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00:00Good morning, Philippines!
00:13Good afternoon, Philippines and the entire world!
00:16Good afternoon, my heart!
00:18Please allow me to take 20 minutes of your afternoon.
00:20I'm Boy, and welcome to FASTALK with Boy Abunda.
00:23It's an exciting afternoon, hot, hot, hot afternoon because we have gorgeous ladies,
00:41hot mamas.
00:42Please welcome, Ina Raimunda and Sunshine Cruz!
00:54Hi, how are you?
01:02Hi, Ina.
01:04I know.
01:06The last time I saw your photos, you did the fashion show.
01:10Yes.
01:11It's called Hinihiyawan Tinitilian ng Mga Mananood.
01:15Sample naman yung walk na yun, kung paano kayo pumasok, kung paano kayo lumakad sa fashion
01:23show.
01:24Five, six, seven, eight.
01:25Okay.
01:26Ako naman, nakatiba ako nun eh, no?
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09:24Describe yourself as a mother.
09:25Very strong.
09:26Describe yourself as a woman.
09:29Very contented.
09:30Lights on or lights off?
09:32Lights on.
09:33Happiness or chocolates?
09:35Chocolates.
09:36Wow.
09:37Must be really good.
09:38Best time for chocolates.
09:39Best time for chocolates?
09:40Night time.
09:41Okay.
09:42At 47, I have become...
09:43Resilient.
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10:22The Ageless, Ina and Sunshine.
10:25Let's do a fast talk.
10:26It's our turn, Ina.
10:30Okay.
10:32Saturday night or Sunday morning?
10:34Saturday night.
10:35Sobra-sobra or kulang-kulang?
10:37Sobra-sobra.
10:38Bikini or lingerie?
10:39Lingerie.
10:40Tuhog or uhog?
10:42Tuhog.
10:43Plantita or rich tita?
10:44Plantita.
10:45Do you comfort food?
10:46Chips.
10:47Guilty or not guilty?
10:48You made your first move with that guy.
10:49Not guilty.
10:50Guilty or not guilty?
10:51Naisipang magparitoke.
10:53Guilty.
10:54Guilty or not guilty?
10:55Nakatanggap ng indigent proposal.
10:57Ah, sya yung guilty.
10:59Hindi ako.
11:00Okay, guilty or not guilty?
11:01Niligawan ng politiko.
11:02Not guilty.
11:03Guilty or not guilty?
11:04Nambasted ng artista.
11:06Guilty.
11:07Guilty or not guilty?
11:08May nakalove scene na may body odor.
11:12Not guilty.
11:13One word.
11:14Describe yourself as a mother.
11:16Prayerful.
11:17Describe yourself as a wife.
11:19Loving.
11:20Loving.
11:21Describe yourself as a woman.
11:23Non-judgmental.
11:24Lights on or lights off?
11:25Off.
11:26Happiness or chocolate?
11:27Happiness.
11:29Best time for happiness?
11:30Afternoon happiness.
11:32At 48, I have become?
11:35More loving.
11:39Ang ganda naman.
11:41You're one of the most beautiful young girls in the world.
11:45You have three lovely daughters.
11:46You have four lovely and one gorgeous young man.
11:50Aren't you just so blessed?
11:52So very, very much blessed.
11:54At saka, wala pa kaming narinig na nagda-drugs, na sorry for the word, ha?
12:00Pakawala o how did you do that?
12:03O naglalande, how did you do that?
12:07Prayers talaga and guidance, diba?
12:09Ano yung guidance, ina?
12:10Kasi kahit naman tayo nag-work, hands-on mom kami.
12:12Ano yun? Kinakausap nyo?
12:14Oo, talagang derechuan talaga.
12:18Kasi ako, hindi ako nag-filter ng mouth eh.
12:21Talagang, I could tell them kung ano yung nasa mind.
12:25Ano ito? Upo ka?
12:26Kasi syempre, half Canadian sila.
12:28Yeah, right. Upo ka, usap tayo, ganun?
12:30Yes, oo. Nakikinig naman sila.
12:32Syempre, nung mga teenagers sila, parang medyo defiant, diba?
12:35Parang nasa rebellious.
12:36Pero, lumaki silang maayos, thank God.
12:39Diba? Oo.
12:40Shine, ikaw.
12:41Three lovely, lovely daughters.
12:43Ako, Tito Boy, kasi maaga, bata pa lang sila nung naging single mom ako.
12:47So, I think na-appreciate ng mga bata.
12:50Yung paghihirap ko bilang single mom, na tinataguyod ko sila.
12:54And, communication is very, very important.
12:57At saka, importante talaga na nakikita din nila kung paano kayo mamuhay.
13:01That's true.
13:02Diba? Yes, yes.
13:04It's very, very important.
13:05May mga pagkakataon ba na, lalo ng Shine, because you were single for quite a while, no?
13:11May mga moments na, Ma, don't wear that?
13:16Wala.
13:17Wala.
13:18Mas ako yung sa kanila.
13:20Mas ako ang medyo, kasi yung mga bata talaga ngayon, yung mga shorts parang, diba?
13:26So, parang walang…
13:28Oo, ganun.
13:29Though, of course, they carry themselves very well.
13:32Pero, I still check kung ano yung mga isosot nila minsan.
13:36Like, especially si Cheska, kasi yung bunso ko talaga, sexy talaga.
13:40Maganda, lahat silang maganda.
13:42Pero, Cheska, pumunta ka muna sa akin bago ka libas.
13:45Sinasabihan mo?
13:46Yes.
13:47Okay, magpalit ka ng shorts mo, akin na yung shorts mo, tatapon ko.
13:52Naghihiraman ba kayo ng damit?
13:54Madalas, nawawala ang damit ko na pupunta sa kanila.
13:58Yes, ganun sila.
14:00Sa'yo rin, Ina?
14:01No, kasi my kids are so pedetic.
14:03They are.
14:04They're really extra, extra small.
14:05I'm size small.
14:06So, pag binigyan ko nga sila ng damit ko, no, that's so big.
14:10Ayaw nila.
14:11Ayaw nila ng…
14:12Ayaw.
14:13Pinapa-alter pa nga nila.
14:15Pinapa-liit nila yung mga damit.
14:17So, hindi.
14:18Hindi yun ang problem ko.
14:19What about the boys?
14:22What do you tell them?
14:24Are there rules?
14:25Dapat, ano, play hard to get.
14:27Yun talaga.
14:28That's a nice tip.
14:29Palagi yun ang tinuturo kasi nila, play hard to get.
14:31Dapat, huwag mong pakita sa kanila na dead na dead ka.
14:35Feeling ko na, ano, alam nila na yun.
14:37Wow, okay.
14:38Kinikwento ko yung ginawa ko sa daddy nila.
14:42So, hindi ako hypocrite.
14:43Kung baga, alam nila na yun talaga yung style ko na you have to play hard to get.
14:48What about the girls?
14:49Well, the girls, lagi ko namang kinakausap.
14:54Pero may umakita ng ligaw?
14:56Meron.
14:57Ang sinasabi ko sa kanila kung may manliligaw, ang request ko lang,
14:59huwag kayong magkita sa labas.
15:01Kung nanliligaw, papasukin mo dito sa bahay.
15:03Hindi namang para takutin ko.
15:05But of course, kung magandang intention sa inyo,
15:07pupunta sa bahay, dito kayo liligawan.
15:10But you also realize that it's not easy to be in your presence.
15:15Hindi.
15:16Kung talagang maganda intention, ilalaban talaga.
15:19Ayoko kasi nakikipagkita sa labas dito.
15:22Mabae yung mga sa akin.
15:24Ano yung pakiramdam ng tatlong bata?
15:27I saw a lot of photos.
15:29Buboy was there.
15:32Diego.
15:33Yes, birthday ni Angelina.
15:35That was...
15:36Right, you know.
15:37Sito boy, ako kaya nga nung first time na nilabas ulit ni Cesar after the COVID,
15:42yung mga bata, nakita ko how happy the kids are.
15:45So, ipagkakait mo ba yun sa mga bata?
15:47Bakit hindi ako magiging masaya?
15:49Nakikita ko ang kaligayahan ng mga anak ko.
15:53So, dun nag-start lahat.
15:55Sabi ko nga, may kanyang-kanyang buhay na kami.
15:57Cesar is happy, I am happy.
15:59Okay na kami, bakit hindi kami magkakasundo?
16:02Especially kung para naman sa mga bata.
16:04And wedding anniversary namin supposedly nung September 24.
16:09Loko-loko yan si Cesar, nag-message pa.
16:11Happy anniversary.
16:13Sabi ko, ewan ko sayo.
16:16Happy wedding anniversary, dapat 24 years na kami.
16:19Yeah, but we're okay.
16:21We're good friends.
16:22I'm good friends with Kath.
16:25I love Kath.
16:26Napakabait na tao na mahal na mahal din ang mga anak ko.
16:30So, ang saya lang.
16:32Ang sarap sa pakiramdam.
16:34You would not have imagined that you guys would be in this place.
16:38Pero magtiwala ka lang talaga sa Diyos, diba?
16:40Hindi mo talaga may isip.
16:41And you've been together for 22 years.
16:43Yes.
16:44Pero Ina, wala bang pagkakataon na, again sorry for the word, but nagkakasawaan?
16:50Alam mo yun, you've been together for quite a while.
16:53Thank God, wala.
16:54Kasi nga siguro na-maintain.
16:57Na-maintain niya ang kanyang hot body.
16:59Gusto ko yung magkasama mo.
17:01My husband's so hot.
17:02He's so yummy.
17:06He's really so muscular.
17:08And I've always been drawn to muscular men.
17:12Ever since nung dalaga pa ako, pag tinanong mo ko anong type, gusto ko talaga fit na guys.
17:16So, siya talaga yung ideal man ko.
17:18So, same din siya.
17:19I guess nakikita niya ako, he likes what he sees.
17:23So, yung attraction na din pa rin talaga.
17:25I like that.
17:28Kung pwede lang siguro walo yung anak namin.
17:30Siguro kung mas bata ako, possible yung walo na yung anak namin.
17:35I'm really happy for you.
17:36Kushai, are you ready to fall in love again?
17:39Abukas ba ang puso mo para magmahal muli?
17:42Ako nasabi ko na ito before.
17:43Magkaroon man ng someone na nandiyan para sa akin o hindi,
17:48parang it's something that I really don't want to talk about in public anymore.
17:52So, ang importante sa akin is ang approval ng mga anak ko.
17:55At kung may respeto at ang mga anak ko okay dun sa lalaki din, yun ang mahal.
18:02Saan ang gagaling yun?
18:05Because you went through pain because you were very public?
18:09Yes, parang sa akin, ang hirap lang ma-involve ng public kasi mapaglalaroan.
18:15So, hanggang maaari, kung mayroon akong denidate or edidate, what you see is what you get na lang.
18:20Kung makita nyo kami, edi okay.
18:22Kung hindi, okay.
18:23Pero para i-share pa ulit sa social media or sa public,
18:27especially kung yung lalaki, hindi naman taga showbiz, huwag na lang.
18:31I get that.
18:32And I respect that.
18:33At saka, proof yan na no matter how public you are,
18:36kaya mo i-private ang ilang bagay.
18:39Pero tama ka.
18:40Dahil hindi mo namang kontrolado, nagsimba ka,
18:42pumunta ka sa mall or sa grocery and people see you,
18:45then it is what you see, whatever it is.
18:48I'm 47 years old, diba?
18:50Kunti na lang senior citizen na tayo,
18:52kailangan pa mong pag-usapan ng love life.
18:54You're 47.
18:56No, but kidding aside, Tito Boy, yun nga.
18:59Yung naging desisyon ko talaga after yung breakup ko with my ex-boyfriend of almost 6 years.
19:05So sabi ko nga, basta, masaya ako.
19:08And coming from that experience, I think we should respect that.
19:10Yes.
19:11Coming from that experience, we should respect that.
19:13As we respect naman people also who are open about it.
19:16Kanya-kanya lang talaga.
19:17Yes.
19:18Diba? Hypothetical.
19:20Para makip mo yung relasyon,
19:25you would...
19:27Would you go for an open relationship?
19:31Well...
19:33I like the well.
19:34It's 2024, it'll be 2025 soon.
19:38But you know what?
19:39Yung ibang mas modern talaga ng mga relationships,
19:43I will not judge them if they decide na mag-open sila.
19:47Because if that's how we'll keep your marriage na matagal na,
19:52tapos gusto nyo maka-experience ng something,
19:55alam mo yun na something fun,
19:57pero syempre as a Christian, diba, parang it's not advisable.
20:00But this is yung hindi-Kristiano,
20:02if that's what you want to do, I will not judge you.
20:05Kasi it could work for other couples.
20:09Ang opinion mo?
20:10Same.
20:11Same sa akin ang sinabi ni Ina.
20:12Totoo naman yun.
20:13Nasa 2024 na tayo, whatever works.
20:16Diba, basta walang tinatapakang tao at nag-work para sa inyo
20:19para magbigay ng spice sa relationship, then...
20:23Pwede talaga eh.
20:24It's resolved.
20:25But, mapanghas na tanong.
20:27Would you do it?
20:28Probably.
20:29As a woman?
20:30Probably.
20:32Alam mo ikaw.
20:34Kasi siguro efekto to naman, married for 22 years
20:37and been with the same man for 24 years.
20:40Actually, si Brian, you know, si Brian, he allows me to have a crush.
20:44As in, wala siyang ka-insecurity.
20:48Kapag hanbawa, sabihin ko, wow, he's hot.
20:50Yung gano'n, syempre pag hanbawa sa baseball,
20:53kapag nanunod kami ng baseball,
20:55may mga, alam mo, yung very fit,
20:57sabihin ko, wow, he's hot.
20:58Yeah, wala siyang ka-celos-celos.
21:00Very confident.
21:01Very confident siya.
21:02Yun ang gusto ko yun.
21:03That's what I'm talking about.
21:04Na kapag yung partner mo hindi insecure,
21:06na kapag may sinabi kang hot yung guy,
21:08hindi magsaselos at all.
21:10Sabihin ko, yeah, I'm sure he likes you too.
21:12Ganyan pa siya.
21:13Shiny Cow, your take?
21:16Open relationship.
21:18Selosa kasi ako, Tito Boy,
21:20pero ayoko magsalita ng tapos pagdating diyan.
21:25Seloso, never say never.
21:27Pero pag selosa ka, hindi mag-work yan.
21:29Hindi talaga.
21:31Pero the premise kasi is for you to be able to keep the relationship.
21:35Yan ang pinag-uusapan natin.
21:37Hindi ito yung open for the sake of being open.
21:39Hindi naman.
21:40No, parang eventually you wanna sleep up.
21:42No, that's not the purpose.
21:44But I like your caution.
21:47Gusto kasi, syempre, kung pwede,
21:48akin lang talaga yung sweetheart ko.
21:52Pero, yun nga, hindi naman sa nagja-judge.
21:54Whatever works for others, go.
21:56Deba? Relationship nila yun eh.
21:58At this point in your life, ano pa ang inyong mga pangarap?
22:02Ang pangarap ko ay,
22:04ikaw muna, Shiny.
22:05Ako, pangarap ko para sa mga anak ko.
22:08Talagang para sa girls na, no?
22:10Always, makapagtapos sila ng pag-aaral,
22:12magkaroon sila ng mga magagandang trabaho,
22:14at lahat ng pangarap nila matupad.
22:16Masaya lang sila.
22:17At sana magkaroon sila ng partner or asawan,
22:20hindi magiging pareho nung sakin yung mahihiwalay.
22:23I'll be the happiest if that happens.
22:27Ganda.
22:28Same din yung pangarap ko para sa mga anak ko.
22:30Like si Jacob, talagang ang pangarap ko
22:32maging professional baseball player siya.
22:35So kapag nangyari yun, wow, talagang thank you, Lord.
22:38God willing.
22:39And parang may usapan na kami na,
22:41kapag alam mo yung dumating yung pano
22:43na talagang maging professional siya,
22:45he will buy me yung bahay namin ngayon.
22:48Kasi we're just renting it.
22:50So talagang parang gusto ko siya maging ancestral home.
22:54Although it's not for sale,
22:55but of course if we offer up a sweet price,
23:00it could be for sale.
23:01Pero yun ang wish ko talaga.
23:04Alam na yun ni Jacob.
23:06Kaya walang masama na mag-ask ng favor sa anak
23:10kapag naging successful.
23:12Oo, dun nga sa debate diba sa social media na
23:14responsibilidad ba ng mga anak, ang kanilang mga magulang?
23:18What is your take?
23:19Oo.
23:20Diba? Medyo mainit na pinag-usapan yun.
23:23Kasi ako, kasi tinutulungan ko yung parents ko talaga
23:28since I was 19 years old.
23:30And talagang binibigay ko yun dahil mahal ko sila.
23:33So why not?
23:34Si Jacob talagang siya,
23:36pinromise niya yun sa akin kapag nangyari yun.
23:40And alam ko mas mababless siya ni God
23:42kapag nagbabless siya sa parents niya.
23:45That's true.
23:46Shine, ikaw?
23:47Ako'y pinagdadasal ko ang puso ng mga anak ko.
23:49Syempre hindi ko sila gustong obligahin.
23:52Pero sana dahil mababait naman sila
23:55at nakikita nila kung papaano rin ako sa aking magulang,
23:58mga kapatid,
23:59sana maging gano'n din sila sa mga kapatid nila at sa akin.
24:03Oo, totoo yun.
24:04Ako rin, hindi ko maintindihan dati yun
24:07kasi hindi ako makarelate.
24:08Sabi ko humingi o hindi,
24:10responsibilidad ko,
24:12pangalagaan ng mga magulang ko.
24:15It's not even something that...
24:16Pinoy tayo eh.
24:18Naka-ingrain sa kultura natin yan.
24:21Pero nga ngayon, different generation.
24:23Yung iba siguro, yun kasi nalalahian na sila ng...
24:26Kumagana, be-brainwash na sila ng ibang kultura.
24:29So okay, so be it.
24:30Again, we don't want to judge other people.
24:32But for me talagang, I think,
24:35basta huwag ka lang mag-iabusado.
24:37Pero conversely, hanggang saan ang dapat pakialam
24:41ng mga magulang sa kanilang mga anak?
24:43O syempre, meron lang yan.
24:45That was also discussed heavily.
24:47Of course, kapag adult na yung anak mo,
24:50meron yan.
24:51Guidance na lang.
24:53Pero hanggang nakatira kayo sa bahay ko,
24:56syempre kailangan pakingganin niyo ako.
24:58That's a very good point.
25:00Nakatira kayo sa bahay ko, may rules ako dito.
25:04Kung ayaw ninyo yung rules ko, sige.
25:06Magsarili kayo.
25:08Napaka-seryoso ng ating usapan.
25:10Pero ang dami-dami naming natututunan.
25:12Totoo yan.
25:13Ang dami-dami nating natututunan.
25:15Kasi, these are, you know, points of views.
25:20Nasigurado akong maraming mga nanay-tatay
25:23ang nag-mamasay na,
25:24ah okay, ganun palang pananaw ni Shine.
25:26Ako pag nanunood ganun,
25:28na parang, ah okay, we think alike.
25:31Or I don't agree because.
25:34I think that's the rule of doing, you know,
25:37chats and talk shows like this one.
25:40If you were to ask each other a question,
25:43as a last one,
25:45what would that be, as friends?
25:48Shine, I always ask this sa mga anak ko,
25:52what's your happiness level 1 to 10?
25:55Now?
25:56Yeah.
25:57It's 10.
25:58Wow!
25:59That's great.
26:00Tatanungin ko na rin kay Ina, same na rin.
26:02Your happiness level to them?
26:04It's not perfect because hindi kami magkakasama.
26:07Magkasama.
26:08Deba, malayo yung dalawak kong anak.
26:10So, syempre for me, 8.
26:12Usually, 9.
26:149.
26:15Pero pag magkakasama kami, 10.
26:16Ako kasi kasama ko mga anak ko.
26:18Exactly.
26:19Okay na ako sa aking ex-husband.
26:21Ganda ng relasyon.
26:22My mom is very healthy.
26:24My sisters are healthy.
26:26Praise God.
26:27I am okay.
26:28So, parang, thank you Lord,
26:29na hindi naman perfecto talaga ang buhay,
26:32pero para sa akin,
26:33ng puso ko, 10 talaga.
26:35If you were to show that level of happiness via a pose,
26:40how would you do that, Shine?
26:43Okay.
26:46Oh, okay.
26:48Very happy heart.
26:49Very happy heart.
26:50Happy with everything.
26:51Ikaw Ina, paano mo gagawin ito?
26:54Ako?
26:55Palaging it's really like this.
26:58Oh, diba?
27:00I pray so much.
27:02I really do.
27:03I really pray a lot.
27:04And it worked.
27:05Maraming salamat sa inyo.
27:06Hindi lang bagay sa suot ko ngayon,
27:08pero I pray a lot.
27:11Maraming, maraming, maraming salamat.
27:14Thank you for spending time with me.
27:16Maraming, maraming salamat.
27:18I have flowers for you.
27:20Thank you, Shine.
27:21So pretty.
27:22Bagay sa suot mo.
27:23Correct.
27:24Thank you, Shine.
27:25Thank you, Ina.
27:26Maraming, maraming salamat.
27:28Naytay kapuso, maraming salamat po sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin,
27:31sa inyong mga tahanan at puso araw-araw.
27:33Be kind, make your nana and dada proud.
27:36Hashtag say thank you.
27:37And do one good thing a day,
27:39and make this world a better place.
27:41Goodbye for now.
27:42God bless.