:31 Correct.

01:34 All things are a challenge for us.

01:37 Everyday, you see people who are searchers here.

01:42 Right?

01:43 But they're the ones who are afraid that they might be bashed if they say something bad.

01:50 But if you're a member of the LGBT community, you haven't said anything yet.

01:53 You have a judgment that it's that hard.

01:57 That's why I salute and admire all of you who agreed and strengthened your hearts

02:02 to represent yourselves and people like you.

02:06 Thank you so much for your courage.

02:08 And also for the people who supported you, especially your parents

02:12 who gave you strength.

02:14 Because it's very hard.

02:16 It is very hard.

02:18 Especially when you talk about love.

02:20 Because when you're gay, in the Philippines, they're just happy when you're laughing.

02:25 But when they talk about your love, we're not okay with that anymore.

02:29 We're okay with being gay because they're happy with us.

02:33 But when they're not happy, they're not happy with laughing, they're not okay.

02:37 And it's hard to fight that idea and system every single day.

02:42 And it shouldn't be that way because at the end of the day,

02:46 we're all human beings loving.

02:48 Yeah.

02:49 Alright.

02:51 Here's a super exciting reward just for you!

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Searchee Alan recounts the advice his mother gave him dealing with bashers | Expecially For You

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