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Douglas Vandergraph delivers the ultimate guide to self-improvement, sharing the Best Self-Improvement Advice I Wish I Knew at 20. This video highlights essential lessons on embracing progress, building strong relationships, and learning from failure. If you're on the journey to personal growth, this content will help you navigate life’s challenges and build a brighter future.

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Transcript
00:00Hey friends, welcome. You ever do this? You ever think, hey, if I knew in my 20s
00:06what I know today, my life would be completely different. I do that quite
00:12often. I realize that the path I followed up to this age has gotten me where I am
00:18and I'm completely happy with my life. But what if I knew in my 20s what I know
00:23today? How would things be different? You ever ask yourself that question? Well,
00:30wait, now hold up. Imagine for a moment that you are 20 again, standing on the
00:37brink of your adult life with all the possibilities ahead of you. The world
00:41feels wide open yet overwhelming. You have dreams, ambitions, and an eagerness
00:48to prove yourself. But deep down you might also feel uncertain, wondering
00:54which direction to take or what choices will truly matter in the long run. Now,
01:00imagine if someone handed you a roadmap, a set of guiding principles drawn from
01:07years of experience that could help you navigate the highs and lows with
01:12confidence. That's what I want to offer today. The best self-improvement advice I
01:19wish I'd known when I was 20. Whether you're in your 20s now or simply
01:25reflecting on them, these are insights that can change the course of your life.
01:31This is the best self-improvement advice I wish I knew at 20. Focus on progress, not
01:41perfection. You know, at 20, I used to fall into the perfectionist trap. I
01:47believed that if I wasn't doing something perfectly, it wasn't worth
01:51doing at all. But perfection is an illusion and chasing it only leads to
01:57frustration and stagnation. What I've learned is that life is about forward
02:03movement, not flawless execution. It's about showing up, making mistakes,
02:10learning, and getting better every day. Progress is built one step at a time.
02:17Don't wait until you feel ready or until conditions are perfect. Start now, where
02:24you are and with what you have. Trust me, over time those small efforts compound
02:31into something truly extraordinary. Surround yourself with the right people.
02:39Oh Lord, I wish I would have known this when I was 20. But I didn't fully
02:44appreciate at that time how much the people around me were influencing my
02:49decisions, my mindset, and my path. You know, it's said that you're the average
02:54of the five people you spend the most time with, and I found that to be true.
02:59Looking back, I realized that I spent too much time with people who kept me in my
03:05comfort zone, rather than pushing me to grow. You know, if you want to rise, you
03:12need to be around people who challenge you, encourage you, and have your best
03:17interests at heart. Surround yourself with people who are smarter, kinder, and
03:23more driven than you are, because you know their energy, values, and ambition
03:29will shape your life's trajectory, whether you want it to or not. Invest in
03:38yourself relentlessly. You know, in my early 20s, I focused more on outward
03:45achievement, starting companies, building a career, making money. Heck, when I was in
03:51my early 20s, my dream was to have a vault full of gold coins that I could
03:56swim in like Richie Rich. I wanted amazing things, but I was seeking
04:03validation. You know, I wish I'd understood sooner that the most
04:07important investment I could make was in myself, not just in formal education. I
04:14have an Ivy League MBA, but I'm thinking personal growth, learning new skills, and
04:21expanding my mindset. You know, I recommend you read voraciously, seek out
04:28mentors, take courses, and embrace every opportunity to grow. The return on
04:35investing in yourself is immeasurable. The more you know, the more
04:41valuable you become. And you see, this is misunderstood. I want to say that one
04:45more time. The more you know, the more valuable you become. It sounds like
04:51something your boss would say to you, but I'm gonna tell you right now, the more
04:55you know, the more valuable you are in your career, but also in every aspect of
05:02your life. It's true. Embrace failure as a teacher. When I was
05:08younger, failure terrified me. I thought every misstep was a reflection of my own
05:14self-worth, that it was defining me. I couldn't have been more wrong. You know,
05:19failure isn't the end. It's part of the process. It's how you learn,
05:25it's how you evolve, how you build resilience. Every failure contains a
05:31lesson about what works, what doesn't, and what you need to adjust. The sooner you
05:38embrace failure, trust me, the faster you'll grow. Looking back now, I can see
05:45that the failures I feared the most were the ones that taught me the most. They
05:50gave me the clarity and strength I needed to succeed later on. Practice
05:58daily gratitude. You know, in my 20s I was so focused on what I didn't have, and on
06:04the things I was striving to achieve, that I rarely paused to appreciate the
06:09blessings already present in my life. You know, gratitude is one of the most
06:14powerful practices you can adopt. It shifts your focus from scarcity to
06:19abundance, and it reminds you that even in the moments of challenge, you have
06:25more than enough. You know, I recommend you start each day by listing a few
06:30things you're grateful for. It can be your health, your relationships, your
06:35opportunities. Gratitude isn't just a feel-good practice. It's a mindset shift
06:42that changes the way you see the world and your place in it. So, as we close, I
06:49want to reflect on these lessons, not just as abstract ideas, but as actions
06:55you can take right now. Progress over perfection. Curating your inner circle.
07:02Remember, sometimes when we lose people, it's not always a loss. Invest in
07:09yourself. Embrace failure and practicing gratitude. You know what, these aren't
07:15just words. These are blueprints for a fulfilled and successful life. If I could
07:21go back and tell my 20-year-old self just one thing, it would be this. Don't
07:27wait. Don't wait for the perfect moment to start. Don't wait for someone else to
07:33give you permission. Don't wait until you feel ready. Start now. These principles in
07:42your pocket, I promise you, can change your future, and your future you will
07:47thank you for it. I really wish there's a lot of these lessons I'm talking about
07:53now that that I would have known back in my 20s, but here's the thing. These
07:59lessons don't have an expiration date. They apply whether you're 20, 40, or 60. So
08:06the question I leave you with today is, what will you do with the time
08:11you have? Will you keep waiting, or will you take the first step towards the life
08:17you want to create? You know, the answer is up to you. And remember, your future is
08:24shaped by the choices you make today. Choose wisely. Choose boldly. But above
08:31all, choose growth. Because if anybody can do it, you can. And if anybody deserves it,
08:40you do. 100%. There's so much available out there to you, regardless of where you
08:48come from, regardless of what you've been told that you can accomplish, or that
08:53you're capable of doing. That's all a bunch of crap. The world is open to
08:59everyone, and the opportunities that are available to anybody you see on TV and
09:04magazines, or wherever else you get your ideal of what a better life can be, all
09:11of that can be yours. Because the secret is, if it's been accomplished by another
09:17human being, you as a human being can accomplish it as well. These people
09:24aren't special. They're not doing anything extraordinary. They're not doing
09:28anything that you can't do with the brain on your shoulders, and the
09:33motivation and the will you have in your heart. 100%. If anybody believes in
09:40you, I absolutely do. And if anybody thinks you can do it, I'm on your side.
09:46I'm with you. Let's get those shoes on and get moving. And remember, to
09:51accomplish things, we've got to take action. Today would be a great day to
09:56start taking that action. I'll see you tomorrow, friends. Take care.

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