Bigg Boss 18 - 19th October 2024
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00:00:30How does it feel?
00:00:30Very bad.
00:00:31Your sister must be watching.
00:00:34You should never lose your temper over food.
00:00:38I didn't lose my temper over food.
00:00:39I lost my temper over my behavior.
00:00:42Arfeen, what is this gesture?
00:00:44That's my process.
00:00:45You won't tell me, will you?
00:00:46No.
00:00:47I did this.
00:00:48This also has a lot of meanings.
00:00:50Just watch what I do to you.
00:00:52I know that...
00:00:53Arfeen, in your profession, you are not taught to listen to others.
00:00:58No.
00:00:59You are a learned man.
00:01:01Everyone else is a fool.
00:01:03Including me.
00:01:04I didn't say this.
00:01:05And...
00:01:06At least do something.
00:01:08You have to give up.
00:01:09Don't worry.
00:01:10Don't worry.
00:01:11You will learn everything.
00:01:12We are here.
00:01:13Don't worry.
00:01:13Okay, so you will think I am right.
00:01:15I am your father.
00:01:16Come on, say it.
00:01:17Don't move.
00:01:18Stay in your limits.
00:01:19Stay in your limits.
00:01:21Do you understand?
00:01:22Don't hit me.
00:01:23Don't hit me.
00:01:25Don't hit me.
00:01:29Welcome.
00:01:36Hello, Namaste, Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:38How are you?
00:01:40How are you?
00:01:41How are you?
00:01:42And welcome to Big Boss.
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00:01:57Welcome to Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:59For the first time in this season,
00:02:01a new title,
00:02:03a new position has been introduced.
00:02:05Time God.
00:02:08This year, in this game of Time,
00:02:11it is very difficult to become Time God.
00:02:15Because with this position,
00:02:17there are such powers,
00:02:19which no captain has ever had.
00:02:22Unfortunately,
00:02:23these family members
00:02:25have not yet realized the value of this Time God position.
00:02:29Shilpa ji is not fit to become Time God.
00:02:32Because she never gives an opinion on time.
00:02:35Sara had made an image of me from outside.
00:02:38And I didn't turn out to be of her choice here.
00:02:40Really?
00:02:41All of them were clear about the fact
00:02:44that no one should become Time God.
00:02:46Avinash is more self-obsessed.
00:02:48He thinks less about other members.
00:02:51But none of them thought that
00:02:54who should become Time God.
00:02:56And in such a situation,
00:02:58they made Time God Arfeen.
00:03:01Big Boss!
00:03:02I am the God of Time!
00:03:05Give food to everyone.
00:03:06Denied.
00:03:07Go.
00:03:08I asked for the ration.
00:03:09He denied it.
00:03:10No food will be prepared in the kitchen
00:03:11until the whole group is prepared.
00:03:13No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:15But for the first time ever,
00:03:17did Time God use his responsibility
00:03:19What are you doing?
00:03:21and power correctly?
00:03:23I can even turn on the gas.
00:03:24No one can stop me.
00:03:26Or did you see the power in other people's hands
00:03:28in different situations?
00:03:30Then burn it and show it to me.
00:03:32I will burn it and show it to you.
00:03:34It is my right to burn gas at home
00:03:36and cook food.
00:03:37And no one can stop me from that.
00:03:40If a person wants to eat,
00:03:43he can go and cook.
00:03:44He doesn't have to agree with the majority.
00:03:48That is a common place.
00:03:49She won't cook for one person at a time.
00:03:51If she wants to cook, she will cook for everyone.
00:03:53If she had a gas stove, she would have cooked.
00:03:55As always, you are following this show very closely.
00:03:58You are watching every episode.
00:04:00But you are seeing what is happening here.
00:04:03We want to eat non-vegetarian food.
00:04:05No ma'am, we are not getting that.
00:04:10The senior member of the house
00:04:12neither got food
00:04:14No food will be served.
00:04:15nor did he get forgiveness.
00:04:17Come, I will show you.
00:04:19We say where it is wrong.
00:04:22Then say it loudly.
00:04:23You have to make it a topic.
00:04:25Yesterday, whatever you said
00:04:26Did you say anything today?
00:04:28You were just standing.
00:04:31Ma'am
00:04:32And then you said the topic was not that big.
00:04:33Ma'am, exactly my point
00:04:35Not for me to come.
00:04:36You were already shouting.
00:04:39So, the topic is not that big.
00:04:41He said one thing,
00:04:42about good books.
00:04:43Okay, understand.
00:04:45And he said, don't demand.
00:04:47Ask from me.
00:04:49Ask.
00:04:50Ask.
00:04:51Not say.
00:04:52Ask.
00:04:53What do you mean?
00:04:54Will you sit on the floor and ask?
00:04:56Ma'am, you also know that it is not like that.
00:04:57Don't tell me what you think about him.
00:04:59Because what you think about him
00:05:00is very different from what I think.
00:05:03Shilpa ma'am is very hurt.
00:05:05And you talk to her.
00:05:07I am still talking to her.
00:05:08She didn't eat anything.
00:05:09I didn't misbehave with you.
00:05:12I didn't humiliate you.
00:05:14By saying something for you.
00:05:15According to you,
00:05:16that is not humiliation, Avinash.
00:05:18But the person you are talking to
00:05:20can be humiliated.
00:05:22Keeping your point of view
00:05:24will be right according to you.
00:05:26But when you repeatedly
00:05:28say the same thing to the other person,
00:05:30repeatedly,
00:05:32that is humiliation
00:05:34in various forms.
00:05:36I want an apology,
00:05:37not for anything else.
00:05:39Because I am A,
00:05:41a mother of a 20 year old.
00:05:43I will not take this accusation
00:05:45all the time.
00:05:46And it's a humiliation for me.
00:05:47To say,
00:05:48you are not in my good books.
00:05:50You can never be.
00:05:52You have proved today
00:05:54how you are.
00:05:55And what have I done?
00:05:56Tell me.
00:05:57But ma'am,
00:05:58you are making it your own.
00:06:00I am not making it my own.
00:06:01I am telling you.
00:06:02If you don't think
00:06:04you have done something wrong,
00:06:05that is your point of view.
00:06:06No problem.
00:06:07I take it personally.
00:06:08And I will say it today on camera.
00:06:10The way you talk to me,
00:06:13I take it as a personal humiliation.
00:06:16Which is not accepted for me.
00:06:18How much do you know me
00:06:19to talk about my character?
00:06:21I am not talking about your character.
00:06:22I am talking about your tactic
00:06:23of coming in good books.
00:06:24That.
00:06:25Which book?
00:06:26Which book are you talking about?
00:06:28What book are you writing
00:06:30that I need to be in your book?
00:06:32And I do feel humiliated.
00:06:34And I will not eat whatever you send out
00:06:36until you are sorry
00:06:38for what you said
00:06:39and you feel apologetic.
00:06:40For me,
00:06:41sorry is not a big word.
00:06:42But for your ego,
00:06:43sorry will be a very big word.
00:06:45Ma'am, your ego is losing.
00:06:46My ego is not there.
00:06:47Because
00:06:48My ego is not with anyone.
00:06:50What are you saying, ma'am?
00:06:51You are not eating the food that I am giving.
00:06:53I will not eat.
00:06:54It is my wish.
00:06:56Somebody take it away for Shilpa ji.
00:06:57Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:06:59Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:07:00We will send breakfast to Shilpa ji.
00:07:02Give it to her.
00:07:03I have to feed her.
00:07:04She is our friend.
00:07:05I am not eating.
00:07:06I don't like it.
00:07:07Give it to her.
00:07:08Who will eat it?
00:07:09She has gone mad.
00:07:11I am not eating.
00:07:13What are you doing?
00:07:14Sit down.
00:07:15Don't irritate me.
00:07:16Sit down.
00:07:19I am not eating.
00:07:20I have made it.
00:07:21Taste it.
00:07:22I have made it.
00:07:23Listen, taste it.
00:07:24How is it?
00:07:26Oh, man!
00:07:28Where is this energy coming from?
00:07:29She wants to lose weight.
00:07:30Do you see?
00:07:33I think even Shilpa ma'am
00:07:34has lost her ego.
00:07:35Yes.
00:07:36As far as I can understand.
00:07:37Yes.
00:07:38On professionalism,
00:07:39someone said
00:07:40you shouldn't say this.
00:07:41It doesn't suit you.
00:07:42But,
00:07:43in a game show,
00:07:44she didn't even say
00:07:45this about the character.
00:07:46I have been saying this
00:07:47since the beginning.
00:07:48And she cried four times.
00:07:49And she made it look like
00:07:50Avinash said something to her.
00:07:51Yes.
00:07:52I also felt the same.
00:07:53Because I say things
00:07:54in anger.
00:07:55That's why I said it
00:07:56in front of her.
00:07:57Ma'am,
00:07:58I didn't feel
00:07:59it was a big deal.
00:08:00Just eat.
00:08:01Why are you
00:08:02troubling your health?
00:08:03I am not troubled at all.
00:08:04I will tell you
00:08:05when I feel like it.
00:08:06Will you tell me
00:08:07or will you eat?
00:08:08I will tell you.
00:08:09Not now?
00:08:10Then when will you eat?
00:08:13I get jealous.
00:08:14Because I don't get
00:08:15as much importance
00:08:16as she does.
00:08:17It's not for her.
00:08:18It's for me.
00:08:19I am putting myself first.
00:08:21She is not eating.
00:08:22She is stubborn.
00:08:23She is stubborn.
00:08:24And she doesn't realize
00:08:25that right now.
00:08:26Right?
00:08:27If something goes wrong,
00:08:28all the competition
00:08:29will be lost.
00:08:30And all the ego
00:08:31will be lost.
00:08:32We don't even know
00:08:33where it will go.
00:08:35Look at her condition.
00:08:36I am worried
00:08:37about her.
00:08:38Not just her.
00:08:39Afin is also strong.
00:08:40I am worried
00:08:41about her.
00:08:42It's a decision
00:08:43that she has taken.
00:08:44I was there, Sara.
00:08:45I was there.
00:08:47There was no
00:08:48budget or anything.
00:08:50I was there.
00:09:04What are you doing
00:09:05with yourself?
00:09:06I don't understand.
00:09:07What are you fighting
00:09:08for or against?
00:09:09What is the problem?
00:09:10Why don't you eat food?
00:09:11It's very wrong.
00:09:12No, no. I am fine.
00:09:13You are wrong.
00:09:14What you are doing
00:09:15is wrong.
00:09:16Wrong.
00:09:17Someone made a mistake
00:09:18and you are suffering.
00:09:19It's wrong.
00:09:20If you are not eating,
00:09:21I am also not eating.
00:09:22Whatever you are doing
00:09:23is wrong.
00:09:24You colored your hair
00:09:25and you are looking good.
00:09:26Don't wear glasses.
00:09:27No.
00:09:28Show me.
00:09:30Congratulations.
00:09:31Congratulations.
00:09:32Congratulations.
00:09:33Congratulations.
00:09:34Congratulations.
00:09:37Shrutika has
00:09:38puked more than 4 times.
00:09:39What?
00:09:40Shrutika has puked
00:09:41more than 4 times.
00:09:42Call her.
00:09:43We will talk to her.
00:09:44Call her.
00:09:45Call her.
00:09:46Look,
00:09:47Shrutika and
00:09:48one of us
00:09:49you would have
00:09:50made sure
00:09:51that one of us
00:09:52fed her
00:09:53and then put her to sleep.
00:09:54Correct.
00:09:55He is saying
00:09:56please talk to her.
00:09:57This is the skirt.
00:09:58Nice.
00:09:59Nice.
00:10:00Yeah, very nice.
00:10:01Which has the slit.
00:10:02Superb.
00:10:03Did you get it?
00:10:06These are the
00:10:07this is the blouse.
00:10:08You had worn
00:10:09something similar.
00:10:10Yes.
00:10:11So, not this.
00:10:12Not this, right?
00:10:13And her dupatta
00:10:14is again the same style
00:10:15that I wore last time.
00:10:16No, no, no.
00:10:17That was your patent dress.
00:10:20Hello.
00:10:21Hello.
00:10:22Shrutika.
00:10:24Can we come and talk now?
00:10:25Please, Shrutika.
00:10:26Please.
00:10:27Only 5 minutes.
00:10:28I don't want to come right now.
00:10:29I just want to be alone.
00:10:30Please.
00:10:31Okay, leave it for 5 minutes.
00:10:32Is she ready to apologize?
00:10:34I don't want to talk to anyone.
00:10:36I want to be alone.
00:10:37Please, Shrutika.
00:10:38Okay.
00:10:39Okay.
00:10:40Okay.
00:10:41Okay.
00:10:42I am also coming.
00:10:46Vibin Bhai.
00:10:47Yes, Bhai.
00:10:48Will you take Shilpa's food inside?
00:10:50I will talk to her.
00:10:51She won't be able to get up.
00:10:52Will you take her food inside?
00:10:53Maybe she will listen to you.
00:10:55She won't listen to anyone else.
00:10:56Will you take her food?
00:10:57I am going.
00:10:59Take her food.
00:11:00I will talk to her.
00:11:01No problem.
00:11:03Take your medicine.
00:11:04Not food.
00:11:08Do you want rice?
00:11:09They are coming.
00:11:10I don't want rice.
00:11:11Okay.
00:11:12Shilpa.
00:11:14Shilpa.
00:11:15Shilpa.
00:11:16Please, you eat.
00:11:19You are strong.
00:11:20You said you are strong.
00:11:21Strong girl.
00:11:25Let's go.
00:11:26Okay.
00:11:37No, no, no.
00:11:38This is...
00:11:39Shilpa, please eat the rice.
00:11:42I swear I will throw up.
00:11:43Okay, okay.
00:11:44Curd.
00:11:45Shilpa.
00:11:46I will throw up.
00:11:47Shilpa.
00:11:48I will throw up.
00:11:49Shilpa.
00:11:50He is talking.
00:11:51He is talking.
00:11:52I didn't misbehave with you.
00:11:55But if you felt bad, I am really sorry.
00:11:59It's okay.
00:12:00Please.
00:12:01Now eat.
00:12:02It's been two days.
00:12:03Eat one spoon.
00:12:04Please.
00:12:05Please.
00:12:06Ma'am, I didn't mean to misbehave.
00:12:10Very good.
00:12:13Nice.
00:12:14Very good.
00:12:15Very good.
00:12:16Listen.
00:12:17I won't give you more.
00:12:18I won't give you more.
00:12:25Okay.
00:12:29Are you all fine?
00:12:30Yes, sir.
00:12:31How are you?
00:12:32I am also fine.
00:12:33Did you eat?
00:12:34Yes, sir.
00:12:35Yes, sir.
00:12:36Did you eat well?
00:12:37Yes, sir.
00:12:38That's good.
00:12:39Did you apologize to everyone?
00:12:41To whom you had to apologize?
00:12:46Is everything sorted?
00:12:47Yes, sir.
00:12:48Good.
00:12:49Avinash, do you have any pending sorry?
00:12:51No, sir.
00:12:52Apologize.
00:12:53Apologize.
00:12:54No, sir.
00:12:55I didn't mean to apologize.
00:12:56I wanted to talk.
00:12:57Sir, the day I got eliminated,
00:12:59I was obviously very angry.
00:13:02I was a little angry.
00:13:03So, I said,
00:13:04whatever has happened,
00:13:05whatever I felt was wrong,
00:13:07I need to apologize for that.
00:13:09I will do it after that.
00:13:10I will come to that, Avinash.
00:13:11Yes, sir.
00:13:12I will come to that.
00:13:15Shilpa.
00:13:17I hate tears, Shilpa.
00:13:19Hmm.
00:13:20When your daughter used to cry,
00:13:22does she still cry?
00:13:24How do you feel?
00:13:26Very bad.
00:13:27Very bad.
00:13:28Now, the mother is crying,
00:13:29how does the daughter feel?
00:13:32Tell me.
00:13:33And this is not just an hour long show,
00:13:37this goes on 24x7 as well.
00:13:40So, 24x7,
00:13:42she must be looking at her mother.
00:13:47She must be looking at this as well.
00:13:48The one who is holding back a tear.
00:13:52And this other one.
00:13:54Your sister must be watching as well.
00:14:02So, when your daughter was little,
00:14:04and she used to get angry,
00:14:06and she used to get angry at food.
00:14:09What did you say to her?
00:14:11I wasn't angry at food,
00:14:12I was angry at her behaviour.
00:14:14I was angry at her attitude.
00:14:16Yes, but if you are angry at your attitude,
00:14:19then get angry at that attitude.
00:14:22Why is somebody else's words,
00:14:24whatever he is saying,
00:14:26or the way he is speaking,
00:14:28you don't like it.
00:14:30Why are you wasting your emotion
00:14:33for somebody else?
00:14:35You should never get angry at food.
00:14:39And especially when you are on medication,
00:14:42and you are not even taking medicines.
00:14:46And why are you going according to your feelings?
00:14:49You have come to this house.
00:14:51You know what all you have to do in this house.
00:14:54You shouldn't have any relation with your feelings in this house.
00:14:58Like today, I have this feeling
00:15:00that I didn't have to come here today.
00:15:02I didn't have to come here.
00:15:04But, there is a commitment.
00:15:06That's why I have come here.
00:15:08I have a work.
00:15:10I have come to do that work.
00:15:12I don't want to meet anybody.
00:15:14I don't want to meet you people.
00:15:16But, I am bound to do this.
00:15:18And because of somebody else's words,
00:15:20you are hurting yourself.
00:15:22And you are hurting your whole family.
00:15:24What is the use?
00:15:26This game is of will power.
00:15:28This game is your thinking.
00:15:30Your thoughts.
00:15:32Intelligence.
00:15:34So, you took a stand for yourself.
00:15:36Very good, right?
00:15:38It was really nice.
00:15:40It was very good.
00:15:42But, the highlight of this is that
00:15:44everybody was eating.
00:15:46But, only two people were affected.
00:15:48Only two.
00:15:50You and Avinash.
00:15:52Rest, everybody moved on.
00:15:54So, whenever
00:15:56they got their food,
00:15:58they moved on.
00:16:00They didn't even look back.
00:16:02And one more simple thing.
00:16:04When you were not eating,
00:16:06then,
00:16:08now you have become a time god, Arfeen.
00:16:10Why didn't they keep the kitchen closed?
00:16:17Shall we start from the beginning?
00:16:19When Bhaggappa ji
00:16:21and Hema ji
00:16:23were in jail,
00:16:25they distributed a lot of ration.
00:16:27There was no problem.
00:16:29When they had to come out of jail,
00:16:31then,
00:16:33they submitted all the ration
00:16:35to who?
00:16:37To Big Boss.
00:16:39There was no problem
00:16:41with that either.
00:16:43Big Boss then announced
00:16:45that you will now live
00:16:47on basic ration.
00:16:49There was no problem
00:16:51with that either.
00:16:53When two days passed
00:16:55on basic ration,
00:16:57then people started thinking
00:16:59that now we are hungry.
00:17:01Now we need luxury ration.
00:17:03We need full course meal.
00:17:05Then you started the discussion.
00:17:08And then Big Boss
00:17:10gave you guys two options.
00:17:12What were those options?
00:17:14Jail and elimination.
00:17:16All of you chose
00:17:18the option of jail.
00:17:20Am I going right?
00:17:22Yes.
00:17:24So tell me,
00:17:26all those who
00:17:28wanted sorries,
00:17:30did they get it?
00:17:32Did everyone get it?
00:17:34Yes.
00:17:36I have a simple question.
00:17:38If
00:17:40on national television
00:17:42there is an allegation against you
00:17:44and that allegation
00:17:46is that
00:17:48with this person
00:17:50girls are not safe
00:17:52at home.
00:17:54And on that basis
00:17:56you
00:17:58are eliminated
00:18:00from home
00:18:02for ration.
00:18:04And after that
00:18:06if that person is given
00:18:08control of that ration,
00:18:10then tell me
00:18:12who will not take revenge?
00:18:16Who will say
00:18:18I am not angry, I am not upset.
00:18:20Leave the revenge.
00:18:22I want to teach them a lesson.
00:18:24Radha ji,
00:18:26if you
00:18:28were in place of Avinash
00:18:30and if
00:18:32you were put on luncheon
00:18:34and you were
00:18:36thrown out of the house
00:18:38and when you come back
00:18:40and the control
00:18:42of ration is in your hands
00:18:44then
00:18:46the revenge
00:18:48that Avinash has done
00:18:50for you
00:18:52won't you feel like doing it?
00:18:54I think
00:18:56I understand better.
00:18:58Now I will show them.
00:19:00I think
00:19:02I understand and feel
00:19:04that if you don't want to do anything
00:19:06but that allegation is put on you
00:19:08then how do you feel?
00:19:10As far as food is concerned, I will see that later.
00:19:12If this had happened to me
00:19:14and he had given food, I wouldn't have given it.
00:19:16You wouldn't have given? Not at all.
00:19:18I know that not giving food is wrong
00:19:20but I would have cleared that thing
00:19:22from every person.
00:19:24Or you would have played with them for a while.
00:19:26No, I don't play, I don't give.
00:19:29Like Rajat said
00:19:31that he doesn't give food.
00:19:33Raise your hand and tell me
00:19:35how many great men,
00:19:37great ladies
00:19:39and gods are there
00:19:41who do this?
00:19:43Who give food instantly?
00:19:45I would have given.
00:19:49Do you give food?
00:19:51Yes, I would have given
00:19:53but I would have expected an explanation
00:19:55for what happened.
00:19:57I would have not given
00:19:59or not given also no Salman.
00:20:01Correct. Abhinash has done the same.
00:20:03KB, if someone tells you
00:20:05that a girl is not feeling safe
00:20:07on national television
00:20:09then what?
00:20:11Sir, first of all,
00:20:13I don't think it ever happens in that position.
00:20:15That's a different thing.
00:20:17If it doesn't happen in this position
00:20:19then it will happen in some other position.
00:20:21Correct. If it had happened
00:20:23then I would have given food first
00:20:25but instead of giving food
00:20:27I wouldn't have expected
00:20:29that people would come
00:20:31and treat me like a god
00:20:33that you are a beggar
00:20:35and if you give then I will talk
00:20:37because it was happening repeatedly.
00:20:39What were Abhinash's
00:20:41demands after coming to jail?
00:20:45When Abhinash came back
00:20:47we were all very happy
00:20:49because I felt genuinely bad
00:20:51when Abhinash was eliminated
00:20:53No, I don't think very many people
00:20:55were happy that Abhinash is back.
00:20:57I am not talking about very many people
00:20:59but I was genuinely happy
00:21:01No, you just said there
00:21:03we all were happy.
00:21:05There were a few handful of us
00:21:07who were happy to have him back.
00:21:09No, no. My question is
00:21:11What about his demands?
00:21:13His demands, what he was sending
00:21:15messages through Chahat was
00:21:17call everyone individually
00:21:19and I will give them
00:21:21food and you all
00:21:23make food individually
00:21:25so we said we won't do that
00:21:27if we have to do it
00:21:29then we will all go together
00:21:31So Chahat, you say
00:21:33Actually, what Arfeen ji
00:21:35had said that
00:21:37when everyone will get food
00:21:39then only the gas will start
00:21:41and no one was ready
00:21:43to go and talk to Abhinash
00:21:45Abhinash just wanted
00:21:47that if he is in jail
00:21:50and we are not in jail
00:21:52then we all don't have that power
00:21:54so if we want food
00:21:56then we have to go and tell Abhinash
00:21:58to give us food
00:22:00he was not saying
00:22:02please beg from me
00:22:04he was just saying go normally
00:22:06ask for food, I will give you food
00:22:08he just wanted to talk
00:22:10and what happened between Abhinash
00:22:12and me, Hemaji was also there
00:22:14and that's why I was talking
00:22:16to Abhinash and these people
00:22:18so that this matter can be solved
00:22:20so that they can talk to each other
00:22:22but they were not able to talk
00:22:24Sir, one second
00:22:26One second
00:22:28I haven't completed yet
00:22:30When Abhinash came back that night
00:22:32Karanveer went to him
00:22:34and said
00:22:36I want to have a talk, let's have a chat
00:22:38and he went
00:22:40as soon as Karanveer sat
00:22:42on the sofa there
00:22:44he picked up his night suit
00:22:46Sir, I will tell you exactly
00:22:48what all I said
00:22:50first I said
00:22:52Abhinash, one second
00:22:54Isha, you tell me
00:22:56Sir, when Abhinash came
00:22:58that day he was very angry
00:23:00and he said
00:23:02he had made a condition
00:23:04that everyone will talk to me first
00:23:06I want an apology
00:23:08because the unsafe statement
00:23:10is a very big statement
00:23:12no one came to talk to him
00:23:14after that
00:23:16Abhinash said it's night
00:23:18I will do one thing, no one is coming to talk
00:23:20so he gave food to everyone
00:23:22after that when the food was over
00:23:24I think Karan came
00:23:26No, the food was not given to everyone immediately
00:23:28I just want to make one statement here
00:23:30because I just saw Karan
00:23:32and Shilpa making some eye contact
00:23:34I don't want to
00:23:36comment on Karan
00:23:38and Abhinash
00:23:40Shilpa, listen to this
00:23:42this is for you
00:23:44the argument between them
00:23:46that Shilpa was not
00:23:48related to food
00:23:50Salman, he had
00:23:52two points to clear
00:23:54and Abhinash's ego
00:23:56was on the other side
00:23:58and Karan clearly explained
00:24:00to Alice
00:24:02so now commenting on
00:24:04Shilpa, Karan and Abhinash
00:24:06I don't think it is necessary
00:24:08because that is a different topic
00:24:11that was not related to food
00:24:13Isha, tell us
00:24:15what were the demands
00:24:17Sir, the demands were
00:24:19everyone should come and talk to me
00:24:21I want to talk to Chum
00:24:23I want to talk to Karan
00:24:25and I want to talk to Rajat
00:24:27after that on the first day
00:24:29when he came back to jail
00:24:31I want to talk to everyone
00:24:33and I want an explanation
00:24:35and I want an apology
00:24:37after that no one came
00:24:39to know what he wanted to say
00:24:41after that food was served
00:24:43the next day he said
00:24:45I don't want an apology
00:24:47everyone sat there
00:24:49he spoke and then food was served
00:24:51Abhinash's demands
00:24:53if it is not clear
00:24:55I will tell you
00:24:57the first demand of Abhinash
00:24:59was that the allegations
00:25:01put on me
00:25:03the allegations
00:25:05put in front of the whole house
00:25:07should be put in front of
00:25:09the whole house
00:25:11correct
00:25:15what is so wrong
00:25:17in that
00:25:21and the second day till afternoon
00:25:23Abhinash has conveyed this
00:25:25again and again
00:25:27and Isha
00:25:29and Alice
00:25:31were coming to you
00:25:33again and again
00:25:35and they had a basic point
00:25:37how can he come here
00:25:39individually to talk to everyone
00:25:41so
00:25:43you have to go there
00:25:45and listen to what he wants to say
00:25:49Karan do you have anything to say
00:25:51yes sir
00:25:53sir the way you are speaking
00:25:55the way you are talking
00:25:57and the demands you are putting
00:25:59there is nothing wrong
00:26:01if we had spoken in such a voice
00:26:03I can vouch this
00:26:05that not only me
00:26:07everyone would have been there
00:26:09clarifying this
00:26:11Karan
00:26:13I know that you will say
00:26:15that this will not happen with me
00:26:17no no I am not talking about myself
00:26:19but
00:26:21if this allegation is put on you
00:26:23what is an allegation
00:26:25false
00:26:27so
00:26:29how do you react
00:26:32the biggest villain is back
00:26:34now I will show
00:26:36the food is with me
00:26:38now come to me
00:26:40who told me
00:26:42that I am not safe
00:26:44now sir
00:26:46that's why I was the only one
00:26:48not to go there
00:26:50when everyone went to sleep
00:26:52I went to talk to him
00:26:54that in the heat
00:26:56things happened
00:26:58but
00:27:00exactly
00:27:02half an hour has passed
00:27:04so that
00:27:06the result is
00:27:08that it is a matter of heat
00:27:10yes
00:27:12I have been explaining this
00:27:14for half an hour
00:27:16yes
00:27:18when he came back
00:27:20to the jail
00:27:22whatever he said
00:27:24was in the heat
00:27:26I understand that
00:27:28anger
00:27:30but
00:27:32if such a big
00:27:34allegation is put on someone
00:27:36leave the whole
00:27:38country
00:27:40leave the nation
00:27:42what will happen to his family
00:27:44he did that
00:27:46when his parents
00:27:48go out of the house
00:27:50and everyone knows that
00:27:52his son is in Bigg Boss
00:27:54so when he goes out of the house
00:27:56how will people look at him
00:27:58that
00:28:00you have left
00:28:02any impact in your upbringing
00:28:04your son
00:28:06family says
00:28:08that women are not safe
00:28:10with him
00:28:12that's ok
00:28:14I know this
00:28:16so I know
00:28:18what my parents go through
00:28:20this is not coming from a third person's experience
00:28:22this is coming from
00:28:24other people's experiences
00:28:26when you put yourself in somebody else's shoes
00:28:28then you will understand
00:28:30that person
00:28:32like
00:28:34Rajat said it clearly
00:28:36I don't give food
00:28:38and Rajat was fighting with you
00:28:40against Avinash
00:28:42that's why
00:28:44directly
00:28:46I asked Rajat
00:28:48what do you do
00:28:50because I know
00:28:53a person will say
00:28:55like I ask a mind coach
00:28:57see what I am saying
00:28:59he will say something else
00:29:01what I asked Rajat
00:29:03same question I ask you
00:29:05what do you do
00:29:07do you give food or not
00:29:09my
00:29:11process is
00:29:13that I
00:29:15give food
00:29:17but I say
00:29:19that after this
00:29:21I want to talk to everybody
00:29:23and I will be honest with you Salman Bhai
00:29:25the question of allegation
00:29:27I spoke
00:29:29to Avinash
00:29:31or Alice
00:29:33when he was coming
00:29:35towards you
00:29:37what you said
00:29:39was very frightening
00:29:41so if he said girls
00:29:43is wrong absolutely
00:29:45I said categorically
00:29:47so if he was angry
00:29:49I totally agree
00:29:51that this allegation is wrong
00:29:53completely wrong
00:29:55but if I speak from Chum
00:29:57he personally
00:29:59thought
00:30:01he was talking about girls
00:30:03I would have been very angry
00:30:05very very angry
00:30:07and after that
00:30:09you used the word process
00:30:11which process
00:30:13your process
00:30:15will be different
00:30:17you know what process is
00:30:19I don't understand
00:30:21when you started
00:30:23I would have given food
00:30:25but my process would have been different
00:30:27now he came
00:30:29he said from his heart
00:30:31what he had to do
00:30:33he was upset
00:30:35I am not supporting him
00:30:37I am just telling you
00:30:39that he said
00:30:41now power has come
00:30:43when small power comes
00:30:45understand
00:30:47controlling power
00:30:49is the most powerful
00:30:51thing there is
00:30:53because today there is power
00:30:55tomorrow there is no power
00:30:57so you need to understand that
00:30:59and he had power sitting in jail
00:31:01so you used the word process
00:31:03that means
00:31:05you have thought about this
00:31:07hundreds of times
00:31:09did all the
00:31:11combinations
00:31:14did everything
00:31:16pros cons
00:31:18if I would have done this
00:31:20it would have been like this
00:31:22if I would have done this
00:31:24you have done it
00:31:26you have mentally thought of this
00:31:28and I am telling you something
00:31:30that if you were in a position like this
00:31:32and your wife is there as well
00:31:34you yourself at that moment
00:31:36you would not be able to control
00:31:38this kind of emotion
00:31:40right now you are sitting in a different position
00:31:42and you are saying
00:31:44this is my process
00:31:46and it is like you watching
00:31:48a cricket match
00:31:50there should have been a six on this
00:31:52yeah because I am a spectator right now
00:31:54meaning I am looking from the outside perspective
00:31:56Arfeen
00:31:58we are talking about process
00:32:00so let us talk about your process
00:32:02yes
00:32:04the decision of keeping the gas off
00:32:06which was yours
00:32:08this means
00:32:10keeping this in mind
00:32:12how intelligently
00:32:14did you think about this process
00:32:16I will tell you
00:32:18from my perspective
00:32:20yes we want to hear that
00:32:22so when he came
00:32:24I knew he was angry
00:32:26obviously
00:32:28because
00:32:30I don't know why he was angry
00:32:32because a lot of things happened
00:32:34but I knew he was angry
00:32:36it could have been because of a comment
00:32:38I wasn't clear in my mind
00:32:40because there were so many things happening
00:32:42but he was angry
00:32:44but you should be the clearest in your mind
00:32:46because you clear other people's minds
00:32:48no I don't
00:32:50you clear other people's minds
00:32:52my job as a mind coach is not to clear people's minds
00:32:54not at all
00:32:56but you get people on the right track
00:32:58you save lives
00:33:00it means your human nature
00:33:02the study
00:33:04the analysis
00:33:06no not true
00:33:08in fact
00:33:10at least
00:33:12like us
00:33:14we are average people
00:33:16you must be
00:33:1810 times better than us
00:33:20no
00:33:22because the one who is 10 times better
00:33:24can only be a
00:33:26guide
00:33:28first of all I want to explain
00:33:30there is a misconception
00:33:32that I am a guide and I give advice
00:33:35in fact it is quite the opposite
00:33:37my process is more based on
00:33:39provocation
00:33:41because sometimes to guide a person
00:33:43you have to
00:33:45nudge
00:33:47so that he can see what he should do
00:33:49not me
00:33:51I know this is your field
00:33:53and I am no one
00:33:55to explain this to you
00:33:57my system is different
00:33:59but in that system
00:34:01it is very important to know
00:34:03how to talk to someone
00:34:05if you encourage
00:34:07someone
00:34:09he will take it for granted
00:34:11if you encourage someone
00:34:13he will appreciate
00:34:15and he will go 10 times further
00:34:17if you put down someone
00:34:19he will say
00:34:21I will show you
00:34:23and he will bounce back from that
00:34:25if you put down someone
00:34:27he will never forgive you
00:34:29and he will never be able to rise from that
00:34:31so person to person
00:34:33person to person
00:34:35and in this also
00:34:37what should I encourage
00:34:39and what should I
00:34:41discourage
00:34:43ok
00:34:45like you said
00:34:47provocation
00:34:49it depends
00:34:51in one person
00:34:53there are many qualities
00:34:55that you encourage
00:34:57or he is taking it for granted
00:34:59and that's it
00:35:01I am sure you know
00:35:03by looking at her face
00:35:05or by talking to him or her
00:35:07what type of personality
00:35:09he has
00:35:11and how to tackle him
00:35:13now you come to yourself
00:35:15so I
00:35:17if you see my conversations
00:35:19with Avinash
00:35:21post this challenge
00:35:23if you see all the conversations
00:35:25between us and Avinash
00:35:27what is this gesture
00:35:29this
00:35:31that is my process
00:35:33yes
00:35:35the world wants to know
00:35:37what is your process
00:35:39all the viewers of Bigg Boss
00:35:41they want to know
00:35:43what is this process
00:35:45this is my process
00:35:47you will not tell
00:35:49what is this process
00:35:51but then the thing is
00:35:53that you did this
00:35:56so now they might be thinking
00:35:58something on this gesture
00:36:00remove it or finish it
00:36:02first of all
00:36:04let me tell you how I did it
00:36:06I did it like this
00:36:08I did not do this
00:36:10I did that
00:36:12and you did that
00:36:14so basically you watch out
00:36:16I did not do this
00:36:18I never do that
00:36:20we have the recording
00:36:22you can check
00:36:24now
00:36:26I did not do this
00:36:28I will never do that
00:36:30ok so
00:36:32if you do not tell
00:36:34my interpretation is
00:36:36Rajat will also say
00:36:38if I did this
00:36:40what will Rajat mean
00:36:42remove it
00:36:44this is dust
00:36:46first of all
00:36:48I did not do this
00:36:50and this
00:36:52this also means
00:36:54I will not leave you
00:36:56you watch
00:36:58because you are not telling
00:37:00your process
00:37:02so now
00:37:04they will have their own interpretation
00:37:06I will tell you
00:37:08I will tell you
00:37:10I will tell you
00:37:12it is also possible that
00:37:14you are not able to do anything
00:37:16you meet outside
00:37:18I will break your eyes
00:37:20I do not do this
00:37:22because it is very not me to do that
00:37:24I will tell you what I did
00:37:26I will explain
00:37:28so
00:37:30which side is the devil
00:37:32I have no idea
00:37:34no
00:37:36no
00:37:38one side is of god
00:37:40right
00:37:42and one side is wrong
00:37:44I have no idea about that
00:37:46watch
00:37:48what
00:37:50left side
00:37:52was a car coming
00:37:54or a table
00:37:56I will tell you
00:37:58what is watch your left side
00:38:00should I explain
00:38:02so if you
00:38:04look at the left side
00:38:06all the conversations
00:38:08in Bigg Boss
00:38:10when I am talking to people
00:38:12no
00:38:14what is watch your left side
00:38:17so I have to make a context
00:38:19otherwise there will be no explanation
00:38:21all the conversations
00:38:23my main focus is
00:38:25to empower your heart
00:38:27empower your heart
00:38:29empower your heart
00:38:31so which side is the heart
00:38:33left side
00:38:35this is called
00:38:37pattern interrupt
00:38:39divert the focus to the heart
00:38:41divert to the heart
00:38:43divert to the heart
00:38:45in body language
00:38:47you are a very good understanding
00:38:49you understand this
00:38:51body language
00:38:53is more powerful than words
00:38:55when I am talking to someone
00:38:57and I am talking to his heart
00:38:59look I am doing this
00:39:01you can check
00:39:03point to your heart
00:39:05all the people
00:39:07I talk to
00:39:09I talk to the heart
00:39:11black heart
00:39:13hard heart
00:39:15focus on your heart
00:39:17focus on your heart
00:39:19I will tell you now
00:39:21one second let me just think
00:39:23what you said in the episode
00:39:25I will just tell you
00:39:27you are a nasty man
00:39:29evil man
00:39:31evil heart
00:39:33your heart is sick
00:39:35your heart is hard
00:39:37you have a hard heart
00:39:39look at you
00:39:41I did this
00:39:43I will stand up
00:39:45one second
00:39:47one second
00:39:49the wife will speak
00:39:51you don't need to speak
00:39:53let me speak to myself
00:39:55in my work
00:39:57my entire system
00:39:59is heart driven
00:40:01everything is heart driven
00:40:03when someone is angry
00:40:05his diversion goes to the heart
00:40:07that's my interpretation
00:40:09God knows best
00:40:11that is why I asked you to explain
00:40:13and I have explained
00:40:15but that explanation
00:40:17is not good enough
00:40:19because you are blaming someone's heart
00:40:21you are blaming someone's heart
00:40:23see if you
00:40:25if you understand my coaching
00:40:27you were triggering
00:40:29so in this
00:40:31no totally incorrect
00:40:33so basically in this
00:40:35where was your heart
00:40:38my heart was in the right direction
00:40:40because my work was
00:40:42tell him
00:40:44what did you want to achieve
00:40:46I wanted to break his pattern
00:40:48what is the pattern
00:40:50the pattern can be anything
00:40:52right now he is in rage
00:40:54can be anything
00:40:56so if it can be anything
00:40:58and you are not sure
00:41:00no you just said anything
00:41:02anything
00:41:04what will be the pattern
00:41:06pattern
00:41:08when it is predictable
00:41:10what is the pattern
00:41:12so you said
00:41:14anything
00:41:16pattern can be anything
00:41:18so you have
00:41:20one too many of these things
00:41:22to tackle
00:41:24but
00:41:26the problem is
00:41:28you didn't know
00:41:30how Avinash will react
00:41:32to realize
00:41:34no
00:41:36that's incorrect
00:41:38that's incorrect
00:41:40if you are blaming him
00:41:42if you are blaming him
00:41:44that heart
00:41:46heart
00:41:48evil man
00:41:50dirty man
00:41:52I didn't say dirty man
00:41:54whatever you said
00:41:56whatever you said
00:41:58whatever you said
00:42:00I am talking about that
00:42:02so does it take
00:42:04one to recognize the other
00:42:06no
00:42:08because I remember clearly
00:42:10that
00:42:12you have said
00:42:14that you will come and you will play mind games
00:42:16and you will
00:42:18and you will
00:42:20and you will
00:42:22and you will
00:42:24and you will
00:42:26and you will
00:42:28and you will
00:42:30I was given this narrative
00:42:32I have clearly said that I am a mind coach
00:42:34I work on the heart
00:42:36I work on empowering the heart
00:42:38puppet manipulation
00:42:40I have never said this
00:42:42nor have I claimed this
00:42:44and I have never done that in my life
00:42:46that is incorrect
00:42:48thank you
00:42:50now I want to ask a question from home
00:42:52that Arfeen and Sara
00:42:54in this house
00:42:56about their profession
00:42:59how many times have you spoken
00:43:01and you are still doing it
00:43:03I am doing it because
00:43:05you have asked me many times
00:43:07Vivian
00:43:09yes sir
00:43:11how many times have you spoken
00:43:13I have spoken many times
00:43:15but I have not clearly understood
00:43:17what exactly
00:43:19their profession is
00:43:21but bits and pieces
00:43:23some things
00:43:25working on the heart
00:43:27I agree with you
00:43:29I feel the same
00:43:31even I am not able to understand
00:43:33they have come to Bigg Boss
00:43:35to talk about their profession
00:43:37and on the basis of their profession
00:43:39they are trying to
00:43:41make their status
00:43:43their status
00:43:45Salman ji
00:43:47if I make this statement
00:43:49or when I leave this house
00:43:51or when I leave this house
00:43:53then everyone should know
00:43:55that they have come here
00:43:57to advertise
00:43:59their profession
00:44:01totally incorrect
00:44:07we are ordinary people
00:44:09I don't know what that means
00:44:11ordinary means ordinary people
00:44:13ordinary minds
00:44:15small thinking
00:44:17we don't have that
00:44:19intellect like yours
00:44:21knowledge like yours
00:44:23so we will understand this
00:44:25we will understand
00:44:27that you have come here
00:44:29to advertise your profession
00:44:31that when you leave from here
00:44:33the work you get from here
00:44:35you will get more work
00:44:37no I didn't say that
00:44:39we have come to clarify
00:44:41what I am saying is
00:44:43this is our thinking
00:44:45I know that
00:44:47Arfeen
00:44:49let me complete
00:44:51so
00:44:53this is something they don't teach you
00:44:55in your profession
00:44:57you are supposed to listen
00:44:59right?
00:45:01isn't the first thing
00:45:03isn't the first thing in your profession
00:45:05see again
00:45:07but I have to respond
00:45:09if you are saying something
00:45:11that my profession
00:45:13I asked you a question
00:45:15that this is not taught to you
00:45:17in your profession
00:45:20that listen to others
00:45:22no
00:45:24it is not taught
00:45:26so what do you do
00:45:28you don't let anyone
00:45:30talk
00:45:32so what will you learn from that
00:45:34about his patterns
00:45:36that's the point
00:45:38so you look into his eyes
00:45:40you put your eyes in his eyes
00:45:42and understand
00:45:44the smile on his face
00:45:46the beard
00:45:48the clothes he is wearing
00:45:50his skin
00:45:52you understand
00:45:54what he is doing
00:45:56what is his mood
00:45:58what did he eat
00:46:00who will he misbehave with
00:46:02who will he meet
00:46:04what is he going to do
00:46:06what is he going to do
00:46:08no sir
00:46:10when he will talk
00:46:12you will understand
00:46:14no sir
00:46:16I am telling you
00:46:18I don't talk about his past
00:46:20your system
00:46:22I don't understand
00:46:24that is what I am saying
00:46:26it is not our thinking
00:46:28it is your thought
00:46:30it is a great thought
00:46:32we don't have that thought
00:46:34that's why you have to come down
00:46:36like us
00:46:38to make people understand
00:46:40now you are a Ph.D
00:46:42we can't say A,B,C,D
00:46:44and you are talking in big words
00:46:46and big thoughts
00:46:48so we should understand
00:46:50so you have to come down to our level
00:46:52on planet earth
00:46:54you are sitting on 7th heaven
00:46:56with intellectual knowledge
00:46:58you can only
00:47:00talk to God
00:47:02you can talk to God
00:47:04you can talk to Allah
00:47:06these things come from your mind
00:47:08not true
00:47:10no
00:47:12so then
00:47:14why are you so angry
00:47:16when
00:47:18we are talking about your profession
00:47:20and till now
00:47:22what is his profession
00:47:24family
00:47:26did anyone understand
00:47:28if anyone understood
00:47:30then raise your hand
00:47:32so this means
00:47:34even your wife
00:47:36is not understanding
00:47:38this means
00:47:41I am not promoting my profession
00:47:43no
00:47:45you are talking about your profession
00:47:47it is being shown on TV
00:47:49this is the question
00:47:51we have been asked
00:47:53to ask you
00:47:55what is your profession
00:47:57because whenever I ask you
00:47:59this is not mine
00:48:01this is not mine
00:48:03this is not
00:48:05you never said
00:48:07that this is
00:48:09I have told you
00:48:11but I have told you
00:48:13this is the thing
00:48:15that I am not understanding
00:48:17my profession is simply
00:48:19heart activation
00:48:21Arfeen I am not understanding
00:48:23I don't know
00:48:25I think I have lost my mind
00:48:27I thought I am quite a smart
00:48:29intelligent
00:48:31man
00:48:33but you have dwarfed my intelligence
00:48:35big time
00:48:37now this is not
00:48:39like that sir
00:48:41I will be honest with you
00:48:43I want to tell you
00:48:45why I was so upset
00:48:47because I think it is important
00:48:49for me to give my explanation
00:48:51if you don't mind
00:48:53I am not interrupting
00:48:55I am asking you to repeat
00:48:57what you said
00:48:59I am saying
00:49:01you asked me
00:49:03I got angry
00:49:05so I want to tell you
00:49:07what was the reason
00:49:09if you want to
00:49:11I will not interrupt you
00:49:13the way you keep on interrupting me
00:49:15so in my profession
00:49:17there are thousands of people
00:49:19who do exactly
00:49:21what I do
00:49:23they are stuck
00:49:25not people with
00:49:27very severe
00:49:29challenges but people who are stuck
00:49:31in life
00:49:33I want to show them
00:49:35a little light
00:49:37basically like psychiatrists
00:49:39do
00:49:41no no
00:49:43I want to tell you
00:49:45this is not like that
00:49:47if you can give me 2 minutes
00:49:49I will give you an explanation
00:49:51very simple as a metaphor
00:49:53imagine I am going to a cave
00:49:55and the cave gets darker and darker
00:49:57our job is
00:49:59not to ask them about their history
00:50:02just to nudge them
00:50:04to turn them around
00:50:06to look at it in a different direction
00:50:08I just nudge them
00:50:10nudge them
00:50:12nudge them
00:50:14nudge them means for full turn around
00:50:16if you are going
00:50:18in a full tunnel
00:50:20and it gets darker and darker
00:50:22and you just nudge them
00:50:24the tunnel will collapse
00:50:26nudge them in the opposite direction
00:50:28nudge means
00:50:30I turn them around
00:50:32and from there
00:50:34I see light
00:50:36but tell me
00:50:38it is a tunnel
00:50:40tunnel
00:50:42it is not a cave
00:50:44it is a tunnel
00:50:46on the other side of the tunnel
00:50:48you said tunnel
00:50:50that's why
00:50:52that's why
00:50:54on the other side of the tunnel
00:50:56if you push them a little
00:50:58it gets darker and darker
00:51:00and less and less
00:51:02and light, light, light
00:51:04poor guy
00:51:06he is almost past 3 4ths of the tunnel
00:51:08and you turn him around
00:51:10and he is coming back
00:51:12in the opposite direction
00:51:14I just feel
00:51:16no matter how we explain
00:51:18look Sara
00:51:20he is an intelligent man
00:51:22let me also talk
00:51:24a little bit
00:51:26look
00:51:28what I mean to say is
00:51:30I knew he was talking about a cave
00:51:32but
00:51:34in this house
00:51:36every person uses one word
00:51:38so I thought
00:51:40why don't I do the same
00:51:42I knew
00:51:44it is a tunnel
00:51:46so I turned the story around
00:51:48that he has crossed 3 4ths of the tunnel
00:51:50there is light
00:51:52and you nudge him back
00:51:54nudge means a little
00:51:56it is not a turn around
00:51:58if you say turn around
00:52:00it is a different thing
00:52:02I just nudge him
00:52:04to bump into this rock or that rock
00:52:06metaphorically
00:52:08it is a metaphor
00:52:10no it is a metaphor
00:52:12I know but metaphor for what?
00:52:14a drink?
00:52:16oh yeah I know
00:52:18yeah
00:52:20metaphor
00:52:23what?
00:52:27so Arfeen and Sara
00:52:29I just wanted to make
00:52:31just one point
00:52:33when
00:52:35there is talk about your profession
00:52:37which you yourself are saying
00:52:39that there are very few people
00:52:41then you get angry
00:52:43how many people
00:52:45are there in his profession
00:52:47I have never
00:52:49said anything about acting
00:52:51because
00:52:53I have so much respect
00:52:55I have heard you saying
00:52:57these are all actors
00:52:59actors community
00:53:01is only acting
00:53:03what?
00:53:05actors community is only acting
00:53:07they cannot be real
00:53:09say that again sir
00:53:11I have not said this
00:53:13no no
00:53:15we have called you
00:53:17I have said that
00:53:19Sara just said
00:53:21you said this
00:53:23mind coach
00:53:25mind coach
00:53:27pay attention to your mind
00:53:29I have not said this
00:53:31I have not said this
00:53:33impossible because
00:53:35I have so much respect
00:53:37you must have said
00:53:39you have forgotten
00:53:41it is recorded
00:53:43I would like to see it
00:53:45you like to see it
00:53:47Sara have you said this statement
00:53:49or not?
00:53:51I have not said
00:53:53so basically
00:53:55basically
00:53:57how do I put this
00:53:59that you say something to someone
00:54:01about someone's profession
00:54:03but when it comes to you
00:54:05then you feel
00:54:07I have not said anything
00:54:09never in my life would I do
00:54:11come out and see
00:54:13because my involvement
00:54:15you can come out and see
00:54:17so basically
00:54:19this has come
00:54:21that these are actors
00:54:23they cannot be real
00:54:25they will only act at home
00:54:27specially about love
00:54:29this has been said
00:54:31I have said about love
00:54:33we said that before coming to the show
00:54:35and I am sorry sir
00:54:37but everyone says
00:54:39but you are a learned person
00:54:41everyone else is a fool
00:54:44including me
00:54:46you should understand
00:54:48that if someone
00:54:50tells you about their profession
00:54:52then you feel sad
00:54:54but you tell someone
00:54:56basically acting
00:54:58means she is a liar
00:55:00she is a fraud
00:55:02means this is her profession
00:55:04she will not feel
00:55:06now I can take her
00:55:08to different levels
00:55:10should I take her
00:55:12to different levels
00:55:14even her co-actor has said
00:55:16and everyone has said
00:55:18but Avinash has said
00:55:20Avinash has said
00:55:22I am talking
00:55:24about you people
00:55:26mind coach
00:55:28I am talking about you people
00:55:30I am not talking about them
00:55:32we make mistakes
00:55:34we even apologize
00:55:36but you
00:55:38I made a mistake
00:55:40I swear
00:55:42what all I am going through in my life
00:55:44and I have to come and handle this
00:55:54I think it's just about being targeted
00:55:56and I am sorry
00:55:58it doesn't matter
00:56:00I don't have to prove myself
00:56:02I am not talking to you
00:56:04and I didn't tell you
00:56:06don't waste your time
00:56:08Sara don't waste your time
00:56:10what's the energy
00:56:12you are so free
00:56:14keep quiet
00:56:16no wonder
00:56:18if someone doesn't understand
00:56:20and they talk about it
00:56:22how will they understand
00:56:24you have to say
00:56:26they don't understand
00:56:28when did I target an actor
00:56:30he was talking to Sara
00:56:32why is he saying that I am doing it
00:56:34in the heat of the moment
00:56:36he is an actor
00:56:38tell him
00:56:40in case if I say
00:56:42please don't irritate me
00:56:44what did she say
00:56:46she has told me
00:56:48Salman sir told me
00:56:50he told me before the show
00:56:52he told me
00:56:54before the show
00:56:56Salman sir told me
00:56:58Big boss told me
00:57:00to say this
00:57:02no no
00:57:05I don't know
00:57:07forget it
00:57:09his turn will come now
00:57:11leave him alone
00:57:13no no
00:57:15you listen
00:57:17you haven't heard
00:57:19what he said
00:57:21he will also talk
00:57:23I hope
00:57:25he tells you
00:57:27ok
00:57:29what your attitude is
00:57:31thank you
00:57:33Salman sir asked me
00:57:35he was Alice
00:57:37I was also there
00:57:39you were shouting
00:57:41that girls are not safe
00:57:43you did this to Arjun
00:57:45you have no respect
00:57:47no way to talk
00:57:49nothing
00:57:51yes ma'am
00:57:53you know what it is
00:57:55you are supposed to go back in the jail
00:57:57yes ma'am
00:57:59thank you
00:58:01he doesn't have any knowledge of my profession
00:58:03forget knowledge about your profession
00:58:05respect for his colleagues of his own profession
00:58:07what he will have respect for anyone else
00:58:09I am not saying this
00:58:11I will have to listen
00:58:13I will listen
00:58:15but now
00:58:17my mind is clear
00:58:19they manipulate
00:58:21after today
00:58:23we will not talk about our profession
00:58:25because when we didn't talk
00:58:27we were told that it is a confused profession
00:58:29tell your story
00:58:31when they tell the story
00:58:33we advertise
00:58:35as soon as the screen shut
00:58:37they started manipulating
00:58:39they are targeting us
00:58:41Salman sir
00:58:43what will we get by targeting them
00:58:45they are targeting us
00:58:47we are not God
00:58:49we are humans
00:58:51why are you putting us in that
00:58:53they don't understand
00:58:55I am not here to tell
00:58:57that's not my job
00:58:59I came to play big boss
00:59:01they are playing the game
00:59:03I can say that
00:59:05actors are massaging their egos
00:59:07and because we are different
00:59:09we are left behind
00:59:11mind coaches also react
00:59:13we have a heart as well
00:59:15the objective is to react
00:59:17I remember what I said
00:59:19you need mind coaching
00:59:21that's it
00:59:23I didn't say anything else
00:59:26I am glad you said sorry
00:59:28that cleared so many things
00:59:30I know your ego was coming back
00:59:32because you knew in your head
00:59:34you are not wrong
00:59:44they are watching from a psychology perspective
00:59:46from a psychiatrist perspective
00:59:48which is fine
00:59:50they will listen to you
00:59:52just one actor is being
00:59:54biased towards another actor
01:00:10even an actor is saying
01:00:12that she is acting
01:00:14apparently that's allowed
01:00:16one actor can say
01:00:18it's fine
01:00:20and you see how his attitude is
01:00:22and it happened last time also
01:00:24it's not over yet
01:00:26it's not over yet
01:00:28this is a game
01:00:30I know
01:00:32that's the game
01:00:34that's the game
01:00:36if it is a game only of targeting us
01:00:38and you don't understand the profession
01:00:40he knows everything
01:00:42he addressed mine
01:00:44he addressed it very respectfully
01:00:46with us it was not respectful
01:00:48he showed him his place
01:00:50he showed him his place
01:00:52I don't understand Shilpa ji
01:00:54when I am saying
01:00:56she is also saying
01:00:58I am sorry
01:01:00but she was laughing
01:01:02when they said something
01:01:04she was laughing alone
01:01:06I noticed
01:01:08and I looked at Avinash
01:01:10even he did not laugh
01:01:12and she is the closest
01:01:14he will speak to all of us
01:01:16and then he will come to him
01:01:18he has his perspective
01:01:20about this
01:01:22and his perspective is his
01:01:24and my perspective is mine
01:01:26and that's life
01:01:28he cannot know about my profession
01:01:30he has not spent any time with me
01:01:32sit down
01:01:34he will say again and again
01:01:36I am coming
01:01:38I am telling you
01:01:40I have come here
01:01:42the commentator has come
01:01:44I am going to jail
01:01:47of course he will
01:01:49your turn is coming
01:01:51I will listen
01:01:53and I will not say
01:01:55that I am being targeted
01:01:59so Sara
01:02:01you are also in the same profession
01:02:03that your husband is
01:02:05I am not in any profession sir
01:02:07no?
01:02:09why are you getting angry?
01:02:11talk
01:02:13on what are you getting angry?
01:02:15here
01:02:17yes but on what?
01:02:23so basically
01:02:25the coach will need the coach
01:02:27this happened on this
01:02:29no not on this
01:02:31the way Avinash said
01:02:33even the big boss says
01:02:35you are not seeing what he is saying
01:02:37but this was the statement
01:02:39you are right Avinash
01:02:41you are right
01:02:43I did not make a fuss
01:02:45I did not come to talk to you
01:02:47you both did
01:02:49I heard
01:02:51and the rest of the family heard
01:02:53you did not make a fuss
01:02:55I am telling you
01:02:57I said exactly the same
01:02:59Sara
01:03:01the start has happened
01:03:03that the coach
01:03:05will need the coach
01:03:07let's ask Arfeen
01:03:09that in your field
01:03:11are you the best in the world?
01:03:13no no
01:03:15so there are some things
01:03:17you must be discussing with your wife
01:03:19you must be thinking
01:03:21this is this
01:03:23how to tackle this
01:03:25you are right about this
01:03:27so it is needed
01:03:29now that connotation
01:03:31was different
01:03:33that connotation of anger
01:03:35that was a fight
01:03:37the coach will need the coach
01:03:39your trigger point was
01:03:41do you know everyone's trigger point?
01:03:43no
01:03:45you said
01:03:47you counted my trigger point
01:03:49I did not tell you the trigger point
01:03:51I told you something else
01:03:53you told
01:03:55with Karan
01:03:57there was a whole conversation
01:03:59about the trigger point
01:04:01but you
01:04:03got so entangled
01:04:05in your profession
01:04:08in the trigger points
01:04:10that you forgot your own trigger point
01:04:12I have a trigger point
01:04:14I am a human
01:04:16wow wow wow
01:04:18you said thank you
01:04:20I thought you were something else
01:04:22I thought you were a god
01:04:24that someone has sent you
01:04:26I was correct
01:04:28this is what I thought
01:04:30no no
01:04:32I am definitely human
01:04:34so basically
01:04:36coach needs coach
01:04:38no no
01:04:40it is the way he said it
01:04:42he said it so clearly
01:04:44everyone was present
01:04:46everyone was quiet
01:04:48even his friends
01:04:50I did not have a problem
01:04:52it was clear
01:04:54I am not talking to you
01:04:56I will say
01:04:58I am not talking to you
01:05:00I am upset with myself
01:05:02is this also a way?
01:05:04that is my way
01:05:06to slap yourself
01:05:08is this the way to express
01:05:10yes
01:05:20so I want to tell you
01:05:22that look Sara
01:05:24this is your profession
01:05:26you need to be
01:05:28and Arfi needs to be extra cautious
01:05:30because from here
01:05:32your profession can be totally ruined
01:05:34so
01:05:36if you have come here as a mind coach
01:05:38as husband and wife team
01:05:40or you want to change your profession
01:05:42you want to enter TV, movies
01:05:44whatever you want to do
01:05:46then that is different
01:05:48but if you want to
01:05:50stay in this profession
01:05:52then you need to be
01:05:54very careful
01:05:56of what
01:05:58you are reacting
01:06:00it does not matter
01:06:02who is reacting
01:06:04I agree
01:06:06I accept that
01:06:08you get what I am saying
01:06:10I genuinely mean what you are saying
01:06:12I agree
01:06:14because this is your profession
01:06:16if you want to help others
01:06:18but you
01:06:20react like those
01:06:22who need help
01:06:24then what are you doing?
01:06:26I agree
01:06:29now my picture is released
01:06:31critics say
01:06:33that someone praises me
01:06:35someone says that I have done a lot of nonsense
01:06:37should I get offended by that?
01:06:39it is their opinion
01:06:41I was telling Shilpa
01:06:43that these are their words
01:06:45this is the first elementary thing
01:06:47in your profession
01:06:49you should have knowledge
01:06:51of this
01:06:53that whatever is said
01:06:55should not be affecting you
01:06:57other coaches are getting affected
01:06:59by what I am saying
01:07:01sure
01:07:03so do you also think
01:07:05that I need psychiatric treatment?
01:07:07I don't know anything about psychiatry
01:07:09no
01:07:11not at all
01:07:13but he needs help
01:07:15Avinash
01:07:17I think he does
01:07:19you need a therapist
01:07:21there is nothing wrong with a therapist
01:07:23everyone goes to a therapist
01:07:25it is not a negative thing
01:07:27and I am not saying this sarcasm
01:07:29I am saying this with empathy
01:07:31no, not sarcasm
01:07:33that's exactly what I am saying
01:07:35you are not listening to what anyone is saying
01:07:37you are not even remembering what you have said
01:07:39I am very sorry
01:07:41my left ear has less hearing
01:07:43that's why I can't hear you
01:07:45I have a hearing loss of 60%
01:07:47in my left ear
01:07:49sorry about that
01:07:51that's why I am trying to concentrate
01:07:53that's ok
01:07:55but I was saying exactly what you were saying
01:07:57that this is not sarcasm
01:07:59this is not sarcasm
01:08:01I am saying this with empathy
01:08:03that he needs to go to a therapist
01:08:05sorry
01:08:07I didn't hear
01:08:09so this cannot be in an argument
01:08:13you said this
01:08:15so this also goes with this
01:08:17can I just say one last thing
01:08:19yes please
01:08:21the messaging you gave me
01:08:23that I do manipulation
01:08:25this is also not my job
01:08:27this is the only challenge I have
01:08:29a mind coach is a mind coach
01:08:31I get that
01:08:33even I need a coach
01:08:35I have a coach
01:08:37I have 5-6 coaches
01:08:39but they have not done a good job on you at all then
01:08:41I am sure they haven't
01:08:43you should hire me as your mind coach
01:08:45from where I have come
01:08:47from where I am coming from
01:08:49I am telling you
01:08:51they have done a very good job
01:08:53from where I was, I was in a really bad space
01:08:55very bad
01:08:57very bad space
01:08:59so
01:09:01basically it means
01:09:03that on these small things
01:09:05don't do this much
01:09:07give it your best
01:09:09put your right foot forward
01:09:11your best foot forward
01:09:13there are bigger problems
01:09:15than this
01:09:17huger problems in life
01:09:23what he is asking
01:09:25the people are also asking
01:09:27what is the process and what do you do
01:09:29that's what he is asking
01:09:31so that means you are promoting your work
01:09:33that's what he is saying
01:09:35if you are promoting your work
01:09:37so when he is asking
01:09:39you are saying no I am not promoting
01:09:41I did not understand what he was saying
01:09:43he said that only
01:09:45what you do
01:09:47I told you the audience is big
01:09:49they are trying to understand what you do
01:09:51I am delighted that people are confused
01:09:53that's the motive
01:09:55because the more they are confused
01:09:57the more they will come to you directly
01:09:59mission accomplished
01:10:01mission is accomplished
01:10:03people will ask later
01:10:05what do you do
01:10:07he doesn't understand
01:10:09tell him
01:10:11be on the same page
01:10:13because she is going
01:10:15I saw her slap herself
01:10:17she went
01:10:19I missed it
01:10:21it was right in front of me
01:10:23she slapped herself
01:10:25Saurav drop it
01:10:27it's a really bad time
01:10:29I know
01:10:31that the person
01:10:33they are talking about
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