In this pilot episode of The Sweet Life with Lucy Torres-Gomez, Ruffa Gutierrez shared her traveling stories all over the world, her Miss World journey, and how she met her husband, Yilmaz Bektas.
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00:00Good conversation build good relationships.
00:03Ang sarap to talk about how sweet life can be.
00:06Especially when you count the many firsts that have made life even sweeter.
00:10Like the first commercial I ever did was also the first time I met him.
00:15Ang unang binigay niya sakin ay mansanas.
00:19At sa sobrang kilig ko, tinago ko yung mga buto.
00:22Kaya lang hindi ko na mapapakita sa inyo dahil bulok na ang mga buto.
00:27After eight commercials and five years later, naligaw na siya sakin.
00:31Proof?
00:32Tinago ko yung first card na pinadala niya sakin.
00:35The first time my parents learned about him, they warned me.
00:39Sabi nila, I'm not the first pretty girl that he's had in his life.
00:45Well, it didn't matter to me. I was in love.
00:49Two years into the marriage, we became first time parents.
00:52Everything about Juliana makes me proud and happy.
00:55Lahat kinukunan ko.
00:56First subo.
00:57First time siya nag-walk.
00:59Naalala ko siguro mga eight months siya noon.
01:01She took one step.
01:02First word na sinabi niya, sinulat ko.
01:06First outfit she wore to school nung nag-playgroup na siya.
01:10First sport.
01:12First day of everything she does, of everything new she does, kinukunan ko.
01:16So lahat yung nakadocument.
01:18Nagmana sa daddy niya, mahilig sa sport.
01:20So kahit anong makitan yung ginagawa ng daddy niya, gusto rin niyang subukan.
01:24Ako naman walang kahilig-hilig sa sports.
01:26Nasubukan ko once, napasubo ako kasi parang may nagsabi na kailangan nilang may mag-tee-off daw sa isang golf tournament.
01:34Kung pwede daw ba ako.
01:36Sa pagkalito ko siguro napa-oo ako until I realized na hindi pala ako marunong mag-golf.
01:41So mga two nights before, ang laki na lang powers ko.
01:45Tas hindi na ako makatulog.
01:46Turo na si Richard ng tulo kung paano magpalipad ng bola.
01:49So dinaan ko na lang lahat sa dasal.
01:52And salamat sa Diyos lumipad naman yung bola.
01:55The first time I teed off and I have the pictures to prove it.
01:59I discovered dancing and I told myself, eto na yun, dito talaga ako happy.
02:05So I haven't stopped since.
02:07I took up flamenco, nag-belly dancing, until nag-ballroom dancing.
02:12And happy naman ako kasi pati si Juliana parang na-influence na rin.
02:17And she tried all three also.
02:19As I get to experience many other firsts in life, sana kasama ko kayo.
02:23Share tayo sa Sweet Life.
02:26And this is the first day of our journey.
02:50Brand new ways and brand new days.
02:53The Sweet Life walk away with Lucy.
03:10Welcome to the Sweet Life.
03:12I'm so happy because I have this chance to share with all of you everything about life and how we can make it sweeter.
03:17Kahit sino ka, kahit saan ka, there are many, many ways to color your life.
03:21So that's what we're going to take up here on the show.
03:23And to help me with that, I want to welcome or I want to show you or introduce to you my DJ, Wilma Dassen.
03:33Welcome to me.
03:35Welcome.
03:37Welcome to you.
03:38Welcome, everybody.
03:40Welcome.
03:42Thank you, Lucy.
03:44Thank you for the flowers.
03:47Ba't may flowers ka na?
03:48Idili ko talaga ito para sana mga makalimutan mo ako.
03:52Para sigurado na talaga ako.
03:54You're so sweet.
03:55Binilan mo tayong dalawa.
03:56Ay, hindi, yan galing sa production.
03:58Ito galing sa talaga sakin.
04:00Binili ko talaga ito.
04:01Gan sa kanila yan.
04:02Siyempre naman ako rin, first time ko mag-host with you.
04:06So feeling ko talaga ang ganda ko, mistis.
04:08Ang ganda mo talaga.
04:09Ang puti, ang puti ng ngipin ko.
04:11Ang puti ng ngipin mo.
04:14Like I said kanina, excited ako.
04:16Kasi first night pa lang ito.
04:18Of many, many nights that we have together,
04:21ang dami natin pwedeng pagkwentohan.
04:23We can inspire so many people.
04:25So tonight, first time rin natin uupo sa ating red Swanston lounge chair
04:33which we will be raffling off later in the show.
04:40And to kick off, we're very excited
04:42because we have a guest, a beautiful, beautiful guest
04:45who's also a good friend
04:46and she will share with us many of her sparkling firsts.
04:49Please stay tuned for Ms. Rufa Lucero.
04:52The first class life.
04:54How does it feel to live it day in and day out?
04:57She's here to tell us her results.
04:59Please welcome on the show, Ms. Rufa Gutierrez.
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05:22Hello, Rufa!
05:25Welcome to the show.
05:26Hi, Wilma!
05:27Hi, Rufa!
05:28You're so beautiful naman there.
05:29Ang ganda-ganda mo rin, parang tayo naka-white.
05:32If you notice, Rufa, there's a map
05:34because we all know you're very, very well-traveled.
05:36So we want you to tell us about your many firsts worldwide.
05:41First what?
05:42The juicy stuff.
05:43The juicy stuff?
05:44Like what?
05:45Where are you?
05:46Where you first met Ilmas.
05:48I think I'm gonna start naman where I competed muna in the Miss World.
05:51Kasi iksa-otic naman yung place nayon.
05:53Okay.
05:54So siyempre, I was born at the Makati Medical Center in the Philippines.
05:57Okay.
05:59And then I grew up in Los Angeles.
06:01Okay, so you have to circle that.
06:03I grew up here in LA.
06:05In the Rocky Mountains?
06:06No naman, it's in LA na.
06:08Okay.
06:09And then, when I was 17, they sent me to New York for look of the year.
06:13So that was held in New York.
06:14Okay.
06:15And then, after that, they decided that I was too fat to be a model.
06:20They said that?
06:21You know, I was at my skinniest na.
06:23Talagang diet ako ng diet.
06:25But you were that tall already.
06:27Oo naman, I was tall na.
06:28And that beautiful.
06:29So sabi ko, I think I'm better off as a beauty queen.
06:31So siyempre, nanalo ako ng binibining Pilipinas world.
06:34And where was the competition?
06:36They sent me first to London.
06:37And then after, they sent me to Sun City, South Africa, which is like somewhere here.
06:43And then, I met Ilmas naman in Cannes.
06:45O, diba napaka jet set?
06:46What were you doing in Cannes?
06:49What were you doing in Cannes for the film festival?
06:51I was there kasi with Century Productions.
06:54So they got me to work in the States.
06:55Ah, kasi you were doing that job, no?
06:56Oo.
06:57And then, I met this guy who just kept following me.
07:00And I said, oh, he's cute.
07:01And then, he kept, yun lang.
07:02Nagustuhan mo na siya?
07:04Well, you know, when I first met him and when I first saw him, parang I knew right away I wanted to marry him.
07:09Magandang feeling, diba?
07:10Kala-kala?
07:11Oo.
07:12Pero I know, Rufa, na when you first met Ilmas, meron kayong language barrier, diba?
07:17Hindi siya nag-i-English.
07:19Yun na nga.
07:20Kaya sabi nga ng friend ko, oh my God, ang cute nung driver.
07:23So akala ko si Ilmas yung driver.
07:26So I go, oh my God, he's so cute, but he's a driver.
07:28So I'm like, oh, sagit mo lang.
07:30Wait, happened siya yung pa-Cannes.
07:32Okay, it's right here somewhere.
07:34Saan yung first date yun ni Ilmas?
07:36Did it happen also in Cannes or somewhere else?
07:38Well, siyempre he kept following me, no, and ako naman di ko siya pinapansin.
07:41He followed you all over the world or just in Cannes?
07:44In Cannes lang muna kasi marami naman akong maliligaw noon, in fairness.
07:48Ang haba talaga ng buhok mo, Rufa.
07:50Ang haba talaga yung hair ko.
07:52So he had to pay the concierge of the hotel that I was staying in.
07:56He got my address, my name, saan ako nagtrabaho, where I was from.
08:00Okay.
08:01And then the next day, he checked in na there and he was like following me around.
08:04So until he came to the Philippines to visit me one month later and then he met my family.
08:09So siyempre rakita niya mami-daddy ko and then my lifestyle here and then who I was.
08:14Parang sabi niya, my gosh, she's a nice girl pala.
08:18Which part of the world was your first kiss with Ilmas?
08:21Sa Istanbul na when I went to visit him.
08:24Ayan, Turkey, Istanbul.
08:26What was the gesture that swept you off your feet?
08:30You know, kasi with Ilmas, kasi he's different.
08:32Parang I grew up alone, I'm the only girl and I'm surrounded by boys.
08:36So parang I was spoiled, I was always my own boss.
08:39Tapos here comes si Ilmas na parang, sit down.
08:42Okay.
08:43Ah, ganun siya.
08:44Oo, parang he really tamed me, I can say.
08:48Kasi ako, parang I felt that I needed a man.
08:50Hindi mo siya sinasagot, no, you sit down.
08:52Syempre the first two years, kaya kami nag-aaway lage.
08:55Palagi kayo nag-aaway?
08:56Oo.
08:57Saan parte ng mundo yung first away niyo?
08:59Ay, sa Istanbul.
09:00At bakit? Why?
09:01Imagine, he invited me for dinner.
09:03Aba, sagot ng sagot ng phone.
09:05So feeling ko naman, aba, he's not even like, he doesn't even think I'm special.
09:08Parang we're having dinner and then he kept making all these business calls.
09:11And sanay ka prinsesa ka, diba? Lahat na nanginigaw sa'yo.
09:13Yeah, so binato ko yung mga money sa kanya.
09:17And then he freaked out.
09:18Anong binato mo yung mga money?
09:20Nagalit siya.
09:21What? He was on the phone, tas kinuha mo yung mga money, binato mo.
09:24Yeah, I grabbed the phone and I answered the phone.
09:26And then I left the next day.
09:27Parang ganun yung mga aaway namin.
09:29Kasi parang I felt that, hey, you know, if you're having dinner with me, just concentrate on me.
09:33Stop answering your phone, patayin mo naman yung phone mo.
09:36Sinong unang naka-feel na eto na yun?
09:39Did you feel it first?
09:40Did you say, I want him to be my husband?
09:42Or sinabi na na?
09:43Girl, syempre hindi naman ako nag-propose.
09:45Siya naman nag-propose ng ten times.
09:47Ten times?
09:48Oo.
09:49Bakit ba pa pinabot ng ten, Rupa?
09:50Kasi parang I felt I had a career.
09:52You know naman when you're like busy, you have a career, parang so many things are going for you.
09:56And then sabi naman ang mami ko,
09:58Ilmas, can you feed my daughter?
10:00So ang sagot naman ni Ilmas,
10:02Mami, you know, like right now, I can feed her.
10:04If I only have one piece of bread left on the table, I'll give it to your daughter.
10:08Oh, he said that?
10:09Oo. So parang for rich and for poor, basta whatever, he'll make me first.
10:13Okay, okay.
10:14So syempre si mami na touch-touch naman.
10:16What was the first gift of Ilmas to you?
10:18He gave me a bunch of roses.
10:20Kasi we went to a restaurant then, to France.
10:23So he bought like a thousand of them.
10:25And then, dinecorate niya yung table.
10:27Tapos tinagay niya, Seni, Sev, you room.
10:29That was the first Turkish word I learned.
10:31That's, I love you.
10:33Oo.
10:34Oo. So ako naman, oh how sweet.
10:37Sorry, how sweet.
10:38I really wanna marry this guy.
10:40I see you brought some of your beautiful gowns.
10:42But come, you join me.
10:44I want you to explain the gowns.
10:46Where you wore them.
10:47That's a beautiful color.
10:49So this was made by June Escario.
10:51And I wore this.
10:52June Escario yan?
10:53Yeah.
10:54He's from Cebu.
10:55He's from Cebu.
10:56Syempre we have to support the Cebuanos also.
10:57Of course.
10:58Although I know you also have lots of designer gowns now.
11:00Where'd you wear that?
11:01I wore this to New Year's Eve.
11:03Ito lang.
11:04When my husband was here.
11:05Dito?
11:06Dito.
11:07Sa Shangri-La Makati.
11:08I watched Pop's concert.
11:09Naka gown ka ganyan kakaganda.
11:11Girl, syempre bagong taon.
11:13Kailangan maganda ako sa harap ng asawa ko.
11:15Syempre.
11:16First time niya mag-New Year dito.
11:17Okay.
11:18So syempre, girl, mahal yung table namin.
11:20Dapat naka gown naman ako.
11:23Okay.
11:24What about this one?
11:26This one was made by Raho Laurel.
11:28I love this.
11:29I love the color.
11:30Super cute, no?
11:31Parang feminine.
11:32Where did you wear this?
11:33This one was given to me by Raho for my birthday.
11:35So I wore it.
11:36Which birthday?
11:37This year?
11:38My 18th birthday last year.
11:42So he gave it to me.
11:43I wore it on SOP.
11:45Are you celebrated by your birthday on SOP?
11:47On SOP.
11:48So ayun.
11:49This one.
11:50I love this.
11:51This one ang aking favorite designer talaga.
11:53Sino?
11:54Sa kanya ko nagpapagawa.
11:55If I need something bongga,
11:56kay Ino Soto.
11:57Parang sya yung gown version ng mag-inoo
12:00pero medyo bastos.
12:01Diba?
12:02Oo.
12:03Ang galing niya.
12:04Atsaka yung time na wala pa akong anak, girl.
12:05Pero this one,
12:06I hosted the Binibining Pilipinas
12:08when I wore this
12:09as my second gown.
12:10So medyo, alam mo naman,
12:11it's like the Ino touch talaga.
12:13Yeah, it's very sparkly but in a classy way.
12:16How do you keep the spark pa in your marriage?
12:18Because your relationship is medyo long distance.
12:22Sometimes, diba?
12:23Yeah.
12:24You have to be excellent in the bedroom.
12:26You have to know how to cook.
12:28You have to be sweet when you're in front of his relatives.
12:31Okay, who taught you to be excellent?
12:33Who taught you how to cook?
12:34Your mom is a very good cook.
12:36Yeah, but I still don't know how to cook
12:37kasi si Ilmas is the one that cooks for me.
12:39Nagluluto si Ilmas?
12:40Oo naman, girl.
12:41What does he cook?
12:42He cooks everything.
12:43Turkish food, spaghetti.
12:45Ako nagluluto lang ako ng egg.
12:48Sa morning.
12:49Anong klaseng egg?
12:50I'm sure isang klaseng egg lang.
12:51Sunny side up.
12:54Hindi na ka mabilis.
12:56Okay, I'm sure maraming sa taga audience
12:59at gusto magtanong kay Rufa.
13:01We're open to a few questions.
13:02Who would wanna start?
13:03Yes.
13:04Ay Wilma nalang kapula.
13:05Ay, nandito pala si Wilma.
13:06Ay Wilma?
13:07Bakit pala nandito yan?
13:08Para kayong kapit ganas.
13:09Oo, wag nang naninira pa eh.
13:12Alam ko pa naman friend tayo.
13:16Sandali, etong girl.
13:17Mayroon siyang question for you.
13:20Miss Rufa, ano po yung pinakagusto niyo
13:22kung niregalo po sa inyo ng asawa ninyo?
13:24Anong pinakagusto kong regalo?
13:26Siguro yung pinakamagandang regalo niya sa akin
13:28yung dalawang anak ko.
13:29Kasi every time I see them.
13:32Natouch ako first time.
13:34And your kids are so cute.
13:36Girl naman, every time I see them,
13:37I see Ilmas.
13:38Lalo na the younger ones.
13:39Lalo na si Venice.
13:41She only has two reactions, eh.
13:43Happy and angry.
13:45Ano yung feeling mo the first time you saw Laureen?
13:49The first time I saw Laureen,
13:50you know, parang she changed my life talaga.
13:53Kasi me naman, I never...
13:54She tamed you more than Ilmas tamed you?
13:56I think they both tamed me at the same time.
13:58Girl, you just changed 180 degrees, eh.
14:02Alam mo naman ako, wala namin akong inaalagaan ng mga bata.
14:04Puro aso lang ang inaalagaan ko before.
14:06So I never knew anything about taking care of babies, di ba?
14:10And then all of a sudden, I got married.
14:12Tapos lumipat ako sa Turkey.
14:13Nagkaroon ako ng baby.
14:14All in one year.
14:15So parang very challenging for me.
14:17Nag-iba talaga.
14:18Nag-iba talaga.
14:19Yung pace ng buhay mo.
14:20Kwestiyon ko lang po kay Miss Rupa.
14:23Pwede po ba kayong mainlove sa'kin kahit di ko kasing yaman si Ilmas,
14:28pero kasing pogi ko naman si Zoran Lagas.
14:31Sino yun?
14:35Sandali.
14:36Binabi natin.
14:37Hindi kasing yaman ni Ilmas,
14:39pero kasing gwapo ni Zoran Lagas.
14:42Si Ilmas, ha?
14:45Rupa, do you have a certain type?
14:46Mayawig ba si Ilmas at si Zoran?
14:48So ako nga naman, give it a chance.
14:51Wala talaga akong type.
14:52Siguro ang type ko medyo bad boy.
14:54Oo, no?
14:55Yung magino, pero medyo basta.
14:56Pareho tayo, Rupa.
14:58Bakit bad boy?
14:59Bago mo sagutin, Rupa, we will pause for this break.
15:12Before the break, we asked Rupa kung bakit mas gusto niya ang bad boy.
15:17Sabi nga niya yung magino, pero medyo basta.
15:20So why, Rupa?
15:21Alam mo, gusto ko yung talagang lalaking-lalaking.
15:24Oo nga, pareho tayo.
15:25In the sense na kaya akong ipagtanggol.
15:27Ayoko naman yung basagulero. Iba naman yun.
15:29But I want somebody who has integrity,
15:31na, you know, he really fights for what he believes in.
15:35Hindi siya natatakot.
15:36Basta ayaw ko.
15:37He really fights for what he believes in.
15:40Hindi siya natatakot.
15:41Basta alam niya ang tama siya.
15:42Oo.
15:43Kasi mahirap yung may kasama ka nga.
15:45Mas makinis pa sa'yo, no?
15:46And then, pag may suntukan, sabi niya,
15:49ay, baka ma-scratch yung magasgas.
15:51Oo, ayoko ng gano'n.
15:53So ikaw, Lucy, yun din ang type mo?
15:55Bad boy din?
15:56Siyempre.
15:58Medyo type boy si Goma pa, diba?
16:00Andami na kanya sinuntok forever and ever.
16:03Pero tapos ka na dun sa mga bad boys in your life.
16:06Kasi ngayon, mommy ka na.
16:07Oo naman.
16:08Tell us about your mommyhood first.
16:10Well...
16:11Oh, but before that, choose muna a picture,
16:13kasi we're gonna scrapbook pala some of your...
16:15Sige, sige, sige.
16:16Teka muna, since we're talking about mommy,
16:17yan na lang, I gave birth to Venice.
16:19Ayan.
16:20Ang ganda mo naman ang anak, Rufa.
16:22Naka-makeup ka.
16:23Nakapulli-makeup ka.
16:24Siyempre naman.
16:25When my mom gave birth to me, nga, naka-fake lashes pa siya, no?
16:30Talaga nga.
16:31Buti naman dito, naka-natural ang lashes ko.
16:35At naka-bangs ka pa.
16:36Girl, siyempre, mommy tsaka daddy ko hindi pa kasal nun.
16:40So kailangan pag nanganganak si mommy sa akin,
16:42pag nakita niya si daddy,
16:43ba si daddy ang hinahabol ng mga girls,
16:45kailangan maganda siya.
16:46Hi, Eduardo!
16:48O, diba?
16:50Sumigaw-sigaw ka habang nanganak?
16:52Sa sakit?
16:53Super.
16:54Kasi...
16:55Wala ka ba anesthesia?
16:56Hindi, may anesthesia naman ako.
16:58Pero...
16:59Si Venice, you know, parang she's so tiny.
17:01I gave birth to her parang three weeks early.
17:04Pero, ang lit-lit niya na lumabas,
17:06pero siya yung talagang, hello, sinira niya yung katawan ko.
17:09I gained, like, 50 pounds.
17:10Mukha na akong monay.
17:16Pero, question ko,
17:17ikaw ba nag-change ka ng diaper ng mga bagets mo?
17:20Girl, siyempre naman, nag-breastfeed ako.
17:21Ako, ako nag-change ang diaper.
17:22How long did you breastfeed?
17:23Four months.
17:24Because I didn't have enough milk, so...
17:27I was drinking a lot of malunggay.
17:29The malunggay tablets.
17:30I did that also.
17:31Hindi rin nag-work sa akin.
17:32I'm curious lang,
17:33ano yung look mo na pinakagusto ni Ilmas?
17:36Yun nga, nakakargo pants,
17:38or talaga yung parang...
17:39Yung nasa sexy hands siya sa iyo.
17:41Pag nakikita ka niya,
17:42he can't keep his hands off you.
17:44Syempre pag wala akong suot.
17:50Joke ah!
17:51Joke, my God!
17:52Baka ma-X-rated tayo.
17:53Ikaw, what do you wear?
17:55When?
17:56Pag nasa sexy hands si Goma sa iyo.
17:58Like you, nothing!
18:00Oh my gosh!
18:03Hindi makakibo si Wilma.
18:05Alam mo, maghubudubad na rin ako.
18:08May mga sexy hands sa akin.
18:10I will try, don't worry.
18:13Now that you're a mommy,
18:14pinipili mo na ba yung mga binibili mo?
18:16Kasi diba our priorities change?
18:18Pero hindi mo naman siguro iniisip na yun, no?
18:20Hindi.
18:21Actually, when I gave birth to Loreen in Venice,
18:24mas naging practical ako.
18:25You know, parang...
18:26Before, I used to buy always for myself.
18:28Like dati, pag sampung bag,
18:30ngayon, dalawa na lang or tatlo.
18:32Pero bumibili pa rin.
18:34Bumibili pa rin, pero mga one na lang,
18:36one and a half, gano'n.
18:38Hindi, pero I always find myself kasi going
18:40to the children's department more.
18:42I don't know, parang...
18:43I don't shop for myself anymore.
18:45Parang mas nagsi-shop ako sa mga anak ko.
18:47What birthday gift are you gonna give yourself?
18:50Siguro I wanna travel with
18:52Wilma and the kids.
18:53Where?
18:54Siguro somewhere in Europe.
18:55Exotic, diba?
18:57And we'll plan siguro baby number three na boy naman.
18:59Are you planning baby number three?
19:01Alam mo, if you ask me,
19:03I'm happy with my two girls,
19:04pero si Ilmas wants a boy.
19:05Nagkahanap ng boy.
19:06Kasi may junior, oo.
19:07Oo.
19:08Siguro para pwede sila magbasketball,
19:10baseball, kasi syempre with my girls,
19:12all they do is play with dolls.
19:14Actually, si Loreen sya kasi Venice,
19:16they're really baba's girl.
19:17Baba means daddy.
19:18Daddy, yeah.
19:19Pero syempre siguro he wants a little boy.
19:22So okay na rin, I'll give him a boy,
19:24if I can.
19:25What's the ano?
19:26Okay, if you'll give Ilmas a boy,
19:28what's the one gift na
19:30you want Ilmas to give you?
19:34His loyalty and fidelity.
19:36Wow.
19:38Very well said, candidate number seven.
19:41You have that already, Rufa.
19:43Yeah, but girl, he's 30 years old,
19:45syempre mainit pa yan.
19:47So, you know what I mean?
19:49It's hard to keep a guy, girl,
19:50alam mo yan, no?
19:51It's hard to keep a handsome guy in check.
19:54Diba?
19:56We shouldn't, ano,
19:57we shouldn't make them bantay.
19:58I don't believe in making,
19:59I don't believe in making bantay.
20:01No, pero...
20:02You just have to be on your guard,
20:04but I don't believe in, ano,
20:06yung parang 24 hours.
20:08Hindi naman.
20:09He can do whatever he wants during the day,
20:10pero at night, binabantayan ko siya.
20:12Are you jealous?
20:13Are you a jealous wife?
20:14Yes.
20:15And if I can't reach him,
20:16tatawagan ko yung mga yaya sa bahay,
20:18tatawagan ko yung pinsan niya,
20:19tatawagan ko sa nanay niya.
20:20Oo.
20:21Parang kagabi,
20:22I couldn't find him,
20:23kasi 4 a.m.,
20:24hindi niya sinasagot yung phone niya.
20:25Thank God, katabi niya mommy at daddy niya,
20:27naguusap sila.
20:28O, diba, sabi ko,
20:29Hi, Anne!
20:30Anne means mom.
20:32And then, ayun,
20:33so katabi naman niya si Ilmas noon,
20:35so narelax na ako.
20:36Mahilig ka ba sa mga ganito,
20:38yung nagsascrapbook?
20:39Scrapbook, eto pala yung bulaklak na hinahanap ko.
20:41Mahilig ako, girl.
20:42Actually, ang dami kong album sa bahay.
20:44Ay, patingin ngayon dyan si Loreen,
20:46yung nagsiscoobadive siya.
20:48Wilma, I think you need glasses.
20:50Ayan, o.
20:51Ayan.
20:52Kasi naman, iscoobadive,
20:54so feeling ko naman,
20:55nasa ilalim siya ng tubig, diba?
20:56Naka-flippers naman siya,
20:58nakatayo.
20:59Mag-ready na siya mag-diving.
21:02Ano na ba nangyari dyan sa nagigisang picture mo
21:04dyan sa scrapbook mo?
21:05Ayan, natuwa ko.
21:06Girl, kinina ka pa dyan sa ano?
21:07Oo, isa na.
21:08Isa na mo kay Venice.
21:09Oo, kasi akala ko ilalagay natin
21:11yung, ano, picture ni Ilmas.
21:12But since you chose,
21:13Since you chose pambatas,
21:15eto yung ginawa ko.
21:16Wow.
21:17You should do this with your kids,
21:18you know, Juliana now,
21:19at her age.
21:21Ang hilig-hilig ni Juliana ngayon
21:23mag-scrapbook.
21:25I think, ano, yeah,
21:26kasi si Lorene's mahilig din sa ano.
21:27Give her lang pictures, diba?
21:28I'm sure ang dami nagbibigay sa'yo
21:29ng pictures.
21:30Bigay mo lang sa kanya,
21:31bigyan mo siya ng materials,
21:32and then,
21:33they can do whatever.
21:34You'll be surprised.
21:35Oo, it's so fun.
21:36Sige, magsa-scrapbook na nga ako.
21:37Girl, thank you naman.
21:38Attached ka ba?
21:39Attached naman ako.
21:40Oo, kasi kabilin-bilin nila,
21:42ibigay ko daw sa'yo to.
21:43Thank you so much.
21:44Tapos na ba?
21:45I wanna stay pa.
21:47Tapos na.
21:48You have to come back
21:49for another episode nito.
21:50Oo, alam niyo kasi,
21:51friend ko si Lucy,
21:52so parang pag nag-uusap kami,
21:53parang lang kami na sa kitchen
21:54ng bahay niya.
21:55Ganon.
21:56No, Rufa is really,
21:57really down-to-earth.
21:58I know her family.
21:59Sa Cebu, diba,
22:00your mom,
22:01she's the funniest also.
22:02At ganyan siya talaga.
22:03Kung ano nangikita niyo ganyan,
22:04siya kaloka-loka.
22:05She's really, really funny.
22:07Well, diga muna.
22:08Okay, fine.
22:09Sometimes I'm a diva,
22:10but I'm a nice diva.
22:11Yeah.
22:12Anyway, Rufa,
22:13thank you, thank you,
22:14for being here.
22:15Thank you so much.
22:16Guess me again, ha?
22:18If a picture paints a thousand words,
22:21music is a universal language.
22:23Up next,
22:24Oggy Alcacid finally admits
22:26and shares his first
22:27when we return.
22:48We are so blessed because
22:50tonight we have on the show
22:52none other than my good friend
22:54and one of the Philippines'
22:56best singers,
22:57Mr. Oggy Alcacid.
23:03Hi, Luz!
23:05Thank you, Oggy,
23:06for being here.
23:07Wow, it's my pleasure.
23:09It's so sweet of you to be here.
23:11Oh, well, thank you.
23:13Diba yun yung, ano,
23:14sweet life?
23:15The sweet life.
23:16I have to be sweet today.
23:18Well, thank you.
23:19I'm excited to be here.
23:21Very, very excited.
23:22Our episode, Oggy,
23:23since this is our first episode,
23:25it's all about first times, okay?
23:27Wow, first episode,
23:28ako guest nyo?
23:29Oo, dapat the best, diba?
23:32Ibig sabihin ba, ano?
23:34Sikat ako, gano'n, gano'n ba yan?
23:36Sobrang sikat ka,
23:37aside from you being my favorite.
23:40The first song
23:42The first song you wrote,
23:44ang title is
23:45Welcome to My World.
23:46Oh, my God.
23:48What is it about?
23:49And never mo' pa tong ikinanta.
23:51Why?
23:52Welcome to My World.
23:53Yes.
23:54How old were you when you made that song?
23:55Siguro mga 10 years old.
23:58Kasi nagkaroon kami ng songwriting contest
24:00dun sa bahay namin.
24:03Na tatlo kaming magkakalaban.
24:05Tapos ako rin ang judge.
24:07Ikaw, deep ka na.
24:08Malalim na akong word,
24:09Welcome to My World.
24:10Okay.
24:11So, syempre ako nanalo.
24:13Pinaranig ko sa mga kapatid ko,
24:14syempre tawa sila ng tawa.
24:17Pero nung pinaranig ko sa tatay ko,
24:18sabi niya,
24:19anak, parang merong kang ano.
24:22Merong kang something.
24:24Actually, siya lang naniwala sa'kin.
24:26But, you know, until then,
24:28I started developing my talent
24:30for writing songs.
24:32And you are where you are now.
24:34Well, I'm here in your show.
24:37More about first times.
24:39First times.
24:41First time you met Giano,
24:42hindi daw kayo in good terms.
24:43Bakit?
24:44Ano ba yung first impression mo sa kanya?
24:46Hindi.
24:47Actually, kasi nauna sa'kin si Giano.
24:49Mga, siguro na siya na mga two years sa'kin.
24:52So, parang fan ako ni Giano.
24:55Okay.
24:56Parang sabi ko,
24:57tignan mo itong pinapanood siya sa TV,
24:59kaduit niya si Marilyn.
25:00Sabi ko, tignan mo itong mamang ito.
25:02Parang, parang ako siya eh.
25:04Nanakita mo sarili mo sa kanya?
25:06Nanakita ko yung sarili ko sa kanya.
25:07Parang we were singing the same songs,
25:08we almost had the same sense of humor,
25:10parewa kami ng ilong,
25:11although mas masalaki ng hoting ilong mo sa'kin.
25:15And you and Giano are really good friends now, di ba?
25:18But at that time, aside from the ilong, ano pa?
25:21Nagkakilala kami kasi I wrote a song for him.
25:23You did? Which song was this?
25:25It's an old song, it's called Ikaw.
25:27Pagkatapos, sempre nung nagre-recording siya,
25:30kailangan ako nandun ako, tinuturuan ko siya,
25:32hindi niya makuha yung tamang nota.
25:35Okay.
25:36So, you know, pumasok, sabi ko,
25:39ah pare, ako yung writer nung kanta,
25:42mali-mali yung kinakanta mo eh.
25:44So parang na-antipatikuhan siya sa'kin.
25:46Pagkatapos, pumasok, sabi niya,
25:47eh, mabuti pa ikaw na lang kumanta rito,
25:49sabi niya sa'kin.
25:50Sinabi niya? So kinanta mo naman?
25:52Kinanta ko, ta's sabi, ba, mayroon pala to.
25:54So from then on, naging good friends kami.
25:57Okay, eto, I'm sure gustong malaman to ng audience.
26:00First impression mo kay Regine?
26:04Diba she has this reputation na quiet, aloof,
26:08but you became very good friends?
26:10Does that mean ikaw yung unang nag-approach siya kanya?
26:12Unang ano?
26:13Unang nag-approach siya kanya.
26:14Kasi nga si Regine, diba?
26:15Hindi, ah, si Regine kasi.
26:17Oh, like diya, no,
26:19unang kita ko pa lang sa kanya,
26:21mahal ko na siya, eh.
26:23Hindi, hindi.
26:25Ako yung ano, ako yung natulala.
26:27Hindi kayo nabigla, nabigla, ano.
26:29Hindi, hindi, joke lang kayo naman, no.
26:31Ibig sabihin, first time ko pa lang siyang napanood sa TV,
26:34sabi ko, fan ako agad.
26:37So, when I was starting, two years after,
26:40nag-frontact ako nun ni Ding Dong Avansado, eh.
26:43Nag-rehearse ako nun, pinanood ako ni Regine.
26:46Ah, nanood siya?
26:47Nanood siya nung rehearsal ko.
26:48Okay.
26:49Ah, okay tong mamang to, ah, sabi niya na.
26:52Okay to, ah, maliit lang, pero okay.
26:54Pero okay, maliit lang, pero okay na siya.
26:56So since then, sabi ko, I'm a fan of yours.
27:00So after that, ah...
27:02What did you do to make her open up to you?
27:05What did I do?
27:06This was during the course of the friendship.
27:08Hindi, hindi, hindi niyo alam to.
27:09Ako, yung ko lang sasabihin sa inyo.
27:11First time mo lang sasabihin.
27:12Many years after na ito, eh.
27:14Okay.
27:15Nung, nung mga panahon yun,
27:17ah, actually I wanted to date her.
27:20You're joking.
27:21Hindi, hindi, I'm not joking.
27:22Oo, yung mga panahon yun.
27:25And then?
27:26Tapos, so noon pa lang...
27:28Hindi mo ako niloloko, Ogye.
27:29Totoo yung sinasabi mo.
27:30Okay.
27:32Hirap na hirap nga akong sabihin sa inyo to, eh.
27:34Okay, okay.
27:35So nung mga panahon yun, nanonood ako ng mga concert niya.
27:38Okay.
27:39And then, ah, one time,
27:42yun, binata pa ako noon.
27:45Tapos, dalaga pa siya noon.
27:47Bagay, hanggang ngayon pa rin, dalaga pa rin siya.
27:51So bakit hindi?
27:52If you were both free that time,
27:53bakit hindi mo siya na-date?
27:55Ah, I think,
27:56kasi Regine was much younger than me nung time na yon.
27:59Okay.
28:00Hindi naman sa mas matanda na siya ngayon, ano.
28:02Kaya lang, syempre, pagka nung time na yon,
28:04parang ang layo ng...
28:06ng edad namin.
28:07Parang hindi lang tama.
28:08Oo, parang...
28:09Tapos, syempre, nakisimula pa lang siya, pati ako.
28:12You were busy with other things.
28:13Oo, with other things, oo.
28:15Do you remember the first song you did together?
28:19Diba, kayo, ano talaga,
28:20kayo the songbird and the songwriter,
28:22you did lots of songs for her, many, many albums.
28:24Meron, meron, actually.
28:26Yung first...
28:28Did she ask you to make a song?
28:30Hindi.
28:32I wrote this for her 1990 album.
28:37You remember the title of the album?
28:38Yes, I do.
28:39It's called...
28:40I have to say goodbye
28:44Guess it's time to end it
28:47Say goodbye
28:50Guess it's time to go
28:52Much as I want to cry
28:56There simply is no reason why
29:01It's hard for me
29:03But still, I've got to try
29:07Goodbye
29:09Ang lungkot naman ang song na yon, Oggy,
29:11pero ang ganda.
29:12I wrote it for someone at that time,
29:17kasi magkaibigan kami.
29:19Pero...
29:20Best of friends kami,
29:22pero nagkakagusto na ako sa kanya.
29:24Pero feeling ko, hindi naman siya nagkakagusto sa'kin.
29:27So, para hindi na lang ako mahirapan.
29:29Yung goodbye, kaya nag-goodbye ka.
29:30Goodbye na lang.
29:31So, binigay ko yun kay Regine.
29:32Eh, baget na baget pa si Regine nun.
29:34So, I had to explain to her,
29:36Regine, ganito ang feeling ng ano.
29:38So, gusto mo na pagkanta niya,
29:39ilabas niya yung emotion ng song.
29:41And it was perfect.
29:42Do you always make songs
29:43based on your personal experiences?
29:45Most of them, I would say,
29:46are based on my personal experiences.
29:48I would say, yeah.
29:49And the most beautiful love songs,
29:51Augie, would you agree,
29:52are the sad songs?
29:53Siyempre.
29:54Kasi alam niyo yung...
29:55No? Yung bittersweet?
29:56Exactly what you said.
29:58Parang oo na hindi.
29:59It's the same thing with a beautiful song.
30:01Beautiful, painful love song.
30:03Kasi kung masaya ka...
30:05Nandito ako, umiibig sa'yo
30:08Beautiful, diba?
30:09But you know, it's...
30:10It's light.
30:11It's...
30:12Pero kung...
30:15Bakit ba hindi ka nakilay?
30:17I love that song!
30:18Ako'y malaya pa
30:20At hindi ngayon ang puso ko
30:23May kapiling na
30:25Bakit ba hindi ka nakilalo
30:28Nang ako'y nag-iisa?
30:31Sino ang iibigin?
30:36Ikaw sana
30:38Diba parang...
30:39Augie, ang ganda.
30:40Parang pinupunit yung puso mo
30:42na hindi mo maintindihan.
30:43Ayun ako, Deche,
30:44dahil nakikita kong in the mood ka na.
30:46Bakit hindi mo pasabayan si Mr. Augie Alcacid?
30:49Kanta, first time, National TV.
30:51Try, try.
30:52Try, go.
30:55Augie, wag mataas ha.
30:56Mababa lang.
30:58Wag ka lang mawawala
31:04Kapag narin takot sumisigla
31:11Kahit hindi ko pa kaya ang magmahal
31:16Sana sa akin ay hindi magsasawa
31:26Puso'y ibibigay sa'yo
31:31Sa oras na maghilom
31:35Ang sugat ito
31:40Panahon lawang ang hiniling sa'yo
31:48Sana ay pagbigyan mo ako
31:56Wag pa lang mawawala
32:05Ay, nakakanta na ako with Augie.
32:08Wow!
32:09Bigayan tong time na to.
32:12Sa harap ng curtain din, ha?
32:13Susuportan ka namin.
32:15Did you write any song for your kids?
32:17Oh yeah, sure.
32:18Really? Which one?
32:19I never knew that.
32:20I Will Be Here.
32:21I will be here
32:24When you need to be strong
32:27That's for your kids.
32:28I will be here
32:31When you feel all alone
32:33I will be here
32:39I will be here
32:40I will be here for you
32:42Something like that.
32:44Long time ago.
32:45What is the greatest love song you ever wrote?
32:48There are so many ways wherein you can say to someone that you love that person
32:52I love you
32:55But when you say that you need that person
32:59It's not deeper, it's more like
33:04It really comes from the heart.
33:06So I wrote something that sort of expresses that need for that person.
33:13I need you
33:17Now and forever
33:21You need to know
33:24That it's only you
33:27That I truly love
33:38And my only wish is
33:41To be with you again
33:48Then there's another song
33:50That sort of
33:52Talks about the same need for someone.
33:55Okay.
33:56I need you
33:58Oh, I love that song.
34:01Here in your heart
34:06I need to feel
34:10Your love
34:14Oh, Auggie, everybody is swooning.
34:17You know what, Auggie?
34:18Don't you just love Auggie?
34:19When there's nothing left, I will really marry you.
34:22Game.
34:23I will answer everything.
34:24Game.
34:25So, what song would you dedicate for Mr. Eugene Velasquez?
34:32By your side
34:36I am alive
34:41Sadness and grief are returning
34:48There's no one else for me
34:55And for the rest of my life, I will love you
35:02That's all for now.
35:04More of Auggie's verse.
35:06We will make him confess.
35:08When we come back, don't go away.
35:26Not many people know that Auggie and I are really, really good friends.
35:30So, it's really not a first for us that we're going to talk personal,
35:34but it is a first because we're doing it on national TV.
35:38So, no safe answers, Auggie.
35:41Just honest ones.
35:44I want to ask you about your...
35:45Because I watched your Valentine concert.
35:48And I saw you in your...
35:50I saw you in a funky costume.
35:52I saw you in a funky costume.
35:54Auggie was wearing lycra.
35:56But I remember you were also wearing a Sexballs costume.
36:00Do you remember that?
36:01The Sexballs in Bubblegum.
36:03What was your feeling about that?
36:05Were you confident?
36:06Were you not embarrassed?
36:07No.
36:08To be honest, I don't know why we're doing this.
36:10Who designed the costume?
36:12I think it was Eric Pineda.
36:14It was just a coincidence.
36:16You know, my friends,
36:18because I'm small,
36:19it just looks big.
36:21No.
36:22No.
36:25What did you wear, Auggie?
36:26Did you feel sexy?
36:27But you know, my favorite part,
36:30my time,
36:31I feel like I'm taking care of myself.
36:34You know, when you take a bath,
36:35you rub yourself.
36:37You smell so good.
36:38Then you put on lotion,
36:40moisturizer.
36:42You use moisturizer?
36:43Yeah.
36:44Okay.
36:45Then after you shave,
36:46you put on aftershave.
36:48You feel like you're taking care of yourself.
36:51Did you ever spend a night with a woman
36:54that you met for the first time?
36:56No, but I made love to her.
36:58Really? The songwriter?
36:59That's so romantic.
37:01When you kiss, do you still sing?
37:06What's that? In between kisses?
37:07You know, it's just beautiful.
37:09You still sing?
37:10I did that.
37:11No kidding, Auggie?
37:12Who?
37:13Yeah!
37:18Come on.
37:19Stop it.
37:22But really,
37:23how do you measure how long the kiss is
37:26and how long the song is?
37:28How long is the kiss?
37:29No, in between.
37:30It's like this.
37:31The more I see you,
37:34the more I love you.
37:37Auggie, I want to pinch you.
37:39The more I live in you,
37:41the more I love you.
37:47It's like that, right?
37:51Wait, wait.
38:00Go ahead.
38:01Okay.
38:02Can each of you go first?
38:04You go first.
38:05Me first?
38:06What song do you want?
38:08What song do you want?
38:12Nothing yet.
38:14I don't know how to sing yet.
38:16Wait a minute.
38:17It's not true.
38:18You're really going to do it?
38:19They want it.
38:20Why?
38:21Are you going to kiss him?
38:22Yes, I'll kiss him.
38:24Are you sure?
38:25He's a guy.
38:27It's good that Auggie came back.
38:29What's that?
38:30I can't hear you.
38:31I'm your idol.
38:32Sit here.
38:33It's like he was blushing earlier.
38:35Auggie was blushing earlier.
38:37Are you okay with that?
38:38Are you okay with that?
38:42He's shy.
38:43You're welcome.
38:44You're welcome.
38:47Auggie, that's not going to work.
38:49Here's another question.
38:51Would you rather be the cruel heartbreaker
38:53or the one with a broken heart?
38:55I'd rather be the one with a broken heart.
38:57Because then you can write the most beautiful songs.
39:00Maybe.
39:01For example, Auggie, you're broken hearted now.
39:03What song will you do?
39:04Can I do the old one?
39:06Okay, the old one.
39:07Oh, I love this.
39:37Oh, he's crying.
40:08or the one you love?
40:14It would be nice if I had both, right?
40:16I'd rather be with the one that I love.
40:18Same here.
40:21You would rather be with the one you love.
40:24Who's the first person you call when you're happy or when you're sad?
40:27First person that I call when I'm always happy is the one I love.
40:33But I won't tell you who.
40:38Who's the first person you think of when you wake up?
40:42Well, it's always by kids.
40:44Always by two kids.
40:46My dad is my first role.
40:48If your life were a song, what song would it be?
40:56I don't know.
40:57You don't know?
40:58I don't know.
40:59All I know is that my life is very colorful.
41:06I've gone through so much at such a young age.
41:09Would you believe I'm turning 40 this year?
41:11You're joking, you are?
41:12I'm turning 40.
41:13You're a very cute 40-year-old.
41:20And what's the song that you'd like to sing to God to say all you want to say?
41:31There it is.
41:37God, you are my guide in every journey of my life.
41:48God.
41:53What do you write first, the words or the melody?
41:56I think of the words first.
42:00What's the easiest way for me to capture the feeling of the song?
42:08So it's, I love you.
42:10I love you, there's no one else.
42:15Believe in me.
42:18It's like I'm just following what's going to happen.
42:22But I thought, I love you.
42:24I need you.
42:25My dream is to love you.
42:28You know tonight you did a lot of firsts.
42:30You did a lot of firsts.
42:31You said a lot of firsts.
42:32So we thank you for that.
42:33Oh wow.
42:34Are we done?
42:35We hope the first time will not be the last time.
42:38Thank you very much for being here.
42:41I hope I can come back one day.
42:42You should come back.
42:43Maybe I will sing a different song.
42:47It has been a truly magical night with Augie.
42:49We will be right back.
43:05If you want to become part of the program
43:07and would like to share a sweet aspect of your life,
43:09please feel free to text us.
43:10Just type Sweet Life Space, your message,
43:13and send to 4627 for all networks.
43:16And get a chance as well to win this Red Swanson lounge chair.
43:22Everybody from the studio audience
43:24will be getting this fortune plant.
43:27And I hope that you in the studio audience
43:29will remember that may this be a symbol
43:32that you nourish all the many firsts in your life.
43:38I'd like to end the show by saying that
43:40I feel really blessed to be part of a show
43:43that really tackles the issues that are closest to my heart.
43:47And with that, I'd like to ask for your patience
43:50and your patronage and God's blessings.
43:53That way we get to enjoy many of life's firsts together.
43:57This is Lucy, and this has been your Sweet Life.