Aired (February 11, 2025): Sa panahon ngayon na issue ang cheating sa isang relasyon, papayag ba sina Lexi at Gil na magkaroon sila ng guy o girl best friend?
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00:00The things we learned from them, boundaries for example.
00:09You two, having been together for like over 3 years, do you have clear boundaries?
00:15Yes.
00:16Go ahead.
00:18I think me too, I don't ask so much of his time.
00:22If he needs his own personal space, I give that.
00:26I don't...
00:27But does he ask for personal space?
00:29Not really.
00:30I'm going out with my friends.
00:31No, no, no.
00:32Not really.
00:33Because I guess, I don't ask for his time.
00:35So it all just happens naturally.
00:37And we're not jealous of whoever we interact with.
00:42We have our own group of friends, circle of friends.
00:45That separates.
00:46Yes.
00:47Isn't it dangerous that you're not jealous?
00:49In a good way, because jealous is good.
00:51As long as it is managed properly.
00:54Isn't it dangerous that you're free and I'm free?
00:57I trust you.
00:58It's not like that, Uncle Boy.
01:00Because I think trust in a relationship is very important.
01:03And you built that from the very beginning.
01:05Yes.
01:06If there's no trust, then I think we should be gone because there's no trust.
01:09Boundaries.
01:10For me, I don't think, at least for her, she hasn't given me anything that I would be really worried about.
01:16She has guy friends who I'm cool with.
01:19I've also met some of them.
01:20For me, I also have female friends.
01:24I was about to ask that.
01:25Do you agree that you have a best guy friend and you have a best girl friend?
01:31That we don't have.
01:33I don't have a best guy friend.
01:34But hypothetically, do you agree that Gil has one?
01:37It's okay, I guess.
01:39I think it depends on the dynamics of it.
01:41Yeah.
01:42As long as they're in their friendship, they have boundaries.
01:45And I think they talk about it.
01:46Yes.
01:47There are no assumptions.
01:48None.
01:49I don't think it's just this.
01:51None.
01:53If ever he has a girlfriend, and Gil also has girlfriends,
01:58they also have respect with me.
02:00They take that boundary.
02:02Not to be too close.
02:03With my friends, I'm also like that.
02:05A respect that you do not demand for.
02:07Yes.
02:08That's important.
02:09Because earlier, when you said that he has his own friends,
02:12I have my own set of friends,
02:14I saw that there's delineation.
02:17And it can be dangerous in a relationship.
02:19Yes.
02:20It can be embarrassing sometimes.
02:23What happens?
02:24Who's that?
02:25Right?
02:26Shouldn't you have at least access to your different sets of friends?
02:33Well, we do.
02:34You have?
02:35Yeah, we do.
02:36I actually really make it a point to let her hang out with my friends.
02:39Actually, the thing to say with me is,
02:41my closest friends are my high school friends.
02:44I studied in Ateneo, so we're all boys.
02:47So the girls there are also girlfriends of my friends.
02:52So I also include them.
02:53So my female friends are also girlfriends of my actual close guy friends.
02:58Yes.
02:59And she's also a part of it.
03:00While you, your circle of friends is?
03:03He also knows my friends.
03:05High school then?
03:07From different...
03:08Well, when it comes to girls, we gossip a lot.
03:13Different industries.
03:14Yes.
03:15When it comes to girls, this is what we talk about.
03:18You almost sell that.
03:19You guys, as friends, do you talk about your girlfriends?
03:23Oh yeah.
03:24I mean, because we're guys.
03:25So yeah.
03:26We've been to talk about our girlfriends every now and then.
03:27We share experiences.
03:28In this day and age of social media,
03:31where it's really hard because everything is public.
03:35Yeah.
03:36For example, Andy and Philmar, their relationship.
03:39Andy is the baby of the industry and Philmar is the baby of social media.
03:44Okay.
03:45You two, how public would you go?
03:49Or how much do you keep to yourselves?
03:56Actually, in light of all of these relationship problems,
04:02not just what you mentioned,
04:04but even like the ones, the bigger issues mentioned last year,
04:07in light of those, we've actually realized.
04:09Although when we signed up for this job,
04:12we fully understood that our personal lives would be scrutinized by the public.
04:16But if we can do our part to minimize some of that, we would.
04:21And part of it is, I guess, selecting what we share to the public or what we post about.
04:29We've been a little more low-key.
04:32It's not like we're hiding anything.
04:36It's just more private.
04:38Because with all the relationship problems,
04:41and people like to air out dirty laundry, Tito Boy.
04:44They really like to air out dirty laundry on social media
04:47and really share all of their relationship problems.
04:50In light of that, we've decided, let's maybe take a step back.
04:54You're not going to go there, Gil.
04:56Yeah, no.
04:57You're not going to go there.
04:58We don't have to share it.
04:59We won't share it.
05:00And we discuss it.
05:01Because you're right, the word there is an oxymoron.
05:05We're all public.
05:06But we try to be as private as we can.
05:09But if there's anything we can be private about, that's private.
05:13Because the nature of being public is you're public.
05:15The moment you decide to be public, you're public.
05:17Exactly.
05:18When you sign up.
05:19Yeah, when you sign up for the job,
05:21when people see you, you're public.
05:23You can't be like,
05:24not now, I'm going to the bathroom.
05:26Not now, I'm in the grocery.
05:27No, you're public.
05:29So, this is a thing that you talk about.
05:32Let's just stick to this.
05:33Yes.
05:34We have actually discussed it.
05:35And it has worked.
05:36Yes.
05:37It has.
05:38Actually, it has.
05:39Well, sometimes people are asking,
05:40are you still going to do it?
05:41But I guess that's better than actually them throwing rocks at us.
05:45Okay.
05:59Okay.
06:59Hey!