上田と女がDEEPに吠える夜 2024年10月01日 思いやりをもって性行為の同意取れていますか-性加害に傷つく人を増やさないためには-
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00:00If two people are in a love hotel and say,
00:03even if it's a situation like this,
00:05if you say, stop, it's okay, okay, it's over.
00:07I think that's sexual consent.
00:09If you stop, you have to stop.
00:11If you go further than that, it's sexual violence.
00:16What is the theme of tonight's deep?
00:18I didn't mean to go home,
00:20but that's how it went.
00:23Even if I refused, it was forced,
00:26so I went out without a charge and went home.
00:29Sexual harassment is done without consent.
00:32Is that right?
00:33That's a little scary.
00:34According to the survey data of the Ministry of the Interior,
00:36there are about 12 women who have been sexually harassed without their consent.
00:42That's a lot.
00:43Recently, awareness of sexual harassment is increasing,
00:46and the need for sexual harassment is being shouted out.
00:48Sexual consent to firmly confirm each other's feelings for sexual harassment.
00:54There's something like confirmation when you kiss or have sex.
00:59If you don't want to do it,
01:03you don't want to do it emotionally either.
01:07That's true.
01:08So the theme of tonight's deep is sexual consent.
01:12Some people are happy to have their hands held naturally,
01:17and some people don't want their hands to be touched because they don't like it.
01:20It's about personal values, so it's important to convey those values to the other person.
01:26I want you to listen to me later.
01:31I want you to have an environment where you can refuse.
01:34Recently, there was a school that taught about sexual consent in class.
01:39There was a class where I gave opinions in the classroom
01:44because there were words like this in the school's insurance class.
01:47Some girls don't want their hands to be touched,
01:51so the boys are asking if they can hug or hold their hands one at a time.
01:57That's what the boys said.
02:00On the other hand, there was an opinion like this.
02:02I don't want him to hold my hand, but I want him to pull my hand.
02:05The moment I hear that, I feel like I can't rely on him.
02:10If I take his permission one at a time, I feel awkward.
02:13I don't think I need consent to take his permission as a physical contact.
02:17So tonight, we're going to talk about sexual consent in depth.
02:21A night where a man and a woman can talk in depth!
02:27This program is a talk variety for adults with a deep theme.
02:31Today's theme is sexual consent.
02:34Maeda-san, how do you feel when you watch the VTR?
02:38I think it really depends on the relationship.
02:43Some people are more excited when they don't get permission.
02:50In the old days, we didn't have to exchange words.
02:53We had to create an atmosphere and make it smooth and smart.
02:58It was like a hot dog press.
03:01Did you read the hot dog press?
03:04That's what I was wearing.
03:06Now it's the opposite.
03:09I think it's a lesson.
03:13It's a lesson.
03:14Sherry, do you work for the Cabinet?
03:19Yes, I collaborate with the Cabinet on the importance of sexual consent.
03:24That's amazing.
03:26I was asked as a reference when I heard that Fudoi Seiko Tozai would change.
03:34First of all, what is sexual consent?
03:38This is just my opinion.
03:41When you have a sexual intercourse, you have to do it every time.
03:47I want to do it with you here.
03:53I'm sorry.
03:54I thought you were going to say something.
03:57There are a lot of people who think it's okay to get permission.
04:02When I was asked, I said,
04:05When I was asked, I said,
04:10The current standard of sexual education is to make an active consent.
04:16It may be an old way of thinking.
04:18I don't think girls will say yes.
04:22It's embarrassing, but I think it's okay.
04:25No, no, no.
04:27There was a saying in the old days.
04:30No, no, no.
04:32For example, as Mr. Okubo said,
04:34If you can communicate well without saying a word, you won't have any trouble.
04:42If you can do that well, you won't have any victims.
04:45Everyone is having fun having sex.
04:48There are a lot of victims.
04:51We need to know the situation.
04:53There are a lot of victims.
04:55We need to understand each other so that we don't harm each other.
04:59Even in a couple, there are times when you hide what you think.
05:04I hope we can figure that out.
05:07Sexual consent is necessary in a relationship.
05:11It's also necessary in a marital relationship.
05:13A couple, a marital relationship, one night, sex friend.
05:17No matter what the relationship is,
05:19Let's make sure that we want to love each other positively every time.
05:25Before we start dating,
05:28If someone asks me to hold hands,
05:32I feel like I'm going to wake up.
05:35I think it's nice to be able to hold hands,
05:39but I also want to be excited.
05:41But that's fun, isn't it?
05:43At first, it starts with a little touch.
05:46It's like this.
05:48It's like this.
05:50It's like a dark movie.
05:52It starts with a little touch.
05:55I'm getting excited just by listening to that story.
05:59Everyone has experienced it.
06:01At that time,
06:03If you pull it when it's like this,
06:05It's not yet.
06:06I think it's different.
06:07If you think you can't get away at all,
06:09You can do it.
06:10This is also a confirmation.
06:12Gradually.
06:13Gradually.
06:14I think it's a must to read the atmosphere of consent.
06:18As the relationship develops,
06:20I think you don't have to check it with words.
06:23People who are good at communication
06:25I don't think you need to check it with words from the beginning.
06:28But there's a possibility of misunderstanding.
06:30I have the power to read the atmosphere of communication.
06:34There are people who misunderstand.
06:36That's not good.
06:37That's right.
06:38So,
06:39Some people say,
06:41If you think you'll be told a lot later,
06:44I think you should definitely check it with words.
06:47That's right.
06:48That's right.
06:49Sherry, do you have any questions for Mori?
06:51It's something I sometimes do.
06:54When I'm drinking with a large number of people,
06:56When there's a man I'm a little curious about,
06:59To get a little closer,
07:01Under the table,
07:03I'm going to tap my feet.
07:05It's classic.
07:07Is there still such a person?
07:09Do you need consent?
07:11Tapping consent?
07:13I'm going to tap my feet.
07:15Tapping consent?
07:16Secretly.
07:18After tapping,
07:20I don't know if the other person will hate it.
07:21I tried tapping. How do you feel?
07:23You can tap with that feeling.
07:25Politely?
07:26That's right.
07:27That's the knock of the heart.
07:28Maeda-kun, what do you think?
07:29The girl on the other side of the table
07:31I'm going to tap my feet.
07:33That's right.
07:34I don't mind if I get it right.
07:36When it's intentional,
07:38I don't think I'm very good at it.
07:41Morikawa-san,
07:42You said your feet were smelly.
07:44You said that.
07:46Don't do it.
07:47I think it's a towel.
07:49It's like a marking.
07:51In fact,
07:52How much sexual consent do men in the world have?
07:54There is data that has been investigated.
07:56From the age of 20 to the age of 50,
07:58I asked 1,000 men and women
08:00What kind of consent do they have when they have sex with their partners?
08:02About half of the people who answered
08:04I think it's about half.
08:05Both men and women.
08:06I think there are many.
08:09I have the impression that everyone is taking it like this.
08:13I have the impression that there are many.
08:16Maeda-san, what do you think?
08:18I wonder if there are many.
08:20It depends on how long you've been dating.
08:22With that partner.
08:24Sometimes I take it in my imagination.
08:27I wonder if there are many.
08:31In the first place,
08:32I thought it was very difficult to ask.
08:34When I was asked,
08:35I thought it was a person who took it in words.
08:38I thought it was a person who took it in words.
08:41I thought it was a person who took it in words.
08:43I don't hear it in words every day.
08:45I think I'm actually taking more.
08:47If you include that.
08:49By the way, recently,
08:50Even at the production site of the drama,
08:51Even at the production site of the drama,
08:54There is also a debate.
08:57Mori-san.
08:59Have you ever been kissed on the wall?
09:01When I was in the third grade of junior high school,
09:03I was kissed for the first time.
09:06Were you happy?
09:08I was happy.
09:09I was thrilled.
09:11Now that I think about it,
09:12There was no room for consent.
09:16But I think I had an eye for consent.
09:18But I think I had an eye for consent.
09:20Maeda-kun, have you ever done it?
09:22On the train,
09:24By chance,
09:26There was a time when it happened.
09:29I thought I was on the wall.
09:32I was on the wall suddenly.
09:34Nicole, have you ever been on the wall?
09:36I don't like people who come on the wall.
09:40I see.
09:42It's scary.
09:44I'm doing this in a narrow place.
09:47It's scary and pressuring.
09:50Isn't it violent to be on the wall?
09:54If it's drawn beautifully in a girl manga,
09:58I don't want people to dream about it.
10:00I imitated it right away.
10:01You didn't hit the wall, did you?
10:03You didn't touch it, did you?
10:04Is that necessary?
10:05I was thrilled because he liked me.
10:08But if I was hit by a person who didn't like me at all,
10:10If I was hit by a person who didn't like me at all,
10:12I'm afraid of being hit.
10:15I think it's better to have the fear somewhere.
10:19I think it's better to have the fear somewhere.
10:21I agree.
10:22Mori-san, you said earlier that you were taken to a man's house by VTR.
10:26Mori-san, you said earlier that you were taken to a man's house by VTR.
10:28Have you ever done that?
10:30I went to the party and asked him to go home with me.
10:34He said, if we go in the same direction, let's take the same taxi.
10:37So I took it.
10:39The taxi arrived.
10:41I told him to go up.
10:45I think he agreed as soon as he got on the taxi.
10:51I think he agreed as soon as he got on the taxi.
10:52The hurdle of consent is too low.
10:54The hurdle of consent is too low.
10:56I went home like that.
10:59I thought it was scary.
11:00There must be people who can't go home.
11:02We're also doing a survey.
11:04Do you think going to a man's house equals sexual intercourse?
11:08The result of the survey is this.
11:12This is a big difference in perception.
11:14I don't like it.
11:16Going to a man's house equals sexual intercourse?
11:19I can't say yes.
11:20I don't know if I want to do it that day.
11:23I like it, so I enjoy being with him.
11:26I don't mind if he hugs me.
11:28I don't think I should go to a man's house.
11:31I don't go to a man's house.
11:33I don't go to a man's house.
11:35I don't go to a man's house alone.
11:37What do you think, Mayuzaki?
11:3982.5% of men say yes.
11:42I don't go to a man's house.
11:46Men and women are men.
11:49I don't think it's okay for a woman to go to a man's house.
11:55Women are women, and men think so.
11:58You have to recognize that.
12:00No.
12:01Why?
12:02The brain is strange.
12:03Mr. Ueda, you're wrong.
12:05Men are creatures that attack.
12:08If a man thinks so, a woman should understand.
12:11I don't think it's good to be violent.
12:13I think it's good to think so.
12:14In fact, it doesn't matter if you're angry or not.
12:16The message that a woman thinks so.
12:19It hurts people who have been harmed.
12:22It's bad for you.
12:24I don't think it's bad.
12:26It's to prevent further harm.
12:28That's right.
12:29It's to prevent further harm.
12:31We need to educate people not to be harmed.
12:33If everyone thinks the same way,
12:35it doesn't mean you can have sex at home.
12:38I think we should tell everyone that.
12:41For example, you two went to the hotel.
12:44Don't think you accepted it.
12:47That's wrong, too.
12:48It's not good to say no.
12:51It's not good to say no.
12:53It's not good to say no.
12:57You two went to the hotel.
13:00Don't think you accepted it.
13:03That's wrong, too.
13:04You two went to the hotel.
13:07If you say no, it's okay.
13:10If you say no, it's okay.
13:13If you stop at any time, you have to stop.
13:17If you go any further, it's sexual violence.
13:21If you say no, it's sexual violence.
13:24It's not good to stop at any time.
13:27It's not good to stop at any time.
13:30It's not good to stop at any time.
13:33It's not good to stop at any time.
13:34But you had to accept the sexual intention.
13:39Yes, you had to accept the sexual intention.
13:42That's right.
13:44We have to accept.
13:47Being accepted is important.
14:20Even if you don't want to do it, if you say it's okay and go from a woman, that's consent.
14:25And what's really important is that when you make sexual consent,
14:28I think there are times when you forcibly hold hands or kiss.
14:31If you think you can do it, you're wrong.
14:34At that time, the important thing is to say,
14:35I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I made a mistake.
14:37I'm sorry, I hurt you.
14:40Why?
14:41Because that's what it was like.
14:43You can't do it the other way around.
14:45I think it's important to imagine that you may be refused.
14:49How about you, Nicole?
14:51When you can't do it, you can't do it.
14:53When I can't do it, I'm the type to say I can't do it.
14:56But if you just say no, I think you'll hurt the other person.
15:01I'm trying to follow.
15:03I don't feel like that today.
15:05But I like you.
15:07If it's a hug today, I can do it.
15:09Let's hug and sleep.
15:10That's nice.
15:11But if that's the case, you'll get hurt.
15:13I'm trying to do that.
15:14Good relationship.
15:15Can Mori-san say no?
15:17If I really don't like it, I'll say no.
15:20But sometimes I say no.
15:23It's not really no.
15:25Isn't there such a thing?
15:27There is.
15:28I don't say it right away.
15:29I want to say no once.
15:31Sometimes I want a second confirmation.
15:34Should I stop this?
15:36I think it's really a communication ability.
15:39The difference between saying no and saying no.
15:43When I think he's messing around, I say no.
15:46Let's all learn the ability to communicate.
15:50There was a time when we had a drinking party.
15:52I went to his house because I thought he might have something today.
15:55I said, I'll go today.
15:57I was excited.
15:58But when we were drinking at home, I thought he was different.
16:01I didn't like it.
16:02The meter was going down.
16:03When I thought he wasn't going to do it today,
16:05I took it as a weapon to say no to him.
16:09I usually say no.
16:12I usually say no.
16:14It's too much.
16:15It's too much.
16:16How do you say no to him?
16:18What if he's not in the mood today?
16:21I'm serious.
16:22I want to tell him that I care about him, but I don't want to change this relationship.
16:28What if he says he won't do it today?
16:31What should I say?
16:32If he's tired, I want to love him more.
16:38Can I sleep a little today?
16:43I'll look forward to it tomorrow.
16:45Please look forward to it.
16:47It's a big hurdle.
16:49Please look forward to it.
16:51It's hard.
16:52Of course, it's best to avoid it in words.
16:56But sometimes words are dangerous.
16:58You have to get rid of the life-and-death trouble.
17:02What should I do to get rid of the life-and-death trouble?
17:07That's it.
17:11I think I should do more school classes.
17:14There was a class on how to put on a condom.
17:17Really?
17:18In junior high school.
17:19We are also waiting for your favorite registration.
17:24We are looking for your concerns.
17:27It's hard to say to your family and friends, but if you have any concerns, please contact us.
17:34It's best to avoid it in words.
17:38But sometimes words are dangerous.
17:40You have to get rid of the life-and-death trouble.
17:44What should I do to get rid of the life-and-death trouble?
17:49It's an active consent.
17:51For example, there are a lot of Japanese works in which a child who says Yan Yan is very happy.
17:59If you don't feel happy from the beginning, you won't be happy in the end.
18:04Everyone should be aware of this.
18:06The person who confirms it is not only the words, but also the way the other person speaks and the expression.
18:11For example, if you confirm that your body is tense, you will have a lot of fun.
18:23That's right.
18:25When I talk to my friends, they talk about taboos.
18:30It's a taboo.
18:31It's a taboo to hide because it's embarrassing.
18:34I think I should do more school classes.
18:38When I was in junior high school, there was a class on how to put on a condom.
18:43In fact, sexual consent is often said to be scary.
18:48I think it will reduce the trouble if we understand the whole generation to confirm whether the other person is happy or enjoying it.
19:00Maeda-kun, it was a difficult theme. How was it?
19:04It was deep.
19:07It was a deep theme, but I learned a lot from it.
19:14Finally, Maeda-san, please tell us about your work.
19:16I will be starring in the new musical Misen, which will be released in January next year.
19:21It is the first stage play of Misen, which is also a big hit in Korea.
19:27It's a work that gives you energy to do your best tomorrow, so please come to the theater.
19:32The next theme is the reset of human relations.
19:36I've deleted my LINE account so many times that I can't even count it.
19:40Every time I get older, I feel like I'm living a new life and delete all my LINE accounts.
19:45Please look forward to it.