“In India, a lot of women are lazy…” actor Sonali Kulkarni’s views on modern women didn’t go quite well with many.
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00:00They want a boyfriend or a husband who has a good job,
00:06who has a house,
00:08who has assurance that he is going to get increments.
00:13But that girl doesn't have the courage to say
00:18what will I do when you will marry me.
00:22I want applause on this.
00:26Why are you so edgy?
01:26In our country, 90% of women still don't do anything to move forward.
01:42I want you to give them a message
01:47that everyone should try to move forward
01:51and do something in their life.
01:54Don't waste your life.
01:58I am from Delhi, Manju Sharma.
02:01Manju, thank you for such a breakthrough question.
02:05Because the question that you have asked,
02:11sometimes I feel that we should ask this question
02:16so that we can talk about this topic.
02:20We are so careful about women's rights.
02:26But we forget one thing.
02:33I think this is a thought that you can think about later.
02:38In India, many girls are lazy.
02:42They want a boyfriend or a husband who has a good job,
02:49who has a house,
02:51who has assurance that he is going to get increments.
02:55But that girl doesn't have the courage to say
03:01what will I do when you will marry me.
03:05I want applause on this.
03:11I want to appeal to all of you.
03:14Please have a seat, Manju.
03:16I want to appeal to all of you
03:18to create such women in your house
03:26who are able,
03:28who can earn for themselves,
03:30who can say,
03:31yes, we have to buy a new fridge at home.
03:34You give half of the money, I will give the other half.
03:37I am not saying to fight.
03:40But you should have this much capability.
03:43I have a distant friend.
03:48I won't tell you the details.
03:49She was looking for a groom for her marriage.
03:52She told me that she doesn't need a job below Rs. 50,000.
03:56And it would be better if he lives separately.
03:59Who needs to worry about his parents-in-law?
04:01And he should have a four-wheeler.
04:03I asked her, have you come to a mall?
04:07Do you want a person or an offer?
04:10It is so humiliating.
04:13And I feel that when boys reach the age of 18,
04:17there is a lot of pressure on them.
04:21They feel that their studies are going to get over.
04:25They want to earn and support their family.
04:28And I feel like crying for my brothers.
04:31My husband got selected from the campus interview
04:36when he was all of 20.
04:38And he has started earning.
04:40Why?
04:42When girls reach the age of 25-27,
04:45they keep thinking and putting pressure on their boyfriends.
04:48Sorry, I don't want a honeymoon in India.
04:51If there is a honeymoon, it will be in a foreign country.
04:53And now don't even ask.
04:54There are destination weddings,
04:55pre-wedding shoots and reels.
04:57All the expenses will be borne by the boyfriend or future husband.
05:01Why?
05:03If you want a life of luxury and comfort,
05:05what will you earn?
05:08You should educate yourself.
05:11Find a job.
05:13Go to a few offices and ask if you can get a job.
05:17This is not possible.
05:18And girls say,
05:19why did you look at me like that?
05:21This is not right.
05:23You don't even need appreciation.
05:25If someone says something good about you,
05:28you will report it to HR.
05:30Do you know why they say that?
05:32At least listen to me.
05:34Why are you so edgy?
05:36I am not talking about the percentage.
05:39Not all the women are like that.
05:41But this aggression,
05:43this demanding nature is growing quite a lot.
05:47Wherein I feel that we have to just look at the situation
05:50with a certain amount of humbleness
05:52and equality.
05:54That you also owe something to the family.
05:56Paying bills
05:58is not just your husband's job.
06:00You should tell him
06:02that leave it.
06:04You have a holiday for the next 6 months.
06:06See what smile you get.
06:09And
06:13I feel really proud to say
06:15that I really care for all the men in my life.
06:19Be it anyone.
06:22I care for them because
06:24the amount of trust
06:28we exchange.
06:29I feel that
06:32I love cooking.
06:35When I am not able to express my emotions,
06:38I cook something.
06:40I cook 4-5 of my favourite dishes
06:43and I give it to them.
06:44I feel that is the greatest love from my side.
06:47But
06:48there are other things beyond cooking
06:51that you can offer your family and your partner.
06:55So I feel that today we need all those women
06:59who can say that
07:01the percentage that we have got in the reservation
07:04is a different thing.
07:05It is the responsibility of the government.
07:07And the government is fulfilling its responsibility.
07:11We also have some responsibilities.
07:14And we definitely need to understand those responsibilities
07:18and
07:20bear them.