Pelakon Emma Maembong mengakui rasa berbeza menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri tahun ini selepas kembali solo.
Kongsi Emma, 33, dia berasa sedih namun tetap meraikan hari mulia tersebut demi anak-anak tersayang.
Kongsi Emma, 33, dia berasa sedih namun tetap meraikan hari mulia tersebut demi anak-anak tersayang.
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00:00As Emma said before, even though we're not together, we still have to take a group photo as a family.
00:10This year is a bit different.
00:12At first, we celebrated Eid with our family.
00:14Then, we had a family.
00:15Then, we went back to our family.
00:17So, this year will be different for Emma.
00:19But, what's certain is that this year, Emma will celebrate Eid with her children.
00:23Because her children are all grown up.
00:24They know how to celebrate Eid.
00:25They know how to ask for Eid clothes.
00:26So, Emma will make time for her children.
00:28Of course, she will feel the difference.
00:31Because in the past, people who have been with me for a long time,
00:34who have interviewed me before,
00:34they always ask me,
00:35Oh, what do you want?
00:36I said, I want a family.
00:38And now, when it's back to the family,
00:40she will feel a little sad.
00:41But, she's not really awkward.
00:42Because Emma and my ex-husband, we're very close and very good.
00:46And we don't have any problems like not contacting each other.
00:49So, we never had an issue.
00:51That's why when we're on set,
00:52sometimes when I'm shooting, my ex-husband comes with his children,
00:54people will be like,
00:54Eh, Emma, you're still with your ex-husband?
00:56No, no, no, we're friends.
00:57But, we don't have a close relationship.
01:01Because when we're outside,
01:02we don't have awkward moments.
01:04We will be like,
01:06Emma still respects him, she calls him Bee.
01:07And then, she still calls him Sayang.
01:08That's normal for us.
01:10But for others, they will see it as,
01:11Eh, why are you guys still calling each other?
01:13I think it's because of her children.
01:14So, we respect each other in front of the children.
01:15We don't want to be like,
01:16Eh, you're so arrogant.
01:18So, we're like,
01:18Hmm, it's okay.
01:20Because Emma also said before,
01:21even though we're not together,
01:22whatever happens, we still have to take a picture together.
01:24As a family.
01:25Every Eid, every year,
01:26we will have a group picture.
01:27And nothing changes.
01:29So that the children know,
01:30even if their pictures get bigger,
01:31nothing changes.
01:32Because I don't want the children to suddenly,
01:33have a group picture,
01:34two here, two there.
01:36Two here, two there.
01:36So, I don't want that.
01:37So, either,
01:38I don't know if I'll meet them at their parents' house,
01:40or meet them at my parents' house.
01:41But still,
01:42there has to be a group family picture.
01:43So that the children grow up,
01:44whether it's a birthday picture,
01:45or an Eid picture,
01:46within the group,
01:47they will grow up together.
01:48Because, Emma, if it's about children's stuff,
01:51birthday,
01:52things that are related,
01:53I come from a broken family.
01:54So, I know how it feels, right?
01:56As a family, broken.
01:57When it's my birthday,
01:58I get to celebrate with my dad,
01:59then go to my mum,
02:00then the Eid picture is incomplete.
02:01So, I'm a painter.
02:03So, once, Emma,
02:04I painted a family,
02:06a family as a kid,
02:07I wanted my mum and dad to have one picture.
02:08So, Emma drew it herself.
02:10So, Emma drew this picture of mum,
02:11this picture of dad,
02:11this picture of siblings,
02:12because I never got,
02:14the siblings' picture in one picture.
02:15If I wanted, it had to be two.
02:16One picture of mum,
02:17one picture of dad.
02:18So, when I learned from that,
02:19when I was little,
02:20when I grew up,
02:21I know how it feels,
02:22how you really want the family so bad.
02:24So, I created my own family.
02:25So, how?
02:26Even though,
02:28Allah has said,
02:28that's my fate.
02:29So, I accept it.
02:30But for the kids,
02:31I still have to make them feel that,
02:33no, this is still your family.
02:34You are the family.
02:35So, if you have any difficulties,
02:37I will try my best,
02:38so that both parents are there.
02:39I won't be like,
02:40because when we grow up,
02:42when we're adults,
02:42no matter what personal issues we have,
02:44if it's possible,
02:45the kids won't know.
02:45Let the kids see,
02:46eh, my mum and dad are okay.
02:47The adults will be like,
02:48eh, they're okay.
02:49Let it be like that.
02:50Let it be like that,
02:51it looks okay.
02:52Because,
02:52it's useless for you to fight for the kids,
02:54because you're not taking care of the kids.
02:55Parents take care of them,
02:56siblings take care of them,
02:57mates take care of them.
02:58Why do you fight?
02:59Just to hold a grudge,
03:00against your partner.
03:01To keep them away.
03:02So, for me,
03:02I don't want that to happen in my family.
03:04I don't want the kids to feel like,
03:06you know,
03:06arguing.
03:07That's why I made it neutral.
03:08Understanding between me and him,
03:09let me and him settle it.
03:11The kids don't have to feel the pain.