Remy Ma and celebrated battle rapper Hitman Holla come together to discuss the vital topic of children's education.
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00:00 Nick Cannon got like 13 kids now.
00:01 What you--
00:02 That's it?
00:03 I think he just had like 13 or 12.
00:04 I feel like it's so much more.
00:06 When you start having all these kids,
00:07 because he was sleeping with all those Wild 'N Out girls
00:09 for so long, and none of them were getting pregnant.
00:10 You wouldn't drink?
00:11 I know you said you don't drink.
00:12 I don't think he slept with no Wild 'N Out girl.
00:14 The twins had his face tattooed on them.
00:16 Maybe because they liked him as a mogul.
00:18 But you-- I mean, I like him.
00:20 My first joke on Wild 'N Out was asking--
00:22 well, you remember my first joke.
00:24 Yeah, I remember.
00:24 I'm saying, I don't think--
00:26 I ain't got no proof that he slept with any of them.
00:28 I just know he got four baby mamas and 12 kids.
00:31 I ain't got that.
00:32 Oh, so they all from--
00:32 See what I'm saying?
00:33 Just to relax.
00:35 That's still a lot.
00:36 But it's only--
00:37 Four baby mamas is crazy.
00:38 A lot of people think it's 12 baby mamas.
00:40 Four baby mothers is crazy.
00:41 The population got three baby mamas, four baby mamas.
00:44 So somebody with 100 in them is for me?
00:45 Yeah.
00:47 I said 80%.
00:47 I'm within that 20 there.
00:48 You know what's so crazy?
00:50 Not if you take the LGBT community and the equation
00:53 and divide it into what the whole world is,
00:55 because we don't have a lot of--
00:57 we don't have those issues.
00:58 Divorce and all-- I mean, it's new to us.
00:59 We didn't have those rights.
01:00 Baby mamas.
01:01 Yeah.
01:02 No, I know a lot of people in the LGBT that have baby mamas.
01:04 Really?
01:05 I was like, yeah.
01:06 Well, when Nick was with Mariah, that was his ex-wife.
01:08 Then he made all the baby mamas, right?
01:11 But--
01:12 They have three sets of twins, too.
01:14 So that's six.
01:16 Is it three sets?
01:17 But they say he was tired as hell
01:18 on Christmas zigzagging across the world
01:20 trying to get to all these kids.
01:21 Santa.
01:22 Real-life Santa.
01:23 I don't even like kids like that.
01:25 Like, I love my kid.
01:27 Like, it takes a lot for me to like a kid.
01:29 Like, you got to be cute.
01:31 You got to be, like, smart.
01:33 You got to have something about you.
01:35 Like, kids-- like, the average kids, they be dirty.
01:37 They be want to touch stuff.
01:38 I like seeing cute kids on Instagram,
01:40 but do not bring them to my house.
01:41 Don't bring them here.
01:42 You would love my daughter.
01:43 Like, she's trained, though.
01:44 Like, she wouldn't be touching stuff.
01:46 I would love your daughter because I love you,
01:47 but I do not love people's kids.
01:49 Listen to me, I promise you.
01:50 My daughter, like, people-- they don't even call for me.
01:53 Or they come to visit me to see her.
01:55 Like, she's not like a regular kid.
01:56 Like, she's super-- she's very smart.
01:58 She's articulate.
02:00 And I feel like that's because that's how I raised her.
02:02 I didn't want her to be just like, what's that?
02:05 Can I have some?
02:06 I don't like what being a kid entails.
02:08 I love little dogs.
02:09 Being a kid entails--
02:10 So, you don't let people bring their kids over
02:12 to your house for like holidays?
02:13 No.
02:14 No, don't come to my house to take kids.
02:16 So, if I come over, I can't--
02:17 My house, if you want to-- if your kid is doing something,
02:19 they be like, you want to go to Remy's house?
02:20 You want to go to Titi Remy's house?
02:21 My son's 16, though.
02:22 My house is a punishment.
02:23 My son's 16.
02:24 Oh, well, he could come.
02:25 I'm working him.
02:26 Yeah.
02:26 I pay by the room.
02:27 He's clean.
02:28 Like, I don't have--
02:30 I'm talking about little kids.
02:31 Like, my cousins and them, they threaten their kids
02:34 with coming to my house because they know I don't play that.
02:37 We not doing that.
02:38 Don't ask me nothing.
02:39 Don't touch nothing.
02:40 Mean auntie.
02:40 Don't do-- it's not even that I'm a mean auntie.
02:42 Because they call me--
02:43 I get all the best presents.
02:45 But play with them at home.
02:46 Don't come over here.
02:47 I wouldn't give you nothing.
02:48 What do you mean?
02:50 You mean.
02:50 I'm not mean.
02:51 They don't want to go to my mean auntie house.
02:53 Yeah.
02:54 They don't want to come over because they know they
02:55 can't do whatever they want.
02:57 You can't run through here.
02:58 Like, it's no running through the house.
02:59 And I'm not like-- one toy.
03:01 Like, my daughter has a lot of toys.
03:02 They know the rules. - One toy.
03:03 One toy at a time.
03:03 That's it.
03:04 When you're done with that one, you put it back.
03:06 Oh, you all know how to act?
03:07 You go in that room.
03:08 You go in that room.
03:09 Like, I separate the whole thing.
03:10 Like, I don't play with them.
03:11 I don't play with kids.
03:12 So nobody else in your family could spank your kids?
03:14 Are you dumb?
03:15 Like, what?
03:16 No.
03:17 Absolutely not.
03:18 But it takes a village to raise a child.
03:20 No, the [BLEEP] don't.
03:23 I don't even know what a village is.
03:24 I never lived in a village.
03:26 I live in towns, neighborhoods.
03:28 I never lived in no mother [BLEEP] village.
03:29 Don't hit my kid.
03:30 I barely hit my kid.
03:32 So what you say is you get on other people's kids,
03:34 get on--
03:35 Oh, I'll [BLEEP] somebody else's kid.
03:36 That's all.
03:36 [LAUGHTER]
03:38 I ain't said don't hit my kid, though.
03:39 See, that's the difference.
03:40 I tell people all the time.
03:42 People are like, oh, you say this, and this, and this.
03:43 But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you
03:46 crazy, handle you crazy, that don't mean I'm going to let
03:48 you do it to me.
03:49 This is like, no.
03:50 It doesn't work like that.
03:51 You're who you are.
03:51 You tolerate what you tolerate.
03:52 I am who I am.
03:53 I tolerate what I tolerate.
03:54 And I don't tolerate that.
03:56 So don't try to do to me what I do to you,
03:58 because it's not going to work.
03:58 I knew the other question I forgot to ask, Carter.
04:00 I want to ask you, being a mom, did you ever
04:02 suffer postpartum depression?
04:04 Because you know what?
04:05 I'm talking to more women who are
04:07 being more open about their journey with postpartum
04:10 that I didn't even understand that postpartum could last
04:13 days, weeks, months, and even years.
04:16 I just didn't know.
04:16 I think-- I don't think it was diagnosed,
04:20 but I do recognize that there was something going on.
04:22 Like, I breastfed my daughter.
04:23 My daughter is four.
04:24 She just turned four like two weeks ago.
04:26 I breastfed my daughter since she was almost three years old.
04:29 Is that long?
04:31 I mean--
04:32 What?
04:34 Anything for--
04:35 I don't know.
04:36 You've been in a relationship for three years?
04:38 I was in foster care.
04:39 I put it like this.
04:40 What's the longest relationship you've been in recently?
04:43 Right.
04:43 24 hours.
04:44 Exactly.
04:44 So imagine--
04:45 What's the average age when they're supposed to stop though?
04:47 Well, they say--
04:48 there's really no average age.
04:50 But they say the doctor recommends
04:53 like at least going a year.
04:54 And that's what I was saying.
04:55 I was like, I'm going to do a year.
04:57 And I ended up going when she was almost three.
05:01 And a lot of it had to do with it was COVID.
05:02 We was inside, whatever the case may be.
05:04 But that shit takes a lot on you.
05:08 Like, it's a lot.
05:10 It's just-- it was an experience that I
05:12 loved that I had with her.
05:13 But getting her off of it and stopping it, it was just--
05:17 and then your boobs.
05:19 Like, it's just a lot.
05:20 Wait, how long do y'all produce milk?
05:22 Some-- me, my--
05:23 if I would have still gone, I believe
05:25 it would have still been coming out.
05:26 Some people, it's harder for them.
05:27 But mine was just like a whole milk dairy aisle.
05:31 It was cool.
05:32 Oh, man.
05:33 Not 2%.
05:34 [LAUGHTER]
05:36 But wait.
05:37 So postpartum, is it--
05:39 when they say postpartum depression, how do you know--
05:42 It's your-- I don't know.
05:44 Your hormones be fucked up.
05:45 Like, your hormones be all over the place.
05:47 So you be having different emotions and things
05:50 that you go through.
05:51 And I think with us, meaning like people of color,
05:55 it's so many things that we assign to other races.
05:58 So Black people don't go through that.
05:59 They don't have bipolar.
06:00 They don't have mental health issues.
06:02 They don't do postpartum.
06:03 All of these different things that we've
06:05 been going through for years.
06:06 And because we were not diagnosed
06:08 and because we were in denial that these things happened
06:10 to us and in our community, that's why a lot of us
06:13 was having child abuse.
06:14 That's why a lot of us was dealing with shit
06:17 that we didn't--
06:18 that we thought was normal.
06:19 Like, I thought it was normal that if I said something,
06:21 my mother said to get my ass whooped.
06:23 That was-- that's not normal.
06:25 That's not normal.
06:26 And we became accustomed to it.
06:28 But I think as a people, we're starting
06:31 to go to the dark memorial.
06:33 Think of all the people-- like, have you ever heard of anybody
06:36 growing up, like, their parents were bipolar,
06:38 their parents were suffering from mental health?
06:39 Like, you had to--
06:40 My mom would-- you know, my book.
06:42 I just-- I just--
06:43 it's crazy.
06:44 Yeah, like, that's how it was just--
06:46 it's crazy.
06:46 It's crazy.
06:47 Just, like, knew that it was going from day to night
06:50 instantly.
06:51 Had we had these diagnoses and there was medications,
06:55 like, people might have had different childhoods.
06:57 Different childhoods, yeah, that's a fact.
06:58 You know what's so crazy?
06:59 They be out here talking about women versus men in hip hop
07:04 when you got the Gunners and 6ix9ines getting out
07:07 while all their homies locked up and you and Kim went to prison.
07:09 They locked us up.
07:10 Y'all the real Gs.
07:12 Nah, that was whack.
07:13 I ain't like that.
07:15 I was talking to God many nights, like, really?
07:17 Eight?
07:18 Eight?
07:19 I promise you, like, I just--
07:22 what I don't like about the judicial system,
07:24 like, it's just mad random.
07:26 Like, they really could just be like, we're not--
07:28 like, yeah, they're facing 5 to 25.
07:29 That is a big range for somebody to just play around in.
07:34 I mean, have options.
07:35 You got options.
07:36 Like, 5 to 25?
07:37 Like, what?
07:39 So you could just be like, 18.
07:42 No, you could-- no, no.
07:43 - Seven. - No.
07:44 No, that's a big difference.
07:45 No, let me tell you how you can make sure
07:47 that that's not a problem.
07:48 You go and say, being a part of the YSL gang--
07:52 [LAUGHTER]
07:54 This is crazy.
07:56 I mean, it clearly worked for some people anyway.
08:00 That's crazy, man.