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00:00Welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:25To all of our Facebook and YouTube viewers, thank you very much.
00:28To all of our listeners on DZEW, welcome to the program.
00:33We are a family.
00:35We have a family of visitors this afternoon.
00:38Please welcome Ariel Angeli.
00:43Happy birthday!
00:47Happiest, happiest birthday.
00:49Thank you. Thank you very much.
00:55Can you do it? Boy, can you do it?
01:02No, I'm still socializing.
01:06Please. Thank you very much.
01:09How are you guys? Thank you.
01:10Good, good, good.
01:11Thank you for being here.
01:12It's good to be here.
01:13I know.
01:14We hardly ever see each other.
01:16No, we don't see each other, but we're part of each other's lives.
01:19Definitely.
01:20Especially you two.
01:21The last time he saw you was his last interview here.
01:24Correct.
01:25And the last time you saw each other was…
01:27And the last time I spoke to him was when I called him on his birthday.
01:31Actually, right?
01:32Happy birthday.
01:33But you know what, Angeli?
01:34Look at yourself.
01:35Just look at yourself.
01:37Why are you so sexy?
01:39And why are you so beautiful?
01:41No, I'm not.
01:43This is not a ball.
01:44This is my birthday.
01:45I'm not going to kiss you.
01:46This is not your birthday.
01:47Yes.
01:48You look so good.
01:49You know the last time you were here?
01:50I'm going to say that too.
01:52Thank you. Thank you so much.
01:53Look at it.
01:54The last time you were here,
01:55I thought that this woman was trying to show off.
01:58Yeah.
01:59Actually, I have to be on my toes too.
02:01Because if I don't, they might think that I'm their security guard.
02:05Especially when we're in Canada,
02:07they think that I'm their son.
02:10Oh my God.
02:11I'm their son.
02:12I'm not their son.
02:13Is there such a thing?
02:16But you look so good.
02:17Thank you. Thank you.
02:18Because as you get older,
02:20you really need to take care of yourself.
02:22That just helps.
02:25You know, there are a lot of ways to look good.
02:29But I feel like as you get older,
02:31you need to really take care of yourself.
02:33So you last longer.
02:34I mean, it's not just your skin or whatever.
02:37It's the whole shebang.
02:39No, but it's still a big thing
02:42that comes from the inside.
02:44I think more than anything, that's what it is.
02:47I've tried all the moisturizers.
02:50Hey, but boy, you look really young.
02:52Boy, we were talking about it earlier.
02:55He said,
02:57he can't be that young.
02:59No, he's not that young.
03:00When we realized how old you were,
03:02I said, boy, he doesn't look like he's...
03:03No, but Wikipedia is wrong.
03:05I'm a lot younger.
03:06What did he say on Wikipedia?
03:07Let's not talk about that.
03:09That's it.
03:10Let's not talk about that.
03:11So they're wrong?
03:12That's wrong.
03:13I told you.
03:14So it's not right.
03:15So it's not his age.
03:17No, that's wrong.
03:18I told them.
03:19I've been appealing to Wikipedia,
03:21please change it and go to the facts, okay?
03:23Because it shows you're 11 years older than I am.
03:25No, it's not.
03:26Yeah, I didn't think so either.
03:27No, but how do you do it
03:30that you are still intensely interested with each other?
03:34We are.
03:35In everything.
03:36No, I can't see it.
03:37We are genuinely interested in each other's lives
03:39outside our relationship.
03:42I do things on my own.
03:44She does things on her own.
03:45So when we get home...
03:46There's something to talk about.
03:47There's something to talk about.
03:48We're interesting.
03:49We're not together.
03:50Okay.
03:51Building stories, right?
03:52We're always together,
03:53but we still have separate lives.
03:57Yeah.
03:58I still need to bring something home that's different.
04:03You have to grow as a person.
04:05I also have to be independent.
04:07I'm his wife, but I'm also jelly.
04:10I'm the mom, but I'm also jelly.
04:12At the end of the day,
04:13I'm a person.
04:14You have to be complete
04:15for you to be able to give that love,
04:17to give good love to your family
04:20or to whoever you're with.
04:22Because if you're not complete,
04:23if you're not sure,
04:24if you're not free,
04:25if you're not growing,
04:27then that's where the problem is, I think.
04:29It's admirable when we see couples like you
04:32that you're aware that we need to be interested in each other.
04:37We cannot be together 24 hours
04:39and still know your way back
04:42because others can't.
04:44Ariel avoids getting into situations wherein...
04:50Yeah.
04:51I don't know if you do it intentionally,
04:54but he doesn't like to party.
04:56He doesn't like to socialize.
04:58That's a big plus for me
05:00because I don't have to worry about all the parties he likes to go to
05:04because he doesn't like to go to parties.
05:06It's usually that's where the temptation starts
05:10when you socialize and even at work.
05:13How do you stay faithful?
05:15We have one common goal.
05:18We believe in...
05:19We are God-fearing.
05:21I mean, it's so generalized,
05:22but we're God-fearing,
05:23and I was raised by my dad,
05:25and my dad's like that.
05:26Growing up, I saw how much he loved my mom,
05:29so that's what he showed me.
05:32So that's the only role I know how to portray.
05:36So I think it's not difficult for me.
05:40Are you the type of wife who gets sulky?
05:43Are you the type of wife who gets angry?
05:45Let's ask my husband.
05:47She may seem like it.
05:48I don't think so.
05:49Me too.
05:50Because I would have done it before already.
05:53No, you're also all bark.
05:55You're right.
05:56When I'm really angry,
05:58I am quiet.
05:59Yes.
06:00Am I correct in what I'm saying?
06:02Yes, correct.
06:03I figure that out.
06:04When I'm really angry,
06:06I'm still okay.
06:09But when I'm quiet,
06:10I can't do it anymore.
06:11I really can't.
06:13Money.
06:14Do you talk about money?
06:15Yes.
06:16Always.
06:17You have to.
06:18A lot of couples out there
06:19should understand this.
06:20It's important, right?
06:21Don't other people talk about it?
06:23Sometimes, it's assumed.
06:25That's not allowed?
06:26It's not allowed.
06:27It's not allowed.
06:28And I feel that it's important
06:30to never assume that your partner
06:32fully understood what you meant.
06:36Or never assume that your partner
06:39should actually know who you are already
06:42or how you feel.
06:43Because that's where the fights start.
06:48He should know that I don't like that.
06:51Do I still need to tell him?
06:53We're not materialistic people.
06:55I told the people here that.
06:57I said, you know,
06:58if I want to go into a conversation
07:00with Jel and Ariel,
07:01it's very simple.
07:02It's simple.
07:03It's simple, yes.
07:04You don't have a lifestyle.
07:06We really don't.
07:08We like to buy.
07:09We buy stuff that are nice
07:10because this is the work we do.
07:13I think it's part of it as well.
07:15Otherwise, you come to our house.
07:16We're in our...
07:18What was your biggest misconception
07:21about Ariel?
07:23I'll tell you the truth.
07:25His age.
07:27That was the only misconception
07:29because when I met him,
07:30he said he was 20.
07:32What did you say?
07:3322.
07:34At that time, he was already 25.
07:3624.
07:37He was already 24.
07:38It was only 2 years.
07:39That was my biggest misconception about him.
07:41You thought he was older?
07:43Younger.
07:44I thought he was younger.
07:46That was our packaging.
07:4722, right?
07:4822.
07:49Because you want to market.
07:50This is your market.
07:51That was the biggest.
07:52Because of all the other misconceptions,
07:56I don't think I had misconceptions.
07:58I just saw him for who he is.
08:00And what you saw was who he was.
08:02Right? Who he was.
08:03I didn't have any preconceived expectations.
08:06I just...
08:07He's like that.
08:09How about you, Riel?
08:10How about you, Jelly?
08:11Yeah.
08:12When I first met her,
08:14I thought she's really loud.
08:16Because she's loud.
08:17She's loud.
08:18She's just loud.
08:19She's still loud.
08:20Thanks.
08:22But she really is such a genuine,
08:26thoughtful person.
08:28Very thoughtful.
08:29I appreciated the stuff she did.
08:32Because in a relationship,
08:34people do things so they can get something in return.
08:38She just kept giving and giving and giving.
08:43And I've never experienced that with anybody else.
08:46That's how I am.
08:48But did you guys fight?
08:50No.
08:51No.
08:52We didn't.
08:53We didn't fight.
08:54We disagree about things,
08:58but it never or it doesn't have to get to the point
09:01that we have to fight.
09:03We're not selfish.
09:04So we don't seek things from each other.
09:06I don't ask her things that I know that she can't give.
09:11It's vice versa.
09:13And if something comes up,
09:16it's brought up right away.
09:18So she doesn't have to fight.
09:20She just accepts it.
09:21She knows I'm like that.
09:23I know she's like that.
09:24So why should I expect her to give and ask for things?
09:29How much do you know about the lives of kids?
09:34I'm sorry, not kids.
09:36Wacky and his kids.
09:38Wacky and his kids.
09:40Well, there will always be kids.
09:41There will always be my kids, right?
09:43Yes.
09:44Wacky and Julio.
09:46In the context of money,
09:50in the context of love life,
09:52in the context of friends,
09:53how much do you know?
09:56The answer is coming back to Fast Talk with Bohe Abunda.
10:03We're back here in Fast Talk with Bohe Abunda
10:05with Jelly and Ariel.
10:08Before we talk about the boys,
10:10let's talk about friendship.
10:13Your friends are very visible, right?
10:15Yes.
10:16I enjoy some of your discussions.
10:18I get caught sometimes.
10:19Were you comfortable from the very beginning, Ariel?
10:21With Jelly's friends?
10:24And vice versa?
10:26Yes, very comfortable with her friends.
10:28With Carmina.
10:30Actually, they're my friends.
10:32I'm very close to them.
10:35As far as I can get as close to them.
10:38That's weird.
10:40As far as you can get close to them.
10:42Maybe later we'll flirt with them.
10:44We'll have a manicure and pedicure.
10:47It's not like that.
10:49As long as you're not there.
10:52They'll have a manicure and pedicure.
10:54I'm nervous.
10:56But from the very beginning,
10:57you didn't have a hard time?
10:59No.
11:00Before we talk about your friends in Fast Talk,
11:03Jelly, Ariel in the morning,
11:05Ariel in the evening?
11:06Every day, all day.
11:08Ariel's stare or hug?
11:10Both.
11:11A cunning wife or a cunning wife?
11:15A cunning wife.
11:16Loud or quiet?
11:18Loud.
11:19Always beautiful or always sexy?
11:21Always all of them.
11:23Ariel is handsome all the time?
11:25All day.
11:26Do you flirt with Ariel all the time?
11:29All day.
11:31That's how it is.
11:33Are you sweet to Ariel all the time?
11:35If she likes me.
11:38Jelly in the past or now?
11:40Now.
11:41Ariel, jelly in the kitchen or in the room?
11:44In the room.
11:45Jelly in the past or now?
11:46Now.
11:47A cunning wife or a cunning wife?
11:49A cunning wife.
11:50Random or scheduled?
11:52Random.
11:53Under the wife or under the children?
11:56Both.
11:57Is Jelly the sexiest when?
11:59When she's in the room.
12:00Is Jelly the most annoying when?
12:02When she's in the room.
12:04Are you annoyed with Jelly when?
12:06When she's in the room.
12:10For both of you.
12:11Who peed the most?
12:14Who's the longest in the bathroom?
12:18Who's always following you?
12:21You thought it was me?
12:23Right?
12:24You thought it was all of us, right?
12:26Who's the most clingy?
12:28Me.
12:29Who's the most jealous?
12:31None.
12:32Who has a hard head?
12:34Me.
12:35Who doesn't want to lose?
12:37You.
12:38Who's the first to get mad?
12:40Me.
12:41Both.
12:42Guilty or not guilty?
12:44Not guilty.
12:47Guilty or not guilty?
12:50Not guilty.
12:55Not guilty.
12:59Not guilty.
13:02Not guilty.
13:05Lights off.
13:08I don't care.
13:09I don't care.
13:10Happiness or chocolates?
13:12Happiness.
13:13Best time for happiness?
13:15All day, every day.
13:18All day, every day.
13:21The boys, you know.
13:24How much do you know each other?
13:26I remember the discussion you had with Carmina.
13:29Which one of those?
13:30One of those.
13:32Your girlfriend.
13:34I remember you saying that.
13:35I said it.
13:36You had that discussion with...
13:39With our podcast.
13:41Your podcast.
13:42We didn't have a title yet.
13:44Yes.
13:45I remember I said,
13:47this is something that I learned from my mother-in-law,
13:49from his mom.
13:51Mom said,
13:52when it comes to her daughters-in-law,
13:57she welcomes them.
14:00I love them as my daughters
14:02because they're the ones taking care of my children.
14:06So,
14:07if I fight with them,
14:09what will happen to their relationship with my children?
14:12My children will also have a hard time.
14:14I said, yes, that's right.
14:16If I antagonize my children's girlfriend,
14:22my children will have unnecessary stress.
14:26How will they take care of my children
14:28if I'm the one who's causing trouble in their situation?
14:33Now,
14:34I think the discussion was,
14:36what if you don't have a title?
14:38She's bad.
14:39That's the hard part.
14:41You really have to pray,
14:43please, please let them find somebody who's right for them.
14:47That's the hard part.
14:48You have to hold on to that.
14:49Yes, just hold on to the Lord.
14:51As much as they allow us to enter whatever they have now,
14:56then we're thankful.
14:58But when we leave,
15:00I tell them,
15:02just think of it like this.
15:03When you have a girlfriend,
15:04we'll always accept your girlfriends.
15:08But there's going to come a point
15:09where there's going to be conflict between the two of you.
15:12You have to ask yourself,
15:15does this person make me a better person or not?
15:19Because if she doesn't make you a better person,
15:22then maybe it's not worth it.
15:23Maybe you shouldn't be together.
15:24But is there a chance that you didn't like someone
15:28who was denated by...
15:29By the children?
15:30Yes.
15:32Because they look happy.
15:33They're happy.
15:34Correct.
15:35As long as they're happy and then...
15:36They're still focused on their schooling.
15:38Yeah, nothing is amiss.
15:41That's fine.
15:42And because it's only been a year, right?
15:44Julia and...
15:45A year, almost two.
15:46Two years.
15:47Almost two.
15:48That's why they're friends.
15:49Yes, they're super close.
15:51That's why I think that's an advantage also.
15:53They have each other.
15:55They have each other.
15:56I think that's a big plus.
15:58It's also a big relief for us that they're away.
16:02At least we know that they've got each other's back.
16:05You know, they even have this app on their phone
16:08that they know where each other is at all times
16:11that they can check.
16:12Where's Kuya?
16:13Ah, okay.
16:14He knows.
16:15Yes.
16:16So, at least that's one of the things that makes me happy.
16:23And that's one of the biggest blessings I think you have in your life.
16:26You've raised two very good boys.
16:29I think that is the best compliment I could ever get.
16:32I would ever want to get.
16:34Me too.
16:35Is how I would raise my children.
16:37Because that's what's important for us.
16:40That's our thing.
16:42You can tell me I'm like this, I'm like that,
16:44but then if you tell me my children are good,
16:46that's the best compliment I could ever get.
16:49The boys are watching.
16:50What do you want to tell them?
16:52You, Jelly.
16:56That I'm proud of them, that I love them,
17:06I'm proud of the man that they are becoming,
17:09and I'm proud of the man that they will be.
17:12I pray every day for them.
17:16I pray every day that they'd be guided
17:19and live their lives with integrity.
17:22And I just, I want them to be happy.
17:25And if there's any way that we can make it easier for them
17:30to get there, we are here.
17:34Even if we're not around.
17:38Really, Kal.
17:40What would you want to tell your boys?
17:42I just want to say I love you boys,
17:46and I'm very proud of you.
17:50Thank you for allowing us to still be your parents
17:55and act as your parents.
17:59We are blessed to have you guys.
18:03It got emotional.
18:05That's why I don't want it to start again.
18:09They're like that.
18:12Especially at that age.
18:15They're already adults,
18:17and they're the ones who are going to be the fathers.
18:20They're the ones who are going to be the fathers.
18:23You're the one who's going to finish this.
18:25When we were recording that album,
18:28that was one of the favorites.
18:30Yeah.
18:31I think so.
18:34Yeah.
18:35Especially from that album.
18:37From that album.
18:38Definitely, definitely.
18:40Because his first album was like his breakout.
18:43All the songs from that first album did very well.
18:46He was surprised.
18:47I was surprised.
18:48Everybody was surprised.
18:49Boy and I, it was just, I don't know.
18:52It's crazy.
18:55My first on-stage performance was at Ultra.
19:00And then Boy said,
19:01Martin, Pops has a show.
19:03It's called 1212.
19:05I'll be your guest.
19:06Oh my God.
19:07Who was directing it?
19:08Martin, right?
19:10Roel, maybe.
19:11I think it's Roel.
19:13He'd never heard me sing yet.
19:15You haven't heard him sing yet?
19:18Aren't you nervous?
19:20You're going to sing at the show of Concert Queen?
19:23I'm going to sing.
19:25I don't have a minus.
19:26I don't have a music cheat.
19:28So Martin, he says,
19:30You know the song?
19:32You can learn the song.
19:33Use my play.
19:35Martin?
19:36Yes.
19:37That's so nice of him.
19:38And then before going on stage,
19:41going up on stage,
19:43because of nervousness,
19:45I had to pee.
19:46So I went underneath the stage.
19:48You peed?
19:49Oh my God.
19:50I'm so nervous.
19:51I've never performed in front of people.
19:53Are you okay?
19:55You can sing, right?
19:56You can do it, right?
19:57And you had never heard him sing?
19:59He never heard me sing.
20:00Okay.
20:01So when he went up,
20:02you tell us.
20:03He already sang.
20:06Oh my God.
20:08I went out.
20:09Then I came back.
20:10He can sing.
20:12He can sing.
20:13Did you hear him?
20:14Yes.
20:15But it's so hard.
20:16What's his voice?
20:17It's okay.
20:18He can do it.
20:19His voice is coming out.
20:20I'm so nervous.
20:21I will never forget that moment.
20:22Okay.
20:23So when you went down on stage,
20:24how was it?
20:25The response of the audience was different.
20:28So the connection between the two is really different.
20:30It's different.
20:31The connection between the two is different
20:32because you went through that together.
20:34No.
20:35I mean, he was introduced to me by Venny Saturno.
20:37Yes.
20:38Okay?
20:39But there was no singing.
20:40None.
20:41None.
20:42None.
20:43None.
20:44You accepted a talent that you haven't heard him sing.
20:45Gut feel.
20:46Gut feel.
20:47Jelly.
20:48Gut feel.
20:49A lot of things happen in this business because of that.
20:50True.
20:51And your voice is strong.
20:52Magic.
20:53I have a question.
20:54I know this is your show.
20:55But since it's your birthday,
20:56if there was anything you wanted to tell Ariel
20:59that you've never told him before,
21:01coming from whatever,
21:02you talk about everything.
21:03But you don't talk often.
21:05What do you want to thank him for?
21:07Thank you so much, Ariel.
21:08Thank you for...
21:10I don't know what it was.
21:12Thank you for believing in me.
21:14Thank you for trusting me.
21:16Thank you for...
21:20A large part of who I am
21:22is our connection.
21:25My heart is strong.
21:30But my heart is even stronger
21:32because I tried our journey.
21:35We're not going anywhere.
21:37This is not...
21:38You know, I was a publicist.
21:40This is not...
21:41He and I sat down and we had a game plan.
21:44None of that.
21:45All of this is feelings and prayers.
21:47Yeah.
21:48And for Boy's birthday,
21:50if there was anything you wanted to thank Boy for,
21:52what would it be?
21:54When I talk to Boy about Boy,
21:57I cry because he's family.
22:00He's like my brother.
22:02Like what my mom said,
22:05if there's one, one, one person
22:07that I can thank who changed my life,
22:09that would be you, Boy.
22:12Without you, I wouldn't...
22:16Not what I've achieved.
22:18I've achieved nothing.
22:19I wouldn't have the life with my wife.
22:22I wouldn't even have my boys.
22:24And that's all due to you.
22:26So because of you, you changed my life.
22:29And I want to thank you for always being there.
22:32Yeah, we worked as partners.
22:34But you're always the rock behind me.
22:37You gave me security.
22:39You gave me confidence.
22:42I always knew something came up.
22:45And something always came up.
22:46I knew Boy was always going to have my back.
22:53Hug it out.
22:54Hug it out.
22:55Oh.
22:56Thank you, Boy.
22:57You know, you're like the director here.
23:01But I want to tell you something also.
23:06Our life is so public, Shelly.
23:09I wanted to thank you
23:11because I couldn't believe that I didn't like you.
23:17Yeah.
23:27Wait.
23:29Our world is so noisy.
23:31I'm just going to start.
23:38But you know what?
23:39This is only known in Cebu.
23:57Thank you for saying that.
23:59I've always appreciated your presence in our life, Boy.
24:05I think I've voiced that out many times.
24:08Yeah.
24:09And like Ariel, I am truly grateful
24:13because if not for you, I wouldn't be here with this guy.
24:19God is so kind.
24:20I think it's fate.
24:21Right?
24:22Thank you so much.
24:24Thank you for having us.
24:25They're afraid that we won't finish.
24:27Not really.
24:29We love you, Boy.
24:30I love you, Ariel.
24:31I love you, Shelly.
24:32I love you.
24:33Happy birthday!
24:34Thank you for celebrating my birthday with me, Boy.
24:38Thank you, Ariel.
24:41Thank you so much.
24:42Mother and Father, thank you so much
24:44for letting us in your homes and hearts every day.
24:47And be kind.
24:49Make your mother and father proud.
24:50Say thank you.
24:51And do one good thing a day.
24:52And make this world a better place.
24:54Goodbye for now.
24:55God bless.