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00:00Here he is, let's meet the real breadwinner, number 2, Raymarc Marcello.
00:06Raymarc, come here.
00:08Hi, Raymarc.
00:10Hello, Dean.
00:11Where are you from?
00:12I'm from San Mateo, Rizal.
00:14San Mateo, Rizal.
00:15How long have you been a vendor in Sisig?
00:18It's been 3 years now.
00:193 years.
00:20Is the store yours or are you just visiting?
00:22I'm just visiting as a vendor for my cousin.
00:25Oh, does it have a name? Tell us so we can promote it.
00:29Go to Dakubas Sisig in Rodriguez, Rizal.
00:32What's the store's name?
00:33Dakubas.
00:34What?
00:35Dakubas.
00:36Dakubas Sisig.
00:37Please spell it.
00:39D-A-C-U-B-A-S
00:43Dakubas.
00:44Dakubas.
00:45Dakubas Sisig.
00:46In?
00:47Rodriguez, Rizal.
00:48In?
00:49Rodriguez.
00:50Riverside.
00:51In Riverside.
00:52The Sisig smells like Ubas.
00:53Yeah, and it's big because it's Dakubas.
00:56Dakubas.
00:58Visit the store if you want to give your cousin a treat this Christmas.
01:05Visit the store and promote it.
01:08Maybe because of this, he'll have his own Sisig stand.
01:12Yes, why not?
01:13Praise God. Thank you, Lord.
01:15Yes.
01:16So, brother, how long have you been a breadwinner?
01:19I've been a breadwinner for 8 years.
01:228 years? When you were a kid?
01:25I've been selling vegetables for 8 years.
01:29So, you're 8 years old or you've been a breadwinner for 8 years?
01:338 years? No, I've been a breadwinner since I was 8 years old.
01:368 years old?
01:37Why did you start working so early? What happened to your family?
01:42Because my parents didn't earn much.
01:51I decided to become a breadwinner because of my father.
01:57His soul is in heaven.
02:01I didn't want to give him money because he has a vision.
02:09Life is so hard.
02:12You know, you have a parent but you're sacrificing for your family.
02:17Because you're selling to earn a living.
02:21You're hiding your food because you're sending something to your parents
02:26but your grandmother is taking care of it.
02:30Because of my grandmother, I was separated from my mother.
02:34So, you're the father of your family.
02:37Yes.
02:38Do you have siblings?
02:39Yes, I do.
02:40You're the one who provides for them.
02:42Yes, I do.
02:43How many siblings do you have?
02:44I'm the only one who provides for my family.
02:50But I also have a wife and a father.
02:55So, I have less to give to my family.
02:59Because you're saving for your family.
03:06You don't have money to feed your family.
03:09Does he have a wife?
03:11Does your brother have a wife?
03:13Yes.
03:14No matter what, I'm still helping him.
03:16I'm like that.
03:17As long as my feet are not on the same level, I will help him as much as I can.
03:22So, your feet are not on the same level right now?
03:24No.
03:25What do you mean?
03:26I hope they're on the same level.
03:27They're on the same level.
03:28One of your feet is not on the same level.
03:30I'm not on the same level.
03:32Your left foot is higher.
03:34It's good to help your brother and your family.
03:38But do you have a family?
03:40No, I don't.
03:42I get that.
03:44It's good that you have a big heart to help yourself.
03:48That's good.
03:50But we shouldn't reach the point of committing suicide.
03:55Right?
03:56Because we're looking for life.
03:59To live.
04:01Not to die.
04:02No.
04:03We're doing this to commit suicide.
04:05For me, it's a waste.
04:09Because you can't fly.
04:14Because you're making yourself heavier.
04:18You know, it's easier to fly when you're light, right?
04:20Yes.
04:21There are a lot of people here.
04:22There are a lot of people here.
04:23That's why it's heavy.
04:24Because there's no choice.
04:26They have to bear it.
04:28The parents are gone.
04:30He's the eldest.
04:31His siblings are the youngest.
04:32That's why they have to bear it.
04:33But I also hear that it's your choice to let them go.
04:38You're letting them go, right?
04:39Yes.
04:40But it's your choice.
04:41And you can also refuse to give them a chance.
04:45And to give yourself a chance.
04:47We need to break that.
04:49Our excessive kindness.
04:51Yes.
04:52Any excess is wrong.
04:54Right?
04:55Even if it's kindness.
04:56Right?
04:57Even if it's love.
04:58Any excess is wrong.
04:59It just needs to be right.
05:01You want to help them but you can't reach them.
05:05You're dying of exhaustion.
05:07Yes.
05:08Can I quote from our play?
05:10There's a line there.
05:12No is golden.
05:14It's the good kind of power.
05:17It's the way to set boundaries.
05:20The refusal.
05:21The refusal sometimes.
05:23Not like what you're saying.
05:25Never.
05:26Maybe not now.
05:27It's not possible.
05:28Yeah.
05:29The refusal sometimes.
05:30Yes.
05:31Sometimes.
05:32Because it depends.
05:33If you don't want to give them a chance,
05:35and you already owe them money,
05:37you're the one who has to pay for it.
05:40You're the one who has to pay for it.
05:42And what we're thinking is,
05:44if I don't help them,
05:47they won't be able to do anything.
05:49No.
05:50Let them go.
05:52They'll do it.
05:53They'll find a way.
05:54Because they won't allow themselves to die.
05:57If you don't have a body,
05:59you'll find a way.
06:00They'll find a way.
06:02They won't allow themselves to starve.
06:05They won't allow themselves to do nothing.
06:07That's why you have to give them a chance.
06:10You have to move.
06:11Because you have to take care of yourself.
06:14Amen.
06:15Right?
06:16Not like,
06:17like a tooth.
06:19You can't give yourself what you want.
06:23Yes.
06:24Right?
06:25That's what you need.
06:27Right?
06:28You have to dream of people.
06:29It's not a bad thing if you refuse others,
06:32so that you can give it to yourself.
06:36If you want to.
06:37You have to want it,
06:39because you love yourself.
06:41You have to want to refuse,
06:43and to know sometimes.
06:45You cannot give from an empty cup.
06:48But you're not a bad person.
06:50You're not a bad person.
06:51Amazing.
06:52It's just that sometimes,
06:53we're too attached to the idea that we need to be good.
06:58It's also our culture.
07:00Yes.
07:01We acknowledge it's a very Filipino culture,
07:04cultural thing.
07:05We're used to others depending on us.
07:08Yes.
07:09We don't want to teach them.
07:10Instead, we teach them.
07:11Right?
07:12We have to teach them.
07:13Yes.
07:14We teach them how to fish.
07:15Teach them how to fish.
07:16We'll give them fish.
07:17Yes.
07:18We'll give them,
07:19what is it?
07:20We'll give them fish.
07:21You'll give them fish.
07:22Business.
07:23Even if you don't teach them,
07:25let them learn.
07:27Let them learn.
07:28If they want to fish,
07:29or how to catch fish,
07:31let them learn.
07:32Just give it to them.
07:33Let them figure it out.
07:34But sometimes,
07:35as a breadwinner,
07:36it's hard.
07:37True.
07:38When you love someone so much,
07:39you want to help them stand on their own two feet.
07:43But when you love someone so much,
07:44sometimes there's a consensus.
07:46You can't stand it.
07:47It's hard,
07:48but you have to.
07:49You have to.
07:50You have to be strong inside.
07:51It's really hard.
07:52But you have to.
07:53But when you see them standing on their own two feet,
07:56it makes you proud.
07:57Don't cry.
07:58Because that's what happens to my siblings.
08:00But it's really hard.
08:02But you have to do it
08:04so that you'll live.
08:06And they'll learn how to live.
08:07Because if not,
08:08you'll both suffer and die of sadness.
08:12Yes.
08:13And you'll get used to it.
08:14Right?
08:15Yes.
08:17Because he's old now.
08:19Right?
08:20He's old now.
08:21You've gotten better.
08:22You've helped others since the beginning.
08:25But it's not a bad thing
08:26that you put yourself first.
08:28Right?
08:29You put yourself first.
08:30Who else are your family members?
08:33My grandmother,
08:34my aunt,
08:35my mother,
08:36and my two siblings.
08:38My mother.
08:39Okay.
08:40Because grandmothers and mothers
08:41are weak.
08:43Right?
08:44Yes.
08:46But those who are strong
08:48and capable,
08:50we have to let them use that strength
08:53and their ability to sleep
08:55because they don't use it.
08:57Is your sibling older than you
08:59or younger?
09:00You're the eldest.
09:01Yes, I'm the eldest.
09:03So your siblings don't have a job now?
09:06They're idle.
09:07They're idle.
09:09Who's with you here in the studio?
09:12My mother and my sister.
09:14There they are.
09:15Hello.
09:17Your sibling is younger than you.
09:19Hello.
09:20Mother, how are you?
09:22I'm good.
09:23What's your sibling's name?
09:25Jasmine.
09:26Jasmine.
09:27Mother,
09:28can you see what Raymark is doing
09:32for you?
09:33Yes.
09:35And you,
09:36how do you show it?
09:38By working
09:40and giving your needs,
09:41that's Raymark's way
09:43to love you
09:44and make you feel his love.
09:46And you,
09:47how do you give your love to him?
09:49I give him all his needs,
09:52bathing,
09:53giving him a bath.
09:55That's it.
09:56That's good.
09:57That's a big help.
09:59Even if you're old,
10:00you're still being taken care of by your mother.
10:02Even if it's a hot bath,
10:04it reduces your fatigue.
10:07Yes.
10:08And your nephew,
10:09are you studying now?
10:11My brother.
10:12Brother, are you studying now?
10:14No.
10:15Why?
10:17If I may ask.
10:18It's hard.
10:20Okay, but what's your course?
10:23ABELS.
10:24What?
10:25ABELS.
10:26Bachelor of Arts in English Language Studies.
10:29Wow.
10:30What do you want to be?
10:34Teacher.
10:35Teacher.
10:36That's great.
10:37How old are you?
10:39Twenty-one.
10:40Twenty-one.
10:41So now, at twenty-one,
10:43you have a dream, right?
10:45Yes, I do.
10:46What are you thinking of
10:47to make that dream come true?
10:49Amen.
10:52For now,
10:53I want to go to Calamama first
10:56because I have a problem there.
10:59That's why I'm waiting for my dream
11:04to help them.
11:06You'll help them.
11:07And if you can,
11:10you'll make that dream come true.
11:13A lot of people go back to their dreams
11:15because they have to face the problem of getting ahead.
11:18They want to get ahead.
11:19Yes.
11:21Food.
11:22They need to eat, right?
11:24That's why you need to help them eat
11:26so that they can get food.
11:28So, will you be able to help them
11:30in taking care of their family?
11:33If I can, I hope so.
11:35So that I can help them lessen their burden.
11:38What are your answers to your family?
11:41Everything.
11:42Electricity, food.
11:43Electricity, food.
11:44What else?
11:45Everything they need.
11:46Everything they need inside the house.
11:49Do your two brothers and sisters
11:50talk to each other
11:52about why they don't want to look for a job?
11:55One of them is in Bulacan
11:56and has a wife.
11:57And the other one is at home.
11:58She's left behind.
11:59She's left behind.
12:00So, do you talk to her
12:01about why she doesn't want to look for a job?
12:02We do.
12:03But the problem is
12:05that it's hard to
12:07pursue what you're passionate about.
12:09It's hard to pursue what you're passionate about.
12:12It's hard to pursue what you're passionate about.
12:14Let her move forward on her own.
12:17Eventually, everyone will learn.
12:21Yes, let her move forward on her own.
12:23But don't try to make her move forward.
12:27Because now,
12:28whatever choice she makes in her life,
12:30it will be her choice.
12:31But for you to make it hard for her,
12:33for her life,
12:36especially now that she's old.
12:40I read your story last night.
12:42You're making a lot of sacrifices.
12:44And it's hard for you, right?
12:46Yes.
12:47Because if you only understand yourself,
12:49you can do it, right?
12:50You won't have a hard time.
12:51That's right.
12:52If you bring your mom with you,
12:54it's just the two of you.
12:55It's not that hard.
12:56Right?
12:58Because, of course,
12:59you can't leave your mom.
13:00Right?
13:01You can't leave your grandma.
13:03But sometimes, you think,
13:05my sister has a big body.
13:08She doesn't have any illness.
13:09She's young, right?
13:12It's not bad to put yourself first.
13:15What is your dream for yourself?
13:18My dream is to be able to give,
13:20somehow,
13:21to be able to buy my own shoes.
13:24The more,
13:25because every step you experience,
13:27no matter how old it is,
13:28you will still wear it.
13:31How will you be able to do that for yourself?
13:34How will you be able to give yourself
13:36what you want and what you dream of?
13:38I will be able to do it
13:40when I have done everything for my family.
13:43I will be able to say,
13:44I will do it.
13:45That's it, right?
13:46I was able to do everything for my family.
13:49That's why,
13:52after he did everything for his family,
13:55he ran out of everything.
13:57He was left with nothing.
13:59He was tired.
14:00He was sick.
14:03You need to give to yourself, Kuya.
14:06We don't want to destroy the culture
14:08of loving your family.
14:10But we want people to have the mindset
14:14that you have a lot of priorities
14:17but you shouldn't put yourself last.
14:20Right?
14:21Include that.
14:22Your family is important to you.
14:24You need to give them something.
14:26But you also need something.
14:28You are also important.
14:29And you need to give that to yourself.
14:32Because I read that
14:33even if it's brief,
14:34you won't be able to buy it.
14:37Even if it's brief,
14:38you won't be able to buy it.
14:39But what did you give to your siblings?
14:42That's why sometimes you will say,
14:43is that still a sin?
14:44Or is it already a sin?
14:47Right?
14:48You need to learn to love yourself.
14:53It's not bad if you love them.
14:55It's bad if you don't love yourself.
14:57Live for yourself.
15:00Huh?
15:01It's not bad, brother.
15:03But for now,
15:04we are here
15:06to fulfill that dream
15:09faster.
15:11Because it's just simple.
15:12And for Christmas,
15:14we want to make sure
15:16that your Christmas is okay.
15:18The simple things
15:20that are easy to give to you,
15:22we will help you with.
15:23The clothes that you want to have,
15:25we will buy them for you.
15:26Your brief.
15:27Your brief.
15:28Brother, I will make your teeth.
15:30Wow!
15:31Wow!
15:34That's important, brother.
15:36When you see that your teeth are complete,
15:38you will see the beauty
15:40of your face and your smile.
15:43And when your smile gets better,
15:44you will say,
15:45Oh!
15:46Your smile is so good.
15:49And your smile is important.
15:51And we want that smile to last.
15:53That's why I will give you the teeth
15:55that are missing in that mouth.
15:58Thank you so much to all of you.
16:00Yes.
16:01If you need a fixed bridge,
16:03the one that fits.
16:04Don't.
16:05It's too big.
16:06Don't.
16:07Fixed bridge.
16:08It's too long.
16:10What do you want?
16:11The long one or the short one?
16:12Hey!
16:13It should be long.
16:14I will see how many are missing.
16:16If you lack 6 teeth,
16:19I will give you 18.
16:21That's a lot.
16:22That's a lot.
16:23That's a lot.
16:24That's a lot.
16:25If I don't have that,
16:26I don't have that.
16:27That's a lot.
16:28That's extra.
16:29Extra.
16:30Do you have a wheel?
16:31A wheel.
16:32Yes.
16:33If you want,
16:34I will make it round.
16:35You advanced it.
16:36No.
16:37I'm just making you laugh.
16:38Yes.
16:39Because they are my friends in Urban Smiles.
16:40It's up to me.
16:41I will make them my friendship.
16:42Friendship card.
16:43Wow!
16:44Okay.
16:45Okay.
16:46Smiles.
16:47Okay.
16:48And then,
16:49here,
16:50aside from interviewing them,
16:51they also check the state,
16:52the house,
16:53and everything.
16:54They saw that
16:55your water dispenser,
16:57you want a water dispenser,
16:58right?
16:59So that anytime,
17:00you can get water easily.
17:01But you said that
17:02you don't want hot and cold
17:03because the electricity is strong.
17:05That's also true.
17:06That's true.
17:07Because we can make them
17:08hot and cold.
17:09Correct.
17:10But after that,
17:11they also have a hard time.
17:12No.
17:13There's no hot and cold.
17:14But we will give you
17:15a water dispenser.
17:16Yay!
17:17Even water.
17:18That's it.
17:19Yes.
17:20How much?
17:21I will give you a water dispenser.
17:22I will give you a water dispenser.
17:23Just kidding.
17:24Just kidding.
17:25You can drink it.
17:26Guys,
17:27the water you will give,
17:28concentrate.
17:29It's like,
17:30you can drink it.
17:31It's done.
17:32He drank it again.
17:33How much water
17:34will you give?
17:35A lot?
17:36Like that.
17:37Like that.
17:38Like that.
17:39Yay!
17:40Not only that,
17:41you said that
17:42you also want to add
17:43racket or business,
17:44right?
17:45We will give you
17:46a Sari-Sari store package.
17:47Yes!
17:48Wow!
17:50So that even if you're not at home,
17:52I'm working in Sisigan,
17:54your mom or your brother
17:56can take care of the store
17:58without doing anything.
17:59I hope
18:00they can take care of it.
18:01Because
18:02I'm sad
18:03when we talked to the team.
18:04We gave a lot of
18:05something,
18:06of business,
18:07but I didn't hear
18:08anything.
18:09I didn't hear anything.
18:10It's gone.
18:11It's gone.
18:12It's like you gave
18:13all the supplies
18:14and they didn't
18:15go around.
18:16It's like,
18:17you really need to think
18:18about it.
18:19Because not all
18:20the time,
18:21there's someone
18:22who will help
18:23and give.
18:24Yes.
18:25Right?
18:26We do this
18:27to make life
18:28easier
18:29or to make
18:30your life
18:31easier
18:32even if
18:33it's
18:34the same
18:35as yours.
18:36Because
18:37they're poor.
18:38There are
18:39the vendors,
18:40Sisig,
18:41or yesterday
18:42they were
18:43selling at
18:44the bakery.
18:45Yes.
18:46That's the
18:47answer,
18:48right?
18:49You go in
18:50and they'll
18:51pay you.
18:52But that's
18:53without insurance,
18:54right?
18:55It's gone.
18:56It's gone.
18:57Because there are
18:58a lot of jobs
18:59where if you're
19:00an employee,
19:01your company
19:02helps you,
19:03the government
19:04helps you
19:05because they
19:06know you
19:07as a worker.
19:08These people,
19:09we know
19:10in our minds
19:11that there are
19:12vendors,
19:13and we know
19:14that there are
19:15people who
19:16don't have
19:17benefits.
19:18They don't
19:19have insurance.
19:20They don't
19:21have SSS.
19:22Right?
19:23They don't
19:24have PhilHealth.
19:25You need to
19:26get it for
19:27yourself.
19:28That's why
19:29it's hard.
19:30That's why
19:31we need to
19:32have
19:33protection
19:34from the
19:35law.
19:36Especially
19:37the breadwinners
19:38who are
19:39freelancers.
19:40Because if
19:41the breadwinner
19:42is gone,
19:43the whole
19:44family
19:45is gone.
19:46They're
19:47not protected.
19:48They're
19:49called informal
19:50workers.
19:51Right?
19:52Even us,
19:53stand-up
19:54comedians,
19:55we're informal
19:56workers because
19:57we're not
19:58employed.
19:59We don't
20:00have insurance.
20:01That's why
20:02we need to
20:03save for
20:04ourselves.
20:05We're not
20:06protected by
20:07the law.
20:08So,
20:09I hope
20:10that will
20:11happen.
20:12All kinds
20:13of jobs
20:14that
20:15are
20:16not
20:17protected
20:18by the
20:19law.
20:20So,
20:21I hope
20:22that
20:23will
20:24happen.