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Single si Irish ug ang iyang boyfriend naa sa abroad. While naa sa abroad ang iyang BF, nagka close sila sa iyang amiga nga babaye tan-awon but lalaki diay ang feeling. Sa ilang pagka close nisangko ni sa romantic relationship.
Mouliay karong tuiga ang iyang BF aron ilang estoryahan ang plano nga magpakasal. Apan matod ni Irish nga wa na siyay gugma sa iyang BF kay ang iyang feeling toa na sa iyang amiga. Nagpatambag siya kon iya bang buwagan ang iyang BF. Ikaw, unsa man ang imong ikatambag kang Irish? Mao ni ang atong tukion karon sa Tambagi Ko, Noy Kulas.
Single si Irish ug ang iyang boyfriend naa sa abroad. While naa sa abroad ang iyang BF, nagka close sila sa iyang amiga nga babaye tan-awon but lalaki diay ang feeling. Sa ilang pagka close nisangko ni sa romantic relationship.
Mouliay karong tuiga ang iyang BF aron ilang estoryahan ang plano nga magpakasal. Apan matod ni Irish nga wa na siyay gugma sa iyang BF kay ang iyang feeling toa na sa iyang amiga. Nagpatambag siya kon iya bang buwagan ang iyang BF. Ikaw, unsa man ang imong ikatambag kang Irish? Mao ni ang atong tukion karon sa Tambagi Ko, Noy Kulas.
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00:00You
01:30Long-distance relationship. Yeah, don't I third-party involved?
01:35Listen, we're talking in DR. No, I don't
01:37want my
01:39Like it kuna physically present a partner be San Pa on Saka
01:45Moderno Natura panahona
01:47Anyway, I don't talk you owning one. So that's what I'm basahon. I'm so that because I don't make a tampon. I see Iris
01:55Kinning a kong problema complicated
01:58Hyde Lanko sangana Iris single a kong problem. I'm not so good. Idiya. I'm a kong boyfriend
02:05Me abroad. I don't the ism. Oh, wait. I'm a tip ask. Oh, not like a course. I'm gonna lucky
02:10I was a mongol account. I don't know. I lucky
02:13Nakuyo, I compare me. Kuyo. Can I kong close friend?
02:17a woman, but the feeling of a man in this generation.
02:22So, I'm not surprised that he's close to me.
02:26It's a good thing that we've reached a romantic relationship.
02:35I'm not surprised or doubtful that he's always looking at a woman.
02:41This year, my BF wants to plan for our wedding next year.
02:52So, they're going to get married.
02:54But, I'm saddened by his bad feeling.
02:58My love is now my best friend.
03:01I don't want him to lose me.
03:03So, I told my BF not to worry.
03:07They weren't surprised by my decision.
03:10Please, let me be with you.
03:13So, Iris's feelings developed for her BF.
03:20So, I'm not happy with this relationship.
03:25It's not a friendship.
03:28What's worse is that she found out that her BF is also a man.
03:38This is one of the reasons why it's important for her to have a developed feeling.
03:47People are more committed to Iris's situation.
03:54Sometimes, they don't even know each other.
03:56But, why?
03:58She has a BF from abroad.
04:00She has a BF from abroad.
04:02But, some of her BF's plans are part of their future.
04:09So, it's very tragic.
04:11Don't be fooled.
04:12It's a tragedy if your BF's plans are part of your future.
04:17It's painful for your BF.
04:20It's a sacrifice from God.
04:23So, what should we do?
04:27Psychologists need emotional connection and intimacy.
04:33They need to be able to relate to each other.
04:39They need to feel each other.
04:41They need to understand each other.
04:44They need to talk to each other.
04:47They need to share their stories.
04:48You found out that you need to share your experiences with each other.
04:56So, first, you need to identify with each other.
05:04You need to know each other.
05:06Iris's BF or BF, I'm sure, has a past.
05:13She has a history.
05:15Iris has a past.
05:18So, you need to know each other.
05:20You need to talk about your apprehensions.
05:23So, if you have a problem, you need to talk about it.
05:28Defend each other's arms.
05:31You need to cry on each other.
05:33You need to talk about the problem.
05:35So, first, you need to know if your BF is physically present.
05:40And the first disadvantage is if you have a long-distance relationship.
05:43Your BF is not there.
05:45So, second, you need to share experiences and values.
05:49So, if you have a long-distance relationship,
05:54you need to share your common interests.
05:58So, you need to talk about your experiences.
06:00If you're watching a concert, you need to talk about it.
06:05You need to talk about it.
06:08If you're listening to the music of other people and you're talking about your experiences,
06:18you can create a bond between the two,
06:21between a man and a woman,
06:23or between a man and a woman,
06:25or between a man and a man.
06:27Especially if the other person has a homosexuality tendency.
06:32For example, if he doesn't have a wife,
06:35and he has a son,
06:37and he has a son,
06:38and he has a son,
06:39and he has a son,
06:40and he has a son,
06:41at age 65,
06:43he found out he's gay.
06:45He found out he's gay at an age of 30.
06:47He found out he's gay at an age of 30.
06:49So, you need to talk about your experiences.
06:54You need to talk about your experiences.
06:57You need to talk about your experiences.
07:03You need to talk about your experiences.
07:06I don't know if you've seen it,
07:07but there are no scientific studies on it yet.
07:10So, going back to trust and comfort,
07:13the third is physical attraction.
07:15Usually, I don't replace physical attraction.
07:20There are many artists out there,
07:26who have beautiful girlfriends.
07:29There are many actresses who are naturally beautiful.
07:33They are beautiful,
07:34but the other one is more beautiful,
07:35more sexy.
07:36But how can you choose an actor?
07:39So, I don't know.
07:41Physical attraction can be played,
07:43but I know it's not a major role.
07:47Psychological, mental,
07:51and the closeness between the two,
07:54the two feelings,
07:55the two interactions,
07:56the closeness between the two people,
07:58can be played more.
08:04Evolution of friendship.
08:06As friendship evolves and deepens,
08:08dynamics can shift,
08:09to the possibility of romantic feelings developing.
08:13This is the level of communication
08:19in our classes,
08:20first in social psychology,
08:23what can be developed through communication.
08:27It is based on the whole,
08:30how to move,
08:31how to move this intimacy,
08:34how to follow,
08:36how to embrace,
08:37especially between a man and a woman,
08:39how to embrace.
08:41So, this is followed by
08:43how to play
08:47how to embrace each other.
08:49So, this evolves to a higher level,
08:53to a higher level of feeling,
08:57a deeper feeling.
08:59So, in our class,
09:01first in social psychology,
09:03one of the factors
09:05is proximity,
09:09the distance between two people.
09:11The other one is availability.
09:19What is proximity?
09:21Distance.
09:22Availability,
09:23the frequency of what you see.
09:27For example,
09:28you want to consult
09:31about a problem in the office,
09:34your neighbor in the office,
09:36you want to talk about the problem,
09:38he is available,
09:40you can hug,
09:42you can kiss,
09:43you want to kiss each other.
09:45Opposite sex.
09:47Opposite sex.
09:49So, there is a possibility
09:51when you develop
09:54the feeling of belonging,
09:56each other's feeling.
09:57So, first,
09:59when you develop
10:03the feeling of belonging,
10:05the feeling of belonging,
10:07one day,
10:08they woke up
10:09that they are the two of them.
10:11So, first,
10:12what Iris found,
10:14she found
10:16was a relationship
10:18that was based on friendship.
10:20So, first,
10:22what I found,
10:24especially in married couples,
10:27a married couple
10:29and a man in the office,
10:31a married couple
10:33and a woman in the office,
10:35or within the community.
10:40So,
10:41when you develop
10:43the feeling of belonging,
10:47there is a fallout feeling,
10:49there is a fill-in,
10:50a pull-in feeling.
10:52So, first,
10:53first,
10:54what I found
10:55in this situation
10:59with Iris,
11:01so,
11:02what I found,
11:04what I found,
11:05what I found in Iris,
11:08was whether or not
11:11she had a boyfriend.
11:14So, first,
11:15what I asked,
11:16I asked Iris,
11:18was whether or not
11:23she had a boyfriend.
11:27It's not easy.
11:29Iris doesn't like to take time to decide.
11:32So,
11:33you have to think it first.
11:35First,
11:36what are the possible consequences
11:42or consequences
11:43of your decision
11:48to break up with your boyfriend?
11:51So,
11:52what I want to say
11:53is that it's not easy.
11:54When you talk,
11:57when you talk,
11:58when you have feelings for someone,
12:00and based on my,
12:02based on my experience,
12:04for the last 30 years,
12:06there have been situations
12:09where the person you love
12:11has come back
12:13within their life,
12:16within their lives.
12:18For example,
12:20there was a woman
12:22who saw her boyfriend
12:25come back
12:27to her girlfriend
12:29in high school
12:31or in college.
12:32She saw him.
12:33Then,
12:34they realized
12:35that they can't say goodbye
12:37to each other.
12:38They can't.
12:39They can't.
12:40Some people have wives
12:42and they have reunions
12:44so they can't return
12:46to their relationships.
12:48So,
12:49they realize
12:51that they can't continue
12:52or they can't continue
12:54to be together
12:56and they can't say goodbye.
12:58So,
12:59it's possible, Iris,
13:00that what you feel
13:02now
13:03about your boyfriend
13:06is just a product
13:38your boyfriend.
13:39It's been a long time since you've been together, right?
13:42But in my opinion,
13:45it's important to know that
13:47it's not the man
13:50who makes you fall in love.
13:54If not,
13:55it's the same sex.
13:57It's a woman and a man.
13:59If your boyfriend is a man,
14:02it's okay,
14:03because your brother is also a woman.
14:05But the point is,
14:07that's when you can
14:09make your friend fall in love with you.
14:11That's when you can develop
14:13a romantic relationship.
14:15That's when your friendship will level up.
14:18So,
14:19it's better to stay away from each other.
14:22But,
14:23you can't see
14:25that one day,
14:27it's possible
14:29that your friend
14:32will detach from you.
14:35You won't be able to feel it.
14:38It happens, right?
14:40It could happen
14:42in your current situation.
14:44Based on
14:48the last 30 years of writing,
14:51that's when you'll find out
14:53that your relationship has leveled up.
14:56In my personal experience,
14:59eventually,
15:00your friend and your wife
15:02will be back together.
15:04They will be back together,
15:06and they will find out
15:08that they are meant to be together.
15:12They won't be able to feel
15:15that they are separated.
15:17But your friend will realize
15:19that he can now
15:21get closer to his wife.
15:23So, they will be back together.
15:25It's better to stay away from a woman
15:27who is in a relationship
15:29than to be separated.
15:32Right?
15:33So,
15:34it's better to stay away from a woman
15:35who is in a relationship.
15:37So,
15:39in the long run,
15:41when your wife comes back to you,
15:43because you are willing to work it out,
15:45you will find out
15:46that you have developed feelings for each other.
15:48So,
15:49you will find out
15:50that you have developed feelings for each other.
15:51So,
15:53I will tell you
15:55what happened.
15:56You will find out
15:58that you have developed feelings for each other.
16:00Eventually,
16:01your wife will come back to you.
16:03So,
16:04it's better to stay away from a woman
16:05who is in a relationship.
16:06Thirdly,
16:07what do you think
16:08is the reason
16:09why you are trying
16:10to separate yourself
16:11from your wife?
16:13The third reason is
16:15that your boyfriend
16:16sacrificed himself
16:17to go abroad.
16:19He planned it.
16:20He planned it.
16:22He planned
16:23your marriage.
16:26Right?
16:27He planned
16:28your marriage.
16:29And possibly,
16:30he planned
16:31for you
16:32to have a house
16:33or to rent a house
16:35so that you can save
16:36for your future.
16:38It's not bad
16:39for your boyfriend
16:41to sacrifice himself
16:43to go abroad
16:45to have a happy relationship
16:47because
16:48that's where he needs
16:49of all
16:50the people
16:51who
16:52support him.
16:54Because
16:55he chose a woman
16:56and he chose a man.
16:58So,
16:59it's not bad
17:00for a man
17:02or for a partner,
17:03whether it's a man or a woman,
17:05to sacrifice himself
17:06to go abroad.
17:07It's up to you
17:08to decide
17:09whether you want
17:10your relationship
17:11to be
17:12a happy one
17:13or a sad one.
17:14Right?
17:15A happy one
17:16or a sad one
17:17depending on
17:18how you
17:19plan
17:20or plan
17:21your relationship.
17:23So,
17:24it's not good
17:25for a man
17:26or a woman
17:27to sacrifice himself
17:28to go abroad
17:29because
17:30that's where he needs
17:31of all the people
17:32who support him.
17:33It's not bad
17:34for a man
17:35or a woman
17:36to sacrifice himself
17:37to go abroad.
17:38It's up to you
17:39to decide
17:40whether you want
17:41your relationship
17:42to be a happy one
17:43or a sad one
17:44depending on
17:45how you plan
17:46your relationship.
17:47Right?
17:48So,
17:49it's up to you
17:50to decide
17:51whether you want
17:52your relationship
17:53to be a happy one
17:54or a sad one
17:55depending on
17:56how you plan
17:57your relationship.
18:24He found out later that he had millions of followers and he found out later that he started dating women.
18:39And then he went to their environment.
18:43First, his childhood experience and then his environment.
18:47Later on, he became a fashion designer.
18:50So, he started dating women and homosexuals.
18:56So, this is what he found out.
18:59Later on, he found out that he was gay.
19:07He displayed his gayness at his age, I think 30 plus or late 30s.
19:13So, Iris, let me ask you a question to clarify your preference.
19:20So, let's start with the men.
19:24There is a woman named Hermisa Lapined.
19:29I don't know if you know her.
19:34Her name is Imjo Abuna.
19:37So, Imjo Abuna said,
19:39In your opinion, is it possible for a man to resist a woman?
19:45We know that if a man doesn't have a girlfriend,
19:50he can't resist a woman.
19:53So, Imjo, let me ask you,
19:59Is it possible for a man to resist a woman?
20:01This is what I mean when I say that
20:04his feeling is not for a woman.
20:08It's not for a man, but for a woman.
20:11So, it's up to you to decide.
20:14It's up to you to decide.
20:17If you don't have a girlfriend,
20:21it's up to you to decide.
20:23It's up to you to decide.
20:26So, let's start with Iris.
20:32You have a friend, Janelette Dolino,
20:35a politician from Saudi Arabia.
20:38She is a very good person.
20:42She has a friend.
20:45Her name is Joy Illigan Cortez.
20:50She has a friend.
20:51She has a friend who is a politician.
20:53So, you have to decide.
20:56I have a friend who is a priest.
20:58He is my wife's father.
21:00He is Father Algy Pitugo.
21:02He is from Mindanao.
21:03He is a very good priest.
21:05He is a very good priest.
21:10He is a very good priest.
21:14So, let's go back to Iris.
21:19I will ask Iris.
21:21After this discussion,
21:24first, you have to decide.
21:28Second, you should not keep your girlfriend,
21:34your friend, your close friend,
21:36your neighbor away.
21:40Instead, the frequency should be once a day,
21:43every other day,
21:44sometimes once a week,
21:45twice a week, once a week,
21:46sometimes once a month,
21:48twice a month.
21:51So that you can see where she is.
21:54Third, you have to decide
22:02the sacrifice for your boyfriend here abroad.
22:06So, decide that he is abroad,
22:09he is abroad,
22:10he is abroad,
22:11he is abroad,
22:12he is abroad,
22:13he is abroad,
22:14he is abroad,
22:15he is abroad,
22:16he is abroad,
23:18he is abroad,
23:19he is abroad,
23:20he is abroad.