A woman who hired a private eye to catch the person trashing their family grave was left sickened when she discovered the culprit was her cousin. Sue Pullin, 67, was baffled after she saw a video of her relative stealing flowers from her mother's grave and dumping them in nearby bushes. Private detectives were called in to uncover the mystery and recorded footage of Amanda Lester vandalising the burial site. Mrs Pullin would dread visiting her mother Mavis Budd's grave at St Anne's Church graveyard in Oldland Common, fearing items would have been stolen or roses trampled on.