ʙɪɢɢ ʙᴏꜱꜱ ⓵⓼ 19th ᴏᴄᴛᴏʙᴇʀ 2024 EP 14
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00:00:30How does it feel?
00:00:30Very bad.
00:00:31Your sister must be watching.
00:00:34You should never lose your temper over food.
00:00:38I didn't lose my temper over food.
00:00:39I lost my temper over my behavior.
00:00:42Arfeen, what is this gesture?
00:00:44That's my process.
00:00:45You won't tell me, will you?
00:00:46No.
00:00:47I did this.
00:00:48This also has a lot of meanings.
00:00:50Just watch what I do to you.
00:00:52I know that...
00:00:53Arfeen, in your profession, you are not taught to listen to others.
00:00:58No.
00:00:59You are a learned man.
00:01:01Everyone else is a fool.
00:01:03Including me.
00:01:04I didn't say this.
00:01:05And...
00:01:06At least do something.
00:01:08You have to give up.
00:01:09Don't worry.
00:01:10Don't worry.
00:01:11You will learn everything.
00:01:12We are here.
00:01:13Don't worry.
00:01:13Okay, so you will think I am right.
00:01:15I am your father.
00:01:16Come on, say it.
00:01:17Don't move.
00:01:18Stay in your limits.
00:01:19Stay in your limits.
00:01:21Do you understand?
00:01:22Don't hit me.
00:01:23Don't hit me.
00:01:25Don't hit me.
00:01:29Welcome.
00:01:36Hello, Namaste, Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:38How are you?
00:01:40How are you?
00:01:41How are you?
00:01:42And welcome to Big Boss.
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00:01:57Welcome to Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:59For the first time in this season,
00:02:01a new title,
00:02:03a new position has been introduced.
00:02:05Time God.
00:02:08This year, in this game of Time,
00:02:11it is very difficult to become Time God.
00:02:15Because with this position,
00:02:17there are such powers,
00:02:19which no captain has ever had.
00:02:22Unfortunately,
00:02:23these family members
00:02:25have not yet realized the value of this Time God position.
00:02:29Shilpa ji is not fit to become Time God.
00:02:32Because she never gives an opinion on time.
00:02:35Sara had made an image of me from outside.
00:02:38And I didn't turn out to be of her choice here.
00:02:40Really?
00:02:41All of them were clear about the fact
00:02:44that no one should become Time God.
00:02:46Avinash is more self-obsessed.
00:02:48He thinks less about other members.
00:02:51But none of them thought that
00:02:54who should become Time God.
00:02:56And in such a situation,
00:02:58they made Time God Arfeen.
00:03:01Big Boss!
00:03:02I am the God of Time!
00:03:05Give food to everyone.
00:03:06Denied.
00:03:07Go.
00:03:08I asked for the ration.
00:03:09He denied it.
00:03:10No food will be prepared in the kitchen
00:03:11until the whole group is prepared.
00:03:13No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:15But for the first time ever,
00:03:17did Time God use his responsibility
00:03:19What are you doing?
00:03:21and power correctly?
00:03:23I can even turn on the gas.
00:03:24No one can stop me.
00:03:26Or did you see the power in other people's hands
00:03:28in different situations?
00:03:30Then burn it and show it to me.
00:03:32I will burn it and show it to you.
00:03:34It is my right to burn gas at home
00:03:36and cook food.
00:03:37And no one can stop me from that.
00:03:40If a person wants to eat,
00:03:43he can go and cook.
00:03:44He doesn't have to agree with the majority.
00:03:48That is a common place.
00:03:49She won't cook for one person at a time.
00:03:51If she wants to cook, she will cook for everyone.
00:03:53If she had a gas stove, she would have cooked.
00:03:55As always, you are following this show very closely.
00:03:58You are watching every episode.
00:04:00But you are seeing what is happening here.
00:04:03We want to eat non-vegetarian food.
00:04:05No ma'am, we are not getting that.
00:04:10The senior member of the house
00:04:12neither got food
00:04:14No food will be served.
00:04:15nor did he get forgiveness.
00:04:17Come, I will show you.
00:04:19We say where it is wrong.
00:04:22Then say it loudly.
00:04:23You have to make it a topic.
00:04:25Yesterday, whatever you said
00:04:26Did you say anything today?
00:04:28You were just standing.
00:04:31Ma'am
00:04:32And then you said the topic was not that big.
00:04:33Ma'am, exactly my point
00:04:35Not for me to come.
00:04:36You were already shouting.
00:04:39So, the topic is not that big.
00:04:41He said one thing,
00:04:42about good books.
00:04:43Okay, understand.
00:04:45And he said, don't demand.
00:04:47Ask from me.
00:04:49Ask.
00:04:50Ask.
00:04:51Not say.
00:04:52Ask.
00:04:53What do you mean?
00:04:54Will you sit on the floor and ask?
00:04:56Ma'am, you also know that it is not like that.
00:04:57Don't tell me what you think about him.
00:04:59Because what you think about him
00:05:00is very different from what I think.
00:05:03Shilpa ma'am is very hurt.
00:05:05And you talk to her.
00:05:07I am still talking to her.
00:05:08She didn't eat anything.
00:05:09I didn't misbehave with you.
00:05:12I didn't humiliate you.
00:05:14By saying something for you.
00:05:15According to you,
00:05:16that is not humiliation, Avinash.
00:05:18But the person you are talking to
00:05:20can be humiliated.
00:05:22Keeping your point of view
00:05:24will be right according to you.
00:05:26But when you repeatedly
00:05:28say the same thing to the other person,
00:05:30repeatedly,
00:05:32that is humiliation
00:05:34in various forms.
00:05:36I want an apology,
00:05:37not for anything else.
00:05:39Because I am A,
00:05:41a mother of a 20 year old.
00:05:43I will not take this accusation
00:05:45all the time.
00:05:46And it's a humiliation for me.
00:05:47To say,
00:05:48you are not in my good books.
00:05:50You can never be.
00:05:52You have proved today
00:05:54how you are.
00:05:55And what have I done?
00:05:56Tell me.
00:05:57But ma'am,
00:05:58you are making it your own.
00:06:00I am not making it my own.
00:06:01I am telling you.
00:06:02If you don't think
00:06:04you have done something wrong,
00:06:05that is your point of view.
00:06:06No problem.
00:06:07I take it personally.
00:06:08And I will say it today on camera.
00:06:10The way you talk to me,
00:06:13I take it as a personal humiliation.
00:06:16Which is not accepted for me.
00:06:18How much do you know me
00:06:19to talk about my character?
00:06:21I am not talking about your character.
00:06:22I am talking about your tactic
00:06:23of coming in good books.
00:06:24That.
00:06:25Which book?
00:06:26Which book are you talking about?
00:06:28What book are you writing
00:06:30that I need to be in your book?
00:06:32And I do feel humiliated.
00:06:34And I will not eat whatever you send out
00:06:36until you are sorry
00:06:38for what you said
00:06:39and you feel apologetic.
00:06:40For me,
00:06:41sorry is not a big word.
00:06:42But for your ego,
00:06:43sorry will be a very big word.
00:06:45Ma'am, your ego is losing.
00:06:46My ego is not there.
00:06:47Because
00:06:48My ego is not with anyone.
00:06:50What are you saying, ma'am?
00:06:51You are not eating the food that I am giving.
00:06:53I will not eat.
00:06:54It is my wish.
00:06:56Somebody take it away for Shilpa ji.
00:06:57Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:06:59Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:07:00We will send breakfast to Shilpa ji.
00:07:02Give it to her.
00:07:03I have to feed her.
00:07:04She is our friend.
00:07:05I am not eating.
00:07:06I don't like it.
00:07:07Give it to her.
00:07:08Who will eat it?
00:07:09She has gone mad.
00:07:11I am not eating.
00:07:13What are you doing?
00:07:14Sit down.
00:07:15Don't irritate me.
00:07:16Sit down.
00:07:19I am not eating.
00:07:20I have made it.
00:07:21Taste it.
00:07:22I have made it.
00:07:23Listen, taste it.
00:07:24How is it?
00:07:26Oh, man!
00:07:28Where is this energy coming from?
00:07:29She wants to lose weight.
00:07:30Do you see?
00:07:33I think even Shilpa ma'am
00:07:34has lost her ego.
00:07:35Yes.
00:07:36As far as I can understand.
00:07:37Yes.
00:07:38On professionalism,
00:07:39someone said
00:07:40you shouldn't say this.
00:07:41It doesn't suit you.
00:07:42But,
00:07:43in a game show,
00:07:44she didn't even say
00:07:45this about the character.
00:07:46I have been saying this
00:07:47since the beginning.
00:07:48And she cried four times.
00:07:49And she made it look like
00:07:50Avinash said something to her.
00:07:51Yes.
00:07:52I also felt the same.
00:07:53Because I say things
00:07:54in anger.
00:07:55That's why I said it
00:07:56in front of her.
00:07:57Ma'am,
00:07:58I didn't feel
00:07:59it was a big deal.
00:08:00Just eat.
00:08:01Why are you
00:08:02troubling your health?
00:08:03I am not troubled at all.
00:08:04I will tell you
00:08:05when I feel like it.
00:08:06Will you tell me
00:08:07or will you eat?
00:08:08I will tell you.
00:08:09Not now?
00:08:10Then when will you eat?
00:08:13I get jealous.
00:08:14Because I don't get
00:08:15as much importance
00:08:16as she does.
00:08:17It's not for her.
00:08:18It's for me.
00:08:19I am putting myself first.
00:08:21She is not eating.
00:08:22She is stubborn.
00:08:23She is stubborn.
00:08:24And she doesn't realize
00:08:25that right now.
00:08:26Right?
00:08:27If something goes wrong,
00:08:28all the competition
00:08:29will be lost.
00:08:30And all the ego
00:08:31will be lost.
00:08:32We don't even know
00:08:33where it will go.
00:08:35Look at her condition.
00:08:36I am worried
00:08:37about her.
00:08:38Not just her.
00:08:39Afin is also strong.
00:08:40I am worried
00:08:41about her.
00:08:42It's a decision
00:08:43that she has taken.
00:08:44I was there, Sara.
00:08:45I was there.
00:08:47There was no
00:08:48budget or anything.
00:08:50I was there.
00:09:04What are you doing
00:09:05with yourself?
00:09:06I don't understand.
00:09:07What are you fighting
00:09:08for or against?
00:09:09What is the problem?
00:09:10Why don't you eat food?
00:09:11It's very wrong.
00:09:12No, no. I am fine.
00:09:13You are wrong.
00:09:14What you are doing
00:09:15is wrong.
00:09:16Wrong.
00:09:17Someone made a mistake
00:09:18and you are suffering.
00:09:19It's wrong.
00:09:20If you are not eating,
00:09:21I am also not eating.
00:09:22Whatever you are doing
00:09:23is wrong.
00:09:24You colored your hair
00:09:25and you are looking good.
00:09:26Don't wear glasses.
00:09:27No.
00:09:28Show me.
00:09:30Congratulations.
00:09:31Congratulations.
00:09:32Congratulations.
00:09:33Congratulations.
00:09:34Congratulations.
00:09:35Congratulations.
00:09:37Shrutika has
00:09:38puked four times.
00:09:39What?
00:09:40Shrutika has puked
00:09:41four times.
00:09:42Call her.
00:09:43We will talk to her.
00:09:44Call her.
00:09:45Call her.
00:09:46And see,
00:09:47Shrutika and
00:09:48one of us
00:09:49would have
00:09:50made sure
00:09:51that one of us
00:09:52would have
00:09:53fed her and
00:09:54put her to sleep.
00:09:55He is saying
00:09:56that please
00:09:57talk to her.
00:09:58This is the skirt.
00:09:59Nice.
00:10:00Yeah, very nice.
00:10:01Which has this slit.
00:10:02Superb.
00:10:03Did you get it?
00:10:06These are the
00:10:07This is the blouse.
00:10:08You had worn
00:10:09something similar.
00:10:10Yes.
00:10:11So, not this.
00:10:12Not this, right?
00:10:13And this dupatta
00:10:14is again the same style
00:10:15that I wore last time.
00:10:16No, no, no.
00:10:17That is your patent dress.
00:10:20Hello.
00:10:21Hello.
00:10:22Shrutika.
00:10:24Can you come and talk now?
00:10:25Please, Shrutika.
00:10:26Please.
00:10:27Only five minutes.
00:10:28I don't want to come right now.
00:10:29I just want to be alone.
00:10:30Please.
00:10:31Okay, leave it for five minutes.
00:10:32Is she ready to apologize?
00:10:34I don't want to talk to anyone.
00:10:35You eat your food.
00:10:36I want to be alone.
00:10:37Please.
00:10:38Okay.
00:10:39Okay.
00:10:40Okay.
00:10:41Okay.
00:10:42I am also coming.
00:10:46Vibin Bhai.
00:10:47Yes, Bhai.
00:10:48Will you take Shilpa's food inside?
00:10:50I will talk to her.
00:10:51She won't be able to come.
00:10:52Will you take her food inside?
00:10:53Maybe she will listen to you.
00:10:55She won't listen to anyone else.
00:10:56Will you take her food?
00:10:57I am going.
00:10:59Take her food.
00:11:00I will talk to her.
00:11:01No problem.
00:11:03Take your medicine.
00:11:04Not food.
00:11:08Do you want rice?
00:11:09They are coming.
00:11:10I don't want rice.
00:11:11Okay.
00:11:12Shilpa.
00:11:14Shilpa.
00:11:15Shilpa.
00:11:16Please.
00:11:17You eat.
00:11:18Please.
00:11:19You are strong.
00:11:20You said you are strong.
00:11:21Strong girl.
00:11:25Let's go.
00:11:26Let's go.
00:11:37No, no, no.
00:11:38This is...
00:11:39Shilpa, please.
00:11:40Eat the rice.
00:11:42I swear I will throw up.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44Okay.
00:11:45Throw up.
00:11:46Shilpa.
00:11:47Shilpa.
00:11:48Shilpa.
00:11:49Shilpa.
00:11:50He is saying throw up.
00:11:51He is saying throw up.
00:11:52I didn't misbehave with you at all.
00:11:55I am really sorry.
00:11:56It's okay.
00:11:57Please.
00:11:58Now eat.
00:11:59It's been two days.
00:12:00Eat one spoon.
00:12:01Please.
00:12:02Please.
00:12:03Ma'am, I didn't mean to misbehave.
00:12:06Very good.
00:12:09Nice.
00:12:10Very good.
00:12:11Very good.
00:12:12Listen.
00:12:13No more.
00:12:14No more.
00:12:15No more.
00:12:16No more.
00:12:17No more.
00:12:18No more.
00:12:19No more.
00:12:20No more.
00:12:21No more.
00:12:22No more.
00:12:23No more.
00:12:24Yes.
00:12:25Okay.
00:12:26Yes.
00:12:27Are you all fine?
00:12:28Yes sir.
00:12:29How are you?
00:12:30I am fine too.
00:12:31Did you all eat?
00:12:32Yes sir.
00:12:33Did you eat well?
00:12:34Yes sir.
00:12:35That's good.
00:12:36Did you apologize to everyone you wanted to?
00:12:37Everyone you wanted to apologize to.
00:12:38Is everything sorted?
00:12:39Yes sir.
00:12:40Good.
00:12:41Avinash, are there any pending sorries?
00:12:42No sir.
00:12:43Ask for it.
00:12:44No sir.
00:12:45Okay.
00:12:46Okay.
00:12:47Okay.
00:12:48We will do it again.
00:12:49Okay.
00:12:50Okay.
00:12:51Okay.
00:12:52Okay.
00:12:53No, sir. I didn't mean to say sorry. I wanted to talk to you.
00:12:57Sir, the day I got eliminated, I was obviously very angry.
00:13:02I was a little angry.
00:13:03So I said, whatever has happened, whatever I thought was wrong,
00:13:07I want to say sorry for that. It will happen after that.
00:13:10I'll come to that, Avinash.
00:13:12Yes, sir.
00:13:13I'll come to that.
00:13:15Shilpa, I hate tears, Shilpa.
00:13:20When your daughter used to cry, does she still cry?
00:13:24So how do you feel?
00:13:26Very bad.
00:13:27Very bad.
00:13:28Now the mother is crying, how would the daughter feel?
00:13:32Tell me.
00:13:34And this is not just an hour long show, this goes on 24x7 as well, right?
00:13:40So 24x7, she must be looking at her mother.
00:13:44She must be looking at her mother.
00:13:47She must be looking at this as well.
00:13:49The one who is holding back a tear.
00:13:52And this other one.
00:13:54Your sister must be looking at her as well.
00:13:59Yes, sir.
00:14:02So when your daughter was little, and she used to get angry,
00:14:07and she used to vent her anger on food.
00:14:09What did you tell her?
00:14:11She wasn't angry on food, she was angry on behaviour.
00:14:14She was angry on attitude.
00:14:16Yes, but if you are angry on attitude, then vent your anger on that attitude.
00:14:22Why is somebody else's words, whatever he is saying,
00:14:26or the way he is speaking, you don't like it.
00:14:30Why are you wasting your emotion for somebody else?
00:14:35You should never vent your anger on food, right?
00:14:39And especially when you are on medication.
00:14:42And you are not even taking medicines.
00:14:45And why are you going according to your feelings?
00:14:48You have come to this house.
00:14:50You know what all you have to do in this house.
00:14:53You should not have any relation with your feelings in this house.
00:14:57Like today I have this feeling that I didn't have to come here today.
00:15:02I didn't have to come here.
00:15:03But this is a commitment.
00:15:05So that is why I have come here.
00:15:07This is my work.
00:15:09I have come here to do that work.
00:15:11I don't want to meet anybody.
00:15:13I don't want to meet you people either.
00:15:15But I am bound to do this.
00:15:18And because of somebody else's words, you are hurting yourself.
00:15:23And you are hurting your whole family.
00:15:26What is the use?
00:15:27This is a game of will power.
00:15:29This is a game of your thinking.
00:15:32Your thoughts.
00:15:34Intelligence.
00:15:36So you took a stand for yourself.
00:15:39Very good.
00:15:40It was really nice.
00:15:41It was very good.
00:15:42But the highlight of this is that everybody was eating.
00:15:46But only two people were affected.
00:15:49Only two.
00:15:50You and Avinash.
00:15:53The rest of the people had moved on.
00:15:56So as they started getting their food, they moved on and didn't even look back.
00:16:04And one more simple thing.
00:16:06When you were not eating food,
00:16:09Arfeen, you have become a time god now.
00:16:12Why didn't they keep the kitchen closed?
00:16:18Shall we start from the beginning?
00:16:21When Bhaggappa ji and Hema ji were in jail,
00:16:26they distributed a lot of ration.
00:16:29There was no problem.
00:16:31When they had to come out of jail,
00:16:34who did they submit all the ration to?
00:16:38They submitted it to Bigg Boss.
00:16:40No one had any problem with that either.
00:16:44Bigg Boss then announced that you will now live on basic ration.
00:16:50No one had any problem with that either.
00:16:53When two days passed on basic ration,
00:16:56then people started thinking that they were hungry.
00:17:01Now we need luxury ration.
00:17:04We need full course meal.
00:17:06Then you started the discussion.
00:17:08And then Bigg Boss gave you guys two options.
00:17:12What were those options?
00:17:13Jail and elimination.
00:17:15You all chose the jail option.
00:17:19Am I going right?
00:17:21Absolutely right.
00:17:22Are you sure?
00:17:23Yes.
00:17:24So tell me,
00:17:26did everyone get the sorries they wanted?
00:17:31Everyone got it, right?
00:17:33Yes.
00:17:34So I have a simple question.
00:17:39If there is an allegation against you on national television,
00:17:44and that allegation is that
00:17:47girls are not safe at home with this person,
00:17:54and on that basis,
00:17:58you are eliminated from home for ration,
00:18:03and after that,
00:18:05if that person is given control of that ration,
00:18:10then tell me,
00:18:12who will not take revenge?
00:18:15Who will say,
00:18:18I am not angry, I am not upset.
00:18:20Leave the revenge.
00:18:22I want to teach them a lesson.
00:18:24Mr. Radhe, you tell me.
00:18:26If you were in place of Avinash,
00:18:29and you were given such an allegation,
00:18:34and you were eliminated from home,
00:18:37and after that, when you come back,
00:18:40and you are in control of the ration,
00:18:44then the revenge that Avinash has done on you,
00:18:51won't you feel like doing it?
00:18:54I think I understand it better.
00:18:57Now I will show him.
00:18:59Should I say it?
00:19:00Yes, please.
00:19:01I think I understand it,
00:19:03and I also feel it.
00:19:05If you don't want to do anything,
00:19:07but that allegation is put on you,
00:19:09then how do you feel?
00:19:10Yes.
00:19:11As far as food is concerned,
00:19:12I would have seen it later.
00:19:13If this had happened to me,
00:19:14if he had given food,
00:19:15I would not have given food.
00:19:16You wouldn't have given?
00:19:17Not at all.
00:19:18I know that it is wrong not to give food.
00:19:20Yes, correct.
00:19:21But I would have cleared it out to everyone.
00:19:23Or you would have played with them for a while.
00:19:25No, I don't play, I don't give.
00:19:27You don't give.
00:19:28Like Rajat said that he doesn't give food.
00:19:32Raise your hand and tell me,
00:19:34how many such great men,
00:19:37great ladies and gods are there in this house,
00:19:40who would have done this?
00:19:42Would have given food instantly.
00:19:46I would have given too.
00:19:48You would have given food?
00:19:50Yes.
00:19:51I would have given,
00:19:52but I would have expected an explanation
00:19:54for what happened.
00:19:56I wouldn't have not given or
00:19:58not given also, no Salman.
00:20:00Correct.
00:20:01Abhinash has done the same.
00:20:03KB, if someone tells you that
00:20:05on national television,
00:20:06the girl is not feeling safe here,
00:20:08then what?
00:20:11Sir, in that position,
00:20:12first of all,
00:20:13I don't think it ever happens.
00:20:14Yes.
00:20:15If you are not in this position,
00:20:17then you will be in some other position.
00:20:19Correct.
00:20:20If it had happened,
00:20:21then I would have given food first,
00:20:23and then would have waited to talk.
00:20:25But instead of food,
00:20:27I wouldn't have expected that
00:20:29the other person would come and
00:20:31accept me as a god,
00:20:33that you are a god,
00:20:35if you give then I will talk.
00:20:37Because it was happening repeatedly.
00:20:39He was calling people.
00:20:40What were Abhinash's demands
00:20:42after coming to jail?
00:20:44When Abhinash came back,
00:20:46we were all very happy,
00:20:48because I felt genuinely bad
00:20:50when Abhinash was eliminated.
00:20:52And when Abhinash came back.
00:20:54No, I don't think very many people
00:20:56were happy that Abhinash is back.
00:20:58I am not talking about very many people,
00:21:00but I was genuinely happy,
00:21:02and we even in fact.
00:21:04No, no, you all just said
00:21:06that we all were happy.
00:21:08There were a few handful of us
00:21:10who were happy to have him back.
00:21:12His demands, what he was sending
00:21:14messages through Chahat was
00:21:16that call everyone individually,
00:21:18and I will give them
00:21:20individual food,
00:21:22and you all make food individually.
00:21:24So we said,
00:21:26we will not do this,
00:21:28if we have to do it,
00:21:30then we will all go together.
00:21:32So Chahat, you say.
00:21:34Actually, what was said by Arfeen ji
00:21:36that when everyone will get food,
00:21:38then only the guest will start,
00:21:40and no one was ready to go
00:21:42and talk to Abhinash.
00:21:44Abhinash just wanted so much
00:21:46that he is in jail,
00:21:48so he has power, he has ration,
00:21:50and we are not in jail,
00:21:52so we all do not have that power.
00:21:54So if we want food,
00:21:56then we will have to go and tell him,
00:21:58Abhinash, give me food.
00:22:00He was not saying, please do it,
00:22:02beg me, please give me food.
00:22:04He was just saying, go normally,
00:22:06ask for food, I will give you food.
00:22:08That's what he wanted to do.
00:22:10And what happened between me and Abhinash,
00:22:12once Hema ji was also there,
00:22:14and that's why I was talking to Abhinash
00:22:16and these people, because I wanted
00:22:18this matter to be solved soon,
00:22:20these people should talk to each other soon,
00:22:22but it was not happening,
00:22:24because everyone was…
00:22:26Sir, one second, I will say.
00:22:28One second, ma'am,
00:22:30when Abhinash came back that night,
00:22:32that day Karanveer went to him,
00:22:34said, I want to have a talk,
00:22:36let's have a chat.
00:22:38And he was sitting, he went,
00:22:40as soon as Karanveer sat on the sofa there,
00:22:42he picked up his night suit
00:22:44and went in the bathroom.
00:22:46Sir, I will tell you exactly
00:22:48what I said.
00:22:50First I said,
00:22:52that the word unsafe…
00:22:54Isha, Isha, you tell me.
00:22:56Sir, when Abhinash came that day,
00:22:58he was very angry
00:23:00and he said,
00:23:02first of all,
00:23:04everyone will talk to me first,
00:23:06I want an apology,
00:23:08because that unsafe statement
00:23:10is a very big statement.
00:23:12No one came to talk to him.
00:23:14I and Alice were mostly with him,
00:23:16Naira was also with him for some time.
00:23:18After that, Abhinash said,
00:23:20it's night, let me do one thing,
00:23:22no one is coming to talk,
00:23:24so he gave food to everyone.
00:23:26After that, when the food was over,
00:23:28we all ate,
00:23:30then I think Karan came.
00:23:32Karan and Shilpa
00:23:34making some eye contact.
00:23:36I don't want to comment
00:23:38on what Karan and Abhinash said.
00:23:40Now Shilpa,
00:23:42listen to this, this is for you.
00:23:44The argument between them
00:23:46was not related to
00:23:48what Shilpa ate.
00:23:50Salman, he had
00:23:52two points to clear.
00:23:54And Abhinash's ego
00:23:56was on the other side.
00:23:58And Karan clearly
00:24:00made Shilpa understand.
00:24:02So now Shilpa, commenting on
00:24:04Karan and Abhinash,
00:24:06I don't think it is necessary
00:24:08because that is a different topic.
00:24:10It was not related to food.
00:24:12Isha, tell us
00:24:14what were the demands?
00:24:16Sir, the demands were
00:24:18that everyone should come and talk to me.
00:24:20I want to talk to Chum,
00:24:22I want to talk to Karan and I want to talk to Rajat.
00:24:24After that, on the first day,
00:24:26the day he came back to jail,
00:24:28I told him that I want to talk to everyone
00:24:30and I want an explanation and I want an apology.
00:24:32After that, no one came
00:24:34and he gave me food at night.
00:24:36After that, everyone came
00:24:38to listen to what he had to say.
00:24:40After that, he gave me food at night.
00:24:42The next day, he also said
00:24:44that he didn't even want an apology.
00:24:46Everyone was sitting there
00:24:48and he spoke
00:24:50and then he got food.
00:24:52If Abhinash's demand is not clear here,
00:24:54then I will tell you
00:24:56what were Abhinash's demands.
00:24:58The first demand of Abhinash was
00:25:00that the allegation that has been put
00:25:02on me,
00:25:04the allegation that has been put
00:25:06in front of the whole house,
00:25:08about that,
00:25:10the matter should be discussed
00:25:12in front of the whole house.
00:25:14Correct.
00:25:16What is so wrong in that?
00:25:20And the second day,
00:25:22till afternoon,
00:25:24Abhinash has conveyed it again and again.
00:25:28And Isha and Alice
00:25:30were coming to you
00:25:32again and again.
00:25:36And they had a basic point.
00:25:38How can he come here
00:25:40to talk to everyone individually?
00:25:42So,
00:25:44you have to go there
00:25:46and listen to what he wants to say.
00:25:50Karan, do you have anything to say?
00:25:52Sir, the way you are speaking,
00:25:54the way you are speaking,
00:25:56and the demands you are placing,
00:25:58there is nothing wrong in that.
00:26:00If we had spoken in such a voice,
00:26:02then maybe we,
00:26:04I can vouch this,
00:26:06that not only me,
00:26:08everyone would have been standing there
00:26:10and clarifying this thing.
00:26:12Karan, Karan, Karan,
00:26:14I know that you will say
00:26:16that this will not happen with me.
00:26:18No, no, no, I am not talking about myself,
00:26:20but if this allegation
00:26:22is put on you,
00:26:24what is the allegation?
00:26:26False, this thing.
00:26:28If it is put on you,
00:26:30then how do you react?
00:26:32I never say this when I come in,
00:26:34the biggest villain is back,
00:26:36now I will show you,
00:26:38the food is with me,
00:26:40now come to me and I will tell you.
00:26:42Who told me that women are not safe in front of me?
00:26:44That's why I was the only one
00:26:46not to go there.
00:26:48I ate food, I ate food,
00:26:50everyone had their time to sleep,
00:26:52when everyone left,
00:26:54I went to talk to him,
00:26:56that things got heated up and down,
00:26:58but at that time also,
00:27:00again,
00:27:02It took exactly half an hour
00:27:04so that
00:27:06the result
00:27:08is that it is a matter of heat.
00:27:10Yes.
00:27:12I have been explaining this
00:27:14for half an hour.
00:27:17When he came back to jail,
00:27:19whatever he said,
00:27:21that heat,
00:27:23I understand,
00:27:25that maybe the way of speaking
00:27:27is wrong, in anger,
00:27:29but
00:27:31if someone is
00:27:33accused of such a big crime,
00:27:35leave it,
00:27:37country,
00:27:39leave it,
00:27:41leave the nation,
00:27:43what will happen to his family?
00:27:45There was no complete allegation,
00:27:47he did that.
00:27:49That's okay.
00:28:13I know this.
00:28:16So I know
00:28:18what my parents go through.
00:28:20This is not coming from a third person's experience.
00:28:22This is coming from
00:28:24personal experiences.
00:28:26When you put yourself in somebody else's shoes,
00:28:28then you will understand
00:28:30that person.
00:28:45Directly, I asked Rajat
00:28:47what he does.
00:28:49Because I know that
00:28:51whatever is in his mind,
00:28:53he will say.
00:28:55Like I ask the mind coach,
00:28:57see what I am saying,
00:28:59he will say something else.
00:29:01The same question I asked Rajat,
00:29:03I ask you,
00:29:05what do you do?
00:29:07Do you give food or not?
00:29:09My
00:29:11process is
00:29:13that I would have given food,
00:29:15but I would have said
00:29:17that after this
00:29:19I have to talk to everyone.
00:29:21And I will be honest with you
00:29:23Salman Bhai,
00:29:25the question of allegation,
00:29:27I had spoken to
00:29:29I think Abinash or Alice,
00:29:31I had said that
00:29:33when he was coming towards Chum,
00:29:35what Chum had said
00:29:37was very frightening for him.
00:29:39So, if he said about girls,
00:29:41it's wrong.
00:29:43Absolutely. I said categorically.
00:29:45So, if he was angry
00:29:47because of this reason,
00:29:49I totally agree
00:29:51that this allegation is wrong.
00:29:53Completely wrong.
00:29:55But if I say from Chum's side,
00:29:57he personally felt
00:29:59that he was talking
00:30:01about girls,
00:30:03I would have been very angry.
00:30:05Yes. Very, very angry.
00:30:07Yes, and after that
00:30:09he used a big word,
00:30:11process.
00:30:13Which process?
00:30:15Your process will be different.
00:30:17You know what process is?
00:30:19I don't understand.
00:30:21When you started,
00:30:23I would have given food,
00:30:25but my process would have been different.
00:30:27Yes.
00:30:29Now he came,
00:30:31he said what he had to do
00:30:33from his heart. He was upset.
00:30:35He said, I am not supporting him.
00:30:37He said,
00:30:39now a little power has come.
00:30:41And you know, when a little power
00:30:43comes, a person gets swept away.
00:30:45Of course.
00:30:47Control of power,
00:30:49it is the most
00:30:51powerful thing there is.
00:30:53Because today there is power, tomorrow there is no power.
00:30:55So, you need to understand that.
00:30:57Yes.
00:30:59And he had power sitting in jail.
00:31:01So, you used the word
00:31:03process. Yes.
00:31:05You have thought about this
00:31:07hundreds of times.
00:31:09I have.
00:31:11Did all the combinations,
00:31:13permutations,
00:31:15pros, cons.
00:31:23You have done it.
00:31:25You have mentally thought of this.
00:31:27And I am telling you something,
00:31:29that if you were in a position like this,
00:31:31and your wife is there as well,
00:31:33yourself at that moment, you would not be able to
00:31:35control this kind of emotion.
00:31:37Right now,
00:31:39you are sitting in a different position
00:31:41and saying, this is my process.
00:31:43Agreed.
00:31:45And it is like you are watching
00:31:47a cricket match.
00:31:51Yeah, because I am a spectator right now.
00:31:53Meaning, I am looking from the outside perspective.
00:31:55Arfeen, we are talking about
00:31:57process. Yes.
00:31:59So, let's talk about your process.
00:32:01Yes.
00:32:03The decision of keeping the gas off,
00:32:05which was yours,
00:32:07this means, keeping in mind
00:32:09the intelligent quotient,
00:32:11at 1 is to 10,
00:32:13how intelligently did you
00:32:15think about this process?
00:32:17I will tell you from my perspective.
00:32:19Yes, yes, yes.
00:32:21We have to listen to that only.
00:32:23So, when he came inside,
00:32:25I knew he was angry.
00:32:27Obviously. Because,
00:32:29I don't know for what reason he was angry.
00:32:31Because there were a lot of things happening at that time.
00:32:33But I knew he was angry.
00:32:35It could have been for eviction.
00:32:37It could have been because of a comment.
00:32:39I wasn't clear in my mind because there were so many things happening.
00:32:41But he was angry.
00:32:43But you should be the clearest in your mind
00:32:45because you clear other people's minds.
00:32:47No, I don't. No. No?
00:32:49You clear other people's minds.
00:32:51No, I don't. My job as a mind coach is not to clear people's mind.
00:32:53Not at all.
00:32:55No, but you get people on the right track.
00:32:57Yes.
00:33:07No, not true.
00:33:09Not true.
00:33:11In fact, I will tell you the opposite.
00:33:13No, at least, at least.
00:33:15Like we are average human beings.
00:33:17You are 10 times more than us.
00:33:19No.
00:33:21Because,
00:33:23the one who is 10 times more
00:33:25than us,
00:33:27can only be a guide.
00:33:29First of all, I want to explain this to you.
00:33:31Because I think there is a misconception here
00:33:33that I am a guide and I give advice.
00:33:35That is completely wrong.
00:33:37In fact, it is quite the opposite.
00:33:39My process is more based on provocation.
00:33:41Because sometimes,
00:33:43to guide a person,
00:33:45you have to nudge, you have to poke
00:33:47so that he himself can see what he should do.
00:33:49Not me. Not my job.
00:33:51I know. I know.
00:33:53I am not the one
00:33:55to explain this to you.
00:33:57My system is different.
00:33:59Your system is different.
00:34:01But in that system,
00:34:03it is very important to know
00:34:05who to talk to,
00:34:07how to talk to.
00:34:09If you encourage someone,
00:34:11he will take it for granted.
00:34:13If you encourage someone,
00:34:15he will appreciate from there
00:34:17and he will go 10 times further.
00:34:19If you put down someone,
00:34:21I will show you
00:34:23and he will bounce back from that.
00:34:25If you put down someone,
00:34:27he will never forgive you
00:34:29and he will never be able to rise from that.
00:34:31It is simple. So, person to person.
00:34:33Person to person.
00:34:35And in this too,
00:34:37what things should I encourage
00:34:39and what things should I discourage.
00:34:43Okay.
00:34:45Like you said,
00:34:47provocation
00:34:49It depends.
00:34:51In one person,
00:34:53there will be so many qualities
00:34:55that you should encourage him
00:34:57or he is taking it for granted.
00:34:59And that's it.
00:35:01I am sure you know
00:35:03by looking at her face
00:35:05or by talking to him or her
00:35:07that what type of personality
00:35:09she has
00:35:11and how I should tackle her.
00:35:13Now, you come to yourself.
00:35:15So, I,
00:35:17If you look at my conversations
00:35:19with Avinash,
00:35:21post this challenge,
00:35:23all the conversations
00:35:25between us and Avinash,
00:35:27they have been very very good.
00:35:29What is this gesture?
00:35:31That is my process.
00:35:33Yes.
00:35:35The world should know
00:35:37what your process is.
00:35:39It's a process.
00:35:41All the viewers of Bigg Boss
00:35:43should know what this process is.
00:35:45This is my process.
00:35:47You won't tell us
00:35:49what this process is.
00:35:51I can't.
00:35:53But then the thing is
00:35:55that you did this.
00:35:57So, now they might be thinking
00:35:59something on this gesture.
00:36:01Remove it or finish it.
00:36:03First of all,
00:36:05I will tell you what I did.
00:36:07I did like this.
00:36:09I did not do this.
00:36:11I did that.
00:36:13And you did that.
00:36:15So, basically, you watch out.
00:36:17I did not do this. I will never do that.
00:36:19We have the recording.
00:36:21You can check. I will never do that.
00:36:23That's how it's come.
00:36:25I did not do this. I did that.
00:36:27I will never do that.
00:36:29So, let's go.
00:36:31If you don't tell us,
00:36:33my interpretation is,
00:36:35Rajat will also say,
00:36:37if I did this,
00:36:39what will Rajat mean?
00:36:41Remove it.
00:36:43This is dust.
00:36:45This is mud.
00:36:47I did not do this.
00:36:49I did this.
00:36:51This also.
00:36:53This also has a lot of meanings.
00:36:55I will not leave you.
00:36:57Because you are not telling
00:36:59your process.
00:37:01Everyone's inner process works.
00:37:03So, now they will have
00:37:05their own interpretation.
00:37:07I will tell you.
00:37:09I will tell you.
00:37:11It is also possible that
00:37:13he is not able to do anything at home.
00:37:15You meet outside the house.
00:37:17I will break your two eyes with these two fingers.
00:37:19Anything can happen.
00:37:21I do not do these things.
00:37:23Because that's very not me to do that.
00:37:25I will tell you what I did.
00:37:27I will explain to you.
00:37:29So, which side is the devil?
00:37:31I have no idea.
00:37:33No.
00:37:35No.
00:37:37One side is of God.
00:37:39One side is of right.
00:37:41And one side is of wrong.
00:37:43I have no idea about that.
00:37:45Watch.
00:37:47What?
00:37:49Was there a car coming
00:37:51on the left side?
00:37:53I will tell you.
00:37:55Was there a table?
00:37:57I will tell you.
00:37:59Watch your left side.
00:38:01Should I explain?
00:38:03If you look at the left side,
00:38:05if you look at all the conversations
00:38:07in Bigg Boss,
00:38:09all of them, when I am talking to people,
00:38:11maybe I am a little…
00:38:13No, no. What is watch your left side?
00:38:15I am explaining.
00:38:17I have to make a context.
00:38:19Otherwise, there will be no explanation.
00:38:21If all the time I am talking,
00:38:23my main focus is
00:38:25to empower your heart.
00:38:27Empower your heart.
00:38:29So, which side is the heart?
00:38:31Left side.
00:38:33So, I am telling you.
00:38:35In my profession, this is called
00:38:37pattern interrupt.
00:38:39You divert its focus to the heart.
00:38:41Divert to the heart.
00:38:43Because in our body language,
00:38:45you are a very good
00:38:47understanding.
00:38:49You understand this.
00:38:51Body language is more powerful
00:38:53than words.
00:38:55When I am talking to someone
00:38:57and I am pointing towards his heart,
00:38:59I am doing this.
00:39:01Point your heart.
00:39:03I will tell you.
00:39:07Back heart.
00:39:09Pattern interrupt.
00:39:11You are talking to a black heart.
00:39:13Yes, he was. Hard heart.
00:39:15Hard. Black.
00:39:17Hard.
00:39:19I will tell you now.
00:39:21One second. Let me just think
00:39:23what you said in the episode.
00:39:25I will just tell you.
00:39:27You are a nasty man.
00:39:29You are an evil man.
00:39:31Evil heart.
00:39:33Your heart is sick.
00:39:35Your heart is hard.
00:39:37You have a hard heart.
00:39:39Look at you.
00:39:41Left shoulder.
00:39:43I will stand up.
00:39:45I am sorry. I am interrupting.
00:39:47But I just feel that everything
00:39:49has been done to mock.
00:39:51One second. The wife will speak.
00:39:53You don't need to speak.
00:39:55Let me speak to myself.
00:39:57My entire system
00:39:59which I teach is heart driven.
00:40:01Everything is heart driven.
00:40:03When someone is angry,
00:40:05his diversion goes to the heart.
00:40:07That's my interpretation.
00:40:09If you make someone else
00:40:11another interpretation, God knows best.
00:40:13That is why I asked you to explain.
00:40:15And I have explained.
00:40:17But that explanation is not good enough
00:40:19because you are blaming
00:40:21someone's heart.
00:40:23You are blaming someone's heart.
00:40:25If you understand my coaching...
00:40:27You were provoking.
00:40:29You were triggering.
00:40:31So in this...
00:40:33So basically in this
00:40:35where was your heart?
00:40:37My heart was in the right direction
00:40:39because my job was
00:40:41to tell him
00:40:43look at my heart.
00:40:45What did you want to achieve?
00:40:47I wanted to break his pattern.
00:40:49What is the pattern?
00:40:51The pattern can be anything.
00:40:53Can be anything.
00:40:55So if it can be anything
00:40:57and you are not sure.
00:40:59I am sure.
00:41:01No, you just said anything.
00:41:03What pattern can be in anything?
00:41:07When it is predictable
00:41:09what pattern can be in anything?
00:41:13So you said anything.
00:41:15Pattern could be anything.
00:41:17And then
00:41:19you have one too many
00:41:21of these things to tackle.
00:41:23One too many of these patterns.
00:41:25But the problem is
00:41:27that you didn't know
00:41:29how Avinash would react after this.
00:41:33To realise the pattern
00:41:35you need a lot of time.
00:41:37That's incorrect.
00:41:39What am I saying?
00:41:43If you are blaming him
00:41:45that hard heart
00:41:47evil mind
00:41:49dirty mind
00:41:51I didn't say dirty mind.
00:41:53Whatever you said
00:41:57Whatever you said
00:41:59I am talking about that.
00:42:03So does it take one
00:42:05to recognise the other?
00:42:07No.
00:42:09Because I remember clearly
00:42:11that you have said
00:42:13that you will come
00:42:15and you will play mind games
00:42:17and you will play this one
00:42:19and that one
00:42:23I didn't give this narrative.
00:42:25One second.
00:42:27I never gave this narrative.
00:42:29Manipulation.
00:42:31This narrative was given to me.
00:42:33I have clearly said that I am a mind coach.
00:42:35I work on the heart.
00:42:37I work on empowering the heart.
00:42:39Puppet, manipulation.
00:42:41I have never said this.
00:42:43I have never claimed this.
00:42:45I have never done that in my life.
00:42:47That is incorrect.
00:42:51Now I want to ask a question from home.
00:42:53How many times did Arfeen and Sara
00:42:55talk about their profession
00:42:57in this house?
00:42:59They were still doing it.
00:43:03I am doing it because
00:43:05you asked me many times.
00:43:07We are doing it from the first day.
00:43:09Vivian. Yes sir.
00:43:11How many times did you talk?
00:43:13I am doing it but
00:43:15I don't understand
00:43:17what exactly their profession is.
00:43:21But bits and pieces
00:43:23working on the heart
00:43:25we have heard this commonly.
00:43:27I agree with you.
00:43:29I feel the same. Yes sir.
00:43:31Even I don't understand.
00:43:33They have come to Bigg Boss's house
00:43:35to talk about profession.
00:43:39And on the basis of profession
00:43:41they are trying to
00:43:43make their reputation.
00:43:45Salman ji.
00:43:47If I make this statement
00:43:49or when I leave
00:43:51this house
00:43:53then everyone should know
00:43:55and basically
00:43:57they have come here
00:43:59to do advertising
00:44:01and publicity of their profession.
00:44:03Totally incorrect.
00:44:05Look, look, look.
00:44:07We are common people.
00:44:09I don't know what that means.
00:44:11Common means ordinary people.
00:44:13Ordinary minds.
00:44:15Small thinking.
00:44:17We don't have that intellect
00:44:19like yours, intelligence like yours.
00:44:21Knowledge like yours.
00:44:23So we will understand this only.
00:44:25We will understand
00:44:27that you have come here
00:44:29to study your profession.
00:44:31When you leave from here
00:44:33the work you get
00:44:35you will get more work.
00:44:37No, I didn't say that.
00:44:39You have come here to study.
00:44:41I am saying that
00:44:43this is our thinking.
00:44:45I know that
00:44:47Arfeen, Arfeen, Arfeen.
00:44:49Let me complete.
00:44:51I will let you speak.
00:44:53So, this is something
00:44:55they don't teach you in your profession?
00:44:57What?
00:44:59You are supposed to listen, right?
00:45:01Yeah, by profession.
00:45:03Isn't the first thing
00:45:05you have to respond.
00:45:07But I have to respond.
00:45:09If you are saying something
00:45:11that my profession
00:45:13is completely opposite.
00:45:23No.
00:45:25No.
00:45:27Then what do you do?
00:45:29If you don't let anyone speak
00:45:31then what will you learn
00:45:33because
00:45:35that's the point.
00:46:03No, sir.
00:46:09No, sir.
00:46:13No, sir.
00:46:23That is what I am saying.
00:46:33You will have to come down a little
00:46:35to make ordinary people
00:46:37like us understand.
00:46:41You are a Ph.D.
00:46:43We are not able to speak ABCD.
00:46:45And you are speaking in big words
00:46:47and big thoughts.
00:46:49So, we should understand.
00:46:51You have to come down to our level.
00:46:53Planet Earth.
00:46:55You are sitting on the 7th heaven
00:46:57with intellectual knowledge.
00:46:59You can only
00:47:01talk to God.
00:47:03No.
00:47:05No.
00:47:09Not true.
00:47:11No.
00:47:31No.
00:48:01This is not mine.
00:48:03This is not mine.
00:48:05You never said that this is mine.
00:48:15My profession is simply
00:48:17heart activation.
00:48:25I thought I am quite a
00:48:27smart, intelligent
00:48:29you know,
00:48:31man, but I mean, this is
00:48:33you have dwarfed my intelligence.
00:48:35Big time. Big time.
00:48:37No, this is
00:48:39not like that, sir. I mean,
00:48:41I will be honest with you.
00:48:43I want to tell you why I was so upset.
00:48:45Because I think it's important
00:48:47for me to give my explanation
00:48:49if you don't mind.
00:48:51I am not interrupting.
00:48:53I am telling you to repeat
00:48:55what you said.
00:48:57I am telling you that
00:48:59you asked me
00:49:01that I got angry
00:49:03when I talked about my profession.
00:49:05So, I want to tell you
00:49:07what was the reason
00:49:09if you want to. Of course.
00:49:11I will not interrupt you like the way
00:49:13you keep on interrupting me. Please.
00:49:15So, in my profession
00:49:17there are thousands of people
00:49:19who do the same
00:49:21work that I do.
00:49:23Their job is that the people
00:49:25who are stuck,
00:49:27not people with very severe
00:49:29challenges, but people who are stuck,
00:49:31you know, stuck in life,
00:49:33they are shown
00:49:35a little light.
00:49:37Basically, like psychiatrists
00:49:39work, shrinks work.
00:49:41No, no, no. It's not like that.
00:49:43I want to tell you.
00:49:45Look at this again. It's not like that.
00:49:47If you can give me two minutes,
00:49:49I will give you some information.
00:49:51So, very simple as a metaphor.
00:49:53Imagine I am going to a cave
00:49:55and the cave gets darker and darker.
00:49:57Our job is not to ask
00:49:59about their history.
00:50:01Just to nudge them,
00:50:03to turn them around, to look at it
00:50:05in a different direction.
00:50:07So, we don't talk about their past.
00:50:09I just nudge them.
00:50:11Nudge them.
00:50:13Nudge them means for full turnaround
00:50:15and a little.
00:50:17If you are going in a tunnel
00:50:19and it's dark, dark, dark
00:50:21and you have just nudged them,
00:50:23it's a tunnel. They will bump into each other.
00:50:25No, no, no. Nudge in the opposite direction.
00:50:27Nudge means
00:50:29I turn them around.
00:50:31And from there
00:50:33I see light.
00:50:35But Arvind, tell me,
00:50:37it's a tunnel. It's dark, dark, dark.
00:50:39It's a tunnel.
00:50:41It's a tunnel. It's not a cave.
00:50:43It's not a cave. It's a tunnel.
00:50:45On the other side of the tunnel…
00:50:47Yes, you said tunnel.
00:50:49That's why.
00:50:51Yes, that's why.
00:50:53So, on the other side of the tunnel,
00:50:55you nudge them a little more
00:50:57and it's dark, dark, dark
00:50:59and less dark, less dark, less dark
00:51:01and light, light, light, light.
00:51:03Poor guy,
00:51:05he's almost past
00:51:07three-fourths of the tunnel
00:51:09and you turn him around
00:51:11and he's coming back.
00:51:13I just feel
00:51:15that no matter how we explain…
00:51:17Look, Sara,
00:51:19he's an intelligent man.
00:51:21Let me also talk
00:51:23a little bit about intelligence.
00:51:25If all this…
00:51:27Look, what I mean to say is
00:51:29that I knew
00:51:31that he was talking about a cave.
00:51:33But here, in this house,
00:51:35every man
00:51:37holds on to one word and walks.
00:51:39So, I thought, why don't I do the same?
00:51:41I knew
00:51:43that he meant tunnel.
00:51:45Then he came to the tunnel.
00:51:47So, I turned that story around
00:51:49that he's passed three-fourths of the tunnel
00:51:51and there's light there.
00:51:53Now, you nudge him again.
00:51:55Nudge means a little.
00:51:57It's not a turnaround.
00:51:59If you say turnaround, it's a different thing.
00:52:01I just nudge him.
00:52:03Nudge him to stumble
00:52:05in this rock or in that rock.
00:52:07It's a metaphor, sir.
00:52:09Met who?
00:52:11No, it's a metaphor.
00:52:13Met who for what? A drink?
00:52:15Metaphor.
00:52:17Oh, yeah, I know.
00:52:19Metaphor.
00:52:21I'm metaphor.
00:52:23What?
00:52:27So, Arfeen and Sara,
00:52:29I just wanted to make just one point.
00:52:33When you talk about your profession,
00:52:35which you yourself are saying
00:52:37that there are very few people,
00:52:39then you get angry.
00:52:41In their profession,
00:52:43there are so many people.
00:52:45I've never said anything
00:52:47about their acting profession.
00:52:49I'll never say anything in my life
00:52:51because I have so much respect.
00:52:53So, we've heard you say
00:52:55that all these actors
00:52:57are actors, community,
00:52:59actors, community is only acting.
00:53:01Huh?
00:53:03Actors, community,
00:53:05is only acting.
00:53:07They cannot be real.
00:53:09I didn't say this.
00:53:11I didn't say this.
00:53:13No, no, no, no. We called you here.
00:53:15No, no, we called you here.
00:53:17I said acting, community is only acting.
00:53:19Sara just said this.
00:53:21You said this.
00:53:23Mind coach.
00:53:25Mind coach. Mind coach.
00:53:27Pay attention to your own mind.
00:53:29I didn't say this.
00:53:31It's the truth. I didn't say this.
00:53:33Impossible. Because I have so much respect
00:53:35to acting industry.
00:53:37I acted myself.
00:53:41No.
00:53:43I'd like to see it.
00:53:45You'd like to see it?
00:53:47I would never say that.
00:53:51Yes, I said.
00:53:53So, I didn't mean it in a bad way.
00:53:55So, basically,
00:53:57how do I put this?
00:53:59You say something
00:54:01about someone's profession.
00:54:03But when it comes to you,
00:54:05you feel that...
00:54:07I didn't say anything about profession.
00:54:09Never in my life would I do.
00:54:11Me.
00:54:13I didn't say this.
00:54:15Because my involvement...
00:54:17So, basically,
00:54:19it has come like this.
00:54:21It has come like this.
00:54:23They are actors. They cannot be real.
00:54:25They will only act at home.
00:54:27Specially, this has been said
00:54:29about love.
00:54:31I have said about love.
00:54:33We said this before coming to the show.
00:54:37And I am sorry, sir, but everyone says this.
00:54:39Only...
00:54:41But you are a learned person.
00:54:43Rest of the people are fools.
00:54:45Including me.
00:54:47You should understand
00:54:49that if someone says
00:54:51about your profession,
00:54:53you feel sad.
00:54:55Basically,
00:54:57acting means
00:54:59she is a liar.
00:55:01She is a fraud.
00:55:03This is her profession.
00:55:05She herself has said this.
00:55:07I can take her to
00:55:09different levels.
00:55:11I can take her to different levels.
00:55:13Her co-actor has also said this.
00:55:15Avinash, you have also said.
00:55:17Everyone has said this.
00:55:19Avinash has said this.
00:55:21I am...
00:55:23I am talking about you people.
00:55:25Mind coach.
00:55:27I am talking about you people.
00:55:29I am not talking about them.
00:55:31We make mistakes.
00:55:33We even apologize.
00:55:35But you...
00:55:37But you...
00:55:39I swear to God.
00:55:41What all I am going through
00:55:43in my life.
00:55:45And I have to come and handle this.
00:55:55I think it's just about being targeted.
00:55:57I don't really. It doesn't matter.
00:55:59Life.
00:56:01No, I don't have to prove myself.
00:56:07Don't waste your time.
00:56:09What's the energy?
00:56:13Zara, keep quiet.
00:56:15Time.
00:56:17No wonder.
00:56:23You have to say
00:56:25that we advertise ourselves.
00:56:27When did I target the actor?
00:56:29No, he was talking to Zara.
00:56:31Why is he saying that I am doing it?
00:56:33Even if I have done it.
00:56:35In the heat of the moment.
00:56:37She is an actor as well.
00:56:39Tell him.
00:56:41In case if I have done it.
00:56:43Please don't irritate me now.
00:56:45What did she say?
00:56:47She has told me as well.
00:56:49Salman sir has told me.
00:56:51I didn't know.
00:56:53You are behind me.
00:56:55I didn't know what he was saying.
00:56:57I got to know when Salman sir said it.
00:56:59Big Boss has told me.
00:57:01To say this.
00:57:03Why does he mean that?
00:57:05He has called me.
00:57:07Ignore him.
00:57:09Ignore him.
00:57:11Leave him alone.
00:57:13I will listen to what he says.
00:57:15You listen to what he says.
00:57:17You haven't listened to what he said.
00:57:19I will listen to what he says.
00:57:21He will also talk now.
00:57:23I will listen to what he says.
00:57:25I don't know how to speak Hindi.
00:57:27I will listen to what he says.
00:57:29What your attitude is.
00:57:33When I took the name.
00:57:35Salman sir asked me.
00:57:37I told him that it was Alice.
00:57:39Shrutika sir, I was also there.
00:57:41You were shouting in Good Works.
00:57:43That girls are not safe.
00:57:45You did this to Arjun.
00:57:47There is no way to talk.
00:57:49Nothing.
00:57:51Yes ma'am.
00:57:53You are supposed to go back in the jail.
00:57:55Yes ma'am.
00:57:57He will say.
00:58:01He doesn't have any knowledge of my profession.
00:58:03Forget knowledge about your profession.
00:58:05Respect for his colleagues of his own profession.
00:58:07What he will have respect for everyone else.
00:58:09I am not saying this.
00:58:11I will listen to what he says.
00:58:13I will listen to what he says.
00:58:15My mind is clear now.
00:58:17Yes.
00:58:19He manipulates a lot.
00:58:21From today.
00:58:23I will not speak about my profession.
00:58:25Because when I didn't speak.
00:58:27I was told that it is a confused profession.
00:58:29Tell me about yourself.
00:58:31When he tells the story.
00:58:33We advertise ourselves.
00:58:35So it's nice.
00:58:37As soon as the screen shut.
00:58:39They are targeting us.
00:58:41Salman sir.
00:58:43What will we do?
00:58:45They are targeting us.
00:58:47We are not God.
00:58:49We are humans as well.
00:58:51Why are you putting us in that?
00:58:53They don't understand.
00:58:55I am not here to tell you.
00:58:57What I do.
00:58:59I came to play Big Boss.
00:59:01They are playing the game.
00:59:03I can say that actors are massaging actors.
00:59:05Because we are different.
00:59:07We are left behind.
00:59:09I am sorry but mind coaches also react.
00:59:11I am a heart as well.
00:59:13The objective is to react.
00:59:15I remember what I said.
00:59:17You don't need mind coaching.
00:59:19Till yesterday I said.
00:59:21I didn't say anything else.
00:59:23I said sorry for that.
00:59:25I said sorry for that.
00:59:27I am glad you said sorry.
00:59:29That cleared so many things.
00:59:31I know your ego was coming again.
00:59:33Because you knew in your head.
00:59:35But glad.
00:59:41Now you read and watch.
00:59:43And see how people say.
00:59:45They are watching from a psychology perspective.
00:59:47From a psychiatrist perspective.
00:59:49Which is fine.
00:59:51They will listen to what you say.
00:59:53I can say one actor is being.
00:59:55Biased towards another actor.
00:59:57Okay.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:09Even an actor is saying.
01:00:11That she is acting.
01:00:13Apparently that's allowed.
01:00:15One actor can say but.
01:00:19It's fine.
01:00:21See how his attitude is even more.
01:00:23Last time also.
01:00:25Last time also.
01:00:27It's not over yet.
01:00:29This is a game.
01:00:31I know.
01:00:33That's the game.
01:00:35That's the game.
01:00:37If it is a game only of targeting us.
01:00:39And you don't understand the profession.
01:00:41He knows everything.
01:00:43He addressed mine.
01:00:45He addressed it very respectfully.
01:00:47With us it was not respectful.
01:00:49He showed him his place.
01:00:51I don't understand Shilpa.
01:00:53I don't understand Shilpa.
01:00:55If I am saying.
01:00:57She is also saying.
01:00:59I am sorry.
01:01:01But she was laughing first.
01:01:03She was laughing alone.
01:01:05We didn't laugh.
01:01:07We didn't dare to laugh.
01:01:09And I looked at Avinash.
01:01:11Even he did not laugh.
01:01:13And she is the closest.
01:01:15He will speak to all of us.
01:01:17And then he will come to him.
01:01:19Salman has a perspective.
01:01:21And his perspective is his.
01:01:23And my perspective is mine.
01:01:25Agreed.
01:01:27He cannot know about my profession.
01:01:29He has not spent any time with me.
01:01:31Sit down.
01:01:33He will say again and again.
01:01:35I am coming.
01:01:37I am telling you.
01:01:39I have come here.
01:01:41The commentator has come.
01:01:43I am going to jail.
01:01:45If you want to comment.
01:01:47I will do it.
01:01:49Don't worry.
01:01:51I will listen.
01:01:53And I will implement it.
01:01:55And I will not say that I will be targeted.
01:01:59So Sara.
01:02:01Yes.
01:02:03Are you in the same profession as your husband?
01:02:05Sir, I am not in any profession.
01:02:07No?
01:02:09Why are you getting angry?
01:02:11Talk.
01:02:13On what are you getting angry?
01:02:15On myself.
01:02:17On what?
01:02:23So basically.
01:02:25The coach will need the coach.
01:02:27This happened on this.
01:02:29No, not on this.
01:02:31The way Avinash said.
01:02:33Big boss also says.
01:02:35You are not seeing what he is saying.
01:02:37But the statement was the same.
01:02:39I said the same statement.
01:02:41You are right.
01:02:43You have made a fuss on that.
01:02:45I didn't even come to talk to you.
01:02:47You both.
01:02:49I have heard.
01:02:51And the rest of the family has also heard.
01:02:53And you didn't make a fuss.
01:02:55I said the same statement.
01:02:57I said the same statement.
01:02:59Relax.
01:03:01Sara.
01:03:03The coach will need the coach.
01:03:05Let's ask Arfeen.
01:03:07In your field.
01:03:09Are you the best?
01:03:11In the world.
01:03:13No.
01:03:15There are some things.
01:03:17You must be discussing with your wife.
01:03:19You must be thinking.
01:03:21This is this.
01:03:23How to tackle this.
01:03:25You are right about this.
01:03:27Do you need it?
01:03:29Of course.
01:03:31That connotation was different.
01:03:33It was the connotation of anger.
01:03:35It was a fight.
01:03:37The coach will need the coach.
01:03:39Your trigger point was that.
01:03:41Do you know everyone's trigger point?
01:03:43No.
01:03:45You said.
01:03:47You counted my trigger point.
01:03:49I didn't tell you the trigger point.
01:03:51I told you something else.
01:03:53You told me.
01:03:55With Karan.
01:03:57There was a whole conversation.
01:03:59About the trigger point.
01:04:01But you.
01:04:03You got so entangled.
01:04:05In your profession.
01:04:07In people's trigger points.
01:04:09You forgot your own trigger point.
01:04:11I have a trigger point.
01:04:13I am a human.
01:04:15Wow.
01:04:17You said thank you.
01:04:19I thought you were something else.
01:04:21Oh my God.
01:04:23I thought you were a God.
01:04:25Someone sent you from above.
01:04:27That's what I thought.
01:04:31No. I am definitely human.
01:04:33So, basically.
01:04:35Coach needs coach.
01:04:37Is there a problem?
01:04:39No.
01:04:41It's the way he said it.
01:04:43Everyone was present.
01:04:45Everyone was quiet.
01:04:47Everyone felt bad.
01:04:49Even his friends.
01:04:51I didn't have a problem.
01:04:53It was clear.
01:04:55I am not talking to you.
01:04:57I will say.
01:04:59I am not talking to you.
01:05:01I am upset with myself.
01:05:03Is this a way?
01:05:05That's my way.
01:05:07To slap yourself.
01:05:09Is this a way to express?
01:05:11Yes.
01:05:19So, I want to tell you.
01:05:21Look, Sarah.
01:05:23This is your profession.
01:05:25You need to be.
01:05:27And Arfi needs to be.
01:05:29Extra cautious.
01:05:31Because from here.
01:05:33It can be totally ruined.
01:05:35So, according to mind coach.
01:05:37You have come here.
01:05:39As husband and wife team.
01:05:41You have to change your profession.
01:05:43You have to enter TV, movies.
01:05:45Whatever you have to do.
01:05:47Then that is different.
01:05:49But if you have to stay in this profession.
01:05:51Then you need to be.
01:05:55Very careful.
01:05:57Of what you are reacting.
01:05:59Doesn't matter.
01:06:01Doesn't matter how someone is reacting.
01:06:03No, I agree.
01:06:05I genuinely. I accept that.
01:06:07You are right.
01:06:09You get what I am saying.
01:06:11I genuinely mean what you are saying.
01:06:13I agree.
01:06:15Because this is your profession.
01:06:17If you want to help others.
01:06:19But you react like them.
01:06:21Those who need help.
01:06:23Then what are you doing?
01:06:25No, I agree.
01:06:27I genuinely agree.
01:06:29When a movie is released.
01:06:31Critics say.
01:06:33Someone praises.
01:06:35Should I get offended by that?
01:06:37It is their opinion.
01:06:39I was telling Shilpa earlier.
01:06:41These are their words.
01:06:43This is the first elementary thing.
01:06:45In your profession.
01:06:47You should have knowledge of this.
01:06:49You should have a knowledge of this.
01:06:51That whatever comes out of other's mouth.
01:06:53Should not be affecting you.
01:06:55Right now.
01:06:57Your approaches are getting affected.
01:06:59By what I am saying.
01:07:01Sure.
01:07:03So do you also think that I need
01:07:05psychiatric treatment?
01:07:07No, I don't know anything about psychiatry.
01:07:09No.
01:07:11Not at all.
01:07:13But he needs help.
01:07:15Abhinash.
01:07:17Yeah, I think he does.
01:07:19You need a therapist.
01:07:21There is nothing wrong with a therapist.
01:07:23Everyone goes to a therapist.
01:07:25It is not a negative thing.
01:07:27And I am not saying this sarcasm.
01:07:29I am saying this with empathy.
01:07:31No, not sarcasm.
01:07:33That's exactly what I am saying.
01:07:35You are not listening to what anyone is saying.
01:07:37You are not even remembering what you have said.
01:07:39I am very sorry.
01:07:41I have less hearing in my left ear.
01:07:43That's why I can't hear you.
01:07:45I have a hearing loss of 60% in my left ear.
01:07:47Okay.
01:07:49Sorry about that.
01:07:51That's why I am trying to concentrate.
01:07:53That's okay.
01:07:55But I was saying exactly what you were saying.
01:07:57This is not sarcasm.
01:07:59This is not sarcasm.
01:08:01I am saying this with empathy.
01:08:03That he needs to go to a therapist.
01:08:05Sorry, I didn't hear.
01:08:07Sorry.
01:08:09So, this cannot be in an argument.
01:08:11You said this.
01:08:13So, this also goes with this.
01:08:17Salman ji, can I just say one last thing?
01:08:19Yes, please.
01:08:21I have done messaging
01:08:23that I do manipulation and all.
01:08:25This is also not my work.
01:08:27I just have a challenge in this.
01:08:29Mind coach is mind coach. I get that.
01:08:31Of course, even I need a coach.
01:08:33I also have a coach. I have a coach.
01:08:35I have 5-6 coaches.
01:08:37Okay.
01:08:39But they have not done a good job on you at all then.
01:08:41I am sure they haven't.
01:08:43You should hire me as your mind coach.
01:08:45From where I have come.
01:08:47From where I am coming from.
01:08:49I am telling you.
01:08:51They have done a very good job.
01:08:53From where I was. I was in a really bad space.
01:08:55Very bad. Very bad.
01:08:57Very bad space.
01:08:59So,
01:09:01Basically it means that
01:09:03don't do so much on
01:09:05small things.
01:09:07Give it your best.
01:09:09Put your right foot forward.
01:09:11Your best foot forward.
01:09:13There are bigger problems
01:09:15than this.
01:09:17Huger problems in life.
01:09:23What he is asking,
01:09:25the people are also asking outside.
01:09:27What is the process and what do you do?
01:09:29That's what he is asking.
01:09:31So, that means you are promoting your work.
01:09:33That's what he is saying.
01:09:35If you are promoting your work.
01:09:37When he is asking,
01:09:39you are saying no, I am not promoting.
01:09:41I did not understand what he was saying.
01:09:43He said that only.
01:09:45I told you the audience is big.
01:09:47They are trying to understand
01:09:49what he is doing.
01:09:51I am delighted that people are confused.
01:09:53That's the motive.
01:09:55The more they are confused, the more they will come to you directly.
01:09:57Mission accomplished.
01:09:59Mission is accomplished.
01:10:01People will ask later.
01:10:03Game well played then.
01:10:05What do you do?
01:10:07He does not understand.
01:10:09Tell him.
01:10:11Be on the same page.
01:10:13I saw her slap herself.
01:10:17I missed it.
01:10:19No, it was right in front of me.
01:10:21She slapped herself.
01:10:23Do you understand?
01:10:25Drop it.
01:10:27It's a really bad time.
01:10:29I know
01:10:31that the person
01:10:33they are talking about.
01:10:35Don't mention the name.
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