“We have different perspectives.” Vicky Kaushal shared the secrets of his married life with Katrina Kaif.
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00:00I am the more rational guy, and she is the most sensitive person.
00:05When it comes to me being angry or sad, I need isolation.
00:09How do you win by blaming?
00:11You win as a couple when you're playing around, right?
00:21How did you guys meet first?
00:23We met at an award function.
00:25I was hosting that award show, and
00:28she obviously was the guest on the show, and we met backstage
00:31when we had to go on stage from the same wing.
00:35That's when we spoke.
00:36First time I introduced myself, and she introduced us.
00:39How did it start?
00:40How did you guys start your conversation and dating period and stuff like that?
00:46First few times, nothing was planned.
00:48Like we were planning to meet, or we had spoken.
00:51The first time we ever spoke to each other was part of an interview.
00:55That's the first time we ever spoke to each other
00:57while the cameras were on, and it was a film companion interview.
01:00And after that, of course, we had each other's numbers, but then
01:05it was just like, randomly, we would just bump into each other, and
01:08there was nothing like that, but I think some things were just meant to happen.
01:12You know, after a point, you just realize that, like, you know, it's just
01:17happening against all odds.
01:19Do you think that your life changed before and after?
01:21Evolved is what I'll say.
01:22Nice word.
01:23You know, the first time you're living with someone, like, you know,
01:29where everything you feel, everything you go through, physically, mentally,
01:35emotionally, that person is with you.
01:39You know, that person is sharing that emotion with you.
01:41It's never just like, I can't be individually happy,
01:45and I can't be individually sad.
01:46It's going to affect the both of us.
01:48You know, so that is, for me, I felt that for the first time.
01:52Are you a pursuer or a distancer?
01:54More so, I would say, when it comes to me being angry or sad, I need isolation.
02:00Distancer?
02:01Yes, 100%.
02:02I genuinely process in that isolation.
02:05And I will come back to you, and probably 9 out of 10 times, I will be like,
02:09I am wrong.
02:11But if I keep engaging in it, with time, my rationality will just go away.
02:17Because I will become more emotional about that thing.
02:19And is it same for your wife?
02:21No.
02:22No, she wants to, like, solve it or engage in it.
02:28We will sleep only when this thing is solved.
02:31We both agree to that.
02:32I don't get sleepy.
02:34Neither does she.
02:35We both agree to that.
02:38But her style is more like, no, I want to engage.
02:43Because, you know, I don't know.
02:48It's just naturally, that's her style.
02:51And mine is the complete opposite.
02:52In general, also, I feel like, and that's how we, I feel,
02:55we beautifully kind of fill each other's gaps.
02:58Because I am the more rational guy.
03:01And she is the more sensitive person, in terms of,
03:04her emotional intelligence is amazing.
03:07She is very dangerous.
03:09And I always trust her on that.
03:10Our perspectives are different.
03:12In that, it's just like, I will always have my logic based.
03:16And this will be their emotion based.
03:18But whatever it is, it's not about right or wrong.
03:21It's just two perspectives.
03:22Who do you blame?
03:23What did I win by blaming?
03:26You were right.
03:27I was wrong.
03:28What did I win?
03:30I would have won as a couple, if you were playing cards.