Bigg Boss S18 | EP 14 | 19th October 2024
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00:00:30How does it feel?
00:00:30Very bad.
00:00:31Your sister must be watching.
00:00:34You should never lose your temper over food.
00:00:38I didn't lose my temper over food.
00:00:39I lost my temper over my behavior.
00:00:42Arfeen, what is this gesture?
00:00:44That's my process.
00:00:45You won't tell me, will you?
00:00:46No.
00:00:47I did this.
00:00:48This also has a lot of meanings.
00:00:50Just watch what I do to you.
00:00:52I know that...
00:00:53Arfeen, in your profession, you are not taught to listen to others.
00:00:58No.
00:00:59You are a learned man.
00:01:01Everyone else is a fool.
00:01:03Including me.
00:01:04I didn't say this.
00:01:05And...
00:01:06At least do something.
00:01:08You have to give up.
00:01:09Don't worry.
00:01:10Don't worry.
00:01:11You will learn everything.
00:01:12We are here.
00:01:13Don't worry.
00:01:13Okay, so you will think I am right.
00:01:15I am your father.
00:01:16Come on, say it.
00:01:17Don't move.
00:01:18Stay in your limits.
00:01:19Stay in your limits.
00:01:21Do you understand?
00:01:22Don't hit me.
00:01:23Don't hit me.
00:01:25Don't hit me.
00:01:29Welcome.
00:01:36Hello, Namaste, Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:38How are you?
00:01:40How are you?
00:01:41How are you?
00:01:42And welcome to Big Boss.
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00:01:57Welcome to Sat Sri Akal.
00:01:59For the first time in this season,
00:02:01a new title,
00:02:03a new position has been introduced.
00:02:05Time God.
00:02:08This year, in this game of Time,
00:02:11it is very difficult to become Time God.
00:02:15Because with this position,
00:02:17there are such powers,
00:02:19which no captain has ever had.
00:02:22Unfortunately,
00:02:23these family members
00:02:25have not yet realized the value of this Time God position.
00:02:29Shilpa ji is not fit to become Time God.
00:02:32Because she never gives an opinion on time.
00:02:35Sara had made an image of me from outside.
00:02:38And I didn't turn out to be of her choice here.
00:02:40Really?
00:02:41All of them were clear about the fact
00:02:44that no one should become Time God.
00:02:46Avinash is more self-obsessed.
00:02:48He thinks less about other members.
00:02:51But none of them thought that
00:02:54who should become Time God.
00:02:56And in such a situation,
00:02:58they made Time God Arfeen.
00:03:01Big Boss!
00:03:02I am the God of Time!
00:03:05Give food to everyone.
00:03:06Denied.
00:03:07Go.
00:03:08I asked for the ration.
00:03:09He denied it.
00:03:10No food will be prepared in the kitchen
00:03:11until the whole group is prepared.
00:03:13No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:14No food will be prepared.
00:03:15But for the first time ever,
00:03:17did Time God use his responsibility
00:03:19What are you doing?
00:03:21and power correctly?
00:03:23I can even turn on the gas.
00:03:24No one can stop me.
00:03:26Or did you see the power in other people's hands
00:03:28in different situations?
00:03:30Then burn it and show it to me.
00:03:32I will burn it and show it to you.
00:03:34It is my right to burn gas at home
00:03:36and cook food.
00:03:37And no one can stop me from that.
00:03:40If a person wants to eat,
00:03:43he can go and cook.
00:03:44He doesn't have to agree with the majority.
00:03:48That is a common place.
00:03:49She won't cook for one person at a time.
00:03:51If she wants to cook, she will cook for everyone.
00:03:53If she had a gas stove, she would have cooked.
00:03:55As always, you are following this show very closely.
00:03:58You are watching every episode.
00:04:00But you are seeing what is happening here.
00:04:03We want to eat non-vegetarian food.
00:04:05No ma'am, we are not getting that.
00:04:10The senior member of the house
00:04:12neither got food
00:04:14No food will be served.
00:04:15nor did he get forgiveness.
00:04:17Come, I will show you.
00:04:19We say where it is wrong.
00:04:22Then say it loudly.
00:04:23You have to make it a topic.
00:04:25Yesterday, whatever you said
00:04:26Did you say anything today?
00:04:28You were just standing.
00:04:31Ma'am
00:04:32And then you said the topic was not that big.
00:04:33Ma'am, exactly my point
00:04:35Not for me to come.
00:04:36You were already shouting.
00:04:39So, the topic is not that big.
00:04:41He said one thing,
00:04:42about good books.
00:04:43Okay, understand.
00:04:45And he said, don't demand.
00:04:47Ask from me.
00:04:49Ask.
00:04:50Ask.
00:04:51Not say.
00:04:52Ask.
00:04:53What do you mean?
00:04:54Will you sit on the floor and ask?
00:04:56Ma'am, you also know that it is not like that.
00:04:57Don't tell me what you think about him.
00:04:59Because what you think about him
00:05:00is very different from what I think.
00:05:03Shilpa ma'am is very hurt.
00:05:05And you talk to her.
00:05:07I am still talking to her.
00:05:08She didn't eat anything.
00:05:09I didn't misbehave with you.
00:05:12I didn't humiliate you.
00:05:14By saying something for you.
00:05:15According to you,
00:05:16that is not humiliation, Avinash.
00:05:18But the person you are talking to
00:05:20can be humiliated.
00:05:22Keeping your point of view
00:05:24will be right according to you.
00:05:26But when you repeatedly
00:05:28say the same thing to the other person,
00:05:30repeatedly,
00:05:32that is humiliation
00:05:34in various forms.
00:05:36I want an apology,
00:05:37not for anything else.
00:05:39Because I am A,
00:05:41a mother of a 20 year old.
00:05:43I will not take this accusation
00:05:45all the time.
00:05:46And it's a humiliation for me.
00:05:47To say,
00:05:48you are not in my good books.
00:05:50You can never be.
00:05:52You have proved today
00:05:54how you are.
00:05:55And what have I done?
00:05:56Tell me.
00:05:57But ma'am,
00:05:58you are making it your own.
00:06:00I am not making it my own.
00:06:01I am telling you.
00:06:02If you don't think
00:06:04you have done something wrong,
00:06:05that is your point of view.
00:06:06No problem.
00:06:07I take it personally.
00:06:08And I will say it today on camera.
00:06:10The way you talk to me,
00:06:13I take it as a personal humiliation.
00:06:16Which is not accepted for me.
00:06:18How much do you know me
00:06:19to talk about my character?
00:06:21I am not talking about your character.
00:06:22I am talking about your tactic
00:06:23of coming in good books.
00:06:24That.
00:06:25Which book?
00:06:26Which book are you talking about?
00:06:28What book are you writing
00:06:30that I need to be in your book?
00:06:32And I do feel humiliated.
00:06:34And I will not eat whatever you send out
00:06:36until you are sorry
00:06:38for what you said
00:06:39and you feel apologetic.
00:06:40For me,
00:06:41sorry is not a big word.
00:06:42But for your ego,
00:06:43sorry will be a very big word.
00:06:45Ma'am, your ego is losing.
00:06:46My ego is not there.
00:06:47Because
00:06:48My ego is not with anyone.
00:06:50What are you saying, ma'am?
00:06:51You are not eating the food that I am giving.
00:06:53I will not eat.
00:06:54It is my wish.
00:06:56Somebody take it away for Shilpa ji.
00:06:57Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:06:59Give it to Shilpa ji.
00:07:00We will send breakfast to Shilpa ji.
00:07:02Give it to her.
00:07:03I have to feed her.
00:07:04She is our friend.
00:07:05I am not eating.
00:07:06I don't like it.
00:07:07Give it to her.
00:07:08Who will eat it?
00:07:09She has gone mad.
00:07:11I am not eating.
00:07:13What are you doing?
00:07:14Sit down.
00:07:15Don't irritate me.
00:07:16Sit down.
00:07:19I am not eating.
00:07:20I have made it.
00:07:21Taste it.
00:07:22I have made it.
00:07:23Listen, taste it.
00:07:24How is it?
00:07:26Oh, man!
00:07:28Where is this energy coming from?
00:07:29She wants to lose weight.
00:07:30Do you see?
00:07:33I think even Shilpa ma'am
00:07:34has lost her ego.
00:07:35Yes.
00:07:36As far as I can understand.
00:07:37Yes.
00:07:38On professionalism,
00:07:39someone said
00:07:40you shouldn't say this.
00:07:41It doesn't suit you.
00:07:42But,
00:07:43in a game show,
00:07:44she didn't even say
00:07:45this about the character.
00:07:46I have been saying this
00:07:47since the beginning.
00:07:48And she cried four times.
00:07:49And she made it look like
00:07:50Avinash said something to her.
00:07:51Yes.
00:07:52I also felt the same.
00:07:53Because I say things
00:07:54in anger.
00:07:55That's why I said it
00:07:56in front of her.
00:07:57Ma'am,
00:07:58I didn't feel
00:07:59it was a big deal.
00:08:00Just eat.
00:08:01Why are you
00:08:02troubling your health?
00:08:03I am not troubled at all.
00:08:04I will tell you
00:08:05when I feel like it.
00:08:06Will you tell me
00:08:07or will you eat?
00:08:08I will tell you.
00:08:09Not now?
00:08:10Then when will you eat?
00:08:13I get jealous.
00:08:14Because I don't get
00:08:15as much importance
00:08:16as she does.
00:08:17It's not for her.
00:08:18It's for me.
00:08:19I am putting myself first.
00:08:21She is not eating.
00:08:22She is stubborn.
00:08:23She is stubborn.
00:08:24And she doesn't realize
00:08:25that right now.
00:08:26Right?
00:08:27If something goes wrong,
00:08:28all the competition
00:08:29will be lost.
00:08:30And all the ego
00:08:31will be lost.
00:08:32We don't even know
00:08:33where it will go.
00:08:35Look at her condition.
00:08:36I am worried
00:08:37about her.
00:08:38Not just her.
00:08:39Afin is also strong.
00:08:40I am worried
00:08:41about her.
00:08:42It's a decision
00:08:43that she has taken.
00:08:44I was there, Sara.
00:08:45I was there.
00:08:47There was no
00:08:48budget or anything.
00:08:50I was there.
00:09:04What are you doing
00:09:05with yourself?
00:09:06I don't understand.
00:09:07What are you fighting
00:09:08for or against?
00:09:09What is the problem?
00:09:10Why don't you eat food?
00:09:11It's very wrong.
00:09:12No, no. I am fine.
00:09:13You are wrong.
00:09:14What you are doing
00:09:15is wrong.
00:09:16Wrong.
00:09:17Someone made a mistake
00:09:18and you are suffering.
00:09:19It's wrong.
00:09:20If you are not eating,
00:09:21I am also not eating.
00:09:22Whatever you are doing
00:09:23is wrong.
00:09:24You colored your hair
00:09:25and you are looking good.
00:09:26Don't wear glasses.
00:09:27No.
00:09:28Show me.
00:09:30Vigilance.
00:09:31Vigilance.
00:09:32Vigilance.
00:09:33Vigilance.
00:09:34Vigilance.
00:09:37Shruti has puked
00:09:38four times.
00:09:39What?
00:09:40Shruti has puked
00:09:41four times.
00:09:42Call her.
00:09:43I want to talk to her.
00:09:44Call her.
00:09:45Call her.
00:09:46Look,
00:09:47Shruti and I
00:09:48have no such
00:09:49relationship.
00:09:50You would have
00:09:51made sure
00:09:52that we
00:09:53fed her food
00:09:54and put her to sleep.
00:09:55He is saying
00:09:56that please talk to her.
00:09:58This is the skirt.
00:09:59Nice.
00:10:00Yeah, very nice.
00:10:01Which has this slit.
00:10:02Superb.
00:10:03Did you get it?
00:10:06These are the
00:10:07This is the blouse.
00:10:08You had worn
00:10:09something similar.
00:10:10Yes.
00:10:11So, not this.
00:10:12Not this, right?
00:10:13And this dupatta
00:10:14is again the same style
00:10:15that I wore last time.
00:10:16No, no, no.
00:10:17That was your patent dress.
00:10:20Hello.
00:10:21Hello.
00:10:22Shilpa.
00:10:24Can you come and talk now?
00:10:25Please, Shilpa.
00:10:26Please, please.
00:10:27Only five minutes.
00:10:28I don't want to come right now.
00:10:29I just want to be alone.
00:10:30Please.
00:10:31Okay, leave it for five minutes.
00:10:32Is she ready
00:10:33to apologize?
00:10:34I don't want to talk to anyone.
00:10:35You eat your food.
00:10:36I want to be alone.
00:10:37Please, Shilpa.
00:10:38Okay.
00:10:39Okay.
00:10:40Okay.
00:10:41Okay.
00:10:42Okay.
00:10:43I am also coming.
00:10:46Vibin Bhai.
00:10:47Yes, Bhai.
00:10:48Will you take
00:10:49Shilpa's food inside?
00:10:50I will talk to her.
00:10:51She won't be able to come.
00:10:52Will you take her food
00:10:53and go inside?
00:10:54She might listen to you.
00:10:55She won't listen to anyone else.
00:10:56Will you take her food?
00:10:57I am going.
00:10:59Take her food.
00:11:00I will talk to her.
00:11:01No problem.
00:11:03Take your medicine.
00:11:04Not food.
00:11:08Do you want rice?
00:11:09They are coming.
00:11:10I don't want rice.
00:11:11Okay.
00:11:12Shilpa.
00:11:14Shilpa.
00:11:15Shilpa.
00:11:16Please, you eat.
00:11:17Please.
00:11:18Please.
00:11:19You are strong.
00:11:20You said you are strong.
00:11:21Strong girl.
00:11:25Let's go.
00:11:26Okay.
00:11:37No, no, no.
00:11:38This is...
00:11:39Shilpa, please eat the rice.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44Okay.
00:11:45Shilpa.
00:11:47Shilpa.
00:11:49Shilpa.
00:11:51I didn't misbehave with you.
00:11:55But if you felt bad,
00:11:57I am really sorry.
00:11:59It's okay.
00:12:00Please.
00:12:01Now eat.
00:12:02It's been two days.
00:12:03Eat one spoon.
00:12:04Please.
00:12:05Please.
00:12:06Ma'am, I didn't mean to misbehave.
00:12:09Very good.
00:12:12Nice.
00:12:13Very good.
00:12:14Very good.
00:12:15Listen.
00:12:16I won't give you more.
00:12:17I won't give you more.
00:12:25Okay.
00:12:29Are you all fine?
00:12:30Yes, sir.
00:12:31How are you?
00:12:32I am also fine.
00:12:33Did you eat?
00:12:34Yes, sir.
00:12:35Yes, sir.
00:12:36Did you eat well?
00:12:37Yes, sir.
00:12:38That's good.
00:12:39Have you apologized?
00:12:41To whom you had to apologize?
00:12:46Is everything sorted?
00:12:47Yes, sir.
00:12:48Good.
00:12:49Avinash, do you have any pending sorry?
00:12:51No, sir.
00:12:52Apologize.
00:12:53Apologize.
00:12:54No, sir.
00:12:55I didn't mean to apologize.
00:12:56I wanted to talk.
00:12:57Sir, the day I got eliminated,
00:12:59I was obviously very angry.
00:13:02I was a little angry.
00:13:03So I said,
00:13:04whatever has happened is wrong.
00:13:06Whatever I felt was wrong,
00:13:07I need an apology for that.
00:13:09It will happen after that.
00:13:10I will come to that, Avinash.
00:13:11Yes, sir.
00:13:12I will come to that.
00:13:15Shilpa.
00:13:17I hate tears, Shilpa.
00:13:21When your daughter used to cry,
00:13:22does she still cry?
00:13:24So how do you feel?
00:13:26Very bad.
00:13:27Very bad.
00:13:28Now the mother is crying,
00:13:29how would the daughter feel?
00:13:32Tell me.
00:13:34And this is not just an hour long show,
00:13:37this goes on 24x7 as well.
00:13:40So 24x7,
00:13:42she must be looking at her mother.
00:13:47She must also be looking at
00:13:48the one who is crying.
00:13:52And the other one,
00:13:54your sister must also be looking at her.
00:14:02So when your daughter was little,
00:14:04and she used to get angry,
00:14:06and she used to get angry at food,
00:14:09what did you tell her?
00:14:11I didn't get angry at food,
00:14:12I was angry at her behaviour.
00:14:14I was angry at her attitude.
00:14:16Yes, but if you are angry at attitude,
00:14:19then get angry at that attitude.
00:14:22Why is somebody else's words,
00:14:24whatever he is saying,
00:14:26or the way he is speaking,
00:14:28you don't like it.
00:14:30Why are you wasting your emotion
00:14:33for somebody else?
00:14:35You should never get angry at food.
00:14:39Especially when you are on medication,
00:14:42and you are not even taking medicines.
00:14:45And why are you going according to your feelings?
00:14:48You have come to this house,
00:14:50you know what all you have to do in this house.
00:14:53You should not have any relation with your feelings.
00:14:57Like today I have a feeling
00:14:59that I didn't have to come here today.
00:15:01I didn't have to come here.
00:15:03But there is a commitment,
00:15:05that's why I have come here.
00:15:08I have a work,
00:15:09I have come to do that work.
00:15:11I don't want to meet anybody,
00:15:13I don't want to meet you people either.
00:15:16But I am bound to do this.
00:15:19And because of somebody else's words,
00:15:21you are hurting yourself,
00:15:23and you are hurting your whole family.
00:15:26What is the use?
00:15:28This is a game of will power,
00:15:30this is a game of your thinking,
00:15:33your thoughts,
00:15:35intelligence.
00:15:37So you took a stand for yourself.
00:15:39Very good, right?
00:15:41It was really nice.
00:15:43But the highlight of this is that
00:15:45everybody was eating,
00:15:47but only two people were affected.
00:15:49Only two.
00:15:51You and Avinash.
00:15:53The rest of the people had moved on.
00:15:56So whenever they got their food,
00:16:00they moved on
00:16:02and didn't even look back.
00:16:04And one more simple thing.
00:16:06When you were not eating,
00:16:08then,
00:16:10now you have become a time god, Arfeen.
00:16:12Why didn't they keep the kitchen closed?
00:16:14Why?
00:16:18Shall we start from the beginning?
00:16:20Hmm?
00:16:22When Bhaggappa and Hema
00:16:24were in jail,
00:16:26they distributed a lot of ration.
00:16:28Yes.
00:16:30There was no problem.
00:16:32When they had to come out of jail,
00:16:34who did they submit all the ration to?
00:16:37To Big Boss.
00:16:39Big Boss.
00:16:41There was no problem with that either.
00:16:43Big Boss then announced
00:16:45that you will now live on basic ration.
00:16:49No one had any problem with that either.
00:16:52When two days passed on basic ration,
00:16:55then people started thinking
00:16:58that now we are hungry.
00:17:00Now we need luxury ration.
00:17:03We need a full course meal.
00:17:05Then you started the discussion.
00:17:07And then Big Boss gave you guys two options.
00:17:11What were those options?
00:17:13Jail and elimination.
00:17:15All of you chose the option of jail.
00:17:18Am I going right?
00:17:20Absolutely right.
00:17:22Yes.
00:17:24So tell me,
00:17:26all those who wanted sorries,
00:17:28did they get it?
00:17:30Everyone got it, right?
00:17:32Yes.
00:17:34I have a simple question.
00:17:38If on national television,
00:17:41there is an allegation against you,
00:17:43and that allegation is that
00:17:45with this person,
00:17:47girls are not safe at home,
00:17:49and on that basis,
00:17:51you are eliminated
00:17:53from the house
00:17:55for ration.
00:17:57And after that,
00:17:59if that person
00:18:01is given control
00:18:03of that same ration,
00:18:05what will happen?
00:18:07What will happen?
00:18:09So tell me,
00:18:11who will not take revenge?
00:18:15Who will say,
00:18:17I am not angry,
00:18:19I am not upset.
00:18:21Leave the revenge,
00:18:23I want to teach them a lesson.
00:18:25Mr. Rajat, you tell me.
00:18:27If you were in Avinash's place,
00:18:29and you were given
00:18:31such a luncheon,
00:18:33and you were
00:18:35eliminated from the house,
00:18:37and after that,
00:18:39when you come back,
00:18:41and you are in control
00:18:43of the ration,
00:18:45will you not feel like
00:18:47taking the revenge
00:18:49that Avinash has done
00:18:51on you?
00:18:53I think,
00:18:55I understand it very well.
00:18:57Now I will show him.
00:18:59Should I speak?
00:19:01Yes, go ahead.
00:19:03I think,
00:19:05if you don't want to do anything,
00:19:07but that accusation is put on you,
00:19:09how do you feel?
00:19:11As far as food is concerned,
00:19:13I would have seen it later.
00:19:15If this had happened to me,
00:19:17he would have given food,
00:19:19I would not have given food.
00:19:21I know it is wrong
00:19:23not to give food,
00:19:25but I would have cleared
00:19:27it out to everyone.
00:19:29Do you play with them for a while?
00:19:31No, I don't play,
00:19:33but tell me,
00:19:35how many great men,
00:19:37gods and goddesses
00:19:39in this house
00:19:41would have given food
00:19:43instantly?
00:19:45I would have given food too.
00:19:49Would you have given food?
00:19:51Yes, I would have,
00:19:53but I would have expected
00:19:55an explanation for what happened.
00:19:57I wouldn't have not given
00:19:59or not given also, no Salman.
00:20:02KB, if someone tells you
00:20:04that a girl is not feeling safe
00:20:06on national television,
00:20:08then what?
00:20:10Sir, first of all,
00:20:12I don't think it ever happens.
00:20:14But if it doesn't happen
00:20:16in this position,
00:20:18it will happen in some other position.
00:20:20Correct. If it had happened,
00:20:22I would have given food first
00:20:24and would have waited to talk.
00:20:26But instead of food,
00:20:28I wouldn't have expected
00:20:30that someone would give me food
00:20:32like a god.
00:20:34If you give me food,
00:20:36I will talk to you.
00:20:38Because it was happening
00:20:40repeatedly.
00:20:42What were Avinash's demands
00:20:44after coming to jail?
00:20:46When Avinash came back,
00:20:48we were all very happy
00:20:50because I felt genuinely bad
00:20:52when Avinash was eliminated.
00:20:54No, I don't think very many people
00:20:56were happy that Avinash is back.
00:20:58But I was genuinely happy.
00:21:00No, you just said
00:21:02that we all were happy.
00:21:04There were a few handful of us
00:21:06who were happy to have him back.
00:21:08No, no. My question is…
00:21:10What about his demands?
00:21:12His demands, what he was sending
00:21:14messages through Chahat was
00:21:16that call everyone individually
00:21:18and I will give them
00:21:20individual food
00:21:22and you people cook
00:21:24individually.
00:21:26He said that we will not do
00:21:28this. If we have to do it,
00:21:30we will do it together.
00:21:32Chahat, you say.
00:21:34Actually, what was said
00:21:36by Mr. Arfeen,
00:21:38that when everyone will get food,
00:21:40only then will the gas start.
00:21:42And no one was ready to talk
00:21:44to Avinash. Avinash just wanted
00:21:46that if he is in jail,
00:21:48he has power, he has ration
00:21:50and if we are not in jail,
00:21:52we all don't have that power.
00:21:54So, I had to go and tell him
00:21:56that Avinash, give us food.
00:21:58He was not saying that please
00:22:00beg me, give us food.
00:22:02He was just saying that go
00:22:04normally, ask for food,
00:22:06I will give you food.
00:22:08He just wanted to talk.
00:22:10And what happened between Avinash
00:22:12and me, Hemaji was also there
00:22:14and that is why I was talking
00:22:16to Avinash and these people
00:22:18because I wanted this matter
00:22:20to be solved soon,
00:22:23because everyone's...
00:22:25Sir, can I say something?
00:22:27One second, ma'am.
00:22:29When Avinash came back
00:22:31that night,
00:22:33Karanveer went to him
00:22:35and said, I want to have a talk,
00:22:37let's have a chat.
00:22:39And he went, as soon as
00:22:41Karanveer sat on the sofa there,
00:22:43he picked up his night suit
00:22:45and went in the bathroom.
00:22:47Sir, I will tell you exactly
00:22:49what I said. First, I said
00:22:51I used the word unsafe.
00:22:53Avinash, one second. Isha.
00:22:55Isha, you tell us.
00:22:57Sir, when Avinash came that day,
00:22:59he was very angry and he said
00:23:01that first of all,
00:23:03he had made a condition that
00:23:05everyone will talk to me first,
00:23:07I want an apology because
00:23:09that unsafe statement was
00:23:11a very big statement.
00:23:13No one came to talk to him.
00:23:15I and Alice were mostly with him.
00:23:17Naira was also there for some time.
00:23:19He gave food to everyone.
00:23:21When the food was over,
00:23:23I think Karan came after that.
00:23:25No, everyone was not given food immediately.
00:23:27I just want to make one statement here.
00:23:29Because I just
00:23:31saw Karan and Shilpa
00:23:33making some eye contact.
00:23:35I don't want to comment
00:23:37on Karan and Avinash's
00:23:39statements.
00:23:41Shilpa, listen to this,
00:23:43this is for you.
00:23:45The argument between them
00:23:47was not related to food at all.
00:23:51Karan's ego was in one place
00:23:53and Avinash's ego
00:23:55was on the other side.
00:23:57And Karan clearly
00:23:59explained it to Alice.
00:24:01So now, commenting on
00:24:03Shilpa, Karan and Avinash
00:24:05I don't think it is necessary
00:24:07because
00:24:09that is a different topic.
00:24:11It was not related to food.
00:24:13Isha, tell us
00:24:15what were the demands?
00:24:17Sir, the demands were that everyone should come and talk to me.
00:24:19I want to talk to Chum,
00:24:21I want to talk to Karan and I want to talk to Rajat.
00:24:23After that, on the first day
00:24:25when he came back to the jail,
00:24:27these were his demands.
00:24:29I want to talk to everyone and I want an explanation
00:24:31and I want an apology.
00:24:33Then that didn't happen, no one came and he gave food at night.
00:24:35No, after that
00:24:37everyone came to listen to what he had to say.
00:24:39After that, food was given at night.
00:24:41The next day, he also said
00:24:44that he didn't even want an apology.
00:24:46Everyone sat there
00:24:48and he spoke
00:24:50and then food was given.
00:24:52If Avinash's demands are not clear
00:24:54in this house, then I will tell you
00:24:56what were Avinash's demands.
00:24:58Avinash's first demand was
00:25:00that the allegation that has been put
00:25:02on me
00:25:04the allegation that has been put
00:25:06in front of the whole house
00:25:08regarding that
00:25:10there should be a discussion
00:25:12Correct
00:25:14What is so wrong
00:25:16in that?
00:25:20And the next day
00:25:22till afternoon, Avinash
00:25:24has conveyed this again and again
00:25:28and Isha and Alice
00:25:30were coming
00:25:32to you again and again
00:25:34Yes
00:25:36and their basic point was
00:25:38how can he come here
00:25:40individually to talk to everyone
00:25:42so you have to
00:25:44go there
00:25:46and listen to what he has to say
00:25:50Karan, do you have anything to say?
00:25:52Yes sir
00:25:54The way you are speaking
00:25:56and the demands
00:25:58that you are putting
00:26:00there is nothing wrong
00:26:02If we had spoken in such a voice
00:26:04I can vouch this
00:26:06that not only me
00:26:08but his first
00:26:10dialogue
00:26:12Karan, I know that
00:26:14you will say that
00:26:16this will not happen with me
00:26:18No, I am not talking about myself
00:26:20But if
00:26:22this allegation is put on you
00:26:24What is an allegation?
00:26:26False
00:26:28So how do you
00:26:30react?
00:26:32I never say that
00:26:34the biggest villain is back
00:26:36Now come to me and I will tell you
00:26:38Who told me
00:26:40that women are not safe in front of me
00:26:42It was a different sound
00:26:44That's why I was the only one
00:26:46not to go there
00:26:48When he ate
00:26:50and I ate
00:26:52and everyone went to sleep
00:26:54I went to talk to him
00:26:56It was hot
00:26:58At that time
00:27:00Exactly
00:27:02It took half an hour
00:27:05to reach the conclusion
00:27:07that it was hot
00:27:09Yes
00:27:11I have been explaining
00:27:13this for half an hour
00:27:15Yes
00:27:17When he returned
00:27:19to the jail
00:27:21whatever he said
00:27:23was hot
00:27:25I understand that
00:27:27the way of speaking
00:27:29may be wrong
00:27:31in anger
00:27:33If such a big allegation
00:27:35is put on someone
00:27:37Leave the country
00:27:39Leave the nation
00:27:41What will happen
00:27:43to his family?
00:27:45He did that
00:27:47When his parents
00:27:49go out of the house
00:27:51and everyone knows
00:27:53that his son is in Bigg Boss
00:27:55When they go out of the house
00:27:57What will people think about them?
00:27:59That
00:28:01You have left a mark
00:28:03in your upbringing
00:28:05Your son
00:28:07Your family says
00:28:09that women are not safe with him
00:28:11That's ok
00:28:13I know this
00:28:15I have been blamed
00:28:17So I know what my parents go through
00:28:19This is not coming
00:28:21from a third person's experience
00:28:23This is coming from personal experiences
00:28:25When you put yourself
00:28:27in somebody else's shoes
00:28:29You don't understand that person
00:28:31Like
00:28:33Rajat said
00:28:35I don't give food
00:28:37Rajat was fighting
00:28:39with you against Avinash
00:28:41That's why
00:28:43I directly
00:28:45asked Rajat
00:28:47What do you do?
00:28:49I know
00:28:51whatever is in his mind
00:28:53he will say
00:28:55Like I ask a mind coach
00:28:57See what I am saying
00:28:59He will say something else
00:29:01The same question I asked Rajat
00:29:03I ask you
00:29:05What do you do?
00:29:07Do you give food or not?
00:29:09My process
00:29:11is
00:29:13I give food
00:29:15But
00:29:17I say
00:29:19After this
00:29:21I have to talk to everyone
00:29:23I will be honest with you Salman
00:29:26The allegation
00:29:28I spoke to
00:29:30Avinash
00:29:32I said
00:29:34When he was coming towards you
00:29:36What you said
00:29:38was very frightening
00:29:40So if he says
00:29:42girls are wrong
00:29:44I said categorically
00:29:46So if for this reason
00:29:48he was angry
00:29:50I totally agree
00:29:52that this allegation is wrong
00:29:54Completely wrong
00:29:56But if I speak from Chum's point of view
00:29:58He personally
00:30:00felt
00:30:02If he spoke about girls
00:30:04I would have been very angry
00:30:06Very very angry
00:30:08And after that
00:30:10you used the word process
00:30:12What process?
00:30:14Your process will be different
00:30:16You know what process is?
00:30:18I don't understand
00:30:20When you started
00:30:22I would have given food
00:30:24But my process would have been different
00:30:26Yes
00:30:28Now he came
00:30:30What he had to do from his heart
00:30:32He said
00:30:34I am not supporting him
00:30:36I am just telling you
00:30:38He said
00:30:40Now there is a little power
00:30:42When there is a little power
00:30:44Then a person gets carried away
00:30:46Understand?
00:30:48Controlling the power
00:30:50The most powerful thing there is
00:30:52Because today there is power
00:30:54Tomorrow there is no power
00:30:56So you need to understand that
00:30:58And he had power in jail
00:31:00Yes
00:31:02So you used the word process
00:31:04That means you have thought about this
00:31:06Hundreds of times
00:31:08I have
00:31:10Did all the
00:31:12Combinations, permutations
00:31:14By doing all
00:31:16Pros, cons
00:31:18If I don't do this
00:31:20If I do this
00:31:22You have done it
00:31:24You have mentally thought of this
00:31:26And I am telling you something
00:31:28That if you were in a position like this
00:31:30And your wife is there as well
00:31:32You yourself at that moment
00:31:34You would not be able to control
00:31:36This kind of emotion
00:31:38Right now you are sitting
00:31:40In a different position
00:31:42And saying this is my process
00:31:44And it is like
00:31:47A cricket match
00:31:49You should have scored a six on this
00:31:51Yeah because I am a spectator right now
00:31:53Meaning I am looking from the outside perspective
00:31:55Arfeen
00:31:57We are talking about the process
00:31:59So let's talk about
00:32:01Your process
00:32:03Yes
00:32:05The decision of keeping the gas off
00:32:07This means
00:32:09Keeping the intelligent quotient in mind
00:32:11At 1 is to 10
00:32:13How intelligently
00:32:15You thought of this process
00:32:17I will tell you from my perspective
00:32:19Yes, yes, yes
00:32:21I want to hear that only
00:32:23So when he came inside
00:32:25I knew he was angry
00:32:27Obviously
00:32:29Because I don't know
00:32:31For what reason he was angry
00:32:33Because a lot of things happened at that time
00:32:35But I knew he was angry
00:32:37It could have been for eviction
00:32:39It could have been because of a comment
00:32:41I wasn't clear in my mind
00:32:43You have to be the clearest in your mind
00:32:45Because you clear other people's minds
00:32:47No I don't
00:32:49You clear other people's minds
00:32:51My job as a mind coach is not to clear people's minds
00:32:53Not at all
00:32:55But you get people on the right track
00:32:57You save lives
00:32:59This means
00:33:01Your human nature
00:33:03Your study
00:33:05Your analysis
00:33:07Is like God
00:33:09No, not true
00:33:11At least
00:33:13Like us
00:33:15We are average people
00:33:17You are 10 times better than us
00:33:19No
00:33:21Because
00:33:23The one who is 10 times better
00:33:25Can only be a guide
00:33:27First of all
00:33:29I want to explain this to you
00:33:31There is a misconception
00:33:33That I am a guide and give advice
00:33:35That is completely wrong
00:33:37My process is more based on provocation
00:33:39Because
00:33:41To guide a person
00:33:43You have to nudge
00:33:45You have to poke
00:33:47So that he can see what to do
00:33:49Not me
00:33:51I know
00:33:53This is your field
00:33:55And I am nobody
00:33:57My system is different
00:33:59Your system is different
00:34:01But in that system
00:34:03It is important to know
00:34:05Who to talk to
00:34:08If you encourage
00:34:10He will take it for granted
00:34:12If you encourage
00:34:14He will appreciate
00:34:16And he will go 10 times further
00:34:18If you put down
00:34:20He will say
00:34:22I will show you
00:34:24And he will bounce back
00:34:26If you put down
00:34:28He will never forgive you
00:34:30And he will never be able to rise from that
00:34:32Simple as that
00:34:34Person to person
00:34:36It depends on
00:34:38What to encourage
00:34:40And what to discourage
00:34:42Ok
00:34:44The tone
00:34:46As you said
00:34:48Provocation
00:34:50It depends on
00:34:52One person
00:34:54There will be many qualities
00:34:56That you encourage
00:34:58Or he is taking it for granted
00:35:00And that's it
00:35:02I am sure you know
00:35:04By talking to him
00:35:06Or her
00:35:08What type of personality is he
00:35:10And how should I tackle him
00:35:12Now you come
00:35:14To yourself
00:35:16If you see
00:35:18My conversations with Abhinash
00:35:20Post this challenge
00:35:22If you see
00:35:24All the conversations between Abhinash and me
00:35:26They have been very very good
00:35:28What is this gesture
00:35:30That is my process
00:35:32My process
00:35:34The world wants to know
00:35:36What is your process
00:35:38It's a process
00:35:40All the viewers of Bigg Boss
00:35:42They want to know
00:35:44What is this process
00:35:46This is my process
00:35:48You won't tell them
00:35:50I can't
00:35:52The thing is
00:35:54You did this
00:35:56Now they might be thinking
00:35:58Something about this gesture
00:36:00Or finish this
00:36:02First of all
00:36:04Let me tell you how I did it
00:36:06I did it like this
00:36:08I did not do this
00:36:10I did that
00:36:12And you did that
00:36:14So basically you watch out
00:36:16I didn't do this
00:36:18I will never do that
00:36:20We have the recording
00:36:22You can check
00:36:24Now
00:36:26I didn't do this
00:36:29Ok so
00:36:31If you don't tell them
00:36:33My interpretation
00:36:35Rajat will also say
00:36:37If I did this
00:36:39What will Rajat think
00:36:41Move it away
00:36:43This is dust
00:36:45This is mud
00:36:47I didn't do this
00:36:49I did this
00:36:51And this
00:36:53This also means
00:36:55I won't leave you
00:36:57Because you are not telling them
00:36:59Your process
00:37:01Everyone has a process
00:37:03Now they will have their own
00:37:05Interpretation
00:37:07I will tell you
00:37:09I will tell you
00:37:11It is also possible
00:37:13That he is not able to do anything at home
00:37:15You meet him outside
00:37:17I won't do this
00:37:19Anything can happen
00:37:21I won't do this
00:37:23I will tell you what I did
00:37:25This
00:37:27I will explain
00:37:29Which side is the devil
00:37:31I have no idea
00:37:33No
00:37:35No
00:37:37One side is of God
00:37:39Right
00:37:41And one side is wrong
00:37:43I have no idea about that
00:37:45Watch
00:37:47What
00:37:49On the left side
00:37:51Was a car coming
00:37:53I will tell you
00:37:55Was there a table
00:37:57I will tell you
00:37:59What is watch your left side
00:38:01Should I explain
00:38:03If you look at the left side
00:38:05If you look at
00:38:07All the conversations
00:38:09When I am talking to people
00:38:11Maybe
00:38:13What is watch your left side
00:38:15I am explaining
00:38:17I have to make a context
00:38:19Otherwise there won't be an explanation
00:38:21When I am talking
00:38:23My main focus is
00:38:25Empower your heart
00:38:27Empower your heart
00:38:29Which side is the heart
00:38:31Left side
00:38:33This is called
00:38:35In my profession
00:38:37Pattern interrupt
00:38:39Divert the focus to the heart
00:38:41Divert to the heart
00:38:43Because in our body language
00:38:45You are a very good
00:38:47Understanding
00:38:50Body language
00:38:52Is more powerful than words
00:38:54When I am talking to someone
00:38:56And I am doing this
00:38:58Look I am doing this
00:39:00You can check
00:39:02Point to your heart
00:39:04All the people
00:39:06I am talking to
00:39:08Pattern interrupt
00:39:10You are talking to a black heart
00:39:12Yes he was
00:39:14Hard heart
00:39:16Focus on your heart
00:39:18I will tell you now
00:39:20One second
00:39:22Let me just think
00:39:24I will just tell you
00:39:26You are a nasty man
00:39:28Evil man
00:39:30Evil heart
00:39:32Your heart is sick
00:39:34No your heart is
00:39:36Hard
00:39:38Look at you
00:39:40Left shoulder
00:39:42I did this sir
00:39:44I will stand up
00:39:46One second
00:39:48One second
00:39:50The wife will speak
00:39:52You don't need to speak sir
00:39:54Let me speak to myself
00:39:56In my work
00:39:58My entire system
00:40:00Is heart driven
00:40:02Everything is heart driven
00:40:04When someone is angry
00:40:06His diversion goes to heart
00:40:08That's my interpretation
00:40:10If someone has a different interpretation
00:40:12God knows best
00:40:14I have explained
00:40:16But that explanation
00:40:18Is not good enough
00:40:20Because you are blaming someone's heart
00:40:22You are blaming someone's heart
00:40:24If you
00:40:26If you understand my coaching
00:40:28You were triggering
00:40:30So in this
00:40:32Totally incorrect
00:40:34So basically
00:40:36Where was your heart
00:40:38My heart was in the right direction
00:40:40Because my work was
00:40:42Tell him look at my heart
00:40:44What did you want to achieve?
00:40:46I wanted to break his pattern
00:40:48What is the pattern?
00:40:50The pattern can be anything
00:40:52He is in rage
00:40:54So if it can be anything
00:40:56And you are not sure
00:40:58I am sure
00:41:00You just said anything
00:41:02Which pattern is there in anything?
00:41:06Pattern is a pattern
00:41:08When it is predictable
00:41:11Which pattern is there?
00:41:13So you said anything
00:41:15Pattern could be anything
00:41:17And then
00:41:19You have one too many
00:41:21Of these things to tackle
00:41:23One too many of these patterns
00:41:25But
00:41:27The problem is
00:41:29You didn't know
00:41:31How Avinash would react
00:41:33To realise the pattern
00:41:35You need a lot of time
00:41:37That's incorrect
00:41:39What am I saying?
00:41:41If you are blaming him
00:41:43Who?
00:41:45That hard heart
00:41:47Evil man
00:41:49Dirty man
00:41:51So does it take
00:41:53I didn't say dirty man
00:41:55Whatever you said
00:41:57Whatever you said
00:41:59Yes
00:42:01I am talking about that
00:42:03So does it take one
00:42:05To recognise the other?
00:42:07No
00:42:09Because I remember clearly
00:42:11That
00:42:13You have said
00:42:15That you will come
00:42:17And you will play mind games
00:42:19And you will
00:42:21No
00:42:23I didn't give this narrative
00:42:25One second
00:42:27I never gave this narrative
00:42:29Manipulation
00:42:31This narrative was given to me
00:42:33I clearly said that I am a mind coach
00:42:35I work on the heart
00:42:37I work on empowering the heart
00:42:39Puppet, manipulation
00:42:41I have never said this
00:42:43I have never claimed this
00:42:45And I have never done that in my life
00:42:47That is incorrect
00:42:49Thank you
00:42:51Now I want to ask a question from home
00:42:53That Arfeen and Sara
00:42:55In this house
00:42:57About their profession
00:42:59How many times have they talked
00:43:01They were still talking
00:43:03Many times
00:43:05From the first day
00:43:07Vivian
00:43:09Yes sir
00:43:11How many times have they talked
00:43:13Many times
00:43:15But I didn't clearly understand
00:43:17What exactly their profession is
00:43:19But bits and pieces
00:43:21Some things
00:43:23Working on the heart
00:43:25We have heard this commonly
00:43:27I agree with you
00:43:29I feel the same
00:43:32They have come to Bigg Boss
00:43:34To talk about their profession
00:43:36And on the basis of their profession
00:43:38They are trying to
00:43:40Build their status
00:43:42Mr. Salman
00:43:44If
00:43:46If I make this statement
00:43:48Or when I leave this house
00:43:50Then everyone should know
00:43:52And basically
00:43:54About their profession
00:43:56This advertising
00:43:58Publicity
00:44:00They have come here
00:44:02Totally incorrect
00:44:04Look
00:44:06We are common people
00:44:08I don't know what that means
00:44:10Common means ordinary people
00:44:12Ordinary minds
00:44:14Small thinking
00:44:16We don't have that
00:44:18Intellect like yours
00:44:20Intelligence like yours
00:44:22Knowledge like yours
00:44:24So we will understand this only
00:44:26We will understand
00:44:28They have come here to talk about their profession
00:44:30That when you leave this house
00:44:32The work you get from here
00:44:34You will get more work
00:44:36No, I didn't say that
00:44:38They have come here to clarify
00:44:40I am saying
00:44:42This is our thinking
00:44:44This is our thinking
00:44:46I know that
00:44:48Arfeen, Arfeen
00:44:50I will let you speak
00:44:52So
00:44:54This is something they don't teach you
00:44:56What?
00:44:58You are supposed to listen, right?
00:45:00Yeah, but my profession
00:45:02Isn't the first thing
00:45:04Isn't the first thing in your profession
00:45:06See again
00:45:08But I have to respond
00:45:10If you are saying something
00:45:12That my profession
00:45:14I asked you a question
00:45:16That this is not taught in your profession
00:45:18That especially in your profession
00:45:20That listen to others
00:45:22No
00:45:24It is not taught
00:45:26Then what do you do?
00:45:28You don't let anyone talk
00:45:30So what will you learn from that?
00:45:32About that
00:45:34About its patterns
00:45:36That's the point
00:45:38You test it in the walk
00:45:40You put your eyes in the eyes and understand
00:45:42No
00:45:44The smile on the face
00:45:46The beard
00:45:48The clothes
00:45:50The skin
00:45:53No, sir
00:45:56No
00:46:00No
00:46:02No
00:46:04No
00:46:06No
00:46:08No
00:46:10No
00:46:14No
00:46:16No
00:46:18No
00:46:20No
00:46:22That is what I am saying.
00:46:24It's not our thinking.
00:46:27It's your thought.
00:46:29It's a great thought.
00:46:30We don't have that thought.
00:46:31That's why you have to come down a little bit.
00:46:34To make ordinary people like us understand.
00:46:39Now you are a PhD.
00:46:42We can't say A, B, C, D.
00:46:44And you are talking in big words and big thoughts.
00:46:47So we should understand.
00:46:49So you have to come down to our level.
00:46:52Planet Earth.
00:46:54You are sitting on the 7th heaven with intellectual knowledge.
00:46:59You can only talk to God.
00:47:02You can only talk to God.
00:47:04You can only talk to Allah.
00:47:06These things come from your mind.
00:47:09Not true.
00:47:10No?
00:47:11No.
00:47:12So why are you so angry when you are being asked about your profession?
00:47:21And what is your profession?
00:47:25Family?
00:47:27Does anyone understand?
00:47:29If you understand, raise your hand.
00:47:33Does anyone understand?
00:47:36Even your wife doesn't understand.
00:47:38This means that I am not promoting my profession.
00:47:42No.
00:47:43You are talking about your profession.
00:47:46It is being shown on TV.
00:47:49We have been asked the same question.
00:47:52To ask you.
00:47:54What is your profession?
00:47:57Because whenever I ask you.
00:47:59This is not mine.
00:48:00This is not mine.
00:48:01This is not mine.
00:48:02This is not mine.
00:48:03That is not mine.
00:48:04You never said that this is mine.
00:48:08I have told you.
00:48:10But I have told you that my profession is simply heart activation.
00:48:19Arfeen, I don't understand.
00:48:21I don't know what it is.
00:48:22Maybe my intellect is corrupted.
00:48:25I thought I am quite a smart, intelligent man.
00:48:31But you have dwarfed my intelligence.
00:48:34Big time.
00:48:35Big time.
00:48:36This is not like that.
00:48:39I will be honest with you.
00:48:41I want to tell you why I was so upset.
00:48:45Because I think it is important for me to give my explanation.
00:48:49If you don't mind.
00:48:50I am not interrupting.
00:48:53I am asking you to repeat what you said.
00:48:56I got angry when you talked about my profession.
00:49:05I want to tell you what was the reason.
00:49:09Of course.
00:49:10I will not interrupt you like the way you keep on interrupting me.
00:49:13Please.
00:49:14There are thousands of people in my profession who do what I do.
00:49:22They are stuck.
00:49:25Not people with very severe challenges.
00:49:29But people who are stuck in life.
00:49:32They show them a little light.
00:49:36Like psychiatrists or shrinks.
00:49:40No.
00:49:41It is not like that.
00:49:42I want to tell you.
00:49:43Look at this.
00:49:44It is not like that.
00:49:45If you can give me two minutes.
00:49:49I will give you some information.
00:49:51It is a very simple metaphor.
00:49:53Imagine I am going to a cave.
00:49:55And the cave gets darker and darker.
00:49:57Our job is not to ask them about their history.
00:50:01Just to nudge them.
00:50:02To turn them around.
00:50:03To look at it in a different direction.
00:50:05We don't talk about their past.
00:50:07I just nudge them.
00:50:09Nudge them.
00:50:12Nudge them means for full turnaround.
00:50:15If you are going in a tunnel.
00:50:19And it gets darker and darker.
00:50:21And you just nudge them.
00:50:23It is a tunnel.
00:50:24They will bump into each other.
00:50:25No.
00:50:26Nudge them in the opposite direction.
00:50:27Nudge means I turn them around.
00:50:30I turn them around.
00:50:31And from there I see light.
00:50:34But tell me.
00:50:36It is a tunnel.
00:50:37It gets darker and darker.
00:50:40It is a tunnel.
00:50:41It is not a cave.
00:50:42It is a tunnel.
00:50:44On the other side of the tunnel.
00:50:47You said tunnel.
00:50:49That's why.
00:50:50That's why.
00:50:51That's why.
00:50:52That's why.
00:50:53On the other side of the tunnel.
00:50:55You nudge them.
00:50:57And it gets darker and darker.
00:50:59And it gets darker and darker.
00:51:01And it gets brighter and brighter.
00:51:04Poor guy.
00:51:05He is almost past.
00:51:06Three fourths of the tunnel.
00:51:08And you turn him around.
00:51:09And he comes back.
00:51:11He is coming back.
00:51:14I just feel.
00:51:16You know Salman ji.
00:51:17You know.
00:51:38Exactly.
00:51:40Absolutely.
00:51:45Yes.
00:52:06Metaphorically okay.
00:52:07It is a metaphor sir.
00:52:08It is a metaphor.
00:52:09Meta.
00:52:10Met who?
00:52:11No sir.
00:52:12Metaphor.
00:52:13Yeah I know.
00:52:14Sync.
00:52:16Metaphor.
00:52:17Oh yeah I know.
00:52:18Yeah.
00:52:20Metaphor.
00:52:21I am metaphor.
00:52:23Right.
00:52:27So Arfin and Sarah.
00:52:29I just wanted to make just one point.
00:52:34When they talk about your profession.
00:52:36Which you yourself are saying.
00:52:38That there are very few people.
00:52:40Then you get angry.
00:52:42In ke profession mein kitne saare log hain?
00:52:47Maini acting ke profession ko kabhi kuch nahi bole.
00:52:50Maini zandagi mein nahi bolunga.
00:52:52Because mujhe itni respect hai.
00:52:54Toh humne aapko yeh kehteve suna hai.
00:52:56Yeh saare actors hain.
00:52:58Actor, community.
00:53:00Actors, community is only acting.
00:53:02Haan?
00:53:04Actor, community is only acting.
00:53:07They cannot be real.
00:53:09Maini yeh nahi bola hai yeh.
00:53:11Maini yeh nahi bola hai yeh.
00:53:13Nahi, nahi, nahi, nahi. Humne aapse buluaya hai yeh.
00:53:15Nahi, nahi, humne aapka.
00:53:17Maini bola hai ke acting, community is only acting.
00:53:19Sara ne abhi bola hai ke unhone bola hai, you've said this.
00:53:21Usne bola hai.
00:53:23Mind coach, mind coach.
00:53:25Mind coach, mind coach. Thoda sa apne mind ke ur pe bhi.
00:53:27Thoda sa dhyan deo.
00:53:29Maini yeh nahi bola hai.
00:53:31Toh sachai hai, maini yeh bola hi nahi hai.
00:53:33Impossible, because mere itna respect to acting industry.
00:53:35Because I've acted myself.
00:53:37Dekho, aapne bola hoga, aap bhool gaye ho.
00:53:39No.
00:53:41Arrey, recorded hai bhai.
00:53:43I'd like to see it.
00:53:45You'd like to see it?
00:53:47I would never say that, ever.
00:53:49Sara, aapne yeh statement bola hai, nahi bola hai?
00:53:51Nahi bola hai.
00:53:53So, I didn't mean it in a bad way.
00:53:55So, basically,
00:53:57how do I put this?
00:53:59Ke aap kisi ko kuch bolo,
00:54:01kisi ke profession ke baare mein,
00:54:03lekin aap par jo baat aati hai,
00:54:05tab aapko aisa lagta hai ke...
00:54:07I didn't say anything about profession.
00:54:09Never in my life would I do it.
00:54:11Aap bahar aake dekh lena.
00:54:13Itminan se...
00:54:15Itminan se aap dekh lena,
00:54:17bahar aake.
00:54:19So, basically, yeh aisa aaya hai,
00:54:21aisa aaya hai, ke yeh actors hai,
00:54:23yeh real nahi ho sakte,
00:54:25yeh acting hi karenge ghar mein.
00:54:27Specially, chaahat ke baare mein
00:54:29yeh bola gaya hai.
00:54:31Chaahat ke baare mein toh maine kaha hai.
00:54:33Aapne show pe aane se pehle bola tha.
00:54:35And I'm sorry, sir,
00:54:37but sab bolte hai.
00:54:39Khaali...
00:54:41But aap toh widwaan log hai yaar.
00:54:43Baaki sab bewaqoof hai, including me.
00:54:45Aapko toh itna samajh hona chahiye na,
00:54:47ke agar aapko,
00:54:49koi apne profession ke baare mein
00:54:51bole toh aapko dukh hota hai phir,
00:54:53lekin aap kisi ko...
00:54:55Matlab ke basically, acting karte hai.
00:54:57Acting karte hai, matlab yeh jhooti hai.
00:54:59Yeh fraud hai.
00:55:01Yeh fraud hai.
00:55:03Matlab yeh iska profession hai.
00:55:05Yeh khud bhi sabne bola hai.
00:55:07Main toh isko alag-alag-alag level pe
00:55:09leke jaa sakta hu.
00:55:11Leke jaaun usko main alag-alag level par.
00:55:13Inke co-actor ne bhi khud bola hai.
00:55:15Avinash, you have also said.
00:55:17Aur har ek logon ne yeh baat ko...
00:55:19Avinash ne bola hai.
00:55:21Main toh...
00:55:23Main toh aap logon ki baat kar raha hu.
00:55:25Mind coach.
00:55:27Aap logon ki baat kar raha hu main.
00:55:29Inki thodi baat kar raha hu.
00:55:31Hum se toh galtiya ho jati hai yaar.
00:55:33Hum sorry bhi bol dete hai.
00:55:35Humko toh show se pehle balwaaya kiya
00:55:37batane ke liye.
00:55:39Aap se toh galtiya toh...
00:55:41Yaar kasam khuda ki yaar, what all I am going through
00:55:43in my life.
00:55:45And I have to come and handle this.
00:55:53I think it's just about being targeted
00:55:55and I'm sorry.
00:55:57It doesn't matter.
00:55:59Are you trying to say sir aapko target kar raha hai?
00:56:01Main aap se baat nahi kar rahi ho.
00:56:03Aur nahi maine aapko bola.
00:56:05Aapka hawaaz mere kaan mein aayega.
00:56:07Tara, don't waste your time.
00:56:09What's the energy?
00:56:11Itna koi free baitha hai, inko target karenge.
00:56:13Tara, keep quiet.
00:56:15Lagi rahe hain.
00:56:17No wonder.
00:56:19Agar kisi ko kuch cheez samajh mein nahi aaye
00:56:21aur wo iske baan mein baat karenge, toh kaise zamjhenge?
00:56:23You have to say ki yeh profession samajh mein nahi aate hai.
00:56:25Toh bolte hain apna hi advertisement karte hain.
00:56:27Maine kab actor ko target kiya?
00:56:29No, he was talking to Sara.
00:56:31Why is he saying that I'm doing it?
00:56:33Aur agar maine kiya bhi hai, in the heat of the moment.
00:56:35She's an actor as well.
00:56:37Yeh toh actor hai.
00:56:39In case agar maine bola.
00:56:41Please yaar, tum dimaag mat kharap karna abhi.
00:56:43What did she say?
00:56:45Mujhe bhi toh bola hai, side se nikal jati hai amishabh.
00:56:47Haan, toh?
00:56:49Bola hai na, Salman sir mein bola bhai.
00:56:51Wo toh show se pehle bolaya tha.
00:56:53Mere peeth pehle toh kya bol raha hai, mujhe nahi para.
00:56:55Salman sir ne bola, tab mujhe patna chal raha hai.
00:56:57Big Boss ne bol waya hai, team ne.
00:56:59Ki bolo aisa.
00:57:01No, no, but why does he mean that?
00:57:03Sir, apna me just...
00:57:05I feel you, forget it, ignore him.
00:57:07Ignore him.
00:57:09His turn will come now, leave him alone.
00:57:11Nahi nahi maam, meko jo bolenge suno baat.
00:57:13Nahi nahi, aap bolenge toh, aap sunte ho?
00:57:15Agar aap...
00:57:17Unhone jo bola, aapne vilkul nahi suna hai abhi tak.
00:57:19Kyunki yeh bhi abhi baat karenge bola.
00:57:21Yeh bhi abhi baat karenge bola.
00:57:23I hope he tells you.
00:57:25I don't know how to speak Hindi.
00:57:27Okay, okay.
00:57:29How, what your attitude is.
00:57:33Abhi dekho jab main naam liya,
00:57:35Salman sir ne poocha, main bola yeh thi, Alice thi,
00:57:37Shruti ka sir, main bhi thi.
00:57:39Tab tum Good Wicks main chala rahi thi,
00:57:41Ladkiyan safe nahi hai, tumne Arsham ko aisa kiya,
00:57:43Tab tumhara kaam kya ho?
00:57:45Na aapko dhankar respect hai,
00:57:47Na baat karne ka tarika hai,
00:57:49Kuch.
00:57:51Ji maam.
00:57:53You're supposed to go back in the jail, I would think.
00:57:55Ji maam, ji ji.
00:57:57Wo bol denge aisa kuch hai toh. Thank you.
00:57:59He doesn't have any knowledge of my profession.
00:58:01Forget knowledge about your profession,
00:58:03He'll have respect for his colleagues of his own profession.
00:58:05What he'll have, respect for everyone else.
00:58:07Haan, haan.
00:58:09Main yeh nahi bolta hu,
00:58:11Mujhe bata hu,
00:58:13Mujhe bhi suna padhega, main sununga.
00:58:15Abhi jo yeh sab points bol hai na,
00:58:17Yeh aur clear hua hai.
00:58:19Yes, yeh manipulate karte hain, mohot tariqa se.
00:58:21Aaj ke baad,
00:58:23Apne profession ke baare mein bolenge nahi.
00:58:25Kyuki jab nahi bola tha, toh humko bola gaya tha,
00:58:27Ki confused profession hai,
00:58:29Batao apne baare mein, apni story batao.
00:58:31Jab story bataate, toh hum log apna advertisement karte.
00:58:33Wow. So it's nice.
00:58:35Jaise screen bandh hua,
00:58:37Turand se wapas se, turand manipulating what?
00:58:39They're targeting us.
00:58:41Salman sir, inko target karke kya paalenge bhai?
00:58:43Salman sir ko kya rahi pad rahi hai?
00:58:45Turand bol rahi hai ki humko target kya jaa raha hai, victim.
00:58:47We're not Bhagwan.
00:58:49We're humans as well, you know.
00:58:51Toh why are you putting us in that, this thing?
00:58:53Nahi, nahi, nahi. See, they don't understand.
00:58:55And main yaha yeh nahi bataane aaya hu,
00:58:57Ke main kya kaam karte hua. That's not my job.
00:58:59I came to play Big Boss.
00:59:01So then main yeh bol sakte hu,
00:59:03Ki actors sab actors ka ego massage kar rahe hain,
00:59:05And because hum log alage, we're left behind.
00:59:07I'm sorry, but mind coaches also react.
00:59:09We have a heart as well.
00:59:11Of course, the objective is to react.
00:59:13Mereko yaad tha wo word.
00:59:15Aapko mind coaching ke zarurat hai, that's it.
00:59:17Tabhi mai kal tak bola sir,
00:59:19Main abhi community ko nahi bola hai.
00:59:21Tu last tak yeh bolta raha hai, humko pata hai.
00:59:23Main uske liye sorry bhi bola.
00:59:25Main uske liye sorry bhi bola.
00:59:27I'm glad, lekin Avinash toh bhi sorry bola.
00:59:29See, that cleared so many things yaar.
00:59:31Mujhe pata tere ego ke pata, again saahara tha sorry bola.
00:59:33Kyunki tujhe pata tha in your head you're not wrong, but glad.
00:59:35Yes, yes, yes.
00:59:41Now you read and watch and see how people say.
00:59:43Wo log dekh rahe hain from a psychology perspective.
00:59:45From a psychiatrist perspective.
00:59:47Which is fine.
00:59:49Ke aap baat karoge, wo sunenge.
00:59:51So I can say one, just one actor
00:59:53is being, you know,
00:59:55biased towards another actor.
00:59:59Okay, shut up.
01:00:07Even an actor is saying, no?
01:00:09That she's acting.
01:00:11So why target us?
01:00:13Apparently that's allowed.
01:00:15Yeah, one actor can say, but...
01:00:17It's fine.
01:00:19And you see how his attitude is even more,
01:00:21thoda bhi, and yeh last time bhi hua.
01:00:23But it's not over yet.
01:00:25Yeah, but last time bhi badawa diya gaya.
01:00:27It's not over yet.
01:00:29Saara, this is a game.
01:00:31I know, but what I'm saying is yeh badawa dete,
01:00:33aur yeh kis tarah se badawasi se baat karta hai.
01:00:35That's the game.
01:00:37If it is a game only of targeting us,
01:00:39then you don't understand the profession.
01:00:41He knows everything, he's addressing everything.
01:00:43He addressed mine, no?
01:00:45He addressed it very respectfully.
01:00:47Yeah, but...
01:00:49He showed him his place, na.
01:00:51He showed him his place, na.
01:00:57I'm sorry, but sabse pehle wahi has rahi thi.
01:00:59I'm sorry to say, but sabse pehle wahi has rahi thi.
01:01:01Jab yeh log mind ko kuch bola tha.
01:01:03Shilpa ji na?
01:01:05Hum nahi hase, hum is koi nahi hase.
01:01:07We didn't dare to laugh.
01:01:09And I looked at Avinash, even he did not laugh.
01:01:11And she's the closest.
01:01:13He will speak to all of us
01:01:15and then he'll come to him.
01:01:17Salman has a perspective
01:01:19about this
01:01:21and his perspective is his
01:01:23and my perspective is mine.
01:01:25Agreed, I completely agree.
01:01:27He cannot know about my profession.
01:01:29He's not spent any time with me.
01:01:31Abhi bahar bahar bolenge
01:01:33accha nahi lagge, chale ja.
01:01:35Hum aa rahe hain.
01:01:37I'm telling you, I've come here
01:01:39to the whole of India...
01:01:41He's here now, the commentator.
01:01:43Yeah, I'm going to jail, that's my job.
01:01:45If I have to comment, I'll do it.
01:01:47Of course, you will.
01:01:49Your turn is coming, don't worry.
01:01:51I'll listen, ma'am.
01:01:53And I won't say that I'll be targeted.
01:01:55So, Sara...
01:01:57Yes?
01:01:59Are you in the same profession
01:02:01as your husband, Dev?
01:02:03Sir, I'm not in any profession.
01:02:05No?
01:02:07Why are you getting angry?
01:02:09Talk.
01:02:11On what are you getting angry?
01:02:13On myself.
01:02:15Yes, but
01:02:17on what?
01:02:21So, basically
01:02:23the coach will need
01:02:25the coach.
01:02:27That's what happened, right?
01:02:29No, not on this.
01:02:31The way Avinash said,
01:02:33even the big boss says,
01:02:35you're not seeing what he's saying.
01:02:37But that was the statement, sir.
01:02:39You're right, Avinash.
01:02:41You're right, okay?
01:02:43I didn't make a scene.
01:02:45I didn't even come to talk to you.
01:02:47You both did.
01:02:49I heard it.
01:02:51You didn't make a scene.
01:02:53I'm telling you, I said the same statement.
01:02:55I said exactly the same statement.
01:02:57Relax.
01:02:59Sara, this is how it started, right?
01:03:01That the coach
01:03:03will need the coach.
01:03:05Let's ask Arfeen
01:03:07that in your field,
01:03:09are you the best
01:03:11in the world?
01:03:13No, no, not at all.
01:03:15So, like some things happen,
01:03:17then you must be discussing
01:03:19these things.
01:03:21You must be thinking,
01:03:23how to tackle this?
01:03:25Correct, you're right about this.
01:03:27So, it's necessary, right?
01:03:29Of course, of course.
01:03:31Now, that connotation was different.
01:03:33It was a connotation of anger.
01:03:35It was a fight.
01:03:37The coach will need the coach.
01:03:39That was your trigger point.
01:03:41Do you know
01:03:43everyone's trigger point?
01:03:45No.
01:03:47You made me count
01:03:49my trigger points.
01:03:51I didn't tell you my trigger point.
01:03:53I told you something else.
01:03:55You did.
01:03:57We had a conversation
01:03:59about your trigger point.
01:04:01But you got so
01:04:03involved in your profession,
01:04:05in people's trigger points,
01:04:07that you forgot
01:04:09your own trigger point.
01:04:11I have a trigger point.
01:04:13I told you. I'm a human.
01:04:15Wow, wow.
01:04:17You said thank you.
01:04:19I thought you were something else.
01:04:21Oh my God.
01:04:23I thought you were a God.
01:04:25Someone sent you from above.
01:04:27That's what I thought.
01:04:31No, no. I'm definitely human.
01:04:33So, basically,
01:04:35coach needs coach.
01:04:37Such a big problem.
01:04:39I didn't have any problem.
01:04:41It's the way he said it.
01:04:43Everyone was present here.
01:04:45Everyone was quiet.
01:04:47Everyone felt bad.
01:04:49Even his friends said it.
01:04:51I didn't have a problem.
01:04:53It was clear what statement I used.
01:04:55I'm not talking to you.
01:04:57I will say.
01:04:59I'm not talking to you.
01:05:01I'm upset with myself.
01:05:03Is this also a way?
01:05:05That's my way.
01:05:07To slap yourself.
01:05:09Is this the way to express?
01:05:11Yes.
01:05:41If you want to change your profession,
01:05:43get into TV, movies,
01:05:45whatever you want to do,
01:05:47then that's a different thing.
01:05:49But if you want to stay in this profession,
01:05:51then you need to be
01:05:53very careful
01:05:55of what
01:05:57you are reacting.
01:05:59Doesn't matter.
01:06:01Doesn't matter how someone is reacting.
01:06:03I agree.
01:06:05I genuinely, I accept that.
01:06:07You are right.
01:06:09I get what you are saying.
01:06:11I genuinely mean what you are saying.
01:06:13I agree.
01:06:15Because this is your profession.
01:06:17If you want to help others,
01:06:19but you react like them,
01:06:21who need help,
01:06:23then what are you doing?
01:06:25No, I agree.
01:06:27I genuinely agree.
01:06:29When my film is released,
01:06:31critics say,
01:06:33someone praises,
01:06:35someone says,
01:06:37that's their opinion.
01:06:39I was telling Shilpa,
01:06:41that these are their words.
01:06:43This is the first elementary thing in your profession.
01:06:45You should have
01:06:47knowledge of this.
01:06:49You should know
01:06:51that whatever comes out of other's mouth
01:06:53should not be affecting you.
01:06:55Right now, both the mind coaches
01:06:57are getting affected
01:06:59by what I am saying.
01:07:01Sure.
01:07:03So, do you also think that
01:07:05you need psychiatric treatment?
01:07:07No, I don't know anything about psychiatry.
01:07:09No. Not at all.
01:07:11From my perspective, no. Not at all.
01:07:13No, but he needs help.
01:07:15Abhinash.
01:07:17Yeah, I think he does. Yeah.
01:07:19You need a therapist.
01:07:21Yeah, there is nothing wrong with a therapist.
01:07:23Everyone goes to a therapist.
01:07:25It's not a negative thing.
01:07:27No, no. I am not saying this sarcasm.
01:07:29I am saying this with empathy.
01:07:31No, not sarcasm.
01:07:33That is what I am saying.
01:07:35You are not listening to what anyone is saying.
01:07:37You are not even remembering what you have said.
01:07:39I am very sorry. I have less hearing in my left ear.
01:07:41That's why I can't hear you.
01:07:43Okay, okay.
01:07:45I have a hearing loss of 60% in my left ear.
01:07:47Okay.
01:07:49Sorry about that. That's why I am trying to concentrate.
01:07:51No, no.
01:07:53That's okay. That's okay.
01:07:55But I was saying exactly what you were saying.
01:07:57This is not sarcasm.
01:07:59This is not sarcasm.
01:08:01I am saying this with empathy.
01:08:03That he needs to go to a therapist.
01:08:05Sorry, I didn't hear.
01:08:07Sorry.
01:08:09So, this cannot be in an argument.
01:08:11You said this.
01:08:13So, this is also a part of it.
01:08:17Can I just say one last thing?
01:08:19Yes, please.
01:08:21The messaging I have done
01:08:23that I do manipulation and all
01:08:25that is also not my job.
01:08:27I have a challenge only in this.
01:08:29I get that. Of course, even I need a coach.
01:08:31Even I have a coach.
01:08:33I have a coach.
01:08:35I have five, six coaches.
01:08:37Okay.
01:08:39But they have not done a good job on you at all then.
01:08:41I am sure they haven't.
01:08:43You should hire me as your mind coach.
01:08:45From where I have come,
01:08:47from the place,
01:08:49from where I am coming from,
01:08:51I am telling you.
01:08:53They have done a very good job.
01:08:55From where I was. I was in a really bad space.
01:08:57Very bad space.
01:08:59So,
01:09:01basically it means that
01:09:03on these small things,
01:09:05don't do this much.
01:09:07Give it your best.
01:09:09Put your right foot forward.
01:09:11Your best foot forward.
01:09:13There are bigger problems
01:09:15than this.
01:09:17Huger problems in life.
01:09:23What he is asking,
01:09:25what is the process
01:09:27and what do you do?
01:09:29That's what he is asking.
01:09:31So, that means you are promoting your work.
01:09:33That's what he is saying.
01:09:35I am promoting my work.
01:09:37So, when he is asking,
01:09:39you are saying, no, I am not promoting.
01:09:41I did not understand what he was saying.
01:09:43He said that only.
01:09:45I told you, the audience is big.
01:09:47They are trying to understand
01:09:49what you do.
01:09:51I am delighted that people are confused.
01:09:53That's the motive.
01:09:55The more they are confused, the more they will come to you directly.
01:09:57Mission accomplished.
01:09:59Mission is accomplished.
01:10:01People will ask later.
01:10:03Game well played then.
01:10:05What do you do?
01:10:07He does not understand.
01:10:09Tell him.
01:10:11Be on the same page.
01:10:13I saw her slap herself.
01:10:15She went.
01:10:17I missed it.
01:10:19No, it was right in front of me.
01:10:21She slapped herself.
01:10:23Do you understand?
01:10:25Sarah, drop it.
01:10:27It's a really bad time.
01:10:29I know
01:10:31that the person they are talking about
01:10:33don't mention their name.
01:10:35They are not allowed.
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