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00:00:00REALITY SHOW
00:00:30It's ok, leave it like that, I'll put it on later.
00:00:34He talks a lot.
00:00:36Sometimes I ask him to take a break, but...
00:00:42If he sleeps and eats, he takes a break.
00:00:44Let's put the mask down.
00:00:46No?
00:00:47Come on, at least put it on his head.
00:00:53Luis?
00:00:54Yes?
00:00:55What are you doing, my love? Are you ready for breakfast?
00:00:57We arrive in Banat, where Maria tells us about the beliefs of her son, Luis,
00:01:03a 14-year-old listening boy.
00:01:07The job and the house are the most important things for me,
00:01:10and the sport is good for me.
00:01:12Put your hands here.
00:01:14Right.
00:01:15One, two, three, four.
00:01:19I started when I was a kid, I started with karate,
00:01:22the soul karate, as they call it.
00:01:24I did karate for many years.
00:01:26Bravo!
00:01:27Straighten your back, your hands up.
00:01:30Bravo!
00:01:31I love you!
00:01:32Everything is much better than sitting in front of the camera with the remote in your hand.
00:01:36I love you, mom.
00:01:38I love you more.
00:01:40I love you more, too.
00:01:42I think I did all kinds of sports,
00:01:45and I stopped running.
00:01:48Come on, mom, you can do it!
00:01:52Come on, a little bit more.
00:01:57Bravo!
00:01:59The two women will be mothers for a week,
00:02:02a unique experience in life.
00:02:06What is this?
00:02:07Coconut.
00:02:08And this?
00:02:10I don't know.
00:02:11Cucumber.
00:02:12Cucumber.
00:02:13We first go to the highway, where Iuliana, Zisa and Iulia
00:02:16welcome us in the middle of their professional and family life,
00:02:20of course, pleased with both.
00:02:22My name is Iuliana.
00:02:24I am 28 years old.
00:02:26I am an educator.
00:02:27I am alone with my parents.
00:02:29Iulia has been married to Ștefan for five years,
00:02:31husband and father-in-law,
00:02:33but also a military career, leaving missions quite often.
00:02:37I met Ștefan on a dating site.
00:02:40He works in the army.
00:02:43Unfortunately, he is not here and still has different missions.
00:02:47Well, he is a calmer person.
00:02:49He leaves more to himself and somehow he accepts more things from me.
00:02:55And somehow it is a plus and a minus and the situation is equal.
00:03:00He is a very understanding person and this is a very good thing for me.
00:03:05And for the relationship.
00:03:07After we got married, for a short period of time, I became pregnant.
00:03:14Since I became a mother, my life has been changing at 90 degrees.
00:03:18Look, here is the site of a year.
00:03:22So, Iulia's destiny was a lullaby,
00:03:25left on the cradle of birth and married at a young age,
00:03:29and now she lives daily unique and precious moments in her mother's life.
00:03:33The most beautiful moment in my life is when he looks at me and says,
00:03:37I love you, mommy.
00:03:39Tell me, who is here?
00:03:40Grandma.
00:03:41Grandpa.
00:03:42Daddy.
00:03:44Mom.
00:03:45The main values that I would like to have in Iulia's soul
00:03:49would be to take care of her body, her mind, to be honest.
00:03:55Grandma.
00:03:56Look what your grandma brought.
00:03:59But she is Carmen, an educator in her turn.
00:04:02Iulia's mother and the one who helps her the most with what needs to be done around the house.
00:04:06So, an appreciated grandmother.
00:04:08I am lucky that I have a young mother.
00:04:10She likes children a lot.
00:04:12And with Iulia, she has a fantastic patience.
00:04:14I think I have instilled in her the moral values at a higher level.
00:04:19Mom is the basis in the house.
00:04:21Will you serve me a salad?
00:04:23Yes.
00:04:24With what?
00:04:25Tomatoes and peppers.
00:04:27This is because with Iulia and her son there are both involved grandparents
00:04:31who manage to fulfill the periods in which the father is away quite well.
00:04:36We are a family of five.
00:04:39To eat, do you need...
00:04:41A fork.
00:04:43Do you eat with a fork?
00:04:45Do you need...
00:04:46A spoon.
00:04:47A spoon.
00:04:50And when grandma sees from the youngest, Iulia sees from the other things in the apartment.
00:04:54In an impeccable formula of order and cleanliness, without which she does not conceive of existence.
00:05:00I like to have order.
00:05:02If I don't have order, I can't start the day the way I should.
00:05:04My husband was really jealous of me at one point and he told me that he wanted the house to be like the one at the pharmacy,
00:05:10clean.
00:05:11I told him no, but there.
00:05:14If I wipe the dust, I feel better already.
00:05:18She is too fixated on cleanliness.
00:05:23I like everything to be...
00:05:27in line.
00:05:28When you have a child in the house, you can't be clean, order, as you wish.
00:05:34I want the child to feel the same.
00:05:36To be in line, to put things in their place, especially toys.
00:05:41Did you give him a hug?
00:05:54Luis, what are you doing with my son?
00:05:56I'm on the phone.
00:05:57You're on the phone all the time?
00:05:59It's been two hours.
00:06:00Would you please leave your phone?
00:06:02It's okay, mom, it's up to you.
00:06:06My heart.
00:06:08We'll make a fruit salad, I'll feed my mom and you'll do something else.
00:06:12Is that okay?
00:06:13Yes.
00:06:14Will you help me?
00:06:15I'll do it.
00:06:16Please.
00:06:17We move to the other corner of the country, to Timisoara,
00:06:19where we've already seen how warm a mother's heart is in her relationship with her son.
00:06:24Let's get to know Maria better.
00:06:26I worked in Vienna, at the University of Asst. Tomatolog.
00:06:30I work at the Judicial Hospital.
00:06:32I'm a nurse.
00:06:33What do you want to eat?
00:06:35Cereal and milk.
00:06:37But you make the cereal and milk, right?
00:06:39Okay, let's go.
00:06:40I'm the happiest mom in the world.
00:06:42That's how I see myself.
00:06:43I have three kids.
00:06:44Two girls and a boy.
00:06:46The girls are married, they're at their house.
00:06:49Come on, you still have the cereals you like.
00:06:52A happy and fulfilling mom is when all the kids are wonderful
00:06:56and when the mom calls and asks for the phone number,
00:07:00she knows that her daughter or son is answering.
00:07:03After I wash the dishes, I want to do some cleaning in my room.
00:07:08Will you help me?
00:07:09Okay.
00:07:11Although Maria already has three grandchildren from her daughters,
00:07:15the two in-laws, who were not meant to be,
00:07:18brought her quite difficult moments in her life.
00:07:21I got married when I was 19.
00:07:23It ended when I was six years old.
00:07:26I found him on the white horse.
00:07:30I moved in with him as soon as I met him.
00:07:33I can say that we had a happy marriage.
00:07:36It's just that something didn't work out at one point.
00:07:39He came from this relationship.
00:07:42He had three months when we broke up.
00:07:44Although he didn't spend much time around his father,
00:07:49his father loves him in his own way.
00:07:51He suffered a lot because he wasn't with his father.
00:07:54Maria was left alone.
00:07:56She was the son of his mother and father.
00:07:58And she managed to escape from difficulties,
00:08:01taking refuge in something beautiful.
00:08:03We include here noble gestures made out of optimism
00:08:06and love for children, health and sport.
00:08:09Before I started running, I was on my bike.
00:08:11I had three contests where I took first place.
00:08:14My bike slipped off the ladder.
00:08:16And then I started running.
00:08:18I slipped and no one could steal my bike.
00:08:20This is from Alergă, Romania.
00:08:22I ran 1,966 km.
00:08:25I run for children with autism every year.
00:08:28I've been running for six years.
00:08:30These are paintings received from Autism 24,
00:08:34how I run for children with autism.
00:08:36This is from two years ago.
00:08:38This is from last year.
00:08:39I say that the smile is my business card.
00:08:42And no matter where I go,
00:08:44my job and my home are the most important things for me.
00:08:49And sport is good for me.
00:08:51Do you want to go out somewhere, Luis?
00:08:53All right.
00:08:54Let's go.
00:08:55And Luis listens to his mother.
00:08:58At 14 years old, Maria declares him a quiet boy
00:09:02who can always have fun,
00:09:04but the vice versa is also valid.
00:09:06I go to work, I work 12 hours and 24 minutes,
00:09:0912 hours and 48 minutes.
00:09:11He stays home alone.
00:09:13Is it good, Luis?
00:09:14So it's beautiful outside.
00:09:16Yes.
00:09:17It's better than staying at home.
00:09:19He didn't even call me once to say,
00:09:21Mom, I'm scared, I'm afraid.
00:09:23Luis is a special child,
00:09:25a wonderful, obedient child.
00:09:27He loves his mother.
00:09:29And me.
00:09:30We lose all the mother's soul that will come
00:09:32to make him eat fruits,
00:09:35because I think I will always be grateful to him.
00:09:38Now that the two families have met,
00:09:40the experience of changing mothers can begin.
00:09:44The two mothers are getting ready to leave.
00:09:47At the bus stop, with basic help,
00:09:49Iulia's luggage is slowly taking shape.
00:09:52Good morning!
00:09:53How are you?
00:09:54I'm fine.
00:09:55Are you nervous?
00:09:56Not at the moment, but after that...
00:09:59I think I'm going to need this leg.
00:10:01I hope I put everything in.
00:10:05What I needed.
00:10:08Did you take your slippers?
00:10:10I took my slippers.
00:10:13My luggage is a bit swollen, but...
00:10:16The same goes for Timișoara,
00:10:18where Maria gives her son good advice,
00:10:20as if she's preparing him for what's to come.
00:10:23I know you're in the right mind,
00:10:25I don't need to say anything else.
00:10:27I really want you to understand each other,
00:10:29to go out into the city,
00:10:31to play,
00:10:33to do exactly what you're doing to me.
00:10:35Mom loves you a lot.
00:10:37Take care of yourself.
00:10:40At the bus stop, Iulia is about to
00:10:42say goodbye to her mother and her son.
00:10:47I don't know what to say.
00:10:49Iulia, do you want me to give you a hug?
00:10:51Yes.
00:10:52Wait, let me give you a hug.
00:10:54Bye-bye.
00:10:56Say bye-bye, mommy.
00:10:57Bye-bye.
00:10:58Tell her to take care of you.
00:11:01Wow, slower!
00:11:04Can you give me a big kiss?
00:11:06Bye-bye, Iulia!
00:11:07Bye!
00:11:08Have a good trip!
00:11:09Bye!
00:11:10Thank you!
00:11:12Bye-bye!
00:11:15Have a good trip, mommy!
00:11:20At Timisoara, Luis feels at home.
00:11:23He anticipates the joy that a simple gesture
00:11:26could bring to any new mom.
00:11:29Mommy, wait a minute.
00:11:30Let me show you what I prepared for you.
00:11:32What did you prepare for me?
00:11:33Look.
00:11:34Wow, how beautiful!
00:11:36For the new mom.
00:11:37Can I put it on?
00:11:38Yes.
00:11:40Help me.
00:11:41Can I get out of there?
00:11:43Good boy!
00:11:44And before leaving, Maria makes sure
00:11:46that her boy stays in good hands
00:11:48until the new mom comes.
00:11:50Her friend and neighbor, Ildiana, is at duty.
00:11:53Take care of the baby and the new mom,
00:11:56okay?
00:11:57Take care of yourself, of mommy.
00:11:59Take care of yourself.
00:12:10Thank you!
00:12:11I love you!
00:12:12Take care of yourselves!
00:12:19Maria and Iulia set off on the adventure
00:12:21of the new mom,
00:12:22passing quite easily
00:12:23over a temporary separation
00:12:25of their families.
00:12:26He still goes on vacation
00:12:27separately with his grandparents.
00:12:29His separation is not so difficult
00:12:31because we are somehow used to
00:12:33being separated from each other
00:12:35for a long time.
00:12:37It was normal for him to leave
00:12:39one day at a time.
00:12:41It is very difficult for him
00:12:43to be away for a week.
00:12:45I am nervous because it is
00:12:47an unknown thing.
00:12:49I don't know where you are going
00:12:51and what is going to happen.
00:12:53I am nervous.
00:12:54I am very curious about where I will end up.
00:12:57If everyone is so excited,
00:12:59let's not keep them in suspense.
00:13:01The surprises are waiting for us
00:13:03in the next episode of
00:13:05Mom's Hand in Hand.
00:13:07It is the magic envelope.
00:13:09Let's see what it says.
00:13:11Timisoara, Timisi County.
00:13:15Oh, my God!
00:13:17How far are we going?
00:13:19Destination?
00:13:23Oh, my God!
00:13:25In Otopen, Ilfo County.
00:13:27So I am in Bucharest!
00:13:29How beautiful!
00:13:31Let's see what it says.
00:13:33I don't think I have ever been
00:13:35to Timisoara before.
00:13:41But until we reach our destination
00:13:43and all the hopes,
00:13:45we still have a few hours to go.
00:13:47The first one to arrive
00:13:49is Iulia in Timisoara.
00:13:53Let's see where we are.
00:14:03We are on our way.
00:14:11Oh, stairs!
00:14:13I am so nervous with all this luggage.
00:14:17I was hoping to reach the gate.
00:14:23I am so nervous.
00:14:25Until Iulia climbs the stairs,
00:14:27Maria has also reached Otopen.
00:14:29God help me!
00:14:31I am so nervous.
00:14:37I have never been so nervous before.
00:14:39I am shaking.
00:14:41My heart is beating so fast.
00:14:45And it seems that her emotions
00:14:47are getting closer and closer
00:14:49to the final destination.
00:14:51So let's start the inspection.
00:14:55Wow, how beautiful!
00:14:57A little house.
00:15:05It looks good.
00:15:07From the door.
00:15:09Welcome home,
00:15:11my dear.
00:15:13He looks like a boy.
00:15:17We have a mommy.
00:15:21It's the same baby, right?
00:15:23A mommy and a baby.
00:15:25What do I see here?
00:15:27Let's see if
00:15:29I can find something to eat.
00:15:33I don't like
00:15:35these acidulous juices.
00:15:39Vegetables.
00:15:41Food.
00:15:47Cheese.
00:15:49Let's see if he left me
00:15:51something to eat,
00:15:53let's see.
00:15:57I have everything, it's full.
00:15:59Is there going to be some soup here?
00:16:01Can I have a look?
00:16:03And blueberries.
00:16:05Wow, yes, soup.
00:16:07My dear, I didn't leave you
00:16:09anything to eat at home.
00:16:11I'm sorry.
00:16:13I hope you don't judge me too harshly,
00:16:15but it's too hot for me
00:16:17and I didn't cook.
00:16:19The kitchen is very beautiful,
00:16:21I didn't expect
00:16:23it to be
00:16:25so good.
00:16:27How did I end up like this?
00:16:29A mommy and a baby.
00:16:31I don't know if
00:16:33all the kids are here.
00:16:37If all the kids were here,
00:16:39there would be something.
00:16:43Julian Mateo's green bedroom.
00:16:45So, Julian Mateo calls him baby.
00:16:47I think he's around
00:16:494-5 years old,
00:16:51judging by the toys.
00:16:53Here's his bed.
00:16:55It's very clean, very nice.
00:16:57Look how expensive it is.
00:16:59Look how expensive it is.
00:17:01The toys,
00:17:03everything is tidy,
00:17:05in its place.
00:17:07Here seems to be a children's room
00:17:09of a boy.
00:17:13He's really tiny.
00:17:17I don't know,
00:17:19I didn't think I would cry.
00:17:21I really didn't think I would cry,
00:17:23but I have big emotions.
00:17:25But I don't notice the clothes.
00:17:27If there are more kids,
00:17:29if it's just a boy.
00:17:33Maybe it's a baby too.
00:17:35Yes.
00:17:37As the house looks like,
00:17:39I say order and discipline in the family.
00:17:41Now, no matter if it's the father,
00:17:43the mother and the boy,
00:17:45I don't know,
00:17:47I still don't realize.
00:17:49After the clothes,
00:17:51it would seem that it's the father,
00:17:53the mother and a boy.
00:17:55It's tidy, it's clean.
00:17:57I can't wait to meet him.
00:17:59But until then,
00:18:01every mother will read the rules
00:18:03that were left,
00:18:05in order to find out more
00:18:07about the family in which she arrived.
00:18:09Welcome! My name is Iulia.
00:18:11I'm an educator.
00:18:13I have 4-year-old boys.
00:18:15My name is Iulia.
00:18:17We also have a dad,
00:18:19but my husband works in the army
00:18:21and he is on a mission now.
00:18:23Does this mean
00:18:25that it's just me and the baby?
00:18:27Welcome to us!
00:18:29I'm Maria, a single mother.
00:18:31I didn't expect this.
00:18:33I'm also the grandmother
00:18:35of three grandchildren.
00:18:37Wow!
00:18:39It's complicated.
00:18:41Now I live with my son,
00:18:43Luis.
00:18:45He is 14 years old.
00:18:47He is a big boy.
00:18:49Some rules that you, as an adult,
00:18:51have to follow.
00:18:53Soft firmness,
00:18:55because I think I'm the softest mother
00:18:57on earth.
00:18:59In the morning you don't have to do anything special.
00:19:01It's the most ideal.
00:19:03It's a good phrase.
00:19:05So the boy manages
00:19:07on his own.
00:19:09That's what I wanted.
00:19:11The rule is the rule.
00:19:13Even if Iulia cries and it doesn't suit her,
00:19:15for the boy to receive something,
00:19:17she has to offer something in return.
00:19:19That's how I taught Luis.
00:19:21He cleans the house
00:19:23and I give him 10-20 days,
00:19:25depending on what he does.
00:19:27Diana, my best friend,
00:19:29will be with you and support you
00:19:31with everything you need.
00:19:33My mother will help you
00:19:35while you stay with us
00:19:37and everything will be fine.
00:19:39I always wanted to have a mother-in-law.
00:19:41The most important rule is
00:19:43for Luis
00:19:45not to be on the phone
00:19:47or on the Internet more than an hour and a half a day.
00:19:49Here, with the Internet and the phone,
00:19:51I agree 100%.
00:19:53I mean, at home,
00:19:55there is also this rule.
00:19:57Waking up is at 8 o'clock.
00:19:59Perfect. The latest 8.30.
00:20:01Because otherwise Iuli
00:20:03can't sleep at noon.
00:20:05It's so cool!
00:20:07God, how beautiful it is!
00:20:09Stay as long as you can.
00:20:11Embrace the sport, the movement
00:20:13and the most important rule,
00:20:15smile and enjoy life with all your heart
00:20:17in every moment.
00:20:19It's a very good motto.
00:20:21Consult with him and your grandmother
00:20:23before you start cooking.
00:20:25Lunch must be at 12-13.
00:20:29It's time for us to eat with Luis.
00:20:31It seems to me that everything is
00:20:33OK, normal.
00:20:35You take care of the kitchen.
00:20:37When you get there, take a shower,
00:20:39talk a little more and
00:20:41set the time.
00:20:45I don't think it's OK
00:20:47for the child to stay until 2
00:20:49or whatever time he wants.
00:20:51Dinner must be around
00:20:5319-30.
00:20:55We start at 20
00:20:57and we pack the food
00:20:59and you don't give it to him if he asks.
00:21:01It's the same with Luis.
00:21:03We feed him, he drinks after dinner
00:21:05and then you reduce
00:21:07the risk of doing it
00:21:09during his sleep.
00:21:11It's a very beautiful and perfect thing.
00:21:13That's what I did with Luis.
00:21:15It seems simple.
00:21:17Now let's see how it will be.
00:21:19The boy is older, he can handle it alone.
00:21:21It's more difficult with the little boy.
00:21:23You have to stay with him.
00:21:25You barely know how to kiss your mom and dad.
00:21:27I don't know if we'll see each other.
00:21:29Perfect!
00:21:31Good evening!
00:21:33How are you?
00:21:35Good to see you!
00:21:37The boy is very big.
00:21:39At least I don't think so.
00:21:41My boy just fell asleep.
00:21:43Hey!
00:21:45Come on, Luis!
00:21:47Do you eat eggs?
00:21:49No, I don't eat eggs.
00:21:51It's so beautiful, I feel like I'm in heaven.
00:21:53Cheese, tomatoes,
00:21:55vegetables?
00:21:57I don't really like cheese.
00:21:59Easy, easy, easy!
00:22:01Do you eat fruit?
00:22:03No.
00:22:11Now that the mothers have found out
00:22:13what to expect,
00:22:15the first one to meet the adoptive family
00:22:17is Maria Lautopen.
00:22:19From a moment to another,
00:22:21someone should appear in the scene.
00:22:23Good evening!
00:22:25How are you, Yuli?
00:22:27Good to see you!
00:22:29Thank you!
00:22:31I'm Maria.
00:22:33Good evening, I'm Carmen.
00:22:35I'm the mother of the adoptive mother.
00:22:37I'm Carmen.
00:22:39Nice to meet you.
00:22:41He's the heart of the family.
00:22:43What's your name?
00:22:45Yulian Mateo.
00:22:47Does everyone know you?
00:22:49Yuli!
00:22:51At first sight,
00:22:53he seemed very busy,
00:22:55communicative,
00:22:57and even if he had emotions,
00:22:59I'd say they were constructive.
00:23:01Where is your mother?
00:23:03In Timisoara.
00:23:05I was talking to my husband,
00:23:07Alba, Yulia, Oradea...
00:23:09I forgot all about them.
00:23:11I'm glad Yulia is doing well, too.
00:23:13I think she'll be very happy
00:23:15with my son,
00:23:17his son,
00:23:19the 14th.
00:23:21And the 5th floor.
00:23:23It doesn't matter,
00:23:25he's moving.
00:23:27My grandmother is a millionaire.
00:23:29I see myself in her.
00:23:31I'm glad I got where I wanted.
00:23:33I really like the house.
00:23:35I like that
00:23:37everything is in place,
00:23:39everything is arranged.
00:23:41Thank you!
00:23:43Give Yulia and Maria a big hand!
00:23:45Easy!
00:23:47Bravo!
00:23:51If the good mood
00:23:53has already settled in Otopeni,
00:23:55the emotions are still high in Timisoara.
00:23:57Luis and Diana's family friend
00:23:59are ready to meet
00:24:01their new mother.
00:24:03Yulia, I'm glad!
00:24:05I have big emotions.
00:24:07I can't believe it!
00:24:09You can give her the flowers.
00:24:11Thank you!
00:24:13Very nice!
00:24:15Yulia...
00:24:17I'm glad, too.
00:24:19You have a nice job.
00:24:21It's open.
00:24:23Where are you from?
00:24:25Ilfov Otopeni.
00:24:27Near Bucharest?
00:24:29Yes, near Bucharest.
00:24:31It's a long way.
00:24:33It's good.
00:24:35He didn't go anywhere.
00:24:37I was expecting to go
00:24:39from the block to the yard.
00:24:41How many children do you have?
00:24:43I have one.
00:24:45He's 4 years old.
00:24:47Ok.
00:24:49It's going to be a little
00:24:51difficult for Luis.
00:24:53He doesn't talk much.
00:24:55He's shy.
00:24:57I hope we'll do
00:24:59a lot of things together.
00:25:01I hope you'll show me your drawings.
00:25:03Me, too.
00:25:05I'll have to ask him
00:25:07more questions.
00:25:09I think I'll get along with her.
00:25:11What do you do?
00:25:13I'm an educator.
00:25:15I teach children.
00:25:17I think you'll get along.
00:25:19How is the child?
00:25:21He's very energetic.
00:25:23He jumps everywhere.
00:25:25He's small.
00:25:27What's his name?
00:25:29Yulian.
00:25:31The family seems
00:25:33to be a good one.
00:25:35Even though there are only two of us.
00:25:37Welcome to our home.
00:25:39We've been waiting for you.
00:25:41I hope we'll get along.
00:25:43I hope we'll get along.
00:25:45I don't see...
00:25:47I'm sure we'll get along.
00:25:49We'll find a way.
00:25:51I was happy to meet him.
00:25:53He's a shy boy.
00:26:05After her first night at the bus stop,
00:26:07Maria woke up in the morning.
00:26:09She sang to the birds
00:26:11like an echo of her childhood.
00:26:13It was an uninterrupted dream.
00:26:15I've never woken up
00:26:17to the song of the cuckoo.
00:26:19It was so beautiful.
00:26:21Let's see if the others
00:26:23have woken up.
00:26:27Good morning!
00:26:29Good morning!
00:26:31How did you sleep?
00:26:33Good.
00:26:35How did you sleep?
00:26:37How did you sleep?
00:26:39Good morning!
00:26:41Good morning!
00:26:43Did you sleep well?
00:26:45Did you sleep well?
00:26:47Did you sleep well?
00:26:53Near Timisoara,
00:26:55the team changed mothers
00:26:57and had breakfast
00:26:59at the Ivu Siraul Pension.
00:27:01The treatment was as hospitable
00:27:03as possible.
00:27:05The calm atmosphere
00:27:07created the premise
00:27:09of a successful day.
00:27:11Julia's accommodation
00:27:13was affected by the novelty.
00:27:15Let's see how her mother's day
00:27:17begins here.
00:27:19I didn't sleep well tonight.
00:27:21It's not my bed at home.
00:27:23I think the other rooms are cool.
00:27:25But what about Luis?
00:27:27How does he feel about everything?
00:27:31Good morning!
00:27:33Did you wake up?
00:27:35Yes.
00:27:37Did you sleep well?
00:27:39Yes.
00:27:41Luis is not very talkative.
00:27:53Luis is not very talkative.
00:27:55I mean, Luis is not talkative
00:27:57at all, I wanted to say.
00:27:59We meet in the kitchen
00:28:01after we finish
00:28:03with hygiene.
00:28:05Stop, Julia!
00:28:07The boy is not talkative.
00:28:09Ok.
00:28:15At Otopeni,
00:28:17Maria, barely awake,
00:28:19meets Julia's father,
00:28:21part of the extended family,
00:28:23but also with Cosmin,
00:28:25the boy's uncle.
00:28:27Good morning!
00:28:29Good morning!
00:28:31My name is Maria.
00:28:33Good morning, Maria!
00:28:35How are you?
00:28:37Cosmin,
00:28:39Stefan's brother.
00:28:41I'm Maria.
00:28:43How are you?
00:28:45I'm fine. How was your trip?
00:28:47Very good.
00:28:49He came to drink coffee with us.
00:28:51I want a cup of coffee, too.
00:28:53I hope you like me here,
00:28:55to be a good mother and to understand each other.
00:28:57Do you do sports, Maria?
00:28:59Yes, I do sports.
00:29:01I'm glad to see that.
00:29:03I like sports in general.
00:29:05We communicate better.
00:29:07Tell me what you usually eat.
00:29:09Sandwich.
00:29:11Give me your hand, Maria.
00:29:13Can you help me to make the sandwich?
00:29:15You are too small
00:29:17and you can't.
00:29:19Julia, only cheese,
00:29:21and a slice of bread.
00:29:23A slice of cheese,
00:29:25to put some cheese on it.
00:29:27Look, Julia,
00:29:29your sandwich is ready.
00:29:31Look at it, please.
00:29:33It's not ready.
00:29:35It takes so long.
00:29:37Look at the heart.
00:29:39It doesn't burn.
00:29:41And you cut it in two, right?
00:29:43Don't you leave it like this?
00:29:45Let's go to the leaf.
00:29:47Don't you want to show Maria
00:29:49where the leaf is?
00:29:51Come on, give me your hand.
00:29:53Mom is coming with the others.
00:29:56God, how beautiful it is!
00:29:58Carmen, I feel like I'm in heaven.
00:30:00I give you my word.
00:30:02It's so beautiful.
00:30:04I feel like I'm in heaven.
00:30:06Julia, let's sit here at the table.
00:30:08Let's eat.
00:30:10Come on, please.
00:30:12Sit next to Maria.
00:30:14This place is very beautiful.
00:30:16I didn't imagine that in Bucharest
00:30:18there is a house
00:30:20with a garden,
00:30:22with a yard, with everything.
00:30:24Come on, boy.
00:30:26Where do you want to sit?
00:30:28Sit next to me.
00:30:30This is my breakfast.
00:30:32I really like vegetables.
00:30:34Vitamins?
00:30:36Yes.
00:30:38I also eat boiled eggs.
00:30:40Cereals?
00:30:42Vegetables?
00:30:44The one who finishes faster
00:30:46gets a bite.
00:30:48Timișoara
00:30:50Timișoara
00:30:52At Timișoara, the big negotiation begins.
00:30:54What does Luis not eat
00:30:56or, easier to remember,
00:30:58what exactly does Luis eat?
00:31:00Julia is bombarded
00:31:02with a set of evasive answers
00:31:04to any question.
00:31:06Let's go to the kitchen.
00:31:10What do you usually eat
00:31:12for breakfast?
00:31:14Milk with cereals.
00:31:16Do you eat cereals every day?
00:31:18Or do you change it?
00:31:20Every day.
00:31:22What does my mother want me to do?
00:31:24What does she want you to do?
00:31:26Do you usually eat
00:31:28milk with cereals
00:31:30or what else?
00:31:32The first proposal follows,
00:31:34followed by another,
00:31:36followed by a series of questions.
00:31:38For example, at home,
00:31:40I eat boiled eggs,
00:31:42omelette,
00:31:44different days.
00:31:46Do you eat eggs?
00:31:48No, not at all.
00:31:50You don't eat because you don't like it?
00:31:52Or do you have a problem?
00:31:54No, I don't like it.
00:31:56So you don't have a medical problem?
00:31:58For me, it's a bit uncomfortable
00:32:00because he doesn't express
00:32:02his emotions, his feelings,
00:32:04and I don't know what he feels,
00:32:06what he wants, what he doesn't want.
00:32:08Cheese, tomatoes,
00:32:10vegetables?
00:32:12I don't eat much.
00:32:14Do you eat fruits?
00:32:16No, I don't eat.
00:32:18I don't know, do you have some rules
00:32:20in your diet?
00:32:22No, I don't like to eat.
00:32:24Do you have fixed hours when you eat?
00:32:26No, I eat at any time.
00:32:28What do you eat for lunch?
00:32:32Fries, spaghetti.
00:32:34Let's see what
00:32:36we can eat
00:32:38now at breakfast
00:32:40to see what we have in the fridge.
00:32:42Iulia has a hard mission,
00:32:44but being a mother,
00:32:46she has to try.
00:32:48I make a breakfast with vegetables,
00:32:50with cheese.
00:32:52You don't want to know.
00:32:54What do you want to eat?
00:32:56Cereals with milk?
00:32:58Yes.
00:33:06We don't know if it's healthy
00:33:08and enough for such a breakfast,
00:33:10but it's true that Iulia
00:33:12makes another try.
00:33:14Do you want to taste?
00:33:16No, I don't like it.
00:33:18Do you want to taste a little?
00:33:20No, I don't like it.
00:33:22Ok, let's change the subject.
00:33:24Do you have a girlfriend?
00:33:26Have you ever dated a girl?
00:33:28He answers very short
00:33:30and I don't
00:33:32understand what he thinks,
00:33:34what he feels.
00:33:36Do you want to go out
00:33:38somewhere?
00:33:40I saw your mother running.
00:33:42No, I don't want to.
00:33:46At Otopen, it may not be surprising
00:33:48that Iulia grew up among
00:33:50grandparents, parents, uncles
00:33:52and, most of all,
00:33:54he has all the pretensions and will.
00:33:56Let's go to the park.
00:33:58Do you want to go to the park like this?
00:34:00Grandparents,
00:34:02let's go to the park dressed like this,
00:34:04that's how he wants to go.
00:34:06You said you're a stud.
00:34:08You forgot.
00:34:10Let's take a pair of short pants.
00:34:12Which one do you want?
00:34:14This one.
00:34:16T-shirt?
00:34:18It's not a t-shirt.
00:34:20Get down so you can dress well.
00:34:22Come on.
00:34:24Perfect.
00:34:26Take your clothes and go to the park.
00:34:28We're not leaving?
00:34:30Iulia?
00:34:32We're leaving.
00:34:34Let's see what Maria is doing.
00:34:36Take your clothes and go to the park.
00:34:38Please, Maria.
00:34:40Let's go to the park.
00:34:42Come on.
00:34:44Let's not waste time.
00:34:46Take your clothes
00:34:48and go to the park.
00:34:50If, in the end,
00:34:52they convinced Iulia to go to the park,
00:34:54now is the time to see
00:34:56which of the two women
00:34:58will follow him.
00:35:00On the sidewalk.
00:35:02Left or right?
00:35:04I was waiting for you to come out of the house
00:35:06to get some fresh air.
00:35:08You on the bike, Maria on the run.
00:35:10Easy, easy, easy.
00:35:12And since Iulia is on the bike,
00:35:14so she doesn't have to run
00:35:16like a little kid,
00:35:18I ran with him.
00:35:20It's nice.
00:35:22I wanted to run more.
00:35:24To the park, but she ran.
00:35:26This was part of her rhythm
00:35:28day after day.
00:35:30He probably didn't think
00:35:32that he would run so fast.
00:35:34And where is this?
00:35:36At the town hall.
00:35:38But don't go fast,
00:35:40because the grandparents can't come.
00:35:42The air is fresh,
00:35:44the atmosphere is nice.
00:35:48You can play with the sand
00:35:50whenever you want.
00:35:52But the boring scene
00:35:54can be installed just as fast.
00:35:56The kids have another idea.
00:35:58Let's run.
00:36:00This is your pleasure.
00:36:02I think Maria wants
00:36:04to be in the spotlight.
00:36:06She does everything
00:36:08to be good for Iulia.
00:36:10Iulia is an energetic boy.
00:36:12He can't stop,
00:36:14he always has to be around.
00:36:18In Timisoara,
00:36:20the kids debut
00:36:22with the right make-up
00:36:24and the first three
00:36:26of the mother's clothes.
00:36:32Are you ready, Luis?
00:36:34Yes.
00:36:36Let's go running.
00:36:38Yes.
00:36:46The weather is nice today.
00:36:48It's sunny.
00:36:50It's perfect.
00:36:52In the hope
00:36:54that the run will go well,
00:36:56Iulia takes the initiative
00:36:58in dialogue and movement.
00:37:00Do you want to warm up?
00:37:02I'll show you.
00:37:04Follow me.
00:37:06Like this.
00:37:08Like this.
00:37:12Then up.
00:37:14Very good.
00:37:16The legs.
00:37:18And the other one.
00:37:20I know what I know
00:37:22about the gym.
00:37:24I'm not an expert,
00:37:26but I've been going to the gym
00:37:28for 4-5 years.
00:37:30And to go backwards.
00:37:32It's better.
00:37:34You need your knees
00:37:36to go forward.
00:37:38Let's run now.
00:37:40We start slowly
00:37:42and then we go.
00:37:44Ready?
00:37:46Let's go.
00:37:50It's done.
00:37:52Let's rest a bit.
00:37:54I'm a bit tired.
00:37:56I didn't run as much as I should.
00:37:58Iulia takes the opportunity
00:38:00to ask Luis
00:38:02a 10-point question.
00:38:04It's on the way
00:38:06to find out
00:38:08that in the back
00:38:10of some of his friends
00:38:12there's a 10-point question.
00:38:14Iulia,
00:38:16do you know
00:38:18that in the back
00:38:20of some of your friends
00:38:22there's a strong and brave boy?
00:38:24What's your relationship with your father?
00:38:26I don't know.
00:38:28He doesn't visit you?
00:38:30No, not at all.
00:38:32Didn't you talk to him?
00:38:34He doesn't talk to me.
00:38:36What happened?
00:38:38Do you know what happened
00:38:40between your parents?
00:38:42Did your mother tell you?
00:38:44I thought my mother
00:38:46didn't know.
00:38:48One day she showed me
00:38:50a recording.
00:38:52When you were older?
00:38:54Yes, around 10-11 years old.
00:38:56What did the recording show?
00:38:58Did they talk badly?
00:39:00They yelled at me
00:39:02and at my mother.
00:39:04They said I wasn't educated
00:39:06the way I should be
00:39:08and that I was just
00:39:10on the phone.
00:39:12He didn't want to stay with me.
00:39:14I would go to him
00:39:16and he would call me.
00:39:18I don't know why.
00:39:20He would call me a little bit.
00:39:22But he didn't stay with me.
00:39:24He didn't stay with you?
00:39:26No, I mean
00:39:28he would stay in a room
00:39:30and do that, I would stay...
00:39:32Separately?
00:39:34Yes, I would stay on the phone.
00:39:36How long haven't you seen each other?
00:39:38I think it's been 5-6 years.
00:39:40Wow!
00:39:42Does he help you financially?
00:39:44Do you know?
00:39:46He sends money to my mother
00:39:48because she has to.
00:39:50Does it bother you to talk about it?
00:39:52No, I'm used to it.
00:39:54You're used to talk about it.
00:39:56If it bothers you,
00:39:58you can tell me.
00:40:00No, it's ok.
00:40:02I'm glad we get along very well.
00:40:04Let's go then
00:40:06to eat and see
00:40:08how we're getting ready.
00:40:12How did you like the walk?
00:40:14Ok.
00:40:16I'm glad you liked it.
00:40:18It's good that it's cool outside.
00:40:24Wait, wait!
00:40:26What are you doing?
00:40:28I'm trying to stay on the phone.
00:40:30I think you've been on the phone a lot.
00:40:32I'm listening to my mom.
00:40:34Yes, but I'm also doing a little bit.
00:40:36It depends on what you're doing.
00:40:40What did your grandparents do with you?
00:40:42Let's go to a bookstore
00:40:44and buy you a book
00:40:46to read.
00:40:50Did you like it?
00:40:52Yes.
00:40:54Ok, I'm tired.
00:40:58Serious things.
00:41:00How would the game and imagination
00:41:02contributed?
00:41:04Is it good?
00:41:06Where should we put this?
00:41:08Over here.
00:41:10If I don't do something right,
00:41:12you tell me.
00:41:14I think it's the other way around.
00:41:16I see it's an attraction between them.
00:41:18Iulia is very sticky,
00:41:20but Maria also likes children a lot.
00:41:22Wait, wait!
00:41:24Look, like this.
00:41:26Like this.
00:41:28Yes, but you see you can't do it.
00:41:30I don't know how I put it.
00:41:32I think it's not good.
00:41:34Yes, it's not good.
00:41:36Let's see.
00:41:38In the end, we'll figure it out.
00:41:40You know I like
00:41:42to play with children a lot.
00:41:44With me?
00:41:46Yes, with you. I like to play.
00:41:48So, with the other children,
00:41:50mom plays.
00:41:52Maria has only one child
00:41:54that mom plays with.
00:41:56My mom is
00:41:58my mom's friend.
00:42:00Your mom is your friend?
00:42:02Of course.
00:42:04We'll have feelings.
00:42:06You get along well with your mom.
00:42:08You listen to your mom.
00:42:10Yes, but I also do some things.
00:42:12What are you doing here?
00:42:14We don't know.
00:42:16Wow!
00:42:18What are you doing there?
00:42:20What are you doing there?
00:42:22I saw you.
00:42:24I saw you here.
00:42:26At Timișoara, Iulia
00:42:28can better explain
00:42:30how the boy is,
00:42:32and the two find a way
00:42:34to spend time together in a pleasant way.
00:42:36Hey, what are you doing?
00:42:38I'm sitting on the phone.
00:42:40I think you've been on the phone for a long time.
00:42:42I know.
00:42:46What did you do on the phone?
00:42:48I didn't film anything.
00:42:50Do you play games on the phone?
00:42:52Yes.
00:42:54What kind of games do you play?
00:42:56Call of Duty.
00:42:58Do you play on the phone and laptop?
00:43:00Yes.
00:43:02Is it online?
00:43:04Yes, it's online.
00:43:06Do you want to play
00:43:08the game your mom told me about?
00:43:10I don't remember the name.
00:43:12Yes.
00:43:14Do you want to play?
00:43:16Yes.
00:43:18Let's play.
00:43:20I'll wait for you to play.
00:43:22I don't know what you're doing.
00:43:24The day is done,
00:43:26so their plans continue.
00:43:28Where do we play?
00:43:30On the couch.
00:43:32Let's play on the couch.
00:43:34I'm afraid of the couch,
00:43:36but it doesn't seem comfortable.
00:43:38You have to explain
00:43:40how we play.
00:43:42You have to take a piece
00:43:44without turning it
00:43:46and put it on top
00:43:48and continue.
00:43:50If it falls, you lose.
00:43:52Let's try it.
00:43:54I'll start.
00:43:56You can start.
00:44:06And I put it like this?
00:44:08Yes.
00:44:12Who wins this game?
00:44:14Your mom or you?
00:44:16Me.
00:44:18It's based on luck.
00:44:20It's a strategy game.
00:44:22You have to think about it.
00:44:24It's based on luck.
00:44:38It's interesting
00:44:40to play this game.
00:44:42It makes you focus
00:44:44on what you're going to do.
00:44:48Let's see.
00:44:50You won.
00:45:00At the Autopain,
00:45:02Maria and Carmen
00:45:04went to the gym
00:45:06where their friendship
00:45:08doesn't stop there.
00:45:10I like everything about sports.
00:45:12I'm glad you invited me.
00:45:14I'm very happy.
00:45:16I like the gym
00:45:18because it's different.
00:45:20There's an instructor.
00:45:28I like the band
00:45:30when we go to ***.
00:45:32I spend 40 minutes there.
00:45:34Years ago, I went to the gym
00:45:36a lot, but I like running.
00:45:38I go to all the competitions.
00:45:40This year,
00:45:42I ran
00:45:44for miles.
00:45:46I think it's great.
00:45:48We both
00:45:50like sports.
00:45:52She's into running
00:45:54and we're into
00:45:56training
00:45:58as a team.
00:46:00Why do you like running so much?
00:46:04I like sports.
00:46:06I did karate,
00:46:08I did cycling,
00:46:10I did kayaking.
00:46:12I chose running
00:46:14because I run for kids,
00:46:16for autism,
00:46:18for all kinds of reasons.
00:46:20We collect money.
00:46:22I wanted to run a lot.
00:46:24I went to the gym.
00:46:26It's very nice.
00:46:28I ran for miles
00:46:30and I'm in shape.
00:46:32I wanted more.
00:46:36On the other side,
00:46:38the boy sees himself
00:46:40interrupted by Diana,
00:46:42who came to visit him
00:46:44in the morning.
00:46:48Yes!
00:46:50Right away!
00:46:56Hello!
00:46:58Good morning!
00:47:00What are you doing?
00:47:02I came to see you.
00:47:04Come in!
00:47:06We need to talk.
00:47:08A good context to talk about Luis.
00:47:10It seems that his mother
00:47:12still has a lot of questions
00:47:14about the boy.
00:47:16What did you do yesterday?
00:47:18Did you cook?
00:47:20I made some fried potatoes.
00:47:22He doesn't eat.
00:47:24He refuses to eat.
00:47:26I thought
00:47:28that he only eats sweets
00:47:30and that he doesn't eat food.
00:47:32But I noticed that he doesn't eat food
00:47:34or sweets.
00:47:36But it depends
00:47:38on what you do to him.
00:47:40It's hard for me
00:47:42to communicate with him.
00:47:44I can't tell him what he likes
00:47:46and what he doesn't like.
00:47:48That's your luck.
00:47:50I asked him
00:47:52about fruits and vegetables.
00:47:54If you can convince him
00:47:56to eat a fruit,
00:47:58it will be great.
00:48:00I asked him if he still eats vegetables
00:48:02and he said yes.
00:48:04I asked him
00:48:06if he can cook
00:48:08and he said
00:48:10that he doesn't need
00:48:12to eat salad now.
00:48:14He eats chicken breast salad.
00:48:16What can you tell me
00:48:18about his father?
00:48:20I can't tell you
00:48:22a lot about him.
00:48:24What can you tell me
00:48:26about his mother?
00:48:28I don't know.
00:48:30Do you live nearby?
00:48:32No.
00:48:34I find it strange
00:48:36that they live nearby
00:48:38and don't visit each other.
00:48:40I don't know
00:48:42how his mother
00:48:44treats him.
00:48:46She was too protective.
00:48:48She takes care of both of them.
00:48:50He doesn't want to have
00:48:52anything to do with her.
00:48:54Especially with him.
00:48:56He would like
00:48:58to get to know her.
00:49:00He would like to.
00:49:02I don't know
00:49:04if he still
00:49:06has the same feelings.
00:49:08He hasn't seen her for a long time.
00:49:10He knows
00:49:12everything.
00:49:14He understands
00:49:16his mother very well.
00:49:20She doesn't want
00:49:22to have
00:49:24anything to do
00:49:26with him.
00:49:28She doesn't want
00:49:30to have
00:49:32anything to do
00:49:34with him.
00:49:36She doesn't want
00:49:38to have
00:49:40anything to do
00:49:42with him.
00:49:44She doesn't want
00:49:46to have
00:49:48anything to do
00:49:50with him.
00:49:52She doesn't want
00:49:54to have
00:49:56anything to do
00:49:58with him.
00:50:00She doesn't want
00:50:02anything to do
00:50:04with him.
00:50:06So I don't have
00:50:08anything to do
00:50:10with him.
00:50:12He's healthy
00:50:14and healthy
00:50:16and healthy.
00:50:18But I would like
00:50:20to know
00:50:22how it is
00:50:24That's it. I don't want to change anything else.
00:50:27And if we go to the gym where we train, it's fine, right?
00:50:31It's perfect. All running is called and all training.
00:50:34It's the only thing I want.
00:50:36I have nothing to change.
00:50:37Mom's rules are perfect.
00:50:40I really didn't have anything.
00:50:42Everything is very clean.
00:50:45It's very beautiful.
00:50:46Mom is special.
00:50:48Mom and dad are with everyone.
00:50:50It's an extraordinary family.
00:50:55But let's see what Iulia has to say to Timisoara
00:50:57when it comes to the desired changes.
00:50:59Discussion partner, Luis, with the risk of being just as nice.
00:51:04Take a seat there, please.
00:51:06I will introduce you to the new rules.
00:51:09Until now, they were according to your mother's rules.
00:51:12Now they will be my rules.
00:51:15Eat a fruit, a vegetable a day.
00:51:18Well, if you eat more, don't worry,
00:51:20but at least a vegetable and a fruit.
00:51:23Let's have a fixed time to eat.
00:51:26What time?
00:51:27I mean, I don't know, we wake up, I don't know,
00:51:30depending on when we wake up.
00:51:32Let's eat breakfast at 8 o'clock,
00:51:34then lunch at 1 o'clock.
00:51:36Well, plus or minus.
00:51:37Now I know it will be 1.30, it will be 2, it will be 12.30.
00:51:42We'll see.
00:51:43With an extra hour, we can adjust.
00:51:46Let's go to a bookstore and buy you a book
00:51:51and start reading.
00:51:57In the morning, your room should be ventilated,
00:52:01the whole house should be ventilated.
00:52:04Let's open all the windows.
00:52:07These are not difficult rules to follow,
00:52:11something impossible.
00:52:14It's ok then.
00:52:21In the meantime, at the bus stop,
00:52:23Bade ran, because he didn't really need to,
00:52:25Maria cleaned up the kitchen,
00:52:27but now the grandmothers present her culinary intentions.
00:52:31I thought I'd make a pilaf with rice
00:52:34and chicken legs.
00:52:37Iuli asked me to do this,
00:52:39I do whatever the kid wants,
00:52:41but I hope it's good for you too.
00:52:43It's ok.
00:52:44God bless you, welcome.
00:52:46Here I'll put the water to boil.
00:52:55Look, I did it.
00:52:57But until the water boils, let's not forget
00:52:59that Iuli also has his needs,
00:53:01so the grandmother and the mother, on the other hand,
00:53:03take action and again receive what is really important.
00:53:08Give me a kiss, Maria.
00:53:09Give me a kiss.
00:53:10Give me a kiss.
00:53:11A kiss.
00:53:12Well, don't kiss me.
00:53:15Maria loves the robot.
00:53:24What did the grandmothers do with you?
00:53:28Did you like it?
00:53:29Yes.
00:53:32Easy, easy, easy.
00:53:36One, two, three.
00:53:40And in the legs.
00:53:43Hey, something else, did you see?
00:53:47I think he wants to be rich in seeds.
00:53:54And now, if you want, Maria,
00:53:56we can go and collect the dried things,
00:54:02ten of them, and we'll have time.
00:54:05We'll have time.
00:54:06We can go and look over there,
00:54:07and you'll have more work to do.
00:54:10In Timisoara, they say that the military comes down from the bridge.
00:54:13We leave the didactic talent in your hands.
00:54:16We focus on the results.
00:54:18It is certain that the lack of involvement of the boy so far
00:54:21makes Iulia take certain measures.
00:54:24Let's make the bed for you, so you can clean the room.
00:54:27Yes?
00:54:28Yes.
00:54:29Good.
00:54:30Come on then.
00:54:31Who makes the bed for you?
00:54:32Do you or your mother?
00:54:33Sometimes I do, sometimes my mother.
00:54:36I think you should do it, because you're already old.
00:54:40I mean, I'm at least 14 years old,
00:54:45and I've been doing it since I was 10,
00:54:47I think I've been doing it since I was younger.
00:54:48I think it's normal for a child to make his own bed.
00:54:51I say, the carpet has to be covered on the bed.
00:55:00Everyone has their own style.
00:55:01Now, I don't know, your mother,
00:55:02I told you, maybe she makes the bed differently.
00:55:05Let's ventilate then.
00:55:07OK.
00:55:08Let's open the window,
00:55:09so we have fresh air, too.
00:55:12In the room.
00:55:13In the room.
00:55:14Open it, too, if it's...
00:55:16And let's go to the bathroom.
00:55:20Do you know what else I wanted to ask you?
00:55:22For the mattress, if you have, I don't know,
00:55:24a special cream, if it was at the dermatologist.
00:55:26Yes.
00:55:27Yes?
00:55:28Yes.
00:55:29And do you sleep with it?
00:55:30Yes.
00:55:31How many times?
00:55:32I don't know.
00:55:33How many times?
00:55:34I don't know.
00:55:35OK, I brought something else here.
00:55:37I think this is it, right?
00:55:38Yes.
00:55:39But I've had this, too, to be honest.
00:55:41It's actually a gel.
00:55:43What do you mean?
00:55:44Because I've had this, too, when I was a teenager,
00:55:48and I've had a lot of mattresses.
00:55:50And another simple question is hit again with the same blockage.
00:55:55I don't know.
00:55:56I don't care.
00:55:57In other words, I don't care.
00:55:59And what do you want to do today?
00:56:01I don't care.
00:56:02I don't care.
00:56:03Excuse me?
00:56:04Speak a little louder.
00:56:05I don't care.
00:56:06I don't care.
00:56:07Well, how doesn't it matter?
00:56:08I don't know.
00:56:09Don't you have a project or something
00:56:10that you want to do in a special way?
00:56:11I don't know.
00:56:12To go outside or...
00:56:13No.
00:56:16I don't know, because it seems to me like, I don't know,
00:56:18it's hard for me to propose.
00:56:20I don't know the city.
00:56:23You, for example, I don't know, where do you go?
00:56:26Where do you go?
00:56:27Here?
00:56:28Next to the block.
00:56:29Only next to the block?
00:56:30Around the block?
00:56:33I mean, is there a park near here?
00:56:35Yes, there is.
00:56:37Excuse me?
00:56:38But I don't really go there.
00:56:41Why? You don't really go there?
00:56:42No.
00:56:44I don't care.
00:56:45You don't care?
00:56:46I don't really know.
00:56:47Do you get bored?
00:56:49Yes.
00:56:50Do you go with your friends or with your mom?
00:56:52With my friends.
00:56:53Why?
00:56:54Because I'm convinced that here in Timisoara there are a lot of parks,
00:56:57a lot of them.
00:56:58I mean, you have activities, I say.
00:57:00If you want to...
00:57:01Only if you want to.
00:57:03Do you like it?
00:57:04I don't know.
00:57:05Do you go out?
00:57:06Not really.
00:57:07Not really?
00:57:08And what do you like to do?
00:57:10Do you play computer games?
00:57:12Yes.
00:57:13I was thinking about going shopping.
00:57:15Would you like to go, to show me where the market is,
00:57:17to go together?
00:57:18That way it's more...
00:57:19Ok.
00:57:20...outside, more...
00:57:21Good.
00:57:23Well, then, let's get ready and see what we can buy from the market.
00:57:28Ok.
00:57:33At Otopeni, two friendly hosts from Abinela in our show
00:57:37make us lean in and roast a bigger one.
00:57:41Grandma and mom, on the other hand, go out to pick ruffles,
00:57:44to ask each other which one is which.
00:57:47Tell me if I cover them well.
00:57:48This is how I do it at home.
00:57:50In Păturești, as you think, Iulia has her own style.
00:57:53Yes?
00:57:54Yes.
00:57:55Everyone has their own style.
00:57:56I saw that you have a different accent,
00:57:58Ardelenesc.
00:58:00Or why do you speak like that?
00:58:02You have this accent.
00:58:03Ah.
00:58:04More special, different from us.
00:58:06Well, let me tell you.
00:58:08I was born in Sighed, in Marmației,
00:58:10so Maramăreșancă.
00:58:12I was raised in Cluj.
00:58:14I got married in Arad and I live in Timișoara.
00:58:17Carmen, I saw that there are five of you in the family.
00:58:20I mean, you, your husband, your daughter, your husband and your child.
00:58:24Iulia, yes, five.
00:58:26How did you manage to be like this?
00:58:28You are a very united family.
00:58:30What was the most difficult challenge for you?
00:58:32Or if you ever had such a difficult challenge?
00:58:34I see that you are very united.
00:58:36That's why I'm asking.
00:58:37I think there are more challenges in life.
00:58:40And I think it would be good to go through them with griot.
00:58:44And I think it's been five or six years since they've been together.
00:58:48It was when she gave him to Ștefan.
00:58:50Iulia with Ștefan.
00:58:52Yes, Iulia with Ștefan.
00:58:54But in the end, I can't tell the whole story.
00:58:57I understand.
00:58:58But in the end, we got along well.
00:59:02Where did she give him to Ștefan?
00:59:06She had to choose from four areas.
00:59:09Craiova, Craiova.
00:59:13Focșan, I don't know.
00:59:15Anyway, it was over 400 km.
00:59:18She chose Focșan, because he is from that area.
00:59:21Was it a difficult challenge?
00:59:23Iulia didn't want to go?
00:59:25Or what did Iulia do?
00:59:27What did she choose?
00:59:28What happened?
00:59:29Iulia was six months old then.
00:59:31Iulia, the little boy.
00:59:32Yes, the little boy.
00:59:34And you realize that she needed help.
00:59:37It was for her and for us, so to speak.
00:59:41It wasn't a shock.
00:59:42She didn't have a choice.
00:59:43It was something she wanted and chose.
00:59:47And my husband supported her.
00:59:49And then I found a solution.
00:59:51And I said, since he is on maternity leave,
00:59:55let him stay with Kirie in Focșan.
00:59:57And that's what they did.
00:59:58At first, until you get used to it, it's very difficult.
01:00:01Let's say six months.
01:00:03I think it takes longer until you get used to it.
01:00:06But you realize that it's good for him too.
01:00:09It's their family and they have to create their own rules.
01:00:15And for them to evolve, so to speak.
01:00:19It was an experience, as Iulia says.
01:00:22And you went through it all.
01:00:23Yes.
01:00:24And you are a very beautiful and very united family.
01:00:26Yes.
01:00:27I'm glad I joined your family.
01:00:31Do you want something to eat?
01:00:33What are we shouting now?
01:00:35Attention, turn.
01:00:36Come on, say it.
01:00:37Attention, turn.
01:00:39Maybe you want to eat.
01:00:40I don't want to.
01:00:42Welcome to Otopeni.
01:00:43We already made you a jet-by-jet.
01:00:46Maybe, maybe you want to eat.
01:00:48Maybe not.
01:00:50So, Carmen, I chose this menu for me.
01:00:54We don't do fake food, do we ?
01:00:56No.
01:00:57But here we do.
01:00:58Don't we ?
01:00:59Not really.
01:01:07In Timisoara, Iulia managed to get Luis out of the house,
01:01:11trying to find out what is hidden in the boy's soul.
01:01:22Good day.
01:01:23Good day.
01:01:25We also came to do some shopping.
01:01:29What do you like ?
01:01:30Today at the same price ?
01:01:31Today you got a yellow one, yes.
01:01:32At the same price, right ?
01:01:33Yes.
01:01:35Give us a pumpkin, please.
01:01:38And some fruits, too.
01:01:41Come on, Luis.
01:01:42You can come if you want some fruit.
01:01:44I don't want to.
01:01:48Do you want something called fruit ?
01:01:50No.
01:01:51Come closer.
01:01:52I don't want to.
01:01:53I don't know.
01:01:54I don't want to.
01:01:55Why not ?
01:01:56I don't like fruits.
01:01:57Well, we'll come if there's something.
01:01:59Maybe you'll like it.
01:02:00I don't want to.
01:02:01No.
01:02:02Maybe you'll like it.
01:02:03I don't want to.
01:02:04Very good.
01:02:05Not knowing how to approach the situation,
01:02:07other than through direct questions,
01:02:09the mother feels that she's losing a battle
01:02:11at the vegetable and fruit market.
01:02:13After more insistence, she gives up.
01:02:16Do you like pumpkins ?
01:02:17No.
01:02:18Have you eaten pumpkins ?
01:02:19I have.
01:02:20When ?
01:02:21You like them, right ?
01:02:22Are they good ?
01:02:23They're good.
01:02:24Well, they're sweet.
01:02:26No.
01:02:27I don't like them.
01:02:28You don't like garment pumpkins ?
01:02:30No.
01:02:31You don't even like red ?
01:02:32No.
01:02:33Do you like it here ?
01:02:34Not really.
01:02:35Still, there may be another chance.
01:02:38Do you like raisins ?
01:02:39Have you tasted raisins ?
01:02:40No, I haven't.
01:02:41I don't know.
01:02:42Do you have a fruit that you like in a special way ?
01:02:45I don't know.
01:02:46Let's tell you what it does.
01:02:47No.
01:02:48It means you're going to eat it now.
01:02:51It's a pear event.
01:02:52What ?
01:02:53It's a pear event.
01:02:54A pear ?
01:02:55Do you want a pear ?
01:02:56No.
01:02:57Bingo !
01:02:58An extra step towards success.
01:02:59I don't know.
01:03:00Do you want a pear ?
01:03:01Does anyone else want one ?
01:03:02Should I take two more ?
01:03:09Goodbye ! Have a nice day !
01:03:11Goodbye !
01:03:12Bye !
01:03:16It's the fifth day.
01:03:17And at Otopeni, the grandfather proudly presents his mother's personal creation.
01:03:22The garden he takes care of.
01:03:24I grew up in a yard.
01:03:26I see.
01:03:27My daughter grew up in a block.
01:03:30I somehow brought her...
01:03:32You, to your daughter ?
01:03:33Yes.
01:03:34And she asked me to buy her an apartment, but with a yard.
01:03:38Three years ago, I managed to buy it.
01:03:41Up here, there's one.
01:03:43I see.
01:03:44And with this garden, which I transformed.
01:03:48You have a very beautiful orchard here.
01:03:50Yes.
01:03:51And the garden isn't that big. It's beautiful.
01:03:53But it's so small...
01:03:54You have to have time to grow it.
01:03:56It's a paradise.
01:03:57Yes, a corner, if you say so.
01:03:59Don't you want to pick some blackberries ?
01:04:01We're almost there.
01:04:02We're almost there.
01:04:03I said you left, but you didn't take anything.
01:04:07Blackberries, how beautiful they are !
01:04:09And you planted them, Vio ?
01:04:11No, I planted them with my wife.
01:04:13I've never seen such big blackberries in my life.
01:04:16Big ?
01:04:17Yes.
01:04:18That's why I asked Vio if they were grafted,
01:04:21because I really don't understand.
01:04:23They're special.
01:04:24They're special.
01:04:26We let them ripen...
01:04:28Until they mature, but...
01:04:30You see, if they're like this, they're not good.
01:04:33They're raw.
01:04:34But you like them, don't you ?
01:04:35I like them.
01:04:36So, I picked these blackberries for myself.
01:04:41We're not making jokes, are we ?
01:04:43No.
01:04:46In Timisoara, it's time for another experiment.
01:04:49For Iulia, somehow, time seems to be in place.
01:04:52But she sets off on the streets of Timisoara,
01:04:54trying to be as friendly as possible.
01:04:57Wow, it's so beautiful here !
01:05:00Do you come here often ?
01:05:02Sometimes.
01:05:04Do you like ice cream ?
01:05:06I like ice cream, but...
01:05:08I'm not allowed to eat ice cream,
01:05:10because I have problems with my amygdala.
01:05:13And...
01:05:14And I try to avoid it.
01:05:16Because after that, my throat hurts.
01:05:18Do you like ice cream ?
01:05:20Yes.
01:05:21So, do you have a favorite ice cream ?
01:05:24Mint ice cream.
01:05:25Mint ice cream ? I like mint ice cream, too.
01:05:32For me, with the magnet, it's something...
01:05:36I don't have a collection at home.
01:05:39I think this is what's left, with the umbrellas.
01:05:41I saw there are umbrellas, so I'll give you this one back.
01:05:46Thank you very much.
01:05:48He took my magnet, I don't need it anymore.
01:05:51Do you like going to the terrace, to your mom's restaurant ?
01:05:53Yes.
01:05:54I saw that, on a regular basis,
01:05:56they told you to go out more often.
01:05:58Sometimes.
01:05:59But this last sometimes,
01:06:00seems to remind his mom of a promise she made.
01:06:03It's time for him to buy her a book,
01:06:06anticipating that she'll get some unexpected answers.
01:06:09Let's see what we find.
01:06:11What books we find.
01:06:18Do you have a book that...
01:06:20No.
01:06:21How long haven't you read ?
01:06:23A long time.
01:06:24Have you ever read a book in your life ?
01:06:25Yes.
01:06:26What haven't you read ?
01:06:29The war that saved my life.
01:06:33For example, this one, The Detective's Manual.
01:06:36It's...
01:06:38I don't know, it's like...
01:06:40Instead of watching a movie, it's an event.
01:06:43It's like you read it and you imagine it.
01:06:45You develop creativity, imagination.
01:06:48You get the movie in your head.
01:06:52I understand that you don't want it, but...
01:06:54It's hard to see that you understand.
01:06:56I understand that you don't want it.
01:06:57Ok, you don't want it, but I'll ask you to read it.
01:07:00Even if you don't want it, we'll have to read it.
01:07:04I'll buy you this book,
01:07:06and out of respect and obligation,
01:07:09I'll ask you to read it.
01:07:11Ok.
01:07:12Ok ?
01:07:13Let's make peace with this aspect.
01:07:19At Utopeni, we're going around the premises
01:07:21and we're telling you that an interrogation is going on.
01:07:24The targeted one is Cosmin, the uncle of the boy from the work table.
01:07:28Cosmin, what do you want to do there ?
01:07:30A cake.
01:07:31What kind of cake ?
01:07:33I don't know.
01:07:34Do you like to make cakes like this,
01:07:38or do you usually do it, or only now ?
01:07:42Only now.
01:07:43Do you like it ?
01:07:44I've done it before.
01:07:45You're Stefan's brother, right ?
01:07:47Yes.
01:07:48And Iulii would be your grandson, right ?
01:07:52You're his uncle, right ?
01:07:53Yes.
01:07:54I think you love him a lot.
01:07:58I think you could be an example for him,
01:08:00to teach him, to play with him, to show him many things, right ?
01:08:04Yes.
01:08:05To take care of him.
01:08:06I've seen that you play a lot with him.
01:08:08You like him, right ?
01:08:09He's attracted to children.
01:08:11Actually, children...
01:08:14want to play with him.
01:08:17And what did your grandmother tell you,
01:08:19that you're also a cyclist, right ?
01:08:21Yes.
01:08:22Do you like it ?
01:08:24No.
01:08:25You've been to a competition.
01:08:26Have you ever been to a competition ?
01:08:28A competition ? No.
01:08:29No ? Not yet ?
01:08:31From your own experience,
01:08:33when you go to the first competition,
01:08:35you get into blood.
01:08:37And you'll always want to go to the second and the third,
01:08:40because the medals come,
01:08:43and the good results, and you'll like it.
01:08:45So, you put the batter in the oven, right ?
01:08:47Yes.
01:08:48And then, the filling comes.
01:08:50Yes.
01:08:51Which I'll make in a minute.
01:08:52Wow !
01:08:53I can't wait to eat this cake.
01:08:55Who did you make this for ?
01:08:57For...
01:08:59For who ?
01:09:00For you.
01:09:01For me !
01:09:05Calm down, honey.
01:09:07We'll pay for everything.
01:09:08And chicken, and burgers, and...
01:09:11Enjoy !
01:09:12It'll be expensive.
01:09:13Not even at KFC,
01:09:14where you make two appetizers at the price of one,
01:09:16with the new Chicken Burger.
01:09:17Your favorite chicken, garlic sauce,
01:09:19tomatoes, coleslaw, and pickled cucumbers,
01:09:21in a delicious burger.
01:09:23Chicken Burger.
01:09:24Two appetizers at the price of one.
01:09:26Only 7,90 RON.
01:09:27KFC.
01:09:37It's day 6,
01:09:38and in Timisoara, the sun is up.
01:09:41As the hopes for a better day.
01:09:43The destination ?
01:09:44A swimming pool, nearby.
01:09:48Have you been here before ?
01:09:49Three times.
01:09:50Three times ? Wow !
01:09:52Are you ready, Balacana ?
01:09:53Yes.
01:09:55Let's go !
01:09:57Let's see how...
01:09:58Let's go !
01:10:07And what could be more summery,
01:10:09and more beneficial,
01:10:10than an aquatic environment,
01:10:11at the right time ?
01:10:22Come on !
01:10:23Honey !
01:10:24What ?
01:10:25I don't like it !
01:10:26The water is warm,
01:10:27and the juices are cold.
01:10:28Much colder than the final conclusions.
01:10:32Which one is mine ?
01:10:33This one.
01:10:34I have a 2.3.
01:10:37Why did you want to...
01:10:38What ?
01:10:39Why did you want to go on the parrot ?
01:10:41I don't like it.
01:10:42I'm afraid of the speed.
01:10:43I don't like to get in the water.
01:10:44Why ?
01:10:46The garlic !
01:10:48Did you like it here ?
01:10:49Yes.
01:10:50I liked it, too.
01:10:53How did you like these days ?
01:10:55Good.
01:10:56What did you like ?
01:10:57What did you like the most ?
01:10:59I liked how I was outside.
01:11:00When I was outside,
01:11:01in the center,
01:11:03I liked it, too.
01:11:04And I liked it here, too.
01:11:05I mean,
01:11:06both outside and here.
01:11:07I liked it a lot.
01:11:09I'm glad we started talking again.
01:11:11I mean,
01:11:12there is an evolution
01:11:13compared to how we were at the beginning,
01:11:14when we got to know each other,
01:11:16because we were closer.
01:11:17And now,
01:11:18we are starting to get to know each other,
01:11:20to talk more.
01:11:22What do you think
01:11:23about our relationship ?
01:11:25Ok, fine.
01:11:27I mean,
01:11:28do you see
01:11:30an evolution ?
01:11:31I mean, do you see an evolution ?
01:11:32A little bit, yes.
01:11:33Good.
01:11:34Do you open up more easily
01:11:35compared to me ?
01:11:37I'm trying to get to know you.
01:11:38Yes.
01:11:39Me, too.
01:11:40I mean,
01:11:41I'm glad I got to know you.
01:11:51At Otopeni,
01:11:52believe me,
01:11:53the garden is the grandfather's supreme passion.
01:11:55Take a look
01:11:56at how he coordinates
01:11:57his team on two wheels.
01:11:59What are we shouting now ?
01:12:00Attention, turn !
01:12:01Say it !
01:12:02Attention, turn !
01:12:03Attention, turn !
01:12:05Knees,
01:12:06and turn !
01:12:07Yes ?
01:12:08Maria,
01:12:09what do you think ?
01:12:10How do you like it ?
01:12:11Extraordinary !
01:12:12I'm glad you like it.
01:12:13And I want to wish you
01:12:14welcome
01:12:15to our team,
01:12:17welcome to Otopeni.
01:12:18We already made you
01:12:19a jet-by-jet Otopenian.
01:12:20Welcome !
01:12:21I'm glad to be a part
01:12:22of your team.
01:12:24And do you like to pedal ?
01:12:26I like it a lot.
01:12:27That's my strong point.
01:12:28I haven't been pedaling
01:12:29for a few years.
01:12:30I took part
01:12:31in contests
01:12:32with...
01:12:33Triathlon.
01:12:34No, no, no.
01:12:35No, no, no.
01:12:36With 100 kilometers.
01:12:37At the contests,
01:12:38and I got
01:12:39the first place twice.
01:12:40100 kilometers ?
01:12:41Kilometers.
01:12:42100 kilometers.
01:12:43With the bike ?
01:12:44No.
01:12:45With the bike.
01:12:46Mountain bike.
01:12:47Mountain bike, yes.
01:12:48That's right.
01:12:49Let's be clear.
01:12:50Not a road rider.
01:12:51No, no, no.
01:12:52Mountain bike, yes.
01:12:53Sport, in general,
01:12:54unites the world,
01:12:55the nations,
01:12:56the continents.
01:12:57Sport has always
01:12:58brought people together.
01:12:59It brought people together
01:13:00exactly as it brought me
01:13:01together,
01:13:02as it brought everyone
01:13:03together.
01:13:04I'm a coach
01:13:05at CSE Otopeni.
01:13:06I'm a coordinator coach
01:13:07at the children's group.
01:13:08I have a group
01:13:09of children
01:13:10aged 7-14 years old.
01:13:11This year,
01:13:12I have a group
01:13:13of children
01:13:14aged 6-7 years old.
01:13:15I have a group
01:13:16of children
01:13:17aged 6-7 years old.
01:13:18This year,
01:13:19I have a group
01:13:20of children
01:13:21aged 7-8 years old.
01:13:22They are still young.
01:13:23They are still young
01:13:24so that I have time
01:13:25to raise them,
01:13:26to teach them
01:13:27what cycling means,
01:13:28a complex sport
01:13:29with endurance,
01:13:30but very beautiful.
01:13:37We are going
01:13:38in pairs, grandpa,
01:13:39right ?
01:13:40That's right,
01:13:41in pairs.
01:13:42Let's go.
01:13:45At Timisoara,
01:13:46the new regulation
01:13:47starts to take effect.
01:13:48But better
01:13:49later
01:13:50than never.
01:13:51And a table
01:13:52to the taste of the boy
01:13:53Julia would hope.
01:14:01Luis !
01:14:02Yes ?
01:14:04Let's go to the table.
01:14:06Now.
01:14:15I told you
01:14:16that I eat at home.
01:14:18It's healthier.
01:14:20What do you think ?
01:14:21How does it look ?
01:14:22Good.
01:14:23I don't want you
01:14:24to tell me
01:14:25that I like it,
01:14:26but I want you
01:14:27to tell me your honest opinion.
01:14:28Tell me how you like it.
01:14:29Ah, ok.
01:14:30So it's not that
01:14:31you want me
01:14:32to tell you
01:14:33that you like it.
01:14:34That's what I eat
01:14:35on Saturdays.
01:14:36Ah, when you make
01:14:37your salad.
01:14:38I'm glad
01:14:39that
01:14:42you like it.
01:14:43You ate everything
01:14:44in the group.
01:14:45Except for the eggs.
01:14:46Except for the eggs.
01:14:47I mean,
01:14:48almost everything.
01:14:51At Otopeni,
01:14:52a barbecue
01:14:53in a spirit
01:14:54that unites
01:14:55plus a dessert
01:14:56with a condition.
01:14:57Maria,
01:14:58let's see
01:14:59if the cake is ready.
01:15:00Let's see.
01:15:01Open the fridge,
01:15:02because it's your turn.
01:15:05Wow,
01:15:06it looks so good.
01:15:07I can't wait
01:15:08to eat it.
01:15:09Julia.
01:15:10Wow.
01:15:12I hope it's good.
01:15:16Let's taste it
01:15:17for the first time
01:15:18and then we'll go
01:15:19to the next one.
01:15:20Ok?
01:15:21A knife?
01:15:22Look there.
01:15:27Who starts first?
01:15:29It doesn't matter.
01:15:38I really made
01:15:39a very good cake.
01:15:40But you can really say
01:15:41that it's made
01:15:42by an adult.
01:15:43You can be...
01:15:44It's the same.
01:15:45What?
01:15:46It's the same as last time.
01:15:48Last time I didn't taste it,
01:15:49but now it's really,
01:15:50really good.
01:15:53Maria,
01:15:54we said that
01:15:55we're all here
01:15:56in Otopeni,
01:15:57in the area of Bucharest,
01:15:58to serve ourselves.
01:16:01Some kids here
01:16:02are famous.
01:16:03Since when
01:16:04have you not eaten anything?
01:16:05I think it's been
01:16:06three years,
01:16:07if I'm not mistaken.
01:16:08No,
01:16:09once or twice a year
01:16:10I eat.
01:16:11Maria is...
01:16:12she's ok.
01:16:13You can tell
01:16:14that she's calm.
01:16:15I'm sorry
01:16:16that she's...
01:16:17but the problem
01:16:18is that she's alone.
01:16:20She doesn't mind
01:16:21this.
01:16:22I mean,
01:16:23I think that life
01:16:24is beautiful
01:16:25when there are two of you.
01:16:26It's something else
01:16:27when there are two of you.
01:16:28Her and him, or...
01:16:29First of all,
01:16:30what attracted me
01:16:31to you,
01:16:32so to speak,
01:16:33as a person...
01:16:34As a person.
01:16:35As a person, yes.
01:16:36Sport.
01:16:37Sport.
01:16:38I do all kinds of sports.
01:16:39You're a sporty man.
01:16:40Sport unites...
01:16:41unites people,
01:16:42sports unites people.
01:16:43Sport is...
01:16:44it's everything.
01:16:45You see,
01:16:46how a bunch of friends
01:16:47get together.
01:16:48This was also for me,
01:16:49somehow,
01:16:50but the strong point
01:16:51that is here
01:16:52for me
01:16:53is a united family,
01:16:54a beautiful family
01:16:55that asks...
01:16:57Maria,
01:16:58come to Otopeni again.
01:16:59Thank you very much.
01:17:00We look forward
01:17:01to meeting you
01:17:02and my wife
01:17:03and my daughter.
01:17:04You'll meet her
01:17:05because you didn't meet her.
01:17:06I didn't meet her.
01:17:07I only know that her name is Iulia
01:17:08and she's blonde like me
01:17:09and I can't wait
01:17:10to see her.
01:17:11I can't wait
01:17:12to feel him,
01:17:13to be felt by him,
01:17:14at least 80%
01:17:15how good I felt here.
01:17:16I would be very happy.
01:17:17I'm convinced
01:17:18she felt it.
01:17:19It's the same.
01:17:20It's kind of the same character.
01:17:21Yes,
01:17:22I can't wait
01:17:23to get home,
01:17:24it's true,
01:17:25but I liked it here.
01:17:26I liked it very much.
01:17:27I liked it here,
01:17:28but honestly,
01:17:29it's not the same.
01:17:30It's much better
01:17:31than home.
01:17:32Home...
01:17:33I like it.
01:17:34I like it.
01:17:35I like it.
01:17:36I like it.
01:17:37I like it.
01:17:38I like it.
01:17:39I like it.
01:17:40I like it.
01:17:43Ilia, come here!
01:17:47What do we do now, mom?
01:17:49How are you?
01:17:51One, two, three
01:17:55I like it.
01:18:01It's the seventh day
01:18:02and the two mothers
01:18:03are preparing for their house trip.
01:18:05At the bus station,
01:18:06Maria already feels
01:18:07that she'll be missing
01:18:08the moments spent here.
01:18:10Good morning!
01:18:12Good morning, Maria!
01:18:13Are you ready to pack your bags?
01:18:15Yes, I'm ready. It's been a while since I've been here.
01:18:18I'm packing my bags and we're leaving.
01:18:20Your girl is coming.
01:18:22I think you can't wait to get home.
01:18:25And us, too.
01:18:27Yes, I can't wait to get home.
01:18:29But I liked it here.
01:18:31I liked it a lot.
01:18:32It's a long way to Timișoara.
01:18:36We're leaving.
01:18:38God help us!
01:18:44Thank you for everything.
01:18:46It was good to meet you.
01:18:48I hope I was a good mother.
01:18:50Thank you for coming.
01:18:52Thank you for visiting.
01:18:54I said goodbye to Poiut and I won't wake him up at this time.
01:18:58But we talked, he knows I'm leaving.
01:19:00We kissed, we hugged.
01:19:02And he's sleeping.
01:19:04I won't wake him up.
01:19:06I'm happy to see you.
01:19:08Look, Maria.
01:19:10Sport unites people.
01:19:12I know.
01:19:14And look.
01:19:16On our side, we showed you the garden.
01:19:18From the past harvest.
01:19:20A pie.
01:19:22To make a pie.
01:19:24I promise to bake it and send you pictures.
01:19:26And to remind you of us.
01:19:28Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
01:19:37In Timișoara, it's time for us to leave Ivi and Raul from Giroc.
01:19:42Who was a good host for us for a week.
01:19:44We leave the garden behind
01:19:46and go to the apartment
01:19:48where Iulia is ready to return
01:19:50to her numerous and noisy family.
01:19:54Take care of yourself.
01:20:00And you, take care of your mother.
01:20:03It was nice to meet you.
01:20:08I'm done.
01:20:12I liked it here, but honestly,
01:20:14what is it like?
01:20:16Where is it better than at home?
01:20:18I don't know.
01:20:20At home, you know, it's your environment.
01:20:22It's your environment.
01:20:32The next day.
01:20:38The two mothers set off
01:20:40to meet for the first time
01:20:42each other halfway
01:20:44between Otopen and Timișoara.
01:20:46Emotions are everywhere.
01:20:48I can't wait to meet her.
01:20:50To see what Iulia looks like.
01:20:52Small, big, fat, thin.
01:20:54I'm curious to see
01:20:58how she is as a person.
01:21:02I'm Iulia.
01:21:04I'm Maria. Nice to meet you.
01:21:08Let's go have some coffee
01:21:10and talk about what happened.
01:21:12Of course. I can't wait.
01:21:14After saying goodbye,
01:21:16Maria and Iulia can calmly
01:21:18talk about their week.
01:21:20How was Iulia at my place?
01:21:22How did you manage with Luis,
01:21:24with the house, with the walks?
01:21:26What did you do?
01:21:28The first days were hard for me
01:21:30because I was very shy
01:21:32and it was hard for me to communicate.
01:21:34So, the first days.
01:21:36And then?
01:21:38Then I started to open up.
01:21:40But at the beginning,
01:21:42when I asked him some questions,
01:21:44his answers were short.
01:21:46And after that,
01:21:48he closed everything.
01:21:50And I tried to ask him
01:21:52more questions,
01:21:54but I couldn't reach him.
01:21:56What did you think
01:21:58about his behavior,
01:22:00his growth and his education?
01:22:02Or his diet?
01:22:04If you had to change anything.
01:22:06I don't know about his diet.
01:22:08Less sweets, of course.
01:22:10More vegetables.
01:22:12I have a diet, too.
01:22:14I tell him what I do for my child
01:22:16and for myself.
01:22:18Iulia is still a baby.
01:22:20I want him to be healthier.
01:22:22At my place,
01:22:24I'm very curious
01:22:26about how Iulia grew up.
01:22:28When I entered the house,
01:22:30I had the impression
01:22:32that you left a picture
01:22:34of you and your husband in the fridge.
01:22:36And I started to cry
01:22:38because I thought
01:22:40this is a single mother with a child,
01:22:42just like me.
01:22:44But I found out that there are more of them.
01:22:46The house is very clean.
01:22:48Everything is in its place.
01:22:50I didn't have any objections.
01:22:52And then I was calm.
01:22:54You can be okay with
01:22:56a young mother.
01:22:58That's what I want.
01:23:00And I stayed calm.
01:23:02I didn't have any problems.
01:23:04As for the family,
01:23:06you have some extraordinary parents.
01:23:08You are a lucky child.
01:23:10They support me in everything.
01:23:12Your father is into sports,
01:23:14which is in my soul,
01:23:16and so is your mother.
01:23:18We all go to the gym.
01:23:20And Iulia,
01:23:22for me,
01:23:24the main role was Iulia.
01:23:26He interested me more than anyone else.
01:23:28His behavior with me
01:23:30was very nice.
01:23:32He tried many things
01:23:34from his childhood.
01:23:36He said no or he still has
01:23:38when he wants.
01:23:40If I said, Iulia,
01:23:42this is what Maria wants...
01:23:44You explain her.
01:23:46Because if you don't listen
01:23:48and don't do as Maria says,
01:23:50you won't get out of my words.
01:23:52But automatically,
01:23:54when the grandmother
01:23:56or the grandfather came,
01:23:58he changed.
01:24:00He changes totally.
01:24:02He does what he wants.
01:24:04He knows who to take his opinion.
01:24:06Maria seemed like a very cheerful person,
01:24:08full of energy.
01:24:10I got along very well with her.
01:24:12I felt good that I knew her.
01:24:14When you do everything with pleasure,
01:24:16and you know, as a mother,
01:24:18it's not hard for me.
01:24:20Iulia, I am very happy
01:24:22that I met you.
01:24:24If you want,
01:24:26we can make a phone call
01:24:28and we can talk more.
01:24:30Let's visit each other.
01:24:32Let's make a phone call.
01:24:34Exactly.
01:24:36I liked it.
01:24:40The first one to get home
01:24:42is Iulia,
01:24:44where the emotions of the reunion
01:24:46are.
01:24:48I finally got home.
01:24:50I can't believe it.
01:24:52After such a long journey,
01:24:54I am happy that I got home.
01:24:56This experience
01:24:58was good and bad.
01:25:00I liked that
01:25:02I had the same conditions as at home,
01:25:04but I didn't like
01:25:06that I didn't have a communication partner.
01:25:08This was the biggest minus.
01:25:10I am so happy!
01:25:12Iulia, welcome!
01:25:14I missed you so much!
01:25:20Welcome!
01:25:22I am glad I found you.
01:25:24Did you miss me?
01:25:26I am glad I found you.
01:25:28I missed you a lot.
01:25:30And you are...
01:25:32Cosmic!
01:25:34Cosmic!
01:25:36How are you?
01:25:38I am fine.
01:25:40I survived.
01:25:42I survived.
01:25:44I appreciate my family more now,
01:25:46because I saw
01:25:48how it is not to have
01:25:50a father in case
01:25:52you don't have a big family
01:25:54to communicate with.
01:25:561, 2, 3 and...
01:26:04I would repeat the experience
01:26:06because in every experience
01:26:08you have something to learn.
01:26:12But she got home in time,
01:26:14where she can't wait to see her son
01:26:16and to appreciate him
01:26:18as only a mother can.
01:26:20It was a unique experience.
01:26:22I wanted to get there
01:26:24in mom's place.
01:26:26I am so glad I got home!
01:26:28God bless you!
01:26:40Hello!
01:26:42Hey, my darling!
01:26:46What are you doing in mom's place?
01:26:48How are you?
01:26:52How was it?
01:26:54Was it fun?
01:26:56God bless you!
01:26:58I found Luis a bit emotional.
01:27:00Did you miss mom?
01:27:06I want to see those tears
01:27:08you never cry!
01:27:10I want to cry!
01:27:12It's ok, we have time.
01:27:16I think he was a bit sad
01:27:18because I was not there.
01:27:20Dear mom,
01:27:22I miss you so much
01:27:24because you take care of me
01:27:26and because you are my mom.
01:27:28I hope you liked it
01:27:30in mom's place
01:27:32and you waited to come home.
01:27:34I hope you are happy!
01:27:36I love you, Luis!
01:27:38Love you, mom!
01:27:40Julia told us that Maria
01:27:42should enroll Luis
01:27:44in a sport or a team activity.
01:27:46She thinks that Maria should
01:27:48cultivate his personality.
01:27:50On the other hand,
01:27:52Luis is the luckiest
01:27:54because he is close to his parents.
01:27:56Maria says that Luis seems
01:27:58to have a lot of grandparents
01:28:00and that Julia is less independent.
01:28:02She says that her dream
01:28:04is to do cycling together soon.
01:28:06The two families
01:28:08keep in touch.
01:28:10I saw you smoking!
01:28:12Yes.
01:28:14Mom!
01:28:16The clothes in the washing machine
01:28:18were very mixed.
01:28:20Luca, where do you put them?
01:28:22Here?
01:28:24What are you doing with that wooden spoon?
01:28:26We'll burn it!
01:28:28Oh, wood!
01:28:30It's like a bird's nest
01:28:32where the fire doesn't burn.
01:28:34Let's go!