This video is the Second Part of the topic How to Become an Active Listener. It defines active listening, and explains the 1st key strategy to improve active listening.
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00:00in our last discussion we introduced the concept of active listening we also
00:10explained why you should become an active listener in today's talk we shall be
00:19discussing how you can become an active listener but before we discuss how you
00:28can become an active listener let us first of all define what active listening
00:35is but before you can understand the definition of active listening you must
00:43know what active listening is not active listening is not hearing someone speak and
00:52changing the topic immediately the person has finished speaking that is not
00:59active listening it is offensive active listening is not waiting for the
01:06speaker to finish speaking before you say what is in your mind before you say what
01:12you want to say that is not active listening active listening is not
01:18preparing what you want to say in your mind as the speaker is speaking that is
01:25not active listening active listening is not praying for a speaker to finish
01:33speaking and responding out of points without understanding that is not active
01:40listening all these things that I have mentioned are called passive listening we
01:48which is the complete opposite of active listening many people including me find passive listening
01:59offensive and disrespectful I have a friend who is a passive listener and I do get
02:09offended when I'm discussing with this friend I feel like I'm pouring water on a stone and I don't
02:18get the satisfaction that I have engaged in a conversation with a person when I'm discussing with this friend
02:29we have explained briefly what active listening is not what then is active listening what is the meaning or the definition of active listening
02:42of active listening according to chat GPT active listening is fully engaging with a speaker
02:54understanding his message and the responding thoughtfully notice what
03:02chat GPT said is the definition of active listening it's brought up three points fully engaging with a speaker
03:12a speaker you must fully engage with the speaker not partially but fully you
03:18must understand the message the speaker is trying to deliver and you must
03:24respond thoughtfully to the message of the speaker only when you do these three
03:30things can you prove that you are an active listener
03:37active listening is not an easy skill to learn in fact many people most people are not active
03:45listeners is a skill that needs to be learned and if you value your relationship with a speaker if you
03:55respect the person who's speaking so much if you want to improve your communication and improve your relationships
04:02you must learn the skill of active listening what are the seven key strategies to improve active listening
04:13the seven key strategies to improve active listening are number one give full attention
04:22when a speaker is speaking give full attention do not be a partial listener maintain eye contact when a speaker is speaking
04:35i have a friend this is my particular friend he is not a an active listener he doesn't give me full attention and when i'm speaking to this my friend i feel like my words are not appreciated
04:51when jesus was teaching the two marys the first mary sat down at the feet of jesus actively listening
05:07what to what jesus was saying why the other mary was distracted she was moving around looking for ways
05:17to entertain jesus christ to entertain jesus christ but jesus reproved the mary that was you know moving
05:23around looking forward to entertain him and told him that all those things are not important jesus commended
05:29the mary that sat on his feet listening to what he was teaching
05:36so this shows us how important the skill of active listening is
05:41when a speaker is speaking to you put away every form of distraction
05:49whatsapp facebook instagram put away every form of distraction and pay full attention to the speaker
05:57who is speaking
06:01we have defined what active listening is
06:06we explained what active listening is not and in this discussion we have talked about the first key
06:17strategy to improve active listening in our next discussion we will explain the second third fourth fifth
06:29strategies to improve active listening is mr saprochi take care and have a blessed day bye