Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 31
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00:00I
00:01Kind of give you the best version of me previously to go from that wedding
00:06To then how we are now that is what kills me at the final commitment ceremony
00:12I thought leave Christina and Kieran bid an emotional. Farewell, Kennedy
00:18For others there was an outpouring of affection
00:21I've seen a side to Polly like a completely different person chilled giggling you smiling
00:26Yeah, I thought I'd tap dancing around the love for a minute
00:29But for Amy and Luke I felt humiliated I felt disrespected I felt violated fallout from homestays
00:35Why can't you read the room grow the hole?
00:40Led to drastic measures, I believe
00:44And for Sasha and Ross a moving situation affecting me
00:49Fears over the future. I really wanted to do everything. I could to make you happy
00:55And I feel like I have bent over backwards
00:58Led to a heartbreaking decision
01:01I am absolutely emotionally drained leave
01:10Tonight
01:13The couple's head off on final dates
01:18As Ross attempts to win Sasha over April right to leave once I make happy again
01:26for Polly and Adam
01:28And to the future
01:30Marital bliss is short-lived. I feel like you're not giving me what I want. I'll just sit there and go. I care about you
01:36That's what you do. Not what I do. The old Polly is slowly creeping back, but it's Luke falling back into old habits
01:42That's actually really sexy. I'm not gonna lie behave
01:47This is a cooking class not a porno. I've given Luke chance after chance and lack of honesty
01:53Can you tell me how many relationships you've had that drives a need to despair even that numbers for me like
02:12As some couples head off on their final date, sorry because we like doing fun stuff
02:18I thought give you a little bit of a surprise
02:20What is that for our last night what we're doing have to wait and see
02:27At the apartments the others are still reflecting on yesterday's commitment ceremony
02:37I did right leave yesterday
02:40But I'm happy to stay
02:43Take on the experts advice and maybe be a little bit more empathetic with him
02:48Try and understand him a little bit more I
02:52Just feel so let down
02:54Luke a hundred percent needs to work on what comes out of his mouth
02:59He needs to think before he speaks. I
03:02Don't know we're gonna go from here. I
03:06Think this is the last chance to prove myself and deliver I
03:10Feel I have a lot of more work to do with Amy and I want to do that work
03:14From our final day today, I've planned a little treat time being as closer and hopefully we can move forward
03:29After a very hard commitment ceremony
03:34feeling pretty
03:36Deflated today, you know, I've agreed to stay
03:40And I am willing to give Ross in that chance to take the advice that the experts have given
03:47for the needs to hold accountability
03:51This was all like his fault. How bad it got so we can understand how hurt I am
03:57Yet today I was expecting that is daily, but I get where she come upon
04:05I
04:06Disturbed her box that off. I'm really hoping we can start thinned out
04:11today
04:13fine all day
04:15Get back in track
04:26Lacey's always going on about that. She likes romance and she likes me being more romantic
04:31I
04:34Tried pulling something out the bag and I don't think there'll ever be a better time to say the words. I love you
04:39Oh
04:41I
05:12Loving this new Nathan this more romantic Nathan. I knew he had it in him, but he just needed the right woman
05:17And I pulled it out of him
05:27So this is what I've planned for you today, it's a bit of off-roading. Yeah. Yep
05:32I feel really good about me and Adam right now kind of suits you driving this. This is what I want
05:37I want a big alarm over with my five kids in the back and a dog in the boot five kids
05:41I think we're in the best position that we could be after a bumpy couple of weeks, right?
05:46Let me show you how it's done
05:48Watch this. I'm just
05:51little butterflies
05:53Yeah, good
05:55You ready
06:02Pressing the brake
06:07Even though me and Polly have had our ups and downs
06:09I think we've both grown as a couple the side that I've seen on homestay is a side that I do prefer with her
06:20I
06:21Think she's a lot more calmer. She's more chilled and nice and we actually got on really well
06:28Are you happy with what I have planned? Yes, obviously I'm better as well
06:33Why is everything a competition?
06:38We wanted it
06:51I
06:56Would be more conversational with you, but right now
07:05Well, that's how much for a garden
07:14I'll try my hardest to be romantic up there, but I don't feel effort
07:22It's a big bag underneath your seat
07:28Yeah
07:31But if I want to ruin the the moment I feel sick because it's not me
07:45That's okay
07:47I
08:04Actually might be sick you got a bag you got sick bag in there
08:09I've a little bit gotten like deflated, but wasn't really the best moment to tell her I love her
08:18I can be sick then
08:27Planned something exciting today for us. Hopefully it brings us closer together
08:31I'm not gonna lie, but you've got a lot of making up today going into our final day
08:35I need Luke to be able to be honest with me. I don't want any more inappropriate comments and
08:42No more lies
08:45Because marriage is all about trust like trust is everything
08:52You know, I thought after the last commitment ceremony, you know
08:55I was very sad and I was gutted to see you put leave and I thought I didn't want to fight for this
09:00you know thought about the love language that you said you like food and
09:05Eating as a love language. So I thought today can be just fun
09:08I'm gonna take Mel's advice and not speak about any innuendos. I
09:13Am obviously shocked that you put stay yourself
09:16After pulling your wedding ring off in front of my friends in a restaurant during that time. Oh, babe. I was absolutely
09:24livid
09:30Understand that I see that I feel like today's a bit of a make or break for me and Amy I've planned a little gift
09:36I've managed to find the rings for myself and Amy and I plan on giving the rings back to us
09:42To show her that I actually am really sorry and it's a promise of a commitment as opposed to something that you just take off
09:53This reminds me of being back home with
09:56Mom in the kitchen. Did you use to cook with your mom? Yeah, she used to teach me stuff
10:02I'm struggling
10:04You didn't hand I'm gonna use this oven as a mirror. You want me to come behind you and do it for you
10:09Thank you
10:11It's very nice to see me in the kitchen, you know, I just like looking at her. I mean, she's very sexy
10:16She's very beautiful. I like it
10:19dress like Catwoman
10:21Make a well in the center. That's actually really sexy. I'm not gonna lie
10:26leather I
10:27Don't know what it what this could be, but
10:32Back back at home
10:34Memories of my mom is her doing this and then she used to give us the mixer
10:38And she'd be like who wants the bowl and who wants the blade I always went for the blade I don't know
10:43I just like getting my time
10:46Behave
10:48Are you sure I think it's going great. I think it's what we need after the last commitment ceremony
10:53My mom used to do this. It's called jiggling. Look jiggle jiggle jiggle
10:58Yeah, we're bouncing off each other sort of banter going on. You know, she seems to be relaxing, which is nice
11:08Not today this has been a good date so far she's not worth a lick it
11:25That's disgusting. Oh my god, Amy. Come on. I
11:29Just feel really uncomfortable
11:32Luke's making inappropriate sexual comments towards me yet again. This is a cooking class not a porno. I was licking it
11:39Yeah, you are licking it. Don't I stop it's delicious
11:43Stop it. It's giving me the egg. Do not lick that spoon like that
11:47I've given Luke chance after chance after chance. It just creeps me out just stop
11:53When is this gonna end?
12:02Oh
12:05Fuck sake it better be bowling. They don't want to be cold. Yes today
12:10Me and the expert it was hard. Are we skating or bowling? I'm screaming tonight. You call skate
12:18You told me you can't
12:20Cut no socks my stock. Ah
12:24Bang or date. It's all about fun
12:27We've got a little supply later, so oh
12:31Okay. Okay. So I'm far right. Oh
12:35All right. Okay me and Ross. I've had a very hard week yesterday. I won't leave
12:40I know that Ross means his apology, but I don't know whether I'm convinced things are gonna change
12:48You got what you want now cuz I do have to hold this for a bit first did I get muffler?
12:54Oh
13:05You're not gonna help me on the ice no Wow, you're a gentleman on yeah
13:10Oh
13:19Is this your day or our day, you know, you're actually not gonna help me
13:26He could have helped me on the always have been a gentleman stop laughing
13:32That you don't look to happen, but hopefully I could win her over
13:37I can't believe you. What's the funny? Hey, I'm happy. Okay, it's fun fun for you
13:46You know, you look pretty sexy and that in ice skates did
13:51What right in my skirt?
13:56I missed it so much. There's my pit. I skate some because I'm child of memory my dad
14:06I
14:10Don't join it. Yeah, it was a really nice idea and the reason was nice
14:14There's something fun. We're really good for us after everything that's happened
14:18It makes me feel really privileged
14:21That Ross wants to share ice skating with me when it means so much to him because he used to go of his dad
14:26It's definitely nice that he's put some thought into this date. Don't be foolish wrong. It's exactly what we needed
14:33It's like a weight off my shoulders
14:36It's nice to just have some fun
14:49Senora I cannot get your apron off
14:58People made a good team there really see together we're stronger in some ways
15:06I was a bit worried, especially after seeing you put leave like I was not gonna I was a bit devastated. I didn't see it coming
15:16And you've not learned from Mel's since the couch because you've made a few inappropriate comments today
15:22Which I just brushed past and have you not seen me? I'm comfortable a few times today. What's gonna poop what sexual comments?
15:29Just a few little bits
15:32And that's that makes me sad, you know, because
15:36It's the last thing I wanted to do to you is make you feel like that
15:40Maybe if I did trust you the sexual comments and things that I wouldn't make me feel uncomfortable
15:45What I don't trust you
15:51Relationships are built on trust friendships are built on trust
15:54Marriages are built on trust if we can't trust each other then we're not gonna go anywhere
16:01So I've prepared some questions for you
16:05You've got to answer honestly truthful. This is a no bullshit zone
16:11Okay, first question
16:15So what is the worst thing about our relationship I
16:21Feel
16:24I
16:27Yeah, the worst part of our relationship is that I feel we are very
16:34This distant from each other the physical distance as well there have been many times where I've
16:41seen you in the kitchen and I just want to literally just put my hands on you and just
16:48Turn your life upside down in a nice way. Okay moving swiftly forward
16:54Do you like for me to portray yourself as someone you think I want or need
16:59Absolutely. No, I do not lie in any shape or form to better myself
17:03so to say that
17:06You've never done butler in the buffing before is that not trying to make yourself look better?
17:11At those instances. Yes, those interests have come across like but in the
17:16Initially the intention was never ever and that's truthful
17:20Okay, so next question and I want you to be the most honest that you've ever been
17:29Can you actually truthfully tell me how many relationships you've had
17:33Because of his I lived in mortars well, yeah
17:37Why is he taking so long? I asked him at the beginning how many relationships he'd had. He said one and two relationships
17:46What the fuck?
17:51Eight
17:56Eight
17:59Eight
18:03Oh
18:06It's a lot more than two yes, there's more than two
18:10Like that's six six people that you've failed to tell me you've been in a relationship with. Yeah
18:18Obviously, I am shocked
18:22How can I ever trust this person?
18:25But even that numbers put me inaccurate
18:32Oh
18:39Bollocks
18:42I'm definitely very upset that Amy's just walked out. It's very frustrating because I'm being honest now and you know
18:48She's getting grief from my honesty as well
18:54How many relationships have you been in
18:57You
19:02Potentially 15 to cover myself
19:17We're taking me now, I've got a little surprise
19:26You
19:29This is all for you
19:33It'll be really nice to sit down with Adam on our final day having a big overview of
19:39Everything that's happened from the wedding day up down in between and reminisce over the last few weeks. I
19:47Just wanted something fun
19:49Considering it's our final
19:52date
19:53our final ever date
19:55No, hopefully whatever
19:57Well, I'm glad that we're here anyway, and I had a really good time. Yeah, I'm good
20:03On the wedding day I was ridiculously nervous one
20:06Uh, I think it was really nice that obviously both our families gone because we are both very family orientated. That's nice
20:13So that you fit in quite nicely
20:16my favorite memory
20:18From the honeymoons. I'm at a snowball fight and I was throwing snowball grenades at you
20:22And you're saying how amazing I am and it made me a bit emotional did that yeah, that's quite cute
20:29What would a final date be without some present
20:34This is from me
20:38I'll shut up
20:43Good in it
20:46It's got some stuff in it of ours because you said you want a memory box
20:50So I thought I'd make you one. I was just a cork from the honeymoon first caught from Trentino
21:06Suit looks good there than it and your dress
21:10Good yeah
21:12Adam's gift to me is really really thoughtful. He has got it bang on
21:16He knows that I love a memory box and he knows that I love keeping
21:20Loads of little bits throughout our journey since being here as well as at home. So yeah ten out of ten from him
21:36Certificates of adoption
21:38This certifies that peanut has been formally adopted by Polly's husband Adam
21:45I can't wait for you to be my daddy
21:50Thank you very thoughtful I'll do a cheers to the journey that we've had good and bad
21:59Cheers to us and to the future, hopefully
22:02I
22:11Have to walk it out on Luke at the final day
22:13My head's literally all over the place
22:15Just made me feel really angry that something else has come out from under the covers with regards to these past relationships
22:21I just need some space away from Luke right now. I'm done with listening and I've got a lot of thinking to do
22:32I
22:36Did feel like there was no hope yesterday
22:45For coming on a final date is definitely helpful
22:49Thank you. I'm happy to have an open and honest conversation with Ross
22:56Maybe we should talk about the commitment ceremony yesterday. Yeah
23:02And yesterday was a really really hard day for me
23:09It it felt right to leave yeah dad
23:15But it's nice to get some advice from the expert as well
23:20From now on I'm gonna try and make everything work my copy again. Yeah
23:26We love each other's death
23:29yeah, well as long as you're confident on that I am because we will find a way to make it work and
23:37I'm definitely looking forward to just starting our life together on the outside
23:41but I
23:44Think our biggest obstacle at the moment is who's gonna move where?
23:49I
23:55Think it's really hard not to be worried about the moving dilemma
24:00I just feel like you might get home and want to stay there and
24:05We end up drifting apart
24:08It's been a mad experience, I'm glad we're there and I feel happier
24:16Got to know you more
24:19While I first started I just knew you're gonna be the one. Did ya? I did ya. Why?
24:23I don't know, just something clicked in my head
24:27a little bit
24:28That's what I love about you as well, the way you do sign language. Oh, yeah
24:33I mean, I could tell you're very passionate about it
24:36I started learning before because of my job and for work and working in the deaf community. You expect me to do sign language as well?
24:44Hard teacher
24:49Well, I got you something. Oh, yeah
24:52What I got you is, well, it's important to you. Okay
24:57Sorry. Oh, no, I'm stressed
25:04It's a locket
25:06Oh
25:18It's Oliver Diego
25:22Look at Diego's fatted. Diego's a fat cat. He's fatted, taking up the whole house
25:29Oh
25:33Ross
25:34This gift is so thoughtful and so cute. He's definitely doing a good job at putting a smile on my face again. I
25:42Got what I asked for it from the experts. I
25:45Asked for you if I had to draw my dream man, and then I wrote inside what he was like
25:52It would be you
25:54You know one of them grown you grow your own husbands, that'd be you
26:00You
26:01Planned such a nice day and I've loved ice skating. This is so romantic. This is a bit of me
26:09so, um
26:11I've got a surprise for you as well
26:13Do you want to see?
26:15You're gonna love it
26:18Haha
26:27Do you know do you know what it is?
26:28So, you know because your dad was Irish
26:31It's hands a heart and a crown and it means something like I hold your heart in my hands and crown it with my love
26:38so this is a little reminder of
26:41Me and our journey and how I feel about you and also a little bit of your dad as well because it's it's Irish
26:47I love it. Thank you. Thank you
26:50It looks like now you've got an engagement ring in a wedding ring
26:57Everybody comes into this open. They're gonna find someone but then
27:01you almost doubt it as well because of
27:05You think all could you actually happen? Would I be that lucky but I think we was
27:10very lucky
27:11Don't you bang on?
27:17I'm glad I stayed in the experiment in the end because I've had such a lovely day and it shows that when me and Ross are
27:24Good, it's magical
27:26So it is definitely worth giving this another go
27:30My vowels a bit scared. I may be deaf, but I will always
27:36hear you
27:40I
27:44Was cute
27:53What's your high been of the
27:56Experiment so far my high would probably be homestays really hands-down
28:02Yeah, it was nice to see you with all your friends family niece nephews
28:07Actually see a different side of you
28:11Glad you got to see that side. Hmm
28:15Then we had love-hate week
28:20Which was interesting
28:24Mine to you where you're very romantic you don't tell me I'm beautiful
28:31You don't talk to me about how you think about me
28:34I'm sure compliments. Anyway, always I've been probably always will be
28:39That's what the issue is, how do I navigate?
28:43Being okay with not getting what I normally have because I like you that's what I'm trying to say
28:48This is what I mean. No, this is a conversation that
28:52We need to kind of talk about
28:56I've been telling you since day one. That's not me. No, I know but still now you still wanting it
29:01I don't know what you want me to do what you want me to say
29:09I feel like I am always slightly frustrated with Adam
29:13I don't think Adam understands how vulnerable and emotional I actually am
29:17Because he can't voice to me how he feels about me
29:20Which I feel like if you liked someone it would be so natural but for him it isn't
29:27How do you feel like now towards me compared to like the wedding day like how do you feel
29:39I
29:41Hesitation is an answer in itself
29:44Fact that I didn't even know me on the wedding day compared to now where he's not giving me anything is actually quite insulting
29:52I mean, I watch fine
29:54fab
29:56To even just say
29:58Well, I've got to know you a lot more as a person and I really like that compared to fucking looking into the abyss
30:04This world like declare my love for you or some are no, but you could say something along the lines of well
30:09Yeah, there obviously is something there. We have spoke about Lee like what we're gonna do when we leave
30:15like
30:17This is where we went from that massive argument where it's like you want this I want this I want this
30:21But I'm what I need you. I need to be made to not feel uncomfortable. I
30:26Feel like you're giving me what you want to give me and you're not giving me what I want
30:34It's never been an issue with other partners when I'm giving them the world
30:38I'm not need reassurance, but I do that's what I mean. I can't I can't give reassurance
30:43That's not me
30:44But I'm not asking for it. Always once a blue moon might be nice. I don't really feel like I've had it once in six weeks
30:50I'm gonna sit there and go I care about you, you know, because that's what you do
30:54That's not what I do and I don't think I will ever be that guy
30:56But you've got to understand that what I'm saying is this is what I want and need and this is what I would like
31:01from you and
31:03It's just not there
31:06Anyone can say words. It's not about words. It's about action. Yeah, but
31:10Your actions still don't really validate me enough to show me that you like me in that way. They do apart from sex
31:20We're just we're gonna go around in circles now
31:24Today give me something to think about I do feel like the old Polly is slowly creeping back
31:29I'm just bored of it. To be honest. I really need to think where me and Polly go from here
31:45I have had time to think about what happened on the final day and
31:49I do feel like I overreacted a little bit and I feel a little bit guilty
31:54All I've asked for him to do the whole process is be honest and I still walked out so a little bit unfair for me
31:59I really care about Amy. I want to really give it a chance outside of the experiment
32:06Of course, I'm worried that all of this lying and the white lies can cause me to lose Amy
32:13So it's important for me to make amends
32:16How you feeling the bit disappointed that I was finally dates, you know was going so well and
32:23Ended up the way it did. I know I
32:27Really appreciate you being honest. Obviously it was a no bullshit zone
32:32And I'm sorry, I walked out, but it was a shock. Yeah
32:38Let's just not talk about it. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry
32:45Speak about previous relationships anymore. You know, I'm really sorry. Please accept my apology because I'm
32:52I'm so gutted
32:54I'm sorry
32:56That I pushed you in that moment. I
32:59regret that as well
33:02By seeing us within a
33:04Better mood now both of us. I thought maybe I can give you a little gift
33:11I
33:13Really regret taking the wedding ring off in black burn. I was
33:19breaking our commitment
33:22You never deserve that no matter how angry I was
33:25So I think it's nice that we can you know, at least consider
33:30Bringing the rings back on and then fighting for the commitment that we've made to each other
33:35If
33:38We put the rings back on are you gonna be taking it off again? Mm-hmm. This is the worry. I
33:44Definitely would wear it proudly
33:47Mmm marriages obviously with the good and the bad, isn't it?
33:51Yes
33:56I'm happy to put them back on. Well, that's nice. Do you want me to put on for you? Yes, please
34:06And
34:10Then I'll put yours on for you
34:14There you go, there you go, okay, that's better no taking it off and I won't launch mine across again I
34:23Think Amy really likes the rings. It's the start of new beginnings
34:26I'm gonna really try and stay away from any white lies and hopefully that honesty and consistency will give us longevity
34:35I
34:52This is beautiful, so this is a second part of the date that organized the lace nice little drink bubbly underneath the stars
34:59I
35:10Never thought that coming into the experiment I'd find love for someone but saying the words I love you is a really big deal
35:18Cheers
35:20Started off a little bit rocky with feeling a bit ill on the helicopter ride. So this is my second chance
35:26I hope that she feels the same way that I feel about her
35:30So today was quite like special, wasn't it?
35:32Can you believe it's gonna be the last one before we've renewed our vows the last day mad?
35:37We've had such a beautiful journey
35:40It's a weird one because when you go into it, you think well, it's just strange a lot
35:45I've known nothing about what's their intentions coming into this. I don't even know what you look like
35:50So and then you turn around for my sister and said wow
35:54I turn around see you and I went you look nice quite nice. Yeah, you've never called me nice ever again. Yeah
36:02When we're at the honeymoon
36:04It was definitely like a bit of a wobble a few points
36:09Communication wasn't the best thing and you wasn't open up to me as much
36:13for me it takes a lot of time to like
36:17Gain the trust of someone. Yeah, I must say you've come on so much
36:24That you surprised me. I think you've surprised everyone and I'm so proud of you
36:30Thank you, babes has it been better than you thought? Yeah, definitely. Yeah
36:35Surprised me surprised me. Yeah, same. I didn't think I'd
36:38Get a strong connection like this and feel the way I feel I get a best friend as well. Yeah
36:45Yeah
36:48Cheers by the way, cheers. Thank you so much
36:51Yeah, sorry, I am
36:53Got a little bit trouble sick up in the sky though. Don't be silly. I felt sorry for you more than anything
36:57I am your wife for a reason. So stick me a sunny nail. Yeah
37:02Yeah, no, I am. I want to make it all like romantic in that
37:07You know keep it cool fly of a few skyscrapers and that like proper good stuff. Mm-hmm. I
37:12Have done flowers before I have done like spontaneous stuff before
37:15I don't think I've ever done anything like I've done for you. I
37:19Think you're a very amazing girl and you're very beautiful and you have a very good heart
37:28It's nice
37:31Well
37:34Yeah
37:38I just want to say
37:41I just wanna say
37:49Love you to the stars and back
38:01Can't believe Nathan said that he loves me. We're like the luckiest girl ever. I love you as well. I actually do
38:09Yeah, I do I do I do love him I do love him and I am falling from more and more
38:16Okay, so I've got you a little gift and can you close your eyes yes no peeking I won't
38:27Open it
38:39Oh, did you see that boys take the batteries out that one?
38:45Well, yeah, I love it I love it I got you a gift as well, okay, but you're ready yeah, okay you can close
38:53Yeah, why not?
38:58Okay, okay
39:04Yeah
39:08Don't read it babes
39:11The star Lacey has been dedicated to my wife. Oh my god
39:33The helicopter was like
39:36Now you put me a fucking star
39:43Sometimes I will a distant star line in the universe
39:46When I feel the light of your affection, I know that you're here with me and I look into your eyes
39:52I see the universe reflect
39:55Can't believe
39:59No one's ever done anything like that for me
40:01I've always been blocked
40:10That's honestly beautiful
40:19Thank you so much
40:25I knew that I was gonna buy Lacey a star
40:28So the fact that she bought me a teddy bear that's got a voice in it saying love you to from the stars and back
40:33I never think so like sky related and stars related
40:37It's just amazing in it. So hopefully
40:42It continues to go in the right direction
40:45Into the sunset. It's what I have a little dance. I'd love a little dance
40:49I
40:55Feel really emotional. I feel really grateful that I've met Nathan and no one's ever done anything like this for me before
41:07So happy and it's a beautiful feeling to be his wife
41:13And I do love him to the stars and back
41:20The next time
41:23The wives and husbands go on a big night out with some familiar faces making a return
41:35But not everyone is welcomed with open arms
41:40There's shocking revelations Adams said that he doesn't know if he sees a future with me
41:44No, how many husbands have you run off with since you've left the experiment you're meeting up with Ryan
41:51You have got zero girl code, but it's hard to hear home truths
41:55Amy is an amazing girl, but I don't think you make happy that caused the biggest heartbreak of the night
42:01You know, you are worth more than Adam can give you
42:06She's trying to craft me into her perfect man
42:09Right, it's a real battle at the moment between head and heart
42:39You