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A sleep expert says parents should start sleep training their babies as early as just THREE MONTHS - rather than "waiting until you're desperate".

Catherine Hart, 40, specialises in sleep and has helped thousands of exhausted parents get their little one snoozing.

While there are endless suggestions for the best way to do it, she warned there is a common mistake parents often make.

She claims it's often suggested the right age to start sleep training a little one is between four and six months.

But Catherine suggests it's actually better to do much earlier - at just three months old.

She says this is because the older babies get, the more their habits become firm and more difficult to correct.

Catherine - who is mum to Annabelle, six, and Evelyn, four - from Mount Maunganui, New Zealand, said: "A lot of parents don’t realise how much of an impact they can have on their children’s sleep.

"There’s a lot of misconceptions and it's a hugely controversial topic - but parents underestimate what they can do.

"Lots of parents get themselves in a position that is not sustainable at all - and then they can’t get out of it.

"Lots of families these days are already so stretched - raising a child is hard enough then you throw sleep deprivation on top of that."

Catherine said three months is a "great age" to start "getting onto things early" with sleep training.

She claims the older babies are, the more aware they are of their surroundings and can start developing sleep anxiety, compared to at a younger age.

The younger they are, the less likely they are to have hit milestones which add challenges, she says - such as being able to stand in their cot.

Her expert other tips include establishing a consistent nap routine, using a white noise machine, and making sure the room is pitch black.

She said: "People can underestimate the importance of a good sleep environment.

"When they're no longer newborn, they know day versus night, so I'd recommend a pitch-black room - light plays an important role in the sleep and wake cycle.

"A white noise sound machine will also keep a consistent environment and mask any household or external noises.

"You should also pay attention to the room temperature, and ensure the baby is dressed appropriately for it.

"I would say wake them up at a similar time each day, put them down for their naps at the same times each day, then put them to bed in the evening at the same time."

With Catherine and her partner, Conan Dickie, 42, having been through the experience twice with their daughters, she knows firsthand how tough it can be.

She encouraged parents not to be too hard on themselves - and reminds even if they are struggling, it won't last forever.

Catherine said: "With my plans, I think some parents wait till they're desperate - then buy them at 3am when they are wide awake.

"But I promise, even when it feels like they'll never sleep again, eventually they will.

"The short-term phrase going through sleep training is hard, but eventually the family will get to sleep again.

"The days are long, but the years are short - it will get better."

CAT'S TOP FIVE TIPS TO GET BABIES TO SLEEP:

1. Get on a consistent and predictable sleep schedule -babies LOVE routine and thrive on them.

2. Put your baby down for sleep within their age-appropriate awake window.

3. Don't put your baby to bed too late -they get their best sleep in the first 1/2 of the night.

4. Do a bedtime routine -We know from studies children with a consistent bedtime routine from an early age are more likely to go to sleep earlier, take less time falling asleep, sleep longer and wake up less during the night.

5. Teach your baby how to fall asleep on their own. It's that biggest factor that I've faced working with families that will significantly reduce night wakes and ensure longer naps.

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00:00 Here's four things to naturally help your baby sleep better.
00:03 As a sleep consultant,
00:04 before you even touch any settling techniques,
00:06 I would really wanna make sure
00:08 that you are following all of these things
00:09 to help put your baby in a great position to sleep well,
00:13 starting with these things naturally first.
00:15 Number one, expose your baby to natural light.
00:19 This is nature's gift,
00:20 and you cannot underestimate the power
00:23 of using natural light to help your little one sleep better.
00:26 Light plays a really important role
00:28 in controlling our circadian rhythm.
00:31 So when you expose your little one to natural light,
00:33 especially in times of the day, like the late afternoon,
00:36 that helps to boost the hormone serotonin.
00:39 Serotonin is the precursor to melatonin,
00:42 which is the sleepy hormone
00:44 that helps us to fall asleep and stay asleep.
00:47 Tip number two, get your baby
00:49 on a consistent and predictable sleep schedule.
00:51 I can't tell you how many times this has helped
00:54 so much families that I've worked with,
00:55 and we've focused on just this first
00:57 before we even get to settling techniques.
01:00 This is including things like how we start
01:02 and end your little one's stay,
01:03 and trying to get that start time within about half an hour.
01:06 I want you to go and watch a case study video
01:08 of an eight-month-old baby.
01:10 When I started working with her,
01:11 she was waking every 45 minutes
01:14 as she was co-sleeping all night long.
01:17 Because it was a delicate sleep situation,
01:19 trying to shift her from co-sleeping
01:20 to then into her own sleep space,
01:23 for the first two to three weeks,
01:24 we only started working on the sleep environment
01:27 and, you guessed it, a routine.
01:30 Click the captions of this video
01:31 and look for these little arrows here,
01:33 and it will show you that case study
01:35 and the progress that we made
01:36 just from simply following a consistent
01:38 and predictable sleep schedule.
01:40 This family went through my five to 18-month sleep program,
01:43 and there are detailed feeding and sleep schedules
01:45 for every single age from five months
01:48 right up until 18 months,
01:49 so you don't even need to think.
01:51 Tip number three, have one-on-one interaction
01:54 with your little one,
01:54 and really dedicate some quality time with them.
01:58 Put your phone down, stop trying to do all the activities,
02:01 and just give your baby your undivided attention.
02:04 Creating a really secure attachment with your little one
02:07 is a really important role to help them sleep better.
02:10 You can help to really enhance this
02:12 when you do a bedtime routine,
02:13 so make sure that you're doing the same activities
02:16 in the same order every single day,
02:18 and you're giving your little one
02:20 your undivided attention.
02:21 And number four is to put your baby on the floor
02:24 and allow them to move.
02:26 For all sleep regressions
02:27 after the four-month sleep regression,
02:29 they are commonly caused when there are physical milestones
02:32 or emotional milestones that are happening.
02:34 We're so busy that we're in the car,
02:36 we're taking them to swimming,
02:37 we're visiting grandparents, we're out with friends,
02:39 but your baby moves from the stroller to the car seat,
02:42 and they actually hardly have any time to move.
02:45 Get them used to moving with their natural movements
02:48 on the floor, and this will help them
02:49 to master their skills and progress further.
02:52 I hope this helps for more baby and toddler sleep tips.
02:55 Make sure you follow for more.

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