Figli (2020) - ITALIAN movie

  • last year
Sara and Nicola are expecting their second child. Through the late Mattia Torre's sharp focus, all the joys and troubles of parenthood in modern-day Italy are brilliantly, wittily delineated.
Transcript
00:00:41- You're like a bachelor.
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I neglect myself.
Neglect? Is this neglecting yourself?
00:00:54You're not alone in the world,
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- Not true
It's all on me! You have no clue what goes on here!
00:01:12Why? Because I can't keep up with you.
00:01:16You're precise, inflexible,
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- I ran the dishwasher
- Screw you! - You fly right off the handle.
00:01:30You say "screw you" and think it's over.
00:01:33If there's something to do,
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- Why do you do things right away?
- What will we do? - It'll work out.
00:01:58KIDZ
00:02:05- Will things change a lot?
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but eleven.
It's a dreadful sayingfunny only for online newspapers.
00:02:29- Eleven, really?
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- I'm not.
- We'll stick together. - Eleven. - Eleven?
00:02:43Every set of parents has a story
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maniacal dedication to the little one
..who is cleansed with temperature-controlled oil, has English lessons at six months,...
00:03:06..almost never goes out,
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of the world is natural.
Insteadhe'll have to face capitalism like us all...
00:03:22The pen is on the table.
00:03:25..And the IRS.
00:03:26The pen is on the table.
00:03:30There are naturalist parents.
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the other at Easter
..so he won't take things for granted.
00:03:47But at 18, he'll shoot heroin
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on their mega TVs...
..while in a far corner of their vast living room a pair of Filipinos play with the kids,...
00:04:07..having the children call them
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of Catholic origin
..he always sees a priest in the lurk.
00:04:25You, shit!
00:04:27You're a real shit.
00:04:32Single, with endless sex stories,
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agro-artisan peoples
..they've run up against a huge misconception...
00:04:50..and are atoning for the suffocation
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and a long list of things to remember
..doto be heard.
00:05:03They're bent and old by now.
00:05:06In a pocket, if needed,
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of twenty-five
..flexible and dynamic
Their kids climb on perilous reefsgo to school alone, are responsible and mature.
00:05:27But there are none of these in Italy.
00:05:29And then there's us.
00:05:34Fifteen years ago, with our
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but the IRS can knock at any time.
We're luckybut not elementary, neurotic, but not crazy.
00:05:54The future is hopeful but has snares.
00:05:57Our homes are comfortable,
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at a hopeful time in our lives.
Lives can be complicated in the presentbut in our memories they become beautiful.
00:06:30It seemed feasible with our first child.
00:06:33Anna was sweet, flexible,
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the first 180 pages
Why are cooking times for these cool pastas always hidden?
00:06:54The epitome of chic, but it doesn't say.
00:06:59Taste it, like in the old days.
00:07:02Please, lower the music!
00:07:05A big hand for Andrea!
00:07:09Andrea is the protagonist
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his account with the IRS.
How much?
- No! - Embarrassed? Tell me.
00:07:37Really?
00:07:39Okay...
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deadline after deadline
..without thinking of the balance to paya step at a time,...
00:08:02..I did it!
00:08:04I paid the last one!
00:08:08Wait!
00:08:09I want to say, to those of you...
00:08:12..in a similar situation,
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Let's go
Put this on her.
- Goodbye. - See you.
00:09:17Turn right.
00:09:26Go!
00:10:04You devil!
00:10:18Now we'll just check the procedures
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to avoid fines in case of an inspection
..we're here for youfor your customers and the entire community.
00:10:40Get used to it.
00:10:43They're all like this.
00:10:47This job will make you see...
00:10:51..the lack of love
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- It's wonderful
- It's such a mess. - Not at all!
00:11:45It's heroic, in this country of zero growth.
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- Who gives...?
Because we still believe in this country.
00:12:01Nicola, be quiet!
00:12:05We have experience from the first,
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- I don't know. - Let's go home?
Tell me again it's gonna be okay.
It's gonna be okay.
- I heard. When did it happen? - A couple of weeks ago.
00:12:34- I'm so sorry.
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I shouted it around the neighborhood.
- C'mon- No, dammit, Nicola!
00:12:51No, not at all!
00:12:54Okay...
00:12:58I'm here for you.
00:13:01Thanks.
00:13:07Bye.
00:13:14Let's go home.
00:13:24- Hurry!
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SLEEP
Can I sleep here
Sweetie
He'll be with us only at firstlike you were.
00:13:51Then he'll be with you.
00:13:53Was another kid really necessary?
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- For me?
You're too young now to understandbut Pietro will bring balance.
00:14:21The three of us were fine together,
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- You'll wake him.
No tickling
Stop.
It's a beautiful thing.
It's normal you don't see it as beautiful.
00:14:52Look, come here.
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- A kiss.
- Say good night to your brother. - Night.
00:15:46Come here.
00:15:53- Fine, right? - What?
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- No
The first three months were the calm before the storm.
00:16:34The baby slept, nights were peaceful,
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- Sorry
- So- Jewelry, clothes and sculptures.
00:16:51You said them all, sorry.
00:16:54In the forests of the East,
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for religious purposes...
..portraying demons and spirits...
If I'd been a wise Indian chieftainI'd have felt the storm coming.
00:17:24Excellent!
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- No!
Say bye to Mommy. - Bye.
Bye. Let's jump!
The storm came in the third month.
The baby had a growth spurt.
He changed his rhythmre-regulated the flow of milk,...
00:18:02..broke his nursing balance
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- Ssh.
Lord!
No
- What's happening? - Nothing, everything's fine.
00:18:55- It's all okay.
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- Why's he crying like crazy?
It's normalTake Anna to bed?
00:19:10- We're going.
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just a moment of transition.
Right
Anna's going to school with Luigithey'll pick her up.
00:20:34In ten minutes.
00:20:36- Bye, honey.
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- No.
With the first child you have incredible energy,...
00:22:09..you gave life, you feel like a demigod.
00:22:12This new sensation compensates
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in your face
..and it's no longer compensated by that divine euphoria.
00:22:35The second kid's a shock.
00:22:37Mozzarella, tomato confit and wild herbs.
00:22:41- No, good heavens!
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- And stop
Mozzarella and stop. Good manMozzarella and stop.
00:23:00Let's do this.
00:23:02Darling? Hello?
00:23:05What is it? Yes. Just tell me.
00:23:11I can't hear you... Yeah. Go.
00:23:16Valpasin. Dobrecin. Drops?
00:23:21When your kid hasn't slept for weeks,
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you choose the most expensive.
The one they say is tops
Chapter 2 THE PEDIATRICIAN GURU
00:23:50Art works around the office
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what the return must be.
My God.
You should listen.
It sounds very difficultbut if you reflect, it's also simple.
00:24:27The pediatrician guru says elementary
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by the simplicity and power of those words...
..or by the imagined cost of the visit.
SorryI feel like crying.
00:24:47Now I'll make all those faces we make
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in front of the pediatrician guru
..we say things that we don't at home.
It's like I were a function for him:...
..just the mother of his children.
Actually I don't feel equal to the task.
I don't feel equal to the task either.
- I'm such scum! - Yes.
00:25:47You should each try putting
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and I'm soon going back to work myself.
Then the pediatrician guru takes a quantum leap.
00:26:07No, not work.
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in the mountains?
An income
Don't we have a house in the mountains to rent? Eh?
00:26:41No...
00:26:43Find an income, give up work
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- Thank you.
- Good- Dunno.
00:27:06She seemed extremely well-prepared.
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- I notice you get aggressive.
- No- You were moved too.
00:27:22Maybe because I'm stressed out.
00:27:25- What about the money?
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or we can't pay the rent.
Things are fine
That's 329 euros.
The prescription... don't lose it!
Here.
And God saw that Man wasn't suffering enough.
00:28:21And so he created the mother-in-law.
00:28:24We'll now be together for 20 years.
00:28:27And although you think
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THE IN-LAWS
Honey
- Mom! - I'd love to, but I can't.
00:28:43I already take Anna
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- I don't have the strength.
- You go swimming every day. - If you knew the energy it costs!
00:28:57It would be very important for us.
00:29:00- Promise you'll think it over.
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- Why are you so angry?
Because your generation ate up everything.
00:29:29You were born postwar, a childhood
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and you still don't.
Todayyou'll be the last to enjoy,...
00:29:51..you revel in
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enjoy social media...
..and especiallyyou'll be the last to have...
00:30:07..because you no longer die off!
00:30:17Okay...
00:30:35You have to understand something,
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We're a great number.
For every 100 young peoplethere are 165 elderly,...
00:30:59..meaning, an absolute majority:...
00:31:03..virtually, Congress,
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As are the big national TV series.
The advertisers that make the world turnare obsessed with us.
00:31:23The houses and savings accounts
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hang on thanks to us.
Our pensions hold hostage the entire national economy.
00:31:41All we lack is awareness and cohesiveness...
00:31:44..and we're ready to screw them all!
00:31:51DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY!
00:31:55DEMOCRACY THE ONLY WAY!
00:32:03Like to go?
00:32:07What your mother says is true,
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we'll talk
I can't help youI don't understand what the baby says.
00:32:38He's 3 months old, doesn't talk.
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That damned diet took her away.
You'd been separated for 35 years!
- That diet killed her! - Just the opposite.
00:33:00If she done the diet,
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- Yes.
- He didn't eat gluten for a month. - Oh!
00:33:18He got a tumor.
00:33:27And God saw that Woman
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if buying a house at the beach
..whose value quintupled in these 30 years
..or here in the Tuscia countryside whose value dropped 90 % in the same period.
00:34:06We had no doubts.
00:34:10Should that make us unhappy?
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someone gets killed.
- They shoot each otherbut by mistake! - Ah...
00:34:32- They're an enormous resource
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- Yes.
- Hurray! - Hurray! - Hurray!
00:35:02Thank you.
00:35:04We'll call him Cabo, like his father.
00:35:09Cabo Jr.
00:35:12Be close to us, help us.
00:35:15Especially you young people,
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JOSEPHINA
Not having revenue as the wealthy pediatrician thought,...
00:35:45..having to work,
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..you needn't explain anything to hershe finds things in the house on her own,...
00:36:05..she adores children, children adore her,
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of social life.
Josephina has just one big problem.
She doesn't exist.
In her placeof dubious babysitters come to the door.
00:36:55The African who only speaks Wolof.
00:36:58Inps, spaghetti, up yours...
00:37:01The unemployed college graduate.
00:37:06The young sex maniac.
00:37:09I adore dads without beards.
00:37:13And other monsters
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to see them sleep.
Out of exhaustionwe chose the worst,...
00:37:49..a farm girl with no experience,
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we brush our teeth
Hear your mommy? Don't be a rascal.
Then to bed
UnderstandListen to your mommy?
00:38:22- Thank you
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I'm scared.
Of what?
Sweetieit's gonna be okay.
00:38:38- Watch a movie.
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Come here
A "roached" egg.
Let's go there.
- It's our first time out since when? - Since forever.
00:39:30- Tell me what we'll do tonight.
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- Unfortunately not.
- What time is it? - Eh? - What time is it?
00:40:069:40.
00:40:08- What did we do to deserve this?
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- No.
I like this restaurant
..the old waitresses still like their work.
- Have you inspected it? - Twice.
00:40:37- What's it like?
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- Say it.
- It's not easy. - Say it.
00:41:19- I miss them like crazy.
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- Sweetie! You're so beautiful!
Darling!
See how pretty Anna is here.
- What are they doing now? - A "roached" egg.
00:41:52- Let's go home.
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- Good evening.
The baby woke up just once. I gave him some milk and he went back to sleep.
00:42:42- The little girl watched "Titanic",
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even today I'd like to kill her.
- Ok... - She got all the - "You're so pretty, you're so tiny..."
00:43:03- I felt like the pits.
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- Thank you.
You're still awake? You have school tomorrow.
00:43:18Tomorrow's Sunday.
00:43:22- Why are you crying? Eh?
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but perfectly integral
as it's sailing peacefully.
We'll imagine the Titanic never sank?
Can I sleep in the big bed?
Chapter 5 SUNDAY
00:44:17Oh, no, stop! Stop.
00:44:25He has a high fever.
00:44:31- Oh, no...
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- Yes.
- I'll pull it out- It already hurts, careful and fast.
00:44:56One, two, three.
00:45:01- Look.
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they can have another two.
- I have a personal problem with him. - Why?
00:45:24He cries all the time, even with
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- He keeps crying.
That's a real problem.
Don't let him fool younever be alone with him.
00:45:47Thank you for the advice.
00:45:49- You're welcome.
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- Yes! Isn't it beautiful?
Listen how it goes.
- It's beautiful. - You're right, it's beautiful.
00:46:28Why are you so short of breath?
00:46:32No, it's normal breathing.
00:46:34Nicola, I'm going out today.
00:46:39Meaning?
00:46:42I'm spending the day with Federica,
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- Don't count on me.
I'll watch the baby when he can talkhe'll say he's hungry, thirsty...
00:47:03..and he always has a cold.
00:47:05Of course, I am.
00:47:09We could ask Federica to come here,
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since you're never here.
Why do you always say thatas if I spent my days playing pool?
00:47:38If you did,
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understand one another.
I need to breathe.
I'm in here all daytake any more, I have to go out.
00:47:56You're scared
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- No. - You do.
Can we make tea and spend the afternoon all together?
00:48:17Your only contribution is work.
00:48:21Sorry! Sorry, if I bust my butt
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and take care of the baby.
Half and half
Want us to argue today tooshould I start yelling?
00:48:46- Sara...
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- What's okay? - Stay calm.
- Be good- Let's stay calm.
00:49:37Go see him, get used to it.
00:49:41- What's he doing?
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I forgot something. I made a mistake.
- So? - Let's hope it holds.
00:49:55- I can't reassemble the whole thing.
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- Yes
His uncle!
AnnaBe with me today.
00:50:42It's me, you and the little delinquent,
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you've known for days.
You can't have a teenager's life already.
Your social life is more intense than ours.
00:51:04Parties, pizzas, pajama parties,
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- You'll make it worse. - C'mon!
It's them!
I'm coming.
Bye
Not even bye.
Up we come.
What is it?
Look.
I was wondering if you'd like to come for coffee.
00:52:14- An herbal tea...
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- Sure... but I can't.
- I'm seeing the urologist. - It's Sunday!
00:52:36Hey?
00:52:42He hung up.
00:52:52Okay, listen to me, my son.
00:52:56Listen, it's an awful
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and it'll bring us together forever.
What do you say?
Good boy. Ssh... Good boy.
Good boy.
There was someone who made you upinflatables, salami sandwiches.
00:54:08You're sure you want
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if he could hold his teddy.
The teddy said hello... to Grandpa Joe.
Old cyclops says not a word as home he leads his herd."
00:54:54You're a big man, Nico!
00:54:58- Let's drive around again, Federica, please.
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- Fine. You? - Fine.
WellDad had left a mess,...
00:56:01..the baby ate, I washed and changed him,
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so
..I read her "The Cyclops Family".
They're neurotic like usbut they react like...
00:56:24- Anyway, they're both asleep.
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- Do you tell me that?
You did what I do everyday without blinking and without being told I'm great.
00:57:02I always say you're great.
00:57:05- Never.
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you're ridiculous.
I have no outfit.
You think that because I'm the mom
..doing all these things that make you feel like a super hero,...
00:57:25..come natural to me,
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have formatted us forever.
Equality
We don't need to be ideologically inverted. Why shouldn't you be happy to be a mother?
00:57:46I want to work, make something of myself,
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with your son.
- Meaning? - You're not right, you complain.
00:58:37Who are you?
00:58:40You always want to know everything,
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keeping things together
- With two kids? - Yes. We feel, how can I put it...
00:59:01..alone.
00:59:02Yes.
00:59:04Meaning?
00:59:08Well,...
00:59:10..our parents' generation
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trying not to make their mistakes...
..and the inevitable application of their educational model.
00:59:30- See?
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Coffee? I've just made some.
With a drop of milk
- Does the older one give you problems? - No.
00:59:54Well, it all seems okay.
00:59:57Some people live in five
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- It's all relative.
Up to a certain point... Thank you.
What's thisthat many are worse off than us?
01:00:14Huh?
01:00:26I can do something for you.
01:00:30For example?
01:00:34I can make your baby disappear
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- Thank you.
Everything can change in life.
- You don't like that picture of your ancestor, right? - Right.
01:01:02- But that...
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THE RULES
- Me- Mmh.
01:01:24Then... Take to school, me all week.
01:01:31- Me, groceries on Thursday.
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- It's your item.
I can't fit it in!
I'd hoped it would never get to thisbut...
01:01:51Then what's the use?
01:02:24Hello, I'm calling about the vaccination.
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is couples in a restaurant...
..who dine without saying a word
Wouldn't you like to go see your friends tonight?
01:03:43- Maybe I would.
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- Everyone would like some.
The most intimateelusive thing we all have,...
01:04:08..the remote control.
01:04:11Do you understand anything?
01:04:15I don't think so,
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are all different.
Can't do it.
The knight is down thereplaying chess.
01:04:40I see that too,
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- Who's he with? - Death.
- What a scare! - Never again, huh?
01:05:51- You promised we'd always be together.
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I'm the last person you talked to?
Yes
Good evening.
- We've been really fine. - Great.
01:06:20We made a "roached" egg,
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seeing them unhappy and tormented?
Would they ever have imagined their kids,...
01:07:18..who once ran on grass
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What do we want? What do we believe in?
Are we a countryWhat's the sense of life?
01:07:44Why do we have kids?
01:07:46- Careful.
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- You'll do what? - I'll bust your ass.
- I don't understand. - Can't hear? I'll bust your ass.
01:08:00- You? I'll bust your ass!
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- Repeat what you said.
- Repeat what you said. - You to me?
01:08:12- You repeat.
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is the most difficult thing.
You'll seeyou'll become friends.
01:08:34He'll always protect you
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change your mind about him.
You'll play togetherinvent fantastic things,...
01:09:26..it's easier to make fun
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- No!
Can I have a hug?
What did you say? Tell me what you said, repeat it.
01:10:13You won't? Oh, ok.
01:10:17No, you...
01:10:19chapter 7
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- Sure.
He always does things later. "I'll do it later".
01:10:44He always has all the world's ills,
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"It's not here".
Kids expect their parents to be anchors. Careful, this jackass is gonna shoot.
01:11:04Ow! Eugenio! I'll kill you, by God!
01:11:10What was I saying?
01:11:17Disgusting! What is it?
01:11:20A dormouse.
01:11:21- What's a dormouse?
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a sense of community.
We have to see that we're unitedwe're not enemies.
01:12:02The problem isn't the dormouse,...
01:12:05..but this kitchen
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it's also very sad.
Besidesa serious problem with her head.
01:12:32What problem?
01:12:36Huh? - Something neurological,
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the incredible effort I make at home.
She doesn't acknowledge itIt's clearly something with the brain.
01:13:00- Sara, exactly the same.
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for how my dad was at home.
Maybe I can't keep the pacealthough I think I do so much.
01:13:42Doing "so much" is always compared to
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have you done today?
- We took a walk. - A walk?
01:14:05You're such a good boy! Where?
01:14:08- To the park.
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- No
Did you tell mommy and daddy what cake you want? And the gifts you want?
01:14:29I bet you asked for lots of gifts!
01:14:33- The cake will have lots of candles.
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- Oh
- What is it? - I have to tell you something.
01:15:05There's another man?
01:15:11Tuesday's Daniel's birthday,
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and we have to go.
A dinner for carnival?
- Yes. - In costume? - Yes.
01:15:34- Do you love me?
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- It'll pass.
- It will? - I don't know.
01:15:51All parents suffer a crisis
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- Honey
I don't want youI want to go to Manila! I want mommy Leticia!
01:16:42You shit!
01:16:45Your son's asking for you and you're here
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have one thing in common.
In a country where we all hate everyone, at work, in politics,...
01:17:05..in condominium meetings,...
01:17:07..the distress level
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the next one is harsh
Fathersat the third swipe, pull out a certain anger,...
01:17:29..like saying:
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- Okay.
Let's leave
Are you crazy? Over my dead body. Let's go.
01:18:05Anna, how about
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- Don't worry Dad
For some mysterious reason...
..party factories are always managed by convicted felons.
01:18:25Oh!
01:18:28There are 300 children in five or six
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- Anna
Friends used to meet over dinnerin clubs,...
01:19:13..now, at the drugstore or places like this.
01:19:17- Look!
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there must be a reason.
Always putting Italians down...
..instead they've discoveredbefore others,...
01:19:40..that having kids is a screw-up.
01:19:44We should lay bets on food service
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with plates of lasagna.
See that guy? Heunderstood that principle.
01:20:06- Which guy? - That guy.
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Inserisci solo
- Don't you have a deli? - Yeah.
01:20:22Good, he's the father
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- Eataly is a nightmare?
It's a horrible thing
Something must have happened.
Suddenlyand he walked away.
01:21:16There was such a ruckus...
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- Yeah.
In prehistoric timeswas when he started cooking meat.
01:22:13Dinner became a moment of sociability,
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to bear fruit
You start at the base of the trunk and... Pem! Pem!
01:22:31Then move up, not all the way obviously,
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- Yes.
- Taste these tomatoes- I'll eat them later.
01:22:50- Just taste.
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- Good? Don't throw it out.
- I'll take him for some air. - Better not to.
01:23:09- Why?
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chassis of hemp. It ran on grain alcohol.
- Guess what he did? - He smoked it? - No.
01:23:36The Americans bought
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- To breathe.
Single motherand toss the kid in the stroller?
01:24:10- I tossed the kid in the stroller?
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what responsibility means.
You don't know the ones I take on.
You don't hear me? Because you never do.
You don't hear me! You never listen to me.
You've never been thereyour kids don't know you.
01:24:35- That's not true!
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the devil take you
You're an amoebaI don't see you, you're an ectoplasm.
01:24:52I DON'T SEE YOU
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and keep arguing
..raising the temperature higher and ruining their kids' lives.
01:25:17Some decide to return home
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when you do.
Chapter 8 THE LITTLE THINGS
01:27:58If you're not frustrated,
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if you hold him in nervous arms...
..because you have to go out or something,...
01:28:38..looking at the time continuously,
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in putting him to sleep
..without counting the minutesbeing with him,...
01:28:59..you'll look at him
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you have to accept him.
Things can change only if first you accept them.
01:29:25It's the same for everything.
01:29:28For your country,
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- Thank you.
I love small things. They're the hardest to do, they speak of care.
01:30:41You prove that managing a restaurant
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for meatballs this morning.
- It must be the first cravings. - Because...
01:30:59- Yes, I'm pregnant.
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- What's it like? Can it be managed?
Yes
Hi.
Hi
- Hi- Fine. How were things?
01:31:43- Fine! The kids?
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- I asked that. Looking among the CDs?
Sorry...
Did you buy them? I asked you to buy them, remember? - I'm off.
01:32:10- I remember, you said in the afternoon.
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- I'm not grumbling.
- You grumbled. - No!
01:32:28- You grumbled. - What a pain!
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- The dishwasher
- Screw you. - You fly right off the handle.
01:32:45If there's something to do,
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- Why do you do things right away?

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