Is masturbation bad for you? What about oral sex? Here's everything you need to know about erectile dysfunction.
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00:00For social stigma, medical disease, erectile dysfunction is not an issue to hide away from
00:06And what if Ali Baba reaches the cave?
00:14Stay long, stay happy
00:17Basically, we have heard about stories and seen ads that erection longs for us
00:22and we think, is this a reality or just a fantasy?
00:25But what we have to understand is that the duration of erection is not related to a satisfying sexual experience
00:32If you can have a good erection, you can penetrate vaginally and you can have an intervaginal ejaculation
00:38then you are perfectly normal
00:46My best buddy, my hand
00:49Well, most of the patients who come to my OPD say that they have a good erection while masturbating
00:54but when they are with their partners, they are unable to maintain a good erection
00:58During that time, we think of a sexual fantasy which may not be replicated in the reality
01:03And when you are doing the real sexual experience and that fantasy is not replicated, you do not get a good erection
01:10So what I am not saying is to stop masturbating, you can do it occasionally
01:13But don't stick to just one fantasy forever
01:16If you are in a long-term healthy relationship with your partner, stick to vaginal penetration and sex
01:24Kiss the frog
01:29Kiss the frog, is oral sex that great?
01:33Oral sex gives a heightened sense of stimulation and you may get a good erection
01:37But later on when the oral sex stops, you may not get a good erection to penetrate
01:42So people, I am not telling you to deprive yourself of sexual pleasures
01:47But I am telling you to keep experimenting, don't focus on one
01:51Identify which actions lead to a limp later on and try to avoid them
02:03One pill Vigra not equals one night stand
02:07Sildenafil or Vigra
02:09Well, it is a great medication for those who have erectile dysfunction
02:13But for those who are just taking it for the kicks, I would say beware
02:17It has been known to cause priapism or prolonged erection
02:21So what to do for one night stands?
02:23Well, first be confident, be relaxed, avoid alcohol, smoking and other drugs
02:35Let's go natural
02:37What about herbs, oils and others?
02:40Erectile dysfunction is a multi-billion dollar industry and everyone wants to get a part in it
02:45Most of these natural products are not regulated by US FDA and even Indian standards
02:50So if you can't vouch for their authenticity, I would say avoid them
02:54They may cause permanent kidney damage and testicular failure
02:58Which may lead to permanent erection problems later on
03:01So natural is not the nature's way guys
03:04Erectile dysfunction is an early marker for cardiovascular disease
03:08Person has a lot of stress at work, he is not able to maintain a good mental relationship with his partner
03:14So 90% of the causes are psychogenic
03:17Only 10% have some organic disease
03:20These are hypertension, diabetes, cardiovascular disease and trauma to the penis
03:24So 90% is treatable