What makes a perfect in-law? How do you bond with your in-laws? Find out the answers of Snooky Serna, her father-in-law Caesar De Leon-Co, as well as other in-laws in this video!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:39We always have fun being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:54We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends, the best of friends.
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be. We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:25Good morning to all of you.
01:28Good morning.
01:29We'll ask Ate Christy, who's right next to me.
01:32Ate Christy, please tell me.
01:35What do you think, what would a widow not like about her husband?
01:42I just don't like my husband being involved in our decision to get married.
01:50Then, what else?
01:55That's all.
01:57That's all, right?
01:58Yes, because it's usually like that, especially when the husband is still young.
02:04But let's be clear, you two are friends, right?
02:07Of course.
02:09Okay.
02:11It's clear, it's clear.
02:14Ms. Dory, what do you not like about a widow?
02:20Not about your wife, maybe you already have a wife.
02:23What do you not like about a widow?
02:27If you ask me, I really don't like a widow who has no respect for her husband.
02:31And the one who's lazy.
02:33The one who's responsible.
02:35That's what I don't like.
02:36Is that an angst? Do you feel that now?
02:39Not really.
02:40My wife is kind.
02:42It's like she's mad at you.
02:43It's like you feel it.
02:45Well, that's why we're asking them about their wives, their wives.
02:50Of course, that's because...
02:52We're going to talk about what they say that they will never get along.
02:58Those are the wives and the wives.
03:01But the people we're going to talk to today, they're not the usual wives.
03:06Because they're friends.
03:07Because they get along.
03:09Yes.
03:10Let's find out why they get along and how they got along.
03:15Okay, so our first guest.
03:18According to Manugang, her mother-in-law is closer to her than her husband.
03:22Please welcome Yayo Aguila and Margie Martinez.
03:26Good morning.
03:27Good morning.
03:28Good morning.
03:31Next mother and daughter-in-law, let's condemn them.
03:34They said they got along when they first met each other.
03:38And their favorite bonding activity is shopping.
03:41Delicious!
03:42Of course.
03:43Please welcome Chesca Diaz and Pearly Art Pat Chiminales.
03:48Good morning.
03:49Good morning.
03:53And our next guest, according to Manugang,
03:55she's closer to her in-laws than her real parents.
03:59Please welcome Snooki Serna and father-in-law,
04:01Retired Brigadier General Cesar De Leon.
04:05Good morning.
04:06Good morning.
04:09Here they are.
04:10You will witness a one-hour bonding activity between in-laws today.
04:15So if you have a problem,
04:17just come here to
04:20Free!
04:37Is it true that Manugang and Viennans can be friends?
04:41Let's ask them.
04:44To the Viennans,
04:46what is the perfect Manugang?
04:49Or is there a perfect Manugang?
04:53Mommy Pearly?
04:55For me, the perfect Manugang is somebody,
04:58my daughter-in-law who is obedient,
05:01and she's very giving,
05:03you know,
05:04when I give her my advice,
05:06she listens,
05:07and she's loving.
05:09Who is more obedient,
05:11to their husband or to you?
05:14Both.
05:15Both?
05:16Both?
05:17You, sir.
05:20Brigadier General.
05:21We can't say that it's perfect.
05:23It must be a good or better Manugang.
05:27We can't say that it's perfect.
05:29It must be a good or better Manugang.
05:33A good or better Manugang
05:38is someone who loves his wife and his family.
05:42And in loving each other,
05:45everything will be good in the world.
05:53So it will come out.
05:55Mommy Marge?
05:57Just like what they said,
05:59a good Manugang is someone
06:02who loves his wife and his family.
06:05We just have to follow them.
06:07Because we're not with them.
06:09We don't live together all the time.
06:11They're with their family,
06:13their husband and their children.
06:15We're not with them,
06:16but we're with each other every day.
06:18That's right.
06:20And vice versa?
06:22What about Manugang?
06:24What's a good Manugang?
06:25Perfect.
06:27Perfect.
06:30Of course, there's nothing perfect in the world.
06:34But close to being perfect,
06:36just like your mother,
06:39is understanding.
06:41Because we know that our husband has an edge
06:45over their parents.
06:47Because they're siblings.
06:49We're just a stranger to their lives.
06:53But it's a big thing for us
06:56that we understand each other as a woman
07:00and as a wife.
07:02It's a big thing.
07:03And it's also nice to be friends with them.
07:07It's not just the problem of breathing,
07:09but it's nice to be with them.
07:11It's comforting,
07:12especially if you're with your husband at home.
07:15It's different.
07:17Cheska?
07:19I think...
07:20What was the question?
07:23It's perfect.
07:25Well, I like what Yayo said.
07:28There's nothing perfect,
07:29but I think the most important,
07:31what counts really is that
07:32your mother-in-law accepts you
07:35as what you are.
07:36Because it's easy there.
07:38It's like friends, right?
07:39It's easy.
07:40If you love your friend no matter what,
07:43it's the same with your mother-in-law.
07:44No matter what her flaws are,
07:46bad or good,
07:47it's okay.
07:48You two are cool, right?
07:51Cookie?
07:52Me?
07:53I'm still thinking about it.
07:55My father-in-law is the perfect mother-in-law.
07:58And my mother-in-law,
08:00please, I would not want to
08:02disregard my mother-in-law.
08:04It's true.
08:05Because what I feel for them
08:07is acceptance of who I am.
08:09And to think that I come from a business
08:11where our world is chaotic.
08:13And they're very militarized.
08:15Because my father-in-law is,
08:17and I say this with all due respects,
08:19is a highly respected Brigadier General.
08:22And now,
08:25we have our own security company
08:27and he's the head of the company.
08:29And my mother-in-law,
08:31her family is not just a bunch of people.
08:33I felt so welcome.
08:35And I felt very much accepted by the family.
08:40And everything will follow
08:42if you have acceptance
08:44of who you are.
08:46There's the flexibility.
08:48In a way, I was embarrassed
08:50because they're the ones who are still with me.
08:52That's how it is.
08:54Oh, dad.
08:56I was about to cry.
09:00Thank you for accepting me for who I am, dad.
09:03I admit that I'm not perfect.
09:05And nobody is anyway.
09:07But I'm very, very much far from being that.
09:10But all throughout my struggles,
09:13my parents-in-law have always been beside us.
09:17Did you guys click right away?
09:20Right away?
09:21Of course.
09:22It's like a first meeting.
09:24While they're not married yet.
09:26With me, no.
09:28With me, I was too shy.
09:30I was too scared.
09:31But the whole time, she was very friendly.
09:35She would always talk to me.
09:37But I was always like that.
09:39But after that, we clicked.
09:41After that, she opened up.
09:42She talks to me a lot.
09:45Yayo.
09:46Mom, did you like me right away?
09:48I liked you right away,
09:49but not immediately.
09:51You weren't friends right away?
09:52No.
09:53Because in the beginning,
09:54she was always jealous.
09:56Manugang was jealous of Diana.
09:58Of course.
09:59Especially if the family is close.
10:01I only have four children.
10:03Because I imagine,
10:04when I had Manugang,
10:06I kept thinking,
10:09maybe you're perfect for my child.
10:12Nobody can ever be good enough
10:14for your children.
10:16That's true.
10:17It comes out right away.
10:18Yes, it's scary.
10:22I can identify.
10:23I'm like that with my children.
10:24They're still young,
10:26but I feel like I'm like that.
10:28My mom used to say,
10:29I don't know if you feel the same way.
10:31Manugang should love their children.
10:35Manugang will continue to love
10:38and take care of their children.
10:41So you have to love them.
10:43Although I'm not sure
10:45if my mom still feels the same way.
10:47I'm just saying.
10:53Do you feel the same?
10:54Yes.
10:55That's very, very true.
10:57Because they're the ones who will continue.
10:59So it's really important.
11:00That's exactly what you said.
11:01I agree with you completely.
11:03Why do you think
11:04most women don't get along?
11:07I can answer that.
11:08Because I believe,
11:10it's competition.
11:12The husband,
11:13I mean, me,
11:15not because we don't get along.
11:18But usually,
11:19it's competition
11:20because of the love of the son.
11:22The love.
11:23As a mother,
11:24you will feel that
11:25somebody is taking your son
11:27away from you.
11:29Because you've nurtured this boy.
11:31You made him big,
11:32everything, he's grown up.
11:33And now somebody else got him.
11:35And you feel that.
11:36For me, that's what I truly believe.
11:38The competition.
11:39I'll listen to you.
11:40But it's been a long time.
11:41It's been three years already.
11:42But I'll listen to you.
11:43So I won't be confused.
11:47Because I'm thinking,
11:48like for you,
11:49daughters-in-law.
11:51Do you win them?
11:52Did you make an effort to win them?
11:54Or like,
11:55if you don't want me, then don't.
11:57I guess, yes.
11:58It's part of it.
11:59But for me,
12:00I didn't force it.
12:01You weren't conscious,
12:02so you didn't force it.
12:03No, because
12:04my focus back then
12:06was of course, William.
12:07But,
12:10of course, I also thought,
12:11I lived with them back then.
12:13If William leaves everyday,
12:15he's not there.
12:16I'm the only one left there.
12:17So I need to learn
12:18from myself
12:19how I can be loved
12:21by my in-laws.
12:22Especially my mother-in-law.
12:23Because she's the one
12:24who's at home everyday.
12:25So I'm just added there.
12:27I'm like,
12:28who am I?
12:29I just arrived there.
12:30So I really need to...
12:31You're the one who's different.
12:33Yes, but
12:34I also thought that
12:35I don't need to prove
12:37to the point
12:38that I need to,
12:39you know,
12:40pretend to be someone else.
12:41Right?
12:42Pretend to be someone else.
12:43Yes.
12:44What I can do,
12:45I'll show them
12:46so they'll accept me
12:47as who I am.
12:48Because I don't want to pretend
12:49because it's hard, right?
12:51If you'll be with someone
12:52for the rest of your life.
12:53And in the end,
12:54the real you will come out.
12:55Yes.
12:56Correct.
12:57Well, no matter what they do,
12:58they'll still be like that.
13:00And they'll still fight.
13:02When we'll come back,
13:03we'll talk about
13:04the scenes with you.
13:06Of course,
13:07it's no different.
13:28Baby,
13:29even if they fight,
13:30do they have things
13:31that make them different
13:32from each other?
13:33And we'll find out.
13:36Of course,
13:37the conflict in marriage
13:38won't go away.
13:39Right?
13:40Because first,
13:41they grew up differently.
13:42They grew up differently.
13:43Their styles are different.
13:45Right?
13:46Now,
13:47what's the difference?
13:51This is Mommy.
13:52She's fond of that.
13:53When,
13:54especially when you have a child,
13:56she'll say suggestions,
13:58advices on how you bring up
13:59your daughter or your son.
14:01So,
14:02even if it's just a baby,
14:03she wants 4 ounces of milk.
14:05See?
14:06Then I'll say,
14:07No, Mama,
14:08it only needs 3 ounces.
14:09No, no, no.
14:104 ounces in every 2 hours.
14:11It's still there.
14:12Petty things like that.
14:13You know,
14:14she has to say,
14:15of course,
14:16because she knows,
14:17she's been through all of them.
14:18All of her kids
14:19are healthy.
14:21All of them are smart.
14:22So,
14:23she knows more.
14:24So, she's just saying what,
14:25you know,
14:26she has to put her 2 cents in.
14:27Sometimes,
14:28Cheska is very stubborn.
14:29She'll say,
14:30Cheska,
14:31because she feeds the baby
14:32every hour,
14:333 ounces.
14:34That's too much.
14:35That's too much.
14:36That's too much.
14:37Yes,
14:38that's too much.
14:39She'll say,
14:40Ma'am,
14:41because she's hungry,
14:42she's crying.
14:43I'll say,
14:44Ches,
14:45this is how it is,
14:46Ches.
14:47So,
14:48then I explain to her,
14:49I said,
14:50look at my kids.
14:51They're all big.
14:52Look at your husband.
14:53They're all healthy.
14:54Because everything's laid out.
14:55Everything's expressed.
14:56Yes,
14:57always.
14:58You know,
14:59when I have feelings that say,
15:00if there's something that I don't like about Cheska,
15:01I call her aside
15:02and I tell her.
15:03And then,
15:04she tells me what she feels.
15:05And then,
15:06after that,
15:07we speak about it
15:08and it's finished.
15:09It's not carrying on.
15:10It just continues.
15:11And we start again.
15:12So,
15:13you fix it right away.
15:14Yes.
15:15It doesn't reach the husband.
15:16Communication.
15:17Yes,
15:18it's difficult.
15:19Right.
15:20That's right.
15:21Mommy Margie.
15:22We're like that too.
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21:27Yes,
21:28we're like that.
21:29Yes,
21:30we're like that.
21:31Yes,
21:32we're like that.
21:33Yes,
21:34we're like that.
21:35Yes,
21:36we're like that.
21:37Yes,
21:38we're like that.
21:39Yes,
21:40we're like that.
21:41Yes,
21:42we're like that.
21:43Yes,
21:44we're like that.
21:45Yes,
21:46we're like that.
21:47Yes,
21:48we're like that.
21:49Yes,
21:50we're like that.
21:51Yes,
21:52we're like that.
21:53Yes,
21:54we're like that.
21:55Yes,
21:56we're like that.
21:57Yes,
21:58we're like that.
21:59Yes,
22:00we're like that.
22:01Yes,
22:02we're like that.
22:03Yes,
22:04we're like that.
22:05Yes,
22:06we're like that.
22:07Yes,
22:08we're like that.
22:09Yes,
22:10we're like that.
22:11Yes,
22:12we're like that.
22:13Yes,
22:14we're like that.
22:15Yes,
22:16we're like that.
22:17Yes,
22:18we're like that.
22:19Yes,
22:20we're like that.
22:21Yes,
22:22we're like that.
22:23Yes,
22:24we're like that.
22:25Yes,
22:26we're like that.
22:27Yes,
22:28we're like that.
22:29Yes,
22:30we're like that.
22:31Yes,
22:32we're like that.
22:33Yes,
22:34we're like that.
22:35Yes,
22:36we're like that.
22:37Yes,
22:38we're like that.
22:39Yes,
22:40we're like that.
22:41Yes,
22:42we're like that.
22:43Yes,
22:44we're like that.
22:45Yes,
22:46we're like that.
22:47Yes,
22:48we're like that.
22:49Yes,
22:50we're like that.
22:51Yes,
22:52we're like that.
22:53Yes,
22:54we're like that.
22:55Yes,
22:56we're like that.
22:57Yes,
22:58we're like that.
22:59Yes,
23:00we're like that.
23:01Yes,
23:02we're like that.
23:03Yes,
23:04we're like that.
23:05Yes,
23:06we're like that.
23:07Okay,
23:08no copying,
23:09okay?
23:10No copying.
23:11Even if you're my friends,
23:12no copying.
23:13First question,
23:14for the
23:15ladies,
23:16what is the job
23:17that your
23:18daughter-in-law
23:19doesn't like
23:20the most
23:21at home?
23:23Okay,
23:24are we ready?
23:28Okay,
23:29Cheska and Tita Perly.
23:31Cooking.
23:32Cooking.
23:33Cooking.
23:34Ah,
23:35you hate to cook.
23:36Why?
23:37For me,
23:38I love to cook.
23:39I hate it.
23:40For me,
23:41I love to cook.
23:42Oh,
23:43you'll cook for us?
23:44Yes,
23:45I hope so.
23:46Oh,
23:47yes.
23:48She's good
23:49at cooking.
23:50That's why,
23:51look at her.
23:52Why me?
23:53I don't like it.
23:54Look at her.
23:55Cooking.
23:56She doesn't like it either.
23:57She doesn't like it.
23:58She doesn't like to cook.
24:01She didn't write it down.
24:02She didn't write it down.
24:03Ah,
24:04she didn't write it down?
24:05No,
24:06no,
24:07no.
24:08So,
24:09are you with us today?
24:10Zero.
24:11What?
24:12What?
24:13I answered it wrong.
24:14What?
24:15Consider it wrong.
24:16No,
24:17I thought it was honest.
24:18If you're with us,
24:19it's a long story.
24:20You're too much.
24:21No,
24:22because
24:23one day,
24:24she told me that
24:25I woke up,
24:26I got up early.
24:27That's why
24:28I thought it was that.
24:29No,
24:30what do you mean you don't like it?
24:31Cooking.
24:32I don't like to get up early.
24:33I don't like to get up early.
24:35I just want to sleep early.
24:38No,
24:39I don't like to get up early.
24:40That's what we discussed the other day.
24:41She said,
24:42you should get up early
24:44for all of us.
24:45I said,
24:46Ma'am,
24:47if I get up early,
24:48I'll just sleep again.
24:49Which is true.
24:50I really don't like that.
24:51What are you saying?
24:52Now,
24:53since her boy was born,
24:56every day I'm with them.
24:58She's always like that.
25:00That's why I'm always looking at him.
25:02I'm looking at everything he's doing.
25:04Booking.
25:05Because everyday I'm looking at him.
25:07Okay, Snooki.
25:09I haven't seen him wash the dishes yet.
25:16So, Cookie.
25:18My image is ruined.
25:22Washing the dishes.
25:23He doesn't want to wash the dishes.
25:26But we're compatible with dad.
25:27More or less, dad knows.
25:29I don't want to wash the dishes because I'm obsessive.
25:32I mean, just one plate for an hour.
25:34I'm so hungry that my children's eyes are getting whiter.
25:39Okay, second question.
25:40For the Manugans.
25:43This one is suitable for you, Yayo.
25:45When a guest comes to your house,
25:48what particular part of the house will he stay or stay?
25:53Does he have a favorite chair, favorite corner?
25:56In the living room area.
25:58In the second living room.
26:00Not in the first one, but in the second living room.
26:02In the second living room?
26:03Do we have a third living room there?
26:05My in-laws are very social.
26:07That's where I live.
26:09Dad is in the second living room.
26:11What about you?
26:12I also wrote in the living room.
26:14In the living room.
26:15No living room, no second?
26:16No first and second.
26:17No second.
26:19That's okay.
26:21I can describe it.
26:24Arthur.
26:25Wing chair.
26:27Wing chair.
26:28Wing chair.
26:29What is a wing chair?
26:30Does it have a kick?
26:31It's a big chair.
26:33It really needs to be big.
26:35Wing chair that goes that way.
26:37And it's so comfortable.
26:38Wing chair.
26:39It's my favorite.
26:40Wing chair.
26:41We just need to buy a lazy boy at home.
26:44What is your answer?
26:45Wing chair.
26:46Wing chair.
26:48Both.
26:49Okay, Yayo.
26:51Fourth.
26:52Fourth.
26:53That's an exclamation point.
26:55Bedroom.
26:56Bedroom.
26:57Where is Adam?
26:59He's over there.
27:04Next.
27:05For those who wrote.
27:07What quality of your chicken did your son like in your chicken?
27:15What quality of your chicken did your son like in him?
27:21What did William like in Yayo?
27:23He's good.
27:25He answered.
27:27Is that a coffee?
27:29That's right.
27:30I'll go first.
27:31He's good.
27:33Yayo, your turn.
27:34It's me.
27:35Understanding.
27:37That's too far.
27:39Okay.
27:41He's good.
27:42Mommy Pearlie.
27:44Because she's pretty and she's kind.
27:47She said you're pretty and kind, Chesco.
27:52Just pretty.
27:53Just pretty.
27:55Just pretty and kind.
27:57I'm sorry because we're copying each other.
28:00Oh, excuse me.
28:05I'm sorry.
28:07Daddy Cesar.
28:09I wrote.
28:10He's humble, down to earth attitude.
28:14Humble.
28:15Thoughtful.
28:17Candid.
28:18And?
28:19And kindness.
28:20Oh, Jesus.
28:21What is this?
28:22Humble and down to earth and attitude.
28:25Attitude.
28:29It's a bit hard, right?
28:30Yes.
28:31I thought about it.
28:33So?
28:34So, whatever is.
28:36Okay, fine.
28:37Okay.
28:38To the chickens, what are the characteristics of your husband that they have in their mommy or daddy?
28:46There.
28:47There.
28:51Oh, Snooki.
28:52Savings.
28:54Savings.
28:55She's good with money.
28:57Okay, daddy.
28:58It's your turn.
28:59Kindness.
29:01Mommy Pearlie.
29:02Happy person.
29:03Happy person.
29:06She's a business woman because she's very good in sales and my husband is also the same.
29:11Very, very good in sales.
29:12But they don't match.
29:13They don't match.
29:14They don't match.
29:18Wow.
29:19William is generous.
29:22Kind.
29:23William is kind.
29:25Kind.
29:26That's also fine.
29:27Kind.
29:28Yes, yes.
29:29Giving.
29:30That's okay.
29:31So, William, you're kind.
29:32William is kind.
29:33William is kind.
29:34Okay, mothers and daddy.
29:36To whom or where do your chickens go whenever their husband fights with them?
29:44Mommy Pearlie.
29:46Mommy Pearlie.
29:47I already have an answer.
29:48Bedroom.
29:49Cheska.
29:50Cheska, right?
29:51When they fight, she'll go to the bedroom.
29:53Is that correct?
29:54She doesn't go anywhere but the bedroom.
29:56If it's just the bedroom.
29:57Or else in my house.
29:58Bedroom in my house.
29:59Okay.
30:00In your house.
30:01In my house.
30:02She'll go to my bedroom.
30:04In her house.
30:06So, you go to her, you run to her.
30:07Yeah, I really go to her.
30:09Me?
30:10In my mom's house.
30:11Because we're neighbors.
30:12Same village.
30:13Oh, that's nice.
30:15She really goes to you.
30:17To us.
30:18To me.
30:19Does William follow you?
30:21William?
30:22No.
30:23He's afraid to go there.
30:24Of course.
30:25That's why he's afraid.
30:26His mom and dad are there.
30:27Right?
30:28We're there.
30:29Because he'll have a sermon there.
30:30He'll have a sermon.
30:31Snooki, where does he go?
30:35He prays in the church.
30:37Oh, in the church.
30:39In the church.
30:40Church.
30:41Church.
30:42It smells good.
30:44And when they fight.
30:45Let's recap the scores.
30:48Yayo and Margie.
30:50Three.
30:52Cheska and Pearlie.
30:53Four.
30:55Cookie and Cesar.
30:57Daddy Cesar.
30:58It's a tie.
30:59It's a tie.
31:00It's four.
31:02But then, nevertheless, you guys get along.
31:04Yes.
31:05Right?
31:06You guys get along.
31:07Right?
31:08It's nice if you guys get along.
31:10Of course.
31:11It's fabulous.
31:12We'll talk more when we get back.
31:36So, of course, when you guys get together,
31:39do you guys learn from each other?
31:41And what would that be?
31:43Okay, Cheska first.
31:44With me, because I learned a lot from her.
31:46Because she really went out of her way to teach me how to bring up my kids.
31:56Everything about bringing up kids the right way,
32:00values,
32:03and how to take care of myself also.
32:06It's your turn, Auntie Pearlie.
32:09What I learned from Cheska, she's a very giving person.
32:16She's always ready to help.
32:20She's always there to give a hand to anyone who needs her.
32:23And that's what I learned.
32:25And that's why I love her so much.
32:27Because she's really a very kind girl.
32:29She's a strong personality and all.
32:31But in that strongness that she has, she has a very kind and loving heart.
32:35And that's why I am really, really blessed that I have her as a daughter-in-law.
32:40Thank you, Mama.
32:47In general,
32:48because I can say that I know almost everything that's good in my life now.
32:55Because it's like what happened,
32:57it's like my mother-in-law molded me.
32:59Because I got married early, right?
33:01So I was only 16 when I didn't know much about my life.
33:03But of course, I played,
33:07but whatever I am now,
33:09basically, I learned that from my mother-in-law.
33:11Because of course, my mom is not in the States.
33:14So it's like she really taught me how to be a good mother,
33:18a good wife.
33:25When Yayo came to us,
33:27well,
33:29he courted me.
33:31At first, it's like
33:34it's hard to accept because we're too close.
33:38It's like I can't accept that someone will be added to us.
33:43But thanks to Yayo,
33:46I learned to love others
33:52because of him.
33:53The fact that you can love your neighbor
33:57just like your own child.
33:59For me, it's a compilation of both,
34:02of the two pairs.
34:04But for me, I would like to thank my father-in-law
34:07and my beloved mother-in-law
34:09for making me realize how it is to have a really good family
34:14and a Christian family at that.
34:16They taught me values,
34:18they gave me hope,
34:20they made me realize that there is hope,
34:22that there is a God,
34:24a God who loves me
34:25and a God who will never forsake nor leave me and my family
34:29just as long as we put Him in the center of our relationship.
34:32And one more thing,
34:34I'm really attached to my in-laws
34:37because they taught me how to love myself.
34:42Daddy Cesar.
34:45I had always wished to set an example to my children.
34:51And so, in all humility,
34:54they are now practicing these values of humility and industry.
35:00So, they work hard.
35:02As I told you a while ago,
35:05I sort of forced them to go to PNA,
35:08first stage,
35:09in order to appreciate the value of industry
35:13that they had to work in this world
35:16in order to support their family.
35:18And I'm very proud that Cookie is also very humble.
35:23He knows how to associate with other people.
35:26And so, it makes the relationship mutual.
35:30You appreciate one another.
35:32You value the friendship of one another.
35:36And I guess that's a very good example to my grandchildren.
35:41Of course, because of that,
35:42there are also things that you can't say right away.
35:46Or it's so hard to verbalize out of here.
35:49Or there's no timing.
35:53If there's anything that you want to say to each other,
35:57say it now.
36:01I'll go first before I cry.
36:03Okay.
36:05Okay, Snooki.
36:06As I've said earlier, Dad,
36:08I respect you, Dad.
36:10I've always respected my father and my mother-in-law, Janice.
36:13The first time I laid eyes on them,
36:16I was really surprised.
36:18Because they are the epitome of how it is to be a good parent,
36:22how it is to have a good family.
36:25But now is the right time and the right opportunity
36:29to say thank you, Dad,
36:31for giving me another side in life,
36:33for enlightening me, Dad,
36:35and for making me see the other side of life.
36:37That there's still a happy family,
36:40a whole family,
36:41a loving family.
36:44I mean, no matter how many trials we go through,
36:49of course, it won't go away.
36:50There's still the trying to get the family together.
36:54There's still respect for each other.
36:56And so, my respect for my dad and my mother-in-law
36:59is not only because of what they did,
37:02my respect for my father and my mother-in-law
37:04is not only because of what they are in society,
37:08not of how they've made themselves,
37:11but how they are as people.
37:14They're not only beautiful outside,
37:16but they are truly beautiful human beings inside.
37:19And I thank God for both of them each day.
37:22Thank you so much, Dad.
37:24Thank you, Mom.
37:27I'm so sorry.
37:28What would you like to say to Cookie?
37:31Well, I don't usually say what I feel to Cookie.
37:36I just show, I just show something
37:39that I'm exercising that kind of leadership.
37:43She will refer to me,
37:45because I think what I expect of them
37:48is something that is for their good.
37:51So, it's good that I'm thanking Cookie.
37:55And what she does is,
37:58I'm happy that
38:00that's what's good for their family.
38:06So, by just trying to improve the relationship to other people
38:13is a good example of how the children will react later on.
38:17Their treatment to other people,
38:20like their fans, for example,
38:23when we go to Mega Mall.
38:25I feel proud also that there are a lot of people there.
38:28And then, Grace too.
38:30They are old friends.
38:32That's why it's a good relationship.
38:35It makes me that great feeling of pride
38:39that I have a daughter-in-law
38:41who knows how to be with other people.
38:47Thank you, Mom.
38:54Mom, I love you,
38:56and I thank you very much
38:58for everything that you have taught me,
39:00for everything that you are.
39:02I am so blessed, and everybody knows that.
39:04I keep saying that.
39:05And I thank the Lord that He has given me you,
39:08who has taught me so much,
39:10and I've never received such love from you.
39:12Thank you very much.
39:16Jessica, I really want to thank you.
39:19I really want to thank you for loving my son.
39:22That's very important for a mother.
39:24You love my son so much,
39:27and I'm so blessed that you really are here,
39:30that you give everything to him,
39:31and you're always there to please him,
39:33and taking good care to my grandchildren.
39:36You're always there.
39:37You're a good mother.
39:39You're a good daughter-in-law.
39:41And as I said before, I'm so blessed,
39:44and I thank the Lord for giving you to us.
39:49And you're just like my own child.
39:53And if I have to choose,
39:54I will never replace you,
39:56and choose anybody else.
40:00Thank you very much.
40:05I also want to thank Jaio
40:07for always understanding William,
40:11for loving William so much,
40:14and for taking care of my grandchildren.
40:19That's all.
40:20Jaio.
40:21Every day, we're together.
40:22Every day, we talk.
40:24But sometimes, I just can't tell my mom,
40:27because sometimes it's hard to accept.
40:29We're so used to our mom being in our house every day.
40:33When we wake up in the morning,
40:34she's the one who wakes us up.
40:36So when she's not around,
40:37sometimes it's like,
40:38Oh, my mom's not around.
40:39Of course, sometimes it's hard to accept
40:41that not only William is her son,
40:43he also has another son.
40:44Right?
40:45We're so attached to him,
40:47even though he's the son of all of my children.
40:49And when we find out that he's on vacation in the States,
40:52he's not around for a month,
40:53it's like a big loss for us.
40:54It's like, hello,
40:55my mom's not around for a month.
40:57Because sometimes,
40:58when we're at home,
41:00we feel sad.
41:01And when he comes home,
41:02the air is different.
41:03You know that?
41:04Even when he's not around,
41:05he'll do nothing at home.
41:06He won't say anything.
41:07We won't say anything.
41:08As long as the air is different,
41:09we'll be happy.
41:11And he's the one who always pushes us.
41:13For example,
41:14sometimes,
41:16William is the one who's more emotional
41:18between me and him.
41:19So, for example,
41:20if there's a small problem,
41:21when he comes home,
41:23our spirits become high.
41:26It's like, okay,
41:27there's life outside.
41:28It's like,
41:29life should go on.
41:31He's the one who pushes us.
41:32So, when we find out that he's leaving,
41:33for example,
41:34he's not around for a month,
41:35he's on vacation,
41:36it's like,
41:37one of the hard things for us
41:39is to accept that he's leaving.
41:41So, mom, if you're on vacation,
41:42just make it quick.
41:45She's making it quick.
41:46She's on vacation.
41:48For the in-laws,
41:51your message to the in-laws as well,
41:54where do you draw the line?
41:58For me,
41:59you're there for support.
42:01You're there for love.
42:02You're there for guidance.
42:05But if the situation gets already a bit over,
42:11and above that,
42:13I back out.
42:14It's time to say,
42:16no.
42:17Let them.
42:18When they have to settle something together,
42:21it's something personal,
42:23and it's a relationship that they're talking about,
42:25I draw the line.
42:26Because I can advise,
42:28but that's as far as I can go.
42:30It has to be them
42:31to be able to talk about it,
42:33to be able,
42:34because of the love that they have for each other,
42:36that's when they will be able to settle this.
42:38So, you can just advise,
42:40and when it is already time to move out,
42:42they have to speak,
42:44and that's where I draw the line.
42:46After advising,
42:47I say,
42:48now you settle it.
42:49Up to advice,
42:51and that's it.
42:52Is it the same for you?
42:54The bottom line in my relationship is,
42:58how do you make one happy?
43:02And so,
43:03how do you make your son happy?
43:05How do you make your daughter-in-law happy?
43:07I think,
43:08don't get involved in their problems.
43:10If you get involved too much,
43:14it will make the couple sad.
43:17If they feel they don't have the independence
43:20to bring forth their family the way they want it,
43:25then they will become unhappy.
43:27So,
43:28the same way with your grandchildren,
43:31if they see an example that
43:33you are interfering too much to their life,
43:36then they will be feeling unhappy.
43:39So,
43:40it's better for the in-laws to exercise
43:45and to control their tendency of interfering.
43:53It's like the attitude of being the captain of the world,
43:56that they are the only ones who know,
43:58so the daughter-in-law doesn't have to do anything.
44:05So,
44:06the in-laws should control themselves.
44:09That even in spite of your experience,
44:11I guess you give them a chance
44:14to learn from their mistakes.
44:17Until such time,
44:18as it is said,
44:20if it's critical,
44:21then that's the time you come in.
44:22Mommy Margie?
44:23I am just advising,
44:25if it's necessary.
44:26But if it's not,
44:27I don't care.
44:29If I need help,
44:30I'll be there.
44:31That's how I am.
44:32But when it comes to the son,
44:34or the rules of William,
44:36I don't care.
44:38When William said that the son can't leave,
44:41I don't care.
44:42You can't.
44:43No, I don't care about that.
44:45That's their business.
44:46That's their business.
44:47That's their business.
44:48Thank you very much for joining us today
44:51and sharing your wonderful closeness.
44:58Thank you again.
44:59Sis will be back.
45:02Always, always be.
45:04We are sisters.
45:06We are sisters.
45:09Always, always be.
45:11We are sisters.
45:13We are sisters.
45:17Sis would like to thank
45:18Bambi Fuentes,
45:19Salon de Manila,
45:21Chloe for our eyewear,
45:23Optical Works,
45:24Wade Shoes,
45:25Janeline Shoes,
45:26Balloon Creations,
45:27Adidas,
45:28The Barnyard,
45:29Play and Display,
45:30JBL Furniture,
45:32Grand Flora,
45:33Bayo,
45:34Durastar,
45:35Luxaflex by Hunter Douglas
45:37for our vertical blinds,
45:39Republic Asahi,
45:40Zenzest,
45:42F&H,
45:43and Union Square.
45:53It's so beautiful.
45:54It's nice, right?
45:55The members are close to each other.
45:56You, Jel,
45:57your in-laws are not here.
45:58Yes.
45:59They are in Canada.
46:00You, what can you say to your in-laws?
46:03You know, I'm really happy
46:05because like them,
46:06we have a close relationship.
46:08Although they are far away,
46:10when we are together,
46:12it's really super fun.
46:13I feel like sometimes
46:14they tease me more
46:15than Ariel.
46:16Okay, okay.
46:17Talk to them.
46:18Hi.
46:19Because we will send this tape to Canada.
46:20Hi, mom, dad.
46:21Dad, get well soon.
46:23Mom, I love you.
46:25To the two of you.
46:26I love you guys.
46:27Okay.
46:28How about you?
46:29Me?
46:30Me, no.
46:31You know, I've maintained
46:32a very good relationship with them.
46:33Maybe we don't see each other every day
46:34or we don't see each other often,
46:36but when we see each other,
46:37we are okay, actually.
46:39I want to say to daddy and mommy,
46:42thank you for understanding.
46:45Okay.
46:47Our message to the daughters-in-law
46:49and sons-in-law.
46:52Sometimes,
46:53you will have differences.
46:55No relationship
46:57is built overnight.
46:58Right?
46:59That's right.
47:00So, it takes a while.
47:01If we have our own blood,
47:03we will have problems.
47:04What else do you want?
47:05Yes.
47:06It takes a while.
47:07That's how it is.
47:08But you have to love
47:10and respect your in-laws
47:12no matter what.
47:13Because when you enter
47:15a marriage,
47:17those people
47:19are no longer your in-laws.
47:20They become your second
47:22set of parents.
47:23Yes.
47:24Right?
47:25So, thank you for joining us.
47:26Yes, thank you very much.
47:27Let's meet again
47:28here in
47:29City!
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