Vicky Kaushal revealed the three magical words that he uses in his marriage... And it's not “I love you”. 😉
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00:00In our courtship, it didn't reach a stage where it was this suspense
00:06that when I'll ask for marriage, it might be a yes or a no.
00:09I will go back from Masaan shoot, and my mom won't be there.
00:12And they would say,
00:13that your first film was being shot, we didn't want to tell you.
00:16Because you might come back, and then the film would have gone.
00:30What was it on that day, you know, that you did, or that happened to you?
00:42When you look back, it has managed to affect so many people, and especially men.
00:47What happened was, that scene was exploring the emotion of not feeling loss,
00:55but to understand loss.
00:57A man is just not being able to understand loss.
01:00And I sat alone, and I was at the Ghat,
01:02on the banks of the Ganga, and for one hour,
01:06I was just imagining my mom not being there anymore.
01:13That I had lost my mom.
01:15That I will go back from Masaan shoot, and my mom won't be there.
01:19And they would say,
01:20that your first film was being shot, we didn't want to tell you.
01:23Because you might come back, and then the film would have gone,
01:28and da-da-da, da-da-da.
01:29And I made a whole story, that it's been 20 days that my mom has passed away,
01:35nobody has told me, and everything is done.
01:39Now, there is nothing left.
01:40No matter how much you try to understand,
01:42that what happened, how come she's not there?
01:44But she's not there, that's the reality.
01:45Now try and feel this reality, that she's not there.
01:48She's just not there.
01:50And then I went to shoot.
01:52We started that scene,
01:53and the scene, as a talkie only, just ends with that line,
01:57Why doesn't this pain end?
02:00You know?
02:01And the scene had to end there.
02:03There was no crying, nothing.
02:04Because I was already pent up with that emotion.
02:08So what happened was, that the train that went from behind,
02:10actually went.
02:11It was not planned.
02:12And I was drunk, and I reacted to that train,
02:16and I started reciting what Shalu has said in the film,
02:21that you pass through a rail, and I pass through a bridge.
02:25Then I started saying everything that Shalu said, in the film.
02:29And I started saying it, and I started saying it,
02:31and I don't know,
02:32and whatever I had bottled up,
02:34started coming out, and I started crying.
02:37And that's why when you see the film,
02:39in that shot, I go out of frame, I fall,
02:41friends coming in, them picking me up,
02:43nothing was planned.
02:44And Neeraj didn't say cut, and we kept shooting.
02:47And that's how we got the scene.
02:50That's tough to tap into.
02:55Why doesn't this pain ever end?
03:17Eventually it was just as simple as,
03:19can I take you out for dinner?
03:22But yeah, there was a journey to reach that stage.
03:25When I got to know who she is,
03:27I was just fully in love,
03:29and I knew that I would love to have her as my life companion.
03:35In our courtship,
03:38it didn't reach a stage where it was this suspense,
03:41that when I'll ask for marriage, it might be a yes or a no.
03:44We just knew from the beginning that this is extremely serious.
03:48It is that we are in this to look for something permanent.
03:53So marriage, to be very honest,
03:55it was not a question from one side,
03:57and then an answer from the other.
03:58It was actually a discussion that we had.
04:02That, okay, you know what, now what do you think?
04:04And we just discussed it into, okay, let's get married.
04:08Vicky, how are you as a husband?
04:09I'm genuinely at a phase where I'm just trying to understand
04:11what being a husband is.
04:13And I learn every day.
04:14But all I know is that I want to see her smiling.
04:19That is all that matters to me.
04:21And that is what I want to know,
04:24that whatever she's doing,
04:26wherever she is, in whichever mental space she is,
04:30she is happy.
04:31I want her to be that person,
04:33that she is just feeling happy.
04:35And when I see that she's not feeling that,
04:39I just don't care about anything else.
04:41Maybe I've not solved the situation,
04:43but if I could just make her smile, that's it.
04:46That's all that matters to me.
04:47And it's not that I succeed every time.
04:49But you keep trying.
04:51And that's what I think,
04:52I think it's been truly been a,
04:55like, you know, a very evolving journey for me after marriage.
04:59What is it about Vicky that women find,
05:02and for that matter, let's talk about Katrina.
05:03What is it that Katrina loves in you?
05:05I've asked her a few times.
05:07Because sometimes I don't believe,
05:09what's happening?
05:10But what she says is that,
05:14like sometimes she gets very serious.
05:16And she said that to me,
05:18on certain occasions,
05:20that I just feel like,
05:22you have a set of values,
05:25which I admire.
05:26And you are stubborn for those values,
05:30and you protect those values.
05:31And I admire that.
05:32And I like that about you.
05:35So it's quite deep, but I was like,
05:38sounds good.
05:39Ek interview bhi Katrina ne kiya tha,
05:41jahan bola tha ki,
05:42you call her your panic button.
05:43She's the one who's anxious.
05:45And then, you know,
05:46and you're the one who calms her down.
05:47And then she also said about how,
05:49she's learning to listen from you.
05:51We used to laugh about it later.
05:53But our initial few arguments,
05:55I used to say,
05:56listen, I don't get to talk.
05:57And she's a person who loves to talk.
06:00And I am a person who loves to listen.
06:02But when you are on two opposite ends,
06:05and you're trying to come to an understanding,
06:08talk, listen, talk, listen,
06:10we both have to exchange that roles.
06:12So it was an internal joke that,
06:15you know, more than I love you,
06:16these three words,
06:17I have the more than that I've said,
06:19let me talk.
06:20These were the three magical words
06:23between the both of us.
06:25And we laughed so much about it.