THIS LECTURE IS ABOUT HAPPY MARRIED LIFE TIPS.
BY
KASHIF MAG.
BY
KASHIF MAG.
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00:00He's judging me. How will he feel? What will happen?
00:03You have to lift each other up in your arms.
00:07Hello viewers. Assalamualaikum. I hope all of you are doing well.
00:10Today we are going to talk about a very important topic.
00:12And I am going to share with you the basic principles that can make your married life a mobile-less relationship.
00:19A splendid bond can develop.
00:23What are the basic principles that can make your married life a mobile-less relationship?
00:33The most important principle or principle to make a married life a mobile-less relationship.
00:38I will share it with you at the end.
00:41It is basic and most important.
00:45Communication obsessively to each other.
00:48It is very important to be very passionate and obsessed with each other.
00:55The more you talk to each other, the closer you are to each other.
00:59Your relationship will be better.
01:01Don't talk to your partner.
01:05Don't think that he is judging me.
01:07How will he feel? What will happen?
01:09Take each other as friends.
01:11Talk to each other openly.
01:14Talk to each other about good and bad things.
01:18Communicate with each other.
01:20Communication opens up all the doors of a relationship.
01:24And makes your relationship the most beautiful.
01:27When you are successful in communicating with your spouse,
01:32Or you think you can talk to anyone.
01:36There is nothing more beautiful than that.
01:38You can live with a person with whom you can open your heart.
01:43You don't have to think when you talk to someone.
01:45You don't have to be afraid when you talk to someone.
01:47You don't have to think when you talk to someone.
01:49You don't have to think about good and bad things.
01:53Communication is the strongest tool to make your relationship better.
02:01Communicate with each other.
02:03Talk to each other openly.
02:05And share your feelings.
02:09Lift up each other.
02:14Try to lift each other up.
02:17That is the most beautiful relationship.
02:20In which you support each other.
02:22Emotionally, physically, financially, morally.
02:26You support your partner in every way.
02:28Lift each other up.
02:30It is not only that you have to lift each other up in your arms.
02:33It is also very good to lift each other up.
02:35You should do a lot.
02:37You should lift each other up in your arms.
02:49Along with that, you have to support each other emotionally, financially, and family wise.
02:56Your presence should not only be emotional support for the other person.
03:01It should be emotional support.
03:04Your mission should be that you don't leave your partner behind.
03:09You should take your partner with you.
03:11Your success should be the success of both of you.
03:13Both of you should grow.
03:15Both of you should support each other in every aspect of life.
03:19And take each other forward.
03:21Maybe there are days when there is a lot of stress.
03:23And one person is doing a lot of things.
03:26So it is better to support each other when you are in stress.
03:30And support each other in those days of stress.
03:32So that they can get out of it.
03:35So that they can make themselves a better partner for you.
03:38So try not to leave your partner behind.
03:41Don't leave him alone.
03:42His success is your success.
03:44His happiness is your happiness.
03:46Lift your partner up.
03:54When it is very difficult to be honest.
03:56Especially being honest with your partner.
04:00Which is very important.
04:01Whatever you are going through.
04:03Whatever you are feeling.
04:04What are you thinking?
04:05What are you feeling?
04:06What are you feeling?
04:07What problems are you going through?
04:09What do you like about your partner?
04:11What do you not like about him?
04:12Where are you feeling stressed?
04:15Where are you feeling uneasy because of your partner?
04:18And what challenges do you have to face outside?
04:21How is your relationship affecting because of you?
04:24Is it getting better because of your partner?
04:26It is very important to be honest with your partner.
04:35Because if you don't be honest with your partner.
04:39If you hide things from him.
04:40Then there is a high risk of ruining the relationship.
04:50When you are in a difficult situation.
04:51When your partner is not able to understand you.
04:56Then you should lead him.
04:57You should help him to reach his decision.
04:59And whenever your partner is going with you.
05:03And he wants you to go with him without asking any questions.
05:08Then you should be a good follower and go with your partner.
05:12That means you have to lead him.
05:14And whenever you need him.
05:15You have to follow him.
05:17And this is not only for men and women.
05:19This is for both.
05:20Because the relationship is for both.
05:22You have to put equal efforts in this.
05:31Forgive each other.
05:33Instead of keeping grudges in your heart.
05:37It is better to forgive your partner's mistakes.
05:41Don't keep him angry overnight.
05:45Or don't be angry with him.
05:47Make a habit of forgiveness.
05:48So that if you forgive him immediately.
05:51Then your relationship will not develop.
05:55And you should develop an understanding.
05:57That your partner is just like you.
05:59He can make mistakes.
06:01If you need forgiveness.
06:03Then you have to forgive your partner.
06:05Forgiveness strengthens the relationship.
06:09When you forgive and move on.
06:13Then the relationship is very strong.
06:15And your partner forgives you as soon as possible.
06:21Keep your standards high for your partner as well.
06:25Keep your standards very high.
06:27The lifestyle you see for yourself.
06:29The level of the relationship you see.
06:31If you want to enjoy your relationship at this level.
06:35Think about the same thing for your partner.
06:37The lifestyle you like.
06:39The way you dress and eat.
06:41You like it for yourself.
06:43Keep that in mind for your partner.
06:45And for your spouse.
06:47The standards you want to keep for yourself.
06:49The standards of your partner's living.
06:51These should be important for you.
06:53And you should want to give your partner.
06:55A very happy, relaxed, comfortable life.
06:57Relationship.
06:59And environment.
07:01These should be among your standards.
07:05The most important and basic principle.
07:07I have not told you yet.
07:09Because I will share that principle at the end of the video.
07:11But it is the most important.
07:13And practicing it.
07:15Can strengthen the relationship.
07:19Try to make it that others.
07:21Or your partner should win.
07:23Whenever something is happening.
07:25Whenever there is an argument.
07:27Between the two of you.
07:29Whether it is a matter of giving or taking.
07:31Or something else is going on in your mind.
07:33A debate is going on.
07:35Your focus should be.
07:37That your partner wins.
07:39Because when he wins.
07:41His victory is also your victory.
07:43We always see that people's focus is.
07:45That we defeat our partner in a discussion.
07:48We should not let him win.
07:50We should prove ourselves right.
07:52Try to understand your partner's victory.
07:54And try to make him win.
07:56In a discussion with you.
07:58And you will accept.
08:00Yes, you are the winner.
08:02This is very important.
08:04Which can improve your relationship.
08:08Make your marriage your top priority.
08:10We see that unfortunately.
08:12Marriage is the most important relationship.
08:14It is the least bothered.
08:16Its priority comes last.
08:18People do not consider it so important.
08:20So your marriage should be your priority.
08:22And your marital relationship.
08:24Should be your priority.
08:26In any case.
08:28The problems that come in this.
08:30The challenges that come in this.
08:32You have to manage it.
08:34Because this is the most important relationship.
08:36If you make your marriage your priority.
08:38Then only you will be able to.
08:40Give more time to your relationship.
08:42You will manage its problems and challenges.
08:45Make your marriage your top priority.
08:47In any case.
08:49You have to make your relationship with your spouse.
08:51As much as possible.
08:53The things that you need to address.
08:55Where you need to make small compromises.
08:57Where you need to forgive.
08:59Where you need to put yourself back.
09:01And give your partner some space.
09:03So that he wins.
09:05You have to do all those things.
09:07So that your marriage.
09:09A splendid and beautiful relationship.
09:11Develops.
09:15The most important and basic principle.
09:17That I told you in the beginning.
09:19That I will tell you in the end.
09:21The most basic principle.
09:23The first top most important.
09:25Principle for marital relationship.
09:27That is.
09:29Having sex very frequently.
09:31That is.
09:33To develop intimacy with your partner.
09:35Time to time.
09:37And maybe very frequently.
09:39Try to be intimate with each other.
09:41Physical proximity.
09:43It improves your relationship.
09:45Feel each other.
09:47Touch each other.
09:49Hug each other.
09:51And feel each other's body.
09:53It improves your relationship.
09:55In marital relationship.
09:57A very basic human need.
09:59That is sex.
10:01Which can make your relationship very strong.
10:03You both are together.
10:05To fulfill each other's needs.
10:07So frequent sex.
10:09Should be a part of your marital life.
10:12Months.
10:14Weeks.
10:16Try to make it.
10:18That you are very frequent.
10:20With each other.
10:22Making your sexual relationship.
10:24Making your bed relationship.
10:26How many times.
10:28You should be intimate with each other.
10:30It all depends.
10:32How much habit you have.
10:34How much you feel comfortable with each other.
10:36Frequency in your hands.
10:38You can be intimate every day.
10:40You can be intimate every day.
10:42You can be intimate every day.
10:44You can be intimate every day.
10:46You can be intimate every day.
10:48You can be intimate every day.
10:50It's completely up to you.
10:52There is no science.
10:54No principle.
10:56But it should be very frequent.
10:58When you have sexual health.
11:00Your relationship gets better.
11:02And your mood gets better.
11:04Your physiological health.
11:06It improves your physical health.
11:09It improves your mood.
11:11It improves your mental health.
11:13It improves your emotional health.
11:15Focus on sexual relationships.
11:17Focus on sexual relationships.
11:19What is the need of your partner?
11:21What does he like?
11:23What does he want?
11:25If you focus more on that.
11:27You can make this relationship better.
11:29You can make this relationship better.
11:31You can make this relationship better.
11:33I hope.
11:35I hope.
11:37Take care of yourself.
11:39Take care of your loved ones.
11:41Take care of your spouse.
11:43Make him your priority.
11:45He is a part of your body.
11:47He is your clothing.
11:49He is very important.
11:51Try to have a beautiful relationship with him.