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00:00Something that will empower us
00:16It's very difficult
00:18How long did it take you to learn?
00:20It doesn't take much
00:23The details, I need to practice
00:25Try it, make mistakes, practice again
00:31Do you want to teach me?
00:34Yes, do you like it?
00:35Yes
00:37Okay, but if you're interested, we'll do it together
00:40I don't want to stay the same
00:42We'll sit here every day for 2-3 hours
00:44From here until you leave, we'll focus
00:48Okay?
00:50Yes
00:55What if I don't want to leave?
00:58What if I don't want to leave?
01:04What do you mean?
01:06If you're okay with it
01:08And you don't have any problem
01:13I want to stay with you in Egypt
01:17For a year
01:19For example
01:20Do you know how we're going to do it?
01:29I thought about it
01:31I think about it every day
01:38Okay, let's talk about it one by one
01:42How are you going to do it?
01:45I can finish it here
01:48I saw online there's a lot of schools that are international that I can do
01:54Okay
01:56Makes sense
01:59I lived with her for 16 years
02:05Now I want to live with you for a year
02:09For a year
02:13I was going to leave the house after 2 years
02:17So it doesn't make that much of a difference
02:19Okay, but you know that if you live here, you won't live alone
02:24I know
02:27Can I stay with my grandpa?
02:32He's not older than me
02:34I know
02:35Never
02:36Never
02:38But I was thinking
02:41For Salma and everything
02:43It's easier if I stay with them
02:47My grandpa's house is bigger
02:50I'm sorry, the house isn't ready for you
02:53No, it's okay
02:56Okay, one more thing
02:58Do you understand that when you go somewhere on vacation, it's different from what you live in?
03:04When you go to a country on vacation, you see nice places, but when you live there, it's different
03:13And I'm not trying to scare you
03:17I just don't want you to make a hasty, emotional decision without thinking about the rest of the rules
03:26I'm thinking with you, not with my voice
03:35It's nice to have a dad
03:43My friends at school, they're always saying
03:46Dad's this, dad's that, dad's up, dad's down
03:53I was really upset
03:56I don't know why I was upset
03:59But
04:02I've never had this feeling before
04:10Now I know it's possible
04:18A girl needs her dad
04:21From the minute she's born
04:29Julia, I'm
04:39I'm very sorry
04:41It's okay
04:44I have him now
04:46Yeah
04:49You do?
04:50You do?
05:03Both
05:06Okay
05:20Okay
05:28Okay
05:50Okay
06:03Bye, see you soon
06:06Okay
06:20Okay
06:30I still love you
06:36And I love you
06:38So good
06:43But
06:46I'm sorry
06:50I can't
06:55I'm sorry
06:59I'm sorry
07:04I'm sorry
07:07I'm sorry
07:11I'm sorry
07:13I'm not
07:15I don't know what I'm saying
07:17I mean, I just don't know what to think of you, I just want to know how you feel about me.
07:34I don't know. I mean, I don't feel like I'm supposed to say what I feel about you, honestly.
07:42I mean, I just don't know what to think of you, I just want to know how you feel about me, honestly.
07:52I just feel like I need some time to understand you, to understand my story, and you too.
08:02We need to think about how this decision will affect our lives, understand my story.
08:13Let's take things easy.
08:17Yeah, after what happened.
08:24It's okay.
08:28What's this? Hi Adam, come in.
08:29Hi, how are you?
08:30Thank God, how are you?
08:32I'm fine, I just wanted to give them a kiss before they go to sleep.
08:38What's going on?
08:40The kids went to bed early.
08:43Really?
08:44Yeah.
08:46Okay, I'll go upstairs.
08:51What's this?
08:52No, it's a pillow.
08:54A pillow? Why?
08:56To sleep.
08:57Why would I need this?
08:59Because you acted.
09:01No, of course not.
09:03Are you going to tell me something like this? Are you going to sleep on your own?
09:06No.
09:08Okay.
09:14Peace be upon you.
09:15Peace be upon you too.
09:18What's going on?
09:19I think it's the morning.
09:21I tried to hold it in, but I don't know how many days I have left.
09:25If I can't hold it in, what's going on?
09:28What's going on?
09:30Sir?
09:32No, I can't hold it in.
09:34The teacher told me to make you some tea, but it's a little heavy.
09:41Okay.
09:42And then I think I'd like some old waffles.
09:46Waffles?
09:50Yeah, waffles.
09:52Waffles or waffles.
09:54But the teacher isn't here, so I don't want to tell her.
09:57Okay, I understand.
09:59Go ahead.
10:02Can I have your T-shirt?
10:05Yes, you wanted it.
10:07No, I got it cut.
10:10And if you want me to get you the T-shirt, you have to cut it.
10:14What's going on?
10:16I'll tell you another time, I'm busy.
10:18No, no, go ahead.
10:22Adam, can you come down?
10:25I'm fine, he's probably almost done.
10:27No, no, I'll stay with you.
10:31No, seriously, I'm fine.
10:33I'm used to him staying with me.
10:35He comes home a few times.
10:36No, of course not.
10:38So you'll stay with him?
10:40Of course.
10:41When he's done, I'll go down.
10:43I don't have anything else to do.
10:45What's the name of the cow?
10:47It's called Teflon, by the way.
10:50What?
10:52Teflon.
10:54It's a cow that's stuck in water.
10:58I know, I know.
10:59Why didn't you bring it with you?
11:00You're not the one to blame.
11:01You didn't come to work.
11:02Why didn't you bring your tools with you?
11:03I'm not blaming you.
11:04It's my cow that's stuck in water.
11:06You're the animal, the cow or the prophet.
11:08In the drawer next to you.
11:10The first drawer.
11:18I'll make him some tea.
11:19Do you want to come and drink?
11:21Morning tea?
11:26Okay, I can drink anise tea.
11:28Anise tea?
11:29Anise tea.
11:30Anise tea is good.
11:31Anise tea calms the nerves.
11:35Thank God you're okay.
11:36Thank God I'm okay.
11:40Why?
11:42I don't know.
11:43When I came to pick up the cow,
11:45I found myself alone with my family.
11:47I told them you were traveling with your wife.
11:49Thank God you're okay.
11:50I came twice to fix the cow.
11:53And they didn't fix it.
11:56This is a big issue.
11:58We have to solve the problem of the cow.
12:02It's a burden.
12:04It's a part of the world.
12:07It needs a long day.
12:09Every time he comes, he's in a hurry.
12:12It's not good.
12:14I want to get a cow and some tools.
12:20And fix the world.
12:26I have to go.
12:28Okay.
12:50Salma asked me if I was attached to her.
12:53I thought it was emotional.
12:57But at the same time,
12:58there was something illogical about her.
13:00I didn't know her for two weeks.
13:03But I didn't know she was my daughter.
13:07Sharif, what do you do when you're alone?
13:11I think about my brain.
13:14I've noticed this a few times.
13:16When you feel something,
13:18you stop and think about your brain.
13:21That's it.
13:22What do you think you're doing?
13:24I want my thoughts to precede my emotions.
13:30Both are important.
13:32But I want my thoughts to precede my emotions.
13:35If I give everything to my emotions,
13:37I feel like I'm out of control.
13:40Okay.
13:41What do you feel when you're attached to Julia?
13:44What do you feel?
13:48I feel proud.
13:52At the same time,
13:54when I don't feel proud,
13:56I feel guilty.
14:01Because I know I don't have the right to feel proud.
14:06Why do you feel guilty?
14:08Why?
14:09What's the reason?
14:10Because I wasn't her father.
14:12I wasn't there when she was 16.
14:14How do you see your parents, Sharif?
14:16I've never seen them.
14:17I've never thought about it.
14:19All you need to do is to be there.
14:22Since you were there,
14:24even for a short period of time,
14:26what do you want to do now?
14:29Tell me without thinking.
14:31I want her to be there.
14:34And?
14:38And I'm afraid.
14:39Afraid of what?
14:43I'm afraid I'll neglect my duty to Salma.
14:47I'm also afraid that her presence and my voice
14:51will make me unable to overcome this guilt.
14:55If you don't feel guilty,
14:57how will this affect your relationship?
15:00It will affect it negatively.
15:02Do you agree with me
15:04that if we understand this guilt and deal with it,
15:07it will be in Julia's interest
15:09before it's even in yours?
15:11It's possible.
15:12Let's go back to the trip.
15:14You told me that you were following her.
15:17She was the one doing all the actions.
15:20What was the result for you?
15:24It had a very good effect.
15:28It was strange because I'm not used to not having control over things.
15:36Are you still convinced that your refusal to go back
15:39has nothing to do with the old issue with Eman?
15:45No.
15:47No, what?
15:49No, I'm still not convinced.
15:53I'm really confused.
15:55He's giving me the exact opposite signals.
15:58Sometimes I feel like he's doing everything
16:01because he really cares.
16:03And sometimes I feel like he's doing everything to fulfill his duty.
16:06But sometimes I feel like Dalia is dead.
16:09I'll marry her tomorrow.
16:10And then sometimes I feel like she's not there at all.
16:13It's driving me crazy.
16:14I don't understand.
16:15I feel like he's playing with me.
16:17By the way, he might be a really stupid person.
16:20He's not playing with you.
16:24Yes, things aren't all black and white.
16:26Sometimes the grey in the middle is much more.
16:30And honestly, I can't blame him.
16:33Because he's been through a lot
16:35when you're judging things so quickly.
16:37He also rushed to position himself
16:40so that he can deal with you.
16:41Are you going to say that I'm judging people?
16:43Yes, yes.
16:45You don't even think about what's in front of you
16:47and what they're telling you.
16:49We can't just judge people like that.
16:51I love him.
16:52I swear I love him.
16:54Anyway, leave Adam alone.
16:57You're the one who needs to be alone.
16:59You don't have to be with someone.
17:00You should be with Adam.
17:01You can be alone for a while.
17:03Because if you get into any other relationship,
17:05you'll be alone.
17:07And if you go back to Adam,
17:08you'll go back to the comfort zone, not to Adam himself.
17:10Do you understand what I mean?
17:11You need to be alone for a while
17:12to see if you really need to go back to Adam or not.
17:17Hi, Jareef.
17:19When did you get here?
17:21Ramon, this is going to be a complicated situation.
17:23I don't know what we're going to do.
17:24My love is shining.
17:27It's a spacious place, God willing.
17:29Your wife loves the garden a lot.
17:32What's the right to be stubborn?
17:34That's what we're talking about.
17:35Me and Maggie are obsessed with it
17:37and we want to eat it like this.
17:40Who is my love?
17:42Mom, you reassure me.
17:46Salma,
17:48do you accept the topic or not?
17:51I don't know.
17:53This morning, she told me she was fine.
17:55But I can't say how serious I feel.
17:58And of course, I need time to get used to it.
18:05You too, my love.
18:07Time to get used to it.
18:10There are a lot of things
18:12that you need to think about.
18:13How are you going to deal with them?
18:14I'm thinking about the topic.
18:15I'm thinking about...
18:17I'm thinking about my job, for example.
18:18What am I going to do?
18:19No, I didn't mean to, Jareef.
18:20I didn't mean to.
18:22The other thing is more important.
18:24You have to think about
18:26where you're going to send her to school,
18:28where you're going to live,
18:30her expenses,
18:32what she eats and drinks.
18:34But the other thing is very important.
18:36Her name, for example.
18:40Your daughter.
18:41You have to give her your name.
18:43I mean, there are a lot of details,
18:45but I don't want to get things mixed up.
18:48I didn't mix them up.
18:50And that's enough for me.
18:52No, my love.
18:53I'm just saying.
18:56Jareef, this is not a complicated thing, of course.
18:59Can you imagine...
19:01Dad, I...
19:03I...
19:04I...
19:07I understand the size of the decision.
19:08I understand the responsibility.
19:10I understand that this is not a temporary thing.
19:12And believe me,
19:13I don't want it to be temporary.
19:16Aren't you sure about the decision you made?
19:20Do you feel like you can take care of your daughter at her age?
19:24Take care of your husband and your life?
19:27Is that going to be hard?
19:32I know it's not easy.
19:35But I decided to go after my feelings.
19:38And what do your feelings tell you?
19:40They tell me what my parents did to me when I was young.
19:44It's impossible for me to be patient with what Jareef did to his daughter.
19:49I mean, if Julia didn't have to be with her dad now,
19:53what would be the priority?
19:59And you?
20:00And you?
20:02Where are you in the priority list?
20:05I know where I am.
20:09And I feel like...
20:12there's no problem if I take two steps back and look at the bigger picture.
20:18And I'm sure that Jareef won't let me take many steps back.
20:23And Jareef alone.
20:25I'm also there.
20:28Always.
20:30Always.
20:36I'm more lonely in this world than my other mom.
20:41Or my first mom.
20:43You're my love.
20:53I love you.
20:54I love you too.
20:55I love you too.
20:59Let's leave it like this.
21:01Let's leave it like this.
21:04Let's finish the look.
21:06Look at the contest.
21:08The deadline for the designs is October.
21:10We still have time if we want to submit it.
21:14I don't know, Dalia.
21:16I feel like...
21:18I can't stay long in the contests.
21:21Why not?
21:22We can work in the office until we get the project.
21:25Okay.
21:26That's great, but...
21:29I don't feel like it.
21:31I'll tell you what.
21:32Focus.
21:33Focus on today's work.
21:34What do you think about going to the movies?
21:37That's a great idea.
21:39But it started today.
21:41Because today is a bit difficult.
21:44Why? Is there a problem?
21:45No, there's no problem at all.
21:47But Jareef...
21:49Do you know Jareef?
21:50Yes.
21:51He invited us to meet a man and a woman at his house.
21:55Why didn't you tell me we were invited?
21:57I didn't do my math today.
22:01I forgot.
22:02I'm sorry.
22:04I'm really sorry.
22:05But if you're not ready, we can't go.
22:07We can't.
22:10No, we can't go.
22:12Salma and Jareef are close to you.
22:14It's a shame we don't go after they invite us.
22:22Jareef...
22:23I'm telling you, I'm in a very strange situation right now.
22:27Dali is coming to my house.
22:29I'm really worried.
22:30She thought she was invited.
22:32I'm telling you, she's coming.
22:33So please tell me what to do.
22:35Don't call me or text me.
22:38Text me.
22:40Bye.
22:51Bye.
22:57Did you put sugar in it?
22:58No.
22:59There's no sugar.
23:04That's not enough, Ana.
23:07I won't be back before he gets here.
23:10I'm afraid he'll be upset.
23:12Don't worry.
23:13On the contrary.
23:14He's not upset.
23:16But what about you, Ibrahim?
23:18Aren't we much better than before?
23:21No problems.
23:22No fights.
23:23And here we are.
23:24Lovers more than before.
23:27When we sit together.
23:28We talk.
23:30And say nice things.
23:31Isn't it better than before?
23:32What about the fun?
23:34What fun, man?
23:35At home, we'd fight each other.
23:38We'd only meet during fights.
23:41Fun isn't between four walls, Ibrahim.
23:44I know fun isn't between four walls.
23:48We used to live together between four walls.
23:51But we were all on our own.
23:54The distance between us grew day by day.
23:58And I didn't try to break it.
24:00But I finally understood the lesson.
24:03I understood it.
24:05But it was too late.
24:06But I understood it.
24:09But I didn't try to teach you, Ibrahim.
24:12I know you didn't try to teach me.
24:14I learned on my own.
24:15I learned on my own.
24:17I learned on my own.
24:19People really are like that.
24:21They don't learn unless they take it to their heads.
24:24I don't have anything to give you to your head, Ibrahim.
24:27Look, what we have now is all good and a good life.
24:31Let's keep it that way.
24:37You see?
24:39Believe me.
24:41It's better for me and better for you, Ibrahim.
24:46Look, I'm not going to leave.
24:48I'm not going to leave.
24:50And I'm going to keep thinking about you, by the way.
24:53So you don't get upset and I don't think about you.
24:58Okay, Ibrahim.
25:00Think as you please.
25:04Do I need sugar?
25:06No, there's no sugar.
25:08Okay.
25:09Here.
25:14Are you okay with him?
25:16Yes, I'm okay.
25:17That's great.
25:19Where are Nadine and Adam?
25:21I mean, where are Nadine and Adam?
25:23They're supposed to be here.
25:25I'll go talk to them.
25:28Seriously, Julia, I don't have time.
25:30Everyone your age wants me to travel outside of Egypt.
25:33And you came to sit in Egypt?
25:34Yes.
25:36Right, I'm serious.
25:37Julia, what are you going to do?
25:39I haven't decided yet.
25:40I'm going to think with Sherif.
25:42You're the one who's going to decide?
25:44You're really weird.
25:45Do you know Aslim, my son?
25:47He's the one who makes all the decisions.
25:48No, I'm not.
25:49Liar.
25:52He's crazy.
25:54I'm going to call Nadine so she doesn't get scared.
25:57Nadine.
25:58Laila.
25:59Welcome.
26:00How are you?
26:01How are you?
26:02How are you?
26:03How are you?
26:04What do you want?
26:05Anything.
26:06Can I go to the toilet?
26:07Yes, of course.
26:08Okay.
26:11Amiri.
26:12How are you?
26:13How are you?
26:14How are you?
26:17Sherif.
26:18Are you kidding me?
26:19I brought her with me.
26:21Are you mad at me?
26:22What do you mean?
26:23Yes, I'm mad at you.
26:24I'll call you when I talk to Nadine.
26:25Go ahead.
26:31Hi, it's Luca.
26:32It's been five minutes and I left.
26:33What do you mean you left?
26:35Something happened.
26:37What?
26:38Do you want me to bring you something?
26:40No, it's not that.
26:42Adam came with Dalia.
26:49I swear to God, I didn't invite her.
26:51I was surprised.
26:52She has nothing to do with me.
26:53I just wanted to introduce you.
26:54I gave you the option so you wouldn't be surprised.
27:04Okay.
27:05I'm leaving.
27:08I'm not coming, okay?
27:11I'm sorry.
27:13No, my dear.
27:14It's okay.
27:33Hi.
28:03My son is a nice guy, is he?
28:07This cat shouldn't be in the winter.
28:12It's very snowy in the winter.
28:19The winter is coming.
28:20He can come again.
28:33It's Nadine.
28:34Hi, Kamel.
28:35Nadine.
28:36Hi.
28:37Hi.
28:38I've been looking.
28:40Hi.
28:41Hi.
28:42Hi.
28:43Nelly.
28:44Nadine.
28:45Hi, Nelly.
28:46Hello.
28:47Hi.
28:48Hi.
28:49Hi.
28:50Hi.
28:51Hi.
28:52Hi.
28:53Hi.
28:54Hi.
28:55Hi.
28:56Hi.
28:57Hi.
28:58Hi.
28:59Hi.
29:00Hi.
29:01Hi.
29:02Hi, Nadine.
29:03Hi, Amal.
29:04Hi, Kamel.
29:05Ah.
29:06Hi.
29:07Hi.
29:08How are you?
29:09Here's Nadine.
29:10How's work?
29:11Shit.
29:12No problem.
29:13You hungry?
29:14Sure like me Nadine.
29:15Nutella?
29:16Lovely.
29:17It's gonna melt down in your mouth.
29:18We didn't say anything.
29:19Yeah.
29:20Even in baby showers.
29:21Now.
29:22Sleeping in the morning.
29:24At 9.
29:25Hi.
29:26Hi.
29:27I told you, she's cute.
29:30I'm going to make a salad for Nadine and she's going to love it.
29:33No, no, no. No strawberries because Nadine has a bad stomach.
29:40No, but I can eat the salad and remove the strawberries.
29:43I want to see what Julia is doing.
29:52Look, like this.
29:58Nadine, congratulations on the podcast. It's great.
30:01But I can't watch it in the car.
30:03Thank you. God bless you, Oum.
30:05But I don't care anymore.
30:07Can someone come with me to the podcast?
30:09This is a charity.
30:11Are you talking about the injury or what?
30:13What injury? What are you talking about?
30:15I mean, not until she gets married.
30:17I'm telling you, you're going to cause us trouble.
30:19Don't change the subject.
30:21By the way, I don't cause any trouble.
30:23The guests are the ones who talk, they're the ones who cause trouble.
30:25My daughter, I hope you don't hear anything and just stay up all night.
30:29That's it? That's it?
30:31What does the podcast talk about?
30:33About failed relationships.
30:45But Nadine was telling me that in season 2 there will be celebrities, right?
30:49Yes, that's nice.
30:51Oh, really? Is there a season 2?
30:53Season 2?
30:55Yes, God willing.
30:57I'm hungry.
30:59Where is my episode? I want to hear it.
31:01My daughter, shut up.
31:03I already removed half of your episode in the editing.
31:05What do you want me to do?
31:23I'm hungry.
31:53I'm hungry.
32:23I'm hungry.
32:25I'm hungry.
32:53I'm hungry.
33:23I'm hungry.
33:53I'm hungry.
33:55I'm hungry.
34:23So you're here.
34:25I'm here, let's continue.
34:27Good night.
34:29Bye.
34:33Hidayet's drunk so Julia's not here.
34:35We convinced him and we're all going to his place tomorrow.
34:37And I told him this.
34:39So did they break up or not?
34:41No, they got a little drunk.
34:45It's okay.
34:49Good night.
34:51I was going to tell you thank you for everything you did for Julia in the past few days.
34:59I didn't do anything.
35:01What are you talking about?
35:03No, no, you were amazing.
35:05I don't know how to do half of what you did.
35:11For what?
35:13For everything.
35:21I'm sorry, but you...
35:25I'm not going to tell you anything else.
35:27I'm going to tell you when I feel like you're ready.
35:31I'm sure we're ready.
35:41I love you.
35:43I love you too.
35:45I love you.
35:47I love you too.
35:51I love you too.
35:57Why are your hands shaking?
35:59Why do relationships break?
36:03That's a question of existence.
36:05It takes a lot of thinking.
36:07Have you ever thought about it?
36:09Of course I have.
36:11I've thought about it a lot in other questions.
36:15For example, I want to understand my personality.
36:19Because of my job.
36:21My job is all about relationships.
36:23Emotions, feelings, relationships between people.
36:27Of course.
36:29I can tell you that I've reached a point.
36:31We'll never reach a complete answer to this question.
36:33But I can tell you that I've reached a point.
36:35Because of my life experience.
36:37And my personal experience.
36:39We know that not all people are like each other.
36:41And not all relationships are like each other.
36:43In your opinion,
36:45give us a summary.
36:47Summary?
36:49If there was a summary, no one would say it.
36:51You're right.
36:53Let me help you a little.
36:55Your previous guests talked about
36:57the culture of apology.
37:01The importance of expression.
37:03In your opinion,
37:05what do you want to talk about?
37:07You've talked about great things.
37:11Can we talk about
37:15change?
37:19Yes.
37:21I can tell you that we're changing
37:23but we don't realize it.
37:25For example,
37:27when we're in a relationship,
37:29we change but we don't realize it.
37:31Because everything around us changes.
37:33So we have to change.
37:35Politics changes, streets change,
37:37economy changes,
37:39art changes.
37:41But the problem is that we don't realize
37:43that we're changing.
37:45For example,
37:47my relationship with my job.
37:49I used to go to work
37:51to fulfill myself,
37:53to have ambitions.
37:55Today, my relationship with my job is different.
37:57Today, I go to work to enjoy myself,
37:59to leave something valuable.
38:01So I don't say time.
38:03We grow.
38:05Mr. Majid, please don't say that we grow.
38:07No, I'm sorry.
38:09I didn't mean that you grow.
38:11You don't grow.
38:13The important thing here is that
38:15when we grow,
38:17relationships grow.
38:19When we change,
38:21relationships change.
38:23The key to the relationship here
38:25is that I accept the idea
38:27that I've changed,
38:29and the one in front of me has changed,
38:31without feeling that he has let me down.
38:33So if we admit this idea,
38:35we'll be at ease.
38:37But of course,
38:39we're looking for candles
38:41to light up the problems of the relationship.
38:43To light up the candles
38:45like us.
38:47Because if there are no candles,
38:49what will be in front of us?
38:51We'll admit it.
38:53We'll face it.
38:55Who has the courage to face it?
38:57The courage to face oneself
38:59or to face the other side?
39:01To face oneself, of course.
39:03That's the hardest part.
39:05Facing oneself is much harder.
39:07Because if I face myself,
39:09will I accept the change in the other side?
39:11What is the most
39:13that changes in men?
39:15I mean, ladies
39:17are known for their
39:19pregnancy,
39:21childbearing,
39:23and upbringing.
39:25But we understand what's going on.
39:27Men also change
39:29with pregnancy,
39:31childbearing, and upbringing.
39:33How?
39:35Not like women, of course.
39:37But men change with pregnancy.
39:39They take on new responsibilities.
39:41They face a new creature in life.
39:43It's a scary responsibility.
39:45It's a scary thing.
39:47That's what happened to me.
39:49When I first found out
39:51that my wife was pregnant in 1995,
39:53I was upset.
39:55I didn't have cell phones.
39:57I was with Dr. Mohammad Radwan
39:59at the theater.
40:01I found out about the pregnancy
40:03and I was hysterical.
40:05I panicked.
40:07He said,
40:09you don't always say
40:11thank God
40:13for everything.
40:15I said, yes, of course,
40:17thank God,
40:19but where did this come from?
40:21It's not his time yet.
40:23It's a scary responsibility.
40:25There's a theory
40:27called the 7th year.
40:29Have you ever heard of it?
40:31The 7th year of pregnancy.
40:33Do you know the problems
40:35that couples face in the 7th year?
40:37Of course, I know.
40:39Did you go through the 7th year?
40:41Of course.
40:43Did you go through the 7th year?
40:45Of course.
40:47The 7th year was a mess.
40:49It had consequences before and after.
40:51You need to be determined.
40:53Bravo, determination.
40:55Can I put on my glasses?
40:57Of course.
40:59You're beautiful.
41:01You're beautiful.
41:03I'm getting gooseflesh.
41:05You're beautiful.
41:09I thank you.
41:11She's not coming back.
41:13I know it.
41:15This is exactly what I was afraid of.
41:17I'm telling you it's not going to happen.
41:19We already agreed on everything.
41:21She's going to come visit every couple of months,
41:23whenever she has a vacation.
41:25She won't. I get it.
41:27Do a very good job being her mom
41:30Emma Emma you did an amazing job. I mean it
41:37the girl is
41:39amazing and
41:42After spending the last couple of weeks with her I get why you would be so afraid of losing her I get it and
41:48I promise you I'm not gonna let it happen
41:57And Emma one last thing
42:01Since these are Julia's wishes and of course if you allow me
42:07She's gonna have two parents from now on
42:10So maybe this is a chance for you to be more of a friend for her
42:16I know I'm in I'm in no position to give advice. I'm just letting you know that
42:21Maybe I can help
42:28I'm sorry. Yes. Do you still hate me for telling her?
42:37No, I'm I don't I
42:40Really don't and the only thing I hate is actually missing out on those 16 years
42:49But I
42:52promised myself that I'm
42:54Not gonna look back for her sake
42:57and
42:58I'm gonna put all my energy in in figuring out how to make it up for her
43:05So let's do that
43:10Sure, okay, we'll talk soon
43:27I
43:57Must have it's not what I said
43:59Yes, I'm happy
44:02When I'm gonna be a big deal man, I'm gonna say this one
44:10I'm sorry
44:12It'll be a bad man. I'm a little short. I'll be here when I'm careful. That's it
44:18Oh
44:48You should give up and let him handle it for you.
44:50He already admitted his mistakes.
44:54I need to go.
44:56If you'll excuse me, I have to go.
44:59Okay, can we talk about something else?
45:01Yes.
45:03About the podcast.
45:04What about it?
45:06Just for the celebrities.
45:07I don't think anyone else can be on it with you.
45:11I have a plan, by the way.
45:14I can give you a tour.
45:18♪
45:25♪
45:28I'll give you 15 minutes.
45:30Okay.
45:31♪
45:35Our guest today is Adam.
45:37♪
45:41Tell me, Adam.
45:43Why do relationships fail?
45:47I'm not going to talk about why relationships fail or fail.
45:51I'm going to talk about how relationships don't fail.
45:56Okay.
45:57Nice twist.
45:59How do relationships not fail?
46:02As time goes by, the relationship turns into a battlefield.
46:06Two people, each standing on one side.
46:10Each thinking about how to win over the other.
46:14We're on the same page.
46:18Each one working on how to win.
46:23Win a fight, win a fight.
46:26In order for relationships not to fail,
46:29we have to learn how to win a fight.
46:33Win a fight.
46:35Yes.
46:37How do we win a fight?
46:39First of all, we don't have to.
46:42The goal is to win the fight.
46:45No.
46:46The goal is not to lose the other because of the fight.
46:51It's important that we win.
46:54It's important that we put everything in front of us
46:57so that we can protect each other.
47:00So that we can see each other's feelings.
47:02What do we win?
47:04A world cup in marital fights?
47:07It's important.
47:10The problem is that sometimes in these situations,
47:15you can't control your mind.
47:20You say things that hurt you.
47:24That make you angry.
47:27That hurt you.
47:30And the word, I'm sorry, doesn't always fix the situation.
47:34You're right.
47:36That's why we have to practice.
47:39If the relationship is worth it,
47:41and we're still in it,
47:43if you're 100% sure that he loves you,
47:47and wants you, and shares the relationship,
47:50you'll find yourself.
47:52You'll put in the effort to keep it.
47:54If you're both in it,
47:56you want to be together.
47:58But sometimes a person needs to talk.
48:03To feel, to hear.
48:08Without the person in front of him
48:10being embarrassed by what he says,
48:12or belittling him.
48:14You're right.
48:16It's very important.
48:18But the problem is that people talk a lot.
48:22The problem can't be that you don't talk at all.
48:26Then we should talk to each other?
48:28No, but the way, the timing,
48:31there are small details.
48:33We need a catalogue to deal with you.
48:36It's a disaster that you don't have a catalogue.
48:39And you have a catalogue?
48:41There's no catalogue, okay?
48:43I'm sorry.
48:45Okay.
48:46But the problem is that
48:49the two of you talk to each other,
48:52but you don't hear each other.
48:54Each person talks,
48:56and doesn't hear anything but his voice.
48:58The word responds to itself.
49:00They sit at the same table,
49:02and talk to each other.
49:05But jealousy, anger,
49:09arrogance,
49:11the negative thoughts that control their minds,
49:14they really don't hear each other.
49:21Maybe people need to talk
49:24from the beginning,
49:26before they reach this stage.
49:28Right?
49:30Okay?
49:32Either it's too early, or it's too late.
49:36There's something else.
49:40I want us to remember some good things.
49:43Not the bad things.
49:47Love.
49:49Love.
49:54Love.
50:24Love creates miracles.
50:27Yes.
50:28It's said that people follow it.
50:31But what is this?
50:3522 years.
50:38A miracle?
50:46And you think that love
50:50can last 22 years?
50:55I can't say for sure.
50:59But okay.
51:21I love you.
51:33I love you too.
51:50Ready?
51:56Yeah.
52:21It's easy to discover
52:25if you put yourself in the person in front of you.
52:35I'm wearing his glasses.
52:45The show is over.
52:48The show is over.
52:52How do you say that in the recording?
52:55Recording?
52:57Do you think I'm recording?
53:00Are you recording?
53:01Of course not.
53:02No, I'm not.
53:03I swear.
53:05That's great.
53:07What about the performance?
53:10The performance?
53:12We're talking about the performance.
53:14Of course.
53:16That's a great idea.
53:18So...
53:21When are you recording the show?
53:27The show...
53:30Was it a show?
53:32Of course it was.
53:42I don't know.
53:46I don't know.
53:49I don't remember.
53:55But I can think.
53:59I don't remember.
54:03I don't know.
54:06I can't think.
54:09I don't know.
54:16I don't know.