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05:04 Lan Lan, do you feel cool when you walk in here?

05:17 Yes, I do.

05:18 It's like being in Da Lat, Lam Dong or Bao Lam.

05:21 It's like being in Da Lat, Lam Dong or Bao Lam.

05:23 I don't feel any cold.

05:25 You know why this house is cooler than ours?

05:27 Because the owner is so cute.

05:29 It's cool.

05:31 Let's go inside.

05:33 Let's go.

05:35 1, 2, 3.

05:36 You can watch whatever you want.

05:38 Is this house designed like this from the beginning?

05:44 Or did you just change it?

05:46 I bought it later.

05:48 After I built this house and that house.

05:51 The houses are connected.

05:53 I bought this house later.

05:55 It's a very old house.

05:58 So you bought the houses in this area.

06:02 And you built it again.

06:03 Here.

06:05 You guys walk in and don't meet me.

06:07 You think you're in a shop selling old glass.

06:09 This is my father's document.

06:11 It's been 70 years.

06:15 I still keep it as a souvenir.

06:18 Oh my god.

06:19 This is a picture.

06:21 Which character's picture is this?

06:24 That's my father's picture.

06:26 Let's see.

06:28 Director Bich Lam.

06:30 The first president of the theater school.

06:33 My father was a musical instrument technician.

06:37 He was in the music department.

06:39 He founded the second theater school.

06:42 Let's sit down and talk.

06:44 This is the face washing basin of Queen Elizabeth.

06:47 This is the face washing basin.

06:49 Drink water.

06:50 Drink water.

06:51 Drink water, Queen.

06:53 You're so beautiful.

06:55 The coconut water is different from the coconut water.

07:03 Coconut water is hard for Ms. Tu.

07:05 I want to see the secret in it.

07:07 That's right.

07:08 If you follow her Facebook,

07:12 you will know that she is not only a rice artist,

07:16 but also a chef.

07:17 She always makes food that makes you crave.

07:21 Can you follow my Facebook?

07:23 I want to see it.

07:25 I haven't seen Ms. Xuan Nguong in many movies.

07:30 Usually, the musicians who have many years of experience

07:35 will be chosen to be the instructors for the training centers.

07:42 I rarely see you working with some centers or schools.

07:47 Is there a reason for that?

07:49 Yes, there is.

07:51 The reason is that I do everything with all my heart.

07:56 I also teach.

07:58 I put all my heart and soul into teaching.

08:01 I don't think what I teach is suitable for them.

08:05 That's what makes me sad.

08:07 Many people ask me why I don't teach.

08:11 I really want to, but I'm not confident.

08:16 I think Ngoc Nam wants to talk to Ms. Huong.

08:22 You have your own job.

08:25 Please, go ahead.

08:27 Let's talk about your childhood.

08:32 I think you and the audience are curious about your childhood.

08:39 That's a great question.

08:42 I see many children who are loved by their parents.

08:47 They are able to eat and wear clothes.

08:52 But I think your childhood is not like that.

08:57 This is the first time I've heard about your misfortune.

09:03 It started when you were still in your mother's arms.

09:08 My mother was the daughter of a farmer.

09:12 He was rich and had a lot of rice fields.

09:16 He lived in a rural area near Thap Muoi.

09:19 When my father got married,

09:21 my mother lived with my grandparents.

09:24 We ate together.

09:26 My mother didn't spend a single grain of rice.

09:29 She had everything.

09:32 She had money, rice, pigs, everything.

09:36 But I don't know why she went to the market once.

09:42 She wanted to show her children the market.

09:47 Although it was a rural market, it was different.

09:51 It was a city compared to the one I lived in.

09:53 But my mother didn't let me go.

09:55 I asked her to go, but she beat me.

09:57 She was so stubborn that she let me go.

10:01 She took the ice out of the cup and put syrup in it.

10:09 The ice was only half a silver.

10:13 She didn't even let me eat.

10:15 She beat me.

10:17 But you had a lot of money.

10:19 I had a lot of money.

10:20 I bought dolls.

10:22 I went to the market.

10:24 My grandmother lived there.

10:25 I saw dolls that were not as modern as they are now.

10:30 They were made of plastic.

10:32 The eyes were open, but the hair was plastic.

10:34 I loved those dolls.

10:36 I couldn't buy them.

10:37 I was beaten.

10:39 In front of the market, my mother beat me.

10:43 I don't know how many times.

10:45 I went to my grandmother.

10:46 She gave me money.

10:49 I went to the market.

10:51 I bought dolls with my money.

10:53 I brought them home.

10:54 I was so happy.

10:56 My brothers took the eyes out.

11:00 They looked at what was inside.

11:02 They took the belly out.

11:03 They looked at what was inside.

11:04 They cried.

11:05 My mother didn't say anything to me.

11:08 She didn't blame my brothers.

11:09 She didn't blame me for breaking her toys.

11:13 In the past, my mother's attitude was very loving.

11:20 When I was six years old, I left my mother.

11:24 Every time I missed my mother, I cried.

11:27 Why did you leave your mother?

11:29 Because I didn't have a school in my hometown.

11:31 I was in the fifth grade.

11:33 It's the first grade now.

11:34 There was only one classroom.

11:36 After the war, I couldn't teach anymore.

11:38 I had to go to my mother's house.

11:40 She was a butcher.

11:42 I don't know why.

11:43 My mother was there.

11:45 She worked as a farmer in the spring.

11:46 She could send rice to my grandparents.

11:48 She could visit me for a few days.

11:51 It was rare for my mother to visit me.

11:54 She could only go home during Tet and summer.

11:58 The house was full of fish, chickens, and everything.

12:03 But my mother didn't cook delicious meals for her children.

12:07 She waited until nightfall to wake up.

12:10 She took me to the market by boat.

12:13 She took me to school.

12:16 Two weeks before the war, I was sad.

12:23 I was sad and I cried.

12:25 I didn't tell my mother that I was going to leave.

12:30 I didn't dare to say anything.

12:32 I was sad and I cried alone at night.

12:35 I don't know if my mother understood my feelings.

12:40 I don't know if she could see my feelings.

12:43 I don't think she could.

12:46 I'm sorry for my mother.

12:49 I'm sorry for saying this.

12:51 At this age,

12:53 there's nothing to be proud of.

12:57 You can't say bad things about your family.

13:00 Especially when you talk about your mother.

13:04 You can't talk about your feelings to your child.

13:07 I'm so ashamed.

13:09 If I had a chance, I would ask my mother why.

13:15 No, I understand.

13:17 Besides, she did a lot of things that made me sad.

13:21 First, she was straightforward.

13:23 She didn't treat me well when we were still living together.

13:29 I was also bitter.

13:31 I rarely talked to my mother.

13:34 I didn't tell her until we got divorced.

13:36 She didn't know.

13:37 She was also sober.

13:39 She didn't know how much I was in pain.

13:41 She didn't ask me.

13:43 Every child has a heart.

13:47 I didn't hide my feelings.

13:49 I did what I could.

13:51 Let's go back to the story.

13:53 During the 20 years I lived with her,

13:55 I was more and more affected by this and that.

14:00 It was more terrible.

14:01 My hell was getting deeper and deeper.

14:05 I told her that I could make someone sad.

14:08 I didn't want to talk about other people's bad things.

14:11 I didn't want to talk about bad things.

14:13 Because it was my life story.

14:15 I guess you were very emotional at that time.

14:19 It was terrible.

14:20 Why?

14:21 During the 20 years I lived with her,

14:23 I had a mental illness.

14:25 I don't remember when I had a mental illness.

14:27 But it was a long time ago.

14:29 I saw a terrible illness in my brain.

14:32 It was burning inside my brain.

14:35 My mental state was very difficult.

14:38 Because my eyes were always like that.

14:41 It was like I was angry at someone.

14:43 Because I was angry inside but I didn't dare to say it.

14:46 People say that the eyes are the window to the soul.

14:48 My heart was always showing my face.

14:51 I took medicine for 3 years.

14:52 I didn't stop.

14:53 I didn't stop.

14:54 Because it was a mental illness.

14:55 I was the one who begged him.

14:56 I said, "My illness is like this.

14:59 Please tell me and my family to be less cruel to me."

15:02 That was my reason.

15:03 "Be less cruel to me so I can live and raise my child."

15:08 If I couldn't take care of her,

15:12 the illness would spread.

15:14 I would go out and talk nonsense.

15:16 The mental illness person would say what they were suffering from.

15:20 Because it was imprinted deep inside.

15:23 It couldn't be different.

15:24 I would say nonsense.

15:25 I would say what had happened.

15:27 At that time, my family was in a state of panic.

15:30 He was sitting there, his face was as cold as ice.

15:34 Finally, I got divorced.

15:39 Thanks to the divorce, I slowly got better even though I didn't take medicine.

15:43 How did you raise your child?

15:51 To me, my child is a treasure.

15:56 All women, fathers and mothers,

15:59 all treasure their children.

16:01 But for me, when I gave birth to my child,

16:04 I saw her on the delivery table and cried.

16:07 Because I didn't expect to have a child.

16:13 I thought that my life had changed.

16:17 I loved her, raised her, and taught her my way.

16:22 I taught her since she was little.

16:24 I loved her to the core.

16:25 But the children of artists

16:30 were born under a star of misfortune.

16:33 Because we had to leave them.

16:35 They couldn't be close to us.

16:37 But I loved her in my own condition.

16:40 I hugged her, looked at her, and loved her.

16:43 I raised her alone.

16:46 Although I lived alone at that time.

16:48 I was sick, I had to take her to school, and so on.

16:51 Alone?

16:52 Alone.

16:53 I was sick for half a night.

16:55 It was not a mild illness.

16:57 It was a severe illness.

16:58 I had a sleep apnea.

16:59 She cried and screamed.

17:01 I told him to wake up.

17:03 I wanted to see if I should take her to the hospital.

17:06 He scolded me.

17:07 I asked him why he took her to sleep.

17:08 He said he woke up because she didn't let him sleep.

17:10 So I slowly took her to the hospital.

17:12 I did it alone.

17:15 When she was 7 or 8 years old, I hugged her.

17:18 I said, "If one day,

17:21 if we don't live together anymore,

17:24 who will you live with?"

17:25 At first, she said, "I will live with my mom."

17:27 She answered right away.

17:28 "I will live with my mom."

17:29 I started to cry.

17:30 When we got divorced, I had to ask her.

17:33 When she was 3 years old, I had to ask her who she wanted to live with.

17:37 Oh my God, that was the most painful problem.

17:40 I wanted to break my heart.

17:42 Because I was afraid.

17:43 I was afraid that she would be depressed.

17:46 But now, when I face the truth,

17:49 I think I'm very afraid.

17:50 But in the end, I couldn't do anything.

17:51 Because it was the truth.

17:52 That day, I took her to the court.

17:54 Every minute, every second,

17:56 it was very difficult for me.

17:58 And she stepped out.

18:00 She said, "Mom."

18:01 "I want to ask you."

18:03 "Who do you love more, your dad or your mom?"

18:05 "I love you both equally."

18:08 I was happy when I heard that.

18:10 Because she was telling the truth.

18:11 And I also hoped that she would love me like that.

18:14 Because my story with him was the story of an adult.

18:17 Then she continued.

18:18 The court asked me who I wanted to live with.

18:20 I said I wanted to live with my mom.

18:22 The court asked why.

18:23 She said her mom cared more about her.

18:25 My tears fell down from the court to my house.

18:29 That was my reward at that time.

18:33 The court asked me if I had any request for adoption.

18:39 I said no.

18:40 It was up to him.

18:41 Although I didn't know

18:42 I didn't know what I was raising her with.

18:45 I knew she was going to work.

18:46 I knew she was going to work.

18:48 Because I hadn't been to the movies or shows for a long time.

18:53 The court asked me if I had any request for adoption.

18:56 He nodded.

18:57 Yes.

18:58 That was in 2006.

19:00 I was 17 years old.

19:01 I imagined that she lived for a month.

19:04 She could have paid more than 2 million.

19:08 How did you raise her after that?

19:10 She studied hard.

19:11 She didn't pay much.

19:12 I gave her whatever I had.

19:16 I didn't pay much electricity bill.

19:18 A few hundred a month.

19:20 She lived in the middle of Saigon for a month.

19:24 I was able to live there.

19:27 He took care of her until she went to college.

19:29 He took her to the hospital.

19:32 Until now.

19:33 So you don't live with your daughter now.

19:35 I don't live with my daughter.

19:36 She lives with him.

19:37 He hasn't contacted me for 5-6 years.

19:41 I don't contact him.

19:42 That's it.

19:45 My life is normal.

19:49 I don't know how to continue this story.

20:01 Because it's unfair to my life.

20:04 How do you feel about your life now?

20:11 I borrow this quote from the old poetry.

20:15 The modern poetry.

20:17 "I have money, I have rice, I have children, I have everything."

20:21 I was impressed by such ideas.

20:25 Because I lived in that house.

20:28 I saw the happiness, sadness, and love for money.

20:31 It's very suitable for those poems.

20:34 When you start to live alone.

20:37 You can enjoy what you want.

20:42 You will be free and comfortable.

20:45 Your mental illness will be reduced.

20:48 That's right.

20:49 I have a question.

20:51 I ask many people.

20:52 Has anyone been happy when they get divorced?

20:56 Yes.

20:59 I think it's rare.

21:04 Because many people are more depressed than when they live alone.

21:10 But I'm happy.

21:13 I feel free.

21:15 I feel I can live for myself.

21:17 I feel I'm loved more.

21:19 I'm afraid of being lonely.

21:21 I'm afraid of being lonely with my loved ones.

21:26 I understand.

21:27 It's terrible.

21:28 I like you like this.

21:30 Because you are like this.

21:32 You are like this in your works.

21:35 You have many ideas.

21:38 You bring many laughter and lessons to others.

21:43 Your life is like a flower.

21:46 I'm worried that it's time to eat.

21:49 We have to eat at this time.

21:51 Let's go to the kitchen.

21:53 Okay.

21:54 Let's go.

21:56 Is it delicious?

21:58 I bought bread.

22:01 So cute.

22:02 Now you know why I left you.

22:07 I guess you asked me to buy bread.

22:12 I guess you cooked curry, la rou, and beef stew.

22:17 The last one is sticky, right?

22:18 Yes.

22:19 I can smell beef stew.

22:21 Here it is.

22:22 Is it fragrant?

22:23 Let me introduce to you.

22:25 This is beef stew.

22:27 Beef and tendon.

22:28 There.

22:29 My wife always complains that I gain weight.

22:36 But I won't bother you if you don't eat.

22:38 You are kidding.

22:40 I bought 3 loaves but I bought 10 loaves.

22:43 It's weird.

22:44 It doesn't matter how much I gain.

22:46 I'll eat it.

22:47 Okay.

22:48 Wow.

22:49 Oh my god.

22:50 Let's eat.

22:51 You can eat alone.

22:52 I won't eat with you.

22:53 I was in the kitchen, right?

22:54 Why are you so good?

22:55 It's good.

22:56 I can eat bread with this.

22:57 You can eat it.

22:58 Okay.

22:59 Let's eat.

23:00 I'll eat it.

23:01 I'm sorry.

23:02 I'm sorry, guys.

23:03 I'm not good at eating.

23:04 I don't know how to eat.

23:05 Is it good?

23:06 It's soft.

23:07 It's really good.

23:08 I'm not good at eating.

23:09 I'm not good at eating.

23:10 I'm not good at eating.

23:11 I'm not good at eating.

23:12 I'm not good at eating.

23:13 It's really good.

23:14 It's really good.

23:15 I'm not good at eating.

23:16 I'm not good at eating.

23:17 It's soft.

23:18 This is my beef.

23:20 I know.

23:21 I'll try the beef.

23:22 There were many rumors about you.

23:31 This is not only the King knows.

23:33 Almost the whole world knows.

23:36 Through the media,

23:39 through your Facebook,

23:41 through your status,

23:42 everyone knows.

23:43 So I don't have a day to ask.

23:45 Is your pain still there?

23:48 The pain is still there.

23:50 There are stories from when I was young.

23:52 But when I recall, I still cry.

23:54 Except for those times,

23:55 I'm still cheerful.

23:57 I'm still happy.

23:58 Because when you are positive,

24:00 you can heal the disease of your body.

24:03 Not to mention the disease of your soul.

24:05 Right?

24:06 And you always bring positive energy to others.

24:09 That's very important.

24:11 As I told you,

24:12 I didn't hear the part when you left.

24:14 It was terrible.

24:15 It was only 18 cups.

24:17 But you cut it into 1 or 2 portions.

24:19 I couldn't stand it.

24:21 For example,

24:22 I told you about my son.

24:24 10 years.

24:25 10 years, right?

24:26 He went to the other side.

24:29 He went to Tung.

24:31 He took the house and everything.

24:33 For me,

24:34 when he left his house,

24:36 he didn't contact me.

24:37 He didn't call me.

24:38 I understand.

24:39 I called him.

24:40 He didn't answer.

24:42 He changed his phone number.

24:44 But I live a very understanding life.

24:46 Because I think like this.

24:48 Not everyone can take the initiative to exist.

24:51 To be in this world.

24:52 But when I gave birth to him,

24:54 I loved him.

24:56 I worried about him.

24:57 And when he grew up,

24:58 he had his own choice.

24:59 How did he choose?

25:00 He took responsibility for his life.

25:03 The story of my son.

25:06 I know what to say.

25:07 He's my son.

25:08 Right?

25:09 He fell once.

25:11 He fell once.

25:12 I fell 10 times.

25:13 I don't want everything to be reversed.

25:16 And there's an action.

25:18 I don't know if I misunderstood.

25:20 I don't know the story.

25:22 What is the end of it?

25:24 But I know.

25:25 I was very hurt.

25:27 The most painful thing for me was

25:29 that I was going to have a heart surgery.

25:31 There was a doctor,

25:33 a close friend of mine.

25:34 He knew his phone number.

25:36 He called him.

25:37 Even the woman he called his wife,

25:40 she was his phone number.

25:42 She didn't ask me for an hour.

25:44 Even though we hadn't met,

25:46 I hadn't recognized her as my daughter-in-law.

25:48 But at least,

25:49 the love between people

25:51 should be asked for an hour.

25:54 And my son was even more.

25:57 He never asked me if I was dead or alive.

25:59 Because for me,

26:00 what I told him,

26:01 1000 times, 1000 times, 1 billion times,

26:03 it was the same.

26:04 It was not different.

26:05 Because it was the truth.

26:06 Right.

26:07 So I wasn't afraid.

26:08 But there was one thing

26:10 that I know you were very worried about.

26:12 What did you do when you were sick?

26:14 Who took care of you?

26:15 Who took care of you?

26:16 Of course, that would happen.

26:18 I thought about it.

26:19 I thought that I had friends around me.

26:21 If I went to a place,

26:23 I would be so happy.

26:25 The scariest thing was lying in bed.

26:26 I told my friends,

26:29 if anyone knew,

26:30 when I hadn't been born yet,

26:33 or if I could,

26:34 I would come and thank them.

26:35 I would leave some money,

26:37 and I would borrow the cheapest coffin

26:39 to take you from the place where you were buried

26:42 to the funeral.

26:45 People who lived nearby would come

26:47 and borrow the coffin

26:50 and take you away.

26:52 It didn't need to be a ritual.

26:56 Why?

26:57 I thought that my life

26:59 was so worth living.

27:02 And everyone who was sincere to me

27:04 was so clear.

27:05 Everyone who was not sincere to me

27:07 was so clear.

27:08 Now, the funeral is nothing.

27:10 The funeral is just

27:12 the love of a living person

27:14 for a dead person.

27:16 It's the same as the tradition

27:17 from the past to the present.

27:18 It's a must.

27:19 But for me,

27:20 I don't bother others.

27:21 Now, I don't have a husband or children.

27:23 I'm still a child.

27:25 Right?

27:26 Now, I'm done with the funeral.

27:27 I don't take it to the temple.

27:28 I don't leave it anywhere to pray.

27:30 There's no one to pray.

27:31 Right?

27:32 I leave it somewhere clean and fragrant.

27:35 Right?

27:36 That's all.

27:37 I'm done.

27:38 I was so emotional

27:40 when I heard what you said.

27:42 You know,

27:43 when a person loves you,

27:44 when he hears you

27:46 talking about those things,

27:48 he can't bear it.

27:50 Why did you cry?

27:52 It's true.

27:54 I don't know what to say.

27:56 Actually, I really want to say something.

27:57 But I'm afraid that

27:58 it might be a little bit

28:00 touching.

28:01 But I just want to say one thing.

28:03 When you're successful,

28:04 when you have everything,

28:05 when you have a next generation,

28:07 you should always think about

28:09 where you come from in this world.

28:11 Where is your origin?

28:15 Sometimes, you need to know

28:17 how to be grateful,

28:19 how to love,

28:22 and especially,

28:24 how to take care of the people who create you.

28:26 I don't say anything.

28:30 I just say you.

28:31 When you have everything,

28:32 you want to serve the people

28:35 who create you,

28:36 then it's gone.

28:38 Now, you want to apologize,

28:40 you want to thank,

28:41 or say goodbye with a smile,

28:44 it's gone.

28:46 So it's a chain of days

28:49 that is very,

28:50 it's regretful

28:51 to the death.

28:54 I just want to send a message

28:57 to all of you

28:58 who haven't loved

29:00 or once

29:02 you're angry with your parents,

29:05 you should take advantage of it.

29:08 Take advantage of it.

29:09 How do you live?

29:11 What's your son like?

29:12 Do you believe?

29:16 I believe.

29:17 I have a gift for you.

29:21 I just think about it.

29:22 In a house without men,

29:24 happy, sad, miserable,

29:26 I also speak for myself

29:28 and talk to myself.

29:29 There is no one.

29:30 Both women and men in the house.

29:33 I have a gift for you.

29:36 Hello, hello.

29:48 Hello.

29:49 Wow, the gift is so cute.

29:52 So I decided to buy a bouquet.

29:55 A beautiful bouquet

29:57 to give to a woman.

29:59 There, young soul.

30:01 Wow.

30:05 I don't know what color you like.

30:07 Ok, ok.

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30:26 I hope this will be a gift

30:29 for the show "Visit the house".

30:31 Ms. Tu Huong will be excited

30:33 and remember the show

30:35 as well as this little girl.

30:37 I think it's...

30:40 Here.

30:41 I think it's been a long time

30:43 since there was a bouquet

30:48 that was as young as this.

30:50 Today, on the occasion

30:52 that you and Ngoc Lan

30:53 as well as the show "Visit the house"

30:55 come here to talk to me,

30:57 I saw this bouquet on the street.

30:59 I think this bouquet is so beautiful.

31:01 I give it to you.

31:02 Thank you.

31:03 Thank you so much

31:05 for the show "Visit the house".

31:07 Actually, today

31:09 I really want to be happy.

31:11 In my heart,

31:13 I'm happy.

31:15 But because my life

31:17 is more attached to sadness.

31:21 I'm more attached to sadness.

31:23 Today, we come here

31:25 to let my tears flow.

31:29 But those are tears of happiness.

31:31 Happiness is because

31:33 we are happy.

31:34 We are understanding.

31:36 Thank you so much.

31:38 I hope that the show "Visit the house"

31:40 can bring happiness to all of you.

31:45 Can you hug me?

31:48 Thank you so much.

31:52 We are so touched.

31:54 Yes.

31:55 I also want to send my gratitude

31:57 to the producers,

31:58 the directors,

32:01 Ms. Tu Huong,

32:02 and the fire.

32:03 You have a lot of energy,

32:05 wisdom, and intelligence.

32:07 So,

32:09 if you talk about talent,

32:11 I don't dare to comment.

32:13 You are the best.

32:16 If it's difficult,

32:17 please contact Ms. Xuan Huong.

32:20 Let her choose and appear.

32:22 Thank you so much.

32:23 I would like to say hello to the audience.

32:25 Thank you for watching the show.

32:28 I hope that the moments

32:31 of the three of you

32:33 can make the audience

32:36 happy, not sad.

32:38 If we make mistakes,

32:41 especially as children,

32:43 we should quickly

32:45 make up for them

32:48 with love.

32:49 I hope that the audience will love and support Ms. Tu Huong,

32:52 your upcoming projects,

32:54 and your dishes.

32:56 That's right.

32:57 Thank you so much.

32:58 We will say goodbye now.

33:00 Goodbye.

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