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00:00Love is often portrayed as a magical force that conquers all, but let's be real, love is messy,
00:06unpredictable, and sometimes downright painful. You might think you can control every aspect of
00:12your relationship, but that's a dangerous illusion. The truth is you can only control
00:18your own actions, reactions, and emotions. Trying to control your partner or the outcomes
00:23of your relationship will only lead to frustration and heartache. If you're constantly trying to mold
00:29your partner into your ideal version, you're setting yourself up for disappointment.
00:35They are their own person with their own will and desires. Instead, focus on what you can control,
00:42your communication, your kindness, and your boundaries. By letting go of the need to
00:49control everything, you'll find more peace and a deeper connection with your partner.
00:55You can't control whether your partner loves you the way you want to be loved.
00:59You can't dictate their feelings or their actions. You can only influence them by
01:04being the best version of yourself and hoping they respond positively.
01:10This is where many people falter. They believe that if they just try hard enough,
01:14they can make their partner change. But love doesn't work like that. It thrives on freedom,
01:21not control. So let go of the need to control and embrace the unpredictability of love.