Tips and advice para sa maayos na panliligaw, alamin!

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00:00Since February is known as the month of love,

00:03let's talk about an important timeless aspect of every relationship.

00:07This is the courtship, the process of getting to know each other, the courtship.

00:12Uh-huh.

00:13So, to give us tips and advice on how to courtship properly,

00:20we will have a live coach, our friend, Joe Fernandez.

00:25Hi, Joe. Good morning.

00:27Good morning, Tito Audrey.

00:30And of course, Dianne.

00:31You started it.

00:32You started it.

00:33Good morning.

00:34Did Dianne give you any tips?

00:37No, she didn't.

00:38But she wants to know what your record is.

00:40Okay, okay.

00:41Because you will give tips on how to courtship, right?

00:44Let's let the viewers know.

00:46How many have you courted and how many were successful?

00:50And how many were not?

00:52If any.

00:53Bro, Audrey.

00:5472 and 10.

00:5572 and 10.

00:5672 and 10.

00:57That's Chicago rules.

00:58Okay.

00:59Let's make it clear.

01:00What does that mean?

01:0172 is successful.

01:0272 is successful.

01:03Not too successful.

01:0410 is successful.

01:05Is it a big percentage or successful?

01:07No.

01:08But that's a lot of numbers.

01:09Wait a minute.

01:10It's 72.

01:11Those who are listening to him on the radio of the country,

01:14he said that his girlfriend is already 72.

01:18That's a lot.

01:19Yes.

01:20Anyway, alright.

01:21So, tell us.

01:22What is the right process of courtship?

01:24What is the right courtship in this time?

01:26You know, Dianne, Audrey,

01:27one of the things that I really recommend to courters is three things.

01:31First, number one, very important, be yourself.

01:34So, don't pretend.

01:36Do not pretend to be someone you're not.

01:39Because sometimes, when you're courting,

01:41we say put your best foot forward.

01:43Sometimes, it's like you have to show off.

01:45But that's not a good way to start the relationship.

01:48So, be yourself.

01:49Show who you really are.

01:51And let's say, if you really think about it,

01:53what we love about people are the things we don't like.

01:56Because the things we like, it's easy to love, right?

01:58So, just be yourself.

01:59Second, Audrey and Dianne, be patient.

02:03Especially to young people.

02:04People like things that are fast,

02:07our young people are very trigger-happy.

02:09Swipe right, swipe left.

02:11So, be patient.

02:12Good things, great things take time.

02:14And number three, the most important thing for me,

02:16in my observation,

02:17is don't court Audrey and Dianne

02:21or when you're courting,

02:22look for your happiness in other people.

02:25So, as I said in my recent post on my TikTok,

02:27if you're not happy single and on your own,

02:30you will not be happy with someone else in a relationship.

02:33The advice is good.

02:35Be yourself.

02:36So, if you're blind,

02:38if you're on a date,

02:40don't pretend to be someone you're not.

02:42Be patient.

02:43And that's right.

02:44Be happy for yourself.

02:46Don't look for it in others.

02:47And Uncle Audrey, what can you say about that?

02:50Okay.

02:5172-0.

02:52Why are you making your girlfriend change?

02:54She's already 72.

02:55That's not what we're talking about.

02:57It's about courting.

02:58That's a different question.

03:03Anyway,

03:04the modern Filipinas are different.

03:08Traditional Filipinas are also different.

03:10Filipinas in the 70s and 80s,

03:12what's the difference

03:14between courting those women

03:16and the women today?

03:18I think, like what I mentioned earlier,

03:21especially in our time now,

03:23there are differences,

03:24there are nuances that are different.

03:26Our Filipinas are more empowered,

03:28they're more demanding.

03:30But I think at the core of it all,

03:32their essence,

03:33what Filipinas still want is

03:34to really court them,

03:36to propose to them.

03:37I told my advisors,

03:39do not make it easy for the boys.

03:41So, let them earn you,

03:43let them earn your love,

03:44let them earn your trust.

03:45So, again,

03:46on the surface,

03:47there are slight differences,

03:48but at the core,

03:49women should really demand

03:51respect, time,

03:53and commitment from men.

03:55How do you know

03:56if a person is serious about courting you?

03:59I think one of the main factors

04:02that women need to look at

04:04in men,

04:05or either way,

04:06is they have to commit.

04:07Sometimes,

04:08especially now,

04:09if you heard of the term

04:10situationship,

04:12I'm not really agreeing

04:15with that concept.

04:17For me,

04:18if you are serious

04:19in a relationship,

04:20or in courting,

04:21Audrey,

04:22you have to commit,

04:23you have to take the jump,

04:24you have to take the leap of faith.

04:25You can't be too cocky,

04:26you can't be too weak.

04:27So, either you take the leap,

04:29if you fail,

04:30then learning experience,

04:31if it's successful,

04:32then that's good for you.

04:33So, number one,

04:34the courting person

04:35should really commit.

04:36In either of the parties,

04:37they should really commit.

04:39Okay,

04:40what is your advice

04:41to Filipinos,

04:42to the men

04:43who always get busted?

04:45Because we don't know

04:46how they feel.

04:50The ones who reject.

04:51I'm kind of ignorant

04:52about what you don't know.

04:54Now,

04:55what is your advice to them

04:56so they don't get busted

04:57over and over again?

04:58You said,

04:59Audrey,

05:00the concept of getting busted

05:01is alien to us.

05:02But seriously speaking,

05:03to the men

05:04who usually get busted,

05:05I think they have to have

05:06more self-esteem.

05:08Sometimes,

05:09maybe their self-esteem

05:10or confidence is low,

05:12or they feel

05:13that they are inferior,

05:14or they can't reach,

05:15or they can't court

05:16their ideal girl.

05:18So, number one,

05:19I think they have to work on

05:20is their self-image

05:21and self-esteem.

05:22So, again,

05:23be yourself,

05:24be who you are,

05:25do not pretend

05:26that you're fierce,

05:27or you're strong,

05:28or you eat a lot.

05:29If it's not you,

05:30then don't.

05:31Don't pretend.

05:32Yes,

05:33do not pretend to be someone

05:34you're not.

05:35For example,

05:36you're going to be

05:37very aggressive,

05:38but you're not.

05:39You're a gentle type of guy.

05:40Don't be like that.

05:41So, again,

05:42self-esteem is number one

05:43for those who are

05:44often busted.

05:45But now,

05:46most of the time,

05:47you're a messenger,

05:48you text.

05:49What are the techniques

05:50for that?

05:51Because sometimes,

05:52that's where you send

05:53the messages

05:54you want to send,

05:55the sweet messages

05:56or messages online.

05:57As far as technique,

05:58to be like you,

05:59Audrey,

06:00who is not busted,

06:01again,

06:02you have to be very polite.

06:03Again,

06:04nowadays,

06:05both the male and female

06:06are getting equal

06:07in terms of our rights,

06:08but again,

06:09at the core of it all,

06:10Ms. Diane,

06:11for me,

06:12the guy has to be respectful,

06:13has to be courteous,

06:14has to be gentle.

06:15You have to really

06:16show that you want

06:17that person.

06:18Because otherwise,

06:19if you're a bit rough

06:20or if you're a bit

06:21aggressive,

06:22I don't think

06:23that's a very

06:24favorable personality

06:25pattern.

06:26Oh,

06:27I'm so surprised.

06:28What are your social media

06:29accounts

06:30so that I can

06:31do a personal consultation

06:32with you?

06:33After this,

06:34I'll go to the doctor

06:35and get a consultation.

06:36No,

06:37the one who's just

06:38courting

06:39will get a consultation

06:40from me.

06:41If you're already

06:42in a relationship.

06:43The one who's already

06:44done with me.

06:45Social media accounts.

06:46So,

06:47please follow me on

06:48TikTok.

06:49It's either

06:50LifeCoachPep

06:51or the keywords

06:52LifeCoachPep

06:53or the LoveGuru page.

06:54Wow,

06:55LoveGuru.

06:57Thank you so much again.

06:58Thank you so much

06:59for spending time

07:00with us this morning

07:01and of course,

07:02for giving tips

07:03and advice

07:04to our viewers

07:05on how to have

07:06a good relationship.

07:07Joe Fernandez

07:08signing off.

07:09Peace.

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